6:29 "Then you start cutting off everything that is not a point of connection with somebody else, because you believe that the points of connection are actually creation. And they're not. And so everything that doesn't seem to match in their world, or they can't perceive, or they can't connect with you on, you decide you can't be. And you diminish you in order to make that work. It's one of the reasons why sometimes when you are away from somebody that you are in a relationship with, you're like: OMG I'm free, I can be everything I really am! Why do I get so small when I am in their presence? Oh my God what happened?...Because you are trying to cut off everything that was not a point of connection with them." I had to listen to this a few times to catch this. From this I can see that this is what destroys relationships. I can see two people in a relationship, they both start out doing the same activity together (point of connection), then one person stops, then the other person stops, but the second person really likes that activity, its very connected to them but they have stopped because their partner has stopped. This person then feels really small, they've cut apart of themselves off to 'please' or stay connected to the other, all the while loosing a bit of their self, their identity, their momentum in life. This is how we (unconsciously) mirror the other in order to stay connected to them and end up 'loosing' ourselves.
Fantastic material here. I read a book with parallel themes that shifted my whole perspective. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
I've been saying the clearing statement: "Tops pops pod poc, stinky socks, boy's shorts, girl's thong panties and beyonds." I am not getting results. How many times do I have to say it?
Thank you for this. I have a question... Do we really need to make a list of what we "want" from our (future) partner? Or is it enough to make a question, like: Who is the one who is "perfect match" for me? Who is the one who is nurturing and real gift for me, and me for him??? or, I really need to make a list of what I want in a partner.
I had a private session one of access CF and his suggestion to me is to make a list of all what what you want AND what you DONOT want. Dont solidify that list ,, i.e when you make it,, it is ok to scratch it next day and start a new /modified list.
What have you created as points of connection that eliminate all points of creation from which you could creat a truly great relationship? Everything that is will you destroy and uncreate it at all times godzillion? Right
👍I get it. Can someone please tell me what I keep hearing them say (he says it in other videos too) @4:12 “right, wrong, good, bad blah blah blah” what are the words & why? Maybe if I knew the words I could understand why and how it fits into the discussion. Thanks. 💞
@@LovingAtlanta it is clearing statement. There is whole video on this For detail meaning. In short it clears all energies that THE QUESTION asked BRINGS UP.
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6:29 "Then you start cutting off everything that is not a point of connection with somebody else, because you believe that the points of connection are actually creation. And they're not. And so everything that doesn't seem to match in their world, or they can't perceive, or they can't connect with you on, you decide you can't be. And you diminish you in order to make that work. It's one of the reasons why sometimes when you are away from somebody that you are in a relationship with, you're like: OMG I'm free, I can be everything I really am! Why do I get so small when I am in their presence? Oh my God what happened?...Because you are trying to cut off everything that was not a point of connection with them."
I had to listen to this a few times to catch this. From this I can see that this is what destroys relationships.
I can see two people in a relationship, they both start out doing the same activity together (point of connection), then one person stops, then the other person stops, but the second person really likes that activity, its very connected to them but they have stopped because their partner has stopped. This person then feels really small, they've cut apart of themselves off to 'please' or stay connected to the other, all the while loosing a bit of their self, their identity, their momentum in life. This is how we (unconsciously) mirror the other in order to stay connected to them and end up 'loosing' ourselves.
This is the most helpful video I've listened to lately on relationships.
I listened to this again! Wow! A whole new level! Of release, being and receiving! FUN!
First time watching these 2 in an interview! 😂 love the energy and how they sync. Thanks for this reminder ❤
So true its eazy to understand this when you've been through it
Booooom booom… this clearing question is 🎉🎉🎉
Dain. That was the epitome of multi tasking. Talking, clearing, listening to Gary, tracking the energy all while on the phone texting!
Woah! Lol!
The benefits of having ADHD
Wow! Thank you megatons!!!
Thank you so much
Sounded greek to me, so THAAAANKSSSS! Seems I've got something to clear in here, hahahahahhaa! Love you both!
what is it on Dain's finger? that is sooooooo beautiful!!
Thanks a lot for the videos
This is hilarious watching it again today. So much fun
Awesome! Thank you!
hahahah you both just made my evening! thank you and love you both! your crazyasses that are loaded with life!
Two together making creation so obvious, and with non of those connections points that we search in relations
❤❤thank you
What are the hand gestures that Gary does while making the statement !? Thanks in advance
Fantastic material here. I read a book with parallel themes that shifted my whole perspective. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
I've been saying the clearing statement: "Tops pops pod poc, stinky socks, boy's shorts, girl's thong panties and beyonds." I am not getting results. How many times do I have to say it?
I feel you brother
Thank you.
What else is possible 🎶
mind-blowing! thank you so much! 😃 WEIP?
Can you translate your books for arbian please
Thank you for this.
I have a question... Do we really need to make a list of what we "want" from our (future) partner? Or is it enough to make a question, like: Who is the one who is "perfect match" for me? Who is the one who is nurturing and real gift for me, and me for him??? or, I really need to make a list of what I want in a partner.
What energy can me and my body be to have my most supportive partner for my body my feelings my business and my life
@@souhilasheaven this is amazing, thank you so much
I had a private session one of access CF and his suggestion to me is to make a list of all what what you want AND what you DONOT want.
Dont solidify that list ,, i.e when you make it,, it is ok to scratch it next day and start a new /modified list.
First time I understood after seeing it 5 different times in 4 years 😁
Hola por favor pueden poner para traductor 🙏 😄 en español? Que más es posible 😃 ✨
Nesse não consegui a tradução, é uma pena pq gosto de assistir todos os vídeos, mas com a legenda em português.
Onde posso ver este vídeo em português?
Vaovv thank youuu
What have you created as points of connection that eliminate all points of creation from which you could creat a truly great relationship? Everything that is will you destroy and uncreate it at all times godzillion? Right
👍I get it. Can someone please tell me what I keep hearing them say (he says it in other videos too) @4:12 “right, wrong, good, bad blah blah blah” what are the words & why? Maybe if I knew the words I could understand why and how it fits into the discussion. Thanks. 💞
Deepshikha Balwani - 👍Okay thank you.
Right wrong good bad poc pod all nine shorts boys and beyonds.
@@muskanjain4624 - 👍Thank you. 💝
@@muskanjain4624 - May you explain what it means?
@@LovingAtlanta it is clearing statement. There is whole video on this For detail meaning. In short it clears all energies that THE QUESTION asked BRINGS UP.
Não tem legenda em português.
5:26 🥺💛
6:27
Deveria vir com tradução em Português.Uma pena porque não entendo Inglês!! Cumprimentos de Angola
Woow interesting
awesome
Legend in portuguese please!!!!😥
Phuuuckkk!!!🙄true....
Queria a tradução
Cathy going on 4mo
هل يوجد عرب هنا فهموني ملخص الفيديو بليز 😭
تبغين اترجم لك
@@dooyAlsalim حبيبتي يا ريت 😍😍
وانا كمان 🙏🙏🙏🥺🥺
Legenda em.português pfvr
🌲♥️🌲🌲
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Spanish, please
And the founders will earn a lot of money!
Why do you believe all these nonsense ladies?
Absolutely yes
:))))
Get this or these entities out of my life
2 puppets making good money on people' naivety. Are they even aware what they are really talking about?
Joanna qwerty lot of money
Well.. you have to be really conscious to be able to really receive this... its okay..
Ridiculous 😅
it's not funny guys