I'm hearing you. I had 40 years of narcissistic abuse from my mother & sister. Wishing you all the best for a happier & and more peaceful life narcissistic free. God bless 🙌 🙏
These toxic people don't have no empathy or humanity. I never thought that any human being could be so cruel and sick❗💯🙏🏼 These people really need serious mental and spiritual help❗💯
The narcissist is who they are and won’t ever change. Keep resisting the Hoover attempts and don’t react to their smear campaigns. Their lies will eventually get exposed for the world to see. Stay the course! 💪
Arguing with narcissists is like getting arrested, and everything you say will be used against you. Narcissists don't break your heart,they break your spirit. Stay away from these's people! Many blessings 🙌 🙏 beautiful ✨️ bright shining ✨️ lights ❤🕯
They do break hearts, I had an open heart surgery in Nov. 2023. It is called a broken heart syndrome. After mine every thing changed in me...I did not put up with any shit from him.
When my ex would cheat, he’d start an argument for a stupid reason, blame me for the argument, then ignore me for days. Unfortunately, I only realized after we divorced, and he cheated with me on his girlfriend. No longer in that mess - NO CONTACT. Don’t even look them up ANYWHERE. It will only set you back. Thanks, Andrew, for your content! I appreciate the same perspective from you. It seems like women just sound like broken records 😢! Especially on the money topic. Financial abuse is real, and many wealthy men are after women with money just to get more.
I believed in his lies, leading me on and his mask of how nice he was but then I said the forbidden word NO and the mask crashed down and broke and I realized who he was. He wanted to destroy my self-esteem and my dignity, break my boundaries so now I am almost healed. I see what a disgusting human being he is. He is now very tiny on my horizon. Thinking of him makes me sick. While healing from his abuse I have healed from past wounds and am feeling now better than ever. Thank you, Andrew.
Good on you for kicking the pathetic creature out of life. They never change & you & all of us victims deserve a happy & peaceful fulfilling life. Blessings to you 🙏 ✨️
Thank you, I will stay out of their web for now and for ever. And go my own way in Light, Love and Faith. Thank you so much Andrew from the beatiful Carolines.😅
So true, never trust anyone who really lacks basic empathy (true concern) for people. Everything about them will be just that, fake connections and everything else too.
Projection is nasty, as is triangulation. Being accused of cheating and being triangulated when you are innocent is disgusting. Denied kids as well. Horrible individuals!!
@@Seanus32 This behavior from toxic people is not right. They go around angry at everyone for what happened to them❗This is not fair to the people that never hurt them. This is not fair to the children that are unfortunately mixed up in these situations. The narcissist people need to stop the vicious cycle of toxic abuse and go get help for themselves❗💯🙏🏼
Projection is a super weird one. Sometimes, it's a set up and at times a Narc actually believes the twisted rant or spouting , where you said or did nothing of the sort. I know the term now, and less shocked. They are a Narc film house projector with burning film, melting before your eyes on screen, stuck in the gate. Smoldering, stinking and reels loaded in the wrong way.
if I only knew then what I know now about Narcissists, life would have been so much different. Narc go way back, married my Narc Husband 54+ yrs ago, he passed away 5+ mos. ago. Often I wonder how I made it through it. Thanks Andrew for helping us through and beyond life with the Narc.
The word “bragging” doesn’t fit being married to (or living with) and living thru years under the control of a Narcissist. It was a different time back then, It was a Wife’s duty (and control by Narcissists) to stay married, raise the kids…. then add in a Narcissist to the home of any survivor of a Narcissist knows what I’m saying. Besides in my case as with Narcissists many have flying monkeys involved. I’m a survivor who is grateful to know I have peace and quiet now and others dealing with Narcissists aren’t alone, Andrew is teaching us how to heal and avoid Narcissists. We are spreading the word about what a Narcissist is and does.
Projections are the clue. I thought it couldn’t be true. But it really was. She said I was delusional, not growing, and not trustworthy. Those were her. She lost me. Before that she had me when things were good. I hope she learned something. I blocked and deleted her last year. So sad. I did love her. Oh well.
