9:24 As a trans man who regularly has his testosterone levels checked, this is especially funny to me... because if your testosterone levels get TOO high, your body converts the excess into estrogen. This is why athletes who use steroids can develop breast tissue!
Hey I'm sorry for bringing up this question but about testosterone, it's NOT true that it makes people aggressive right? I keep seeing these videos about doctors telling transgender patients that they'd regret it because it would make them aggressive. I don't believe they're true but I just want to know. Do they say that to make people think testosterone is bad?
@@zweetsouffle9567 IDK about aggressive but it did make me a bit more emotional, like touchy, at first. That went away after a while. Think of it like how anyone would feel going through puberty - that's literally what it's like, second puberty!
@@Arcane_Archer I appreciate your reply, thank you. I haven't started testosterone myself and wondered if there's something somebody would already know who's taking testosterone that I don't. Getting use to hormonal change is one thing but when I see these stories about testosterone making people aggressive... It's really odd. (I'm trans myself. However I'm not in a safe environment to start testosterone or anything else of the sort.)
Seriously?? That’s fucking unhinged! They are your wife! You married her because you love her for her! She’s not your pet! People will always continue to surprise me with how idiotic they are @@alexr2172
i get absolutely terrified my son will end up like this bc of this bs on EVERY social media app i obvi dont teach him to be an ass but like, the internet might 😭😭😭
The insecurity is just OOZING from these guys, and it’s so obvious why they focus on young, impressionable kids. No adult with an iota of critical thinking would be convinced of anything by these guys.
@RolyWestYT oh I think they do. It's why they only really appeal to either very young men or very unsuccessful, frustrated men who are angry at women and society, and want to blame us for their situation instead of looking inwards. These men KNOW their content is appealing to people in the incel community, because they are the only types who actually believe the crap and believe the world is actually like this. Its sad.
Okay, if women are sharks then the 'blood in the water' we smell and attack isn't emotion. It's bullshit and toxicity and attacking that isn't wrong, it's in our nature to weed out bad behavior. I am a shark and proud.
These people are almost always yelling in some capacity and it makes me feel uncomfortable. Like they legitimately think screaming their opinions like a baby would scream makes them manly. Obsurd.
It’s interesting that Alpha says piercings and tattoos are low class. Don’t you have to invest a shit ton of money into them. It’s a luxury to have body mods lol
Especially high quality ones, you can usually very easily TELL when people have spent a ton of money on their body modifications based on how they look. It’s hard to find people with great art on them that didn’t spend much on it, I won’t tell it’s impossible, but you can usually easily spot cheap ass tattoos from expensive artwork (and I say it being someone that has every range of price of tattoos on them lol).
And most of the guys saying "Piercings are low class"...Have piercings. 🤷♀️ 🤨 🤷♂️... It's all about wanting to be the only one doing something because someone else might steal their thunder and look better. 🙄
he's more talking in a first impression and professional setting ngl id be thrown off a bit if im first meeting someone and they had a bunch of piercings on their face on a first encounter a lot of hetero women out there like tattoos and piercings but there is such a thing as too much with people also he is actually married and encourages men not to be possessive and clingy like the rest of the unmarried "alpha dudes" is it low class its to which their own there but if a young man is having a lot of piercings on his face trying to say settle down or find something long term he is going to have a much harder time than some one not pierced
ehh not necessarily just because someone has high quality stuff doesnt mean they have your life in order ive seen people own things like gucci coach and Yeezus but can never afford pay their rent or bills and have terrible credit
Whats funny is when people remain silent after an “alpha male” finishes his piece, he thinks he won the argument when in fact he just dumbfounded the people around him to the point of silence.
Precisely!!! My dad is like these dudes in that way. Absolute nonsensical word vomit & then "haha, your silence means that you know I'm right, but you won't admit it!"
“men used to go to wars!” ok there are a couple of wars going on right now around the world. if they love it so much maybe they should just go to them . jeez
Having a child gives them a sense of power, a person they can control and "discipline" as they see fit and the kid will have no power to object... Parents like that suck, I publicly disowned mine when I was 16, got beat at home and moved out next day.
Children are a blessing and should be protected at all costs, I didn't come from riches and we're far from riches even though I work full time, my children never go without but also aren't spoilt, we all respect each other and are grateful for what we have.
@@space_cadet04...No honey! But a divorce lawyer should... I don't know your situation, but if OP described your husband enough to make you ask someone to talk to him...Run! 🏃
Oh my god, seriously. My dad does this all the time. For instance, he’ll buy me gifts when I didn’t ask for anything, then he’ll complain that I’m a LEECH and i suck all his money away.
My partner worked at a movie theatre over the summer and there were some teen boys there who followed this way of life, Andrew Tate alpha male talk... ended up harrassing one of the teen girls and she went to my partner for help. Poor girl feared being around them because of the way they talked to her and acted like she was a prize to be won.
But doesn't she know that being a girl is "life on easy mode"?! (🤢 That's disgusting. I'm glad your partner was able to help her, even for a little while.)
"These three items will make you look MANLY and MASCULINE!" Proceeds to list items that I only ever wore before I knew I was a trans man and was desperately trying to fit in with cis girls.
My 12 year old son does love watching you and Luxeria. Every time you guys say you hate kids, he’s like, “Yeah, I hate kids as well!” And I side eye him so hard.
As a trans guy its always so fucking funny watching alpha males and such talk about testosterone cause yes I do know my exact testosterone levels I test them monthly lmao But also if you produce more testosterone you start converting it into estrogen so having waaay more testosterone would make them have more estrogen (it can get to the point that it starts going backwards hence why I keep testing my T so I don't go backwards in my transition lmao)
I'm a cis woman, and my body produces too much testosterone so I have to be on meds to balance my body. If following trends could lower testosterone I should have tried that years ago 😂
Testosteron levels are no indicator of masculine behavior. When I was about 12 yo I got mine checked. Turned out it‘s higher than usual which did not make me an alpha male but rather just had me losing my hair at age 18. Also, the manly man hormones did‘t make me less gay. Surprise, surpriiiise. ✨
"Showing emotions like bleeding next to a shark" Who hurt these men?! Like seriously there is so much spritual damage in these individuals i truly hope theyay fond peace and not have to think these ways forever its sorta sad.
I know the "video games are bad" idea is stupid, but the idea of these guys convincing people who want to be alpha bros to not be in my online games sounds good to me 😂😂
I love that these men are telling other men what's attractive but it's just from their perspective so they're literally just trying to be validated and get approval from other men.
this happens all the time, it's actually wild. it's so prevalent that men will go out of their way to tell a woman she dosen't know what she's attracted to or accuse her of lying because he can't fathom that women all have differing tastes and we are a lot more attracted to feminine men, as well as "feminine traits" in men than they think. I dress in hyper-feminine fashion and I have many physical and mental traits that are associated with women traditionally, and I am very attracted to "traditionally feminine" qualities and also looks!
I used to be soaked up by some of this awful shit, I was fucking miserable feeling like I had to follow so much. When I started being more comfortable with myself, that’s when I was able to find true happiness. I’m not fully out yet but I’m making progress. You and other RUclipsrs have helped me so much on this journey I have been on, love you Roly 😊
I'm glad you are moving past it, these "alpha males" aren't trying to help anyone, they are appealing to a particular market of men and lining their own pockets. It must have been absolutely exhausting constantly worrying about doing this and that, how you look, act etc that you must do this to be successful.. ugh these videos are exhausting to watch let alone follow. What's frustrating is if these men just acted like themselves, they would be far happier and more successful in all aspects of their life, these men act like they know how we think as women and what we want, and they just don't. It doesn't matter if someone is gay or not, we aren't going to date someone who is fake, and basically being a character, we just want an authentic person, I would much rather a nervous guy just walk up to me and blurt out that they are super nervous and wanted to be all cool like but that isnt them, but theu wanted to get to know me, not act like Andrew tate. The worst videos I've seen are when men who are clearly not successful dating wise pretend they are, and then make videos talking about how we think, feel and act. There's a video you can find of a guy who hired this woman to stand in so he could show off his moves and I dont think I've ever seen a woman regret signing up for it as much as she did and man she TRIED to look how he wanted her too but he was so bad it hurt to watch.
