@@u-khano527 may Allah bless you.. Ji nahi kehna se zyda karna asaann hai.. jo apne parents ko chod sakhta hai woh Kal ko ussko be chod sakhta ha jis ke liye parents ko choda hoga..
@@zainabghazali5332 Ameen. Bahen me general context ki baat kar raha ta not specifically marriage ke baray may. However, generally asian parents ke dill itnay barhay hain bhi nahe ke love marriage ke bad larki ko accept kar lain dill se, wo tu bad duain he dete rahtay hain aur at last bad duaon se ruin ker ke he chodtay hain
میں نے تو اپنے ماں باپ کی بات بالکل نہیں مانی بلکہ اُن کے اُلٹ کام کیا، مجھے تونافرمانی کرکے بہت مزہ آیا تھا۔ میں نے تو اُونچی اُونچی چھلانگیں لگائیں اور اس کے بعد جو کچھ ہوا وہ مت پوچھیں! بس رھنے ہی دیں۔۔۔۔!
عموماً ایسی باتیں وہ کرتے ہیں جو اپنے والدین کے انتہائی نافرمان رہ چُکے ہوں اور پھر نقصان اُٹھا کردوسروں کو نصحیتیں کرنے والے عُہدے پہ فائز ہوجاتے ہیں!
Alhamdolillah we are blessed that in this era of darkness, you and your team is spreading light of Islam... ,,❤️ Our society really need you Sir.,...You are inspiration to the betrayed،،❤️. MAY Allah SWT lead us to right path.... ameen
Hm mantay ha is bat ko k parents apnay bacho k liyay acha hi sochtay ha Lekin aysay bi to ho sakta ha na k jis say ap pyar krtay ha wo ap ko shadi k baad bi utna hi Khush rkhay jesa k unho nay promise kiya tha.or baroosa ha mujay apnay Allah pa
Keep Your Personal Life Private. 1. Don't advertise your happy marriage on social media 2. Don't advertise your kids achievements on Social media 3. Don't advertise your expensive buys on social media Reality is... 1. Not everyone is going to be happy for you 2. Most of the "Nice" comments you get are just fake 3. You will only attract the evil eye on you and your family 4. You are attracting jealous people in your life 5. You don't know who is saving your pictures and checking your updates 6. You really need to stop this because it may ruin your life, family, marriage and career. Social Media is the devils eyes, ears and mouth, don't fall in to the devils trap. Let your private life remain private.
Wow..it's so true. But everyone make sure that even if u are not a content creator it's ur responsibility to not watch haram content in social media. Ameen
Unn Cheezon See door rahe behtar jiska Ek zarra bhi apko lagta hai Haram ke tarafff le ja rha ho.. Pta ni chalta insan kab slip ho jaye it's better ke sabr kre and ALLAH pe Par Muqammal yaqeen rakhein. Or ye jaan le ke agar Ap ALLAH k liye kuch kr rhe h sirf to ALLAH sabse zyada qadar karne wale hai ALLAHuakbar ♥🎀✨ JazakALLAHu khair kaseera fidduniya wa akhira Ali Sir. May ALLAH always be your guider and protecter AAMEEN. ✨🎀
Very well explained Sir 👏 👌 and you are absolutely right that it's all in our control not to fall in love bfr marriage if we follow Allah's rules like lowering the gaze,etc.
