What is Narcissistic personality disorders? | Analysis by Siddhant Agnihotri

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  • @StudyGlows
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    • @sourabhshekhar2919
      @sourabhshekhar2919 2 года назад +5

      sir video me aawaj nahi hai
      kal waale video me bhi aisa hi tha. please check

    • @sourabhshekhar2919
      @sourabhshekhar2919 2 года назад +3

      sorry sir mere end pe hi dikkat thi . sorry sorry

    • @sagargawade6701
      @sagargawade6701 2 года назад

      Worst video ever from ur side Study Glows, No voice. At least check and reply on that ur able to resolve this voice issue or not

    • @YTRGAUTAM
      @YTRGAUTAM 2 года назад +2

      sir sound problem video mai

    • @rohitchaursia3333
      @rohitchaursia3333 2 года назад +1

      sir what happened if two extreme narciess are in relationship ??

  • @unknown_2h
    @unknown_2h 2 года назад +1565

    Only a narc survivor knows how mentally, emotionally and even physically painful it is to be with a narcissist.

    • @rinkukhamari
      @rinkukhamari 2 года назад +1

      Your whole life will be destroyed already before you really know.😭😭😭

    • @unknown_2h
      @unknown_2h 2 года назад +81

      @@vaibhav826 exactly... And their manipulation and abuse is also something very hard to explain to others.

    • @lalicoc
      @lalicoc 2 года назад +7

      Exactly

    • @thehuman2861
      @thehuman2861 2 года назад +14

      Yeah... My father's one

    • @avinashyadav7992
      @avinashyadav7992 2 года назад +6

      Gone through this

  • @cobrachotu8811
    @cobrachotu8811 2 года назад +740

    My grandmother is a narcissist and made my mother's life hell. Same goes with my dad who has acquired a bit of narcissistic traits from her.But now as I fight back for my mother they don't dare to trouble my mom much.

    • @shubhikapant5385
      @shubhikapant5385 2 года назад +32

      You're doing well tc of your mother.

    • @shiv8765
      @shiv8765 2 года назад +23

      You are brave. More strength and courage to you.

    • @priya-es8lu
      @priya-es8lu 2 года назад +7

      You doing well

    • @traveller778
      @traveller778 2 года назад +7

      my grandmothers sister same like this

    • @alkagupta8594
      @alkagupta8594 2 года назад +5

      Proud of you😍

  • @shrihari1902
    @shrihari1902 Год назад +117

    Mr. Siddhant I am a 50 year old man ,I watched your video crying like a child, I couldn't understand how you have come to know exactly the same characteristics of my wife with whom I lived for more than 25 years, when I got married to her I was a wealthy businessman, and when she died few months ago, I had only 1500/ Rs. In my pocket with no house and nothing of my own, she not only ruined me financially, mentally, and physically but killed the childhood of both of my children , and finally made every body believe that it was us who did not take care of her.

    • @swatigupta6534
      @swatigupta6534 8 месяцев назад +12

      I have seen this same pattern in my ex and my family member, she has ruined everything... initially i thought ki shayad wo sudhar jaaye but they can't change....she has destroyed a happy family and my ex ruined my mental health

    • @ayshab8983
      @ayshab8983 7 месяцев назад +4

      Same happened with me and my sister. My mother is a narcissist.

    • @mbkumar5742
      @mbkumar5742 6 месяцев назад +1

      So bad...need help to the patient

    • @saadulainshah9426
      @saadulainshah9426 4 месяца назад +1

      If U want to understand narcissistic U must understand the pet

    • @nishu8632
      @nishu8632 3 месяца назад +5

      Oh sir, I cried while reading your comment 😢, hope you doing well right now

  • @ranjanatiwari7829
    @ranjanatiwari7829 Год назад +25

    Aapki har ek baat universal truth hai sir ..
    Kyuki ye experience mene bahut karib se face kiya hai ..par mene in sabse khud ko bahar nikala hai..

  • @angana3955
    @angana3955 2 года назад +907

    I dealt with a narcissistic in my personal life. But i kicked out him from my life and living a happy life now. Thank you universe 🙏

  • @subhamagarwal7585
    @subhamagarwal7585 2 года назад +432

    I was victim but now by the blessings of lord Shiva and ma parvati my recovery was going on ,but actually I am completely recovered today ❤️ by knowing the problem that she was narcissistic personality 🙏

  • @roopamendon948
    @roopamendon948 Год назад +47

    You are absolutely right. It’s a hell of a life with these Narcissistic people. Living with one for the last 38 years.

    • @SpecialSeed0909
      @SpecialSeed0909 11 месяцев назад +1

      Since last 38 years!?!?! My God.... Its really hats off for you then. Now I'm done... I was suffering since 5 years. But it'll be ok. Suffering comes only to those who have the strength to bear it. Life will change soon. Keep smiling. God bless you

    • @roopamendon948
      @roopamendon948 11 месяцев назад

      @@SpecialSeed0909 Thank you 🙏

    • @ruchi_s
      @ruchi_s 8 месяцев назад +1

      Mere bf ko bhi ye hi problem h bt I leave him after 7 years of relationship

  • @Visible207
    @Visible207 Год назад +40

    I have the same symptom in me, but i have started changing my life past 2 months. Thank God for showing me my personality now I will change with yours blessings.

    • @deepadhania5921
      @deepadhania5921 11 месяцев назад

      No narc kbi b nhi badalta nhi h

    • @omgtube6916
      @omgtube6916 11 месяцев назад +5

      ​@@deepadhania5921pagal aurat ..ek to vo koshish krra hai person .. usko MOTIVATION ki jagah demotivate kre ho .. CHANGE IS THE ONLY CONSTANT. I hope jo bhi is stithi se guzar rahe hai ... Vo khud ko change kar paye ..

    • @deepadhania5921
      @deepadhania5921 11 месяцев назад +3

      @@omgtube6916 bewakoof mna use bola h ki wo narc nhi h qki narc kbi b manta nhi ki vo glt h na sudhar Lata h toxic hone ar narcissist hone m frk hota h smghe narcissist kbi nhi mante ki vo narc h smghe isme kha mna demotivate kr diya koi glt smghe to use btana glt h k

    • @coco-kuki
      @coco-kuki 3 месяца назад +1

      @deepadhania5921 You are right. Those who have never been with a narcissist will not understand this.

    • @Aysh_khan_i
      @Aysh_khan_i 2 месяца назад

      AP shaid co dependent ho...qk apka Jo ye khyal Aya he ye b is bt ki alamat he k AP narcissist nhi ho puri trha se...
      Allah apko sahi Rasta dikhaye ameen ❤

  • @ts7255
    @ts7255 2 года назад +109

    I had a narcissist friend, she completely destroyed my social circle just to prove herself better than me. I even never knew this, she acted so humble and cared for me.... She used to defame me to gain sympathy and attention from people.... Actually I was fooled and devastated more than 14 years of my life.... Now I am scared in making new friends...

    • @PerzinDaruwala
      @PerzinDaruwala 2 года назад +6

      I too had a friend like that. Horrible experience of my life. Now when I think about it it was a lesson you need to learn for your self growth.