@@saarumaa9805 thank you! It has taken me YEARS to finally accept myself. I have known that I wasn’t straight since I was 9, and I turn 20 in about a month. I honestly get ashamed of myself for taking this long sometimes. Videos like these have gave me the confidence in myself to laugh at how stupid these concepts of gender norms are.
@@flute5764...I'm proud of you! 😎... Loving yourself is the best way to get others to love you because they will feel inspired by your positivity. 👍✌️👍
@@-belue-6697 yes it is, many people have had told me this and during my darkest days, I used to ignore that advice. Now I have realized that should be something we all live by. Edit: grammar mistake
I have grown so tired of this behaviour I can’t even find it in me anymore to respond to or argue with men like this. I tried but quickly realized a lot of them are a lost cause, so I do my best ignoring these men (and the occasional woman)
Yup, I used to think it was a “they’re too ignorant and lack common sense” thing. Once you actually interact with such ppl you start to understand that no matter how much you try to educate them, giving them statistics, scientific research, history, ect you realize they just choose to be delusional
Yeah, woman who hate men or think woman should bow down to men and stay in the kitchen are just as toxic. 😬... Both extremes are toxic no matter what gender you are.
@@chesiresaysthat's often, not always but often the case. in a world with so much correct, sensible information at your fingertips, it is a choice to follow these beliefs.
As a strong, outspoken woman, I would love to be a guest on one of those 'alpha male' shows. I've noticed they almost always have younger, quiet, polite type women on there so they can steamroll them. They wouldn't know what to do with someone who knows their sh*t and will fight back.
I started getting tattoos and piercings about 12 years ago bc i was married to an “alpha” male. He never in six years bought me a gift bc he said he gave me two children and those were my gifts. He wouldn’t let me dye my hair anything but a natural color, couldn’t cut it short, no tattoos or piercings, made to quit my job and claim bankruptcy. All so he could control me. Including what i ate. My grandfather was dying and made me promise to get out. He left me his mobile home to sell to pay for a down payment on a place and a vehicle. It’s exactly what i did. I’m now disabled due to chronic illness and i live in excruciating pain. Tattoos are a way for me to have control in something. It also releases endorphins that remind me what it was like to live pain free a decade ago. My SO of 12 yrs is nothing but supportive and has never told me what i can or cannot do with my body.
I vaguely remember an account, I don't remember if it was on TikTok or if it was videos at all, but he made content appealing to the "alpha male" aesthetic but with ACTUAL good advice. He said things like "alpha males make the people around them feel safe, because that's what it means to be alpha" and that kinda stuff. He was also very trans positive and iirc a feminist as well. It was like an account trying to get these teenage boys away from the Andrew Taint copies and give them actual life advice and confidence.
I saw a clip on shorts that sounded like that. It started with the girl passed out on the couch, and the person making the video was this big buff bro with a tight t-shirt. And he starts out saying I'll show you what a real man does when he finds a woman like this. And then he goes and gets a blanket and a pillow and he rolls her on her side so that she throws up she won't choke and then he covers her up with a blanket. He says that's what a real man does. Or similar. So it takes like these videos and turns it on its head into something wholesome.
I love how the copycat guy’s contradictory second statement was like a projection on kids that do what he did when he was their age, because secretly he knows it’s pathetic and he feels pathetic. He just forgot that he had already told his origin story at one point 😅
My brother follows the Alpha Male Bible and its so cringe. Sure he has gained some success in his life but he looks so tired and so old and he's younger than me. I can smell his insecurity from a mile away as well. The micro managing, the anxiety that he would be perceived as weak, the constant having to prove his worth through external actions and things, its quite sad. I'm just happy that he hasn't told his wife that she has to stay at home and take care of the babies or (from what I know) controls what she posts online.
You know these men are kind of miracles. I didn't know human beings could survive with 0 brain cells. I didn't know you could walk around with nothing piloting your body. That's insane. Who knew, eh?
"social media is a cancer" hold up buddy....isnt that how youre making your money rn? The maths not mathin Also gotta love the "copying is only okay when its beneficial to me" mentality
The whole class thing is just ridiculous. My parents didn't care for tattoos or piercings and my Dad always joked and said they were were stupid but never said anything about class or anyone else with them for that matter just joked with me about mine but supported me in whatever I wanted to do regardless. One day one of his "upper-class " intellectual friends said to him, "your daughter sure has a lot of tattoos huh?" Must be disappointing. My Dad without skipping a beat replied; "at least I know where my daughter is." Which a a low blow my Dad would normally not make to anyone especially to someone who didn't have a relationship with their child, but it really outraged him that someone would love or not love their child because of tattoos was awful. These guys are just so insecure and judge people because of and based upon in their own insecurities.
The weird thing is tattoo's used to be a symbol of being upperclass in Victorian times... until the tattoo machine was invented in 1891 and then everyone was able to afford them (like they could just walk into a tattoo studio to get them, rather than pay a traditional tattoo-ist to spend an extortionate amount of time making an art piece), then suddenly the upperclass decided they were now a symbol of being of lower class because they wanted to establish themselves away from the "plebs".
How to walk like an alpha is stolen! I got the exact same advice in my women's self defense class. The idea is to LOOK confident, so you're less likely to be attacked. Are any of these guys even a little bit okay?
This is the kind of video I’d love to see a Roly/Calum/Jamie colab for. Roly being perplexed, Calum being done with the BS before it even starts, and Jamie’s FTM perspective all together
They say not to show emotion next to a woman, but in all these videos and interactions with women they show anger. Do they not know that anger is an emotion????? Like what????? What are they on???
Thank you so much for putting your masochism on display, Roly! Hope you and your therapist have a huge laugh about it.😂 P.S. You are the alphaest male ever.
No joke though, Roly really is more "alpha" than any of those tools could ever hope to be. He's confident, handsome, successful, has a bold personality, etc. -- everything those wannabe men dream to be.
Me, wearing a leather jacket, denim jeans, and boots: "oh shit, I was just trying to be warm, dry, and comfy in this shitty weather while going to class in winter, and accidentally became Alpha Man."
English Breakfast lol Also the "Alpha Male walking lessons' have the same energy as Mushu trying to instruct Mulan how to "Walk like a man" "Toes in, shoulders back and strut."
I would seriously like to know how many of these "Alpha Men" who make a living yapping on social media have actually enlisted in the military at some point, let alone gone to war🙄
PSA: if you consider yourself an alpha and mistreat your partner the way your Gurus tell you to, they will 100% leave you for someone who treats them better. Or, y'know, you're one of the statistically likely fellas to beat (or worse) their person/object of desire.
I'm a straight man in my early 20s and I love your content roly!..... and I look at these people and see the insecurities oozing from them. I may be straight but I adore makeup, painting my nails and me and my partner have been together going on 10 years now. So yes this "masculine alpha male" bollocks is 100% a myth
Your aggressive bewilderment and speaking out the reality of these absolute hospitals SO INCREDIBLY SATISFYING, I can't fathom how these people think this way so confidently that they rabbit on about it ad nauseam, it's disgusting
OoooooOOoo, those trousers, Roly. They suit you so well.! I love them. Also, I love the utter confusion and shock on your face during these "alpha male" videos. It makes me realize it's not just me that notices all their contradictory statements and hateful comments disguised as "advice". Abhorrent. Love you, Roly.!
