Tyler Baltierra Reflects on "DISAPPOINTING" Choice Made by Daughter’s Adoptive Parents | E! News

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  • 'Teen Mom' star Tyler Baltierra is speaking out about the "disappointing" choice made by his and wife Catelynn Lowell's daughter Carly's adoptive parents.
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  • @pitbull7885
    @pitbull7885 11 дней назад +43

    it will be interesting to see where all this goes when she turns 18 years old....

  • @ashleymichelle7523
    @ashleymichelle7523 11 дней назад +40

    It doesn’t matter at the end that girl is going to turn 18 and do whatever she wants …. If she wants to live with them she will .

  • @mariaarellano6257
    @mariaarellano6257 9 дней назад +7

    The fact that Catelynn and Tyler fight so hard to see Carly and they have 3 other daughters is really telling. They are such good and loving parents. If my mom was in that situation, my mom could care less if she saw me every 10 years. I’m 44 and she barely picks up my phone calls and I only talk to her 2-3 times a year. She’ll pick up or call me when she’s broke and needs money for the casino. Any ways, I’m sorry for Catelynn and Tyler. It’s a difficult situation and they should be allowed to have a human reaction. But again you can tell they love Carly. As do Brandon and Teresa. But I’m sure Carly is in the most loving ans capable hands with Brandon and Teresa.

  • @user-tj8su5pl9d
    @user-tj8su5pl9d 10 дней назад +18

    It is well known that it is best for adopted children to have contact with their birth parents if they are deemed to be safe!

    • @yup_im_tiff
      @yup_im_tiff 10 часов назад

      A lot of adoptive parents don’t care about that they want to be the only parents

  • @ensabahnur3104
    @ensabahnur3104 11 дней назад +20

    I can understand that, the adoptive parents have a right to say no, and the birth parents have a right to feel sad if that was not the agreement. (I dont know of it is in writing, but they definitely agreed to that on tv prior to the adoption)

    • @yup_im_tiff
      @yup_im_tiff 10 часов назад

      It’s in writing, but it’s nothing that can be legally enforce. so with any open adoption, you can promise things to the birth parents like visits letters pictures annually simi annually, whatever but you can change your mind about that whenever you want to so three, four five years down the line as the legal parents You change your mind and you never have to speak to those people again until after your child turns 18 if you so please there’s nothing in the law that says you have to allow visits or communication bio parents have zero rights.

  • @CitiesLeftOnFire
    @CitiesLeftOnFire 11 дней назад +40

    Maybe it’s not just her parents that are saying no.

    • @Genna-qp2ey
      @Genna-qp2ey 11 дней назад +16

      I thought about that too. Maybe Carly doesn’t want the visit

    • @CitiesLeftOnFire
      @CitiesLeftOnFire 11 дней назад +8

      @@Genna-qp2ey I’d imagine she gets picked on at school if she’s not homeschooled. 14 is a hard age how could you hide 16 and pregnant from that generation? Its everywhere

    • @august21xp
      @august21xp 11 дней назад +3

      I agree if I was the child I would be upset they gave me away , became famous and I would question if they already had the MTV contract then why would they give me up anyway for money ??? then go on to have 3 more kids and still on tv ??? I would be oissed !

    • @khloeconlin
      @khloeconlin 11 дней назад +8

      @@august21xp 16 & pregnant was just a tv show of different girls if you rewatch her episode you can definitely tell why they gave her up now here comes teen mom and now they have money and other kids of course they would have wished it was different but it’s not

    • @aishariel9924
      @aishariel9924 11 дней назад +5

      @@khloeconlin you can tell they didn’t watch the OG show from the beginning.

  • @sleepyandhollow.
    @sleepyandhollow. 9 дней назад +9

    I'm sorry but I think if her parents are choosing to opt out of visitation with them it's because Carly doesn't want to. She is old enough to voice what she feels/wants and I highly doubt they would choose this against her wishes if it's what she wanted. If they are choosing what they think is best for their daughter, then as a parent of a teen myself, I am sure it's what carly wants.