    • @ankushdhawale4628
      @ankushdhawale4628 2 года назад +10

      Even I was trappped in the narcissist friends in my life they behave nicely but infront of others they degrade or make fun of me or taunt me....like behaving good then bad..... confuse i am still having their momories in my mind....

    • @carryshorts786
      @carryshorts786 Год назад +1

      Yes me tooo

    • @neeruagrawal6302
      @neeruagrawal6302 Год назад +3

      Yes me to ,, my best friend, she give me mental trauma

    • @edgar2457
      @edgar2457 9 месяцев назад +1

      Same thing happened with me, she was my best friend, I hope you'll be able to heal yourself
      They totally destroy your life 💔

  • @yuktiarora7105
    @yuktiarora7105 2 года назад +358

    It's difficult to leave a narcissist , can tell through personal experience , they keep you in a confusing state that whether you want to leave them or not.

    • @VENOM-tx6gp
      @VENOM-tx6gp 2 года назад +44

      Just leave
      My father is a narcissist and my childhood was awful, i am a narcissist too
      So being a narcissist and a narcissist victim, i can say just run away
      You might feel guilty abandoning someone who is in need
      But trust me , we narcissists are parasites, you wont get what you are wishing fo, JUST RUN AWAY

    • @riyooooooo765
      @riyooooooo765 2 года назад +13

      @@VENOM-tx6gp no you are good narcissist 😊🤗 just try to change your self and dont call yourself narcissist

    • @LovelyGautam
      @LovelyGautam 2 года назад

      Agree 😢

    • @reeta3974
      @reeta3974 2 года назад +1

      Janet winny karke channel hai ..usmai Narsstic ka pura detail bataya hai...ap Jake dekho ..kafi guidence milegi.janet se

    • @akankshamishra7101
      @akankshamishra7101 2 года назад +10

      My father is a narcissist. Yes he had a worst childhood. My grandfather died when my father was just 9 days old. But my dadi tried to give everything best possible. She never ever slapped my father. It was a problamatic society around them. Because of my father i had a worst childhood , my motjer had worst marriage. He does something very wrong and then applogise. But repeat again. I tried to understand his whole life and then i became very kind to him .. i tried to talk to him in every aspect but he always took it me in a negative sense. He was a physical abuser . He beat me and my brothers with a iron rod... and many things and just for a childish mistakes. But in 2018 I was done with him. I slapped him because he spitted on me.. and then I left him. I tried to convincemy mother to divorce him but she has no self respect and she never listen to us me and my brothers. I moved out of my house..living on rent. My brothers are living in the same house.. my father is a alcohlic also. But now no one respects him neither in home nor in society.
      So If you want to save yourself and that person too just leavethem. I lovedmy father so much.. i do still but I can not deal with him

  • @Shilpi.27
    @Shilpi.27 28 дней назад +4

    Sir, Ek ek baat sach kahe rahe ho ap. Aese log, Ache khase khush insan ko, depression me daal dete hai.

  • @Lord_X...
    @Lord_X... 6 месяцев назад +5

    mai 22 saal se ise bardasht kar rahi hu ,, par aap bohut achha kam kar rahe ho ,, bohut sare log is jahanm se bach jayenge aap ki vajhah se sir 👍👍👍

  • @deeprajjaiswal2162
    @deeprajjaiswal2162 2 года назад +174

    My ex was narcissist
    She literally mentally murdered me..
    She was the same as sir explained
    But Thank god now I am almost recovered..

    • @manoranjanprasadrawat4181
      @manoranjanprasadrawat4181 2 года назад +4

      🤣🤣

    • @rahulverma5885
      @rahulverma5885 2 года назад +5

      Bro same things happened with me also

    • @akashdalwadi9257
      @akashdalwadi9257 2 года назад +5

      Also my ex was Narcissist bt after breking up with her my life becomes So Beautiful❤️

    • @backbencher4781
      @backbencher4781 2 года назад +11

      Tumhare paas ex toh thii....mere paas present bhi nahi h 🤣

    • @strong-brain-cells
      @strong-brain-cells 2 года назад +5

      @@backbencher4781 ye dukh kahe khatam nahi hota 😂😂😭😭

  • @saswat_swarup
    @saswat_swarup 2 года назад +360

    It is so funny that, when you watch the trail, amber Heard lawyer said that jhoney depp is narcissistic because he eats candy middle in the trail, sudden after that jhoney deep lawyer pick a candy , and said now I am also a narcissist,

    • @thespiderguy3515
      @thespiderguy3515 2 года назад +8

      🤣

    • @KK-qj5mm
      @KK-qj5mm 2 года назад +5

      🤣🤣

    • @shiv8765
      @shiv8765 2 года назад +27

      I think all the lawyers and team of Amber Heard are dealing with narcissistic personalities.

    • @shikharsingh551
      @shikharsingh551 2 года назад +12

      Trail nahi voh trial hota hai gawar 😂

    • @Praveenkumar-ev3tj
      @Praveenkumar-ev3tj 2 года назад +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @harshadachavan8562
    @harshadachavan8562 9 месяцев назад +10

    In current situation all younger generation should be informed about these kind of personality traits.. this will really help a lot of people.. unfortunately our family system is failing to do that..

  • @abhinandankanwar1445
    @abhinandankanwar1445 8 месяцев назад +5

    Very well put. Each and everything spot on. I've been a victim of each and everything mentioned in the video. But different kind of abuses were given by different kinds of people and gender who had specific roles in my life. Parents, elder sister,best friend, a girl I liked/attracted to. The worst one was the girl I liked. She was pure evil! Although, depending upon the level of their IQ, they can manipulate you in different way,but this girl due to her IQ made my life living hell. Since she had gained the mastery in all this and was shrewd, she had a unique ability to challenge every opinion/belief I had and present her opinion to me in such a way that she would look always correct, and me dumb, everytime. I started living in fear, anxiety. I began losing my self identity. Not just this, insulting you, using camouflaged abuse in the arguments which you know is meant to hurt you, but your brain would be fogged because in the end, she deceived all the argument to make them look right and you cant say anything because they said it right, but it's not, it's a deception. Also played many mind control techniques on me. Finally I got rid of her, but she wanted me to stay. These people will suck the life blood out you, steal all the light from you. Even the slightest criticism will be met with severe insults and reprimands. They hate your very being, they only care about themselves. Psycopaths generally. Your life is much better without them. Demons have devoured their soul. Toxic af!

  • @captain1459
    @captain1459 2 года назад +93

    Okay then. I am an extreme narcissist then. I possess all the symptoms.
    And may be that's why my earlier relations didn't work out. And my current relation With my parents, friends and my mate is suffering a lot.
    But i didn't do any of that with intention it just happened.
    Yesterday after watching this video i shared it with my mate and told her everything abt it but she refused to leave, stayed and said "don't worry we'll fix it out"....how lucky i am to have her.
    I promise myself I'll be a changed person in few months.
    *Thanks sidhhant sir this video is turned out to be a life changing for me.*
    God bless you sir! Keep going.

