Wedding Countdown: 15 days left and we're not ready!

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  • Опубликовано: 10 сен 2024
  • Just 15 days 'til "I do" and we're feeling the stressLast Minute Wedding Tips
    kick it! Can we pull off our dream wedding in two weeks?
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    Our website: stepsof2foreig...
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    Following our 'steps': how did we get here?
    We are Adam (North American) and Bernardo (Brazilian) and we are husbands whose paths crossed back in 2016, when we both still lived in Brazil. Since the very beginning, we shared a common passion for travel and nature, which has only grown over the years and led us to this unexpected journey on RUclips, which has allowed us to connect with an amazing community that we’re beyond grateful for. “Go out and make memories” is our motto of living and a constant reminder for us that true happiness doesn’t come from the material wealth we accumulate, but from the memories we create and share with our loved ones throughout our existence. We invite you to join us in our crazy journey in life and hopefully we can inspire you to go out and make some memories on your own. Welcome aboard!

Комментарии • 985

  • @Stepsof2Foreigners
    @Stepsof2Foreigners  4 года назад +325

    Hello everyone and what a week it has been. As many of you know, we are leaving Portland on Tuesday and our wedding is on Saturday. We have a lot going on but we got this. We hope you all had a great Thanksgiving if you celebrated the holiday. We had a nice and peaceful one with my younger sister. Our wedding is this weekend so we are super super excited for it. We still have our vows to write. Okay, thank you all for the support and kindness through these chapters in our lives.
    A+B

    • @michellebratu6171
      @michellebratu6171 4 года назад +5

      Happy Tanksgiving! Kiss u guys and i love u ! whit love from Nicole!

    • @simplytalented4352
      @simplytalented4352 4 года назад +13

      You deserve each other . The cimistry between you is amazing. I can't wait for the wedding video. Hoping everything goes as planned for. Bernardo i just wanna say. Your so funny and easy to love . Your supportive and caring .i wish you all the good in the world. And adam your an amazing human being. Your full of emotions and love tord the world and especially to bernardo. I only can imagine when you adopte a little child how much love he will receive . Love you so much. And remember to *go out and make memories*😁😘

    • @pyiushsharma2166
      @pyiushsharma2166 4 года назад +4

      My heart.🥺🥺

    • @katiesellwood9329
      @katiesellwood9329 4 года назад +7

      I am so happy for you two

    • @piastevns
      @piastevns 4 года назад +8

      Stepsof2Foreigners Loved the video my sweet boys .... I know , it all Can be a bit stressfull , but you have each other to lean on ..... Have a wonderful week , and Best wishes on your wedding Day , on Saturday ..... Love and hugs to you both ❤️😘❤️😘

  • @MrSpaceWeaselTV
    @MrSpaceWeaselTV 4 года назад +74

    Just when I think you two can't be any more adorable, then there's you two cuddling with a puppy in bed and Adam teaching Bernardo how to make noise with a blade of grass. I love you guys. Your love for each other is so obvious, and makes me so happy to watch.

    • @RBS_
      @RBS_ 4 года назад +3

      ....yeah, I was trying not to go my 'dirty' place, when he told 'Nardo to 'blow'!!😗 ...I think I may need a Puppy!! ...ha-HAAA!! >dontblowtoohardbaybeeesaveitforthehoneymoon

    • @susiew.9012
      @susiew.9012 4 года назад +3

      @@RBS_ you are naughty!😉

    • @RBS_
      @RBS_ 4 года назад +1

      @@susiew.9012 .....thank GOD! 😈...ha-HAA!! ...but(t), it's all in good jest; I respect their union...they''re aware of their physical 'draw', and ,I never go into PG-13 territory, so, 'naughty''s good...ha-HAA!! 😆

    • @Stepsof2Foreigners
      @Stepsof2Foreigners  4 года назад +2

      Hey Adam, we fell in love with that dog. He would be a keeper for sure but we have to settle down before we get one.

    • @Stepsof2Foreigners
      @Stepsof2Foreigners  4 года назад

      I knew you would get it.

  • @alejandroguerrero1909
    @alejandroguerrero1909 4 года назад +74

    They inspire me every day of my life, they give me strength to continue and get ahead

    • @RBS_
      @RBS_ 4 года назад +4

      ...all the more reason, for you to 'make those memories'.... ; )

    • @Stepsof2Foreigners
      @Stepsof2Foreigners  4 года назад +6

      How sweet Alejandro. Thanks so much for this comment. The comments on here are super kind and your comment made us smile. Big hugs to you.

    • @rickyspanke7215
      @rickyspanke7215 4 года назад +2

      Keep being inspired it makes the days seem easier, and the load of stress lighter. That's what making good memories contain inspiration. First comes the inspiration to then to #gooutandmakememories be blessed Alejandro.

    • @filizkubal8893
      @filizkubal8893 4 года назад

      Filizporno05378701763

    • @marilenefelipe702
      @marilenefelipe702 4 года назад

      GHXHHUUHDHHHDUHDHBZBSBBBZHZBVBXHDHHHHHDHBSBHHBSSHHHHHDHGFSSGSJBSBDUEHHEGSVHDBBVSHZBBDHDBBHDBHHDBHHSHHHHHHBDBHHDHEU 😆HBAHHSJJSJSJDHHHDHXPO

  • @josephfernandesjr5595
    @josephfernandesjr5595 4 года назад +102

    Omg Adam is like a kid in a candy store when it comes to Christmas lol. So wholesome. Someone put him in a hallmark movie or somthing

    • @RBS_
      @RBS_ 4 года назад +5

      ...they damn sure have the HOUSE for it! ....ha-HAAA! 🤑 >sisisloaded

    • @rickyspanke7215
      @rickyspanke7215 4 года назад +2

      @@RBS_ god I love your comments

    • @RBS_
      @RBS_ 4 года назад +2

      @@rickyspanke7215 ...heh heh...don't tell me LIES, now!! ...ha-HAAA!! 🤩ruclips.net/video/NQfYoW2mm2w/видео.html

    • @Stepsof2Foreigners
      @Stepsof2Foreigners  4 года назад +8

      Joseph, I couldn't even find the pictures I had when I was 15 decorating my parent's old house where I grew up. I was in the papers for it. I'm telling you, I go crazy!

