I agree with you that when someone's intention is pure, if the words are a little sharp or forceful, you will still be able to discern that what they said was well-intended. But, there are parents who deliberately abuse their children and for the convenience of their own "agenda" claim that they did it "out of love," when in reality their motive was to harm their child. When they deny the wrong intention, that is called "gaslighting," a term which has coined itself in recent years. The motive could be that they are jealous. There are narcissistic mothers, e.g., who hate their own daughters because they are envious of them, which creates feelings of inferiority and low self-esteem in the daughter. The child grows up with the wrong programming. These are the sanskars that the daughter will have ingrained in her unconscious mind, potentially for the rest of her adult life if not dealt with properly. She will carry the sanskar of rejection and everyone she meets will sense it by intuition. Could you address this please, Sr. Shivani? I would really appreciate it. Thank you so much.
Awww man... You've hit the nail on the head! Whoever you are... You are VERY wise to understand this! I agree with EVERYTHING you have said here! The daughter you are talking about is I! This is what I've felt about my mum my whole life only to get shot down and ridiculed by people for thinking so lowly about my own mom! I didn't have a great relationship with my mum growing up because of this. No one understands this... You're the first person on this planet to actually get this ..(although I've made my peace with my mom now) , having experienced it first hand, I can confirm this fact that yes some mums do get jealous of their daughters! But bloody hell... After listening to sister Shivani... Looks like this could be some bad karma from my past life which has come back to bite me in the form of my mom.. Lol!
Good morning meethe baba Om santi shivani dd is an angel of god motivating every soul with her tremendous spiritual knowledge god bless her long life love you Shivani dd heartly
Lots of things heart n relationships . Many types of relationships that need space but do not get space like in family relationships, and other relationships too but I feel in family relationships there one should have their own space and home so one can live life freely and not by force
OM NAMAH SHIVAY. OBSERVED AND ENJOYED GOD GIFTED VOICES AND VISUALS OF BK SHIVANI AND SURESH OBEROI AND THEIR DISCUSSIONS ON WHAT HURTS IN RELATIONSHIP IN VIDEO. FOUND THE INGREDIENTS CAUSES TO HURT RELATIONSHIPS. I AM AN INVINCIBLE SOUL. I AM A DOMINION OF PURE HOLISTIC AND ENLIGHTENED SOULS. I AM A PROTECTED SOUL BY OMNIPOTENT GOD SHIVAY.
Instead of moving away, we can check and change what's that hurting the person whom we love and that's what this knowledge is all about. In another way for our loved ones well being, instead of moving away, why can't we change ourselves by understanding and accepting them as they are. And moving away is an option we choose just because we are holding on to some hurt because of the expectations which were not fulfilled and because of the hurt we are holding inside, we are unable to continue in a relationship. So, it's actually not for the well being of the other person we want to move but because we are unable to deal with something in that relationship. We need to figure out and let go of those things which causing the hurt and pain. Hope this helps Lots of Love ❤
A good suggestion from my side will be... A little change in the initial sound of the episode...the flute sound is too high... I mean really too high. Can it be replaced with a calmer sound Om Shanti
om santhi mam..sry mam im always ask same question to u mam...mam mai roj manthra padthihumm ki the other person chodkar gaya oo jarur meri pass aakar relationkooo teck karega...suddenly doubt aathahaiki mam oo hamari passnahi hai,,thoo mai kaise vunsay pyaar se bhath karu mam touchmai nahi hai...thoo mai positive sochthi hum mai laykin vunkay pass kaise jayyeega?????but kaise mam back aayega or nahiii bhathuth dhar lagrahihai maii...plz put some video to confidently belive karna chahiye the other person kithanabhiii dhoor hooo jarur milayga hum positively belive kareee....thank uu mam...
Didi ye kis janm ka karj ada kar rahe he aap jo muje aapka Suresh sir ka sath abtak bana raha or aage bhi afkors or aage hote jayega. Ek tuchchh insan ko aapne jo dekha tak nahi ki me kon hu kahase hu or or or and or i lakky man ,with your saport .