    • @captainjack6201
      @captainjack6201 2 года назад +1

      True

    • @Khushi-my2in
      @Khushi-my2in 2 года назад +3

      Hope u get well soon 😔😔 I was also being so supportive to my ex bf throughout 10 yrs of relationship but I give up, I feel I never gonna fix his problem, I faced so much toxicity through my long past years but anyhow I make myself out from that relationship

    • @Khushi-my2in
      @Khushi-my2in 2 года назад +3

      But still I also feel that scenario if he will marry to someone then that lady will get a bad man for her whole life. After 4 months of my breakup in 2020 , he requested me to come to his life, he did everything in a panic situation but I & few people related to me saw the truth that he planned and executed so much things, I told him the last thing that you already destroyed 1 father's daughter but don't destroy again another father's daughter in your life again

    • @Khushi-my2in
      @Khushi-my2in 2 года назад +2

      Aap please ye sab mat krna or jaldi se thik hone ki kosis krna

    • @shridharvyas1511
      @shridharvyas1511 2 года назад +1

      @@Khushi-my2in you are a true and honest girl. God bless you dear 🙏

  • @aparnakashyap7493
    @aparnakashyap7493 2 года назад +138

    My life became a disaster with a narcissist. I am thankful to God that I am alive and peaceful now. Only a survivor knows what mental toll it is to deal with a narcissist. They push you to an identity loss and Stockholm syndrome. And the irony is they are really good actors. No one would know it easily that you are being mercilessly abused.

    • @legummagister9999
      @legummagister9999 2 года назад +8

      Yes they are really good actors.. Aapko stories bana bana kar sunayenge like imagination stories fake aur fraud personality hote ye bahut bade jhoote makkar

    • @legummagister9999
      @legummagister9999 2 года назад +2

      @@abhi0763 yes Sir nash Nash me inke revenge bhara hota

    • @legummagister9999
      @legummagister9999 2 года назад +4

      @@abhi0763 maine massive level par ek narc ko jhela hai.... Fully loaded psycho, suicide karne Ko mazbur kar diya tha mujhe, imagination stories sunayi jaati thi mujhe, ye saare traits The uske ander jinhe maine realize kar liya thaa Maine, bataya bhi maine magar khud ko superior samajte ye log cheat bhi kiyaa one year baad aagya... Aur one year se ek baar milo yahi lga rakha... But me aware hu usse ab criminal minded

    • @legummagister9999
      @legummagister9999 2 года назад

      @@abhi0763 haan ye bhi hai

    • @nandini2999
      @nandini2999 2 года назад +4

      Yes,,,, .
      This line is so true...
      No one would know it easily that you are being mercilessly abused.

  • @ayshab8983
    @ayshab8983 7 месяцев назад +6

    He is 100 percent right…connection with a narcissistic person kills you from inside…although we have other people who love us….but narcissistic people have ‘naagpaash’ you cannot leave their grip. You fake happiness but deep down you are sad.
    It’s difficult when you have narcissistic mother….you cannot leave her and you cannot ignore her. U crave for her love and admiration….my mom is very old now (80 years) ….whenever I say mom you did this ….she say you are this …you are that ….you are too emotional….stop being needy…. She doesn’t understand what I mean….I am married have loving husband and kids….but still feel how to get loved by my mom….but overall I have accepted the situation and I am there whenever she needs me….

  • @rathoddhaval5862
    @rathoddhaval5862 Год назад +28

    Ye video dekhane valo se nivedan hai ki is video ko dekhke kisi apne ko khudse dur mat kar Dena kyuki aj kal ye chij har kisi me dekhane ko milati hai to please guys kisi aise insan ko Jo apka apna use dur mat kar Dena Aisa bhi ho sakta hai ki vo insan ko koy bimari na ho par uska svabhav Aisa ho par vo insan Dil se acha ho to please aisi bate sunke kisi ko dur mat karna baki ap sab samjdar hai our kind hearted bhi hai

    • @Siyaparmar1822
      @Siyaparmar1822 3 месяца назад +1

      Right

    • @musarratmomin
      @musarratmomin 2 месяца назад

      Bilkul sahi hai bhai. Science k name pe insaniyat bhulte ja rahe hain log.

    • @Aysh_khan_i
      @Aysh_khan_i 2 месяца назад +3

      Mere Bhai apka kbi Kisi narcissist se pala nhi para..Meri mother in law and my own father dono narcissist hn...ye log aam logo se bht alg hoty hn...inko AP khush nhi kr skty chahiye kch b ho...jiski AP bt kr rhy hn wo mere hubby hn Dil k achy hn mizaj k Tez hn bht jaldi ghusaa hoty hn but Jo narcissist hota he wo apka dusro k Sath relation b khrab krta he jese Meri mother in law and my father wo dono hmary bich k relation ko khrab krny me koi Qasar nhi chorhi mjhe mere father k ghr me unki waja se severe anxiety or clinical depression ta but hubby k Sath rehny k bd wo bht km hua he albta Meri mother in law ne b bht depressed kia mjhe but shukr he abi me un se b tudi alg hu Mera portion alg he unky pas ziada jany ki zarurt nhi prti to ab lgta he life me peace aa gia

    • @somamukherjee2364
      @somamukherjee2364 Месяц назад

      Aap k Ash pass sabhi soulmate aur pure soul he hai. Ishliye aapko narsss k bare mei knowledge nahi hai.. bhgwan na kare kbhi pala pade. But aap unse puche jinke life mei narsst insaan hote hai kitne toh suicide bhi kiya. Hai

    • @somamukherjee2364
      @somamukherjee2364 Месяц назад +4

      ​@@musarratmomin aapke pala kisi narst insaan se nahi hua, please unse puchna jinse pala pada tha, unki life hell ho chuki hai.

  • @tellytaiment230
    @tellytaiment230 2 года назад +28

    My father is a Narcissistic person, made my life living hell, I was six he brought me to work in his factory to work , he did not allowed to play with my friends whole life he control my actions, Untill college for 1st year I decided to go work of my choice he tried to keep under his control in factory but he failed, so he started doing silent torture to mother me and my sisters till 7 yrs because of that's I changed multiple jobs, I wasted my peak age of young bcoz of him, my mother and me decided to leave him we are living separately. Now he is living somewhere. We are somehow feeling peacefull

    • @riteshkurhade3624
      @riteshkurhade3624 2 года назад +1

      Ha bhai sahi kiya 🔥 all the best for your life

  • @gaurangpatel5779
    @gaurangpatel5779 Год назад +80

    After seen this video finally I realised that my hard decision to leave her was right. Thanks to my family and friends who give me right advise and move on in life. I'm living a happy life finally 😘

  • @WorldWithoutReligion
    @WorldWithoutReligion 10 месяцев назад +7

    My mother is a NPD.. She killed my dad by giving him constant stress.. She even ruined my rship with him.. She made my life equally hell... NPD are monsters in human form

  • @Harshitsoni13
    @Harshitsoni13 4 месяца назад +5

    Apne jo kaha uska ek ek shabd sach hai, main jhel rahi hu ye sab, bahut jyada painful hai bilkul narak jaisa😢😢

    • @user-bs5hc7je3c
      @user-bs5hc7je3c Месяц назад

      Yes i also deal the same sare traits match karte h😢😢

  • @supernova3574
    @supernova3574 2 года назад +75

    The life of victims of Narcissism is long and traumatic one! I have been there since childhood, Its only now that I have knowledge of personality disorders and Narcissistic patterns, I am slowly freeing myself from the tight clutches of my Narcissistic mother.
    My humble prayers are with all those who are still in ignorance about their own self and in relationship with Narcissist. May God help them realise and release them from trauma 🙏

    • @Melomaniac559
      @Melomaniac559 2 года назад +1

      Same here😭💔 I don’t know how to deal with her..