    • @Stepsof2Foreigners
      @Stepsof2Foreigners  4 года назад +7

      His comments are amazing. Yes, she's loaded and I always thought I was going to be the rich one :) WRONG!

  • @gerardocastillo2160
    @gerardocastillo2160 4 года назад +11

    You two have everything to be happy together. I wish you the best wedding ever because you deserve it. Keep sharing your life with us, please. I am venezuelan and love you 🇻🇪🇻🇪🇻🇪

  • @user-lh8st6pf5g
    @user-lh8st6pf5g 2 года назад +2

    So much love and warmth in Adam's family. Be happy Adam and Bernardo. My blessings and hugs.😍😍💙💛🇺🇦🇺🇦

    • @Stepsof2Foreigners
      @Stepsof2Foreigners  2 года назад +1

      How sweet, thanks so much. We are giving you 2 big hugs right back.

  • @markcasela481
    @markcasela481 4 года назад +9

    I appreciate your mom a lot Adam, she’s lovely. Sending my best wishes to the both of you. May life bring you the fullest of happiness, and joy in everything that you both do.

  • @bowhunter8235
    @bowhunter8235 4 года назад +2

    'Hard to believe it has been 3 yrs.
    Thank you for sharing a wonderful 3 years and teaching all us how to...go out an make memories. Honestly, mine seem richer and clearer because of you both.
    Be well always.
    With love,
    from Oregon.

  • @joshbaker430
    @joshbaker430 4 года назад +25

    What a beautifully filmed vlog. It is so nice to see Bernardo so comfortable around your family. I remember being so nervous spending Thanksgiving with my husbands family. I guess after 20 years together they figured out I wasn’t going anywhere 😀. Happy holidays. 😀❤️🌈

    • @RBS_
      @RBS_ 4 года назад +2

      20 YEARS!? ....Congrads, Bubby, I LOVE hearing about loving Gays, in long relationships....It makes my lonely Ice Cream go down SMOOTHER!! ...ha-HAA!! ...saludes, Bubby! 👬❤️🌈🍨

    • @Stepsof2Foreigners
      @Stepsof2Foreigners  4 года назад +3

      Hey Josh, thanks so much for the comment and congrats on 20 years. Amazing. Bernardo has surprised me with letting his guard down fast with them. He's blended in so well and they have accepted him with open arms. Which I'm thankful for.

  • @pncollector
    @pncollector 4 года назад +2

    Your an inspiration in many ways. Thank you for just being who you are and sharing that with the world.

  • @andrewroeske2747
    @andrewroeske2747 4 года назад +3

    From someone who has followed you from the beginning all I have to say is my heart is full. Your mom with the clip board is EVERYTHING!

    • @Stepsof2Foreigners
      @Stepsof2Foreigners  4 года назад

      Andrew Roeske hey Andrew, she’s super cute isn’t she? It’s going to be a teary day. My mom has come so far. Thanks so much for the continued support and that you’ve stayed with us for this long.

    • @asadshafai9593
      @asadshafai9593 4 года назад

      Andrew Roeske سگس xxx

  • @user-cf3ck1xp8h
    @user-cf3ck1xp8h 4 года назад +2

    It's surprise that I woke up and found your video updated.Very thank you for updated it in such busy week. It just the fourth day I watch your video,it all nice.I love it.Hope you have a wonderful wedding.♥love u guys♥

  • @warronconroy8460
    @warronconroy8460 4 года назад +7

    Postscript: and a big ‘thank you’ to Adam’s younger sister for hosting the wedding we’ve all been looking forward to! I felt honoured to be able to enjoy, albeit at a distance, some of the hospitality.

  • @yokesimbolon9085
    @yokesimbolon9085 4 года назад +1

    Adam, you have a nice family, parents with angel hearts. You too Bernardo, very kind sister's family. I am happy seeing kindness sisters here. So blessed.

  • @SeanShimamoto
    @SeanShimamoto 4 года назад +14

    Adam, can I just say that it really warms my heart that your whole family embraces Bernardo! Not just as a gay man, but also as a Brazilian man...in today’s society, it’s so refreshing and beautiful. 😍😍🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🤙🏽🤙🏽

    • @RBS_
      @RBS_ 4 года назад +3

      .....I'm SO loving this comment; we never really talk about 'Nardo's acceptance as A Brazilian (..it shouldn't matter anyways..), but it IS wonderful to have the Family just see him, as BERNARDO....

    • @SeanShimamoto
      @SeanShimamoto 4 года назад +5

      RBS Yeah, I’d love this world to be that way....but In my old age, I know better. The reality is that racism and homophobia exist...and for minorities like Bernardo and myself, it’s not always easy to be accepted on both fronts. So I thought it was worth taking a few minutes to mention how amazing Adam’s ENTIRE family is in their embracement of his new husband. 😍😍🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🤙🏽🤙🏽

    • @RBS_
      @RBS_ 4 года назад +1

      @@SeanShimamoto ....and, I'm glad you DID...so will Bernardo... ; )

    • @Stepsof2Foreigners
      @Stepsof2Foreigners  4 года назад +7

      Bernardo is super easy to love. I think HE has helped them see in a clearer light, if that makes sense. Also, I hope our love outshines skin color or gender and I’m so thankful they accept the both of us and our love.

