Our Love Story-The Apples Fall in Love-Happy Valentine's Day-Sorry for all of the Tears
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- Опубликовано: 4 окт 2024
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Jenny Appleford or Kyle Appleford
7211 Haven Ave, Unit E-407
Rancho Cucamonga, CA 91701
Kyle’s Channel:
/ @kyleapple9702
INSTAGRAM: jenny_appleford
INSTAGRAM: kyoooooapple
FACEBOOK: Our Brave Jenny
For business inquiries: veganapplefords@gmail.com or kyleapple66@gmail.com
DIAGNOSIS:
March 19th, 2021 Stage IIIA Non Small Cell Lung Cancer (Non-Smoking)
February 2022 Stage IV Non Small Cell Lung Cancer (spreading to Brain, and other parts of lung and lymph nodes)
Gene Mutation EGFR with Exon 20 Insertion
TREATMENTS: Received or currently Receiving
2021: 8 Rounds of Chemotherapy (Carboplatin and Paclitaxel) with 30 concurrent radiation treatments to chest and lung
Failed Immunotherapy directly after Chemo and Radiation (Durvalumab, 1 round)
2022: Chemotherapy
10 rounds of Chemotherapy (Carboplatin, Alimta, and Avastin)
6 with Carboplatin, 4 without
Targeted Brain Radiation (Completed)
Most Recent Treatment plan, prior to passing:
Whole Brain and Spine Proton Therapy (Radiation) 13 sessions
Clinical Trial Medication NOLA
The purpose of my channel is to document my cancer journey to look back on, and/or help anyone else going through anything similar. It is also to potentially help loved ones supporting those who are in this fight as well. This is also an easy way to update a lot of people at once. My main goal is to have footage of this journey for my husband and children to look back on. I originally created this channel as a sort of video diary for my
family.
Thank you so much for following along on this journey. Your love and support help me so much.
Jenny is still your Valentine. Forever. Continuing to pray for you and your sweet babies ❤
Absolutely! 🐞 💕
Sending lots of Prayers and Love for you and your children ❤️ ❤️🩹❤️
no shes not he doesnt have to be with her cuz she no longer on earth he can have other women
@@t.n.h.ptheneohumanpatterna8334 what is wrong with you?? We all know she's not here. What a horrible comment
What a beautiful Love story Kyle you did a amazing job telling it
Me and my partner are 79 years old and he is in memory care. I went to a singing event they had and they asked for requests. I said “Can’t Help Falling In With You” by Elvis. I cannot get that song out of my head since I saw your wedding ceremony. I then stepped back because I thought it may make everyone so sad as they were playing some of the corny tunes of our day like Love Potion #9 and Hey Good Looking. The singer said that is a Good Valentine’s Day song. Well during that song one lady was crying and I felt so bad as it was my request. After it was over I walked over to her as some others did and she said her husband died 2 years ago and it just hit her. She had been married 49 years and it made me think no matter how long or short a relationship it is okay to cry because we have to be true to our emotions. My partner and I met each other at our 45 th reunion school reunion. And now we are in this situation. Just makes you think how precious life is and even though we usually don’t leave this earth exactly at the same time no one can take away our memories! Now and in the future!
Thanks for sharing this, made me teary. I’m 40 and still haven’t found a soul mate. It seems an impossibility as I know my “best” years are behind me, but hearing someone say they met their love later in life is encouraging ❤️
My mom recently turned 80, in memory care, loves Elvis. For her birthday I got a small cake and placed a little Elvis figurine on top.
She really loved it. It brightened her day.
Sending much love to you Kyle. Your love story will go on forever ❤
@@Rachel_Ryderaww, your best years could still be ahead of you … you never know! I found my true love later in life … never thought I would either ! I hope you do !! ❤️❤️
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Sometimes a breakdown helps release all the pent up grief......it's ok to not be ok.
Sorry
This comment is so true! Man letting it out sucks sometimes, but in the long run helped me through my grief!