My ex-boyfriend used to pull the “are you cheating on me” crap…because he was out on the prowl himself. And yes, a Hoover is nothing but an attempt to trick and trap you again. They must get a thrill from tricking and trapping people into believing they can love.
I was taking my bedroom trashcan out to dump and my narc roommate very accusationally asked what I was doing. To which I replied, taking my trash out. It then asked why. Uhhhhh, because it's full. At the time I didn't understand why it acted so offensively. Now I know, it was worried I was going to meet someone who I would use to kick it out.
They want you to trust them.... to think you're on the same page..... to believe they've got your back...BS!!! When you least expect it they'll be pulling out the rug beneath you & violating anything that you hold as dear or important. The trampling of who you are ...without batting an eye! Be Well, Be Wise 🌈🎀😘
Feels like the ultimate "betrayal," till you look at your past. There were "betrayals," all over the place. I ordered a brand new Red Flag detector. It's faster, better calibrated and custom fitted.Have a Great Full Moon Evening, Marie! Hope to look back many moons from now and still feel overjoyed I found this channel. 😉☕☕🌕👍
😷 I remember that the narcissist told me that he met an ex when the corona virus was among people. Narcissist got corona sick. A week later I got sick . Narcissist tells me : I didn’t make you sick. 😦 . Who put my life in danger . 🧌 the narcissist .
Yes it is.I loved my wife so deeply and was faithful to her for 18 years.She cheated on me lied to me manipulated me and so many other things.She has dark dead eyes and no love in them.I have never been through this before meeting her.I am so kind and true.She has spread lies about me that she was abused and hurt and destroyed.She has hundreds of followers on social media and no one knows her like i do.She is a fraud a fake.She has said i beat her and so many other things?.I am devestated about what she has said a out me.She left my daughter and abandoned us to be with numerous other men.I know how much it can hurt to not feel like enough,to feel like a nobody,to feel like you have nothing to offer.Her mother is an extreme narcissist also,they are both one in the same.Hope you find someone good someday.
It really was bizarre-o-world. The narc discarded me in 2023 and I continue to struggle with who he really is. I trust no one 100% but I trusted him the most. So very cold hearted and cold. I wish no harm to him but he needs consequences. Karma needs to bite him in the ass. He is the aging narcissist and some health issues may be in the near future.
Sounds like we've been living the same nightmare!! I'm still struggling, ruminating about him....( the nice one).....I know it's NEVER going to change , no more chances.❤
My aunt from NZ was able to recognize my ex as the narcissist once he came to pick up our son. She stated he talked too much about himself. Never asked her a question. The narc definitely wants to be relevant and attention seeking ALWAYS!!
My brother would come over(70+ miles) and put a listening device in one my plants and would drive away within 1500 feet and listen to me and my narc wife would hear say about(hover). There were so many things that I was tricked about a trick is a lie a trick is another word for a lie.
I wanted to leave and said there is no future we will never get married, he says wait for it... "Never say never", it was a worm on a hook. Omg, I can't believe I stayed a moment longer.
I've graduated this course, reached the pinnacle of indifference! I watch Andrew's video to bolster my decision to go no contact, to remind me not to lower my blockade. Plus, I appreciate his efforts to help this community.
When I reinforced my mother's silent attitude towards discard, I initially felt a lot more energy. After a short while I became angry and ultimately really sad. Even after six months, it's hard to assume that she won't change and things will only get worse. I always told her that she chose to be like that, not to develop further. She never responded. No one has forgiven as much and as often as I have. But at some point it's over. Life has passed me by and aside from my little college education, my sports, and my job, I have nothing. But when I observe normal women out there, men too, many of them have a narcissistic touch. They don't deserve you, they just find each other, like the narcissist finds the narcissist. Because we are no victims anymore.
One day before my 52nd birthday we had dinner a chinese restaurant I hated, bc food was always to salty their. We fought and she gave me the silent treatment, again. Worst mistake ever! That gave me time to think. A huge mistake since I am a sensitive guy, but a cerebral person as well. After that it was game for the old lady. She had the guts to give me a birthday card: I translate from German to English To my son No matter how hard life seems, you are braver than you think, stronger than you believe, and loved more than you could ever imagine. Laugh, love, live Follow your dreams, believe in yourself and don't forget to be great. I'm proud of you, with love, mom. Can one believe that shxt?
