Here's what I hear, in the first 90 seconds or so. "I ignored every warning sign and red flags and then when I caught him cheating and he admitted it, I ignored that and still stayed around."
@@chelybeann how is it insecurity vs she just unsmart? Insecurity to mean mean that you have someone that isnot making you feel safe ,im 0:49 in and she know that he aint shhh
I hate when there’s a women that tells another woman she’s insecure as if she doesn’t have reasons to feel that way due to HIS actions ?.. if my man was childish asf to walk away from me let alone go out with friends when we argue that’s ganna create issues
I feel you 100% I hate when people say INSECURE when it's proof about the way they feel! The woman in the audience don't know what she's talking about.
That was the most pickme crowd. Yeah, she was extremely insecure and the relationship was mad toxic but her intuition was right. They gonna get back together tho.
@@kiera6288 Good question. Notice how all the commenters are sitting together. That's not a coincidence. Also, why would I sound that unconfident if I actually wanted to say what I said? Obviously, the part where I look terrified was edited out. You don't have to believe me, though. I understand.
She gotta be 100% with herself. Checking the phone is already an invasion of privacy but to do it as much as she does is a problem. She needs to be OK with herself and understand that 13 months is not enough time to know a person fully. She should take a step back and reevaluate the situation before keeping it going.
But, is it being insecure when you are correct about what you are feeling??? Dude is for the 'skreetz'!! Should she just be an idiot and allow him to keep cheating on her if she's looking for a sincere relationship?? But then he's all up in her phone... double standard!! :(
@@fdozi5801 there is no double standard in my post 😊 I said checking phones as and ADULT is ridiculous……. We are not kids who are learning the basics of right and wrong, paying NO bills and learning privacy. In relationships or any kind there is a certain amount of trust, if you as an individual feel the need to go through phone that means it’s already an in’s trustworthy relationship and you need to move on instead of being toxic because this will now be a 🌳 you will have a hard time climbing ESPECIALLY if there is nothing to see….. Just talk with partner or move on…… it is insecurities thinking finding the other woman will make things better 🤦🏾♀️
@@cynthynwill but what do you have if you have no trust to where you are going in someone’s phone that isn’t yours or your kids ?? To check a kids cellphone is for safety other than that we don’t have much privacy except to use the bathroom and be on our phones SOOOOOOOO….. talk it out, ask straight up, don’t ignore red flags and leave when the trust is gone!
Sis, this is wayyyyyy too much drama and unhappiness for it to be this early on. I get that it is hard out here and we want love but this ain't it. Checking phones daily, cheating, disappearances, arguments enough to miss flights, and more? That sounds exhausting. She could probably use some good counseling to talk about her past since it's keeping her in this cycle. Women, especially black women, myself included, need to let these toxic relationships go. It's better being single than to do this. Much love, Tiffany ❤
It’s always sad when women come on TV because that’s the only way they can leave a toxic relationship. It’s embarrassing and I wish this woman self love and self worth.
She was insecure bc he was cheating lmao. Why would the audience gang up on her like that when it was obvious that he was a liar when he first started talking? That was mad weird. I feel bad for her in this situation, even though she probably should’ve just left him 13 months ago.
I've heard babies called 13 months old but not relationships lol I guess that's kind of cute that she was keeping track. You can tell she's really been trying to hold on but she would be so much better with her peace of mind. ❤
Girl, please kick that man to the curb, he is not worth the grief worry and tears ESPECIALLY since absolutely nothing has changed since the beginning. She needs to focus on herself because he isn't worth it!
Though checking the phone daily is excessive, she has a right to feel the way she does. Dating apps? Leaving the bar with a girl? Naked pictures? Huh? & he didn’t even apologize or acknowledge it. Chyyy, yeah go & don’t look back. I too would’ve snapped on the audience, why y’all coming at just me when I just told y’all all the things he do but y’all worried about me looking insecure & checking his phone. Yeah, you’re not crazy, girl.
So, I was the girl in the hoodie. The audience is told what to say. I was terrified when I was talking. The actual line I was given was worse than this.