Ah you've always looked after her ❤❤
That deep friendship first and the cupcakes❤❤❤❤❤❤
Hi Kyle, that was such a beautiful love story ever. You definitely did do a perfect job of telling us teh whole story. We feel so sad for you right now. But you were blessed with so any ears together, and you both made the best of the time you ahd together. You were very brave to tell us your beautiful love story with all the pains in your heart. God blessed you with 2 beautiful children from Jenny. Thank God you have them to help see you through your difficult time Kyle. We all with you. You trully are the best dad for Ellis and Winnie. ❤❤
You know…that’s all anyone ever really wants. A wholesome love story like this. You are both so lucky to have had that. ❤ RIP sweet Jenny.
I agree! Most people don't find a love story like this in their entire lifetime. ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Never ever be sorry for tears Kyle. We hear you. Jenny was so special and precious.
why are you here sad soul?@@t.n.h.ptheneohumanpatterna8334
@@t.n.h.ptheneohumanpatterna8334 That's your choice/opinion. However, please do explain what spamming the comments section** with the same negative & inflammatory comment is achieving?
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Looking at this rationally & objectively - if it's merely an opinion then surely you wouldn't feel the need to repeatedly spam.
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It comes across as callous, bitter & nasty towards a freshly bereaved person.This is especially so when that bereaved person has watched/experienced their loved ones decline & death.
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Seriously, does it make you feel superior to be so unnecessarily spiteful toward someone who's grappling with their grief whilst trying to support his children through their heartbreak?
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IMO, metaphorically "kicking someone when they're down" makes you appear to be devoid of empathy & compassion & makes any discussion or opinions you have moot.
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(**6+ that I've seen scrolling by in just a few minutes).
@@t.n.h.ptheneohumanpatterna8334 Maybe you should practice what you preach weirdo. Don't like his videos don't watch them then.
You spent a whole hour spamming this video. Get a life@@t.n.h.ptheneohumanpatterna8334
@@Bintkeziah I've been reporting @t.n.h for 'harassment and bullying" ... "of someone else". YT will ban him if they get enough reports. Please contribute.
“Friends before lovers” makes for the best marriages!
Kyle ...
Valentine's Day is special.....
It's your Valentine your missing ❤️
But, hold onto those memories forever....
Grief is like feeling lost and no one can hear you. And you want your wife & life back.
Grief is so so deep.....
It's ok to cry, make new traditions with the kids, celebrate with the kids together....
You have those 2 beautiful children a gift Jenny gave to You forever.....
And, You have a beautiful love story!!
No one can take that away!
God Bless🙏✨
@t.n.h.ptheneohumanpatterna8334 Dude seriously get a life. Go be a productive member of society rather than spew wickedness and hatred in comments of a RUclips video. Maybe try therapy, you're clearly in need of it
@@t.n.h.ptheneohumanpatterna8334Oh my God, you horrible person, what’s wrong with you…😮😮😮
I had a love just like yours Kyle....I lost him 2 weeks ago today...we were best friends too. When he was dying he said we didn't have enough time together. I told him We are both 70 and we're together for 61/2 years. But they were the best years of our lives for both of us. We finally found that pure kind of love that people long for. We finally made it in life. All we needed was each other. And he said yes and that he was very greatful for the time we did have but he didn't want to leave me alone. And yes it hurts, it's hard and very sad....I have to remind myself everyday of the love were shared and still do..forever, love does not go away just because we can't see them....thankyou for sharing your story Kyle, you are a very brave man and a wonderful husband and father. God Bless you and the kids ❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏
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So sorry for your loss. As Ronnie Milsap once sung "I wouldn't have missed it for the world."
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I had a weird dream last night,well this morn...this is after vday...feb 21...my hubby gone 19 yrs skin cancer...last dream i had before waking up ...met older man my age we outside his place just talking, he showed me his mosquito zapper on a pole that he made..chit chat..dream ended up laying on a bed still outside but he was listening me talk then he was on his back motionless asleep..i kept waiting for his response, asked him if they went fishing..it never came, then i woke up...i figure that was my date with my hubby for a while, idk.
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Jenny is your soulmate and she will always be your soulmate and valentine, my suggestion is to buy those flowers,buy those chocolates every year and you and Ellis and whinny enjoy those beautiful things together. Jenny left you with the best Valentine’s gift she could ever give you and that’s your children.
he can date other women jenny is no longer there u shouldnt encourage him to be lonely
@@t.n.h.ptheneohumanpatterna8334 But dating/marrying right after your spouse or long time partner has passed never sits well with me but that's my opinion
@@t.n.h.ptheneohumanpatterna8334if you have lost someone you love so much.. you don't talk about such a possibility.. only a few months into your loss... grieve is deep...and there is nothing else...