    • @Kateeee83
      @Kateeee83 3 дня назад +2

      She's 15 now, but this isn't an issue that just came up. They have played them multiple times and didn't have the visit. It maybe the case, now ? Maybe not. We don't know. But I truly believe that when she is older she will come around and there will be a better and closer relationship. I pray for the children sake that happens. And if she watches from the beginning of it all she would know how devastating a choice it was and they really did what was the absolute best for her at the time.

    • @yup_im_tiff
      @yup_im_tiff 10 часов назад

      They been stopped letting them see, visit or talk to her. They don’t like that they’re a public family they don’t want their daughter talked about or shown on tv.

    • @sleepyandhollow.
      @sleepyandhollow. 9 часов назад

      @@yup_im_tiff that's understandable, neither would I. they didn't sign up for all this, im sure they could never expect a doc about 16 & pregnant would become an eternal tv franchise

  • @mstoby76
    @mstoby76 11 дней назад +10

    GOD BLESS!!!praying for your family!!!🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️❤️❤️!!!

  • @carol-annesomerville7880
    @carol-annesomerville7880 11 дней назад +13

    Maybe Carly doesn’t want a visit because she’s at that teenage age where everyone who’s older is uncool and it’s plastered all over tv and the internet. Maybe they’re doing it for Carly. Kaitlyn and Tyler should stop and think before blasting anyone. One of their visits they were nearly 2hrs late and Carly’s parents didn’t say a word. So it works both ways. They’re lucky they see her at all.

    • @justmythoughts2962
      @justmythoughts2962 10 дней назад +3

      Can you imagine how embarrassed she must be by some of this stuff ? Carly is likely over there trying to live a normal life. Whereas her younger bio siblings are growing up thinking that their life is NORMAL. Poor kids.

  • @spiltjuiceboxes
    @spiltjuiceboxes 8 дней назад +4

    I don’t think people are grasping adoption laws. An open adoption is not in definite, if biological parents violate the terms and conditions of the adoption being open, it can close for the best interest of the child. Technically, they don’t even have rights to see the child they placed into adoption the second they sign those papers they no longer had a say and I don’t think they truly understood the terms and conditions at 15/16 years old.

    • @yup_im_tiff
      @yup_im_tiff 10 часов назад

      I agree. If you look at old episodes it seems like they thought they’d be able to see and talk to her often and of course the adoption agent didn’t correct them

  • @lilebb1657
    @lilebb1657 11 дней назад +20

    Of course they don't want their daughter around that Only Fans crap.

    • @ericdwhitmorec
      @ericdwhitmorec 11 дней назад

      And you know they have an only fans how?

    • @lilebb1657
      @lilebb1657 11 дней назад +7

      @@ericdwhitmorec They have talked about it on the show. Duh! 🙄 So many opportunities and they chose Only Fans. 😬 After four daughters.

    • @cc-so4hy
      @cc-so4hy 8 дней назад +1

      I agree. I'd do everything to keep my kids from people on disgusting websites

    • @yup_im_tiff
      @yup_im_tiff 10 часов назад

      They stop them from seeing her years ago. It had nothing to do with only fans

  • @yourpetyourway
    @yourpetyourway 11 дней назад +16

    Instead of calling it "adoption" it should be called "lay-a-way". I'm sure the adoptive parents are doing what's right for their daughter and her mental health.

    • @yup_im_tiff
      @yup_im_tiff 10 часов назад

      They don’t want her mentioned on tv or on the internet. They literally adopted a child from a teen on a tv its very strange to want privacy after adopting a child from tv… it seems the relationship was getting a bit to close when the children referred to themselves as sisters once that happened and visits stop

  • @brittanyKuchiki
    @brittanyKuchiki 7 дней назад +2

    I mean every time they see her it’s always filmed and being put out on tv maybe it’s not just the adoptive parents saying no, Carly is old enough to make a decision on if she wants to see them

    • @malcriadamedina5358
      @malcriadamedina5358 6 дней назад

      Lies, she has never been shown on tv, she has never been "filmed"

  • @saramarshall2957
    @saramarshall2957 8 дней назад +1

    In 3 years she can decide this for herself. Cates feelings are just hurt. I get it. Those visits mean everything to her

  • @cc-so4hy
    @cc-so4hy 8 дней назад +2

    I don't blame the adaptive parents. I wouldn't let my kids around people on bad websites. People have a choice and when it's bad I pay the consequences.

