Tyler Baltierra Reflects on "DISAPPOINTING" Choice Made by Daughter’s Adoptive Parents | E! News
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- Опубликовано: 10 май 2024
- 'Teen Mom' star Tyler Baltierra is speaking out about the "disappointing" choice made by his and wife Catelynn Lowell's daughter Carly's adoptive parents.
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it will be interesting to see where all this goes when she turns 18 years old....
I imagine they she will reach out within a year or two of turning 18. I have a feeling she might resent her adoptive parents a bit. Love them nonetheless. But she missed out on her siblings childhoods in large part. That’s unfair.
I can understand adoptive parents wanting to keep their life separate and private now, BUT, Caitlyn gave them her own flesh and blood first born baby when they themselves couldn’t have one. She carried that baby for NINE MONTHS and selflessly gave her up to them. Asking for one visit a year is more than reasonable, she gave you a child of your own.
The fact that Catelynn and Tyler fight so hard to see Carly and they have 3 other daughters is really telling. They are such good and loving parents. If my mom was in that situation, my mom could care less if she saw me every 10 years. I’m 44 and she barely picks up my phone calls and I only talk to her 2-3 times a year. She’ll pick up or call me when she’s broke and needs money for the casino. Any ways, I’m sorry for Catelynn and Tyler. It’s a difficult situation and they should be allowed to have a human reaction. But again you can tell they love Carly. As do Brandon and Teresa. But I’m sure Carly is in the most loving ans capable hands with Brandon and Teresa.
Not really. If the adopters were so loving they would do what is best for Carly not themselves. Rely adoption should be just for real orphans.
@summerhill93 They are doing whats best for their daughter, they’re protecting her from Carolyn and Tyler’s poor decision to be on a literal p*rn website.
It doesn’t matter at the end that girl is going to turn 18 and do whatever she wants …. If she wants to live with them she will .
"it"?
Thank you , cellphone error. Just fix it 😅
As a fellow adoptee myself, I hope she makes this choice.
I can understand that, the adoptive parents have a right to say no, and the birth parents have a right to feel sad if that was not the agreement. (I dont know of it is in writing, but they definitely agreed to that on tv prior to the adoption)
It’s in writing, but it’s nothing that can be legally enforce. so with any open adoption, you can promise things to the birth parents like visits letters pictures annually simi annually, whatever but you can change your mind about that whenever you want to so three, four five years down the line as the legal parents You change your mind and you never have to speak to those people again until after your child turns 18 if you so please there’s nothing in the law that says you have to allow visits or communication bio parents have zero rights.
I’m pretty sure it wasn’t agreed upon for Catelyn and Tyler to be on a p*rn website either.
Carly’s a teenager now, she may be feeling anger towards them bc Cate and Ty gave her away while they kept three of their kids, at the end of the day Brandon and Theresa are her LEGAL parents maybe their just respecting her choice
According to Tyler, it wasn't her choice.
And it was necessary. They were both around terrible addict parents who were abusive. It wouldn't have been a good situation for a baby to be in.
It is well known that it is best for adopted children to have contact with their birth parents if they are deemed to be safe!
A lot of adoptive parents don’t care about that they want to be the only parents
I totally agree, I was attacked in comments when I said that in a Grace report video.
True. But it could be Carly’s choice and B and T could be taking the heat for her so she doesn’t have to tell her bio parents she said no. I’m sure we will find out once she is an adult and can speak out if she wants to.
@@PrincessJayJay17 they’ve actually given reasons on why they can’t see here. They don’t want any pictures shown on the show or of her on social media and they don’t want the visit or the child talked about on the show at all. So basically they adopted the child from a tv show and they don’t want said child talked about on that tv show
Is it mentally and emotionally safe when your bio parents are attacking the parents who raised u online??
Maybe it’s not just her parents that are saying no.
I thought about that too. Maybe Carly doesn’t want the visit
@@Genna-qp2ey I’d imagine she gets picked on at school if she’s not homeschooled. 14 is a hard age how could you hide 16 and pregnant from that generation? Its everywhere
I agree if I was the child I would be upset they gave me away , became famous and I would question if they already had the MTV contract then why would they give me up anyway for money ??? then go on to have 3 more kids and still on tv ??? I would be oissed !
@@august21xp 16 & pregnant was just a tv show of different girls if you rewatch her episode you can definitely tell why they gave her up now here comes teen mom and now they have money and other kids of course they would have wished it was different but it’s not
@@khloeconlin you can tell they didn’t watch the OG show from the beginning.