I am not checking anything. I did back in the day 😂 I was a full on private eye,doing steakouts etc just mess and madness. When you know better you do better.
I will never be with a man I have to track or search his phone,,,,, that’s too much work,,, he’s got one time to disrespect me, I don’t do”I’m sorries”…or second chances,,,, it’s a waste a waste of time, when he reveals his true self, and I don’t like it, I’m up
Since the beginning I knew she was trying to protect him until she started to look crazy. I sense his true colors manipulative and controlling hope she left him for good.
girl you are so pretty but how was ur experience like did it seem real? was the comments staged? did the show tell the audience when to clap and when not too? I'm not coming for the show but i heard lots about shows like these being a little staged for entertainment
If you feel you have to check your partners phone at all, but especially everyday why are you even in the relationship? I have no desire to check my partners phone. They both sound too imature to be together.
Some women crack me up, doing all that research to see if your man is cheating, see he's doing it still and stay with him, stop doing all that searching you will drive yourself crazy an that man will get worst or leave you, if he shows you he is cheating just freaking leave, don't keep complaining if you not going anywhere
This entire relationship is terrible - they are both incredibly toxic and unhealthy. If he checks your phone daily and flirted with a woman and left the bar with her - come on! She needs to work on her self esteem and get therapy. This is not it.
Why I’m earth is she staying with a man she cannot trust? Ladies, relationships are supposed to be love reciprocated. The minute he broke the trust it should have been over IF they were already a committed couple. He’s gaslighting making himself the victim saying he’s feeling low and guilty. All of this seems toxic.
Yeah don’t been there done that and it is way too soon. But yeah every warning sign and still but u gotta let that go. I’m telling u, u will b better off. And same with him he can just leave her as well but they gotta let that go
I hate when people say INSECURE when it's proof why the significant other is feeling the way they feel!! The woman in the audience don't know what she's talking about, girl sit your a** back down!!
You see how the crowd wasn't simpin for the female? Noticed how quick Karamo stopped it and simped for her? That's what he do. He panders to women. No accountability. Smh
DONT IGNORE WARNING SIGNS, but if you do??? When you finally wake up LEAVE HIS LYING CHEATING ass! Believe what the actions of a person tell you, actions don’t lie!!!
some woman ignore red flags then it's I had feeling so o can't leave now then he said things would get better then I cam change please stop condoning peoples behavior
She has low self esteem. Its obvious this is a mix match because he doesn't respect her. This show could be so much better, but its not focused. What exactly is the focus? Messy want to compete with Maury and Steve Willow show with no budget or a cheap knock off of a want to be Dr Phil. Lots of potential, but the show is poorly produced. It needs a more defined focus and identity so that it can be differentiated and marketed. There is definitely potential. But they hero attract investors that can add the finances and attract the talent that can potentially help move this show into the mainstream. We have enough trash TV.
Here's what I hear, in the first 90 seconds or so. "I ignored every warning sign and red flags and then when I caught him cheating and he admitted it, I ignored that and still stayed around."
Exactly. The insecurities.
@@chelybeann how is it insecurity vs she just unsmart? Insecurity to mean mean that you have someone that isnot making you feel safe ,im 0:49 in and she know that he aint shhh
If you have to snoop thru a man’s phone daily.. y’all
Don’t need to be together..
It's a prison for both parties.
Wheww common sense ain't common 🥹
Amen sistahhh
FACTS 💯!!!
Girl if you need a psychic, move on 1 year in
I hate when there’s a women that tells another woman she’s insecure as if she doesn’t have reasons to feel that way due to HIS actions ?.. if my man was childish asf to walk away from me let alone go out with friends when we argue that’s ganna create issues
Yeah so the insecurity makes you stay in a relationship where you’re not valued or taken seriously.
I feel you 100% I hate when people say INSECURE when it's proof about the way they feel! The woman in the audience don't know what she's talking about.
That was the most pickme crowd. Yeah, she was extremely insecure and the relationship was mad toxic but her intuition was right. They gonna get back together tho.
Production tells us what to say (I'm the girl in the hoodie).
@@amybess so, all this is fake?
