When will they realize that. That’s why the men they go crazy over they don’t mind the world knowing because every other chick in their hood/city/country/school/job/female family wants him.
To be fair. Millionaires hire consultants who make considerably more than them all the time. Even their financial advisors make pennies compared to them.
No it’s not lol. Both of them can decide not to be single anymore by the end of the day while you probably still not gonna be a millionaire for the rest of your life 😂.
Sorry but Kevin Samuels is not the originator of this space. That honor belongs to the 1 and only Mr. Tommy Sotomayor. To take it 1 step further, Patrice O'Neal is the TRUE "OG"
There’s an attitude that comes with a woman like this..Her energy acts as a repellant for the Men she actually desires….You could see the “competitive nature” even as she described her schedule in comparison to Steven A…She’s a trained lawyer which means she's a “professional aurgurer” …A woman like this will always be in competition with her Significant other…a struggle or power will be the destruction of any of her relationships…
When you're like 40+ as a woman, you just can't get by on looks anymore, even if you are gorgeous. Most men around that age and could meet her standards probably have had enough experience to not be fooled by a pretty face as well. Eboni is an attractive woman, but that won't cancel out all of the other stuff she has going on. The kind of man that Eboni thinks wants to have the most beautiful woman on his arm can get that woman at half her age without all of the extra baggage. Attracting a man is easy. Keeping him is the real trick. The issue with women like Eboni is that they want a masculine man, but the kind of man they want has to be more than masculine, he has to go above his own natural masculinity to control the masculinity in her and bring out her femininity. It's entirely too much work.
Essentially, a traditionally masculine man graded on feminist specifications, to paraphrase Mr. Z. It's all out of convenience for women sidestepping accountability and adherence to a man's standards, expectations, and boundaries.
Exactly. The kind of men who like that sort of "challenge" usually turn out to be verbally and physically abusive. Women like Eboni want a man "that can handle them", and those type of men will PHYSICALLY handle them frequently.
@@iloveme2ful being single doesn't mean nobody wants you, especially with women, it's usually becasue they don't want what's out there or simple did not want to be in a relationship. everyone are not pressed to be in relationships
A man said “Men don’t run from marriage, they run from divorce(loosing half). Like soccer player whose wife was going to leave him over allegations. She would have taken a lot of his money had it not been for his mother.
In divorce what should the woman leave with? She has been at home taking care of everything while you work. She has no marketable skills and no emergency fund. She has not put into social security. I don’t care who files. The issue is always she is taking half from you when it’s us. When you say half from you it was never an us. The other part is tax payers don’t want to take care of the family you both created. Take care of your family.
I onced heard someone say likeability is a real trait, some ppl have it some ppl dont. Steph Curry is a very likeable person, Lebron is very polarizing. Both great players, both great ppl. Its something about Eboni thats just not very likeable!
Yo imagine a man saying “I don’t have to go looking for a job, it will find me!” Some women these days put more effort into their job than their relationships and don’t see the issue. Goofy
What's best is that the 7 doesn't even WANT to be considered a 10 because she knows the pressures that come with. that means she comfortable in her skin
Why would he ask a woman what a man should want? How would she know? She won't even take a man that's a seven? She would rather be alone. Steven, bruh, I like you, I defend you, but stop pandering and being political when it comes to women. Great advice, but you don't need a woman cosigning men's issue. Ask another man. That would have been legitimate. You're not on First Take asking basketball players about hockey. Don't do that here on men's issues.
@tamrafobes231 Its all subjective ie the eye of the beholder because whatever you think you are somebody somewhere ain't feeling you as much as you are feeling yourself and thats on a global scale 24/7/364 !!
Ebony is cute. As a younger woman she definitely was an 8 plus. But if you are a chill, laid back dude, she isn't for you. She's the talkative, opinionated type that wants stimulating convo ALL the time, when you just want to chill.
Eboni K Williams' diction and the accentuation of her words (no shortcuts or cut offs) is amazing - love it. Any woman who can speak so cogently is wowser. 🎉🎉🎉
"i've never had a problem attracting men.." why do women say that like that's a flex? It's not. Most men know that women have tons of options. So when you are single after a certain age it reflects poorly on you.
8:17 A man who is focused and committed to reaching his full potential, his best self, doesn’t need his women “pushing” him. Women, please be a helper, not a pusher. 💯
You mean down 2 points. The problem is that Eboni probably wants a dominant, prosperous Black man, but doesn't want to accept he has the choice of women of all races AND younger than her AND playing their part... Eboni best go find a rich White man, she can get the LIFESTYLE from and maybe some good 🍆
you all are buggin', she is physically attractive. I get it though, no one wants to hear attractive people say they're attractive, they're supposed to be "humble" and she definitely is not that.