Maybe Carly doesn’t want a visit because she’s at that teenage age where everyone who’s older is uncool and it’s plastered all over tv and the internet. Maybe they’re doing it for Carly. Kaitlyn and Tyler should stop and think before blasting anyone. One of their visits they were nearly 2hrs late and Carly’s parents didn’t say a word. So it works both ways. They’re lucky they see her at all.
Can you imagine how embarrassed she must be by some of this stuff ? Carly is likely over there trying to live a normal life. Whereas her younger bio siblings are growing up thinking that their life is NORMAL. Poor kids.
Ironically this is the one couple who were responsible enough to keep the child they had as teenagers. Most of the other moms should have chose adoption, and the only responsible couple did.
I mean every time they see her it’s always filmed and being put out on tv maybe it’s not just the adoptive parents saying no, Carly is old enough to make a decision on if she wants to see them
Lies, she has never been shown on tv, she has never been "filmed"
In 3 years she can decide this for herself. Cates feelings are just hurt. I get it. Those visits mean everything to her
They most likely mean everything to Carly too.
I'm sorry but I think if her parents are choosing to opt out of visitation with them it's because Carly doesn't want to. She is old enough to voice what she feels/wants and I highly doubt they would choose this against her wishes if it's what she wanted. If they are choosing what they think is best for their daughter, then as a parent of a teen myself, I am sure it's what carly wants.
She's 15 now, but this isn't an issue that just came up. They have played them multiple times and didn't have the visit. It maybe the case, now ? Maybe not. We don't know. But I truly believe that when she is older she will come around and there will be a better and closer relationship. I pray for the children sake that happens. And if she watches from the beginning of it all she would know how devastating a choice it was and they really did what was the absolute best for her at the time.
They been stopped letting them see, visit or talk to her. They don’t like that they’re a public family they don’t want their daughter talked about or shown on tv.
@@yup_im_tiff that's understandable, neither would I. they didn't sign up for all this, im sure they could never expect a doc about 16 & pregnant would become an eternal tv franchise
I remember the adoption counselor trying to get them to send their daughter birthday cards, letters and pictures and they just didn't do it.
GOD BLESS!!!praying for your family!!!🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️❤️❤️!!!
Instead of calling it "adoption" it should be called "lay-a-way". I'm sure the adoptive parents are doing what's right for their daughter and her mental health.
They don’t want her mentioned on tv or on the internet. They literally adopted a child from a teen on a tv its very strange to want privacy after adopting a child from tv… it seems the relationship was getting a bit to close when the children referred to themselves as sisters once that happened and visits stop
Carly’s adoptive parents will regret this! I feel Carly will turn on them eventually for not letting her see her birth parents and full siblings! I was adopted and when I turned 14 I turned on my adoptive parents for trying to keep me as their own and block me from my family members! It hurts deep down! She will never forget how unselfish her birth parents have been and how selfish her adoptive parents have been! And I find people who cannot conceive themselves often do this they try to erase all the child knows from before and that’s not right! 😢
Sounds like adoption is a hard thing to do. Cate and Ty chose to gave up Carly to give her a better life. It won't help to take it publicly and talk about Brandon and Theresa. Talk to them and vent to Tyler or some you trust. Venting publicly won't help your case.
What kind of “better life” is it really when you start out in life losing your entire family and all the relatives to come? Think how devastating that would be for an adult, yet it is ok for a child?
I think brandon and teresa are so scared that carly will want to be with catelynn and tyler once she becomes 16 or 18.
Exactly. And adolescence is when we form our adult identities. She should be with her kin.
Of course they don't want their daughter around that Only Fans crap.
And you know they have an only fans how?
@@ericdwhitmorec They have talked about it on the show. Duh! 🙄 So many opportunities and they chose Only Fans. 😬 After four daughters.
I agree. I'd do everything to keep my kids from people on disgusting websites
They stop them from seeing her years ago. It had nothing to do with only fans
@@lilebb1657agree
I don’t think people are grasping adoption laws. An open adoption is not in definite, if biological parents violate the terms and conditions of the adoption being open, it can close for the best interest of the child. Technically, they don’t even have rights to see the child they placed into adoption the second they sign those papers they no longer had a say and I don’t think they truly understood the terms and conditions at 15/16 years old.
I agree. If you look at old episodes it seems like they thought they’d be able to see and talk to her often and of course the adoption agent didn’t correct them
@@yup_im_tiff Deception - outright and by omission - by adoption agents should also be illegal and prosecuted. The emotional cost for relinquishing mothers and natural families is too great for this not to be discussed. But adoption is big business, and in adoption, profit and possession come before people.
They have every right to be upset. Her adoptive parents agreed to let them stay in her life and they lied.
