Her Affair Destroyed (and Saved) Their Marriage

[@tedholly6178]

My ex wife had no remorse for her adultery she was actually proud of herself and the more it hurt me the more satisfied she was I tried to forgive her but she kept on doing it so we got divorced and we have never spoken to each other since then !

[@mishuvlogs5318]

:( She needs to encounter Jesus, she doesn't realize her big mistake.

[@earlmichael246]

Oh wow

[@sloan58]

I would say what Jesus said to the cheating wife that was about to be stoned to death. You are forgiven, go and sin no more. He didn't say go home to your husband or go with me, just go. I wouldn't want her ever again. Period.

[@jerrybutler8917]

Most men live unhappy lives , why can't women ? Why is it ONLY women need to be happy ? I would have divorced her .

[@Kabaselefh]

I am going through the same situation, but my ex wife is a malignant narcissist who hid her multiple adulterous relationships, but I found out about her illicit affairs on my own, I will never bring her back into my life.

[@kevinjohnson7418]

Yes. I am wondering if this lady is the same.

[@kemiramson4593]

Because you don't know the Lord truly.

[@mikeboon6160]

I'm a Christian but if my wife cheats on me once I will divorce her the next day without a second thought. She can have my forgiveness but she can't talk to me anymore and we are done.

[@charliedavies3236]

I WAS ALWAYS SUSPECTING THAT MY HUSBAND WAS NOT TRUTHFUL TO ME SO I TOLD MY FRIENDS ABOUT IT AND AL. I STRONGLY ADVICE ME TO HACK IN HIS MOBILE PHONE REMOTELY THROUGH ONE PROFESSIONAL HACKER ON INSTAGRAM @ WESTHACK000.. I CONTACTED HIM AND HE WAS ABLE TO HACK IN MY HUSBAND'S PHONE REMOTELY AND NOW I HAVE PROOF OF HIS MISS CONDUCT.

[@RICANSTEIN]

Thats not how being a Christian works. Always forgive and give the example. Read the story of Hosea and Gomer. Living a life with anger and resentment is like taking poison and expect the other person to care.

[@mikeboon6160]

@@RICANSTEIN Read the part where Jesus said that it's ok to divorce your wife for the sake of adultery. Forgiving doesn't mean forgetting that she doesn't love you enough to remain faithful.

[@RICANSTEIN]

@@mikeboon6160 that is true. Doesn't mean you take her back. But if there are children involved you want to show them what real love and forgiveness is. No need to be spiteful. Show that you are better off. New women in your life know if you are resentful towards your ex as well.

[@mljrotag6343]

@@RICANSTEIN I agree with forgiveness, but that does not equate to staying in the relationship. Yeah, it totally sucks if you have kids. You can still be a great parent and hopefully your cheating spouse can co-parent well with you.

[@auvrielle]

I wish you would rephrase your title. No affair can save a marriage, that's ridiculous.

[@charliedavies3236]

I WAS ALWAYS SUSPECTING THAT MY HUSBAND WAS NOT TRUTHFUL TO ME SO I TOLD MY FRIENDS ABOUT IT AND AL. I STRONGLY ADVICE ME TO HACK IN HIS MOBILE PHONE REMOTELY THROUGH ONE PROFESSIONAL HACKER ON INSTAGRAM @ WESTHACK000.. I CONTACTED HIM AND HE WAS ABLE TO HACK IN MY HUSBAND'S PHONE REMOTELY AND NOW I HAVE PROOF OF HIS MISS CONDUCT.

[@lucylucy2171]

Wrong

[@earlmichael246]

Exactly

[@manuelvalencia1543]

I didn’t love my husband. Time to show her the door. She’s free to find the Lord.

[@tawandajohnson8232]

Thank God for forgiveness and he don't condemn us.

[@bobbethfox4921]

Beautiful, wonderfully honest testimony that should give hope to many! Thank you both! I will show to our church this Sunday!

