He always claimed to be so honest and direct but he always ommitted things or kept silent when i asked him about things. Now it makes sense….. in HIS head he was honest. Cause he didnt say it out loud…
Always hiding something, but they do it so much that they either can't keep up with the details or forget others are a liability to the lies. I caught my nex in a lie by omission because he failed to mention he and the now new supply hung out when I asked why he'd gotten distant. He blamed it on work and being busy with a project. When I questioned the picture she posted of them to social media (he didn't know she posted), he spiraled into a "poor me" tangent. We broke up the next day.
It's empowering that you were able to see through the lies and prioritize your well-being. Trusting your instincts and setting boundaries are crucial in navigating relationships. Keep focusing on your growth and happiness. You deserve positivity and honesty in your life.
Man, I am SO grateful for you. Thank you so much for creating this channel. You are helping me emotionally and psychologically heal and understand the things I didn’t understand.
The most hurtful because of how on intentioned. I thin she had my phase and her husband’s lined up ready to go and just went through everyone one guy at a time.
Good Video Ben. Do 1 next on how... Doing nothing can be Neglect. Seinfeld's final episodes confirm and display how they even created "Megan's Law" to prevent it...
@@marthaforbes5597It's a law that was adopted in many diversified areas of the world including the U.S and was set in place after Princess Die was killed in her limo and people just stood around not trying to help her but taking pictures instead doing nothing. The law was devised and installed to combat the alarming growth and acceptance of Narcissism into our culture. Narcissists use neglect as 1 of their most serious forms of abuse they can utilize against their victims and it's the hardest to pin down and prosecute with their old "But I didn't do anything" routine. Seinfeld and crew used that very tactic saying, "But we didn't do anything" to their Arresting Officer to which he replied....."That's right you didn't and thats why you re being arrested. Come with me."
@@The_MimSo? So what? Ben is a young and growing upcoming channel and needs all the support he can get. RUclips measures activity more than likes. So I always try to look active on his channel responding right back and giving "Return" likes. I've even often been thru combat for Ben fighting that freaking "Algo" like David fought Goliath. It plagues everything I do on his channel. Other channels too. Ben has a metric ton to teach people if they will just sit down and listen. He should easily have a million subscribers already. Danielle Radins another 1. Shes dynamite. Bulletproof Doctrine but few ears. And that's sad. I try to help her all I can for the exact same reasons. Either 1 of these 2 ever founder and quit, a lot of people in need will suffer needlessly. It's like real medicine being right in front of a dying man but he won't take it and dies anyway.
And to him he was being honest because he was telling the truth so in his head he was clear. That is the craziest bulshit ever "yeah I went to my mom's today I went and cut the grass ....but I'll leave out the part when I stop by Trina's house and got some sex and then I went to the other girl's house and just spoon with her cuz she's the new supply.😂😂
Narcissist: "I want what I want, when I want, where I want, and with whom I want, now. What is mine, is mine; what is yours, is mine. The means justify the means." A totally bankrupt soul of a leech will suck out your life blood and soul if you let them. I let them until I became awake to my own dying process.
I would call it half truth, He would get mad when I said that, I always knew it was there I just never said anything until the end about the half-truth.
To be honest. If you want to know everything all the time and find out the ugly truth….. nobody will date, love and trust. There are some things you need to know and there are some things you shouldn’t know for your own sanity.
Have you considered what your next steps should be on your healing path? Discover the right tools to escape toxic relationships and gain clarity, certainty, and confidence by visiting: www.rawmotivations.com/breakthrough.
Lied like a rug. Then, felt soooooper sorry for himself that he was such a bad, bad, man. He'd just wallow in shame and I felt sooo sorry for him, until two decades in I learned about some of the lies. Then, snap, and he'd tell me he was basically 'a happy guy.' [And I was a threat to his natural happy state]. And mostly, as long as the supply was rolling in, he was pretty happy. I'm a veteran teacher of 30 years who can read most people like a road map. I could not tell when he was lying.
There are many times I don't share with my husband a lot of things because he doesn't know when to be silent. I'm not going to gossip by sharing with HIM (of all people) anything that is told to me in confidence. Would THAT be considered lying??? Because if it is, well, I'm going to have to still keep things from him. He makes things about HIM. Thanks for your insight and encouraging us how to deal with narcs.
My FIL stole puctures from my dad. These are photos of my dad playing with my kids. My FIL, who I've blocked and am low contact with, is presenting photos someone else took to make him seem like he's an involved grandparent.
Lying: willfully and knowingly giving false information in order to fool someone. Omitting: not saying a thing, keeping silent. lying by omission objectively speaking isn't real
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Half truths were worse than outright lies since they took longer to get to the bottom of truth!
Thank you for another reminder why I would never want to be with my ex. It was one big lie after another. Disgusting.
Thank you, he said if i don't say anything then i am not guilty . Wow
Ah, yes! OMISSION! The gift that keeps on giving!
He always claimed to be so honest and direct but he always ommitted things or kept silent when i asked him about things. Now it makes sense….. in HIS head he was honest. Cause he didnt say it out loud…
"If you don't have trust then you don't have a relationship." Bingo!
Always hiding something, but they do it so much that they either can't keep up with the details or forget others are a liability to the lies. I caught my nex in a lie by omission because he failed to mention he and the now new supply hung out when I asked why he'd gotten distant. He blamed it on work and being busy with a project. When I questioned the picture she posted of them to social media (he didn't know she posted), he spiraled into a "poor me" tangent. We broke up the next day.
It's empowering that you were able to see through the lies and prioritize your well-being. Trusting your instincts and setting boundaries are crucial in navigating relationships. Keep focusing on your growth and happiness. You deserve positivity and honesty in your life.