I feel like they think Carly would want to be with her real parents and siblings if they allow her to spend time with them. And now that she’s 15, that could actually happen.
Every child would prefer to be with their real family if they could. This is why adoption should be only for true orphans and as open as possible with the openness enforced by law.
They are trying to protect her privacy. Imagine at 15…. Everyone knows who you are because your birth parents are putting it out there. Her friends are all on line and her life has become public
But they refused them to see her for 5 years now not just at the age of 15. Brandon and Teresa better watch out because Carly my resent them for not allowing her to know her birth parents.
As a mom I can understand why they would say no to a visit. They’re literally on a p*rn website. People know who they are, they know who their daughter is, and they know who the adopted parents are because they’re on tv. That opens their daughter up for p*d*philes to come find her. It’s just common sense to not allow your child around people who are doing that. Catelyn and Tyler have messed up big time because now everything they do on that website is going to come back and bite their kids in the butt. They also chose to give her up for adoption, they chose to sign their parental rights away to somebody else. That being said the adoptive parents hold all the rights and the power to make decisions for their daughter, they have the right to protect her and say no. I get people wanting to make some extra cash, I get they’re consenting adults, and “can do whatever tf they want” but when you are public with your children on the front row of the internet it’s probably not the greatest idea to start using a p*rn website to make extra money because of your kids safety and future.
I feel bad for the kids parents. They have no obligation to share custody of their child.
They did originally agree to an open adoption. Which means visitation on whatever was agreed upon. Sure they can say no being the legal guardians and maybe Carly is at an age where she doesn't even want to see them right now which is fine too. but it's still going against what the original agreement was.
@@ashleymarie5093facts
@@ashleymarie5093They never agreed on pimping out Carly for the show. The biological parents wanted the visits to be showed on MTV.
@@notsureiLDid you not watch 16& Pregnant??? Catelynn & Tyler did everything Carly's adoptive parents wanted, They didn't even want her shown on the camera along with The adoptive parents. They all agreed to an open adoption, Which means they still have rights to see Carly, MTV has followed Carly's journey since birth, but blur her face out to respect them all, so ofc she would still be on the show when she agrees to it. They all left the choice up to Carly when she was old enough to say yes or no. They have never forced her to do anything.
@@notsureiLThey were pimping Carly themselves doing magazine interviews with pictures. Plus I have seen them at least 8 times in front of camera's on Teen Mom. Nobody will recognize Carly because she hasn't been filmed for years and her face changes from baby to teenager. But EVERYBODY will recognize Brandon and Theresa. So if they want not to ve recognized, they both would have to get plastic surgery. They were fine with it in the beginning when they wanted Carly. When the backlash came, all of a sudden they want privacy. Such hypocrites. It's only an excuse to keep her away.
So disrespectful to call her by her maiden name and not her married name
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I don't blame the adaptive parents. I wouldn't let my kids around people on bad websites. People have a choice and when it's bad I pay the consequences.
They gave carly up!! They have no rights. Feel for Carlys parents.
Feel for Carly!! Imagine losing your ENTIRE family the moment you were born! An adult could be done in by such grief. Every child wants to know their parents, siblings, and kin. All caretakers of children have a sacred obligation to put their child(ren) first. This is not happening here.
Once you sign the papers she’s not really yours anymore. Also we don’t know what’s happening. Maybe Carly doesn’t want to see you guys and her mom is saying no so that she doesn’t put Carly on the spot. They need to hash this privately, not blasting the internet with it. Carly will grow up and see this
Tyler said the choice was not Carly’s
@@summerhill93 many times I have thrown myself under the bus not to put my kids in an uncomfortable position, that’s what parents do. Regardless this needs to be private, not for the whole world to see for Carly’s sake.
@ldv02 i agree the public aspect of this makes it challenging for all. However as time goes on, adoption issues are being highlighted in a way I hope brings awareness and hopefully greater legal protections for adoptees and birth parents
I think it’s crazy that they gave their 1st born up for adoption then proceeded to have 3 more kids. I know it was later in their life but still…If I was their daughter I wouldn’t want a relationship with them. 🤷🏻♀️
I read that they weren’t very responsible & they was teenagers
They were literally kids themselves & both of them lived in very abusive dysfunctional families. Some of the things shown when teen mom was brand new, when Kate & Tyler were growing up & pregnant, was so depressing & sad, sometimes hard to watch how they really lived. So in my opinion, they done the absolute best thing for Carly. Of course their lives are very different now, they have money, they’re older, wiser, & on their own…….so why wouldn’t they have & create their own family now?? But I get it tho, everyone has their own opinion about it 🤷♀️
That would bw dumb of you. If you watched the show you would realize Carly would've been raised in a not healthy environment. By giving hwr uo they made her life better.