  • @christinagonzales6441
    @christinagonzales6441 8 дней назад +2

    I also think they lied to the young parents

  • @Yes0hyes1921
    @Yes0hyes1921 8 дней назад +5

    As an adoptee , my opinion is … she will have a lot of resentment towards her real parents .. only bc of the what could’ve been …. We can’t help but feel we weren’t good enough or wanted …. Doesn’t matter how nice adoptive parents are .. in my case my mother was cruel … so I do have resentment towards my real parents bc even if they were to be mean to me it’s my real family …. So yeah she’s gonna have lots of counseling when she hits 18 …. Or even when she becomes a mommy herself and realizes how easy it is to hold your baby and say I am completely committed to you .

    • @malcriadamedina5358
      @malcriadamedina5358 6 дней назад +5

      Stop, her parents were children. When she's a mother she'll say wow I can't believe my parents were mature enough to understand that children can't raise children.

  • @joankgillette
    @joankgillette 9 дней назад +1

    So disrespectful to call her by her maiden name and not her married name

  • @stephaniedavis4597
    @stephaniedavis4597 11 дней назад +9

    You gave up your rights so you can't even comment... that's not how it works. You don't have the benefits without the work. I think you have some nerve to call them out online. Learn how to deal with your choices maybe...

    • @courtneyw6224
      @courtneyw6224 11 дней назад

      Open adoption fool. It was agreed to allow them to see their birth daughter throughout the years, but now they are saying no. We don't know the entire reason.. they have the right, but when someone gives you their kid and makes a deal that you can have her if they can still see her then be respectful of that deal. Unless the kid has said no

    • @Kateeee83
      @Kateeee83 3 дня назад

      They were kids and under the assumption and belief that they would be allowed in her life and have visits etc it was said by the parents on Tv

    • @yup_im_tiff
      @yup_im_tiff 10 часов назад

      Why adopt a child with the promises of allowing the child to visit the birth family every year, talk to them every 6 months and agree to sending pictures every 6 months and every birthday if you have zero plans of withholding that promise to the ppl that made you parents in the first place. There are millions of children in foster care they crossed state lines to buy a baby from a 15 year old girl

  • @ldv02
    @ldv02 5 часов назад

    Once you sign the papers she’s not really yours anymore. Also we don’t know what’s happening. Maybe Carly doesn’t want to see you guys and her mom is saying no so that she doesn’t put Carly on the spot. They need to hash this privately, not blasting the internet with it. Carly will grow up and see this

  • @lindagriffin8340
    @lindagriffin8340 6 дней назад

    I'm sorry you had to put Carli up for adoption, but I think you both done the right thing. It's so hard taking care of a baby when your a teen. I know I had my first child at 17 in 1979. I was fortunate to be able to keep my son because I had my husband and family to help me. It's true what they say " It takes a village to raise a child." Her adopted Parents are her Parents now and they have been for a long time. They decide what Carli can do and not do until she's 18.

  • @kaylinwhite6584
    @kaylinwhite6584 11 дней назад +2

    Numerous emotions

  • @ChristyGarza
    @ChristyGarza 8 дней назад +3

    There should be something placed in adoption that makes the adoption either able to be reversed or something done to the adoptive parents if they do not uphold their side of the agreement. That couple makes me sick every time i see them. They knew what they were doing by both of them being so young at the time. They took advantage of them along with that crooked adoption agent.

  • @bumbles910
    @bumbles910 11 дней назад +13

    I feel bad for the kids parents. They have no obligation to share custody of their child.