@@Jukeboxster nope, I'M an 8 as a guy. And my real world reinforces that. Ebony is in NO WAY an 8 at the age of 40 lmfao.. 20 years ago, yes, she was beautiful. But now, hell no! Plus her attitude is absolutely rank. imo, being generous, physically she is a 6 at most. and as a package she's a 3. not worth the ehadache.
Me: Scrabbling around looking for her OFF SWITCH!! She’s exhausting!! I mean who willingly signs up to date and marry this?? Asking for NO ONE!! Lol😂😂😂
I dont think people who arent married should be giving advice on how to have strong healthy relationships. That goes for all them relationship manosphere dudes as well
@xHoTsHoTx That's not hardly the point. The point is neither one are in position to give any sort of advice or anything on relationships. It's like Steve Harvey after 3 marriages giving advice on marriage
Why so many SINGLES are posing as marriage gurus?? Two single people trying to advise y'all on how to acquire marriage and nurture a prosperous marriage. Marriage isn't for everyone.
These two are very career driven and are looking for love now. Stephen A is having some great discussions on his show. You can tell SAS is looking for what’s next.
I would take advice from an unmarried person who has studied relationships. Being in a relationship doesn’t make you a relationship expert; it just means that you may be an expert on your own relationship. Also, don’t male OB/GYNs deliver babies? They’ve never given birth, right? I bet they can tell you mire about the female reproductive system than most women
She is still running around podcast to podcast talking about what she does not know? There are more accomplished women who have and have had zero issues getting into relationships and getting married. She has a manly disposition, and she is trying to ride the fence, that's her issue. 8's, 9's, and 10s are winning and always have won, the thing about them is they are likeable and she just seems tiresome.
I agree with his breakdown and reasoning for his strong 7 argument. Basically for his same sentiments. Not say that all 8-10 are bad matches. But those 7s are definitely more easy to get along with and date.
Damn Steven, you funding all of this yourself? Camera movement is sick! But, the audio needs work. Maybe testing the studio. Let’s see how covering romance stuff like sports will work out. Should be a little more dramatic in look. I think you could deliver that though.
I rate that shes recognised her mistakes and talks on it.....she addmitted shes been wrong.....yeah shes single and has no kids...but i think shes come to understand why.
The fact that she keeps referring to her self as pretty and a 9+ is wild. In my option she’s an attractive women, but beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
That attractive/cute stuff runs out eventually and a man just wants to come home to a drama free home.
And some top a few times a week lol
Preach.
“Food, sex, & scilence.” -Chris rock
a woma want to come home to a drama free, clean with a homecooked meal
@@iqraali4776 gotta learn to spell before speaking on relationships times are too toxic to be disingenuous at this time
Kevin Samuels taught these hard heads in legacy media. We knew yall was listening. We can tell now
9:35-Attracting men is not a flex for a woman. It’s the retention of a man that’s telling and significant
When will they realize that. That’s why the men they go crazy over they don’t mind the world knowing because every other chick in their hood/city/country/school/job/female family wants him.
The flex is keeping a man and him choosing to marry you!
I bet being with her is exhausting.
Definitely
If you’re with a woman long enough, you will be exhausted. Should be a law of physics
Facts 💯 @@Cheddar_Wizard
Just listening too her gets on my nerves 🤬
Definitely picking that energy up. She seems very moody and difficult, even though she claims to be feminine. Also looks like a ball buster
Stephen A talks about everything like it’s a game 7 in the NBA 😂
Lmao bruh
2 single people discussing black marriages 😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
@@jewel6799 bruh they are literally over 45 years . They are actually part of the problem literally
RIP Kevin Samuels
Singles advising us. This is like me advising millionaires
😂😂😂😂
To be fair. Millionaires hire consultants who make considerably more than them all the time. Even their financial advisors make pennies compared to them.
No it’s not lol. Both of them can decide not to be single anymore by the end of the day while you probably still not gonna be a millionaire for the rest of your life 😂.
no that's not it. A chronic swirler discussing the black family
Coaches don't play
R.i.p to Kevin Samuels, the originator, cuz everyone takes his ideology.
It’s literally not HIS ideology lol he just had the platform to say what many men think and express in our day to day lives. Rip KS though
Sorry but Kevin Samuels is not the originator of this space. That honor belongs to the 1 and only Mr. Tommy Sotomayor. To take it 1 step further, Patrice O'Neal is the TRUE "OG"
@@eighthletta6581haha OG Tommy
@@shawnmorgan9060he deserves the credit for bringing the ideology to the for front and making it a popular topic
@@5luelight726 I agree.