@@courtneyw6224the 3 they HAVE aren't EITHER.
@MrsMartinez_ I'm curious to know if you were adopted ?
There should be something placed in adoption that makes the adoption either able to be reversed or something done to the adoptive parents if they do not uphold their side of the agreement. That couple makes me sick every time i see them. They knew what they were doing by both of them being so young at the time. They took advantage of them along with that crooked adoption agent.
Me also. With their fake insincere smiles. They are constantly blackmailing them with the visits. First it was no filming, than it was no posting and now they can't even talk about their feelings on social media without being bashed. Everything always has to be on their terms. Never letting them spend alone, even at the wedding they were supervising constantly, not even letting them have a moment alone.
Exactly. Every human child wants to be with their biological family if at all possible. It is needed for proper development. Imo the adopters are extremely selfish and should have returned Carly when it became obvious T&C were viable parents.
Maybe this situation can serve to help reform unfair adoption laws.
@summerhill93 I agree. But I don't know about the giving her back part. Because I don't think that would be healthy for Carly either, because she did get used to B&T being her parents. And she was raised by them. That could confuse her. And would take away stabiluty. But they do need to spend more than just 1 day a year together. And from what I understand, most of the time, they didn't even get that and wouldn't see her for a couple of years. They could celebrate holidays together or birthdays. With the adoption, they clearly said once a year visit and pictures. Carly should be able to bond with her sisters also. I think it would be harder to bond if they just see each other once in a couple of years. I think B&T are selfish. Carly may be afraid to bring it up, because she doesn't want to hurt her adoptive parents feelings, but I'm sure that she would like to spend more time with her family. Maybe they could change the law that they may have more time to change their mind. Especially with minors. And it should be prohibited to let minors sign without an independant lawyer present, who represent the birth parents rights. And if adoptive parents, don't do what was agreed upon, that a lawyer could force them to hold their promiss unless there are heavy reasons, not to. Just like they take care of visitation rights with divorced parents. And maybe 'force' adoptive parents to let their child see them for at least 2 or 3 hours a year.
This is an argument that is used, that the adopted child has bonded, but the genetic tie is a natural bond and a biological need. In the cases where the child is returned even at an older age, they fit right in and resent the adopters who fought against the return. I think it was Baby M who is an example of this.
@@summerhill93 Could be in some cases, depending on de home situation. If there wasn't neglect/ abuse from the biological parents before I think it could work. Also maybe it depends on how long they have been adopted and what age they are. If they are really little, they could also maybe miss the adoptive parents. It is different individually. Every case is unique.
I also think they lied to the young parents
You gave up your rights so you can't even comment... that's not how it works. You don't have the benefits without the work. I think you have some nerve to call them out online. Learn how to deal with your choices maybe...
Open adoption fool. It was agreed to allow them to see their birth daughter throughout the years, but now they are saying no. We don't know the entire reason.. they have the right, but when someone gives you their kid and makes a deal that you can have her if they can still see her then be respectful of that deal. Unless the kid has said no
They were kids and under the assumption and belief that they would be allowed in her life and have visits etc it was said by the parents on Tv
Why adopt a child with the promises of allowing the child to visit the birth family every year, talk to them every 6 months and agree to sending pictures every 6 months and every birthday if you have zero plans of withholding that promise to the ppl that made you parents in the first place. There are millions of children in foster care they crossed state lines to buy a baby from a 15 year old girl
I wish they didn’t adopt her. They should’ve just kept her. They shouldn’t listen to their parents and everyone else saying they couldn’t do it because they seem to be good parents.
unfortunately this is one of the downsides of adoption and it being journeyed thru tv. both sides will always have pain
I'm sorry you had to put Carli up for adoption, but I think you both done the right thing. It's so hard taking care of a baby when your a teen. I know I had my first child at 17 in 1979. I was fortunate to be able to keep my son because I had my husband and family to help me. It's true what they say " It takes a village to raise a child." Her adopted Parents are her Parents now and they have been for a long time. They decide what Carli can do and not do until she's 18.
Maybe Carly doesn’t want to see Caitlyn and Tyler. They live very differently than she does. Her parents are more conservative and traditional whereas C&T are not. She may feel uncomfortable around them.
I wish they will never give her up, i bet carly is angry with her birth parents
They will always hold the regret of giving her up for adoption. It was a mistake of a lifetime.
It almost always is. Birthmother grief and pain - and even affected grandparent, and aunt/uncle pain, is lifelong as far as I have seen thus far.