…”you didn’t ask” that was a phrase he actually used a lot…Thanks Ben💚
I honestly didn’t wanna be right about what I as seeing. It’s bitter sweet.
Always on point
The secretive behaviour.
BINGO….soooooo true…uuug even so…..but SOOOO TRUE.
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Man, I am SO grateful for you. Thank you so much for creating this channel. You are helping me emotionally and psychologically heal and understand the things I didn’t understand.
You're very welcome!
I think timing is also important some can be put in a situation where they are not aware
Thanks for sharing this
The most hurtful because of how on intentioned. I thin she had my phase and her husband’s lined up ready to go and just went through everyone one guy at a time.
She also cheated on me way while technically not but really by a normal definition it was cheating it was planned and involves lies.
Yes
Exactly the video I needed. Thank you
You're so welcome! Have you looked at our 7 day challenge? www.rawmotivations.com/escape-toxicity-home
Yes indeed but also you need to understand that it can be done to others to. This to the guilty defends their postion while extorting influence.
Good Video Ben. Do 1 next on how... Doing nothing can be Neglect. Seinfeld's final episodes confirm and display how they even created "Megan's Law" to prevent it...
This hasn't even played yet
Curious what's Megan's law?
@@marthaforbes5597It's a law that was adopted in many diversified areas of the world including the U.S and was set in place after Princess Die was killed in her limo and people just stood around not trying to help her but taking pictures instead doing nothing. The law was devised and installed to combat the alarming growth and acceptance of Narcissism into our culture. Narcissists use neglect as 1 of their most serious forms of abuse they can utilize against their victims and it's the hardest to pin down and prosecute with their old "But I didn't do anything" routine. Seinfeld and crew used that very tactic saying, "But we didn't do anything" to their Arresting Officer to which he replied....."That's right you didn't and thats why you re being arrested. Come with me."
@@The_MimSo? So what? Ben is a young and growing upcoming channel and needs all the support he can get. RUclips measures activity more than likes. So I always try to look active on his channel responding right back and giving "Return" likes. I've even often been thru combat for Ben fighting that freaking "Algo" like David fought Goliath. It plagues everything I do on his channel. Other channels too. Ben has a metric ton to teach people if they will just sit down and listen. He should easily have a million subscribers already. Danielle Radins another 1. Shes dynamite. Bulletproof Doctrine but few ears. And that's sad. I try to help her all I can for the exact same reasons. Either 1 of these 2 ever founder and quit, a lot of people in need will suffer needlessly. It's like real medicine being right in front of a dying man but he won't take it and dies anyway.
@@Imnotyourdoormat I've been watching Ben since he first began lol.
And to him he was being honest because he was telling the truth so in his head he was clear. That is the craziest bulshit ever "yeah I went to my mom's today I went and cut the grass ....but I'll leave out the part when I stop by Trina's house and got some sex and then I went to the other girl's house and just spoon with her cuz she's the new supply.😂😂
Friend lied by omission of things whilst accusing me of the things he was omitting. Aka, he was a hypocrite and engaging in insidious crazy making
That’s not a friend
I didn’t ask him. I told him he was cheating.
Narcissist: "I want what I want, when I want, where I want, and with whom I want, now. What is mine, is mine; what is yours, is mine. The means justify the means." A totally bankrupt soul of a leech will suck out your life blood and soul if you let them. I let them until I became awake to my own dying process.
That’s wonderful.
Thanks for sharing once again. Someday I’ll be financially independent again and be able to take the course you offer. Deb J. Wilkes (Stolfus)
I would call it half truth, He would get mad when I said that, I always knew it was there I just never said anything until the end about the half-truth.
To be honest. If you want to know everything all the time and find out the ugly truth….. nobody will date, love and trust. There are some things you need to know and there are some things you shouldn’t know for your own sanity.
Have you considered what your next steps should be on your healing path? Discover the right tools to escape toxic relationships and gain clarity, certainty, and confidence by visiting: www.rawmotivations.com/breakthrough.
Lied like a rug. Then, felt soooooper sorry for himself that he was such a bad, bad, man. He'd just wallow in shame and I felt sooo sorry for him, until two decades in I learned about some of the lies. Then, snap, and he'd tell me he was basically 'a happy guy.' [And I was a threat to his natural happy state]. And mostly, as long as the supply was rolling in, he was pretty happy. I'm a veteran teacher of 30 years who can read most people like a road map. I could not tell when he was lying.
There are many times I don't share with my husband a lot of things because he doesn't know when to be silent. I'm not going to gossip by sharing with HIM (of all people) anything that is told to me in confidence. Would THAT be considered lying??? Because if it is, well, I'm going to have to still keep things from him. He makes things about HIM. Thanks for your insight and encouraging us how to deal with narcs.
Ahh, the lies by omission - the unspoken language of a narc😑
Yep. I had to learn to listen to my gut when I was uncomfortable but did not have words to explain it to myself. Go with your gut.
"Lies by omission - the unspoken language of a narc" Literally! You nailed it!
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💯 there is nothing….
You are so awesome 🕊️❤️🩹
You too!!
I’m not in a relationship with the person but a friendship
Wow
My FIL stole puctures from my dad. These are photos of my dad playing with my kids. My FIL, who I've blocked and am low contact with, is presenting photos someone else took to make him seem like he's an involved grandparent.
Okay I need to breathe
Smh
This is my husband’s M.O.
Lying: willfully and knowingly giving false information in order to fool someone.
Omitting: not saying a thing, keeping silent.
lying by omission objectively speaking isn't real