Both these people old as hell and single with no family legacies created. They don't practice what they preaching to us???
Facts
SAS has two daughters but isn't married.
They do have Professional Legacies though, and they can speak on it as they are on the dating market
SAS has kids
Steven a has a daughter 😂
There’s an attitude that comes with a woman like this..Her energy acts as a repellant for the Men she actually desires….You could see the “competitive nature” even as she described her schedule in comparison to Steven A…She’s a trained lawyer which means she's a “professional aurgurer” …A woman like this will always be in competition with her Significant other…a struggle or power will be the destruction of any of her relationships…
When you're like 40+ as a woman, you just can't get by on looks anymore, even if you are gorgeous. Most men around that age and could meet her standards probably have had enough experience to not be fooled by a pretty face as well.
Eboni is an attractive woman, but that won't cancel out all of the other stuff she has going on. The kind of man that Eboni thinks wants to have the most beautiful woman on his arm can get that woman at half her age without all of the extra baggage.
Attracting a man is easy. Keeping him is the real trick.
The issue with women like Eboni is that they want a masculine man, but the kind of man they want has to be more than masculine, he has to go above his own natural masculinity to control the masculinity in her and bring out her femininity. It's entirely too much work.
Essentially, a traditionally masculine man graded on feminist specifications, to paraphrase Mr. Z. It's all out of convenience for women sidestepping accountability and adherence to a man's standards, expectations, and boundaries.
Exactly. The kind of men who like that sort of "challenge" usually turn out to be verbally and physically abusive. Women like Eboni want a man "that can handle them", and those type of men will PHYSICALLY handle them frequently.
Rating yourself 8 and above when you’re old and single is wild 😂😂😂
whats your rating? 😂😂😂
5 1/2 at best.
You can't look good if your single or over 30?
@@iloveme2ful being single doesn't mean nobody wants you, especially with women, it's usually becasue they don't want what's out there or simple did not want to be in a relationship. everyone are not pressed to be in relationships
@r.walker7986 you use pronouns, don't you?
If I’m not mistaken, both of these people are superbly single 😂😂😂
A man said “Men don’t run from marriage, they run from divorce(loosing half). Like soccer player whose wife was going to leave him over allegations. She would have taken a lot of his money had it not been for his mother.
I think that's 'Hakimi'. He plays for PSG.
In divorce what should the woman leave with? She has been at home taking care of everything while you work. She has no marketable skills and no emergency fund. She has not put into social security. I don’t care who files. The issue is always she is taking half from you when it’s us. When you say half from you it was never an us. The other part is tax payers don’t want to take care of the family you both created. Take care of your family.
@@tam6011 what ever they made when they married, is what she should get half of. Nothing more, nothing less🤔.
@@creationmuse2313 right so when in that marriage everything is half in divorce it’s the same
@@tam6011 Example, Dr Dre! His wife should not have access to what he built before she married him.
I onced heard someone say likeability is a real trait, some ppl have it some ppl dont. Steph Curry is a very likeable person, Lebron is very polarizing. Both great players, both great ppl. Its something about Eboni thats just not very likeable!
She brags and talks too much. She also thinks she’s more attractive than she actually is. Overly confident.
Yo imagine a man saying “I don’t have to go looking for a job, it will find me!” Some women these days put more effort into their job than their relationships and don’t see the issue. Goofy
They both not married or in a relationship that they’re proud enough to show. but for some reason they think they should be giving us advice 🚮🚮
😂😂😂
Still deluded at 40..lol!
It's an epidemic troubling black women
@@jareklewis5519Like you all perfect? Guess again!
Ikr. Can't believe she thinks she an 8 and said it as if she was being conservative.
@JasonJFlippingLife she looks old and her overall aura is like a serious school principal... give her 5.5 at best
@@Alia89119not perfect just not delusional
Her being the prettiest in the room...is crazy
Bonkers
Eboni is a 5 at best
If she is full of resistance, she aint for you. Plain and simple.
What's best is that the 7 doesn't even WANT to be considered a 10 because she knows the pressures that come with. that means she comfortable in her skin
That philosophy was applicable back in the days. Sixes and sevens no longer act like sixes and sevens. Shouts out to Instagram.
Which makes (the 7) her a 10 for me
She's a 5 1/2 at best.
Wish they stop asking these women what men want
Lmaoooo how tf she know what men want?