@@RolyWestYT Oh, no.! That always sucks. I have a pair of Tripp NYC pants I've had since highschool - nearly 16 years ago - and they're finally starting to get a crotch hole, as well. lol
What's sad is this kind of thing isn't even new. I know my high school boyfriend (so like 2012-2014) was constantly on websites devoted to turning boys into men kinda crap. Art of Manliness was one, I remember. There were two others that I don't recall the names of. Art of Manliness didn't seem awful; more a guide for guys who want a traditional masculinity but don't have a father figure to guide them. I recall him trying to keep one of the others from me. I saw the URL one day, typed it in on my computer, and was inundated with articles about controlling your partner and stuff. But I was like 17, so I didn't think he'd be like that. He was. Tried to convince me I should be a trad wife whose sole purpose in life is to take care of him and pop out a bunch of babies. Anyway. I simply do not trust anyone who indulges in that sort of media now. It's all so toxic and preys upon the insecurities of young men. If someone judges you because you're not traditionally masculine, you don't need them. Just do what makes you happy.
15:09 I couldn't stop hearing this guy saying "masculine" as "mescalin" and jokingly thought that yeah, if this man wants to be the walking incarnation of a psychedelic, maybe he *is* dangerous 😭😂
If I was on the dating scene still all of those men would have me running for the hills. Toxic men abusive men nope Im out. I 100% agree with you Rolly and thats what I teach my son and daughters Ive been in abusive relationships and these men 100% red flags stire clear of them. Love yourself enough and know your worth !
Jeans, boots and leather jackets make you an alpha male? That’s one of my favourite outfit combinations as a woman and I see more women wearing similar outfits to him than I do men 🤣
"If you want an easy life you should have been a girl" noted, im already working on it, thanks for the advice to transition mr guy! XD On a serious note, i have an appointment tomorrow to start my hrt journey!
I BEG my husband to show more emotion. Like seriously I don't understand. And I also see men always say that men cannot be emotional and I am like... yes you can. We WANT YOU TO. I don't know anyone who has ever been like "oh yeah I love that my man shows no emotions." In fact the only people I see perpetuating that men should not or cannot be emotional ARE MEN.
As a woman, men who walk like that just scare me, it triggers something horrible. That's maybe what they want, but I would actively avoid them as far as possible.
there is SOOO much to unpack with all these clips. As someone who has been in the BDSM community for years - if you have to tell someone you're an "alpha" or "top" or "Dom" - then you're not When you said the comments about "authority and obedience" shouldn't be part of a relationship - wellllll, for the vanillas, yes, for those in HEALTHY D/s dynamics - that IS part of it, but there's that HEALTHY caveat there the one guy yelling about being in the gym and make money and you asked if people actually respond to that kind of behavior - the short answer is "yes" - there are people that actually DO respond to that kind of behavior and are motivated by it it may not be healthy that they respond to that - but they do - and it motivates them (think about people who respond well to being yelled at by a drill sgt in boot camp) the problem is when the person doing the yelling is narcissistic and manipulative ugh, the only thing I can hope for is that people will raise their sons better to not be like this and to not follow this, and that people raise their daughters better that they don't get involved with people llike this - lord knows I've done my best with mine (on both parts, as I have one of each) the rest is now on my kids to utilize what I've taught them
I think the healthy aspect you might be mentioning is the fact that it's consensual. Whereas that guy yelling about it seemed to think that all women must be forced into it. 😬
25:35 OMG, I'm so glad you reacted to him. They have a "pack" and in the pack is the alpha's wife (denmother) and then his sister (beta) and beta's husband. BUT an old video shows that beta and alpha have 2 kids together and 1 more on the way, and in recent videos they've denied them being together because "ew gross he's my brother" but that video exists
Unhinged. Also, someone needs to tell them that they're not acting like wolves, they're acting like chimpanzees. Specifically, like chimpanzees flinging around there own poop.
I have a coworker/"friend" that's always on this kind of shit. And he poisoned my ex's (they were bffs before I came into the same workplace as them) mind with that shit and it immediately ended the relationship. It's an incredibly long story but ONE of the things he literally was saying to me was that a woman NEEDS to be afraid of her man. Like if she's not she won't respect you or stay with you or some other shit. It was so frustrating. We had a good relationship for years and then all that happened and ruined it. And after the break up he fell deeper into it. And I was standing there like "Bruh I've been by your side loving you and giving you everything without you having to be this type of dude". He projected that shit all over me and just wouldn't listen to me a WOMAN on what a WOMAN LIKES.....WTF. I loved his silliness and sensitivity. But I want safe and warm not scary. He had that until then. He is full incel now. He tried to r@p3 me in my sleep once I broke up with him and he s3xu@lly ass@ulted me at work. I do have a wonderful partner now, who is everything I wanted. So I'm okay and better off but I am even more traumatized.
jesus that sounds horrific. i’m glad you got away. this stuff really ruins people, and i feel like the rhetoric they spew isn’t talked about as seriously as it should be cause it leads to some heinous shit and the people who follow it are often genuinely dangerous due to their intense resentment and hatred of women
@@treznorfan I agree. Literally when he started getting into that stuff he completely changed. He didn't care about me at all once he started, like he "saw" these things about women that were being blasted into his brain while I wasn't like any of what he was saying but I was no longer what he wanted because he all of a sudden needed the women that wouldn't want him as is (sorry if that doesn't make sense)..like he wanted the "baddie". But he also wanted a super traditional girl that was far right. He would just tear me down at that point. He'd even get aggressive with s3x like slapping me and calling me names and definitely didn't give a frick how I felt or if I got off anymore. He also wanted to force me to have his children. We both did not want children when we started talking and dating. Then all of sudden with this stuff he just needed to have children. And I was useless to him if he couldn't have s3x when he wanted or have his children. This "alpha" shit is terrifying. If any dude starts on that kinda stuff I instantly feel unsafe and think of exist strategies. Like what's so wrong with just being you, just living life. Honestly it adds another reason to me not wanting children.
@@treznorfan honestly I really believe people like that into all that shit hate women. There's no way they actually like them. They only see women as objects or status. It's terrifying and sad.
@@Nocturne_Waltz yeah i definitely steer clear of anyone who even slightly agrees with that shit. it’s a slippery slope and i don’t want to risk even a slight chance of being around someone like that. it’s so sad how it can just take over someone you never expected it from though. as well as to see all these young boys getting it drilled into their heads. we’re gonna have some pretty messed up generations of men in the future
@@treznorfan 100%. They think it's good but it's just making more emotionally stunted, aggressive men. They will also be impossible to please and real women will not be enough. I kinda feel like we're all in danger ngl.
I'm so happy that I watched to the end for the Roly's ultimate alpha man tips. You should make a full video like that it would be hilarious. Tate saying being a girl is easy mode after kidnappin and traffickin is just reprehensible.
"Stop grinding and labouring away at a fake life when you can build a real one" but is it real though... they put all this effort into being 'alpha' and none of it's just the natural way they'd behave, there's nothing more fake than that. Also, video games can help you in a number of ways: hand eye coordination, teamwork, reflexes, not to mention the value on people's mental health feeling connected to social groups of people they can relate to.
"Peasant!" I haven't laughed outloud like this in ages, I was watching last night and stifling my laughs so as to not wake my partner. It was lovely! I realised I hadn't been prioritising joy, so I'm really grateful for this. Also slightly random, as a BSL (British Sign Language) user, I'd love to see what your sign "accent" would be. I feel like you'd be such a natural signer!
