HOW TO ACT 'REALISTICALLY' (2nd video of 2 on this) Acting coach NYC

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  • Опубликовано: 3 дек 2013
  • Film '2' of the free acting lesson from New York acting-coach John
    Windsor-Cunningham, showing methods for an actor to be 'truthful' with difficult lines. John's videos advise on Shakespeare, how to learn lines quickly, and covers plays from Pinter to Oscar Wilde. All available on his website www.Windsor-Cunningham.com
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  • @Kinobambino
    @Kinobambino 5 лет назад +1268

    He makes me want to act even though acting isn't my career path

    • @NewYorkActingCoach
      @NewYorkActingCoach  5 лет назад +321

      Well said! Keep out of acting if you can, the whole field is full of unemployment and delays, - for some anyway - but glad you had some fun with this, and being imaginative is good for all careers! John (www.Windsor-Cunningham.com)

    • @annaibanez2499
      @annaibanez2499 5 лет назад +138

      You don't have to act as a career. You can act just because you love it. As a hobby, if you will.

    • @DeadestChannel
      @DeadestChannel 3 года назад +1

      Me too 😎

    • @gloomydaysunshine8656
      @gloomydaysunshine8656 2 года назад +5

      @@annaibanez2499 exactly my thoughts

    • @5eek3r0fknowl3dg3
      @5eek3r0fknowl3dg3 2 года назад +10

      Everybody is an actor to some extent and every job interview is definitely an audition!

  • @Filmgirlphilosopher
    @Filmgirlphilosopher 5 лет назад +375

    So acting is more like meditation/visualization of a scene and entering yourself into it in order to draw out real authentic emotion, rather than pretending .

    • @NewYorkActingCoach
      @NewYorkActingCoach  5 лет назад +158

      Yes, it is, as you say, like that, but also involves lots and lots of study of scripts in order to understand them really fully. So it involves the intellect as well as the instinct. John Windsor-Cunningham

    • @ibkristykat
      @ibkristykat 3 года назад +30

      Precisely. You have to imagine you ARE that character. You are actually experiencing the film's scenes as this character. And you respond and react as the character.

  • @justcallmpeter
    @justcallmpeter 7 лет назад +696

    he's got a cool voice

    • @DavidMatias79
      @DavidMatias79 4 года назад +2

      He's actually from Mississippi . . . it's called acting!

    • @ssnowypug
      @ssnowypug 3 года назад

      yess

    • @pedrosaulmx
      @pedrosaulmx 3 месяца назад

      Yes! Actually... Like a Devil is Disguise. I Love It.

  • @paulorego9334
    @paulorego9334 5 лет назад +321

    "Simply accept the situation" - very profound words, thank you

  • @janvanbaast8960
    @janvanbaast8960 6 лет назад +487

    This was weird I was genuintly scared while you were telling I was in the cab to the hospital

    • @NewYorkActingCoach
      @NewYorkActingCoach  6 лет назад +64

      Yup, that's the point. Up to you if you want to be really scared or not! JOhn Windsor-Cunningham

    • @SM-gm7ky
      @SM-gm7ky 4 года назад +7

      Same!!! My heart was racing and I had that feeling Why are you so nervous you think you might throw up

  • @itsgavinallen4655
    @itsgavinallen4655 6 лет назад +667

    I started crying then laughing cause I realized it wasn’t real then started crying again cause I realized that story is true for someone somewhere and it made me actually sad

    • @NewYorkActingCoach
      @NewYorkActingCoach  6 лет назад +106

      Great! Sounds like the exercise worked for you. You can make up your own, of course. Best wishes, John Windsor-Cunningham

    • @sheetal5664
      @sheetal5664 5 лет назад

      @Ephraim Winston me too

    • @pedrosaulmx
      @pedrosaulmx 3 месяца назад

      Did you. Did you really. I actually find that hard to read... it's so sad and yet very much funny. Need a Hanky?

    • @usefulwebs
      @usefulwebs Месяц назад

      When you actually feel sad the second time after realising it’s true for some other person. Isn’t it like sympathising for the character. But here you are that character.
      So basically your expressions are feeling sad for someone .
      Any ways to change on the imagination?so i can be the one feeling sad being the character ?

  • @KojiCO-ConvinceM
    @KojiCO-ConvinceM 8 лет назад +886

    Crying is one of the hardest things to do realistically when it comes to acting, holy shit I managed it with that instruction thank you from the bottom of my heart, International school of screen acting here I come 👍

    • @StallionFernando
      @StallionFernando 8 лет назад +7

      +Koji G I did it too, pretty cool

    • @Ryan1236
      @Ryan1236 6 лет назад +1

      Koji G o

    • @theshield5052
      @theshield5052 5 лет назад +6

      I think about The Shield when Lem dies and Vic is seeing his bloody body. Always gets me crying .

    • @Jinstarro
      @Jinstarro 5 лет назад +26

      laughing is harder.. for it to be realistic

    • @pranavdeshpande4538
      @pranavdeshpande4538 4 года назад +15

      @@Jinstarro not gonna lie laughing is hardest whenever I even laugh naturally people say it sounds fake

  • @SamanthaWarner
    @SamanthaWarner 8 лет назад +614

    You are a genius ! i appreciate your teachings!