@@amybess how do we know you're telling the truth?
@@cajundiamond9454 I wouldn't say faked. I would say hyped.
@@kiera6288 Good question.
Notice how all the commenters are sitting together. That's not a coincidence.
Also, why would I sound that unconfident if I actually wanted to say what I said?
Obviously, the part where I look terrified was edited out.
You don't have to believe me, though. I understand.
Her reaction was dry af 😂😂 "Oh woww"
I think she already knew but was hoping she was wrong
🤣😅 Right
She gotta be 100% with herself. Checking the phone is already an invasion of privacy but to do it as much as she does is a problem. She needs to be OK with herself and understand that 13 months is not enough time to know a person fully. She should take a step back and reevaluate the situation before keeping it going.
I saw insecurities too as to why the audience was on that vibe 🤷🏾♀️ Checking phones is ridiculous to me as adults
I actually thought she was right IRL (I said the insecurity thing).
But, is it being insecure when you are correct about what you are feeling??? Dude is for the 'skreetz'!! Should she just be an idiot and allow him to keep cheating on her if she's looking for a sincere relationship?? But then he's all up in her phone... double standard!! :(
@@fdozi5801 there is no double standard in my post 😊 I said checking phones as and ADULT is ridiculous……. We are not kids who are learning the basics of right and wrong, paying NO bills and learning privacy. In relationships or any kind there is a certain amount of trust, if you as an individual feel the need to go through phone that means it’s already an in’s trustworthy relationship and you need to move on instead of being toxic because this will now be a 🌳 you will have a hard time climbing ESPECIALLY if there is nothing to see….. Just talk with partner or move on…… it is insecurities thinking finding the other woman will make things better 🤦🏾♀️
I believe if you check, you check once. And if you’re right you leave. Don’t stay and complain and keep spying when you know what the deal is.
@@cynthynwill but what do you have if you have no trust to where you are going in someone’s phone that isn’t yours or your kids ?? To check a kids cellphone is for safety other than that we don’t have much privacy except to use the bathroom and be on our phones SOOOOOOOO….. talk it out, ask straight up, don’t ignore red flags and leave when the trust is gone!
This man is leading a double,maybe triple life. She needs to let him go and work on self love ♥.
that what happens when youre desperate for love.
Sis, this is wayyyyyy too much drama and unhappiness for it to be this early on. I get that it is hard out here and we want love but this ain't it. Checking phones daily, cheating, disappearances, arguments enough to miss flights, and more? That sounds exhausting. She could probably use some good counseling to talk about her past since it's keeping her in this cycle. Women, especially black women, myself included, need to let these toxic relationships go. It's better being single than to do this. Much love, Tiffany ❤
Very well stated. Be encouraged, stay focused, safe and always blessed. Enjoy your holiday season 🙏🏾.
Right 😂
It’s always sad when women come on TV because that’s the only way they can leave a toxic relationship. It’s embarrassing and I wish this woman self love and self worth.
Right 😂
She was insecure bc he was cheating lmao. Why would the audience gang up on her like that when it was obvious that he was a liar when he first started talking? That was mad weird. I feel bad for her in this situation, even though she probably should’ve just left him 13 months ago.
We were told what to say. I'm the girl in the hoodie.
@@amybess wow. I read somewhere else that they plant the comments in the audience. Why not allow people to just organically share their thoughts?
@@NubianP6 (shrug). Btw, does it make sense now why I seemed like I was struggling to get the words out? I didn't want to say it.
@@amybess then why did u do it?
He even comes to her defense & says “she’s not crazy” that literally tells you everything you need to know about their situation
I've heard babies called 13 months old but not relationships lol I guess that's kind of cute that she was keeping track. You can tell she's really been trying to hold on but she would be so much better with her peace of mind. ❤
Girl, please kick that man to the curb, he is not worth the grief worry and tears ESPECIALLY since absolutely nothing has changed since the beginning. She needs to focus on herself because he isn't worth it!