Good evening 🌃❤❤ Shivani your picefullsoul your divainsoul your love full soul happy nass your avredisoul wohyou ilove ilovyou wohyou 💋🙏💕💕💕 seethatrt omsanti
Yes, we create the hurt. It's not because of the betrayal we feel hurt. It's because of the thoughts we create after someone betray us. Thoughts like :- Why me? What wrong I did? I trusted them Will never trust anyone again etc, etc.. They did what they want to, and it's their choice and we created the hurt using that act as a stimulus. We can also choose to be stable if we understand and apply the right knowledge. Hope this helps Lots of love❤
Love and Respect from Pakistan ❤️
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She deserve everyones respect🙂🙂
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I agree with you that when someone's intention is pure, if the words are a little sharp or forceful, you will still be able to discern that what they said was well-intended. But, there are parents who deliberately abuse their children and for the convenience of their own "agenda" claim that they did it "out of love," when in reality their motive was to harm their child. When they deny the wrong intention, that is called "gaslighting," a term which has coined itself in recent years. The motive could be that they are jealous. There are narcissistic mothers, e.g., who hate their own daughters because they are envious of them, which creates feelings of inferiority and low self-esteem in the daughter. The child grows up with the wrong programming. These are the sanskars that the daughter will have ingrained in her unconscious mind, potentially for the rest of her adult life if not dealt with properly. She will carry the sanskar of rejection and everyone she meets will sense it by intuition. Could you address this please, Sr. Shivani? I would really appreciate it. Thank you so much.
Awww man... You've hit the nail on the head! Whoever you are... You are VERY wise to understand this! I agree with EVERYTHING you have said here! The daughter you are talking about is I! This is what I've felt about my mum my whole life only to get shot down and ridiculed by people for thinking so lowly about my own mom! I didn't have a great relationship with my mum growing up because of this. No one understands this... You're the first person on this planet to actually get this ..(although I've made my peace with my mom now) , having experienced it first hand, I can confirm this fact that yes some mums do get jealous of their daughters! But bloody hell... After listening to sister Shivani... Looks like this could be some bad karma from my past life which has come back to bite me in the form of my mom.. Lol!
I love the Porcupine Story....So true about life's relationships.....Peace, Light and Love! :-)
Om shanti.. Ur teaching gives lots of positive energy. Enjoy listening to your
Definitely one if the more important conversation!
Thank you!
Thank you Sister Shivani for this beautiful guidance it helped me a lot to break that mindset
Ur my lifeline..blessed fr beeing here
Please make it...Don't break it...inclusion is joyful...exclusion is painful...🙏
Good morning meethe baba Om santi shivani dd is an angel of god motivating every soul with her tremendous spiritual knowledge god bless her long life love you Shivani dd heartly
Lots of things heart n relationships . Many types of relationships that need space but do not get space like in family relationships, and other relationships too but I feel in family relationships there one should have their own space and home so one can live life freely and not by force
OM NAMAH SHIVAY. OBSERVED AND ENJOYED GOD GIFTED VOICES AND VISUALS OF BK SHIVANI AND SURESH OBEROI AND THEIR DISCUSSIONS ON WHAT HURTS IN RELATIONSHIP IN VIDEO. FOUND THE INGREDIENTS CAUSES TO HURT RELATIONSHIPS. I AM AN INVINCIBLE SOUL. I AM A DOMINION OF PURE HOLISTIC AND ENLIGHTENED SOULS. I AM A PROTECTED SOUL BY OMNIPOTENT GOD SHIVAY.
On shaanti. Accept the differences. Hurt by CDM very unbearable. Better to leave otherwise make good relationship.
Omm Shanti
🙏🏻🌹🌹OM SHANTI 🌹🌹🙏🏻
The music at the end is very loud to ears.
Thank you.
om shanti...
Thanks
Om shanti 👣🙏.
om shanti didi
If my presence hurts someone I love,
Do I not move away from that person
For that person's well being?
Instead of moving away, we can check and change what's that hurting the person whom we love and that's what this knowledge is all about.
In another way for our loved ones well being, instead of moving away, why can't we change ourselves by understanding and accepting them as they are.