She said everything but Peace, Respect and Cooperation... 🤣😂🤣
She literally was right with everything she said though lol
@@RobertDGordon "Agreeable" covers all 3 of those things
Why would he ask a woman what a man should want? How would she know? She won't even take a man that's a seven? She would rather be alone. Steven, bruh, I like you, I defend you, but stop pandering and being political when it comes to women. Great advice, but you don't need a woman cosigning men's issue. Ask another man. That would have been legitimate. You're not on First Take asking basketball players about hockey. Don't do that here on men's issues.
She doesn't come across as soft
Because she's not. She's a bulldog in a skirt
Preach
she really believes she is the prettiest woman in 9 out of 10 rooms she walks into?
Maybe 20 years ago🤷🏾♂️
@@creditlessonsnot even then
Take off that fake hair let's see what we got
That’s wat I was gon say lol, she not ugly or anything but she not just that fine like she think she is
@@Fitman2024Wash
She would look like one of the Bone Thug dudes.🤭
I love Stephen A Smith show...💯
You were probably above 8 20 years ago.
😂
Black Man here! Eboni K Williams has never been a 8, 9 or 10. Kelly Rowland is a 10 Plus. Even in here prime she is not Kelly Rowland.
Damn.
Facts.. She a ok 6
@tamrafobes231 Its all subjective ie the eye of the beholder because whatever you think you are somebody somewhere ain't feeling you as much as you are feeling yourself and thats on a global scale 24/7/364 !!
Kelly Rowland? 😂
Ebony is cute. As a younger woman she definitely was an 8 plus. But if you are a chill, laid back dude, she isn't for you. She's the talkative, opinionated type that wants stimulating convo ALL the time, when you just want to chill.
Kevin Samuels told us that.
2 successful single people. 1 by choice, 1 by circumstance...😏
Both the wrong ones to be given advice about relationships
Yall can’t tell me Stephen A ain’t trying to do his best Shannon seeing all that hype
We need more of these conversations.
Eboni needs a calm, secure, handsome, intelligent, confident man. Unfortunately, I'm not available. 😂😂😂😂
Eboni K Williams' diction and the accentuation of her words (no shortcuts or cut offs) is amazing - love it. Any woman who can speak so cogently is wowser. 🎉🎉🎉
"i've never had a problem attracting men.."
why do women say that like that's a flex? It's not. Most men know that women have tons of options. So when you are single after a certain age it reflects poorly on you.
8:17 A man who is focused and committed to reaching his full potential, his best self, doesn’t need his women “pushing” him.
Women, please be a helper, not a pusher. 💯
She is exhausting, pretentious, and carries a lot of masculine energy.
She makes my ears bleed and just nauseous 🤢 hearing her talk rather she just shut up and dribble
Just remember it's a reason why eboni williams is single 😎💯
Single men or women giving relationship advice is asinine 😂😂, get married first
This girl is Delusional! 1st of all there are NO women that get 8 9 or 10 past thier 20's. She loses 3-4 points right there. 😂
So manly and Nails not done 😮
I don’t co sign an 8 and above. Thinking more of a 6
Everytime someone says”let” a man be a man…. I say “WTF?
I love to listen to intelligent women speak about what it takes to withstand a relationship of high standards.
If she knows what it takes, why she not married……….
She's feeling herself way too much. LOL Where does all of this egotistical behavior come from?
Eboni broke the scale. She started a strong 9. That potty mouth slip bumped her up 2 points.
You mean down 2 points. The problem is that Eboni probably wants a dominant, prosperous Black man, but doesn't want to accept he has the choice of women of all races AND younger than her AND playing their part... Eboni best go find a rich White man, she can get the LIFESTYLE from and maybe some good 🍆
Is Michelle Obama a strong 7 🤔
Miss Williams is lovely
Did she just say she was an 8? 😂 Solid 2
I don't know about 2 - but 8 is quite generous... lol
you all are buggin', she is physically attractive. I get it though, no one wants to hear attractive people say they're attractive, they're supposed to be "humble" and she definitely is not that.
@@Jukeboxster nope, I'M an 8 as a guy. And my real world reinforces that. Ebony is in NO WAY an 8 at the age of 40 lmfao.. 20 years ago, yes, she was beautiful. But now, hell no! Plus her attitude is absolutely rank. imo, being generous, physically she is a 6 at most. and as a package she's a 3. not worth the ehadache.
Steven A wanted to say more but pandered to her
@6:30...😂😂😂😂WTH type of room is this?????
Adjustable 6 Eboni K
I like this!! Keeping going up SAS!!