  • @f0v3r.
    @f0v3r. 4 года назад +126

    Even though I'm 7 years late with a comment, the feeling was really weird, like I felt it like in every part of my body, and I could hear my heartbeat (or feel it). Anyway, I felt this only once in my life and it was when my grandmother called me and said that my grandfather died. Obviously, I started crying when she called, but it was the same weird feeling, like creeps through my entire body or something like that and coldness, it became really cold in the room.
    Anyway, great video, definitely will watch more since I want to get into acting because I feel like it's really fun and possibly good career.

    • @constella1891
      @constella1891 3 года назад

      I'm a month later, hello!

    • @f0v3r.
      @f0v3r. 3 года назад

      Um, hello? I guess

  • @diromiz
    @diromiz 4 года назад +136

    I'M ELEVEN INCHES TALL AND I'M CRYING

    • @zeb9096
      @zeb9096 4 года назад +3

      diromiz me toooo

    • @sexyrat8693
      @sexyrat8693 3 года назад +1

      Samee

    • @hayleyb467
      @hayleyb467 3 года назад +1

      Let's start a tiny revolution

    • @lowercase_ash
      @lowercase_ash 3 года назад +1

      @@hayleyb467 while sobbing

  • @jubilee2130
    @jubilee2130 6 лет назад +303

    i swear i actually started tearing up when he said "your family member died."

    • @NewYorkActingCoach
      @NewYorkActingCoach  6 лет назад +40

      Of course you did. Nearly everyone does. That is the point! But thanks for saying. John Windsor-Cunningham

    • @jubilee2130
      @jubilee2130 6 лет назад +5

      John Windsor-Cunningham omg you answered haha. i'm not really used to this so i'm kind of having a tiny fangirl moment. could i maybe ask you a question? i'm currently preparing for a video audition for a feature film (about this bipolar teenage girl that loses her mother because she kills herself) that i'm supposed to send it till dec 15. i got the script and i'm trying to read through it but i'm really afraid i'll mess it up and won't portray the emotions as the casting director expects. are there any tips you'd recommend me in order to not mess this up?

    • @NewYorkActingCoach
      @NewYorkActingCoach  6 лет назад +12

      Dont send messages on this please, use my email, as I'm getting over a thousand sometimes and miss them. I can't do private coaching til after December 17th a I'm in a play in New York, so cant help more than to say work night and day on the thing. Dont contact if you do want coaching til after December 17th please. and if not then just work harder than you ever have before, JOhn (email is on my website for the future, but not til after Dec.17th).)

    • @jubilee2130
      @jubilee2130 6 лет назад +6

      John Windsor-Cunningham okay. thank you very much for everything. good luck with the play :)

    • @asuka813
      @asuka813 5 лет назад +4

      Gosh I felt the tears on the way when the lady on the phone paused and said it was more serious than the arm

  • @1thisiscole1
    @1thisiscole1 5 лет назад +118

    Being that my older brother died in a car accident when I was 16 - all of this felt very eerie and close to me. Especially since I did in fact go to the hospital with dreadful anticipation and heard the news in a similar way from a male doctor. So this might have been a bit too good of a way to incite a legitimate reaction from me. I miss him. I can't believe it's already been 3 years.

    • @NewYorkActingCoach
      @NewYorkActingCoach  5 лет назад +68

      Good Heavens, I'm terribly sorry. Reality mixed with imagination can bring up terrible memories, and I'm afraid I don't think about that n advance of posing the video. But, if I may, I wish you well, and thank you for the way you recall your brother so vividly for us all in a sense. But enough. I'm stepping out of order here, I fear. Sincere best wishes, John (www.Windsor-Cunningham.com)

  • @elliart7432
    @elliart7432 7 лет назад +213

    I feel like I'm going to have a lot of trouble with acting because the only way I can be legitimately emotional about something that isn't real is if I'm surprised about it, or it wasn't what I was expecting. I failed The dead sibling exercise so hard because I predicted it ten seconds in.

    • @NewYorkActingCoach
      @NewYorkActingCoach  7 лет назад +74

      Just saw your response, and yes, of course, as you say - 'surprise' is a necessary part of all this, and the fact that you 'predicted' the end of the story stopped it working, but without coaching you I can only point you to the gentler video I have on the site called, I think, 'the most important acting lesson in the world' which may help you be calm and to let yourself be surprised, if I may say so.

    • @elliart7432
      @elliart7432 7 лет назад +12

      Oh, I actually saw that on my feed. I'll go check it out, thank you so much!

    • @haileym444
      @haileym444 5 лет назад +12

      I expected it too, but still was able to internalize it enough to feel it. I guess that’s comparable to when people have read the script before they act. The element of surprise is only there for so long after reading the script or after the first take, right?

    • @harlinaindra6679
      @harlinaindra6679 5 лет назад +1

      I did predicted it too because this really happened to me...with my relative sudden death..and in this exercise I reacted in exactly the same way I reacted on that fateful day...

    • @linlaymedia8733
      @linlaymedia8733 5 лет назад +9

      Elliart 7 I think maybe it’s less about surprise and more about being in the moment. In real life if you are on the way to the hospital because someone has been in an accident your mind will jump ahead too and try to predict the outcome. You don’t really know until you are told what has happened. Hope that makes sense.