[@celenathetrinigirl]

I admire her so much for telling her story. It was hard for her to admit what she did but this is a reality that exists. Thank God for restoring their marriage. God bless you both. More teachable moments like this please.

[@ValentinanSantinamommy]

Celena Oxley amen

[@praveenmandal2491]

It's not story its fucking cheating husband is fool he should have kicked her cheating lying ass out of his house

[@jerrybutler8917]

@@praveenmandal2491 Amen to that !

[@proudgary2228]

Admire her? Of course you do. Probably warms your wicked jezebel unsanctified heart. And gives you hope for the future to find a sniveling christian eunuch, that will cheer on your bf as how plows you.

[@user-yz7hx3ty6s]

No cheater is worth giving up your self respect

[@famelitech]

Once you cheat we are through...no negotiations we are totally done.

[@suzee2]

Joshua Mwendwa Don’t marry a human.

[@rebeccaoprea9917]

We cheat on God and he still loves and draws us to him .

[@yankee2352]

I agree I would never take her back ever

[@mljrotag6343]

@@suzee2 So all humans commit infidelity/affairs in their marriage/LTR? It sounds more like you cannot see yourself not doing it and assume everyone else is like you.

[@suzee2]

mlj rotag -Not even close to the truth. You missed the point of this piece.Please beware of pride. It has caused even the strong to fall. Thank God that he forgives the least worthy of forgiveness!

[@davidandheathermckee3851]

My wife did the same thing and my wife is wanting separation after 8 and half years of marriage and she said she doesn't love me and wants to just be friends and separate because she says she wants a divorce. Please pray for my marriage to be healed and restored and help us to have a better love in marriage than we ever had. I have forgiven her of her audultry and am hoping that she will stop saying that she doesn't love and wants a divorce. I hope she will realize that I am a better man than what she thinks I am.

[@suzee2]

heather mckee I pray your marriage will be healed.

[@kishorbd8002]

commit something disgusting then connect everything to 'the lord'...what a hipocracy

[@mljrotag6343]

Exactly how I see it.

[@gawainethefirst]

Read the story of King David. The connection that she is making to the “the Lord,” is one of contrition and asking for forgiveness.

[@dwanrobinson]

screw that. never again. I remain alone.

[@omipari6895]

dwan robinson well forgiveness doesn't mean reconciliation, forgiveness is commanded but she has to repent and do the work to regain trust, in the book of John Jesus says if you love me I will make my home with you so even Jesus has a standard if you love me, so I think it's ok for us to have the same standard be blessed

[@zwoimberg3567]

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[@jasonfaber1463]

We all have that choice on what to do with a cheating spouse, no matter the gender. Me I would not forgive. First time would end it. I will admit I am weak in being tempted but I am keenly aware in those situations to what I stand to lose. I am deeply cognizant when I am in the situation and I immediately remove myself from it. It’s that simple

[@lakshminsridhar57]

If John asked you permission to have a small fling .. just to experience the excitement that you had will/can you refuse.

[@lakshminsridhar57]

@Tommy Bain
you mean he should just do it without asking?

[@JudeKnowsWhatYouDoNot]

This story teaches us a very important lesson...a whore is a whore...doesn't matter what she calls herself...or what pple call her

[@mishuvlogs5318]

Please pray that my husband would forgive me, please pray for the restoration of our Marriage. Thank you, God bless us all.

[@johnanderson9734]

forgivness is very important in all aspects of life.

[@mljrotag6343]

Agree, but forgiveness does equate to staying in a relationship after this. You can forgive and not want to see her face everyday and think what she was doing with that mouth she is kissing you with...and not just a one time accident but deliberately and continually. You can definitely find a better woman.

