EVERYTHING'S FINE | Omeleto
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- Опубликовано: 18 окт 2020
- A new mother has thoughts about harming her baby.
EVERYTHING'S FINE is used with permission from Danny Rhodes. Learn more at everythingsfinefilm.com.
Kathleen is a new mother, staying at home with her child while her husband works. But while her house is large and spacious and things seem okay, the adjustment is proving difficult, and she's feeling anxious lately.
As she goes about her day, she has startling imaginings of disasters and darkness. But as these intrusive thoughts get more disturbing, the line between reality and imagination becomes blurred.
This horror-drama short -- written by Lisa Cisneros and directed by Danny Rhodes -- is a painstakingly constructed portrait of one woman's descent into an increasingly severe post-partum anxiety and OCD, exploring how it can bleed into psychosis. Like many films in the horror genre, it raises chills and suspense with excellent editing and command of craft. But the horror here comes from watching a mother slowly become unhinged, and wondering just if or how she may break.
The film is almost minimal in many ways, with little dialogue and an almost abstract, cool and distant visual style is almost antiseptically gleaming. Kathleen's world seems cold, lonely and isolating, which does nothing to help her feelings. She lives in a large, comfortable home, but the way it is shot often turns the space into something strange, uncanny and alienating.
With such a crisp, clean execution, the film generates suspense by setting up the growing severity of Kathleen's state of mind. It constantly toggles between her dark imaginings and her reality, at first shifting jarringly between the two.
Lead actor Maura Kidwell balances the multiple layers of her role, playing a competent mother on the surface, a more unbalanced one in her visions, and also the inner flickers of shame she feels as she comes out of each fugue state, dismayed at what she's just imagined. But as the shifts become ever so much more seamless and subtle, until what seems real is revealed as not -- and alarmingly raises the question of when Kathleen will cross the line and turn her urges into action.
EVERYTHING'S FINE ends on an emotionally complex, disquieting note, one that seems like a happy ending but is not. The indeterminacy of it raises important questions and thoughts about motherhood, mental health and just how prevalent yet hidden post-partum adjustment disorders can be.
It's tempting to judge Kathleen harshly because we assume the love engendered by motherhood is so powerful and all-consuming that it can overcome anything. We also judge mothers harshly if they at all deviate from the "good mother" ideal -- and yet we question just why so many stay silent when they struggle with mental illness. The result of the intense fear of judgment is often a seemingly small storm of shame, suffering and silence -- one that can easily gain momentum and become something much larger and more foreboding when it's ignored or hidden. 
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I now understand why most new moms spend first few months of motherhood at their parent's house. When I was born, my mom and I stayed at Nana's house for about 3 months.
Not in the USofA. We are on our own after a 2 day stay at the hospital. No post partum help at all. It's surprising more babies are not harmed because post partum depression is real.
I wish that is what happened for me. I had no support from anyone. It was terrible.
@@108mle I hear you sister. It was me and my husband.
Ya its true
@@spicybrown75 I won't lie, I GAVE my child to my mother-in-law pretty much until he was nearly five months old.
I love how these short films are always bringing awareness to certain topics that aren't talked about much. Love watching these, keep up the good work!! 💕
Omeleto is one of the best accounts! Truly beautiful in how it sheds light, creatively, socially and expresses many thoughts ; Art mirroring life on many occasions 🌟
Bravo to all their hard work, from behind the scenes to main roles! Well done 💯
This is a real postpartum condition. The scariest thing is that there are women out there going through this right now. I never felt anything but overwhelming love for my newborn, but just like everything else in life, people are all different from one another. All we can hope for is that they recognise they need help.
Can you explain in details? I prefer clinical terms, please.
@@johnwescott3846 sure, but there are many websites that have written lots on the subject and....I’m not a doctor.
It’s called postpartum psychosis. It isn’t the same as postpartum depression. It can manifest at any time I believe, and we have cases that have made it into the mainstream media.
The most famous case would be Andrea Yates, who, suffering from worsening postpartum psychosis (requiring hospitalisation) with each birth, was off her treatment and drowned her four children. She was advised not to have children after the first two and had been hospitalised to protect herself and her children from her delusions. She heard voices, had hallucinations and I believe felt one of her children was going to grow up to be a criminal and God called her to take the lives of them to save their souls.
She was part of the quiverfull movement, to abstain from birth control and leave the amount of children she would have to God.
It’s scary and it’s real.
@@Bigbaymonstermare Yes. This is real. Thank you for your thoughtful words.
@@tietjen666 Aw, thanks so much! It’s a little known disorder, but they all have one symptom in common - they are terrified and in that terrified state are afraid of hurting their children. Andrea asked for help. She was honest about her delusions and she used the few avenues of helping herself that she was capable of. Have you watched any of the videos about it? Rusty, her husband is the creepiest dude and very chipper for a guy who lost his entire family to this disease.