Not sure if these “men” make me cry or laugh. But it was so fun to watch with Roly commenting 😂 think about the fact men can go to “classes” to learn being more masculine and hustle women. 😅
gods this video was NEEDED- I'm a trans guy in my early 20s and i remember at the start of my transition I got dragged into the alpha M vacuum and would watch hours of his content to try and work out how i 'needed' to be in order to pass. it was completely detrimental and lowkey fucked me up for a long ass time. I was scared to wear anything remotely nice- who knew wearing only basic shit as a coping mechanism would be so depressing? I got top surgery last july, and as a result of my newfound freedom my wardrobe is getting so fucking cool again. i really hate being basic. i love colour! roly you are a gem!
You’re looking especially lovely today Roly:) I’m away from my family and my country for the first time bc of school, but this video made me feel right at home❤ edit- I’m the 100th like! yay
I'm not even a minute into this video yet but I have to say THANK YOU for the clip of the Bucket woman ("It's Bouquet!") at 0:52!! Keeping Up Appearances has been one of my most FAVORITE shows since I was a kid! 🤣
Something that has really stuck with me is the fact that this "hypermasculine" image that is pushed on to men, is specifically a _male_ fantasy, yet men often believe they will become more attractive to women if they attain it. In fact, that bulging muscular look you see in media is first of all often unhealthy and unattainable. In order for muscles to pop like that, the person has to dehydrate themselves. A Bodybuilder physique is designed for show, not power. A fantastic example of dispelling the confusion between muscular men being a male and a female fantasy, is two magazine covers of Hugh Jackman. The magazine targeted towards men is him as Wolverine, gritty tank top, muscles bulging and growling face. However, the magazine targeting women shows him relazed, in a comfy sweater holding some food that he has made. Undoubtedly some women will have a thing for muscles and stoic personalities, but generally speaking (as a cis-bi woman myself) women want someone who is kind and understanding, someone who can be there for them, who is soft and huggable. People who peddle this Alpha male persona don't a woman so they can love her and be loved in return, they want a woman who can fulfill the role of cook, maid and sex doll. And worse still, they believe they are entitled to a woman and her body. Women are not men's property, no one is anyone's property - whether you're married or not.
Someone else has probably mentioned it but the funniest part of that whole alpha male tattoo, least the first one, the part with the wolf howling in front of the moon is from an anime called wolf's rain and most "alpha males" will say anime is for "betas" or whatever. So GG to anyone who went and got that tattoo thinking it was "alpha" but ended up with an anime tattoo instead. 😆
So happy to see your video to pop out😊. Being already sick, now with flu, (and still healing from surgery 😢),I surely am happy to start to watch your video.. these makes my day always better.🥹 Thank you again Roly so so much! Sending lots of love and hugs🤗🩷🩷✌️
Thanks you so much Rolly without you we couldn’t never understand or stay sane after this stupidity. You find a way to make this entertaining and even educational, you have a super power you are the best ❤
I really don't understand the whole "alpha male" garbage. Seems to me it's their "manly" way of saying 'I'm insecure af but don't want to voice it cause it means I'm weak' 😂 Also Hi Roly! I randomly came across your videos last month and have been watching your videos every so often
I laughed so loudly at the ginger "alphas" and your reaction to them that my husband came upstairs to see if I was okay. So I got to rewind and watch it again!
Man. I have a full time job, where I am on my feet all day, and working with my hands(I make signs.) And at the end of each day, after I get home, shower, and eat, all I want to do in that free time before bed, is play video games, because it's my biggest hobby other than listening to music. I love gaming, and my life is definitely not getting worse every time I play a game lol. And looking forward to playing a game after all my other priorities are sorted, helps me get through my long work days.
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I don't think I'm ready for this 😂
Love you Roly
Love u Roly, love the content.!🎉💕🤩
Oh no, will I make it? Lets see!
This is for sure one of the hardest video to get trough without knocking my head trough a wall 😂😂
9:24 As a trans man who regularly has his testosterone levels checked, this is especially funny to me... because if your testosterone levels get TOO high, your body converts the excess into estrogen. This is why athletes who use steroids can develop breast tissue!
But didn't you know having a big lovely pair of bosoms is the most masculine thing you can ever have ever?
OMG thank you for that!! I needed that education 💗
Hey I'm sorry for bringing up this question but about testosterone, it's NOT true that it makes people aggressive right?
I keep seeing these videos about doctors telling transgender patients that they'd regret it because it would make them aggressive. I don't believe they're true but I just want to know. Do they say that to make people think testosterone is bad?
@@zweetsouffle9567 IDK about aggressive but it did make me a bit more emotional, like touchy, at first. That went away after a while. Think of it like how anyone would feel going through puberty - that's literally what it's like, second puberty!
@@Arcane_Archer I appreciate your reply, thank you. I haven't started testosterone myself and wondered if there's something somebody would already know who's taking testosterone that I don't. Getting use to hormonal change is one thing but when I see these stories about testosterone making people aggressive... It's really odd. (I'm trans myself. However I'm not in a safe environment to start testosterone or anything else of the sort.)
Some of these dudes aren't exuding 'great man' energy, they scream 'abuser' energy and that's scary.
Seriously?? That’s fucking unhinged! They are your wife! You married her because you love her for her! She’s not your pet! People will always continue to surprise me with how idiotic they are @@alexr2172
Seriously! It’s not giving manly, it’s giving ummm…Narcissistic? 😅 (Not saying this to poo poo on those with NPD btw!!!)
Not just that, level of stupidity and it is always about me, me, me, aka main character syndrome
@@bee1411 Dont worry love, I have NPD and I literally agree with you lmfaoo
@@xxcrayon.eater_ DNSBABABDBDNS
If my father, brothers, or husband had this attitude, I would disown them. Fast.
Completely agree!!
My teenage little brother started forming this attitude. I slowly modified his thinking by breaking down all his misogynistic view points one by one.
i get absolutely terrified my son will end up like this bc of this bs on EVERY social media app
i obvi dont teach him to be an ass but like, the internet might 😭😭😭
I have two younger brothers, and thank god they don't have that attitude either.
@@strawberrytiramisuyou rule 💜
The insecurity is just OOZING from these guys, and it’s so obvious why they focus on young, impressionable kids. No adult with an iota of critical thinking would be convinced of anything by these guys.
It’s funny how they don’t think we all see the truth in them haha
@RolyWestYT oh I think they do. It's why they only really appeal to either very young men or very unsuccessful, frustrated men who are angry at women and society, and want to blame us for their situation instead of looking inwards.
These men KNOW their content is appealing to people in the incel community, because they are the only types who actually believe the crap and believe the world is actually like this. Its sad.
@@RolyWestYTdelusion is a powerful thing 😂
Exactly. Which is also grooming (just not in a sexual way)
Okay, if women are sharks then the 'blood in the water' we smell and attack isn't emotion. It's bullshit and toxicity and attacking that isn't wrong, it's in our nature to weed out bad behavior. I am a shark and proud.
These people are almost always yelling in some capacity and it makes me feel uncomfortable. Like they legitimately think screaming their opinions like a baby would scream makes them manly. Obsurd.
Yes like if I shout it that means it’s true!!!
@@RolyWestYT...It also says, "I'M ABUSIVE!" 😬
@@-belue-6697 And: IM INSECURE!
Clearly those who are loudest are most correct!
It’s interesting that Alpha says piercings and tattoos are low class. Don’t you have to invest a shit ton of money into them. It’s a luxury to have body mods lol
Especially high quality ones, you can usually very easily TELL when people have spent a ton of money on their body modifications based on how they look. It’s hard to find people with great art on them that didn’t spend much on it, I won’t tell it’s impossible, but you can usually easily spot cheap ass tattoos from expensive artwork (and I say it being someone that has every range of price of tattoos on them lol).
And most of the guys saying "Piercings are low class"...Have piercings. 🤷♀️ 🤨 🤷♂️...