[@tims8528]

I'll preface this with I'm not Christian. However I'm going through the same ordeal at the moment. My long term partner had an affair outside of our "union" and it's exactly the same description. A recognition that it's wrong but that it feels so good. Also that it's not greener on the other side. And as soon as she looked at the situation from "common" sense, she realised she had to work to fix our relationship and gave up on what she honestly believed was a strong sense of being in love with this other man. I was a long way from perfect, but it's a wake up call and once she saw the significant pain it caused me she knew the path to take. She broke it off with him and let herself feel the pain of loss to try to find a path back to me and our family. I forgave her instantly and we are working to rebuild. I'm far more thoughtful and considerate, loving and compassionate and I can truly see it making a difference. How long? It's only been a couple of weeks since it all came to light, but I can see we're on the same path as the people in this clip. Do I think at any moment just leave and deal with the pain on my own? Yeah of course. But honestly for the sake of my family, what pain is too great if you can see a way past it?

[@stefanmitrovic973]

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[@NENAD1979J]

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[@RedFlagCoalition]

Yeah. Dump that bitch 😂

[@a45williams]

Are you guys married?

[@mljrotag6343]

@@kevinjohnson7418 Exactly. Spin, spin, spin.

[@hannahwootton6491]

I belive if the relationship doesnt work get out of it before u cheat

[@hannahwootton6491]

@Steelmonger888 nope i have never cheated

[@maem7636]

" and the word of their testimony, etc. " Amen ! JESUS IS LORD 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

[@ruebendsouza3709]

Hi Nancy, I'm Ruben
I'm so happy for you and your husband and I truly admire your courage in being so true and honest and fixing this marriage. I'm currently in the same situation as you were and I would like to know the Prayers that brought a change and saved your marriage. I'm a cheater and a sinner to God and my beloved wife Katherine. Please do keep me in your prayers so my wife Katherine will have the heart to forgive all my sins and bad behaviour towards her.
Regards,
Ruben

[@masucamba16]

I believe in the God of second chances...

[@prostyle1626]

Get him a chump burger and simp fries.

[@johnmac8805]

This

[@sjmccafferey4437]

The shame is that her husband who gave up his self respect to live with a cheater. A cheater is also a serial liar and is incapable of being a real Christian.

[@juliettegeorge1710]

Have you not done anything in your life that nobody knows about,thank God her husband forgave her, and most of all forgiveness is a gift.

[@praveenmandal2491]

Damm every time husband have to forgive the cheating lying whoe wife
But when its husband cheating bitch take his half money and boom

[@daughterofthelord01]

@@praveenmandal2491 Are you a christian?

[@lakshminsridhar57]

no future without forgiveness

[@stevemines6870]

Bullshit! Know future with a liar

[@semesarawasa5025]

Praise the Lord

[@cheriweber1900]

Praise God for restoring their marriage Amen

[@proudgary2228]

Negative. His effeminate spirit, empty scrotum, neutered masculinity "restored " their "marriage".

[@georginamannor4373]

God bless this couple.

[@varoshah]

He should have divorced her....
She didn’t care about what she was doing....so why should he

[@sabah4123]

All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God ... 🤦‍♂️🇦🇺

[@stormrising2623]

@@sabah4123 so. What does that have to do with anything,let alone cheating?
I guess we should let all the serial killers free because HEY! ALL have sinned and fallen short. Lol.

[@mljrotag6343]

@@stormrising2623 Exactly.

[@markdsm-5157]

When did Religion and Feminist Propaganda become a thing?

[@proudgary2228]

When we men decided these women should have equal authority. That was a Trojan horse. Now we are powerless against this system. And christianity is a whore house for the jezebel spirit.

[@dwanrobinson]

I forgave her once. This time it's over. Now she can suffer alone with evil

[@cocodream_3785]

Their testimony shows that no matter how detrimental a situation can seem, it’s never to hard for the Great “I am” Jesus. God bless the two of you.

[@sabah4123]

Marriage is worth repairing, it's greener on the other side, but the lawn still needs mowing etc... 🥀🇦🇺

[@mljrotag6343]

Some maybe, not all, and it depends...much better to address issues before it gets to the point of infidelity.