Andrew always says that narcissists never change... Six months ago I found documents from a children's home that my mother (74) had read to me. When she was 14, my mother was sent to Catholic home for difficult-to-educate children. What is only possible until you are 21 (today 18), then you are of legal age. These documents contain what applies to her today. According to several homes, she was described as follows: She Hangs out in the Vienna Prater (grew up there) / We are Austrians, living in the capitol, Vienna keeps escaping the home lies, is malicious, gloating, cheeky always speaks against the instructions in the home doesn't find a connection is violent always wants to be the center of attention is particularly disingenuous dissimulates everything and doesn't take responsibility for her actions is unpunctual is only interested in food and bums (but wasn't really fat) is extremely unstable in terms of will and weak in character doesn't follow any house rules and is constantly disruptive is not accepted by most comrades / She even had no friends amongst other children there has skill but no endurance is unreliable in character performs below average is constantly involved in conflicts talks badly about others is brutal!!! has an intelligence defect (T-score 37) was deflowered and claimed being a virgin, but admitted to having sex with a cousin / She always told me being a virgin till 18! There was constant tension around her. She escaped from the homes several times *Her stream of speech was non-stop and lacking in content.*
When I went to her for coffee every day for almost 20 years, I couldn't sit and breathe for five minutes. She always had to show me something and I had to get up and come into the kitchen etc. I never got peace, never! There were thousands of little things to keep me busy or even angry. At first I thought it was because of my age (52) and that I would become an old, grumpy man, even though I was well educated, extremely fit and a positive person. But over the last two years it has been obvious that much of it was intentionally provoked. My mother was always jealous that other people spoke well of me and liked me.
yes self entitlement and ownership is the Narc, he liked saying he paid $3 for me then he’s laugh as the Narc does. The $3 was the cost of a marriage license in 1970. Sadly he believed it, sick!
i was just like you, wondering why some people effortlessly draw attention while i felt invisible. nothing i tried seemed to work. then i came across Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it completely shifted my perspective. the way chapter 3 explains energy and presence? it’s like unlocking the secret to being noticed.
Never accused me of cheating because h exhausted me with his drug use & sloppy behavior then making me question myself as anal retentive. UR so right they don't think like us. My loyalty was a weakness to him.
Whatever you dislike they do. Hate red cars? That's what they'll get. Can't stand a certain person's ego? Narco will make friends with the person and cause problems between you which could have been avoided just for fun.
Restarted text contact for Hope of divorce; his relayed details are awkward, odd, and belie hoovering. What were ploys to get me to ask, "OhRly, Tell Me More," left me chuckling, before I wondered if he had another victim under his thumb. I actually don't read his txts beyond whether or not my requirements are getting met... Good luck, Everyone, on your journey. 🙏💙❣️
Second, when you were talking about hypnotizing I can say if you havent yet you need to watch the movie "Get Out" because I realized that the same thing that happened to the boyfriend in that movie was the same thing that happened to me all throughout the time I knew the ex narc wife for 8 or 9 years!!! In hindsight, I questioned her about if shes actually doing that to me and everytime I tried to talk to her about the movie or anytime me and my Dad would be talking about it around her she would run away and start crying!!! She knew thats exactly what she was doing, but didnt want to face the truth the whole timee!!!😮😮🤔
She didn't cry because of you,my friend. It's about manipulation. She probably always got what she wanted from you after that manipulation. Those tears were fake.
I have 2 things I would like to mention. First and foremost, Andrew I just got a lightbulb moment! I remember when me and the ex narc wife were engaged and we went to pre marital counselling and the pastor asked us both a question which was "if your spouse and your family were both drowning in the ocean, who would you save first?" My answer was her and then interestingly enough the ex narc wife said she would save me as well! But you want to know something funny, during the course of the 3.5 marriage I asked the same question to her when I started catching on to the charade and when I asked her this time her response was "I dont know!!, maybe you and my family!! What do you want me to say!!" Trying to guilt trip me and gaslight me at the same time smhh 🤔😔
if you’ve ever felt like no one notices you, trust me, i get it. i felt like that for years, trying all the confidence hacks and advice out there. but nothing clicked until i read Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki. there’s something about chapter 3-it’s like the missing puzzle piece i didn’t know i needed.