It's all about wanting to be the only one doing something because someone else might steal their thunder and look better. 🙄
he's more talking in a first impression and professional setting ngl id be thrown off a bit if im first meeting someone and they had a bunch of piercings on their face on a first encounter a lot of hetero women out there like tattoos and piercings but there is such a thing as too much with people also he is actually married and encourages men not to be possessive and clingy like the rest of the unmarried "alpha dudes" is it low class its to which their own there but if a young man is having a lot of piercings on his face trying to say settle down or find something long term he is going to have a much harder time than some one not pierced
ehh not necessarily just because someone has high quality stuff doesnt mean they have your life in order ive seen people own things like gucci coach and Yeezus but can never afford pay their rent or bills and have terrible credit
And if they have tattoos themselves they are usually mediocre, bland lettering you can get done in a mall studio.
Whats funny is when people remain silent after an “alpha male” finishes his piece, he thinks he won the argument when in fact he just dumbfounded the people around him to the point of silence.
Why impress people with your intelligence when you can confuse them with your bullshite?
Exactly! 🍵 Word vomit!
That's why you respond like they're a toddler. Soft smile (condescending is the goal) "oh sweetie." Then change the subject.
Precisely!!! My dad is like these dudes in that way. Absolute nonsensical word vomit & then "haha, your silence means that you know I'm right, but you won't admit it!"
Or they've realized he's an unhinged dangerous maniac and it's safer to just make him feel like he's won.
“men used to go to wars!” ok there are a couple of wars going on right now around the world. if they love it so much maybe they should just go to them . jeez
Yeah, they talk about it as if it were a mythical thing from antiquity.
honestly and maybe they’d finally Quit It with the Shenanigans …
The "because I pay the bills" argument always annoys me. Firstly, they chose to have that child, and secondly, they'd be paying the same bills anyway
Having a child gives them a sense of power, a person they can control and "discipline" as they see fit and the kid will have no power to object... Parents like that suck, I publicly disowned mine when I was 16, got beat at home and moved out next day.
Children are a blessing and should be protected at all costs, I didn't come from riches and we're far from riches even though I work full time, my children never go without but also aren't spoilt, we all respect each other and are grateful for what we have.
👏👏👏👏👏 can you talk to my husband????
@@space_cadet04...No honey! But a divorce lawyer should...
I don't know your situation, but if OP described your husband enough to make you ask someone to talk to him...Run! 🏃
Oh my god, seriously. My dad does this all the time. For instance, he’ll buy me gifts when I didn’t ask for anything, then he’ll complain that I’m a LEECH and i suck all his money away.
My partner worked at a movie theatre over the summer and there were some teen boys there who followed this way of life, Andrew Tate alpha male talk... ended up harrassing one of the teen girls and she went to my partner for help. Poor girl feared being around them because of the way they talked to her and acted like she was a prize to be won.
Yes, these types of influencers are actually pretty dangerous people.
But doesn't she know that being a girl is "life on easy mode"?!
(🤢 That's disgusting. I'm glad your partner was able to help her, even for a little while.)
Markiplier looks like the most alpha male I've ever seen and he's humble, kind and funny
himbos truly are worth their weight in gold.
OneTopic, too.
And The Click.
And how did Markiplier start his career? By playing video games. These other fools wish they could.
"Alpha" doesn't exist. The whole idea (including for animals) has been debunked.
@@hexonyouI never realized before, but Mark is 100% a himbo 😂
"These three items will make you look MANLY and MASCULINE!"
Proceeds to list items that I only ever wore before I knew I was a trans man and was desperately trying to fit in with cis girls.
Right? That jacket came straight out of the teenage girls section of H&M 😄
Well... that feeling is... for real man.
I’m a woman and one of my go to outfits is skinny jeans, boots and a leather jacket. Does this mean I’m an alpha male? 🤣
@@silverwind9999same. I have the same exact boots and jacket and I’m a very girly girl 😂
I was going to say that that jacket actually looks pretty feminine. It's something about the way it's cut/fitted.
People thinking tattoos make you unemployed. But they don't know how much tattoos cost.
My 12 year old son does love watching you and Luxeria. Every time you guys say you hate kids, he’s like, “Yeah, I hate kids as well!” And I side eye him so hard.
Haha!
😂❤
lol, yet they are the first ones to call out anyone hurting a kid as disgusting and evil. Love them so much!
As a trans guy its always so fucking funny watching alpha males and such talk about testosterone cause yes I do know my exact testosterone levels I test them monthly lmao
But also if you produce more testosterone you start converting it into estrogen so having waaay more testosterone would make them have more estrogen (it can get to the point that it starts going backwards hence why I keep testing my T so I don't go backwards in my transition lmao)
I'm a cis woman, and my body produces too much testosterone so I have to be on meds to balance my body. If following trends could lower testosterone I should have tried that years ago 😂
@@reptiqueen7275 lmao fr if only acting a certain way lowered or raised testosterone then I wouldn't have to get jabbed every week pfft
You could rename the video to “The most insecure men of Tik Tok”
Hahaha I really could
Men like this are why raid was made.🤢
Testosteron levels are no indicator of masculine behavior. When I was about 12 yo I got mine checked. Turned out it‘s higher than usual which did not make me an alpha male but rather just had me losing my hair at age 18. Also, the manly man hormones did‘t make me less gay. Surprise, surpriiiise. ✨
Yes, appearance doesn't reflect hormone levels
LOVE IT 😂❤
"Showing emotions like bleeding next to a shark"
Who hurt these men?! Like seriously there is so much spritual damage in these individuals i truly hope theyay fond peace and not have to think these ways forever its sorta sad.
I know the "video games are bad" idea is stupid, but the idea of these guys convincing people who want to be alpha bros to not be in my online games sounds good to me 😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂 My nephew plays online and I hope he feels the same way...he's a cool kid.
Ugh, I would never want to be on a bus with one of these guys let alone in a relationship with one. Absurd.
I'm so sorry you have to watch these alone Roly, thank you for making this entertaining for us 😂❤
😂😂😂😂😂
I love that these men are telling other men what's attractive but it's just from their perspective so they're literally just trying to be validated and get approval from other men.
this happens all the time, it's actually wild. it's so prevalent that men will go out of their way to tell a woman she dosen't know what she's attracted to or accuse her of lying because he can't fathom that women all have differing tastes and we are a lot more attracted to feminine men, as well as "feminine traits" in men than they think. I dress in hyper-feminine fashion and I have many physical and mental traits that are associated with women traditionally, and I am very attracted to "traditionally feminine" qualities and also looks!
I used to be soaked up by some of this awful shit, I was fucking miserable feeling like I had to follow so much. When I started being more comfortable with myself, that’s when I was able to find true happiness. I’m not fully out yet but I’m making progress. You and other RUclipsrs have helped me so much on this journey I have been on, love you Roly 😊
I'm glad you are moving past it, these "alpha males" aren't trying to help anyone, they are appealing to a particular market of men and lining their own pockets.
It must have been absolutely exhausting constantly worrying about doing this and that, how you look, act etc that you must do this to be successful.. ugh these videos are exhausting to watch let alone follow.
What's frustrating is if these men just acted like themselves, they would be far happier and more successful in all aspects of their life, these men act like they know how we think as women and what we want, and they just don't.
It doesn't matter if someone is gay or not, we aren't going to date someone who is fake, and basically being a character, we just want an authentic person,
I would much rather a nervous guy just walk up to me and blurt out that they are super nervous and wanted to be all cool like but that isnt them, but theu wanted to get to know me, not act like Andrew tate.
The worst videos I've seen are when men who are clearly not successful dating wise pretend they are, and then make videos talking about how we think, feel and act. There's a video you can find of a guy who hired this woman to stand in so he could show off his moves and I dont think I've ever seen a woman regret signing up for it as much as she did and man she TRIED to look how he wanted her too but he was so bad it hurt to watch.