[@amangill1273]

Praise the Lord God Jesus Christ Ameen, thanks for giving me another day, and I Know you already healed me with Your Holy blood, we are victorious in your Cross, please forgive me, I am sinner, Amen

[@bruha321]

awww, the husband took her back even though she cheated on him and said she didn't love him. Awww. What a great marriage.

[@mattarchey85]

sounds like you've been cheated on. probably didn't work out for you

[@marktravis4991]

more like what a simp

[@mljrotag6343]

@crooked truth83 Or just stupid.

[@proudgary2228]

Biblical men had multiple wives and concubines. Married women are not permitted to be with other men. Married men however can. Don't like it? Take it up with the Most High.

[@ivonapetarvuk4073]

​@@proudgary2228 yes they had.. did God like that, no. It was not His plan nor His will. Don' t just get bits and pieces out of the Bible. Read it whole!

[@techlord5573]

Problem with marriage is that in my experience being with my ex-wife she held onto all the bad experience well I let them go unfortunately if you add that up with all my ex-wife's female friends bad experiences that led to divorce or breakup they convinced her to get out of the marriage instead of work on it and told her that she would be happy. I don't think it's going so good for her right now, to my knowledge.

[@melonyanderson6847]

My husband and I are seperated not by my choice but his he acts like I don't even exist he is leading this single life style and wants a divorce I'm praying that God does whatever it takes to work in my husbands heart and brings him to repentance and back to me and our marriage that God will heal and restore redeem our marriage

[@dell74877]

This is the most accurate to "God's will" comment I have came across in this thread!

[@henrycuevas2834]

This doesn't sound right. She just gave her lover up after one prayer? She did not love her hubby and was emotionally attached to the other guy according to her words. Maybe there was some other incentive. Maybe the lover could not leave his own family commitment or the lover didn't have the money that the husband had. I should be careful not to judge a situation and a person's heart, but this still sounds too much of a neatly wrapped package. This "God's Grace is great, but remember that the Parodical Son in Gospel of Luke did not return home because he missed his family. Well, it's the husband's bed, he can sleep in it.

[@RICANSTEIN]

I'm going through the same thing right now. I'm praying to God to give me strength to get my wife back. I've been married 24 years.

[@davidem4693]

CESAR GALLEGOS update?

[@RICANSTEIN]

@@davidem4693 we divorced right after 25 years. Tomorrow she's coming over for breakfast. My daughters live with me and my son will be here to help celebrate Mother's Day. She's not the same person. She started believing in the new age third eye thing the last year and I didn't notice. She didn't want to be a mother and not sure if she was meant to but I try my best to keep her involved by inviting her to family trips. I was married to this woman longer than I've been alive without her so God will always allow me to forgive her.

[@davidem4693]

CESAR GALLEGOS so sad to hear that, may I ask you if all of this changed the way you see life and the way you see God? For the better I mean

[@RICANSTEIN]

@@davidem4693 I let God in one day after I had found out that she was had been having another emotional fling. It gave me the strength to give her a year to figure things out while I got a lot of counseling from the mens group at the chapel I had joined. 2 years later my girls live with me and she still lives with her sister in a room with no closet. I immediately was able to find a nice apartment and learned to cook. The lord has continued to guide things for me as I live things in his hands. Yes I don't see things the same. She believes in the moon and horoscope still searching while I have my answer.

[@davidem4693]

CESAR GALLEGOS glad to hear that, keep pushing, the hope we have in him goes over all of this

[@mikemorse8609]

I read that brain chemistry and the "lizard" part that controls instinct can cause a bond from intimacy that seems like love. So science discovers that you truly become one as described biblically. True adult love is not a crush. It may start as love at first sight but turns into a deeper partnership and friendship. Both parties have to give more and demand less. Gratitude towards God stifles the imagined dissatisfaction that is where affairs flourish.