You two get married already!😂😂
Me: Scrabbling around looking for her OFF SWITCH!! She’s exhausting!! I mean who willingly signs up to date and marry this?? Asking for NO ONE!! Lol😂😂😂
I dont think people who arent married should be giving advice on how to have strong healthy relationships. That goes for all them relationship manosphere dudes as well
Eboni looks like a traditional housewife, she’s even dressed like one. I’m glad she admits she needs a real man not a weak girly man!
A 56 year old man and a 40 year old woman, both single and one with no kids, schooling us about relationships lol
Stephen A has daughters
OMG - I have travelled for la living and she's a nice looking lady but I don't think that she would be the prettiest woman that I see daily
@@derekcasanares4785 Thanks
you just chatting at this point.... Stephen has kids......
@xHoTsHoTx That's not hardly the point. The point is neither one are in position to give any sort of advice or anything on relationships. It's like Steve Harvey after 3 marriages giving advice on marriage
She almost married a white man
There is nothing wrong with that.
“Der derr, white man bad white man scary, der derr…”
Yes and he had a lucky escape LOL 😅😅😅
@@jewel6799well, she talks black, black...
ALMOST doesn't count 😂
Why so many SINGLES are posing as marriage gurus?? Two single people trying to advise y'all on how to acquire marriage and nurture a prosperous marriage. Marriage isn't for everyone.
Eboni lost her damn mind😂😂😂
These two are very career driven and are looking for love now. Stephen A is having some great discussions on his show. You can tell SAS is looking for what’s next.
That forehead omg ..can’t even put that into words
Yeah i personally don't think either one of them are in good place to give relationship advice
Stop taking relationship advice from people who aren’t in a relationship or married
I would take advice from an unmarried person who has studied relationships. Being in a relationship doesn’t make you a relationship expert; it just means that you may be an expert on your own relationship. Also, don’t male OB/GYNs deliver babies? They’ve never given birth, right? I bet they can tell you mire about the female reproductive system than most women
She is still running around podcast to podcast talking about what she does not know? There are more accomplished women who have and have had zero issues getting into relationships and getting married. She has a manly disposition, and she is trying to ride the fence, that's her issue. 8's, 9's, and 10s are winning and always have won, the thing about them is they are likeable and she just seems tiresome.
I want Ebony!!
great show
The demands of life can make dating/marriage too complicated it's get hard to find and please somebody
These 2 should date. If they not already...
Come home and tell her I don't want to hear it, just put it in your mouth
I guarantee she wouldn’t have that type of confidence working at Burger King!
I agree with his breakdown and reasoning for his strong 7 argument.
Basically for his same sentiments.
Not say that all 8-10 are bad matches.
But those 7s are definitely more easy to get along with and date.
I wish Kevin Samuels was doing this interview because she is delusional.
Aint no man lookin for her. Too combative. 😹 we can tell already.
Steven A. The lady wanted a refill on her drink and your studio dropped the ball man. 😭
No wedding ring.. yet ALL the answers- Eboni K Williams
This is Abdullah nice content
Ebony is beautiful but she rating herself way higher then she really is
*I bet being with her is exhausting*
great topic
Eboni is all dried up. Why we asking her about a family?
@@jewel6799 you know what I mean 😉
@@jewel6799It means at this point, she couldn’t have a family even if she wanted to. I guess her waiting on “Mr. Right” didn’t pay off
Great interview ❤7
Damn Steven, you funding all of this yourself? Camera movement is sick! But, the audio needs work. Maybe testing the studio. Let’s see how covering romance stuff like sports will work out. Should be a little more dramatic in look. I think you could deliver that though.
They have pretty much told her through her entire life that she is too good and too perfect.
8s 9s and 10s don’t stay that way, must be a deeper connection than looks.
SAS smackes it😂
She thinks she’s the best looking woman in 9/10 rooms…
Bro, she'll get played too!!!
I rate that shes recognised her mistakes and talks on it.....she addmitted shes been wrong.....yeah shes single and has no kids...but i think shes come to understand why.
That's the thing though, alot of women do around her age. The issue is that it's often too late.
Hello Ms. Williams,
My name is Mark and I believe that we are a match.
Stephen A. If you are reading this, out in a word for me.
This one sure can talk. Sheesh
Women overate themselves too much. She said she’s a 8-8.5. Nah. She’s a 7 at best.
The fact that she keeps referring to her self as pretty and a 9+ is wild. In my option she’s an attractive women, but beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Southern Bell! She is not as feminine as Stephen A. Smith.l
Follow Christ, pray for the right person to come into your life, and go out and meet people. Keep it simple.
Eboni K. Williams is not a 8 or above. She looks like the standard black chick that went to college