Projection gaslighting etc We once were victims but not anymore thankfully We are survivers dear reader you're not here by coincidence cut contacts it might be difficult at the beginning but give it sometime and your clarity will return your health will return your sanity return Believe this man believe that these creatures will never ever improve they become worse Close that chapter forever
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sad everything you are explaining, I went through for 1.5 years 🤕 And out no where he was cold, he found a new supply, and still had the nerve to lead me on , all awhile he was courting the new supply , stringing me along 🤕😩
for the longest time, i thought being magnetic was something you either had or didn’t. i used to watch others shine while i felt stuck. then i found Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it made me realize it’s all about the vibe you give off. chapter 3 especially changed the way i carry myself-it’s such a powerful shift.
been there, feeling like no matter how hard i tried, i just didn’t stand out. then i picked up Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and honestly, it changed everything. chapter 3 opened my eyes to how energy works-it’s not about effort, it’s about alignment. people started noticing me in ways they never had before.
Blatant Arrogance is the cornerstone of their depth of emotional immaturity!
Thank you again Andrew! 💯❤
If only I could get back even one day of the 16 miserable years I spent with a narcissist before I knew there was such a thing.
I'm hearing you. I had 40 years of narcissistic abuse from my mother & sister. Wishing you all the best for a happier & and more peaceful life narcissistic free. God bless 🙌 🙏
I felt the same... I wanted justice, vengeance... for everything I had lost, including myself for a while.. such terrible evil.
These toxic people don't have no empathy or humanity. I never thought that any human being could be so cruel and sick❗💯🙏🏼 These people really need serious mental and spiritual help❗💯
Andrew, there are no words to express how wonderfully you are, thank you so very much!!!!!!!!!😊😊😊
Spent too long caring for them. Now, it's your turn for peace and quiet. Never forget. ❣️
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@roslyncerro1263
This made my day.
The peace and quiet are cherished.
Thank you❤
Thank you, Andrew!
You bring truth and compassion.
Your words are the key
to a new life and healing.❤
Same.
Better late than never!❤
Thank you Andrew ❤
THEY DON'T CHANGE for the better....they get WORSE each time we give them a chance.
It’s wonderful to be not alone!! Thx Andrew !
To many people are out there just to abuse others! Love and hug ❤to all.
I finally understand the truth and am grateful for your help . Thank you.
Truth sets you free. Thank you.
The narcissist is who they are and won’t ever change. Keep resisting the Hoover attempts and don’t react to their smear campaigns. Their lies will eventually get exposed for the world to see. Stay the course! 💪
The event could be- You said the criminal word “NO” and the punishment is unforgettable.
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@@lysaholly and in my case the retaliation received when Narc didn’t get his way, wow!
Thank you for being here for us Andrew x
Welcome..🙏💜⛰️✨
Arguing with narcissists is like getting arrested, and everything you say will be used against you. Narcissists don't break your heart,they break your spirit. Stay away from these's people! Many blessings 🙌 🙏 beautiful ✨️ bright shining ✨️ lights ❤🕯
They do break hearts, I had an open heart surgery in Nov. 2023. It is called a broken heart syndrome. After mine every thing changed in me...I did not put up with any shit from him.
When my ex would cheat, he’d start an argument for a stupid reason, blame me for the argument, then ignore me for days. Unfortunately, I only realized after we divorced, and he cheated with me on his girlfriend. No longer in that mess - NO CONTACT. Don’t even look them up ANYWHERE. It will only set you back.
Thanks, Andrew, for your content! I appreciate the same perspective from you. It seems like women just sound like broken records 😢! Especially on the money topic. Financial abuse is real, and many wealthy men are after women with money just to get more.
Women are also victims of financial abuse. Sorry to burst your bubble. I can tell you that first handedly.