I Say Double Amen To That She Definitely Blessed him with To Gorgeous Little Valentines, Expressing your Love For Jenny Was the best and most beautiful Valentine Love , Freindship, Marriage Stories You Have shared with us all Thanks Kyle hope you see this Happy Valentine to you and Winnie and Ellis:::::,,,,❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
What is wrong with you!!!!
I lost a child, which in turn I lost everything. I'm putting my life back together, and instead of getting into a relationship, I focus on myself and my two sons. I sent them each a valentine, and for Easter, I will make them baskets even though they're 21 and 18 yrs old.
I'm further along in my grief. I know how much it hurts, but you're doing a fantastic job.
As are you 💝👍💞
So deeply sorry for your loss! I just wanted to say I love that you do that for your boys even though they are adults now. I'm 34, live on my own and every year my mom still brings me a gift and flowers for Valentine's Day and a bag of goodies for Easter. Your boys will never get too old for it. I promise. It means so much to me that my mom still does it no matter how old I get. Now that I'm older I get her Valentine's too.❤
Am so sorry for your loss . ❤️🩹 RIP 🕊️
Your first sentence brought tears to my eyes, cause losing a child is unimaginable to those of us who haven’t gone through that ( the worst loss of all)
So I too am so so sorry for your loss. Hope you are coping ok.
You sound like a strong person, and your boys are lucky to have you
I wish you peace and good health
So sorry Mariah about your loss😢,I miss my fiancee nearly just 4 years now passed away and niece took her own life at 16. It's tough for lots people 2020 was a very tough year for everyone. Although most people got through 😢 we all suffered one way or another. Know my thoughts 💬💭 and 🙏 prayers with ye a❤😊
Jenny was nothing but The BEST ! We all miss her so much . Kyle u had the most beautiful woman in the world . ❤
kyle needs to nothing YOU :)
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Get off the site..I just reported you!@@t.n.h.ptheneohumanpatterna8334
Absolutely! ❤
Yes Yes!! She was THE BEST!!! Love Jenny and still do even she’s in heaven! She will never be forgotten ever!
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You said you didn’t do it justice but you did, Kyle. It’s not the story or the words, it’s the emotion with which you tell it. Please know you did the story justice and that Jenny is SO proud of her hunny bunny for telling it so beautifully. I’ve watched all your videos and I know she was looking forward to telling your love story… you did it justice I promise ❤️
You both were truly blessed to have found each other. I'm 63 y.o. and have not been blessed to find someone. I'm continuing to pray for you Kyle.
hahah prayers serisouly
@@t.n.h.ptheneohumanpatterna8334nice grammar aholee
@@t.n.h.ptheneohumanpatterna8334nice grammar ahole
@@loridavis5699 your getting reported
@@t.n.h.ptheneohumanpatterna8334look in the mirror
Hey I've been rewatching all Jenny's videos again and I came across one of her saying that we need to remind you when you need a hug to squeeze the orange cushion really really tight xx
If you can remember what the title of that video is, please let me know - I’d love to watch it ❤
So awesome you remembered that as I had forgotten good thing there are so many viewers to help remind Kyle all the info Jenny shared with all of us ! Love and peace to you
@@sophier5322 sorry for the late reply the title was BAD NEWS I've been told I have months to live. Very sad xx
@@beth6288 it was a good thing bless jenny xx
A good cry privately is what you need. Let it out Kyle. From a person who knows.
I wish I met someone like you Kyle. I'm now single and alone with a 3 year old, and I didn’t have to leave but I chose to because me and my lil one deserves better! I hope one day I'll meet my best friend too.
Thanks for sharing your love story. I’m 50 yrs old and have never had a friend/partner/lover like you. Jenni had the BEST life with you. ❤
I hope you find your ❤ love .
It's never too late .
Sending you hugs 😊from the UK 🥰
@@juliesmoochy3996 thanks for the sweet words 🤗
Same I’m 43 and still haven’t found mine, I’m losing hope
@@Blndbmbshelldon't ever think that there's always hope your still young.