bhhht zabrdast aur dil dimaag mein baithny wali baat aur isd andaaz sy baat ki k samjh bhi aa jaey aur buri bhi na lagyy....Allah pak amal ki taufeeq dy aur humein deen ki dawat ki taufeeq atta faremaein ameen
10 Things to escape Hell Fire: 1. Tauba: Repentance from heart. 2. Istagfar: Repentance from tongue. 3. Doing good deeds (Salah, Fasting,Charity, etc) 4. Dua and Istagfar done by other believers for you. 5. Pain & sufferings in this world. 6. Azaab ul Qabar 7. Punishment and trials of the day of Judgment 8. Good deeds gifted by the loved ones ( Dua, reciting Quran, Hajj, Umra Sadaqa etc) 9. Intercession of our Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) on the day of Ju This action isn't allowed ine mercy of Allan. 10. BE FRIEND WITH ALLAH 😍
JazakAllahu khairan Kaseeran Ali Sir. May Allah SWT Grant you & your entire Family a very healthy & prosperous Of this world and hereafter.May Allah SWT Grant u more success in His Path and accept all ur efforts & good deeds.Aameen
اللهم صل على محمد وعلى آل محمد كما صليت على ابراهيم وعلى آل إبراهيم إنك حميد مجيد اللهم بارك على محمد وعلى آل محمد كما باركت على ابراهيم وعلى آل إبراهيم إنك حميد مجيد
Ali Bhai... I love u for the sake of ALLAH SWT... but i wanna mention here the other side also... Its an era of fitnah... Parents when focus on "log kya kahen gy k caste se bahar kr di shadi?" rather than k hmari aulaad ki umer guzr rhi or pta ni wo kese kese khud ko fitno se bcha rhe... Toh aulaad kia kre? Jb parents early marriage ni krtey toh aulaad k chances desperation me aa k ghalat side pr janey k brhtey jatey hen.. phir wo sochti hai k hmarey parents toh dekh ni rhe hmarey liye proposals toh hum khud e koi pasand kr len... Or is trah aksar practicing youth bhi even ghalat raston pr nikl prti hai q k hmari society me shadi ki certain age hai... 28-30 waley log khas tor pr vulnerable hen fitno k is lehax se coz they know k hmari age nikl rhi... unfortunately ye hmari society ka almiya hai or tsveer ka dusra rukh...
Exactly .. and for you who belong to Syed family it's very difficult bcz parents are demanding spouse for you from Syed family and this search years long search and in this way they ruin precious years of our life..may Allah grant hidayat to our parent's...I know this bcz I am suffering from this bcz I too belong from Syed family..
Assalamualaikum Sir, recently I have come across the same thoughts as u hav mentioned about this.. but I confused with myself that Am I too practical or far from emotions so thinking like this.. but now alhmmdolillah after listening to ur clarifications I am satisfied with my thoughts.. Shukriya Sir.
What if your parents are abusive and selfish? What if they don't care about who you marry?Just so long as you're married its all good because their 'Holy book' tells them.
Jb deen samj m a gia uss din sb samj m a jey ga.Allah pak deen ki samj dey aor uss p istaqmt dey.ameen
Don't go against your parents.. never
Don't ruin your life, just one fool decision can ruin your whole life.. May Allah protect and guide us ameen.
Bahen ye sirf kehna asan ha
@@u-khano527 may Allah bless you..
Ji nahi kehna se zyda karna asaann hai.. jo apne parents ko chod sakhta hai woh Kal ko ussko be chod sakhta ha jis ke liye parents ko choda hoga..
@@zainabghazali5332 Ameen.
Bahen me general context ki baat kar raha ta not specifically marriage ke baray may. However, generally asian parents ke dill itnay barhay hain bhi nahe ke love marriage ke bad larki ko accept kar lain dill se, wo tu bad duain he dete rahtay hain aur at last bad duaon se ruin ker ke he chodtay hain
میں نے تو اپنے ماں باپ کی بات بالکل نہیں مانی بلکہ اُن کے اُلٹ کام کیا، مجھے تونافرمانی کرکے بہت مزہ آیا تھا۔ میں نے تو اُونچی اُونچی چھلانگیں لگائیں اور اس کے بعد جو کچھ ہوا وہ مت پوچھیں! بس رھنے ہی دیں۔۔۔۔!
عموماً ایسی باتیں وہ کرتے ہیں جو اپنے والدین کے انتہائی نافرمان رہ چُکے ہوں اور پھر نقصان اُٹھا کردوسروں کو نصحیتیں کرنے والے عُہدے پہ فائز ہوجاتے ہیں!