I believed in his lies, leading me on and his mask of how nice he was but then I said the forbidden word NO and the mask crashed down and broke and I realized who he was. He wanted to destroy my self-esteem and my dignity, break my boundaries so now I am almost healed. I see what a disgusting human being he is. He is now very tiny on my horizon. Thinking of him makes me sick. While healing from his abuse I have healed from past wounds and am feeling now better than ever. Thank you, Andrew.
Good on you for kicking the pathetic creature out of life. They never change & you & all of us victims deserve a happy & peaceful fulfilling life. Blessings to you 🙏 ✨️
Thank you, I will stay out of their web for now and for ever.
And go my own way in Light, Love and Faith. Thank you so much Andrew from the beatiful Carolines.😅
The healing path should consist of Loving yourself.❤
Ended the year with a new narc and a new skill set. I don't think they stand a chance in the future.
I dont even know you and that makes my day. 👏
So true, never trust anyone who really lacks basic empathy (true concern) for people. Everything about them will be just that, fake connections and everything else too.
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Projection is nasty, as is triangulation. Being accused of cheating and being triangulated when you are innocent is disgusting. Denied kids as well. Horrible individuals!!
@@Seanus32 This behavior from toxic people is not right. They go around angry at everyone for what happened to them❗This is not fair to the people that never hurt them. This is not fair to the children that are unfortunately mixed up in these situations. The narcissist people need to stop the vicious cycle of toxic abuse and go get help for themselves❗💯🙏🏼
Projection is a super weird one. Sometimes, it's a set up and at times a Narc actually believes the twisted rant or spouting , where you said or did nothing of the sort. I know the term now, and less shocked. They are a Narc film house projector with burning film, melting before your eyes on screen, stuck in the gate.
Smoldering, stinking and reels loaded in the wrong way.
if I only knew then what I know now about Narcissists, life would have been so much different. Narc go way back, married my Narc Husband 54+ yrs ago, he passed away 5+ mos. ago. Often I wonder how I made it through it. Thanks Andrew for helping us through and beyond life with the Narc.
God bless you, Anna❤
@ Thank you and God bless you too! Stay strong.
Are u bragging that a long-term marriage with a narcissist is possible?
The word “bragging” doesn’t fit being married to (or living with) and living thru years under the control of a Narcissist. It was a different time back then, It was a Wife’s duty (and control by Narcissists) to stay married, raise the kids…. then add in a Narcissist to the home of any survivor of a Narcissist knows what I’m saying. Besides in my case as with Narcissists many have flying monkeys involved. I’m a survivor who is grateful to know I have peace and quiet now and others dealing with Narcissists aren’t alone, Andrew is teaching us how to heal and avoid Narcissists. We are spreading the word about what a Narcissist is and does.
Andrew you opened my eyes to see so many things, even from my childhood. Narcissism was all around me. I wasn't me. It was THEM!
Projections are the clue. I thought it couldn’t be true. But it really was. She said I was delusional, not growing, and not trustworthy. Those were her. She lost me. Before that she had me when things were good. I hope she learned something. I blocked and deleted her last year. So sad. I did love her. Oh well.
My ex-boyfriend used to pull the “are you cheating on me” crap…because he was out on the prowl himself. And yes, a Hoover is nothing but an attempt to trick and trap you again. They must get a thrill from tricking and trapping people into believing they can love.
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Yep I can relate. Projection 😊
I got the same treatment for years and yes you are right they are the one whose cheating.
Bless you all ❤
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I was taking my bedroom trashcan out to dump and my narc roommate very accusationally asked what I was doing. To which I replied, taking my trash out. It then asked why. Uhhhhh, because it's full.
At the time I didn't understand why it acted so offensively. Now I know, it was worried I was going to meet someone who I would use to kick it out.
So true God Bless you !!!
They want you to trust them.... to think you're on the same page..... to believe they've got your back...BS!!! When you least expect it they'll be pulling out the rug beneath you & violating anything that you hold as dear or important. The trampling of who you are ...without batting an eye!