Somehow hearing Kyle’s and Jenny’s love story shows us what true love is and opens our hearts to all possibilities!!
40:15 That was very deep!!! Her asking you because she is sick on the honeymoon is it representing that she would be sick and you having to take care of her in the marriage.... your answer was honest and priceless!!! Instead of saying No babe... you are going to be fine- you kissed her on her forehead and told her you would gladly take care of her!!!! This is the most beautiful love story I have ever heard!!! May God Continue to Bless you and your Children!! One day you and Jenny will be reunited in Eternity!!!😇
Gave me goosebumps!
You sounded like an amazing husband and surely an amazing father
Yes he is indeed ❤️
I agree ❤
he really isnt he let his wife suffer for money
T R O L L get a Life!@@t.n.h.ptheneohumanpatterna8334
@@t.n.h.ptheneohumanpatterna8334 GIVE IT A REST!
grief is so devastatingly like a deep unrelenting yearning.
❤ Kyle, you did a beautiful job describing it.
My son, Joshua, he's autistic , I have talked about him before. He always asks about you, and he watches your videos. He says he wants a "friend" Too.
Thank you for being a positive influence to him.❤❤
I’m 48 and haven’t found a love like yours and Jenny’s. The way you stuck by her and never once complained must have meant so much to her. I’m sorry your going through this. 💔 😭
Unfortunately Kyle this is your year of firsts. They are the hardest. You’re doing well and you are right on track with your grieving. I lost my husband 3 years ago to metastatic non small cell lung cancer after being together for 40 years. He was my soulmate. It’s the hardest thing you will ever go through. What helps me get through this is knowing he will never have to go through this! I wouldn’t want him to feel how I feel. I’m praying for you and your family. You will get through this but it just takes time, I promise.
❤🎉TY for your words to him and all of us who will go through grief.
How very kind of you to mention that you were better for being the caregiver and said he didn’t have to be that person for you. How very selfless and kind. Bless your insight.
Missing Jenny will never end. It will take about 3 to 5 years to get to the stage of not crying anymore and just smiling at all the memories and that dévastation to stop. Time is a healer Kyle but its a long slog not a sprint. 🎉🎉🎉
Yes it is. Always in our hearts. ❤
What a beautiful Valentine message. You know....on Valentines day I saw boxes os beautiful decorated chocolates. I saw huge red bouquet of roses. I saw promise rings and jewelry sparking with gold. But I turned to my farner husband and said. "You have given me the greatest, most priceless gift of all. You gave me your soul." I have been married to my farmer for 51 years. I understand you. my friend Kyle.
Exactly my situation.
Please don’t ever apologize for crying. Jenny lives on through your beautiful children. Sometimes it’s ok to fall apart. It can be therapeutic. Lean on those around you and we are here to listen. Winnie looked gorgeous!!!! Sending you love ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
You and Jenny are soul mates from the very beginnings… you will never ever truly be apart Jenny is never far from you ✨💛🙏🐞
I’m sending thanks to Ashley for filling out that application. She was vital in this love story. Beautiful.❤❤❤❤❤
We continue to support you Kyle. Big hug 😢
i dont
You are such a charmer! Must be a constant delight to your family
Hurt people hurt people…. The hurt is obvious, they comment on everything….they need blocked.
It was an absolute honour to sit and listen to yours and Jenny's love story.
My husband, the love of my life, passed 3 days before both of our birthdays…which was Valentine’s Day! 💘Every year for my birthday is now a gut wrencher!
Sending prayers for you 🙏
My sincere condolences to you and all who love and miss your husband. I hope/believe that your memories provide you increasing solace as time passes 💓💞💓💞.
So sorry 😢
So sorry honey, I lost mine 10 months ago. It’s been rough but we gotta keep moving forward. Like I told Kyle, it’s the only way, otherwise we’ll crumble. 🥹🩷👋🇬🇧
I'm so sorry that you lost your sweet love Jenny. Your soul mate and precious mother of your children, Kyle . It truly is not fair. 💔 💙
I thank God that Heaven exists and your love story does not end here - What a power couple 💪💜✝️🙏 #grievinginhope
Happy Valentine’s Day Kyle. We’re all thinking of you and the kids ❤
no we are not
@@t.n.h.ptheneohumanpatterna8334 aren’t you a delightful ray of sunshine ☀️
@@Meganmama People like @t.n.h are usually so mean and nasty, because someone else has something that is very special and precious that they don't have. It's spelled "jealousy".