Hey, good job you! I'm really proud of you for crawling out of this toxic spiral ❤️😌
@@saarumaa9805 thank you! It has taken me YEARS to finally accept myself. I have known that I wasn’t straight since I was 9, and I turn 20 in about a month. I honestly get ashamed of myself for taking this long sometimes. Videos like these have gave me the confidence in myself to laugh at how stupid these concepts of gender norms are.
@@flute5764...I'm proud of you! 😎...
Loving yourself is the best way to get others to love you because they will feel inspired by your positivity. 👍✌️👍
@@-belue-6697 yes it is, many people have had told me this and during my darkest days, I used to ignore that advice. Now I have realized that should be something we all live by.
Edit: grammar mistake
I have grown so tired of this behaviour I can’t even find it in me anymore to respond to or argue with men like this. I tried but quickly realized a lot of them are a lost cause, so I do my best ignoring these men (and the occasional woman)
Yup, I used to think it was a “they’re too ignorant and lack common sense” thing. Once you actually interact with such ppl you start to understand that no matter how much you try to educate them, giving them statistics, scientific research, history, ect you realize they just choose to be delusional
Yeah, woman who hate men or think woman should bow down to men and stay in the kitchen are just as toxic. 😬...
Both extremes are toxic no matter what gender you are.
They usually don’t have the capacity to actually listen to what other people say. If you notice they all talk over each other on their podcasts, too.
@@chesiresaysthat's often, not always but often the case. in a world with so much correct, sensible information at your fingertips, it is a choice to follow these beliefs.
As a strong, outspoken woman, I would love to be a guest on one of those 'alpha male' shows. I've noticed they almost always have younger, quiet, polite type women on there so they can steamroll them. They wouldn't know what to do with someone who knows their sh*t and will fight back.
That one guy yelling about low class needs to learn that the only thing 'low class' is calling others 'low class'
PEASANT! 😂😂😂😂😂
Shahahah men like this think their above everyone.
I started getting tattoos and piercings about 12 years ago bc i was married to an “alpha” male. He never in six years bought me a gift bc he said he gave me two children and those were my gifts. He wouldn’t let me dye my hair anything but a natural color, couldn’t cut it short, no tattoos or piercings, made to quit my job and claim bankruptcy. All so he could control me. Including what i ate. My grandfather was dying and made me promise to get out. He left me his mobile home to sell to pay for a down payment on a place and a vehicle. It’s exactly what i did. I’m now disabled due to chronic illness and i live in excruciating pain. Tattoos are a way for me to have control in something. It also releases endorphins that remind me what it was like to live pain free a decade ago. My SO of 12 yrs is nothing but supportive and has never told me what i can or cannot do with my body.
I vaguely remember an account, I don't remember if it was on TikTok or if it was videos at all, but he made content appealing to the "alpha male" aesthetic but with ACTUAL good advice. He said things like "alpha males make the people around them feel safe, because that's what it means to be alpha" and that kinda stuff. He was also very trans positive and iirc a feminist as well. It was like an account trying to get these teenage boys away from the Andrew Taint copies and give them actual life advice and confidence.
any chance you're talking about Warrior Male? sounds like stuff they'd post
not outing myself or anything. . . .
I saw a clip on shorts that sounded like that. It started with the girl passed out on the couch, and the person making the video was this big buff bro with a tight t-shirt. And he starts out saying I'll show you what a real man does when he finds a woman like this. And then he goes and gets a blanket and a pillow and he rolls her on her side so that she throws up she won't choke and then he covers her up with a blanket. He says that's what a real man does. Or similar. So it takes like these videos and turns it on its head into something wholesome.
I love how the copycat guy’s contradictory second statement was like a projection on kids that do what he did when he was their age, because secretly he knows it’s pathetic and he feels pathetic. He just forgot that he had already told his origin story at one point 😅
Hahahahahhaha it’s amazing 😂😂😂😂
My brother follows the Alpha Male Bible and its so cringe. Sure he has gained some success in his life but he looks so tired and so old and he's younger than me. I can smell his insecurity from a mile away as well. The micro managing, the anxiety that he would be perceived as weak, the constant having to prove his worth through external actions and things, its quite sad. I'm just happy that he hasn't told his wife that she has to stay at home and take care of the babies or (from what I know) controls what she posts online.
You know these men are kind of miracles. I didn't know human beings could survive with 0 brain cells. I didn't know you could walk around with nothing piloting your body. That's insane. Who knew, eh?
They are just Cave Men who learned words, but not how to form coherent concepts and sentences.
"social media is a cancer" hold up buddy....isnt that how youre making your money rn? The maths not mathin
Also gotta love the "copying is only okay when its beneficial to me" mentality
Love a good self burn that he’s admitting his own content is like a cancer
The whole class thing is just ridiculous. My parents didn't care for tattoos or piercings and my Dad always joked and said they were were stupid but never said anything about class or anyone else with them for that matter just joked with me about mine but supported me in whatever I wanted to do regardless. One day one of his "upper-class " intellectual friends said to him, "your daughter sure has a lot of tattoos huh?" Must be disappointing. My Dad without skipping a beat replied; "at least I know where my daughter is." Which a a low blow my Dad would normally not make to anyone especially to someone who didn't have a relationship with their child, but it really outraged him that someone would love or not love their child because of tattoos was awful. These guys are just so insecure and judge people because of and based upon in their own insecurities.
The weird thing is tattoo's used to be a symbol of being upperclass in Victorian times... until the tattoo machine was invented in 1891 and then everyone was able to afford them (like they could just walk into a tattoo studio to get them, rather than pay a traditional tattoo-ist to spend an extortionate amount of time making an art piece), then suddenly the upperclass decided they were now a symbol of being of lower class because they wanted to establish themselves away from the "plebs".
Im probably more of an alpha male than a lot of these boys as a 5'2 woman
Never even had 'obey' in my wedding vows.
Keys to a healthy relationship: communication, commitment, collaboration.
How to walk like an alpha is stolen! I got the exact same advice in my women's self defense class. The idea is to LOOK confident, so you're less likely to be attacked. Are any of these guys even a little bit okay?
This is the kind of video I’d love to see a Roly/Calum/Jamie colab for. Roly being perplexed, Calum being done with the BS before it even starts, and Jamie’s FTM perspective all together
They say not to show emotion next to a woman, but in all these videos and interactions with women they show anger. Do they not know that anger is an emotion????? Like what????? What are they on???
The Buzz Lightyear quote was amazing 😂😂😂
Thank you for challenging stupidity, misogyny and all that other bad stuff in the funniest way ❤
Thank you so much for putting your masochism on display, Roly! Hope you and your therapist have a huge laugh about it.😂
P.S. You are the alphaest male ever.
I am!!!! 💪🏻 😂😂😂
No joke though, Roly really is more "alpha" than any of those tools could ever hope to be. He's confident, handsome, successful, has a bold personality, etc. -- everything those wannabe men dream to be.
@@sluttymctits4496 Oh, absolutely!
@@RolyWestYT fr you had nice biceps Roly, that overmuscular bs is actually gross.
@@GeekGamer666 ikr
Me, wearing a leather jacket, denim jeans, and boots: "oh shit, I was just trying to be warm, dry, and comfy in this shitty weather while going to class in winter, and accidentally became Alpha Man."
"Elon Musk has time" HAHAHAH could it be because he's rich off other people and hasn't worked a day in his ever living life? Of course he has time!!!
Oh isn’t it absolutely insane 😂😂😂😂
English Breakfast lol
Also the "Alpha Male walking lessons' have the same energy as Mushu trying to instruct Mulan how to "Walk like a man" "Toes in, shoulders back and strut."
Mushu will always do it better. XD
"Punch him. It's how men say hello." :D
What. What. Deranged. Utterly deranged. How dare they spew this type of insecurity onto people.
I love this Monday! First Luxeria uploads, then Shaaba and Jamie, and now Roly! All of my favourite people on one evening! ❤️🩷💜🖤 love you all!