  • @robinreinhart8992
    @robinreinhart8992 3 года назад +3

    He's the only man in the internet where I knew that he does these 'films' because he really wants help actors about acting realistically

    • @NewYorkActingCoach
      @NewYorkActingCoach  3 года назад +1

      Well I think many young actors have an idea that acting can be a big deal, can be more than "just showing off" - ! - and even very experienced actors sometimes need to be pushed into seeing what is dull in their work, so, yes, I'm desperate for actors to get it 'right' if possible. It just takes a lot of WORK ! John Windsor-Cunningham

  • @evarose3688
    @evarose3688 3 года назад +122

    He intrigues me. I love it. I'm more than inspired and suddenly I believe I can actually go through with my plan of becoming the best version of myself as an actress. This lesson was truly helpful, thank you.

    • @NewYorkActingCoach
      @NewYorkActingCoach  3 года назад +35

      Thanks for kind words. Just push yourself to read and follow writers and directors and actors you like (we are told to call male and females "actors now) and hopefully you will find you will find that inspiration all over the place! John Windsor-Cunningham

  • @angelsrosa7659
    @angelsrosa7659 6 лет назад +50

    I felt soo upset tbh but i didnt cry, this is just because i was like in shock

    • @NewYorkActingCoach
      @NewYorkActingCoach  6 лет назад +22

      "Shock" sounds like a terrific reaction you allowed yourself to have. I only hope it encouraged you to see (if you need to ) how strange the imagination can be. Best wishes anyway. John Windsor-Cunningham

    • @angelsrosa7659
      @angelsrosa7659 6 лет назад +2

      Thank u sooo much

    • @roxann222
      @roxann222 3 года назад

      I felt the same

  • @CelloProfessor
    @CelloProfessor 10 лет назад +142

    Being a professional cellist, I find this video extremely helpful. Musician have to actually feel the emotions they are trying to convey in the music or it will not be convincing to the audience. I am going to have my university students watch this. Thank you!

    • @NewYorkActingCoach
      @NewYorkActingCoach  10 лет назад +46

      How very kind of you to say that. It makes me want to hear you play.
      If I can be of any help to you or your students remember I always answer odd questions about any of this for no cost (and best done through the 'Contact' page on my website Windsor-Cunningham.com) and that - as your message was so kind, if you personally want to contact me on Skype some time to chat a little I would not think of charging you or my time.
      All good wishes John

    • @davidkentlondon
      @davidkentlondon 3 года назад +2

      I was thinking exactly the same thing as I’m a singer. There’s loads of songs that I’m obliged to sing that I don’t like or don’t like to sing.... but when I sing them (especially something where the character changes during the song or something happens) I have to try and keep remembering to let the character find that emotion as the song goes along. It’s bloody hard sometimes

  • @checkmate5768
    @checkmate5768 4 года назад +24

    I almost fell over laughing when the "Do you want to see how to kill someone realistically" come up on screen. I don't know why, but it was jarring. 😂

  • @Wes_Jones
    @Wes_Jones 5 лет назад +13

    I have a new appreciation for how difficult acting really is.

  • @mae_it_be
    @mae_it_be 7 лет назад +90

    You are brilliant. So utterly convincing and remarkably charismatic. What helpful words. Thank you.

  • @tracydiaz874
    @tracydiaz874 9 лет назад +196

    I recently decided to visit a dream of mine that has been in my heart for years, to start acting. Your RUclips channel popped up and this exercise competently struck me. You actually got a true reaction out of me. My knees buckled and I started crying. Wow thanks so much for sharing your talent.

    • @NewYorkActingCoach
      @NewYorkActingCoach  9 лет назад +27

      Best way to start is to get in touch through the 'Contact' page on my website www.Windsor-Cunningham.com and I'll be happy to answer basic questions at no charge (!) I also coach on Skype and in New York at what I'm told is the lowest rate going!

    • @KojiCO-ConvinceM
      @KojiCO-ConvinceM 8 лет назад +8

      This was one of the areas I have most difficulty with breaking down, due to my background, with this instructional video I actually managed it I'm blown away , it shows what phenomenal instruction can do for your acting career

    • @jellegiesen4889
      @jellegiesen4889 Год назад

      how's it going now?

  • @faarhaannkhan-kb3vh
    @faarhaannkhan-kb3vh 9 лет назад +51

    Shit this exercise is great , and same time is bad . I accepted the situation the moment he said ur sister died , my heart stopped for 3 sec and I started feeling dizzy . If ur in front of camera u might forget ur lines the character's gestures etc , Eventually it ll lead you to mental state . Acting should be in a enjoyable way. Again it's good exercise but becarefull folks , as a actor you should be able to go into the character and come out . With this exercise you will be stacked and ll have hard time to come out ,Acting is about impressions you have to pretend that ur someone else , don't accept that ur someone else , because u never can be someone else . Acting is a mental game, go with ur limits don't push it too hard some stuff can be done with feelings some with impressions . Good luck ppl

    • @dcwatcher4644
      @dcwatcher4644 5 лет назад +3

      faarhaann khan that’s you way of acting but I think actually believing it is the way to do it

  • @morv1891
    @morv1891 7 лет назад +90

    you're a genius

  • @ashm003
    @ashm003 6 лет назад +21

    When you did the exercise, at the end I started crying. Really crying. Tears after tears after tears. I wasn't trying to, I just did. And for a few seconds--I believed that my family member actually died.