@@t.n.h.ptheneohumanpatterna8334 and yet, you're here. How weird of you
@@JC-tp5lz I don’t gotta think of another man and his kids cry
You always had each other's back. That's beautiful. It's ok to be angry. It's part of the grieving process. Thank you for sharing your love story.
Take care, Kyle.
Your love with Jen was Magical. That's how TRUE LOVE should be.
I’m watching this on Friday and it is the 36th anniversary of my husband’s death. He told our kids on Valentine’s Day that he was not going to make it. Always a hard time in our family. He was very young as well. Hang in there.
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I'm sorry Kyle. We lost my mom to her cancer on Oct 7th. My dad had a hard day yesterday too, he said to me "this is the first Valentine's Day in over 40 years I haven't bought anything." I absolutely feel you about the going into it with a positive outlook but it just hurting. That is so normal. I've been doing that for over 3 months now as well. Thinking of you all.
Never apologize for your tears, my friend.
I think Jenny became more beautiful when she got cancer. She just had a grace and gentleness and humility to her that was very rare to see in people and was comforting to listen to.
Sounds like you’re jealous of beauty..your clearly a minger.
Never apologize for your tear and emotions, Kyle.
I’m privileged to have you share this.🙏🏻
Your message of friendship, honor and love is a strong and beautiful one.🙏🏻
Never apologize for how you feel and how you show it. I have lost my special love and it always hurts, even at 82. So glad you are in Bible study and going for therapy. Love you and your sweet children.
Even though Jenny is gone you are honestly very very lucky to have experienced a love like this. Some people pray and dream to experience something like this.
Kyle you can’t always hold it together as that’s denying yourself natural grief and sometimes you must let those emotions out.
So many of us know and can feel your pain as it can be excruciating that depth of one’s emotions.
You are such a wonderful father and your children are so blessed to have you.
It was beautiful to see the happiness on your face when you were reading her words. You had said you wished she was there to tell this story with you. I really think she was, in words and most definitely in spirit
You two had such a beautiful relationship! It saddens me that a beautiful soul like Jenny was taken away from the world so soon. She’ll always be your valentines in spirit !
Damn you really spent a whole hour commenting shit like this. Get a life@@t.n.h.ptheneohumanpatterna8334
@@t.n.h.ptheneohumanpatterna8334you’re sick
@@t.n.h.ptheneohumanpatterna8334WTF?
It really is hard, I'm sorry for your pain. May the love of Christ surround you.
I know your heart is breaking. I've been thru the same thing. My husband was 28 and I was 21 when he was diagnosed with a brain tumor. We had 2 kids Jason and Jennifer . You may not think your weak and so on but you are the Rock. Jennifer would be so proud of you and so do we.Stay in the Bible and pray even if it's just for a moment. Don't stop . The only thing my husband questioned was why don't I get to help raise our children. We don't know why all these things happen but God is all knowing and will be as close to you that you want him too. There's a lot more about our story but I want to hear yours. Don't quit updating us. Love from all of us and God bless you!!! I'm in Virginia.
@@t.n.h.ptheneohumanpatterna8334 Haha creepy incel
Stay strong! Can’t imagine what you or Kyle are going through.
Heartbreaking 😢
My Dad died suddenly when he was 33, my sister was 2 and I was 8 . I don’t know how my Mom made it through that time, but she did. It took time though. She finally found someone 7 years later.
Please don't apologize for crying. You are doing so well love you and the kids.❤
You got to experience the kind of love that most others will not in this lifetime. A very lucky man, indeed. 💜
so lucky that he lost the women he loved make that make sense
@@t.n.h.ptheneohumanpatterna8334 First of all, it’s woman with an a when singular. Second, your reading comprehension skills must not be great because any reasonable person would know that’s not what I meant.
@@sisterluck5449ignore him, I ve already reported him/her, if you read the comments below or above, you’ll see the pattern of the same hatful individual.