    • @nehamishra8685
      @nehamishra8685 2 года назад +4

      Same here..my mother does the same. She likes my brothers over me at first place..most of the months I don't talk to her..and when ever I do, she suddenly changes and become the most happiest and coolest mother.then when she sees that she has won my confidence, she changes her behaviour, she starts taunting me, I endure till a limit but her words pinches me like an arrow..then I stop talking to her.. when I do this, she gets mad becoz I don't give attention to her, she starts screaming, conplaining, cursing me...amidst all this....I work hard in making my career but seeing her behaviour towards me,, I feel that I am nothing!

    • @archanajoglekar1362
      @archanajoglekar1362 Год назад +1

      @@nehamishra8685 yes i too faced such serious things in life, that she made my life hell ,in all ways,that tm i thought somebody must hv done black magic on her.i tried many ways to help her,now i emotionally keep distance frm her

    • @ridammisra1299
      @ridammisra1299 4 месяца назад

      ​@@archanajoglekar1362sometimes am feeling same for my brother now😢. Or maybe it is just life and its impact.

  • @chaitybanerjee2238
    @chaitybanerjee2238 2 года назад +102

    I was with a narcissist for 3 yrs. That silent treatment pattern is the most terrifying thing you get trapped and don't even know how to free yourself.

    • @prashantakolkar1210
      @prashantakolkar1210 Год назад +1

      Exactly

    • @bisckuttalks
      @bisckuttalks Год назад +2

      @@prashantakolkar1210 😈😈😈

    • @bisckuttalks
      @bisckuttalks Год назад

      @@prashantakolkar1210 i m

    • @bisckuttalks
      @bisckuttalks Год назад

      @Sandeep mo😈

    • @abhisheksaraf2616
      @abhisheksaraf2616 Год назад

      Humm Interesting the way deal with is tit for tat If they are a** ho*e u be bigger than them ignore them don't appreciate them, they look for validation keep criticizing them let them taste their own medicine

  • @sanjuktajishasarkar1036
    @sanjuktajishasarkar1036 Год назад +5

    Apne is topic ko explain kar k mere jaise jitane logo ne ye video dekha ho i hope un sabhi ko apni mistakes pata chala hoga or bhawan sab ko is tarha ke disorder se roke thank you bhaiya 🙂

  • @BEASTR218
    @BEASTR218 Год назад +5

    Tumari baat bhot pati bhay muje , bhot time se bas ye sab bate Mera sirf andaza tha , pn tumara video dekke confirm hogaya bhay Aisa hota or hai bhi , bhot se public hai bi touch me bhar se leke Ghar tk me , pn hamesha Dil se koshish hoti ke vo bi taklif me hai bhay to unko bi hak hai Sahi zindagi jine ka ,to bhot bura bi lagta pn apna nuksan hota isliye thoda dur rehta , but hamesha Pray or Koshish jarur karunga ye ek Virus hi bol sakte Ho Public me felra Jisko Kam Karu jitta mere se ho sake , Thank U Bhay🖖👽💖🙌

  • @yuktiarora7105
    @yuktiarora7105 2 года назад +61

    I am dealing with a narcissist , and he gives me a brutal silent treatment. Has sky high ego, always wants attention, always wants me to pamper him, picks up my words and then picks me apart, gaslights me, tortures me mentally. I don't like him at all for all this, but I cant leave him too. I feel stuck sometimes. I love him too, we got into relationship super early once we met because he was in a hurry for same, but since then things never remained same as if he caged me with baits and now its just a struggle , with love here and there but no peace of mind and heart.

    • @harendrayadav2170
      @harendrayadav2170 2 года назад +7

      Dark and light cannot exist together, so you have to choose one day

    • @MrinalM.
      @MrinalM. 2 года назад +6

      Leave as early as possible before he damage you permanently. Its not worth it. He will never change. Your whole life will be ruined.

    • @meenatiwari3468
      @meenatiwari3468 2 года назад +9

      Same here. My husband is same. Agar awaz oothayi toh nanga kar deta hai chilla chilla kar society ke samane. Bahut late pata chala ki he is controlling me. Can't leave him beta as half of life is gone with him now plus m financially dependent on him. But now I keep to myself . Girls be financially independent.

    • @ittukundan8099
      @ittukundan8099 2 года назад +5

      Love is not enough
      Yeh yaad rakhna
      Leave him and make zero contact with him..otherwise he will come back and manipulate you and will never let you leave. Narcissist kabi b aapko jaane nhi dega.

    • @sanatanidaliturfkafireazam5726
      @sanatanidaliturfkafireazam5726 2 года назад +1

      My both of The Parents are narcissist 😥
      Anyways Good for them only Narcissit can handle Narcissit . And It was A Arranged marriage

  • @RONUANTONY
    @RONUANTONY 2 года назад +81

    I have spent four years with one narcissistic roommate, oh God what a living hell it was!

    • @lov_is_life
      @lov_is_life 2 года назад

      😂😂

    • @Fear-Swag
      @Fear-Swag 2 года назад +4

      Same here 😒 he was bald but still thinking like he will rule the world one day, person should be normal, calm one day we all are going to dye so be kind and respect everyone’s feelings

    • @Fear-Swag
      @Fear-Swag Год назад

      @@lov_is_life this type of people really exist Rashmi

    • @lov_is_life
      @lov_is_life Год назад +1

      @@Fear-Swag I know very well I have been faced it 😭

    • @Fear-Swag
      @Fear-Swag Год назад

      @@lov_is_life girls also face such things 🙂

  • @lovely11
    @lovely11 11 месяцев назад +9

    Omg can't have the words to say for making this video. You don't have idea how much this video solved my problem. This video can change My whole life. I am into 7years marriage relationship and from struggling to take decision from last few months. I was crying a lot which decision I should choose. Finally this video become God advice suddenly this video come now my believe going sooo strong on God now ❤

  • @ShrutiSarkar-df2qn
    @ShrutiSarkar-df2qn Год назад +5

    One of my best frnd was a narcissist... After walking in the spiritual path now became an empathetic person... Yes these traits comes from a dark childhood

  • @rajvisingh7640
    @rajvisingh7640 2 года назад +53

    Can't walk away.. She's my mother.
    No one can make such people satisfied.. So don't try. Or else, see Jonny Depp.
    But I lost so much and so many people.. And there was a time, I started behaving like her.
    now I'll use your technique.
    and due my spiritual Guru, I started talking less and that too without any anger and affection. Feeling better.
    Thanks a lot 🙏

    • @MoonLight0466
      @MoonLight0466 2 года назад +5

      Same here, My Father is 🤷, i just tolerating everyday and stay attentive every time in my house for keeping peace, god am just constantly trying live stable. 😔

    • @rajvisingh7640
      @rajvisingh7640 2 года назад +1

      @@MoonLight0466 did u find any solution?
      the deadliest part is, just to hurt u, they'll do what's worst for u. I'm lactose intolerant..then guess what ?