  • @aapp776
    @aapp776 3 года назад +3

    I was crying for Nasa. She's still in my heart with her two ponytails swinging and her printed white frock.

  • @alondrachavez1481
    @alondrachavez1481 4 года назад +4

    I think we get so caught up in getting into as many acting classes as we can, and using as many techniques as we can, that we forget the base of acting is so incredibly simple. It's tough, but it's so simple. Just be. And you are. Not believing that you are, not pretending, you just are.

    • @NewYorkActingCoach
      @NewYorkActingCoach  4 года назад +4

      Yes, it's simple, but the amount of study and work, the amount of detective-work that is needed on a script, the amount of time needed to work out WHAT the simplicity is needs experience. John Windsor-Cunningham

  • @allys744
    @allys744 2 года назад +1

    This man could narrate the phone book and I would listen. What a voice

  • @sophiezimmerman545
    @sophiezimmerman545 4 года назад +1

    is it just me, or dose his ascent make everything wonderfully better

  • @randomgirl3492
    @randomgirl3492 5 лет назад +12

    Damn when I was "in the cab" I actually had a real pit in my stomach and when I got to the hospital and you told me the news, I actually felt my stomach tighten up, and in a few minutes I was crying. Very well done video!

  • @aliahalenezi1546
    @aliahalenezi1546 6 лет назад +4

    I love how you encourage actors to actually be what they’re saying and not pretending to be what they’re saying

  • @GLCCreepyPasta
    @GLCCreepyPasta 4 года назад +1

    Sitting there starting to cry not able to say anything and stay working..my family always told me i should be an actor or model but i was always too scared to even try it out even though i loved it all my life..because emotions are easy to come by. They might be fake but they're as real as a dream. Thank you for this awesome exercise.

  • @truesurrealist
    @truesurrealist Год назад +1

    This helped me realise when I'm on camera I'm trying to sing, rather than singing. Watching someone try is painful. 😅 Extremely helpful insight.

    • @NewYorkActingCoach
      @NewYorkActingCoach  Год назад

      Thanks for kind words. Singing is hard, and so easy to end with an attitude of "LISTEN to ME SING" and "WATCH ME!!" The heart, the soul, the clarity of 'true' singing requires so much practice (just as actors should never give up studying their lines even during a long run of a play). The fact that you know this should keep you pushing for the jobs that you want, and enjoying those moments when - like to lenses in a microscope - it all comes together so you can find it again! I never criticize and name any performers, but I'll just throw in the name of Ali Stoker in Oklahoma who just wanted to SING, so reached our hearts as well as her own! Who cares much that she was in a chair, the point is that she was one Broadwayist who just sang, and must have worked night and day at it. John.

  • @Peter0414
    @Peter0414 9 лет назад +36

    Best advice on acting I've seen/heard. Thanks so much for sharing!!

    • @NewYorkActingCoach
      @NewYorkActingCoach  9 лет назад +3

      You're welcome. Remember you can always ask odd questions - for not cost - through the 'Contact' page on my website Windsor-Cunningham.com and that I coach on Skype if needed. Best wishes, John

  • @manahilalhindi7457
    @manahilalhindi7457 3 года назад +11

    Thank you for putting it clearly that’s amazing I act with myself since I was 10 but only started having a career in acting at my 20s and all I can say is the hardest part is when directors tells you to have certain emotion because that won’t be real and believable and you want to do it your way or be free to make it fun and entertaining. Thanx again

    • @NewYorkActingCoach
      @NewYorkActingCoach  3 года назад +7

      You raise a huge, giant, important subject. Arguing with directors, in my own personal experience, resulted in my not being asked back to twenty big theatre companies - even after having successes with them, Directors hated me disagreeing with them, because I did not know how to show them I was right in my acting. Then - as you seem to be doing - I began to learn how to fill up a character realistically, and the arguments with directors stopped. If I'd learned at your age I might be a star by now, but that does not matter, of course; - what matters is that I did learn (as all actors need to) to understand what is behind lines and to act THAT truthfully. So keep working hard! John Windsor-Cunningham

  • @Cameron-ue7lu
    @Cameron-ue7lu День назад +1

    Incredible. I got to a place I'll describe as "utter sadness". What an amazing exercise. And at no point did I need to act. Phew and wow! Thank you!

    • @NewYorkActingCoach
      @NewYorkActingCoach  День назад

      Thank for kind words. And the point is that if we work out the background of any situation - perhaps with some parallel in our own lives - (that we hate spiders so we can act as if we hate women, some spiders being female ! ) - any situation is easy to imagine. It may seem hard work sometimes, but actors whom we compete with are doing that work, so we just must sort out what any damned lines are about ! John

    • @Cameron-ue7lu
      @Cameron-ue7lu День назад

      @@NewYorkActingCoach Yes, makes complete sense, John. Btw- perhaps you are familiar with the Teach character in American Buffalo? I have to deliver the F*** Ruthie monologue for stage. I've got the accent, I've learnt my lines. But I'm still searching for the reality. Dustin Hoffman pulls it off in the movie where he's out in the street crossing a road which adds to the realism and inherent energy. The monologue's opening line artificially sets off the intensity when Teach F***'s four times at Ruthie in her absence to express his anger about her to his friend Don. Any guidance would be gratefully received.