    • @ashleymarie5093
      @ashleymarie5093 11 дней назад +6

      They did originally agree to an open adoption. Which means visitation on whatever was agreed upon. Sure they can say no being the legal guardians and maybe Carly is at an age where she doesn't even want to see them right now which is fine too. but it's still going against what the original agreement was.

    • @khloeconlin
      @khloeconlin 11 дней назад +4

      @@ashleymarie5093facts

    • @notsureiL
      @notsureiL 10 дней назад +1

      ​@@ashleymarie5093They never agreed on pimping out Carly for the show. The biological parents wanted the visits to be showed on MTV.

    • @emiilyjaane7
      @emiilyjaane7 9 дней назад +1

      ​@@notsureiLDid you not watch 16& Pregnant??? Catelynn & Tyler did everything Carly's adoptive parents wanted, They didn't even want her shown on the camera along with The adoptive parents. They all agreed to an open adoption, Which means they still have rights to see Carly, MTV has followed Carly's journey since birth, but blur her face out to respect them all, so ofc she would still be on the show when she agrees to it. They all left the choice up to Carly when she was old enough to say yes or no. They have never forced her to do anything.

  • @heathertapper-gq6pk
    @heathertapper-gq6pk 7 дней назад

    And tyler wont even send letters cause he dont know what to say yet explodes when hes asked to follow basic requests

  • @MrsMartinez_
    @MrsMartinez_ 11 дней назад +12

    I think it’s crazy that they gave their 1st born up for adoption then proceeded to have 3 more kids. I know it was later in their life but still…If I was their daughter I wouldn’t want a relationship with them. 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @alishashay17
      @alishashay17 11 дней назад +5

      I read that they weren’t very responsible & they was teenagers

    • @nursehoney24
      @nursehoney24 11 дней назад +13

      They were literally kids themselves & both of them lived in very abusive dysfunctional families. Some of the things shown when teen mom was brand new, when Kate & Tyler were growing up & pregnant, was so depressing & sad, sometimes hard to watch how they really lived. So in my opinion, they done the absolute best thing for Carly. Of course their lives are very different now, they have money, they’re older, wiser, & on their own…….so why wouldn’t they have & create their own family now?? But I get it tho, everyone has their own opinion about it 🤷‍♀️

    • @courtneyw6224
      @courtneyw6224 11 дней назад +3

      That would bw dumb of you. If you watched the show you would realize Carly would've been raised in a not healthy environment. By giving hwr uo they made her life better.

    • @justmythoughts2962
      @justmythoughts2962 10 дней назад

      ​@@courtneyw6224the 3 they HAVE aren't EITHER.

    • @Kateeee83
      @Kateeee83 3 дня назад

      @MrsMartinez_ I'm curious to know if you were adopted ?

  • @heathertapper-gq6pk
    @heathertapper-gq6pk 7 дней назад

    Theressa and brandon are not at fault ty and cait are moreso cait they talk about cary on tv and show her pic when told not to then cait whines to the internet and tyler acts sixteen again because he doesnt like to be told what to do granted ty is still the better parent to the three that are actualy theirs cait just had them to make herself feel good but niether work and all they do is teen mom and disgusting only why would carly want to deal with them .caits gonna mess the other three up if tyler doesnt leave

  • @alexflowers97
    @alexflowers97 11 дней назад +13

    So weird, put the child up for adoption but want visitation rights?

    • @happyjoy338
      @happyjoy338 11 дней назад +9

      Not visitation RIGHTS, just a visit.

    • @lawrenceoxford
      @lawrenceoxford 11 дней назад +18

      The adoptive parents agreed that they could have visitation with the child when they gave her up for adoption.If they had said no,they would have probably looked at different people who would have agreed with visitation of the child.

    • @happyjoy338
      @happyjoy338 11 дней назад +17

      @@lawrenceoxford MUTUALLY AGREED UPON VISITATION.

    • @alexflowers97
      @alexflowers97 11 дней назад

      @@happyjoy338 that’s still weird.

    • @alexflowers97
      @alexflowers97 11 дней назад +2

      @@lawrenceoxford well that changes perspective if they said that from the beginning pre adoption arrangement.