Be Well, Be Wise 🌈🎀😘
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Feels like the ultimate "betrayal," till you look at your past. There were "betrayals," all over the place. I ordered a brand new Red Flag detector. It's faster, better calibrated and custom fitted.Have a Great Full Moon Evening, Marie! Hope to look back many moons from now and still feel overjoyed I found this channel. 😉☕☕🌕👍
@JHavaJoe2-m1z
You will Joe Joe...because things that are truly good only get better as you cherish them more.
Like ☕☕ & sweet friends 🙋🐮🙃❤😘
😷 I remember that the narcissist told me that he met an ex when the corona virus was among people. Narcissist got corona sick. A week later I got sick . Narcissist tells me : I didn’t make you sick. 😦 . Who put my life in danger . 🧌 the narcissist .
It’s the tricks they play with your mind and self worth that cause extreme damage. 😢
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Yes it is.I loved my wife so deeply and was faithful to her for 18 years.She cheated on me lied to me manipulated me and so many other things.She has dark dead eyes and no love in them.I have never been through this before meeting her.I am so kind and true.She has spread lies about me that she was abused and hurt and destroyed.She has hundreds of followers on social media and no one knows her like i do.She is a fraud a fake.She has said i beat her and so many other things?.I am devestated about what she has said a out me.She left my daughter and abandoned us to be with numerous other men.I know how much it can hurt to not feel like enough,to feel like a nobody,to feel like you have nothing to offer.Her mother is an extreme narcissist also,they are both one in the same.Hope you find someone good someday.
Believe in yourself friend and their power will finally end😎
It's evil & devastating... No doubt! 👍🙏💥
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It really was bizarre-o-world. The narc discarded me in 2023 and I continue to struggle with who he really is. I trust no one 100% but I trusted him the most. So very cold hearted and cold. I wish no harm to him but he needs consequences. Karma needs to bite him in the ass. He is the aging narcissist and some health issues may be in the near future.
Sounds like we've been living the same nightmare!!
I'm still struggling, ruminating about him....( the nice one).....I know it's NEVER going to change , no more chances.❤
He's not cheating because we're not an item 😂
Light bulbs going off like a pinball machine here....
Thank you ! Exactly how the relationship went !
Everything was wonderful until I moved in and NOW understand why he wanted me to hurry and unpack .
Any story they wanna tell you about,having you believe gives them a thrill😎
Sickening, absolutely sickening! 👍❤
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Thank you Andrew x❤
My aunt from NZ was able to recognize my ex as the narcissist once he came to pick up our son. She stated he talked too much about himself. Never asked her a question. The narc definitely wants to be relevant and attention seeking ALWAYS!!
Behind the mask is the smirk, and the glee when they see they have hurt you.
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Boundaries Boundaries Boundaries
Great video. Spot on ❤
My brother would come over(70+ miles) and put a listening device in one my plants and would drive away within 1500 feet and listen to me and my narc wife would hear say about(hover). There were so many things that I was tricked about a trick is a lie a trick is another word for a lie.
Another great video…..no free rent!!
Thank you..😊💜🙏⛰️✨
Great video! Thanks Andrew 🙂.
Welcome..😌💜🙏⛰️✨
THANK YOU ANDREW, SO FOR, YOU ARE ON POINT, THANKS FOR, THIS WONDERFUL INFORMATION❤💜🔥🙏
I care about you too Andrew Namaste ❤🙏
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Thank you Andrew
The goodbye makes me laugh!😂
We need to 🙃😁❤💥💥💥
@@marieeakin8534Amen, Sister!❤
❤❤❤ thank you
I wanted to leave and said there is no future we will never get married, he says wait for it... "Never say never", it was a worm on a hook. Omg, I can't believe I stayed a moment longer.
We all had wishful thinking, don’t be too hard on yourself ❤
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I've graduated this course, reached the pinnacle of indifference! I watch Andrew's video to bolster my decision to go no contact, to remind me not to lower my blockade. Plus, I appreciate his efforts to help this community.
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They say one thing and do the other 🙄
lots of broken promises from NARCS!
When I reinforced my mother's silent attitude towards discard, I initially felt a lot more energy.