    • @SeanShimamoto
      @SeanShimamoto 4 года назад +1

      Stepsof2Foreigners That absolutely helps...but I’ve had a lot of friends, who are really lovable like Bernardo, be on the receiving end of racists...and to be fair, not always white people, sometimes my own people (Japanese). And Adam, you don’t have to HOPE ‘cause your guys’ relationship absolutely outshines things like skin colour.❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

  • @1685mymusic
    @1685mymusic 4 года назад +1

    Thanks so much guys. So love Adams’s Ma and Pa and their commitment and involvement. For you this year will be a magical - for me it has been just the worst year ever. My Mum, one of my best friends have died and then two friends were killed in a road crash (so wish I was making this up,). Watching you two has been one of the bright spots and consolations so keep it up. For your wedding day may you be surrounded by love and blessings and prayers. Can’t wait to see it all here!!!!!!!!!! Xxxxxxxxxxxx

  • @rogeliocamacho9601
    @rogeliocamacho9601 4 года назад +4

    You two are a beautiful couple and deserve many, many years of happiness together ! Take care of each other and never take each other for granted !

  • @Owen2256
    @Owen2256 4 года назад +16

    This was so sweet.
    When you say “This sister is the wealthy one, this is the energetic one, and me? I’m just the cutest one!” But you have to smile and wiggle your nose when you say it.
    Try it out at the reception. You’ll see how well it goes over. 😉

    • @Stepsof2Foreigners
      @Stepsof2Foreigners  4 года назад

      Hahahaha I’m happy with being the caring one although my older sister is a pediatric nurse so she’s caring too. Haha

    • @filizkubal8893
      @filizkubal8893 4 года назад

      Filiz05378701763

  • @shondamccoy8623
    @shondamccoy8623 4 года назад +39

    I love how the whole family is involved even the dogs❤❤

    • @RBS_
      @RBS_ 4 года назад +2

      ....those DOGS! ....may I take one home, PLEASE!? ...ha-HAAA!! >dontpeeonmyrugstho

    • @Stepsof2Foreigners
      @Stepsof2Foreigners  4 года назад +2

      Haha Shonda, yes, love the dogs. I am very blessed to have them as my mom and dad. I got lucky.

  • @jamesbjames9555
    @jamesbjames9555 3 года назад +1

    Thanks for sharing all this. Good to get a glimpse of your family, Adam.

  • @susiew.9012
    @susiew.9012 4 года назад +16

    What a beautiful home your sister has, she obviously gets her good taste from you Adam 😉. What am i thankful for? The simple pleasure of waking up every morning, I'm alive! Great job with the decorations boys I think your sister will be pleased. Good luck with the wedding planning I hope it all goes smoothly for you. We all look forward to seeing the happy result. Cute puppy guys very affectionate, can't wait til you get one of your own🐾. Love and hugs 😍💋😍💋🏳️‍🌈🎄🎁

    • @RBS_
      @RBS_ 4 года назад +1

      ...Oh Susie, I just LUV reading your comment; you should place them in the 'pinned replys' section, so I can find them faster! ...that way, I can steal your emojis!! ...ha-HAAA!! 😏 >juskiddinIllbuymyown

    • @susiew.9012
      @susiew.9012 4 года назад +1

      @@RBS_ you're wellcome, steal away I don't mind. Great minds think alike eh? They do look blissfully happy tho don't you think? 😉💗

    • @RBS_
      @RBS_ 4 года назад +1

      @@susiew.9012 ....yeah, they're good Kids....they also put up with me invading their comments section, so, there's THAT! 😆....ha-HAAA!! >Iworkathome / >Imhardlyworking

  • @rigobertovazquez1742
    @rigobertovazquez1742 4 года назад +1

    Your mom taking a video/photo is the best thing ever ❤️❤️

  • @platoman3810
    @platoman3810 4 года назад +5

    Thanks for sharing this part of your life arc. Thanksgiving is above all else, the celebration of family.

  • @Princeali7
    @Princeali7 4 года назад +2

    I’m not going to lie, I got a bit emotional! 😭 I loved seeing your family coming together for a very special day, but also to help both of you on the preparation for the wedding! Such a beautiful bond all of you have! Blessings to all!

  • @KodaVoss
    @KodaVoss 4 года назад +4

    I’m so excited for you both for the wedding on Saturday... just remember that everything *IS* perfect as long as you are there together! (Try not to be stressed and focus on the moments and creating memories, that will last a lifetime, with your friends and family Saturday! ) 😄 Congratulations!!!

  • @MZ-1981
    @MZ-1981 4 года назад +2

    I loved your thanksgiving table , and I also loved when you all prayed and said what are you thanks for ❤️

  • @amitlal310
    @amitlal310 4 года назад +10

    I’m so happy for you both, Adam and Bernardo!

  • @jinborgm
    @jinborgm 4 года назад +1

    While you are already legally married, have a ceremony with the families and friends definitely something to remember for the life time. Can’t wait to see and share the joy with you both.