And moving away is an option we choose just because we are holding on to some hurt because of the expectations which were not fulfilled and because of the hurt we are holding inside, we are unable to continue in a relationship.
So, it's actually not for the well being of the other person we want to move but because we are unable to deal with something in that relationship. We need to figure out and let go of those things which causing the hurt and pain.
Hope this helps
Lots of Love ❤
OM SHANTI DIDI JI
OM SHANTY OM nameste Sureshbhai Dydy Shivaniis is Devine Soal
Thanks, I really needed advice about relationships.
Congrats ! You could mend your relationship for once and all .
Good morning om 🕉 Shanti ❤
You are a blessing to the world.
Then why the world is suffering so much my dear?
A good suggestion from my side will be... A little change in the initial sound of the episode...the flute sound is too high... I mean really too high. Can it be replaced with a calmer sound
Om Shanti
Om santi 👣🙏.
Thank you soo much sister ❤
OM SHANTI 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thankyou so much ma'am 🙏❤️
Thank you so much
Thank you
Om shanthi🙏 eagerly waiting to meet you in iNDiA
Can you pl provide " beyond love" series in Hindi ??
How exactly can one change the mindset of attachment to the “image” of what we expect from others? Especially those who are close to us?
Love from Rajasthan 😍
Om Shanti😍
Character In the video It's great, I like it a lot $$
So sweet sister Shivani. I like your episodes.I want you tell me how I improve memory.
By doing meditation and following Celibacy, the memory will not just improve but you can see it's quick and accurate in taking decisions.
I send you love and peace. Thank you. God bless. I learn from you.😍😍😍😇😇😇🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
She has no dearth of that
Very nice
I am not able to move away.
What to do?
It is very difficult mam We can't help our feelings And the other person doesn't care How it hurts only We can feel and it never heals
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Lovely video
Lovely di
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I have so many questions, how can I ask sister?
Gaur gopal das has also told this story
i am muslim and i love her
Spirituality is universal and not connected to religion. 😊
Me too a mulim from Pakistan and she is my guru
Mon. Ka com. Hai. Sanchlit. Karna. A. Vi. Nahi. Janta. Hai
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om santhi mam..sry mam im always ask same question to u mam...mam mai roj manthra padthihumm ki the other person chodkar gaya oo jarur meri pass aakar relationkooo teck karega...suddenly doubt aathahaiki mam oo hamari passnahi hai,,thoo mai kaise vunsay pyaar se bhath karu mam touchmai nahi hai...thoo mai positive sochthi hum mai laykin vunkay pass kaise jayyeega?????but kaise mam back aayega or nahiii bhathuth dhar lagrahihai maii...plz put some video to confidently belive karna chahiye the other person kithanabhiii dhoor hooo jarur milayga hum positively belive kareee....thank uu mam...
Didi ye kis janm ka karj ada kar rahe he aap jo muje aapka Suresh sir ka sath abtak bana raha or aage bhi afkors or aage hote jayega. Ek tuchchh insan ko aapne jo dekha tak nahi ki me kon hu kahase hu or or or and or i lakky man ,with your saport .
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I want to talk with you sister. I am from asansol.
Good evening 🌃❤❤ Shivani your picefullsoul your divainsoul your love full soul happy nass your avredisoul wohyou ilove ilovyou wohyou 💋🙏💕💕💕 seethatrt omsanti
Sister says we create the hurt
Why she not talking more about betayal is the betrayed person creating her hurt
Latha
Yes, we create the hurt. It's not because of the betrayal we feel hurt. It's because of the thoughts we create after someone betray us.
Thoughts like :-
Why me?
What wrong I did?
I trusted them
Will never trust anyone again etc, etc..
They did what they want to, and it's their choice and we created the hurt using that act as a stimulus. We can also choose to be stable if we understand and apply the right knowledge.
Hope this helps
Lots of love❤
🙏🏻🌹🌹OM SHANTI 🌹🌹🙏🏻
Om shanti didi
Om Shanti 🌿🌹🙏🌹🌿
Om shanti
🙏🏻🌹🌹OM SHANTI 🌹🌹🙏🏻
Om shanti didi
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