Waste of time unless the kid is brainwashed or had been abused by the bio parents she will seek them out once she is 18 adoptive parents are just setting themselves up for failure and a tense relationship with their daughter in the future. Short sighted decisions with long term consequences.
And tyler wont even send letters cause he dont know what to say yet explodes when hes asked to follow basic requests
Because the adopters are treating Carly as a possession not a feeling human being with inalienable rights and the breached their verbal agreement with C&T
Theressa and brandon are not at fault ty and cait are moreso cait they talk about cary on tv and show her pic when told not to then cait whines to the internet and tyler acts sixteen again because he doesnt like to be told what to do granted ty is still the better parent to the three that are actualy theirs cait just had them to make herself feel good but niether work and all they do is teen mom and disgusting only why would carly want to deal with them .caits gonna mess the other three up if tyler doesnt leave
I hate that Carly was adopted by Brandon and Teresa. They changed after they had the baby. It's sad but i think Catelynn and Tyler's story about an adoption almost serves as a warning. Who can know the decisions you make at 16 years old can affect the rest of your life? You never know.
Maybe carly doesn’t want to see them and the parents are just covering for them?
😮😮😢 why did give up her daughter
I don't think any of the OG teen moms could have foreseen the success of the show and therefore income to be able to raise these kids. Caitlyn and tys story is one of the few that came from broken homes and little support. They wanted better for their baby unbeknownst to them that the show would be a hit and making them financially capable and they probably realized that they could have done it but it was too late. I think there's a lot of guilt there for that reason.
They weren’t responsible for a baby.
Yeah the other children they kept
Teresa and Brandon really lucked out getting a new born non addicted yt baby for practically free
STOP , What an opinion.
@@Yes0hyes1921 it is unfortunately how the modern adoption system works, there's an over saturation of unwanted babies: see non yt babies whereas adopting parents who tend to be yt fight over the few yt babies up for adoption. It's the truth, I'm just the messenger. And yes they can cost a lot of money because they are more sought after, it costs less to adopt a non yt baby. Yep an unfortunate truth.
@@malcriadamedina5358What's a yt baby?
@@Yes0hyes1921 He's correct in pointing out the business side of adoption. Babies as commodities. Not exactly a pro-family stance for adopted people.
So weird, put the child up for adoption but want visitation rights?
Not visitation RIGHTS, just a visit.
The adoptive parents agreed that they could have visitation with the child when they gave her up for adoption.If they had said no,they would have probably looked at different people who would have agreed with visitation of the child.
@@lawrenceoxford MUTUALLY AGREED UPON VISITATION.
@@happyjoy338 that’s still weird.
@@lawrenceoxford well that changes perspective if they said that from the beginning pre adoption arrangement.
i feel like brandon and treesa are going to play carly against her birth parents i think the only reason they adopted carley was for money
Because it didn't cost them a small fortune to adopt her ?
What MONEY?
NO ONE ever predicted these two would parlay their teen pregnancy into a career. So money ? Those two came from NOTHING.
THEY adopted her because of money is the wildest comment I have EVER read.
@@justmythoughts2962they got her for free
If they wanted they could fight to get her back if they wanted too
No they can't, they adopted her out. Unless they find a ridiculous judge they won't get granted her back
Don’t be ridiculous!
The ethical thing for the adopters to have would have been to give Carly back at an early age. Adopters most often want possession not what is best for the child.
@@heatherthompson8878 if it was a closed adoption then yes that wouldn't be able to but they wore in her life for a while so if they wanted to get her back they could
Oh my goodness
What is going on?
It's her child also.
No it isnt.
I Don’t Trust Brandon And Teresa At All. They Don’t Want Carly To Have A Relationship With Her Birth Parents Cate And Ty
Right! They definitely getting tired of the birth parents actually wanting to be in their child life. Freaking selfish. If you don't want open adoption then get another baby
I don't trust them either but she will be 18 in three years and if she wants to see them herself she will they can't stop her also if she doesn't wanna see the adoptive parents no more she doesn't have to she isn't obligated to
I agree. Apparently, they done exactly the same with their other adopted child.
Adopters are more frequently narcissistic than the general population.
@Zahra. That’s bad and one reason there needs to be legal teeth in open adoption agreements.
Should have thought about that before they put her up for adoption and then decided to have more children. I don’t blame the adoptive parents. That is their child now to raise the way that they want now when the girl turns 18 she can decide if she wants to see her parents, but as of now you gave her to me to protect and guide her so she is mines And that’s just the way it is
Child as property. Fun stuff. Can suck to be a kid. Verbal agreements are made in heaven as well as on earth.