  • @Dale34
    @Dale34 4 года назад +3

    Awww Adam mom is a sweetheart she on her phone recording I'm sure taking pics glad she's come a long way you're family are amazing glad Bernardo is part of it now congratulations on the wedding guys

  • @yanararivas4830
    @yanararivas4830 4 года назад +92

    When you guys talked about your future children 😆😆😆 so excited for you guys ❤️

  • @johnblaha275
    @johnblaha275 4 года назад +20

    Congratulations on All The Wedding Planning And The Ceremony Being Held At Your Sister's House Adam. It's Going To Be Emotional & Beautiful All In One, Yet Filled With Joy & Family & Friend's! And We Are Here Praying & Thinking About The 👬 Of You During This Time As Well, So Your NOT Alone!! Keep Your Head's Up, It Gets Better From Here Lindo & Amor!! 🔥💪🏋️🎶🇺🇲🇧🇷🏳️‍🌈👬♥️💎🗺️✈️🎄☀️📱📷📹💻🎒🏖️🏞️🏔️🌅🌄/(John B. Wisconsin 🇺🇸🏳️‍🌈💙)

  • @wnymann
    @wnymann 4 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing your journey towards the big day. It is beautiful that you and your family are working together to make your wedding ceremony a memorable event. Enjoy yourselves through the preparation and “ Go Out And Make Memories “.

  • @martinrafaelpalavecino1885
    @martinrafaelpalavecino1885 4 года назад +4

    I remember when I used to see you in your place in Brasilia, enjoying imagining where to go, travelling and now you are getting married! This is too much hahaha, but I wish you the best and, though i don't know you personally, I am so glad for you as if you were my friends 😅😅😅. Hope you have a long life together!! ❤❤❤

  • @dondouglass8665
    @dondouglass8665 4 года назад +2

    That is some hot editing my friends. I know it’s foolish on my part to say, but PLEASE don’t stress yourselves out so much that you miss the deep importance of your marriage ceremony. Hold on to the sheer joy and celebration we are all feeling for you two as you come together as one for the whole world to witness. You gentlemen represent the very best of centuries of small and hard fought steps taken forward by many of others before you. So stand tall, relax, savor and enjoy every moment of these precious days. My very best of wishes and dreams to you both, may you be granted and guided to truly the best steps of your life in the future.

    • @RBS_
      @RBS_ 4 года назад

      ....wonderful comment, Don....may I steal it!? ...ha-HAA!! ....JUS'KIDDIN!!

    • @richardtaylor7485
      @richardtaylor7485 4 года назад

      Well said Don my sentiments exactly. Again congratulations to the happy couple!🌹💓🌹

  • @takashinijino2257
    @takashinijino2257 4 года назад +16

    Your big day is your almost here how do you feel pretty soon you are going to be legally married!!! I'm so happy for you too may you to find peace and love😍😍

    • @Larry-cg5bd
      @Larry-cg5bd 4 года назад +6

      They are legally married already. They were married in a court house. This is the formal wedding.

    • @Stepsof2Foreigners
      @Stepsof2Foreigners  4 года назад +3

      Thanks so much Takashi. Yes, Larry is correct. We're legally married but this is our formal wedding with the family.

    • @Stepsof2Foreigners
      @Stepsof2Foreigners  4 года назад +2

      Thanks Larry!

    • @ranjitkakade2769
      @ranjitkakade2769 4 года назад

      @@Stepsof2Foreigners 9098356253

  • @alan949
    @alan949 4 года назад +2

    Bernardo is always so calm! I hope the wedding goes as planned ... I'm sure it will

  • @elizabetecelestino3152
    @elizabetecelestino3152 4 года назад +21

    Tá chegando a hora do casamento hein?
    A hora que dá um friozinho na barriga!
    Estou TORCENDO PARA QUE SEJAM MUITO FELIZES.

    • @romanleue7782
      @romanleue7782 4 года назад +2

      "It's wedding time, huh?
      The time that gives a chill in the belly!
      I'm making sure they're very happy."
      Thanks, Google Translator

  • @sammyh333
    @sammyh333 4 года назад +1

    adam is happy n handsome
    what great support you two have been blessed with
    bernardo fits right in as family

  • @thonyfothergill
    @thonyfothergill 4 года назад +4

    Bernardo looks at Adam the same way he looks at food (particularly desert) - that's real love

    • @RBS_
      @RBS_ 4 года назад

      ....and, it's YUMMY, TOO....ha-HAAA!!

    • @Bojan_V
      @Bojan_V 4 года назад

      Haha

    • @bikuter4597
      @bikuter4597 4 года назад

      Hoi

  • @michellegriffin4697
    @michellegriffin4697 4 года назад +2

    Stay strong! Sending Prayers and Blessings your way!!

  • @johnd-cal6464
    @johnd-cal6464 4 года назад +4

    It’s great seeing how close Adam’s family is with him & Bernardo. Wow, the big day is almost here, so exciting!!! ❤️

  • @husniramadan
    @husniramadan 4 года назад +2

    Love you guys. Can’t wait for the wedding❤️🤵🏼🤵🏻!

  • @thetravellinghobitt
    @thetravellinghobitt 4 года назад +4

    Hey my lovely lovely lovelies!!! Nice to see you both again and it’s on a Sunday! 😯 your sisters house Adam is soo stunning! I’m glad you had a very nice thanksgiving there! Family are always number one and we should all be thankful for them being with us all the time through thick and thin! Big hugs guys ❤️❤️❤️😍🍾👍🏼😊😘🥰

  • @michaellazcano8580
    @michaellazcano8580 4 года назад

    Hang in there guys! Lots going on for sure! Remember, you are not alone. You're surrounded by an abundance of love between the two of you, and from all those that you touch. Remain true to yourselves. You are a joy to watch.