    • @MoonLight0466
      @MoonLight0466 2 года назад

      @@rajvisingh7640 narcissistic will never change their behavior, so u should change urself. (Trying to Keep calm ur mind) less or stop talking to them specifically when they hurt you, if they trying over you then try to be like small child don't be like manly- if u be angry they will got extra courage for narcissisting , mother have soft heart-outside maybe rigid. Give her ladies type gifts, take her outside with u to new place, praise her on good food, nice look etc., Be friendly. It may be takes time keep patience.
      In our history Ramayan, Mahabharat, Rajputana etc their have also narcissistic women but they became soft only them who are friendly & praise to her 👍 try it

    • @poonamruth1049
      @poonamruth1049 2 года назад +1

      Same with me.. Meri maa bhi aisi hai she made my life hell.

    • @babygoldy1450
      @babygoldy1450 2 года назад

      @@poonamruth1049 bihar or UP

  • @blueheaven7582
    @blueheaven7582 2 года назад +80

    Thank you so much sir. I am literally in tears. I suffered a lot bcoz of my teacher who has a narcissistic personality. I suffered due to him more then 15years of my life. My confidence lost. I become so negative about life, zero self esteem . Recently I become free from all this due to guided meditation. Thank you almighty

  • @MSsolo
    @MSsolo Год назад +7

    Mujhe pata chala hai aapke bolne k baav sey k aap bhi iske shikaar huye han
    ( but aapne bahut sahi kiya h sabko iss k bare Mai batakar thanks bro)

  • @sanjuktajishasarkar1036
    @sanjuktajishasarkar1036 Год назад +4

    Thank you sir. Because mujhe lagta h ki mujhe bhi is tarha ka disorders h aapne jitana bhi bataya usame se 70% lekin ab main khud se isko Kam se kam karne ki puri tarah se koshish karungi

  • @NatureLoverProtector
    @NatureLoverProtector 2 года назад +1218

    Mamta Banerjee ko vi hai ye problem. Hum Bengali ye jante hai

  • @PlanetPluto19
    @PlanetPluto19 Год назад +14

    Narcissistic personalities can destroy life. By the time you realise this your 80% of the personality is destroyed. Only a divine intervention can bring you out of this. Else one is ruined. Even if you luckily get out the aftermath effects you . God bless all those dealing with this!

  • @kajalahir1511
    @kajalahir1511 Год назад +12

    Thank you so much sir for explaining this topic 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
    Till now I didn’t know that the person I tolerated has this personality, I literally gone in depression at that time and cried because of her.
    I dealt with such a person, I kicked her out from my life, sometimes I think that whether I did good or bad but still I know one thing that I am extremely happy without her, I tolerate her because of family relationships but at one time I had enough of her. Still she spread rumours about me that I did bad with her this and that but now everybody knows about her 😊
    This personally destroys your mental health and physical health, they defame you in society, they wanted to be number one choice of everyone, they can’t do good so they destroy whatever respect you have gained through your life, I literally know everything 😢

  • @miketurner1022
    @miketurner1022 Год назад +4

    Amazing lecture. Females specially in western countries, not in Eastern country are like this. But large population both males and females are this way. Even countries treat each other this way and not just individuals.

  • @tellytaiment230
    @tellytaiment230 2 года назад +25

    I laugh so hard 🤣🤣 when you said Khoobsurati gayi tel lene

  • @GeneralInfoSystem
    @GeneralInfoSystem Год назад +49

    One more thing if you are living with a Narcissist....never ever , ever ever argue them when they are driving a car.... beleive me.

    • @monurajput5608
      @monurajput5608 Год назад +3

      They are also scared of being in a car which is in high speed. Am I right ? They are unnecessary scared of diseases and new viruses too .

    • @laveenagill2182
      @laveenagill2182 Год назад +1

      ​@@monurajput5608 yes same my hubby he is scared from my fever and divorce me

    • @monurajput5608
      @monurajput5608 Год назад

      @@laveenagill2182 Aapko kya fever hai? Aisa aadmi shaadi karne ke layak nahi hai. Aap uske baare mein sochna Abhi band kar do. Mam

    • @omkarpatil1584
      @omkarpatil1584 Год назад +1

      Tera experience bolta hai bhai 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @vasanthar4533
    @vasanthar4533 2 месяца назад +3

    Had a friend like that, never understood about Nacarraisiam.. Now clearly understand this, each n every word is right sir .. Thank you sir!! Am sure this person's father has the same problem.. It's I me myself only.. Silent treatment, insults, jealous, no empathy, sympathy...

    • @PerzinDaruwala
      @PerzinDaruwala 2 месяца назад

      Same here. I too had a similar horrible problem with a narc friend. Same, I had no idea about Narcissism before. I did everything as a Friend for her. But she took advantage of my nice nature. Used me abused me exploited me for her own gain. And ran away like a coward without taking any responsibility.

  • @mayankkhoiwal777
    @mayankkhoiwal777 9 месяцев назад +5

    10:15 Correct they don't want to be sociable.

  • @Desire2know.
    @Desire2know. 2 года назад +85

    It's true sir..I also bear this situation..it's really unbearable situation..too difficult to come out from this type of situation..don't think it's a true love,it's a emotional trap which is so dangerous..

  • @_Keshav_Joshi
    @_Keshav_Joshi 2 года назад +22

    "Khoobsurtii gyi tail lene" That was epic. 😂😂😂

  • @shalinipathak1978
    @shalinipathak1978 Год назад +10

    Thank you for explaining things and the lifel lessons. I enjoyed every minute of ur lecture as well as ur marvelous sense of humour.🙏

  • @drektakhandelwal9666
    @drektakhandelwal9666 Год назад +7

    Absolutely correct....hats off to you ....only victim can appreciate this..thanks for sharing

  • @executiveassistant4571
    @executiveassistant4571 2 года назад +35

    I'm married to such lady, spent 8 years so far. We're blessed with 2 kids. Wife spends her most of the day yelling & beating my son. Every day I feel that I'm nothing and I don't have courage to make things right.

    • @abhimusic9178
      @abhimusic9178 2 года назад +3

      Try to convince her or beat her if she doesn't hears you

    • @shubhikapant5385
      @shubhikapant5385 2 года назад +5

      Leave her permanently and gather some video evidence to get the custody of children.

    • @mikinpin
      @mikinpin 2 года назад

      Log bacchon wale jawab denge ki chor do.. police ke ass jao.... but itna aasan nahi hai... bacchon ki life per jane kaya asar hoga.. or police or law to hamari country mein aisa hai ki .. males ko shadi hi nahi karni chahiye...

    • @ruchikasharma4808
      @ruchikasharma4808 2 года назад +6

      Give it back verbally....they can't take it ......saying it from experience!
      They are cowards actually.
      If she shouts ...shout back louder...but also warn your child about your reaction...keep your son in confidence and tell him why you are doing it.
      So that you don't scar him... otherwise he'll end up thinking that you are both scary or crazy!
      You must call their bluff each time.
      They tend to take over and isolate you from friends and family.
      Take control of the situation now!!
      All the best

    • @executiveassistant4571
      @executiveassistant4571 2 года назад +1

      @@ruchikasharma4808 thanks, your words have a meaning.