Though checking the phone daily is excessive, she has a right to feel the way she does. Dating apps? Leaving the bar with a girl? Naked pictures? Huh? & he didn’t even apologize or acknowledge it. Chyyy, yeah go & don’t look back. I too would’ve snapped on the audience, why y’all coming at just me when I just told y’all all the things he do but y’all worried about me looking insecure & checking his phone. Yeah, you’re not crazy, girl.
So, I was the girl in the hoodie. The audience is told what to say. I was terrified when I was talking. The actual line I was given was worse than this.
Love tht Karamo just tells it like it is!
Girl u deserve better n a piece of mind. Love yourself n move on.
I thing about Karamo is he’s gonna tell you to leave PERIOD!😂
Because it’s funny, the main message behind unlocking the phone is if it’s in there, just leave 😂
He doesn't be with one women sis leave him alone
You don't have to be psychic to know she won't be moving her feet....
GIRL you know that man is a cheater. Either let him cheat and you do you or WALK AWAY but she's not going to leave
Kamaro you gotta protect your host with the guest frennnn . We need you to stay 🤞🏾, your my favorite person ❤
I am not checking anything. I did back in the day 😂 I was a full on private eye,doing steakouts etc just mess and madness. When you know better you do better.
Ohhh No. He's Controlling. 👀😅🏃🏽♀️
the guy needs peace,my guy grow up and find peace...the guy is not grown and the woman is too insecure...
I will never be with a man I have to track or search his phone,,,,, that’s too much work,,, he’s got one time to disrespect me, I don’t do”I’m sorries”…or second chances,,,, it’s a waste a waste of time, when he reveals his true self, and I don’t like it, I’m up
U're holding on to heartache sis. RUN!
She needs her money back from the Psychic because who doesn’t use apps for one thing or another.
The gaslighting is insane!
CHECK BOTH PHONES !! PERIOD
I'm sure she was doing her thing too
Since the beginning I knew she was trying to protect him until she started to look crazy. I sense his true colors manipulative and controlling hope she left him for good.
She sees all of the signs and still with him. She’s the silly one . Too many woman hang on to these no good man
See how the audience ganged up on HER!! It's cuz his calm cool demeanor... sign of a true NARC. He was even cool thru Karamo uncovering the apps.
We were told to. This is why I got scared when I went up to the mic. I knew she was right.
I was thinking the same thing my ex was everyone’s favorite but the worst narcissistic
Karamo never calls out women for their toxic behavior! Checking someone phone everyday ain't ok
After 2 months, that should have been done and over with, why do people stay in relationships like this.
I'm with her she is not insecure I respect her she's a good women
Physics don't lie I m with her I don't understand why men lie to a women they love and chatting up other bitches 😢😢😢😢😢
6:30 that was me.
Oy.
girl you are so pretty but how was ur experience like did it seem real? was the comments staged? did the show tell the audience when to clap and when not too? I'm not coming for the show but i heard lots about shows like these being a little staged for entertainment
She stressing that man out!
Yes this was a good one but the audience wasn't right. I bet they would had say that after his phone was unlocked 😂, and yes move on
I know that. Why do you think I sounded scared to talk? (I'm the girl in the black hoodie). We're told how to react.
@@amybess o ok I understand I can't believe you have to react for the show
@@bernicemillhouse9693 I think it's easy to tell that I didn't want to say what I said.
Respectfully... you can leave the audience commentary out the video! 😂😅😅
If you feel you have to check your partners phone at all, but especially everyday why are you even in the relationship? I have no desire to check my partners phone. They both sound too imature to be together.
He's about to bust out of that shirt 😂😂😂
She is to damn dramatic..i wouldnt want to deal with that everyday!!
He looked like he felt stuck with her…
Karamo... please never go to the audience ever again, wtf 🤣
If you have to check phones within 2 months you need to run
Girlllll leave that man where he stands
Miss' THIS is a BOY BYE' MOMENT! ❤🙏🏼👆🏾🙌🏼
Some women crack me up, doing all that research to see if your man is cheating, see he's doing it still and stay with him, stop doing all that searching you will drive yourself crazy an that man will get worst or leave you, if he shows you he is cheating just freaking leave, don't keep complaining if you not going anywhere
This entire relationship is terrible - they are both incredibly toxic and unhealthy. If he checks your phone daily and flirted with a woman and left the bar with her - come on! She needs to work on her self esteem and get therapy. This is not it.