  • @charleswoolley8367
    @charleswoolley8367 4 года назад +10

    I almost laughed when you said, "She's the rich one". I think many of us are relegated to varous positions in our families. I am the "youngest" and will probably always be seen that way. It was nice seeing you do the preparations for your wedding. May you have many happy years together.

  • @mikes10663
    @mikes10663 4 года назад

    Got married 12 years ago, and you're reminding me of how much planning was involved. We wanted to keep it simple but wound up with 100 people. Congratulations!

  • @sjbennett7130
    @sjbennett7130 4 года назад +6

    This one was interesting to watch, your family seem so sweet and that house is tomdie for. Its funny how our dynamics change when we are around family, but I loved the end of the video when Adam expressed he’d had a tough time, I got that and I send him hugs xoxo - You guys are doing so much in life right now (and always) so im sending my love and support always xx PS...Adam while i totally live you Bernardo is totally becoming my favourite BECAUSE HE LOVES SWEETS 🤣🤣🤣....Adam come to the dark side and live sweets too xxx Thanks for sharing again xx Steve in London x

    • @Stepsof2Foreigners
      @Stepsof2Foreigners  4 года назад +3

      Stephen Bennett hahaha Steve. Okay, you can love him more. You know, it’s hard to watch this video because yeah, anxiety gets the best of me. Just lucky to have a man like Bernardo next to me.

    • @sjbennett7130
      @sjbennett7130 4 года назад +3

      Stepsof2Foreigners Adam you are a beautiful star and you are still a living and loving young man - still learning about life and you have a beautiful man and you have a beautiful smile that will always light your journey ahead. Listen if I can offer you something from Love its this....never let things be bigger than they need to be, remember you are in a more loved place than others...i myself am that single 40yr old wondering if anyone would ever love me (like u have with Bernado xx) but I just live life and know people have other things harder than me and I just keep moving forward xx I send u love and i love you share your heart with us...thats real xx makes us love u guys even more xx But always lets us send u love when u need it ok xxx Always share your problems...and share your love xx 🥰

  • @Shadowshard73
    @Shadowshard73 4 года назад +2

    You might be poor in money but you are definitely rich in love. And you are getting married the weekend of the 14 and 15? My birthday weekend? Wooot! Love you guys.

  • @josuetespan5352
    @josuetespan5352 4 года назад +4

    We are excited too, congrats guys, we love u so so so much. ❤

  • @harrietcarr5506
    @harrietcarr5506 4 года назад +1

    So much fun watching you taste the cakes and make plans with your family for your big day! Wow! Your Thanksgiving meal looked delicious! Bernardo's comment about belonging to Adam's family was so heartfelt. They all love you, Bernardo! So happy about the arrival of your green card! Just in the nick of time! One biggie off your list! So many memories in Portland. I'm sure leaving is bittersweet. My love to you both. Harriet

  • @roberttomaszuk3981
    @roberttomaszuk3981 4 года назад +6

    I'm so happy I've discovered your channel. Love you guys

    • @roberttomaszuk3981
      @roberttomaszuk3981 4 года назад +2

      @Levent A quite a while ago, like a 3 weeks, most of their videos already watched :D

    • @roberttomaszuk3981
      @roberttomaszuk3981 4 года назад +2

      @Levent A Wow, wish I was there earlier :D

  • @vijaysuryavanshi8339
    @vijaysuryavanshi8339 4 года назад +2

    Whole Family Such A Nice & Lovely Supporting ADAM & BERNARDO Wedding Planning. Love Both Of U Guys ♥️❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤♥️

  • @alexandernascimento6889
    @alexandernascimento6889 4 года назад +34

    Vocês não tem limites quando o assunto é serem fofos. Que família linda a do Adam e que encontro de alma vocês tiveram, vocês são um casal incrível de acompanhar e pensando desde o início vocês só melhoram.
    Tentem manter a calma até o casamento e só aproveitem, é um momento único que deve trazer só alegria e diversão.
    Ansiso por ver a cerimônia. Muito amor pra vocês!!! 😍 😍 😍 😍

    • @anapaiva5048
      @anapaiva5048 4 года назад +3

      Graças , um comentário em português 🙏

    • @alexandernascimento6889
      @alexandernascimento6889 4 года назад +1

      @@anapaiva5048 sempre vejo por aqui...

    • @anapaiva5048
      @anapaiva5048 4 года назад +2

      @@alexandernascimento6889 pra mim o seu foi novidade..apesar que nem sempre olho os comentários, mas das vezes que olhei nunca vih..
      Adorei ver o seu❤

    • @mukeshbhaikhodifad4185
      @mukeshbhaikhodifad4185 4 года назад

      M

    • @sidneypachecosantos6292
      @sidneypachecosantos6292 4 года назад +2

      Uhum Alexandre nascimento disse tudo, Adam e Bernardo são muito lindos e muito fofos disse tudo.

  • @johnbrassey5481
    @johnbrassey5481 4 года назад +1

    You love 💕 each other very much. That shows when you look at each other. You are both very fortunate. You have my admiration. 💕

  • @thonyfothergill
    @thonyfothergill 4 года назад +14

    Your wedding looks like it's going to be really "you". You must be so excited

    • @Stepsof2Foreigners
      @Stepsof2Foreigners  4 года назад +3

      Anthony RF Anthony, Bernardo and I really sat down and wanting it to be super cozy, intimate, filled with nature, and most importantly, us. Nothing fancy just a few hours filled with love and acceptance.