Alhamdolillah we are blessed that in this era of darkness, you and your team is spreading light of Islam... ,,❤️ Our society really need you Sir.,...You are inspiration to the betrayed،،❤️. MAY Allah SWT lead us to right path.... ameen
واقعی امام ابن القیم کی کتاب دواۓ شافی بہت اچھی کتاب ہے
Subhan Allah, behtrin byan
دل اگر دل بنانے والے سے لگاوگے تو کبھی رسوا نہی ہونگے انشاءاللہ
اللہ کا شکر ہے اس نے مجھے غلط راستہ سے بچا لیا الحمد للہ
ان شاءاللہ ایسے لکھیں
Hm mantay ha is bat ko k parents apnay bacho k liyay acha hi sochtay ha Lekin aysay bi to ho sakta ha na k jis say ap pyar krtay ha wo ap ko shadi k baad bi utna hi Khush rkhay jesa k unho nay promise kiya tha.or baroosa ha mujay apnay Allah pa
Islie bnda Allah se dua kre k sab bhtri k sath ho
Keep Your Personal Life Private.
1. Don't advertise your happy marriage on social media
2. Don't advertise your kids achievements on Social media
3. Don't advertise your expensive buys on social media Reality is...
1. Not everyone is going to be happy for you
2. Most of the "Nice" comments you get are just fake
3. You will only attract the evil eye on you and your family
4. You are attracting jealous people in your life
5. You don't know who is saving your pictures and checking your updates
6. You really need to stop this because it may ruin your life, family, marriage and career.
Social Media is the devils eyes, ears and mouth, don't fall in to the devils trap. Let your private life remain private.
Indeed
You r right 🥺🥺🥺 I also lose lotz off happiness 🥺🥺🥺
JazakAllah
Wow..it's so true. But everyone make sure that even if u are not a content creator it's ur responsibility to not watch haram content in social media.
Ameen
Indeed
Kash k tamam Muslim Vlogers bura wqt ane sy pehly is bat ko samajh len...
Ya Allah bless me with haya and all my Muslim brothers and sisters.......🖤
My inspiration ❤️❤️❤️❤️... alhmdullilah blessed to have u as my guide ❤️
Apki voice aur samjhane ka tarika...bohot acha laga...mashallah
Subhan Allah
الله اكبر الله اكبر ولله الحمد 💙
SubhanAllah.
Subhan ALLAH.
Wonderful Explanation.
jazakallahukhair
Jazakallahu khair...fid duniyaa
Sir you are my favorite speaker
Ya! Allah bless us with pious spouses. Wallahi I am praying for this everyday
Missing such sessions of "things that matter".
Me too
Ali bhi kia explain kea ha MashaAllah JazakAllah 😍💕
Unn Cheezon See door rahe behtar jiska Ek zarra bhi apko lagta hai Haram ke tarafff le ja rha ho.. Pta ni chalta insan kab slip ho jaye it's better ke sabr kre and ALLAH pe Par Muqammal yaqeen rakhein.
Or ye jaan le ke agar Ap ALLAH k liye kuch kr rhe h sirf to ALLAH sabse zyada qadar karne wale hai ALLAHuakbar ♥🎀✨
JazakALLAHu khair kaseera fidduniya wa akhira Ali Sir.
May ALLAH always be your guider and protecter AAMEEN. ✨🎀
Masha Allah. Amazing May Allah guide us to moving in a right direction and blessed everyone of us.
Ameen jazak Allah Khair
سبحان الله
Beshak
Sir bhot khubsorat bat Kahi apne....khud ko asi chezo se door he rkhna chaye yeh hamare ikhtiyar main hain.
Mashallah jazakallah 💕
Subhan Allah such a beautiful Deen is ours 😍♥️
Ma sha allah🌸🌸🌸
Absolutely right sir 👍👍👍 jazakallah o khair sir❤❤❤❤❤😊
MashAllah islam... ❤❤❤
Alhamdulillah this one is need for me badly according to my situation
Alhamdulillah Ya Allah thank You for protecting me every time from any kind of evil people.