    • @NewYorkActingCoach
      @NewYorkActingCoach  День назад

      EVery actor is different and I don't know what you are like, so I can't sensibly suggest specific ideas (unless you want coaching n which case please use the Website), but every line means something, ad they can't all be in the same note of complaint! He may be angry with himself, or amused, or tired, it's up to you. So study each line to find out. John

    • @Cameron-ue7lu
      @Cameron-ue7lu День назад

      @@NewYorkActingCoach Of course,, and I will explore your website. It was a naïve question and thank you for entertaining it. For interest, their is a school of thinking, for this particular play, that because it's set in Chicago the character is allow to rattle through his lines, landing her an there for emphasis. My Director made this point which leaves little room for the subtler form of the art. I may well develop my own interpretation, fingers crossed. Thank you again.

  • @Undvne
    @Undvne 4 года назад +2

    As someone who has not acted since he was a child, you had me crying in the hospital exercise. I can still feel it half an hour later that I ACTUALLY had a younger brother

  • @roxanaeiling
    @roxanaeiling 5 лет назад +6

    I didn't know I loved my brother this much until now. Wow.

  • @ebonystephens1424
    @ebonystephens1424 5 лет назад +6

    As soon as you said they were dead it actually felt like my heart broke inside and I started crying and almost screamed wow this is incredible your a brilliant instructor and I love how honest and straight to the point just so incredibly and it’s so true

    • @NewYorkActingCoach
      @NewYorkActingCoach  5 лет назад +5

      Well, Hi Ebony, great that your imagination works so well, sorry that you felt so upset - ! - if you need an antidote you might try video number "7" (just that one) on my other website which is wwwMadEnglishman.com but either way best wishes, John

    • @ebonystephens1424
      @ebonystephens1424 5 лет назад +4

      John Windsor-Cunningham thankyou, I will definitely check it out. Who knew I would meet my little brother Sam one minute and figure out he’s dead the next!

    • @NewYorkActingCoach
      @NewYorkActingCoach  5 лет назад +4

      It was a dream. Sam is waiting round a corner, planning to pop out and meet you one day. He's also won a small lottery prize he wants to share with you then so all good news in the end!

    • @NewYorkActingCoach
      @NewYorkActingCoach  5 лет назад +3

      @@ebonystephens1424 It was a dream. Sam is fine, and just waiting to pop out from behind a corner later this year to show you that you still have a brother, and to share the lottery prize he recently won. So all quite good news in the end!

    • @ebonystephens1424
      @ebonystephens1424 5 лет назад +3

      John Windsor-Cunningham 😂 it was, maybe that money he shares can go to an acting school

  • @meetsnarf9051
    @meetsnarf9051 Месяц назад +1

    I love when he says "It's legal, you know, you're allowed..." lol 6:02

    • @NewYorkActingCoach
      @NewYorkActingCoach  Месяц назад +1

      YEs, well said. Acting is rather like breaking the law and knowing you'll get away with it. So little wonder, maybe, that some prisons have extremely popular acing classes. J.

  • @robintuition4164
    @robintuition4164 5 лет назад +1

    When you told me Sarah died, I cried. What an amazing exercise! Thank you.

  • @albiedanoob
    @albiedanoob 7 лет назад +22

    Wow! This exercise was really "real"! Actually made me feel things. Amazing

  • @nobaddie-chan
    @nobaddie-chan 5 лет назад +11

    Can you please make more exercises? I just loved this!

  • @nataliya2641
    @nataliya2641 Год назад +2

    This is incredible.
    You're an August Teacher.
    All the best from Moscow.
    God bless you, dear Mr John.

    • @NewYorkActingCoach
      @NewYorkActingCoach  Год назад +1

      Thank you for your so kind words. I so often remember a wonderful production of Uncle Vanya I did, many years ago, and am sorry that Moscow is one of the few places I've not worked. And now, of course, everything is so difficult for everyone, so I send you good wishes back. John Windsor-Cunningham

  • @laurenauburnsol
    @laurenauburnsol 5 лет назад

    When you said "your family member has died" my entire face felt tingly and warm and I felt nauseous as though I was going to throw up. Wow, what a great exercise. Thank you so much.

  • @HarperArrow
    @HarperArrow 9 лет назад +5

    Thank you, Mr. Windsor-Cunningham, you are a worderful teacher.

  • @camiasmr977
    @camiasmr977 5 лет назад +5

    I was upset and almost cried
    I feel like this exersice is really good

  • @kmart3453
    @kmart3453 4 года назад +2

    You’re such a good teacher. I wish I could be a student of yours

    • @NewYorkActingCoach
      @NewYorkActingCoach  4 года назад

      I coach actors who work in English. And messages about it are best not left here as I may miss them, but left on the 'Contact' page of my website (Windsor-Cunningham.com) or my direct email (jwcactor@yahoo.com) If that helps. John Windsor-Cunningham

    • @kmart3453
      @kmart3453 4 года назад +1

      John Windsor-Cunningham I am a native English-speaker in America, my username is just a simple Swedish word that I like! Thank you so much for replying!