  • @sylviamostert9481
    @sylviamostert9481 4 года назад +1

    Thanks to see you. Please don't stress for the wedding. You have a stunning family and you two are so beautiful. Nothing can go wrong with two beautiful men like you. Al my love for you

  • @sirenmuscle
    @sirenmuscle 4 года назад +3

    Yes... tons of kids... at least 6!
    Bernardo will really LOVE that! LOL!

    • @RBS_
      @RBS_ 4 года назад

      ....yeah, the nervous twitching said it ALL!! ...ha-HAA!! >mypoorhips

  • @davidthompson222
    @davidthompson222 4 года назад +2

    I don't normally leave a message but since it's your wedding on Saturday I'd just like to wish you well with it and the future. Good luck guys.

    • @Stepsof2Foreigners
      @Stepsof2Foreigners  4 года назад +2

      David Thompson Hey David, of course we had to respond. Thank you. We hope that the day goes smoothly :)

  • @marisahixson2491
    @marisahixson2491 4 года назад +25

    Always look forward to ya'll's videos! Happy Holidays!!🎄❄😊

    • @Stepsof2Foreigners
      @Stepsof2Foreigners  4 года назад

      How sweet Marisa, thank you. Happy Holidays to you as well :)

  • @thomasyehling9018
    @thomasyehling9018 4 года назад +1

    I have been following y’all since a little early on and I just want to say that I fall in love with your story more and more after every video. I can’t wait to see you guys- my role models- grow your family! Always support from me!

  • @rafaelfranco3036
    @rafaelfranco3036 4 года назад +10

    Que Deus abençoe todos os seus planos..... muito feliz por vcs!!!!

    • @romanleue7782
      @romanleue7782 4 года назад +2

      "May God bless all your plans ..... very happy for you guys !!!!"

  • @mackitormon5996
    @mackitormon5996 4 года назад

    Ever since I've discovered your channel. I couldn't stopped watching every videos you have. And now I'm excited about your wedding day. Just relax and kicked that stress out. Adam you're so wonderful and Bernardo is so cool. That's made a lovely couple. You're an inspiration and good example to LGBTQ community. Good wishes to two of you.

  • @briansherrod1916
    @briansherrod1916 4 года назад +4

    Yay for an early upload on this beautiful Sunday! I can’t wait to watch!

  • @shwt121
    @shwt121 4 года назад +1

    You two make a wonderful couple and I do love your videos....don't ever stop. Enjoy your lives together.😁👏👍👍👍

  • @shashichavhan2303
    @shashichavhan2303 4 года назад +7

    You both...are like our...family 😢. ....love u guys...lots of love from India 😚😘😙😙😙. ...and I had conversation wid Adam. ...in insta 😍.....best moment of my life

    • @Stepsof2Foreigners
      @Stepsof2Foreigners  4 года назад +1

      Hey Shashi! Yes, we did chat a little :) I know you are lying, that couldn't have been the best moment of your life. Haha. Big hugs to you. Thanks for the smiel

    • @shashichavhan2303
      @shashichavhan2303 4 года назад

      @@Stepsof2Foreigners yeah..😍😁

  • @calvindavis3641
    @calvindavis3641 4 года назад

    You guys are so lucky to have your wonderful family help with the wedding planning and support. Im jealous. Remember to thank mom for being the lovely person that she is, because that's important.

  • @nancyborden5860
    @nancyborden5860 4 года назад +4

    Why can't you guys have a cake with both your favorite flavors one layer yours and one his. Anyway thanks for the great video and thanks to your sister and handsome husband for letting you video tape inside their beautiful home. It was really fun.

  • @robertengel8610
    @robertengel8610 4 года назад +1

    finished watching all of your vids, its a wonderfull journey you're on. both of your heartfelt and difficult coming out stories are so touching, you are so vulnerable to all of us . I feel is if I know you both. you have provided us with so many good memories and adventures. I think I can say what some of us are thinking: this is your time, the most important day of your lives is fast approaching (Adam will be even more stressed as it approaches). Please take some time off and have your friends video the ceremony, they can edit and upload it to your channel. You need time away from you tube for the ceremony and honeymoon. Wishing you both and your families love. After all God is love and he wouldn't want any of us to go though a life without the compassion and love you so freely express. love you both.

  • @soymanuelmartinez6109
    @soymanuelmartinez6109 4 года назад +3

    Yes .. I had a couple of days waiting for the new video 🤩.
    Sure the video is very good ✅.
    I hope you had fun and spent many moments with your family on Thanksgiving😊😍
    Love you guys ❤️

  • @tarzanisno1
    @tarzanisno1 3 года назад

    🧡! Two beautiful souls bound together for eternity.

  • @angel-sh9bq
    @angel-sh9bq 4 года назад +10

    Eles têm uma família muito boa! Espero que eles se saiam muito bem no casamento, porque isso mostra que eles estão muito apaixonados e sempre se cuidam. Meus melhores desejos, Adam e Bernard. (Acho que vou chorar assistindo o vídeo do seu casamento)

    • @sidneypachecosantos6292
      @sidneypachecosantos6292 4 года назад

      Miguel dois também choro horrores, sera por que todos os casamentos alguém chorar em, não sei o por que pode ser de um de um homem com mulher ou homem com homem, não sei por que.

    • @renemenaflores4870
      @renemenaflores4870 4 года назад

      René. Mena. Fnenenes

  • @sinash
    @sinash 4 года назад

    We probably won't hear from you two again until after the wedding and therefore CONGRATULATIONS and even more happiness in your many, many, more years to come!