  • @bipinpatel8683
    @bipinpatel8683 Год назад +60

    By my own Experience I can suggest solution , read a motivational book 📚 name " Don't Say YES , when You Want To Say NO " by writer Herbert , a Group Psychological Therapist . It worked for me personally and with my personal Experience , one change His Own Life , the book also suggests that One can change himself , not Others in surrounding. Thanks again for analysis .
    Vande Matram , Bharat Mata Ki Jai , Jai Hind .

  • @keepbeingjigyasu
    @keepbeingjigyasu Год назад +2

    Sir m ise jhel rha hu khas bat ki mujhe pta nhi tha k koi problem hai mere sath,,, but apne kitna ache se clear kiya , ,, m yakinan khud pe kam karunga ❤️

  • @SpecialSeed0909
    @SpecialSeed0909 11 месяцев назад +5

    First of All, Very very thanks.... It opened my eyes. I was so shocked by accusations of mistakes I had not made in life that I had suicidal thoughts. I was cut off from every person, thing, and friend close to me by conspiracy. Moreover, my parents were also instigated against me. This information lit up my head. Thank you very much

  • @thehuman2861
    @thehuman2861 2 года назад +101

    My father is a narcissist (diagnosed) and yeah he has destroyed my life so far
    But it also made me stoical and made learn good things, and now I know how to deal with him and get ahead in my life
    Tbh all the pain made me a good person
    If anyone in need, I'm always here ❤️

    • @mayankpanwar5851
      @mayankpanwar5851 2 года назад +8

      Same here bro 😑

    • @yasminejane1308
      @yasminejane1308 2 года назад

      How he ruined your life?

    • @thehuman2861
      @thehuman2861 2 года назад +6

      @@mayankpanwar5851 stay strong bro, don't fight back, narcs won't listen no matter what
      Just make yourself strong

    • @thehuman2861
      @thehuman2861 2 года назад +7

      @@yasminejane1308 well if you were with a narcissist you would know
      I'm in chronic depression cause of him

    • @apexpredator007
      @apexpredator007 2 года назад +6

      @@yasminejane1308 lack of confidence , emotional blackmail, financial blackmail etc. and for more watch the above video carefully everything is explained

  • @shiv8765
    @shiv8765 2 года назад +149

    Now after watching this video I am trying to find out does I'm a narcissist or not.......😂
    Edit: I am just thinking what will happen if two narcissists meet? 🤣🥴☠☠☠

  • @knowledgemania5636
    @knowledgemania5636 10 месяцев назад +3

    Aap bahut achha bolte he aur sahi bolte hai. Mai apki fan ho gayi hu.

  • @Gauri774
    @Gauri774 Год назад +1

    ऐसे लोगो एकदम से नही बनते अगर साइकोलॉजी से देखे तो बचपन से इनको प्यार कि कमी और अकेलापन माता पिता अलगाव ये मेजर फैक्ट हो सकते है। जो जिद्दी होते है बचपन में उन्हे प्रेशराइज किया गिया तो यंग एज में लक्षण और behavoiur हो सकता है। इनसिक्योर इसे लोग बहुत होते है हर चीज़ के लिए उनके फ्यूचर के प्रति।
    सर आपका video बहुत बढ़िया है

  • @devbhardwaj9284
    @devbhardwaj9284 2 года назад +25

    My father is narcissist Iam in 12th class I can't walk away from him because iam not independent
    Par koi na bholenath is with me 🕉️
    1 din sab bhot acha hoga or apni mummy ko bhi is hell se bhar nikalunga .
    I love bhot my parents no hate to them ❤️

  • @afk5979
    @afk5979 2 года назад +36

    It is important for non Psychology students and people to know that u can not diagnos a person just on the basis of these traits. You might see some of these traits in people generally as well but doesn't mean they have a narcissistic personality disorder. If they are your close friends maybe talk to them or refer to a psychologist.

    • @Aj-ju5wt
      @Aj-ju5wt 2 года назад +9

      They lack empathy...this is the biggest trait

    • @Swadhyay_selfStudy
      @Swadhyay_selfStudy Год назад +3

      If we recommend a narcissist to get a therapy implying "there is sth wrong with them and they are not perfect and greatest " they would attack and not accept.. In my opinion and sadly a personal experience

    • @shashi3072
      @shashi3072 6 месяцев назад

      It is unimportant whether non psychologist diagnoses them or not as they don't intend to treat them even if they know. These kind of videos are meant for people who are dealing with a narc personality and are absolutely confused with what's happening to them. They need to know there are more people like them who are suffering and they find community support for themselves. You need to see this not from psychologist pov who intends treat but from pov of a person who is being abused.
      If you are a psychology student you need to know this very well these personalities NEVER go for therapy it's the people around them who need therapy and access it. Precaution is always better.

  • @pradeeptisharma3867
    @pradeeptisharma3867 11 месяцев назад +2

    It's always good to open up to someone gradually n keep analyzing their behavior on every sharing you do. Always believe in actions not just flowery words n praise.

  • @truthmaster4462
    @truthmaster4462 10 месяцев назад +2

    I hope everyone who meets narcissistic people, manages to get away from them. Because every negative needs a positive energy to feed on. And there's just one life. Its hard to identify such people but just know the traits and learn to love yourself. I wish all good people
    who are basically survivors from such hidden trauma cling on to their virtues and live the happy life they deserve!

  • @abhimanyubharadwaj4498
    @abhimanyubharadwaj4498 2 года назад +76

    Hello sir,
    Actually i had relationship with my Exgf
    While i was in relationship
    I studied her behaviour soo well
    In the end i found that she is a narcissicst
    And at that time
    I studied a lot about this behaviour
    And trust me this is really dangerous for
    Our society

    • @manishjawadekar
      @manishjawadekar 2 года назад +8

      @@jhalak831 jab tak logo ko parenting krna nai aayega jab tk narcissist personality disorder rhega logo me...log sirf bache paida krdete hai...unko sahi galat ki pehchan nai karvate.. empathy emotions aakal logo me hai hi nai...boundary kahan par hai logo ko pta hi nai.

    • @thekarma8571
      @thekarma8571 2 года назад

      Me to

    • @krishnakidiwani7571
      @krishnakidiwani7571 2 года назад +4

      Every narcissist isnot dangerous for society.....I was a narcissist but I recovered from this after entering into Spirituality

    • @thedebateroom3410
      @thedebateroom3410 Год назад +4

      @@jhalak831 No, parenting is also a factor including genetic, I suffered a lot currently I am in the process of no contact after ending of 3 yr relationship. I am trying my best to handle this situation but can't succeed she simply move on by shifting all blames on me.

    • @devanshgupta4107
      @devanshgupta4107 Год назад

      @@thedebateroom3410 😢

  • @sakibhussain7378
    @sakibhussain7378 10 месяцев назад +1

    After one month I came back to this channel and I am feeling I'm on right track ,this is one of the best channel I am subscriber of .