@@sisterluck5449 u mad lol gonna cry?
If I could only find someone as kind as and compassionate as you
Someone recently said “grief is love with no place to put it.” This resonated with me in my losses. Hope it helps you. You are entitled to feel like you feel. Love you and the kids.
The truest thing I ever heard was, grief is the price of love.
We witnessed your love story in Jenny's videos. You filled in the rest of the love story. We will never forget ❤
Jenny will always be your first valentine, you will never forget her. Its normal is grieve, and its going to take time for the sting to ease. Dont worry you will never forget her. Both my parents have been gone over 30 years. I still miss them tons and sometimes I still cry too for the lost time.
You and Jenny share a beautiful love. I’m 66 and divorced 5 years after a 30 year relationship 23 married. I became ill for a 2 year period and my husband decided to leave. I’m well now. Your love for Jenny makes me continue to believe in soul mates 💕
Valentine’s Day is so difficult when you are missing a loved one. 😢 you know that Jenny loved you so much.Never forget that!!
Please never apologize for tears of love ❤️
You two are the gentlest of souls. No wonder you are soulmates, what a gift it is to live that much in your love. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you for showing the realities of grief. I lost my fiancé 8 months ago. People just don’t understand until you understand. I cried to much with you because I completely understand the feeling of losing the love of your life. It’s so hard everyday…thank gosh for our kiddos, god and the memories. God Bless
We love you guys. You’re supposed to cry. You have to cry it out. Don’t feel guilty. This is completely natural. Sometimes you do need to take some time alone. We love you guys. We all miss Jenny. There is a lot to miss. It would be wrong if we didn’t cry. The emotions are just a testament to what a great person she is. Stay busy. Find activities to keep your minds busy.
I'm 5 years on from my husband's passing. He is always in my heart. Take care of yourself, breaking down when needed and looking for rainbows after the rain.
Kyle, you are doing GREAT. Falling apart is not failing, it's just a part of grieving. Give yourself some grace. Just keep putting one foot in front of the other. I know Jenny is SO proud of you!!!
I’m sure this is so difficult but as time goes by this story will be healing and you will want to share. I was a young widow at age of 38
My husband died at 40 to colon cancer . This was 30 yrs ago
He was my first everything . But I treasure our life story and love sharing.
You need to write a book.
Sounds pretty flowery and rainbows to me Kyle. To know at 16 or 17 that you met your forever love has to be the best feeling in the world -and for what it’s worth, her knowing that she got your best of everything in love, care, LIFE meant more than words. WE saw the love you poured into eachother♥️♥️
Kyle it just so sad that you lost your Jenny . I don't understand why the world can be such a cruel place . Thank you for sharing your love story with us .
I will never know a love like this. I’m so glad you shared your beautiful love story. Love never dies.
Omg i always remember jenny saying "are you proud of yourself!" Always being positive and making the kids feel proud of themselves ❤
I can’t imagine how hard it must be without your person. I’m so sorry, Kyle. Sending prayers and hugs your way. ❤
I share your pain, our daughter passed 13th January, 2024. Ours hearts are broken. Cancer, Multiple Myeloma. Age 47 and she has 2 beautiful boys.
You are entitled to have a breakdown she was the love of your life and these days are so hard.
Sending hugs and love from South Africa
So deeply sorry for your loss! No one deserves to bury their child!😥🙏❤️
You radiate goodness through your grief.
The first kiss...💥 those cupcakes, the lovey dovey music....you guys were on a winner from day 1, even though neither of you had thought so in those early days.
Together forever. 💝
I thought of you and Jenny on this day and knew it would be a very rough day for you. Thinking of you Kyle but your love for each other was so moving. 🙏🏻♥️
Uh, yea, it really is!!! And was!!!❤
Why are you being such a troll?? @@t.n.h.ptheneohumanpatterna8334
My husband and I just celebrated 47 years of marriage. I so wish you and Jenny had that much time together. But you packed true love into the time you had. You were a great husband and her rock through her illness. She trusted you with her life and the lives of your babies. You live up to all her expectations. Happy Valentines Day.