After a short while I became angry and ultimately really sad. Even after six months, it's hard to assume that she won't change and things will only get worse.
I always told her that she chose to be like that, not to develop further. She never responded.
No one has forgiven as much and as often as I have. But at some point it's over. Life has passed me by and aside from my little college education, my sports, and my job, I have nothing.
But when I observe normal women out there, men too, many of them have a narcissistic touch. They don't deserve you, they just find each other, like the narcissist finds the narcissist.
Because we are no victims anymore.
One day before my 52nd birthday we had dinner a chinese restaurant I hated, bc food was always to salty their.
We fought and she gave me the silent treatment, again.
Worst mistake ever!
That gave me time to think. A huge mistake since I am a sensitive guy, but a cerebral person as well.
After that it was game for the old lady.
She had the guts to give me a birthday card: I translate from German to English
To my son
No matter how hard life seems, you are braver than you think, stronger than you believe, and loved more than you could ever imagine.
Laugh, love, live
Follow your dreams, believe in yourself and don't forget to be great.
I'm proud of you, with love, mom.
Can one believe that shxt?
Andrew always says that narcissists never change...
Six months ago I found documents from a children's home that my mother (74) had read to me.
When she was 14, my mother was sent to Catholic home for difficult-to-educate children. What is only possible until you are 21 (today 18), then you are of legal age.
These documents contain what applies to her today. According to several homes, she was described as follows:
She
Hangs out in the Vienna Prater (grew up there) / We are Austrians, living in the capitol, Vienna
keeps escaping the home
lies, is malicious, gloating, cheeky
always speaks against the instructions in the home
doesn't find a connection
is violent
always wants to be the center of attention
is particularly disingenuous
dissimulates everything and doesn't take responsibility for her actions
is unpunctual
is only interested in food and bums (but wasn't really fat)
is extremely unstable in terms of will and weak in character
doesn't follow any house rules and is constantly disruptive
is not accepted by most comrades / She even had no friends amongst other children there
has skill but no endurance
is unreliable in character
performs below average
is constantly involved in conflicts
talks badly about others
is brutal!!!
has an intelligence defect (T-score 37)
was deflowered and claimed being a virgin, but admitted to having sex with a cousin / She always told me being a virgin till 18!
There was constant tension around her.
She escaped from the homes several times
*Her stream of speech was non-stop and lacking in content.*
When I went to her for coffee every day for almost 20 years, I couldn't sit and breathe for five minutes.
She always had to show me something and I had to get up and come into the kitchen etc.
I never got peace, never!
There were thousands of little things to keep me busy or even angry.
At first I thought it was because of my age (52) and that I would become an old, grumpy man, even though I was well educated, extremely fit and a positive person.
But over the last two years it has been obvious that much of it was intentionally provoked.
My mother was always jealous that other people spoke well of me and liked me.
Time was Not wasted. I learned lots.
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They have a whole secret life you don't know nothing about they are very secretive
They are weak pathetic liars. You know when they are lying. Their lips are moving. Blessings 🌞 🙌 to you 🙏 ✨️
Thank you for your work ❤
Run for the hills? I was told to do this many times. However, I can't run unfortunately. Man!
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yes self entitlement and ownership is the Narc, he liked saying he paid $3 for me then he’s laugh as the Narc does. The $3 was the cost of a marriage license in 1970. Sadly he believed it, sick!
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hahaha andrew waving bye 👋😅
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Great goodbye bro😅
i was just like you, wondering why some people effortlessly draw attention while i felt invisible. nothing i tried seemed to work. then i came across Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it completely shifted my perspective. the way chapter 3 explains energy and presence? it’s like unlocking the secret to being noticed.
Oh but I was so much older then I'm younger that now!!!
Never accused me of cheating because h exhausted me with his drug use & sloppy behavior then making me question myself as anal retentive. UR so right they don't think like us. My loyalty was a weakness to him.
I needed this.
Whatever you dislike they do. Hate red cars? That's what they'll get. Can't stand a certain person's ego? Narco will make friends with the person and cause problems between you which could have been avoided just for fun.