Very well explained Sir 👏 👌 and you are absolutely right that it's all in our control not to fall in love bfr marriage if we follow Allah's rules like lowering the gaze,etc.
Jazk Allah khairn
Ma sha Allah
bhhht zabrdast aur dil dimaag mein baithny wali baat aur isd andaaz sy baat ki k samjh bhi aa jaey aur buri bhi na lagyy....Allah pak amal ki taufeeq dy aur humein deen ki dawat ki taufeeq atta faremaein ameen
10 Things to escape Hell Fire:
1. Tauba: Repentance from heart.
2. Istagfar: Repentance from tongue. 3. Doing good deeds (Salah, Fasting,Charity, etc)
4. Dua and Istagfar done by other believers for you.
5. Pain & sufferings in this world.
6. Azaab ul Qabar
7. Punishment and trials of the day of Judgment
8. Good deeds gifted by the loved ones ( Dua, reciting Quran, Hajj, Umra Sadaqa etc)
9. Intercession of our Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) on the day of Ju This action isn't allowed ine mercy of Allan.
10. BE FRIEND WITH ALLAH 😍
Ali bhai ap jo batain krty hain 9O% youth k issues yahi hain jzk Allah
I m indian. Sir. Apki videos bahut achi lagti hei..... Kabhi india aao ❤
How are things in India? Are you safe? I heard they are planning a Muslim genocide in india?? Is it true?
@@sadikhan801 yes already has genocide of Muslims and now a single Muslim doesn't exist in India....😅
@@shahid8673 wow good to know all Muslims in India got married🤣🤣
@@shahid8673 in that case what are you doing on this video... Khair sanu ki😂😂
@Syed Muntazir hello Bhai jaan
Subhanallah ❤️ nyc explain 👍
Jazakallahu khairan ali bhaiya is naseehat k badle Allah aapko jannath mein jaga de🤲
Bahut samajhdaari ki baat kahi aapne 👌🤗
JAZAKALLAH Sir
Allah sabko hidayat de.aameen
jazak Allah
ماشاءاللہ شیخ، بارک اللہ فیکم
Absolutely right ❤️❤️❤️
Masha Allah sb ko hidayat de Allah and pray for me
True words👍👍
Masha allah subhan allah❤️❤️❤️bahot achaaa explain Kyaa aapny allah taufeeq dy amal karny ki
Jazakallah khair
Subhan Allah wonderful Explanation.
Masha Allah.....
Very true.... Think before you marry, who to marry
Grrrrrrrrrrr8 sir Ali,👍
Going through same situation 😭😭and just got the notification of this video
Alhamdulillah 💚💚💚Wonderful explanation.💯💯
I was seeking help 🥺for this topic and thus find this video very motivating and I will try my best to not get involve in this.. Jazakallah❤️
Brilliantly explained in simple words
JazakAllahu khairan Kaseeran Ali Sir.
May Allah SWT Grant you & your entire Family a very healthy & prosperous Of this world and hereafter.May Allah SWT Grant u more success in His Path and accept all ur efforts & good deeds.Aameen
AAMEEN ❤
MashAllah ❤️
MashAllah
Well explaining sir 👍❤️❤️ allah apke effort ka qabool farmay Ameen❤️
Masha Allah ... Plz pray for my nikkah ....
Masha Allah. Nice msg for those who r in fasle love
اللهم صل على محمد وعلى آل محمد كما صليت على ابراهيم وعلى آل إبراهيم إنك حميد مجيد اللهم بارك على محمد وعلى آل محمد كما باركت على ابراهيم وعلى آل إبراهيم إنك حميد مجيد
A big fan of you as a motivational speaker and guideline of us.