  • @anamikadatta3897
    @anamikadatta3897 14 дней назад

    The way u explained the steps a narcissist takes during a relationship, I was literally able to see my past.... Thank God, it's over

  • @sanjayarya1664
    @sanjayarya1664 2 года назад +16

    Yes, Sigmund Freud has explained this in details....In his deep psychoanalytic work....

  • @monideepakalita482
    @monideepakalita482 Год назад +7

    I too faced 2 narcissist individuals .They used to interfere in my personal life and I used to feel uneasy and I felt as if slowly trying to control me.I mustered courage and I quarrelled with them.I taught both of them good lesson.Both are my cousins.Lateron I came in contact with a clinical psychology student who explained me about it.

  • @poojamehtachandra6023
    @poojamehtachandra6023 5 месяцев назад +2

    Whatever you have quoted in this video is 100 thousand % true.... 👍👍👍👍👍👍

  • @lucifermorningstar2441
    @lucifermorningstar2441 Год назад +6

    I have narcissistic personality disorder . Totally Relatable ❤😢.

  • @karanjk3048
    @karanjk3048 2 года назад +21

    You told 100%truth about that type of people sir 👍 I have passed through

  • @ltp
    @ltp 2 года назад +19

    You are right, silence treatment is killing, when you are innocent. Before jumping into any relationship, know that person properly & give relationship time. Write their good & bad points, ignoring little things as nobody is perfect. Time will tell you their true colors.

    • @Boring_Life444
      @Boring_Life444 10 месяцев назад

      This was happened to me.before month .it's very painful 🥺silent treatment was very horrible 😢.but thank God i decided to leave that person...

  • @sonubisht4475
    @sonubisht4475 Год назад +2

    My god thanku sir aj bhut se sawalo ke jwab mile hai mujhe aur thnks to god jinhone mujhe ek bhut bdi prblm se bhr nikal diya

  • @enakhirai7104
    @enakhirai7104 10 месяцев назад +11

    Great analysis,very accurate and very well explained 😊

  • @ritikasingh5085
    @ritikasingh5085 2 года назад +112

    Sir after watching your lecture I got flashes of my relationship...it was exactly the same like you said like every single thing. From a happy girl i became a girl with so much sadness and no one except him to talk , i lost about 7 kg of my weight at that time due to diff sort of abuse ....
    But thr good part is that i ended that relationship two years ago and thigs are much better now in my life but i still get alot of flashes of those days

    • @aks491
      @aks491 2 года назад +4

      This is the same story of my life

    • @pallikarazdansingh7862
      @pallikarazdansingh7862 2 года назад +6

      Same here sis..I fell sick too.. he also made me aloof and tried to cut off my ties with my friends, I had only him to talk to. Luckily I ended that relationship too years back bit sometimes flashback comes too but thankfully I'm over him and now I'm with a very nice guy who treats me well.

    • @ANKURKUMAR-ti3hy
      @ANKURKUMAR-ti3hy 2 года назад +3

      Do daily yoga and consider your physical health

    • @ritikasingh5085
      @ritikasingh5085 2 года назад +6

      @Cylinders truck and let me correct you i used to give him the money because his fam condition wasn't good.
      And lets not go to the physical apperarance as he was normal and i was completely okay with it.

    • @pallikarazdansingh7862
      @pallikarazdansingh7862 2 года назад +10

      @Cylinders truck no man its not always like that it can be with anyone with normal looks and who's your friend and known person..anyone can develop this personality trait, problem with narcissistic isn't looks but their fake charm that they entice other people with, you tend to believe that he or she is the most genuine and honest person until they show their true colors.

  • @mahadevsawant1456
    @mahadevsawant1456 2 года назад +21

    I am narcissist
    I admit
    But now i am changed
    But before 4 yrs
    I was extremely narcisst
    Even i have destroy a life
    Because he bullied me for 2 yrs in 10th standard And 9th standard
    Now I reshaped his life by helping him
    And today he and me are good friends.

    • @azrabatool6549
      @azrabatool6549 2 года назад

      Hello plz tell me how

    • @gudusahu3642
      @gudusahu3642 2 года назад

      Narrsist don't change
      You were bad person you did mistake in past
      Could be Very bad mistake in lack of knowledge and sympathy now that you are change so you are making right choice .
      People change from good to bad and good to bad .
      Narcissist is evil being you not know it's not human thing

    • @krishnakidiwani7571
      @krishnakidiwani7571 2 года назад +1

      I was also a narcissist but after entering into Spirituality, I recovered from that illness....Now,I am a normal person,I can feel empathy for others and also I help others.....Doing Meditation,reading religious texts and praying to God helped me to recover this illness

  • @sypriyayadav1664
    @sypriyayadav1664 4 месяца назад +1

    Yes exactly i suffered..all behaviour are similar in him...thanku sir..

  • @skbablu6374
    @skbablu6374 11 месяцев назад +3

    This is the most favourite video of my life ,,lots of love Siddhant sir ♥️

  • @sanchitasubedi3684
    @sanchitasubedi3684 2 года назад +8

    I am dealing with narcissist and trust me they will make your life hell. I have suffered so much since i met the guy i went to depression for the first time in my life.

  • @ayushkumar2915
    @ayushkumar2915 2 года назад +6

    That's what a great legend say " bulati hai magar Jane ka nhi"

  • @Aditya-ib8vz
    @Aditya-ib8vz Год назад +2

    Ohh apne bahot sahen kiya
    God bless you

  • @AbhishekSingh-ep7jy
    @AbhishekSingh-ep7jy Год назад +1

    True and Even now a days common ,such people make life hell of their Relatives,friends etc.
    Govt. Needs to certify such people so that innocent people can be saved.

  • @meenakshisingh2890
    @meenakshisingh2890 Год назад +13

    One of the most dangerous things to ever happen to anyone. Your analysis is to the point sir.

  • @meditationhub7610
    @meditationhub7610 2 года назад +12

    You explained my ex-husband to the tee. Left him in 6 months now i am very very happy. 😌😌

  • @dr.raghumohan5107
    @dr.raghumohan5107 Год назад +3

    Excellent siddhanth, wonderful analysis ...
    Society and life will do the treatment ...

  • @LalVarsha-ll2gf
    @LalVarsha-ll2gf Год назад +1

    Aapne to mere muh ki baat chin li... Ekdum sahi.. Kaha

  • @niteshpanjwani8196
    @niteshpanjwani8196 2 года назад +20

    My ex was narcissist. What narcissist do is that they Gaslight you. They manipulate you with their words and take you away from your family so that you are under their control. They will show you mean world to them but in reality all they love is themselves. Finally, when they are done with you they ghost you and leave you alone.

  • @parveenkumar-xo4lh
    @parveenkumar-xo4lh 2 года назад +8

    It seems the creator has suffered it. May God make everyone strong to tackle such narcissists.

  • @Loksewa.646
    @Loksewa.646 Год назад +1

    आत्म - मुग्धता बहुत खतरनाक बाबू भैया...