Lots of things for you!!! ❤️❤️
Right? We're eating good here!
Exactly!!😊😊
I would seriously like to know how many of these "Alpha Men" who make a living yapping on social media have actually enlisted in the military at some point, let alone gone to war🙄
They would use ANY excuse to avoid being drafted
PSA: if you consider yourself an alpha and mistreat your partner the way your Gurus tell you to, they will 100% leave you for someone who treats them better. Or, y'know, you're one of the statistically likely fellas to beat (or worse) their person/object of desire.
These poor dudes don't realise that everybody is laughing at them... except for the 14 year old boys they're trying to impress. 🙃
I'm a straight man in my early 20s
and I love your content roly!..... and I look at these people and see the insecurities oozing from them. I may be straight but I adore makeup, painting my nails and me and my partner have been together going on 10 years now. So yes this "masculine alpha male" bollocks is 100% a myth
These alpha guys are SO busy is because they can't stand being alone with themselves. It's kinda sad.
You ended this vid with a beautiful message. Kids, roll with Roly's advice.
Thank you!
This 👆
Your aggressive bewilderment and speaking out the reality of these absolute hospitals SO INCREDIBLY SATISFYING, I can't fathom how these people think this way so confidently that they rabbit on about it ad nauseam, it's disgusting
OoooooOOoo, those trousers, Roly. They suit you so well.! I love them. Also, I love the utter confusion and shock on your face during these "alpha male" videos. It makes me realize it's not just me that notices all their contradictory statements and hateful comments disguised as "advice". Abhorrent. Love you, Roly.!
Thank you! I need to get another pair as they have started to get a hole in the middle 😳😳
@@RolyWestYT Oh, no.! That always sucks. I have a pair of Tripp NYC pants I've had since highschool - nearly 16 years ago - and they're finally starting to get a crotch hole, as well. lol
I was going to ask where you got them!! They are soo cute!!
What's sad is this kind of thing isn't even new. I know my high school boyfriend (so like 2012-2014) was constantly on websites devoted to turning boys into men kinda crap. Art of Manliness was one, I remember. There were two others that I don't recall the names of. Art of Manliness didn't seem awful; more a guide for guys who want a traditional masculinity but don't have a father figure to guide them. I recall him trying to keep one of the others from me. I saw the URL one day, typed it in on my computer, and was inundated with articles about controlling your partner and stuff. But I was like 17, so I didn't think he'd be like that. He was. Tried to convince me I should be a trad wife whose sole purpose in life is to take care of him and pop out a bunch of babies.
Anyway. I simply do not trust anyone who indulges in that sort of media now. It's all so toxic and preys upon the insecurities of young men. If someone judges you because you're not traditionally masculine, you don't need them. Just do what makes you happy.
took an edible before watching this and it's the hardest i've laughed in months, you're so funny 😭😂
Roly's eyes actually look great with those contacts
Oh no, the moment I saw "alpha males" I knew it was gonna be really cringy 😂
Thank you for always bringing good content, much love! ❤
15:09 I couldn't stop hearing this guy saying "masculine" as "mescalin" and jokingly thought that yeah, if this man wants to be the walking incarnation of a psychedelic, maybe he *is* dangerous 😭😂
Hahahaha
I'm still on the 1st Guy and can I just say that these fake podcasts/interviews add to the insanity! 😅😅😅
Right!? Just talking to the wall 😂😂😂
love that having tattoos is a sign of low class when they’re super expensive if you get sleeves especially good quality ones
I think you should do another with lux so she can yell for multiple hours ☺️☺️
“Showing emotions next to a woman is like bleeding next to a shark” ya, bc she’ll come for you right away 😂😂😂
If I was on the dating scene still all of those men would have me running for the hills. Toxic men abusive men nope Im out. I 100% agree with you Rolly and thats what I teach my son and daughters Ive been in abusive relationships and these men 100% red flags stire clear of them. Love yourself enough and know your worth !
You made me cry. The fact that these "men" still exist is insane. They are why I choose to be single.
Love your videos ❤
Jeans, boots and leather jackets make you an alpha male? That’s one of my favourite outfit combinations as a woman and I see more women wearing similar outfits to him than I do men 🤣
And that jacket he was trying to flog off was gross
Tell me you’re single without telling me you’re single.
Alpha male podcast:
I love that you incorporate the old British shows like Keeping Up Appearances, Faulty Towers, etc~ The childhood nostalgia~
"If you want an easy life you should have been a girl" noted, im already working on it, thanks for the advice to transition mr guy! XD
On a serious note, i have an appointment tomorrow to start my hrt journey!
I'm happy for you. I wish you good luck on your journey.
@@HangryVelociraptor Thanks!
Hope all goes well❤
@@solsirhibragusowl2221 Thank you!
I BEG my husband to show more emotion. Like seriously I don't understand. And I also see men always say that men cannot be emotional and I am like... yes you can. We WANT YOU TO. I don't know anyone who has ever been like "oh yeah I love that my man shows no emotions." In fact the only people I see perpetuating that men should not or cannot be emotional ARE MEN.
I died choking on my food when Roly said we all have nerve endings in our boobs 😂😂
As a woman, men who walk like that just scare me, it triggers something horrible. That's maybe what they want, but I would actively avoid them as far as possible.
there is SOOO much to unpack with all these clips.
As someone who has been in the BDSM community for years - if you have to tell someone you're an "alpha" or "top" or "Dom" - then you're not
When you said the comments about "authority and obedience" shouldn't be part of a relationship - wellllll, for the vanillas, yes, for those in HEALTHY D/s dynamics - that IS part of it, but there's that HEALTHY caveat there
the one guy yelling about being in the gym and make money and you asked if people actually respond to that kind of behavior - the short answer is "yes" - there are people that actually DO respond to that kind of behavior and are motivated by it
it may not be healthy that they respond to that - but they do - and it motivates them (think about people who respond well to being yelled at by a drill sgt in boot camp)
the problem is when the person doing the yelling is narcissistic and manipulative
ugh, the only thing I can hope for is that people will raise their sons better to not be like this and to not follow this, and that people raise their daughters better that they don't get involved with people llike this - lord knows I've done my best with mine (on both parts, as I have one of each) the rest is now on my kids to utilize what I've taught them
I think the healthy aspect you might be mentioning is the fact that it's consensual. Whereas that guy yelling about it seemed to think that all women must be forced into it. 😬
I almost feel bad for the fresh & fit guy. He is hiding deep in the closet and is projecting his self-hate onto women.
100% this
As someone thats been in a relationship with DV, alot of these men demanding obedience are legitimately scary
25:35
OMG, I'm so glad you reacted to him. They have a "pack" and in the pack is the alpha's wife (denmother) and then his sister (beta) and beta's husband. BUT an old video shows that beta and alpha have 2 kids together and 1 more on the way, and in recent videos they've denied them being together because "ew gross he's my brother" but that video exists
Unhinged.
Also, someone needs to tell them that they're not acting like wolves, they're acting like chimpanzees. Specifically, like chimpanzees flinging around there own poop.