Sir what about teen show
And plz continue quran class surah baqarah and surah al e imraan
Bilkul saih kaha apne
Subhan Allah wonderful Explained
Mashallah
BarakALLAH feekum sir ❤️
JazakALLAH 💗
Sir is condition s gujar rhi hun plzz Allah s dua kr is insan ko mere Dil s nikl De ya us insan s Mera nikah ho gye
Allah says in Quran that marry those women whom u like, it didn't say whom ur parents like.
Ali Bhai... I love u for the sake of ALLAH SWT... but i wanna mention here the other side also... Its an era of fitnah... Parents when focus on "log kya kahen gy k caste se bahar kr di shadi?" rather than k hmari aulaad ki umer guzr rhi or pta ni wo kese kese khud ko fitno se bcha rhe... Toh aulaad kia kre? Jb parents early marriage ni krtey toh aulaad k chances desperation me aa k ghalat side pr janey k brhtey jatey hen.. phir wo sochti hai k hmarey parents toh dekh ni rhe hmarey liye proposals toh hum khud e koi pasand kr len... Or is trah aksar practicing youth bhi even ghalat raston pr nikl prti hai q k hmari society me shadi ki certain age hai... 28-30 waley log khas tor pr vulnerable hen fitno k is lehax se coz they know k hmari age nikl rhi... unfortunately ye hmari society ka almiya hai or tsveer ka dusra rukh...
Exactly .. and for you who belong to Syed family it's very difficult bcz parents are demanding spouse for you from Syed family and this search years long search and in this way they ruin precious years of our life..may Allah grant hidayat to our parent's...I know this bcz I am suffering from this bcz I too belong from Syed family..
@@ammarhassan1859 yup...
U are 100 percent right
Ali bahi should mention this
He is only showing one side
Assalamualaikum Sir, recently I have come across the same thoughts as u hav mentioned about this.. but I confused with myself that Am I too practical or far from emotions so thinking like this.. but now alhmmdolillah after listening to ur clarifications I am satisfied with my thoughts.. Shukriya Sir.
MashaAllah Ali Bahiiiii Great..
Good work bhaiji
Bsss my ab yh ek hi dua krte hu mji is se chutkara mili ore Allah pak k neek bandu m shamil hujayay
کس سے چُھٹکارا چاھیئے۔۔۔؟ مجھے بتائیں، میں استخارہ کرکے بتادوں گا۔۔۔
Mashaallah tabarakalah for these sessions, Love from Maqbuza kashmir M Ali sir ❤️
Subhan ALLAH
Wonderful Explanation Ali Sir
Right ali bhai
Assalam alaikum wrwb ! Always inspired from your videos
Such beautiful way to make yuong people understand...
Subhanallah
Bilkul💯🔥
Your lectures are very insightful, brother. Barakallahu feekum. Please keep on.
Ek Generation me Sahi Patner milta.... ALLAH🥺
There are people that talk exactly what is happening in this world just a pin point and exactly accurate video…
Love from Kashmir ♥️🖤💜
Ali bhai mera dil ki tamanna ha ke ma aapse milu
Agar aap MSG pad rhe ho to Allah se dua kryega ke aapse milna ho jaye
What if your parents are abusive and selfish? What if they don't care about who you marry?Just so long as you're married its all good because their 'Holy book' tells them.
Woohh strong rebellious energy detected🤣
@Adolf Hitler Well poor grammar is better than ignorant human being
@Adolf Hitler And you've got poor mindset. Dont have an answer?
@Adolf Hitler arguments are for wise people
What the hell are you talkingb about?! 🙄🙄. SINCE WHEN have parents ever thought as long as my child is married??
Subhanallah .
MashaAllah
How Merciful is our Lord! He even makes our distress a way to gain his forgiveness for those who truly believe.
Jajakallah
Excellent
Mashallah 💕
Damn trueee
He was Fazal Ibn Abbas Raziallah.
Assalam alaikum. Pls mere husband, bachhon ko namaaz ki paabandi ke liye zaroor dua kare pls pls pls,from India.