Kyle, I remember you and your beautiful jenny saying you were going to tell this story, your love story. My goodness you did her proud. I had tears in my eyes. Your love is and always will be ❤️
You did your love story perfect justice, Kyle. Jenny is smiling listening to it 🤍
I'm so sorry Kyle. My heart breaks for you. Jenny lives on in Ellis and Winnie, in memories and in moments. Your love story is one of the most beautiful ones I've ever seen. Thank you for being so brave in sharing all this with us. Jenny has raised so much awareness to millions about cancer as well as how to be a good, kind, gentle, brave human being. You are continuing that legacy. One day at a time. Sending love to you and the kids. We are all here for you! 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I have to admit I do not like Valentine’s Day since it reminds me on what I haven’t got and have dreamed of since I was a little girl. Now, I am 43 and still looking for that kind of love. So I needed a couple of days to go by until I was ready to watch this video and man, did I have a good cry - a happy one. Thanks for sharing this incredibly beautiful love story!
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You and Jenny had (and still have) a love story for the ages!! God brought you two together and He will guide you through your loss, hard as it is. Thank you for sharing.
Kyle you don't need words to make us understand how much love the two of you share. All you need to do is watch 5 seconds of any video to see that love you are trying to describe. It was so beautiful to watch and it showed all of us what is possible ❤
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I am so sorry Kyle. Its so hard.
You continue to impress me, Kyle. With your kindness, honesty, humor and courage. Jenny was so lucky to have found you. You did a wonderful job describing your love story.
God brought you to Jenny because there was no better friend, love or husband in the world for her ,you two are both beautiful and all the better because of your love, I am grateful you have each other always..nothing can ever change that ,..I know it's too soon but don't give up on love and happiness in the years to come ,it will never be the same but still can still be beautiful,.I say this with you and Jenny in my heart and I'm sure she will guide you ..( from someone old enough to be your parent ) praying for strength for your family ❤💜
As a recent widow myself... I understand how you are feeling... cheesy holidays or not... a reminder of those we miss...
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So true.😢
My sincere condolences to you and all who love and miss your partner. Although it's very tough to navigate death, "holidays" or not - I hope/believe that your memories provide you increasing solace as time passes 💓💞💓💞.
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@@Bintkeziah Thank You..
Jenny for her age at that time was not only intentional but extremely mindful. 2 old souls ❤
It is hard💔 And the years go by it's harder.. My husband's been gone for 7 and 1/2 years. I'm not dated or went out with anybody not even for a dinner. Because my Valentine's is in heaven also and that's where we will meet again.
This was my comment that i left on my page What a beautiful yet sad love story ...
I've been following this family's videos for quite a while because jenny was beautiful and brave andcfunny and in love ...she started filming her life once she was diagnosed with cancer . She filmed everyday and documented everything for her young children to see when they got older ..and for us her followers to understand cancer and not to be afraid of dying or living ...she truly was a beautiful person and it's so sad how there love story ended ...with her death ..even on her weakest days she still filmed everything to help her kids cope and her husband she really prepared them for her death..she made him promise to continue to film after her death she wanted a teaching moment about how hard grieving was ... and that's when I felt connected to her videos cause I had just lost my love Randy ..and I thought watching them would help me heal ...which I suppose has help me with the grieving process..but omg I'm so sad for this man .he's such a sweet guy perfect husband perfect dad who's still really missing his wife .I think most of us can only dream to find a love like they had ..and I thought I'd share there story in case anybody else is having difficulty grieving go back to when she was alive .her story was captivating as she was. her children are so sweet big brother Ellis 7 and little sister Winnie who's 4 ... there videos of them trying to live life without there mom / wife are so sweet of them trying to navigate life without her ..I pray for him that one day his heart will be healed as grieving the loss of your partner is very painful ..as I have same pain .he's such a great story teller and he's trying to honor his wife by continuing to film there love story ...and he continues to film for his young children that will one day watch these videos... he's so sweet and respectful to his wife and his role as a dad it really makes you root for him as he tries to carry on without her ..like I said sad but beautiful...and she wanted her story SHARED ...so here I am giving Jenny appleford what she wanted ...Sharing her story ...and a reminder to all of us to LIVE LIFE ...As beautifully as she did
Rest in peace sweet girl you gave your family the tools they needed to hopefully be ok ...and for the rest of us to live our lives like Jenny did ...and once you follow her earlier videos what a beautiful story of love and bravery ...that she shared with us all ..