  • @vinitanaik3079
    @vinitanaik3079 Год назад +1

    Lucid,comprehensive knowledgeable talk.complete analysis n exlorative

  • @DineshJoshiOriginal
    @DineshJoshiOriginal 2 года назад +33

    fun fact : video dekhne wale har kisi ko koi doosra vyakti hi narcissist dikh raha hai....
    Koi ek bhi aisa nahi hai jo ye accept kar sake ki wo khud narcissist ho sakta hai...
    jabki is video ko dekhne wale bohot se log to khud hi narcissist honge....
    apne ex partner ko kosne ka achchha bahaana mil gya logon ko...
    jabki reality me ultaa hi huva hoga...

    • @aficionado2960
      @aficionado2960 2 года назад +5

      This is True .....
      .Infact every one has some percentage of Narcissistic behaviour but hame hi dusre galat dikhai dete hai
      ये ही द्वंद है संसार का ...The duality of this material world ....
      Infact everyone is patient but trying to be doctors for others

    • @VENOM-tx6gp
      @VENOM-tx6gp 2 года назад +3

      I am a narcissist
      I am searching different videos on narcissism to find whats wrong with me so that i can fix things 🙂

    • @Fraction4543
      @Fraction4543 2 года назад

      I agree

    • @manishchandrajiit
      @manishchandrajiit 2 года назад +2

      @@VENOM-tx6gp good luck!!

    • @nitvideo3599
      @nitvideo3599 2 года назад

      Sab hai thoda thoda sabme ye personality disorder hai 👍🏻👍🏻

  • @anonymoustr6957
    @anonymoustr6957 2 года назад +37

    I've been in such a relationship for 7 years. And leaving out first 1-2 year, rest of the time I felt like I was trapped for most of the time. Even though I was unhappy I couldn't just leave. Once I left her and stayed for a month or two, then she threatened me of suicide so I agreed to patch up. Again in 2020 while I was preparing for State pcs, she again started causing problems so I took the courage to leave. That break up attempt continued till December 2021 and now finally she's gone.
    10:42 se jo bhi bataya sir ne, 80% matching hai to my ex.
    I still feel a bit pity on her for her such behaviour because it must've been because she faced too much childhood trauma. But its not my duty to fix her.

    • @riteshkurhade3624
      @riteshkurhade3624 2 года назад +5

      (It's not my duty to fix her) ye badiya tha guru
      Sahi kaha aapne 👍💫🌟

    • @universalsister5225
      @universalsister5225 Год назад

      It's our collective duty to fix them 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @EaglesEyes6354
    @EaglesEyes6354 Год назад

    Wow sir app sach mein bahut sahi batha rahe hon!!!! Maine apni husband ki isi nature se bohot harassment jheli hain.... And this absolutely matches with his disorder and nature. I'm a narcissist survivor. Not just my husband, my father is also a narcissist!!! And yes mardo main bahut zyada paayi jaathi hain! Very well explained!
    Arey yaaaaaaaarr yeh attention wala problem ufff.... inke aur inke victim ke dimaag me bus yehi hon, aur kuch bhi nahin literally! Kuch bhi nahi bas yehi akele hon inke victim ke dimaag mein.
    Aur CHARMING?! 😲 Ooh god! SABKE SAAMNE ITHNE ACCHE OMG BHAGWAN KO BHI DOUBT AA JAYE , KI YEH KAUN HAIN? AUR GHAR MEIN JHO THA WOH KAUN THA? OH GOD! 😱 AISE BHAGWAN HI SOCH MEIN PADH JAAYE.... Uff.
    Aur inke victim ko degrade karne ke, matlab confidence low karne ke liye ye narcissist kisi bhi hadh Tak gir jathe hain! Aur one must be very careful that narcissist ke another mind game GAS LIGHTING this is extremely dangerous for the victim because, it makes the victim believe the reality the narcissist has designed and forced them and all the world to believe which makes everyone believe (coz of their charm) staight away, what the narcissist says and not even perceive the reality straight that happens infront of their own eyes. This isolates the victim even from their dear ones and makes them alone to bear narcissist's torture! These psychopaths are that capable of make one to doubt their own self who has complete awareness on the reality and their own self. Victims have a great fight with their own mind that 'what they have to believe and what actually happened?!' God this could mentally disturbs a person!!!!! Main ne suicide attempt bhi ki hain mere husband ki torture ki wajah se.
    Just get rid of such people. It's the only best way!

  • @forture681
    @forture681 Год назад +4

    Thank you so much for this lecture
    This will help me a lot

  • @nehasrivastava2172
    @nehasrivastava2172 2 года назад +37

    Sir you discussed on very important lesson.. I feel like every single other person today is stuck with such a narcissistic & don't know how to get rid of these people.

  • @resymrinal4141
    @resymrinal4141 2 года назад +8

    Thankyou for discussing this topic which people need to be aware about for their mental health...These people are so MANUPULATIVE that one can't even imagine..They can even cry into tears or get mad in the name of love or care.. just to keep you in your life so that they can use you in every possbile way.
    Only a narissistic victim knows how emotionally drained they feel being with them and don't even realise the reason behind it..
    This video would be a great help.

  • @pramilakc2803
    @pramilakc2803 Год назад +1

    What a true said I have lot of experience omg ...please need more 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻😊

  • @immanuelthetruth2417
    @immanuelthetruth2417 Год назад +2

    Thankyou sir mai bhi aisey ek do k sath fasa hua tha par ab nikal chuka hoo aur aaj apney achey sey explain bhi kar diye sara confusion dur hogaya

    • @mohdtalimkhan8340
      @mohdtalimkhan8340 3 месяца назад +1

      Awere kro Mai bhi nikla hu

    • @immanuelthetruth2417
      @immanuelthetruth2417 3 месяца назад

      @@mohdtalimkhan8340 samaj sakta hoo bro zindagi jahanum sey kam nai lagti aur aware tho kar sakta hoo lekin aisey log apney cheherey pe mukkhota lagaye raktey hai

  • @Off_The_Record_
    @Off_The_Record_ 2 года назад +47

    This is what I love most about the siddhant sir...
    He teaches life lesson which is more important in today era.. ♥️🙏
    Keep it up sir ji..

  • @sarkarinaukar9658
    @sarkarinaukar9658 2 года назад +8

    the facts mentioned here are exactly what i am experiencing in my family, one family member, female, is ruining the entire family and she is exactly like this..

  • @geetamehra902
    @geetamehra902 Год назад +1

    By God you are 100 percent right.Difficult to live with a family where all the people are in the same boat.I am normal and get v.confused with others behaviour.Thanks.

  • @jaijas8733
    @jaijas8733 26 дней назад +1

    Yes very true. Thanks for this video. But when i suffered it for 11 yrs nd very shockingly i remained alive, there was no smart phones n net and any information about it. It was every minute a scariest nightmare . I was not knowing it or what to do. It was my husband who was the scariest man i had ever seen. Now separated for 3 yrs but i left with extreme body pain bcz of wounds he gave from head to toe , emotionally i m broken , i developed low bp, anxiety, panic attacks ... Was on pain killers for 11 yrs. So i m just alive not living. Better i cud died. Now living with sister and mother as have no choice and facing same kind of behaviour in sister n mother also. Aagin in same pain. 😢 . Its not exactly like my husband's but in different way its also very painful. I wonder why people r like this or becoming like this. I cud die any time with his cruel attempts many times in 11 yrs. Its HELL we can face alive.