[@Seven.And.The.RaggedTiger]

Ueah,im in Ron's position,only my wife hasn't confessed,shes admitted to talking to this guy who came to her work to see her,but she says they haven't talked in a couple months,but my gut feeling has returned,and the distance/coldness is still there from her,I know more about this situation that I haven't confronted her because I don't want her to leave, mutual christian friends have told me everything they know.. 26yrs together,20yrs married,this came out of nowhere,we still live together,I have been on the couch since April(her suggestion).. I pray all day and night till I fall asleep,I pray God will soften her heart and Jesus will come to her and she'll come to her senses.. im soo horribly devastatedly hurt by this and her,2yrs ago my wife would've never done this,I never felt or thought my Carrie would have an affair

[@BiGMANJOE32]

I don't know what to say GodBless

[@dwanrobinson]

I have given that part of me to God and God only.

[@sweetlove3391]

God can restore marriages. Thank you for sharing this! May God bless your marriage and you two grow more and more in love to each other and to God!

[@elimadrid7681]

Ive been through this once 5 years ago .. she came back the lord helped my forgive her ... she got saved followed god had our child life was good.. then the drinking and fighting started now 3 weeks ago she has left me for another man and it hurts this gives me some hope but im not sure what to do i need prayer for corage and wisdom.

[@jasonfaber1463]

Eli Madrid wow this was two years ago, hope you moved on. My wife says “once a cheater, always a cheater”

[@ivonapetarvuk4073]

I would encourage you to read posts from rejoice marriage ministries

[@normaearnisse3106]

God bless both of you, 💕yes agree but he says help your selfs and I will guide you... 🙏🏻

[@zerubabel9664]

GOD DID IT AGAIN!!! The wife didn't love her husband anymore but came back anyway because of GOD. HE even PREVENTED hubby to open a contract on the other guy!!!

[@006whysoserious]

@Lion3Lamb Christ aside, people saw it as acceptable that she beat him for cheating. Let it be the other way around with Tiger snapping and attacking her for cheating..there would be an uproar.

[@missarabia1875]

Some very negative people making rude comments

[@siebeldeveloper249]

Make the husband the spineless guy..

[@markfrost9262]

im talkin about the man she cheated with but it should be up to the husband if he wants her to be punished or not

[@gederoniyansen4043]

Men...give a forgivenes...not because he is a doormat..or a looser...for sure ...all man ..ALL..men...have ability...to share love as much as he able to do so to many woman..that is why there is a terminology of Polygami..but the husband..feel so pitty...because....he might also ...flirting with some one else ...to cope with the situation..to make an escape...from their failure...of their relationship..

[@BiGMANJOE32]

Man its hard especially if you did it for spite

[@Kelheard]

Jaxushu, you feel that way because you are looking at through your natural eye, and not the way Jesus sees things. In order to be forgiven you must forgive. Take it from someone who knows. It will free you.

[@JUSTMEUNIQUE]

Amen

[@danreddits3796]

Honestly, this is my issue with marrying too early. I definitely don't see myself getting serious till I'm in my 30s to another 30 something year old whos mature enough to deal with problems like adults. Lots of married couples in their 20s fight like kids.

[@Onlinesully]

Hi Daniel
Do your best to be at peace in yourself. And to make a good life with your partner no matter what your age. Take care.

[@chucknchar]

jerk? a fool maybe! cheaters are just plain selfish

[@gpowers2785]

What a selfish woman she is still a pain in arse I'm sure.

[@ronraley2361]

+G Powers How would you know? You seem like a pain yourself?

[@Maverick.D.]

She probably still cheats on him...

[@ronraley2361]

+Maverick D. and I am pretty sure you are squeaky clean yourself.....

[@Maverick.D.]

+Ron Raley Pristine.

[@kennethcastillo9667]

lol, nice one Mav :P

[@lmalino695]

@Maverick -- Yes, it's usually easier the next time. Plus, she didn't respect him enough not to cheat the first time and his forgiveness may not be appreciated as an act of love. At some point, maybe already, she will see him as a holier-than-thou sanctimonious person and her transgression will eat at her and their relationship.