  • @carsondrae4865
    @carsondrae4865 4 года назад +1

    I have never been able to cry on cue, but when you told me my fake little brother died, tears started flowing. Thank you so much. I now realize that I've simply been ACTING.

  • @balcon983
    @balcon983 8 лет назад +4

    Very clear explanations especially the "I'm eleven inches tall" exercise on how you say that line realistically.

  • @SmallSocietyIssues1
    @SmallSocietyIssues1 9 лет назад +11

    Wow, my heart stopped and I got tears in my eyes... Amazing! Thank you for your advice! :)

    • @SmallSocietyIssues1
      @SmallSocietyIssues1 9 лет назад +3

      Haha that's awesome! I was just really feeling it, I guess! :D

  • @valmcadoo4914
    @valmcadoo4914 2 года назад +1

    Of all of the countless videos I have watched about acting, this is the most brilliant and profound…

    • @NewYorkActingCoach
      @NewYorkActingCoach  2 года назад +1

      Very kind, thanks. And better to come hopefully. John Windsor-Cunningham

  • @Thejoshter444
    @Thejoshter444 7 лет назад +1

    I actually have a brother and I used him in this, I felt devastated and confused and surprised, my eyes watered on the moment like this is actually real.

  • @JillianMorrisonKAZ2Y5
    @JillianMorrisonKAZ2Y5 8 лет назад +12

    Wow. I really want to be an actor but I am very shy and my school doesn't even have a drama department.

    • @NewYorkActingCoach
      @NewYorkActingCoach  7 лет назад +3

      If you still need help with the idea of being an actor please use the 'contact' page on my website www.Windsor-Cunningham.com

  • @rickierwin8780
    @rickierwin8780 5 лет назад +6

    Jesus you had me crying like a baby. That was powerful.

  • @erickcassibo8172
    @erickcassibo8172 5 лет назад +1

    I didn't expect this exercise. Ive understood the concept behind this process since i was a kid. Im 26 now, but always wanted to be an actor. Ive been able to tear up and cry at will for years. Maybe im more cut out for acting than i thought.

  • @shutthefixup4050
    @shutthefixup4050 4 года назад +1

    This man is a magician who makes emotions appear in me like pulling a rabbit out of a thimble.

  • @josiahhayton1050
    @josiahhayton1050 3 года назад +3

    That was incredible! I had tears streaming down my face!

  • @ThugByChoice
    @ThugByChoice 8 лет назад +13

    Holy crap it worked!!! I cried! I did it!! You're amazing! Did you still give online acting lessons?

  • @LouisFindlay
    @LouisFindlay 6 лет назад +1

    I did nothing, i tried to just be "real" but when you said the person had died, i wasn't prepared for it and it actually hit me. I didn't cry, I felt sad, like something was taken from me. Perhaps it was how you said it, great work.

    • @NewYorkActingCoach
      @NewYorkActingCoach  6 лет назад +2

      Well, thanks for saying "great work" to me, but the simple fact is that it's you that did good work. John Windsor-Cunningham

  • @RaEeSir
    @RaEeSir 3 года назад

    I was in tears when you told me my imaginary older sister Annabel has died. I really felt it. Thank you sir. This helped tremendously.

  • @XMoonBoiii
    @XMoonBoiii 5 лет назад +7

    Wow, I plan to become an actor, you did really well to help me, by giving this advice. Thank you.

  • @megpy95
    @megpy95 9 лет назад +13

    Hey! I found this so handy! I loved the exercise at the start; genius! I found myself freezing from eating the food I was, and in this complete frozen state, I found it to be a true reaction from what you've said! Thank you! I got cast in a play where I play a vivacious, raucous & sassy dancer, stuck in the underground tube with older men and 2 other female characters (ones an elderly, one slightly older). When we did our first rehearsal, I struggled so bad; I couldn't find anything to relate to my character. Im far from confident, or sexy or showy or loud.... This is the first play I'm in and I have no idea how to 'act' or 'be' my character... or even relate to her! Please help..!

    • @NewYorkActingCoach
      @NewYorkActingCoach  9 лет назад +3

      Happy to help. Obviously I need to know what your main scenes/ lines are that are difficult, and that can't be done by e-mail, but I'm happy to work with you on Skype or if you're in NY in person. A session lasts just over an hour so that we don't have to rush when we reach 59 minutes - ! - and costs $35 which I think is fair.
      Best to get in touch through the 'Contact' page on my website www.Windsor-Cunningham.com and I'll fit you in as soon as possible. There are dozens of 'trick' ways of achieving what you mention, as well as deeper ones if you have time (or need them). Best wishes, John

    • @maxcollege7088
      @maxcollege7088 8 лет назад +1

      +John Windsor-Cunningham how do you feel about child actors what's the best advice you would give them and what do you think would be a good character to start method acting please

    • @NewYorkActingCoach
      @NewYorkActingCoach  7 лет назад +1

      Sorry, only just saw your question. Too hard to answer in a few lines. If you want a session use the 'contact' page on my website www.Windsor-Cunningham for details. John

  • @archelfrancisco
    @archelfrancisco 8 месяцев назад +1

    for many years still this video is golden!