AMEN ...for those of us that are grieving our partners in life there's a little something extra in the videos just for us ...strength that we didn't know we had ..Enjoy ...how can you not feel compassion for this beautiful man who simply just loved his wife ...you can do this Kyle...
Kyle, you need to write a book because you and Jenny have one of the most beautiful love stories ever. You give hope to every guy who finds himself in the "friend zone".
Beautiful love story! I have never heard of two people who were more meant to be together than the two of you. I'm praying for you and your kiddos during this time. Thank you for sharing it with us.
Your amazing love for Jenny was clearly evident to all of us throughout Jenny’s cancer journey Kyle. It was awe inspiring and amazing to witness, as well as heartbreaking and overwhelming. You remained loving, compassionate, supportive and understanding, in all ways. It was easy to see, clearly, Angels guided and supported you. You were wonderful to and with her in her most trying and heartbreaking trials. You are an amazing husband and an amazing Daddy. Jenny gave you her precious babies, a proclamation of you combined love for each other. Continue to honor Jenny by showering them with all your love. Share these special days with them. It will help with all of your grieving and more importantly, them too
Your love story sounds so much,like ours and believe me I’ve stood by my wife with her health issues which are many she is73 and had been sick since 42God Bless her heart and we were friends before marriage we are going on 55 years together for better or worse we are never promised tomorrow
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I still remember when she told me she was going to ask you to be her bf and she was so nervous and excited! I remember her being hurt after her last relationship ended but she found such a comfort that you would come over every night after work and it would help with her anxiety so much. I’m so glad you guys had each other! ❤
How are you and your sisters doing Stacey? You were all very close to Jenny.
That was touching, Jenny will always be your Valentine's. Her spirit will always be with you.🙏🙏🙏
What a beautiful love story. My husband and I are also best friends. We were both 22 when we got married. We are now married 43 years. I’m so sorry you and JENNY didn’t get more years together. Such a beautiful couple and family. 💔💔
I followed yours and Jenny's journey over the last year not knowing that that brutal disease would take my husband (lungs to brain mets) only weeks ago - It is so damn hard Kyle, it is a physical pain :( I know their memories keep us going, and I feel my husband is still around me and the one thing that gives me solace is that I am loved, and so are you xx
Some of us have never found true love, and Valentines Day reminds us of that. Not a great day if you are alone under many circumstances
Oh my gosh Kyle. This is the most amazing and sweet story. Thank you so much for sharing! I loved all of it. What a beautiful way to honor your Valentine Jenny. Some of it I knew from watching the videos but wow... the love and how long you've been together is amazing. You were just teens....What a true love story. I could watch this over again, but may cry again. The reason I watched your channel to begin with is because of what I saw in you, Jenny and your kids. Just pure love and even during a most horrible health crisis. I'm so sorry you don't have Jenny anymore. I'm not gonna lie, I'd love to see her in a video because you all to together is what I was interested in. The happy times... I had a rock to paint for you when I was in Eugene to sent for Jenny's garden, but my step mom wasn't in the mood to paint. I'll get one off soon. Your love story is beautiful Kyle. Thank you for sharing and Jenny would be proud. You're doing so good. And if every you are not doing so good, please feel free to reach out directly to vent, or cry or yell... Hugs to you and your family.
Go have a good cry when you feel the need. It cleanses you soul. Go out in a field and hollar to Jenny and cry. You will feel such relief. Jenny will always be in your heart and soul. You two were so good together. Love like this is beautiful. Chin up. Prayers!
That crazy overwhelming grief...the kind that comes in WAVES from missing a loved one....is because she is right next to you, Kyle. I am convinced of this! She was with you on Valentine's Day.....
We are with you Kyle ❤, feel hugged ❤you have any right to feel sad, Jenny is with you always ❤
You DID due your story justice. Jenny is loving the way you tell it. She feels you as you feel her. You're right, not many loves like yours. 😍❤❤💔❤❤
Tears have a special way of soothing the soul! Maybe, start a new tradition with your kids on Valentine’s Day maybe movie night? Or fun dinner
Tears are a part of healing and moving through grief
Feels are a moment needed ❤