  • @DanielTalis
    @DanielTalis 4 года назад +4

    Se já me emocionei com esse finalzinho de video, imagina com o vídeo de casamento 🤧💖💖

  • @disney207
    @disney207 4 года назад

    You guys are so authentic , and you spread so much love and joy to the world. The support you have around you is so precious, and we cant wait to see what the future brings

  • @mauriciochinelli9834
    @mauriciochinelli9834 4 года назад +10

    Eu fico muito feliz com os vídeos de vcs e fico até com um pouco de "inveja" mas quando eu me lembro que o amor já me machucou essa inveja até some 😁
    Desejo muitas felicidades pra vcs 😍
    Admiro muito vcs dois 💖

    • @heyanimalfacts
      @heyanimalfacts 4 года назад

      kkkk faz parte, alguém pode sempre ser machucado ou machucar isso não é uma regra... eu acho

    • @brunoogawa4968
      @brunoogawa4968 4 года назад

      também fico um pouco assim, mas eles dão esperanças pra gente, e mostra que nada é uma regra absoluta.

    • @romanleue7782
      @romanleue7782 4 года назад +1

      "I'm very happy with the videos of you guys and I'm even a little "jealous" but when I remember that love already hurt me that jealousy until some 😁
      I wish you all the best 😍
      I really admire you two 💖"

    • @sidneypachecosantos6292
      @sidneypachecosantos6292 4 года назад

      Também já fui muito machucado, de tanto que já fui machucado que fui parar num coma e hoje estou de andador, de tanto já mim machucaram, hoje não quero mais ninguém na minha vida,mais fico feliz quando vejo Adam e Bernardo, eu admiro muito eles.

    • @romanleue7782
      @romanleue7782 4 года назад

      "I was also very hurt, so much that I was hurt that I ended up in a coma and today I am a walker, so much I have hurt, today I do not want anyone else in my life, but I'm happy when I see Adam and Bernardo, I admire a lot they."

  • @kevintierney3542
    @kevintierney3542 4 года назад

    Deep. Breath, big sigh a kiss for luck and your day will be complete.You fill us all with emotion.I'm thankful for finding your videos.I'll always treasure them.

  • @johnsmith4589
    @johnsmith4589 4 года назад +23

    Well, we found out who’s best at blowing...grass.
    I like ur Aunt. She seems way cool. 😎

    • @Stepsof2Foreigners
      @Stepsof2Foreigners  4 года назад +5

      John Smith hahaha John. Did you hear her say, “did your try Bernardo’s moose?” We wanted that to be the title of the video. You should hear her life story. Wow. Keep her in her prayers, she was almost 5 years of cancer free but got a bad doctor’s visit shy of the 5 year mark.

    • @johnsmith4589
      @johnsmith4589 4 года назад +1

      Stepsof2Foreigners ...B’s “moose”, huh? That’s about the right size, I’d say.
      She’s in my prayers now. 🙂

    • @Stepsof2Foreigners
      @Stepsof2Foreigners  4 года назад

      HAHAHAHA! Good one.

    • @johnsmith4589
      @johnsmith4589 4 года назад +2

      Stepsof2Foreigners ...Wow. Ur coming up on 350k subscribers soon. Kudos, guys...👍🏼

    • @Stepsof2Foreigners
      @Stepsof2Foreigners  4 года назад +1

      Thanks John. We went through some changes, slight ones, but happy to see 350,000. Our goal in Portland was to have 320,000 so we are happy we reached our goal. Hopefully in 2020, more adventures are on our way :)

  • @davidrickards
    @davidrickards 4 года назад

    So glad for your family support and giving thanks for many blessings. I loved it when Bernardo said he was thankful he has your family as his now. I loved your sister's home.I love you guys!

  • @randomloser6722
    @randomloser6722 4 года назад +3

    ok i didn't know much about you guys bc i only watched one of your videos because i subscribed yesterday but.....
    *OMFG YOUR GETTING MARRIED YAAAAAAAAAAAAASSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS*

  • @TLH11_23
    @TLH11_23 4 года назад +1

    God bless you both with this togetherness forever....
    What a bliss it is...
    It's still a dream for many...
    *Deep Silence*

    • @TLH11_23
      @TLH11_23 4 года назад

      Some one liked my comment.
      Can I know who is that lucky one?

  • @ATLJonathanH
    @ATLJonathanH 4 года назад +23

    Are any viewers going to be selected to attend your wedding to represent your online community?

    • @ILOVESTEAK10
      @ILOVESTEAK10 4 года назад +4

      No way! The online community for the RUclips channel is the income stream. Private life is real life. RUclips life is business life. Come on.

    • @ATLJonathanH
      @ATLJonathanH 4 года назад +3

      William Ainsworth every wedding has a work table where people from your business life sit!

    • @bluebaconjake405
      @bluebaconjake405 4 года назад

      JonathanH but that doesn’t mean they have to invite strangers to their wedding

    • @RBS_
      @RBS_ 4 года назад +1

      @@ILOVESTEAK10 ....FINALLY, someone GETS it! ....that should be THEIRS; ...we can see the planning, the the lead-up, even the after ceremonies, but THAT, should be PRIVATE....let's start a petition....

    • @ATLJonathanH
      @ATLJonathanH 4 года назад +2

      Jake Johnson I’m not strange, very normal actually.

  • @carinaneumann6116
    @carinaneumann6116 4 года назад

    Awwwww.... For me it is the most personal video yet. Thank you for sharing these important moments in your life with us. ♥️ It's so nice to see that Bernardo is part of the Pate-Family and obviously feels very well. It is so beneficial to see you, along with all these messages of war, hate, violence, natural disasters, so full of love and trust. Big hugs from Germany 😘

  • @NotContinuum
    @NotContinuum 4 года назад +7

    "Now you gotta try Bernardo's mousse."
    *blink*blink*
    Is that a euphemism?