  • @GabyHernandez-rv3vo
    @GabyHernandez-rv3vo 11 дней назад +3

    😮😮😢 why did give up her daughter

    • @ashleymarie5093
      @ashleymarie5093 11 дней назад +10

      I don't think any of the OG teen moms could have foreseen the success of the show and therefore income to be able to raise these kids. Caitlyn and tys story is one of the few that came from broken homes and little support. They wanted better for their baby unbeknownst to them that the show would be a hit and making them financially capable and they probably realized that they could have done it but it was too late. I think there's a lot of guilt there for that reason.

    • @alishashay17
      @alishashay17 11 дней назад +2

      They weren’t responsible for a baby.

    • @GabyHernandez-rv3vo
      @GabyHernandez-rv3vo 11 дней назад

      Yeah the other children they kept

  • @Allinmyworld
    @Allinmyworld 8 дней назад +5

    I hate that Carly was adopted by Brandon and Teresa. They changed after they had the baby. It's sad but i think Catelynn and Tyler's story about an adoption almost serves as a warning. Who can know the decisions you make at 16 years old can affect the rest of your life? You never know.

  • @eviegirl2746
    @eviegirl2746 11 дней назад +7

    i feel like brandon and treesa are going to play carly against her birth parents i think the only reason they adopted carley was for money

    • @justmythoughts2962
      @justmythoughts2962 10 дней назад

      Because it didn't cost them a small fortune to adopt her ?
      What MONEY?
      NO ONE ever predicted these two would parlay their teen pregnancy into a career. So money ? Those two came from NOTHING.
      THEY adopted her because of money is the wildest comment I have EVER read.

    • @malcriadamedina5358
      @malcriadamedina5358 6 дней назад

      @@justmythoughts2962they got her for free

  • @malcriadamedina5358
    @malcriadamedina5358 6 дней назад

    Teresa and Brandon really lucked out getting a new born non addicted yt baby for practically free

    • @Yes0hyes1921
      @Yes0hyes1921 6 дней назад

      STOP , What an opinion.

    • @malcriadamedina5358
      @malcriadamedina5358 6 дней назад

      @@Yes0hyes1921 it is unfortunately how the modern adoption system works, there's an over saturation of unwanted babies: see non yt babies whereas adopting parents who tend to be yt fight over the few yt babies up for adoption. It's the truth, I'm just the messenger. And yes they can cost a lot of money because they are more sought after, it costs less to adopt a non yt baby. Yep an unfortunate truth.

  • @Queenbrieshelumiel38
    @Queenbrieshelumiel38 11 дней назад +5

    If they wanted they could fight to get her back if they wanted too

    • @heatherthompson8878
      @heatherthompson8878 11 дней назад +12

      No they can't, they adopted her out. Unless they find a ridiculous judge they won't get granted her back

    • @canadianalien370
      @canadianalien370 11 дней назад +5

      Don’t be ridiculous!

  • @princessalysonsweatwinter
    @princessalysonsweatwinter 11 дней назад +4

    I Don’t Trust Brandon And Teresa At All. They Don’t Want Carly To Have A Relationship With Her Birth Parents Cate And Ty

    • @courtneyw6224
      @courtneyw6224 11 дней назад +2

      Right! They definitely getting tired of the birth parents actually wanting to be in their child life. Freaking selfish. If you don't want open adoption then get another baby

    • @Dawnie314
      @Dawnie314 10 дней назад +5

      @@courtneyw6224Or maybe it’s the fact they have made it crystal clear they want Carly to have a private life. She’s not a prop or a storyline to be trotted out when ratings are low.

    • @christinawitzka4855
      @christinawitzka4855 8 дней назад +1

      I don't trust them either but she will be 18 in three years and if she wants to see them herself she will they can't stop her also if she doesn't wanna see the adoptive parents no more she doesn't have to she isn't obligated to

  • @kathleenweinberg5991
    @kathleenweinberg5991 11 дней назад +1

    Oh my goodness
    What is going on?
    It's her child also.