  • @77moonwalker77
    @77moonwalker77 5 лет назад +2

    Rest In Peace Alice, you were wonderful little sister, a cried and I was in complete shock

    • @NewYorkActingCoach
      @NewYorkActingCoach  5 лет назад +3

      So sorry about Alice. If you need an antidote you might try my other website and only try video number "7" (only that one) at www.MadEnglishman.com Hope that helps. All best wishes, John Windsor-Cunningham

  • @thewozmancan
    @thewozmancan 7 лет назад +6

    Worked wonderfully...thank you! Amazing how simple suggestion places you in real circumstances and reaction. The sadness came spontaneously.

  • @rjjr7064
    @rjjr7064 8 лет назад +9

    I cannot thank you enough for this video!

  • @leidy3261
    @leidy3261 4 года назад +1

    this man is a genius with his method to put ways to act it’s not silly it’s genius

    • @NewYorkActingCoach
      @NewYorkActingCoach  4 года назад +1

      Well what can I say? Thank you. All methods are really aiming at the same thing, truth, but thank you. If only you were a director! John Windsor-Cunningham

  • @ksangston
    @ksangston 7 лет назад +1

    This man is a wizard. I love these.

  • @doom3798
    @doom3798 8 лет назад +6

    this was so helpful, thank you!

  • @kriss_6165
    @kriss_6165 3 года назад +3

    Honestly, this is phenomenal. It had the exact same effect on me as probably intended. It got a reaction out of me, and I started to genuinely react surprised with that specific emotion. As I was fully into his sayings, and just really in the moment. This was, so very helpfull!

  • @AFO_AnalyRics
    @AFO_AnalyRics 6 лет назад

    Wat strikes me the most isn't his instructions per se. Don't get me wrong, he knows his onions etc, but with acting, the truth is, no one really knows anything for sure. And that's why I love listening to him: he's very aware of that very fickle nature of the craft of acting, so he never lords anything down. Personally, there are times I've watched his videos without getting any actual, etched-in-stone tips that can work for me, but I'm still so satisfied......because, sometimes, for young actors like me, very few things are as helpful and encouraging as seeing a true veteran of the trade, aged and experienced, and yet brimming with passion enough to sit himself in front of a camera and just talk...talk to me...talk about acting...talk to me about life. That's the point: with this man, the lines between life and acting can become so refreshingly blurred.

  • @tombradford7035
    @tombradford7035 8 лет назад +1

    This man's a genius. An Aldous Huxley of acting.

  • @nickiiv3158
    @nickiiv3158 9 лет назад +10

    Thank you so much for this insightful video. This exercise was very clarifying and so helpful as I am a new actress. I cried for my sister! ( and I'm an only child) I enjoy your insight and knowledge, and look forward to learning more with your channel. Thank you!

  • @sulagnanandi
    @sulagnanandi 5 лет назад +3

    THAT EXERCISE WAS AMAZING

  • @camillehavard4611
    @camillehavard4611 5 лет назад +1

    I teared up right when you said that my family member was involved in a car accident and felt extremely dizzy when my "sister" died

    • @NewYorkActingCoach
      @NewYorkActingCoach  5 лет назад

      Well! Thank you for having a 'go' at the exercise. Sorry if it upset you a lot. Acting is a mysterious business! best wishes, John (www.Windsor-Cunningham.com)

  • @SparkyBreaks
    @SparkyBreaks Год назад +1

    Brilliant. This was actually very insightful. I listened to your story about me and when I got the news my sister had died.. I immediately teared up. I wasnt sure what to say so I just looked intensely at the doctor in disbelief.. but also I know that he was being truthful. I'm going to watch this several times. Thank you

  • @r.w7351
    @r.w7351 5 лет назад +5

    My heart dropped when I heard the news that my sibling had died.

  • @13Blanks
    @13Blanks 9 лет назад +4

    You have made a change. Thanks so much for sharing.

  • @nerotoxin6959
    @nerotoxin6959 8 лет назад

    I paused this video... at the word, "died."
    I was completely with you on this journey. I invented a 16 year old sister (younger, I'm 25) with cherry red hair, I sat in the cab, I came along, tears are in my eyes and my jaw has dropped. I hope you are M. Night Shamoling this... back to the video..

  • @BethanyMcS
    @BethanyMcS 4 года назад +1

    Man, that exercise was a roller coaster. First joyful, having a younger brother and knowing we were best buddies and we did everything together, then startled and fearful at hearing of the accident, then a building of dread and resistance as I started to realize what was happening. And finally an overwhelming loss, knowing that Henry died alone, without me, and I would never see him again.

  • @jessicacn9289
    @jessicacn9289 8 лет назад +3

    Thank you John you are awesome

  • @TheOmar291992
    @TheOmar291992 8 лет назад +73

    It made me feel it, wtf... lol i don't want to act, i just feel this was interesting

  • @salmasoliman5739
    @salmasoliman5739 5 лет назад +1

    I cried when you said “your family member died.” You’re great, this is really helpful.

  • @BenBatich
    @BenBatich 9 месяцев назад +2

    This was incredible, after the exercise i felt like i could easily win the oscars.

  • @paulbkiwi
    @paulbkiwi 9 лет назад +7

    Thank you John. That exercise was amazing, and it is the first time I have ever been taken through anything like that. The emotions I felt as the exercise ran its course was pretty amazing. I often feel that I 'over-think' things, this exercise will now be a handy tool moving forward. Thank you and bless you for posting these great videos. Cheers from New Zealand.