I have a coworker/"friend" that's always on this kind of shit. And he poisoned my ex's (they were bffs before I came into the same workplace as them) mind with that shit and it immediately ended the relationship. It's an incredibly long story but ONE of the things he literally was saying to me was that a woman NEEDS to be afraid of her man. Like if she's not she won't respect you or stay with you or some other shit. It was so frustrating. We had a good relationship for years and then all that happened and ruined it. And after the break up he fell deeper into it. And I was standing there like "Bruh I've been by your side loving you and giving you everything without you having to be this type of dude". He projected that shit all over me and just wouldn't listen to me a WOMAN on what a WOMAN LIKES.....WTF. I loved his silliness and sensitivity. But I want safe and warm not scary. He had that until then. He is full incel now. He tried to r@p3 me in my sleep once I broke up with him and he s3xu@lly ass@ulted me at work. I do have a wonderful partner now, who is everything I wanted. So I'm okay and better off but I am even more traumatized.
jesus that sounds horrific. i’m glad you got away. this stuff really ruins people, and i feel like the rhetoric they spew isn’t talked about as seriously as it should be cause it leads to some heinous shit and the people who follow it are often genuinely dangerous due to their intense resentment and hatred of women
@@treznorfan I agree. Literally when he started getting into that stuff he completely changed. He didn't care about me at all once he started, like he "saw" these things about women that were being blasted into his brain while I wasn't like any of what he was saying but I was no longer what he wanted because he all of a sudden needed the women that wouldn't want him as is (sorry if that doesn't make sense)..like he wanted the "baddie". But he also wanted a super traditional girl that was far right. He would just tear me down at that point. He'd even get aggressive with s3x like slapping me and calling me names and definitely didn't give a frick how I felt or if I got off anymore. He also wanted to force me to have his children. We both did not want children when we started talking and dating. Then all of sudden with this stuff he just needed to have children. And I was useless to him if he couldn't have s3x when he wanted or have his children.
This "alpha" shit is terrifying. If any dude starts on that kinda stuff I instantly feel unsafe and think of exist strategies. Like what's so wrong with just being you, just living life. Honestly it adds another reason to me not wanting children.
@@treznorfan honestly I really believe people like that into all that shit hate women. There's no way they actually like them. They only see women as objects or status. It's terrifying and sad.
@@Nocturne_Waltz yeah i definitely steer clear of anyone who even slightly agrees with that shit. it’s a slippery slope and i don’t want to risk even a slight chance of being around someone like that. it’s so sad how it can just take over someone you never expected it from though. as well as to see all these young boys getting it drilled into their heads. we’re gonna have some pretty messed up generations of men in the future
@@treznorfan 100%. They think it's good but it's just making more emotionally stunted, aggressive men. They will also be impossible to please and real women will not be enough. I kinda feel like we're all in danger ngl.
5:30 "social media is a cancer" ....as he uses social media to get famous/followers
Every single video made by you makes my day so much brighter! Thank you for being you and inspiring people to be themselves! Much love!💜
Thank you!!!
I'm so happy that I watched to the end for the Roly's ultimate alpha man tips. You should make a full video like that it would be hilarious. Tate saying being a girl is easy mode after kidnappin and traffickin is just reprehensible.
talking about how anything pleasurable now is suffering later (porn, gaming, social media etc etc) is just the puritan mindset
"Stop grinding and labouring away at a fake life when you can build a real one" but is it real though... they put all this effort into being 'alpha' and none of it's just the natural way they'd behave, there's nothing more fake than that. Also, video games can help you in a number of ways: hand eye coordination, teamwork, reflexes, not to mention the value on people's mental health feeling connected to social groups of people they can relate to.
"Peasant!" I haven't laughed outloud like this in ages, I was watching last night and stifling my laughs so as to not wake my partner. It was lovely! I realised I hadn't been prioritising joy, so I'm really grateful for this.
Also slightly random, as a BSL (British Sign Language) user, I'd love to see what your sign "accent" would be. I feel like you'd be such a natural signer!
Not sure if these “men” make me cry or laugh. But it was so fun to watch with Roly commenting 😂 think about the fact men can go to “classes” to learn being more masculine and hustle women. 😅
gods this video was NEEDED- I'm a trans guy in my early 20s and i remember at the start of my transition I got dragged into the alpha M vacuum and would watch hours of his content to try and work out how i 'needed' to be in order to pass. it was completely detrimental and lowkey fucked me up for a long ass time. I was scared to wear anything remotely nice- who knew wearing only basic shit as a coping mechanism would be so depressing? I got top surgery last july, and as a result of my newfound freedom my wardrobe is getting so fucking cool again. i really hate being basic. i love colour! roly you are a gem!
You’re looking especially lovely today Roly:) I’m away from my family and my country for the first time bc of school, but this video made me feel right at home❤
edit- I’m the 100th like! yay
Thank you!!!! ❤️❤️
I do think I'd be weirded out if a guy started touching my ear, trying to drive me "wild" like WTF are you doing?
It is in fact weirder to NOT be touched on the boobs during the act than to be touched on the neck.
I'm not even a minute into this video yet but I have to say THANK YOU for the clip of the Bucket woman ("It's Bouquet!") at 0:52!! Keeping Up Appearances has been one of my most FAVORITE shows since I was a kid! 🤣
Something that has really stuck with me is the fact that this "hypermasculine" image that is pushed on to men, is specifically a _male_ fantasy, yet men often believe they will become more attractive to women if they attain it. In fact, that bulging muscular look you see in media is first of all often unhealthy and unattainable. In order for muscles to pop like that, the person has to dehydrate themselves. A Bodybuilder physique is designed for show, not power.
A fantastic example of dispelling the confusion between muscular men being a male and a female fantasy, is two magazine covers of Hugh Jackman. The magazine targeted towards men is him as Wolverine, gritty tank top, muscles bulging and growling face. However, the magazine targeting women shows him relazed, in a comfy sweater holding some food that he has made. Undoubtedly some women will have a thing for muscles and stoic personalities, but generally speaking (as a cis-bi woman myself) women want someone who is kind and understanding, someone who can be there for them, who is soft and huggable. People who peddle this Alpha male persona don't a woman so they can love her and be loved in return, they want a woman who can fulfill the role of cook, maid and sex doll. And worse still, they believe they are entitled to a woman and her body. Women are not men's property, no one is anyone's property - whether you're married or not.
The Hugh Jackman anecdote is super interesting! Thanks for sharing 😍
Hugh Jackman holding a plate of cookies and his fuzzy chops is so hot in my mind right now. And I'm ace. 😁
Someone else has probably mentioned it but the funniest part of that whole alpha male tattoo, least the first one, the part with the wolf howling in front of the moon is from an anime called wolf's rain and most "alpha males" will say anime is for "betas" or whatever. So GG to anyone who went and got that tattoo thinking it was "alpha" but ended up with an anime tattoo instead. 😆
"red gazebo" oh Roly u crack me up 😂😂😂
Anything can happen. "If you're in America, you can get shot." 😅 Roly with the facts
So happy to see your video to pop out😊. Being already sick, now with flu, (and still healing from surgery 😢),I surely am happy to start to watch your video.. these makes my day always better.🥹 Thank you again Roly so so much! Sending lots of love and hugs🤗🩷🩷✌️
Oh gosh bless you! I hope you feel better soon love ❤️❤️
Hope you feel better soon
@@Him_He_Me Thank you very much! Very kind of you. Wishing you a great 2024!🥳🥂🥰
@RolyWestYT Thank you Roly.. so sweet of you🤗🩷🩷
Thanks you so much Rolly without you we couldn’t never understand or stay sane after this stupidity. You find a way to make this entertaining and even educational, you have a super power you are the best ❤
I really don't understand the whole "alpha male" garbage. Seems to me it's their "manly" way of saying 'I'm insecure af but don't want to voice it cause it means I'm weak' 😂 Also Hi Roly! I randomly came across your videos last month and have been watching your videos every so often
My husband plays video games, then he met me… now we play video games together.
I laughed so loudly at the ginger "alphas" and your reaction to them that my husband came upstairs to see if I was okay. So I got to rewind and watch it again!
Man. I have a full time job, where I am on my feet all day, and working with my hands(I make signs.) And at the end of each day, after I get home, shower, and eat, all I want to do in that free time before bed, is play video games, because it's my biggest hobby other than listening to music. I love gaming, and my life is definitely not getting worse every time I play a game lol. And looking forward to playing a game after all my other priorities are sorted, helps me get through my long work days.