[@henniekoster1904]

I dont think so

[@Lion3Lamb]

@DeadSleepers "people"? I didn't and neither did anyone I know. But this is pointless since your response is a nonresponse insofar as it fails to address anything I said.

[@ailynvillafuerte4446]

cheater always a cheater

[@cocodream_3785]

If God was as judgmental, mean, and vicious as some of us are, love would not exist.

[@jayk6087]

The whole concept of marriage is over rated. The truth is that life is unpredictable and short, just do it and don't live with regrets. Regrets come from a very dark place or a very bright place.

[@tomislavloncarek786]

cheaders no deserve another chance if you no happy in meriage get devorce

[@timberman1045]

I was cheated on by an ex wife basically used as a sperm donor . I forgave but I don’t forget.

[@charliedavies3236]

I WAS ALWAYS SUSPECTING THAT MY HUSBAND WAS NOT TRUTHFUL TO ME SO I TOLD MY FRIENDS ABOUT IT AND AL. I STRONGLY ADVICE ME TO HACK IN HIS MOBILE PHONE REMOTELY THROUGH ONE PROFESSIONAL HACKER ON INSTAGRAM @ WESTHACK000.. I CONTACTED HIM AND HE WAS ABLE TO HACK IN MY HUSBAND'S PHONE REMOTELY AND NOW I HAVE PROOF OF HIS MISS CONDUCT.

[@markfrost9262]

so does the man GOD will forgive him and her but they need punishment

[@raptor700dans]

Fool

[@nreynolds75243]

Men don't realize that being a "jerk" to their wives, controlling will destroy your marriage. As the Bible says, Live in knowledge with your wife." And no, sex won't fix problems. Women are built a certain way and when those emotional needs aren't met, then your wife will stray. Not an excuse but true. She didn't love her husband because he wasn't treating her right. I'm going thru something similar, not the cheating, but I have no love for my husband because of the way he treats me. I want out.

[@melissahodges3776]

nreynolds75243 I loved and love my husband with all my heart he hates me so much I loved him so much that I gave him his excuse to leave to make him look good I hate myself for this but I knew he wasn’t inlove with me

[@nreynolds75243]

@@melissahodges3776 You deserve better. God will bless you for your good heart.

[@melissahodges3776]

nreynolds75243 I don’t want anyone at all now all I pray to god for is restore my children give me the strength to be a mum and dad in one

[@ALleycat19687]

It's because you didn't put your husband first read the bible your desire is only for your husband another woman who makes life he'll then wonders why her husband loses interest

[@dell74877]

Of course, the flesh always wants the easiest way out of anything! But let it not be so! I ADVISE YOU EARNESTLY to give it to God. But the question is how can one give it to God? Well, pray, pray, pray! This right here is exactly what Jesus teaches/commands! This strengthens our relationship with our Lord! There is much more to say, yet I'll end it here

[@juanmaldonado3288]

You are a cheater plain and simple. It is a matter of time.

[@lucylucy2171]

Wrong

[@destroyd1440]

What a joke

[@ricksteamboat8051]

If I was in the place of this husband I would've also forgiven the wife but would never take her back even if God wanted me to.

[@authorizeblog8235]

I'm investigating saving your partnership and found an awesome website at Pavs Partner Pundit (look it up on google)

[@pavensahotasahota8914]

always remember one time cheater always be a cheater

[@quentinfernandez4673]

Paven Sahota Sahota that's how the worldly understand things try asking the Almighty to change you and it will be done

[@datdude6416]

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[@suzee2]

Once that made sense. Now I know better.

[@cc-bz5ub]

Predetor

[@shr4n]

lol WTF I just watched!! JESUS LORD

[@scottjarvis1974]

Its the narcissistic person period they seek out good people that thry know will be loyal to them lov them and trust them there users plain and simple they get there talons in u and u cant break free . I find a cheater cant get wit someone like them cause they dont want to be the ine getting hurt.

[@user-yz7hx3ty6s]

No cheater is worth giving up your self respect

[@mahirajabeen7777]

Amen