  • @MissLionRose
    @MissLionRose 9 лет назад +7

    7:20 things we give up, Amen!
    Just had to comment again,
    this whole video was brilliant Mr. Cunningham!

  • @kenschneider2100
    @kenschneider2100 Год назад +1

    As a retired man, I do extra/background work in films for the fun of it. it's my hobby.

  • @milos2034
    @milos2034 3 года назад

    I felt actual sadness during the scenario and I started to half cry, but then I realised it was an act and I couldn't manage to get a tear out.

  • @adamwalker9672
    @adamwalker9672 8 лет назад +3

    Hi John! Thankyou. I found this video so helpful. Finally I've found something that will take me to the next level! God bless

  • @cylinamangal7358
    @cylinamangal7358 8 лет назад +4

    I love this it was powerful it was really nice talking to y

  • @ivardaboneless8638
    @ivardaboneless8638 5 лет назад +1

    When you said "your family member has died".it got a tear to came out

    • @NewYorkActingCoach
      @NewYorkActingCoach  5 лет назад +1

      Ah yes, well the imagination is magical! Hope all happy now. If not try my other website and only look at video number "7" on it , www.MadEnglishman.com as an antidote. Best wishes, John

    • @ivardaboneless8638
      @ivardaboneless8638 5 лет назад +1

      @@NewYorkActingCoach also I want to get into acting for film but I don't know where to start can you help me?

    • @NewYorkActingCoach
      @NewYorkActingCoach  5 лет назад

      Be careful whom you ask for help. The Actors' Union is taking several people to court who promise to help new actors with contacts but have none and no experience! But dont leave messages like that one here, please, as I miss lots here. If you're serious please use the 'Contact' page on my website (www.Windsor-Cunningham.com) or my direct email (jwcactor@yahoo.com) and tell me how serious or just curious you really are. John

  • @billg3356
    @billg3356 4 года назад +1

    That was really strange. My heart was pounding as I was sitting in the cab on the way to the hospital. And I could feel my eyes starting to burn a little when the doctor came in and told me my sister Allison had died. I couldn't get tears, but it felt very real to me.
    Amazing exercise.

  • @marinarep8986
    @marinarep8986 6 лет назад +3

    omg i have a play in two days and ur two videos really helped me , i almost cried , thank you so much!! YOURE A GENIUS

    • @NewYorkActingCoach
      @NewYorkActingCoach  6 лет назад +1

      If you need specific help I do coach on skype, and charge as little as possible - just use the "contact" page on my website www.Windsor-Cunningham.com or my email (not here please!) at jwcactor@yahoo.com

  • @valeriamorales7439
    @valeriamorales7439 4 года назад +8

    I started crying when he said my little imaginary sister was in a car accident

  • @Hannah-gh4by
    @Hannah-gh4by 4 года назад +1

    Crying on cue is so hard but getting the news that my "younger sister" Jenna who doesn't even exist is dead I started tearing up, that was a very effective exercise!

  • @mzzryyz3356
    @mzzryyz3356 3 года назад +1

    hi!!! i’m a student who just entered middle school, and i find this film and the other short one from this very helpful, see i’m fairly new to acting but i am also more mature then my age group and act older than i am, but i’ve actually been thinking of how to ACTUALLY ACT and when i explain this to my coaches they just blow it off and say something along the lines of “oh well you are acting so you can’t actually be in that emotion (and/or) place!” well this is exactly what i was talking about!!!

    • @NewYorkActingCoach
      @NewYorkActingCoach  3 года назад

      Sounds like it may not be necessary to talk to anyone about it. It makes life easier if we avoid arguments. One of my videos, number 28 of the 'free videos' on my website ( Windsor-Cunningham.com ) also says the same sort of thing, And I'm not saying you were in the right anyway as I dont know you and I wasn't there! Best wishes, John Windsor-Cunnngham

  • @laurafayehp
    @laurafayehp 5 лет назад +5

    I’m not really an emotional person so the result I got when you said that they died seemed pretty accurate for me as my heart sped up and my breathing become slighter more audible but my face stayed blank like I was processing this. Really strange but it worked!

    • @NewYorkActingCoach
      @NewYorkActingCoach  5 лет назад +1

      Glad you got something out of it. Emotions are strange, but they're there! JOhn

  • @sofi892
    @sofi892 4 года назад +3

    Wow I was really crying omg I was really sad and then I realized it wasn’t real 🤯🤯🤯
    Thanks you so much!!!

  • @skkay2930
    @skkay2930 6 лет назад +1

    Brilliant! Never enjoyed watching and listening to a lesson this much! I sobbed through watching the video and losing my both characters. ACTUALLY! Thank you.

    • @NewYorkActingCoach
      @NewYorkActingCoach  6 лет назад +2

      You're very welcome. Thanks for kind remark. More if wanted at Windsor-Cunningham.com John

    • @skkay2930
      @skkay2930 6 лет назад +1

      Appreciated.

  • @lynnenashmusicandvoice
    @lynnenashmusicandvoice 5 лет назад

    Yes, I actually became quite distraught and had tears, believing I'd lost an Older brother. Thank you for this. it's was amazing.