He keeps her cuz it's comfortable but he thinks he can do better
I’m watching this wondering why the audience is ganging up on her when he is the problem? 🤷♀️🤦♀️
If u don’t trust ur significant partner, why staying? Lady move on & stop playing victim & hurting urself, since u knew what’s up.
Why I’m earth is she staying with a man she cannot trust? Ladies, relationships are supposed to be love reciprocated. The minute he broke the trust it should have been over IF they were already a committed couple. He’s gaslighting making himself the victim saying he’s feeling low and guilty. All of this seems toxic.
Audience spoke way too soon on this one
That audience fell for his calm demeanor hook, line and sinker. 🥴
Was that her in the photo??? or a pic she found of him and someone else..
She ain't leaving
How are u still running bro
Going to a psychic isn’t intuition
Yeah don’t been there done that and it is way too soon. But yeah every warning sign and still but u gotta let that go. I’m telling u, u will b better off. And same with him he can just leave her as well but they gotta let that go
He’s cheating and she is insecure, those two things can be correct Simultaneously
I hate when people say INSECURE when it's proof why the significant other is feeling the way they feel!! The woman in the audience don't know what she's talking about, girl sit your a** back down!!
Was It Bootz Tarot???? 👀
You see how the crowd wasn't simpin for the female? Noticed how quick Karamo stopped it and simped for her? That's what he do. He panders to women. No accountability. Smh
Tiffany looks like the late Traci Braxton.
Asking a psychic for advice or direction instead of GOD is why you're in the situation that you are in.
Y’all are being pick me people in these comments
I lowkey hate when Karamo asks his audience shit really puts me off from the whole thing
Damn if i even touched my exes phone i would of gotten punched in the face.
Sis you don't own your man and can't stop a man from cheating
WTH a psychic and celebrity’s have to do with it 😂😂
DONT IGNORE WARNING SIGNS, but if you do??? When you finally wake up LEAVE HIS LYING CHEATING ass! Believe what the actions of a person tell you, actions don’t lie!!!
That’s the issue if I tell u I’m hanging out with my friends y do u keep having to text me and thing I’m doing sum
He to fine for you. He knows it.
Love this show, but Karamo needs to ditch the white shoes.
You want to be cheated on miss he been lying from the start now what are you going to do
Arguments with a runner, he got spot to squat at 🛑✌️🚫👉👉👉🤡
some woman ignore red flags then it's I had feeling so o can't leave now then he said things would get better then I cam change please stop condoning peoples behavior
She give me witch vibes.
It’s the hair lol
Karamo tell everybody to break up lol
just her even coming on the show is doing too much. girl areyaw married? what is this?
Fact of the matter is you have been very hard on him and very very soft for that woman.
That is not fair at all. Be fair, otherwise stop it.
Right ✅
She has low self esteem. Its obvious this is a mix match because he doesn't respect her. This show could be so much better, but its not focused. What exactly is the focus? Messy want to compete with Maury and Steve Willow show with no budget or a cheap knock off of a want to be Dr Phil. Lots of potential, but the show is poorly produced. It needs a more defined focus and identity so that it can be differentiated and marketed. There is definitely potential. But they hero attract investors that can add the finances and attract the talent that can potentially help move this show into the mainstream. We have enough trash TV.
She’s nuts 🥜
He might be a covert narcissist
JESUS or a psychic!!!!! Pick &choose!!!! Team JESUS!!!!++
First 🥰
Psychic..lol…ok delusional as hell
I wonder what the psychic told Karamo when he tanked his career over pink sauce #CancelKaramo
Your such a lonely person. Get a life stop hating on Karamo!…
But his show is still on. I think you're fighting a losing battle.
@@marcuswainright952 You're right. Best thing we can do is spread cancer in the comments.
@@marcuswainright952 Just report these comments/commenters as spam and/or harassment.
@@winniewera2510 I am not the one defending celebrities, so I’m not the lonely one.