    • @augusts1
      @augusts1 4 года назад

      Like Adam hasn't had it already numerous times lol.

    • @RBS_
      @RBS_ 4 года назад +1

      ....no, it's a FACT! ...ha-HAA!! >thataintBullwinkle< / >adamkindalookslikeRockytoo

  • @manpreetkaur2483
    @manpreetkaur2483 4 года назад

    Oh guys... I am feeling nostalgia seeing u anxious and nervous about ur wedding. Enjoy every minute of it. Whether it's fun or stress.. A few years down the line u guys will be laughing remembering all the moments.
    Wishing you a wonderful, healthy and blissful wedding life.

  • @tomdeininger7379
    @tomdeininger7379 4 года назад +7

    I wish my arms filled my shirt sleeves like Adam or Bernardo.

    • @RBS_
      @RBS_ 4 года назад +2

      ....I wish my arms were FILLED with Adam or Bernardo!! ...ha-HAA!! >juskiddinAdam< / >IwantmyownBernardonotyours

    • @Stepsof2Foreigners
      @Stepsof2Foreigners  4 года назад

      tom deininger get a small shirt and there you go :). Hahaha. I get small and Bernardo gets medium.

  • @higiniogonzalez-cintron8531
    @higiniogonzalez-cintron8531 4 года назад

    Hi. Every time I see your video I reaffirmed how lucky you guys are for having each other. Great family !

  • @gusy629
    @gusy629 4 года назад +5

    OMG I can’t wait for this big gay wedding. ❤️❤️❤️🎂

  • @marienorman1477
    @marienorman1477 4 года назад +1

    Marie Norman here from Tennessee
    Adam..dont stress..your already married..its just a party for family now, and celebrate with you two. Easy.🤓💜💜You guys got this!

    • @Stepsof2Foreigners
      @Stepsof2Foreigners  4 года назад +1

      Bobby Norman thanks Bobby. This is a wedding of course but there is also so more than marrying my best friend. It’s my family coming together and recognizing our love. For that, I’m scared. I don’t know how things will go and I certainly don’t want to ugly cry walking down the aisle with my mom.

    • @marienorman1477
      @marienorman1477 4 года назад +1

      @@Stepsof2Foreigners you will be great. No matter what!💜💜

  • @asminhasvisoesdomundojunio6694
    @asminhasvisoesdomundojunio6694 4 года назад +15

    Agora sim minha semana começou! Amo vcs meninos

  • @briandrumgold642
    @briandrumgold642 4 года назад +1

    Very cool video guys. God Bless your family Adam. So cute your dad sleeping on the floor with the dog 😌

  • @mariaaparecidasoares4807
    @mariaaparecidasoares4807 4 года назад +3

    Que família linda Adam. O nervosismo com os preparativos do casamento é assim mesmo não tem como evitar, mas tenho certeza que será lindo, pois o casal é lindíssimo. Deus abençoe vcs e conserve esse lindo amor que um sente pelo outro fiquei emocionada com o vídeo amo vcs demais e desejo de coração que sejam muito felizes. Obrigada por compartilhar este momento tão especial beijo grande para os dois.

    • @romanleue7782
      @romanleue7782 4 года назад +2

      "What a beautiful family Adam. The nervousness with the wedding preparations is still no way to avoid, but I'm sure it will be beautiful, because the couple is beautiful. God bless you and keep this beautiful love that you feel for each other I was thrilled with the video I love you too much and I wish from my heart that you are very happy. Thank you for sharing this special moment so big kiss for both of you."

  • @mjcigar
    @mjcigar 4 года назад

    Just breathe Adam, take it all in and remember it's Bernardo and your day and everyone wants to be there. NO ONE knows how things are supposed to go except you two (well ok maybe some family) so it's all perfect! Celebrate the love you have found and the love you came from full circle!

  • @anasuelifigueredo2815
    @anasuelifigueredo2815 4 года назад +4

    Que Deus abençoe vocês dois e tenham um casamento maravilhoso e abençoado .beijos meninos

  • @kimboyd1682
    @kimboyd1682 4 года назад +1

    As A Older Gay Man, I' m So Very Happy for the Two of You and Your Lifes Adventures! May The Two of You Be Blessed!

  • @capunkmelky
    @capunkmelky 4 года назад +3

    So cute 😍

  • @mjcigar
    @mjcigar 4 года назад +1

    Dogs love Bernardo and Bernardo loves doggies they sense that....very cute puppers too!

  • @janvloggaa4920
    @janvloggaa4920 4 года назад +5

    Just to let you know that I like any kind of wedding cake and I am amazing wedding guest. ;)

    • @Bojan_V
      @Bojan_V 4 года назад

      😀🎂

  • @georgeswes4541
    @georgeswes4541 4 года назад

    Great video and congratulations. Adam don’t be too stressed. You do have to rely on each other and that’s the point of love and marriage.

  • @laurinetecapistranog4012
    @laurinetecapistranog4012 4 года назад +5

    Meninos,amo vocês e torço para serem mais felizes depois do casamento.😘😘😘😘

    • @romanleue7782
      @romanleue7782 4 года назад +1

      "Boys, I love you and I hope to be happier after marriage.😘😘😘😘"

  • @traybott
    @traybott 4 года назад +2

    Such an inspirational couple. Beautiful family. Happy holidays! My friends and I watch your videos and just love them. Keep them coming and thank you for sharing your journey. Hugs