A LIE ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER A MAN WHO LOOKS AT A WOMAN WITH LUST IS GUILTY IN HIS HEART ALREADY AS THOE HE HAS COMMITTED IT
Funny, I did not project my problems onto her 🤔
Restarted text contact for Hope of divorce; his relayed details are awkward, odd, and belie hoovering. What were ploys to get me to ask, "OhRly, Tell Me More," left me chuckling, before I wondered if he had another victim under his thumb. I actually don't read his txts beyond whether or not my requirements are getting met... Good luck, Everyone, on your journey. 🙏💙❣️
Great video, as usual. Nice brick background. Like the new font/design on your video title!
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Illusionists not magicians,nothing is what it appears with them.
Second, when you were talking about hypnotizing I can say if you havent yet you need to watch the movie "Get Out" because I realized that the same thing that happened to the boyfriend in that movie was the same thing that happened to me all throughout the time I knew the ex narc wife for 8 or 9 years!!! In hindsight, I questioned her about if shes actually doing that to me and everytime I tried to talk to her about the movie or anytime me and my Dad would be talking about it around her she would run away and start crying!!! She knew thats exactly what she was doing, but didnt want to face the truth the whole timee!!!😮😮🤔
She didn't cry because of you,my friend. It's about manipulation. She probably always got what she wanted from you after that manipulation.
Those tears were fake.
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Yup
I have 2 things I would like to mention. First and foremost, Andrew I just got a lightbulb moment! I remember when me and the ex narc wife were engaged and we went to pre marital counselling and the pastor asked us both a question which was "if your spouse and your family were both drowning in the ocean, who would you save first?" My answer was her and then interestingly enough the ex narc wife said she would save me as well! But you want to know something funny, during the course of the 3.5 marriage I asked the same question to her when I started catching on to the charade and when I asked her this time her response was "I dont know!!, maybe you and my family!! What do you want me to say!!" Trying to guilt trip me and gaslight me at the same time smhh 🤔😔
Thanks Andrew 👍👍
Thankyou so very much ❤
Yep look over there not over here with my ex I called it 3 card Monty! Con artists and tricksters
Very helpful information.
Good evening ❤
💯 Namaste 😊
I feel so stupid for falling for his words ... they really do say what you need to hear, all while having other supply behind your back 😏
if you’ve ever felt like no one notices you, trust me, i get it. i felt like that for years, trying all the confidence hacks and advice out there. but nothing clicked until i read Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki. there’s something about chapter 3-it’s like the missing puzzle piece i didn’t know i needed.
Andrew, do you do one on one therapy sessions by phone?
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Projection gaslighting etc
We once were victims but not anymore thankfully
We are survivers dear reader you're not here by coincidence cut contacts it might be difficult at the beginning but give it sometime and your clarity will return your health will return your sanity return
Believe this man believe that these creatures will never ever improve they become worse
Close that chapter forever
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Thanks, 16:07 Andrew. I am no contact now. My children are the only issue 😢
My ex, narc can't get rid of them.He's been calling all day. Just cause we have a kid together.
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Bye Andrew..
sad everything you are explaining, I went through for 1.5 years 🤕
And out no where he was cold, he found a new supply, and still had the nerve to lead me on , all awhile he was courting the new supply , stringing me along 🤕😩
Hi Andrew
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I fell for the future faking 😩
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for the longest time, i thought being magnetic was something you either had or didn’t. i used to watch others shine while i felt stuck. then i found Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and it made me realize it’s all about the vibe you give off. chapter 3 especially changed the way i carry myself-it’s such a powerful shift.
been there, feeling like no matter how hard i tried, i just didn’t stand out. then i picked up Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, and honestly, it changed everything. chapter 3 opened my eyes to how energy works-it’s not about effort, it’s about alignment. people started noticing me in ways they never had before.
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Excellent video Andrew,T.Y.💜💜🏔️🎋✨🦋🤗
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The healing path should consist of loving yourself, this is always going to be crucial.
Smoke and Mirrors. Klownshow🎪 🤹🏼🪞🎪🤡🎢 Excellently done Andrew! We appreciate you!!! ❤️✨🙏🏼🌺🌴©️
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