@@Bigbaymonstermare I haven't but I will. I seem to remember Rusty from some old doc about the family. He was creepy. Anyway. Best to you!
ocd and intrusive thoughts are extremelly scary, i cant imagine how it feels to be in a situation like this with a newborn
Yeah! SUPER huge symptom of postpartum depression, but most women won't talk about it because of the intense guilt. They become so terrified that something is gonna happen to their babies or that they'll hurt them by accident, that the most horrific, grotesque thoughts just bombard these moms, making them feel like even worse people. I like that they weren't afraid to bring up the sexual thoughts component, because that's something that people with this condition and OCD suffer from commonly as well, which is SUPER rare for them to talk about. I even have a phobia of child molestation ever since I went off to college and was away from my nephew for the first time, and my sister moved in with a new boyfriend I'd never met before. I became so consumed with the fear that he would be touched inappropriately, that I was hospitalized. Then the obsessive thoughts expanded to include, "what if I got accused of doing that?" and the worst: "what if I could do that to someone?". It's absolutely horrible, because it's the thing you're MOST afraid of/disgusted by, LEAST likely to do, but the thoughts just keep replaying in your head.
@veggiesaremurder I say I dint have this problem. But my isolation tells a different story. I did this do anything and would ever try so logically I can't go to jail. OCD brings the jail to me.
It sucks. But meds and therapy quickly take care of the worst of it. Couldn't watch past the strangling scene, though.
This was an uncomfortable watch.. I was literally crawling under my skin.. poor woman.. trying to project normal while being totally lost..
The shame part is terrible and our social media just aids that.
It's the fear of doing these things that gives life to these intrusive thoughts. They aren't real desires.
Postpartum psychosis is real.
We need to understand how hard it is to have a new baby.
I never got that.When my daughter would cry.I would put a dummy in her mouth and she stopped.I would go through six new dummys a week.
@@tinan8623 Lol! That's a smart move tbh!
The best way to deal with this sendrome is to hire a nanny ,it helps a lot ...
@@ipekbeyarslan7304 But can you trust the Nanny.The stories you hear are just horrible.
I loved this episode. The baby's crying reminded me of my little sister's. She would cry too much. My mom would cry about it because she didn't know how to stop it. She got depressed and angry at me and would snap. It was a dark time.
You must be VERY young. Babies do not "cry too much" unless something is wrong...that is their only way of communication. They cannot verbally express themselves any other way. However I do understand constant cries can be unnerving and colicky baby can drive a person mad because they're in pain and it takes time for medications to work and make them feel better.
Is there something you wanna talk about?
This is the reality of being a new mom that no one talks about. I never wanted to harm my baby but I felt like I didn't deserve her (first baby). I would just stare at her and cry. It's very isolating. You feel like no one understands. I went to the dr and therapy which really helped me.
Do a media search and come back to me about "no one talks about"
I’ve had these thoughts about just imagining myself as a mother and it’s one of the main reasons I don’t want a baby. Intrusive thoughts are horrid.
Same here... This is 1 of the fear factors that make me not want any kids so far but considering the fact that I am already 36 yos, it's getting less likely that I'd ever want to have kids later on... Well, at least I am OK with this . No self judgement, it's only my mom's super judgemental mind that disturbs me a lot for my conscious choice but I guess it's her way to get over it and accept it one day, hopefully..
damn the acting by both the wife and husband had me do drawn into this. absolute perfection
thé husband had like literally two minutes of acting lmao
She is having PPP. She is way past the depression stage and into psychosis. It is SO important to inform someone of how your feeling and for your significant other to be observant to because as a mother you may not even realize it has gone that far so its up to those loved ones as well. Although she DID NOT actually harm her baby she very well could have. No rational mother would intentionally harm a baby that they created and gave birth to however when not in the right state of mind sadly anything can happen. Great film guys!!
Facts
I definitely think new mothers need therapy as well.
@@BriaBarrows Part of the problem is access to it, at least here in the states. If a mom is lucky, she *might* get 6 weeks off, maybe a bit more with a new born. Dads too. This is assuming there were no complications with the delivery or C-section, and that the baby is healthy. Plus, there is cost associated with it, which can be very expensive for many families, even with insurance. Plus, medication may not be recommended for PPP if the mom is breastfeeding (although I'm not a doc). It's a very complicated, and tricky thing.
How do you reassure mother's with PPP that 'telling on' themselves won't get them in legal trouble or losing custody or anything negative
Pregnancy and giving birth to a child is so underrated! A child doesn't only change your body, it also change your mentality, your mind. This thoughts are common. Please take care of your children and woman/girlfriend/wife!
Why do you think it's "underrated"?
@@000aleph well I gave the answers already! But If you want to have another reason...there are still people underdestimating it like it's no big deal, something "normal". In reality we go through a lot.
When I was a newborn baby, my mother poisoned me. Not at one time but over a few weeks, seeing just how sick she could make me and how close she could come to killing me.
Its something I still deal with at age 63, and viewing this short film disturbs me from two perspectives.
That's awful.. I'm so sorry. I'm so glad you survived. You are important, deserving and loved. Take care. ❤️
Sorry man
I am so sorry she did that to you. God bless you ❤️
What a terrible mom
I’m so sorry this happened to you. I hope you know that this had nothing to do with you, or who you are as a person. ❤️
This had me on edge like a horror film with demons, or ghost. Good job😁
This one was hard for me to watch. I suffered from postpartum depression after my youngest was born. I remember the exact moment when I realized I needed help, I thought, “what would happen if I dropped my newborn off this second story railing?” I was shaking with fear and was horrified that I would think such a thing.
My youngest is 19 now so that that was a long time ago but that feeling and fear of that headspace has never completely left. No one talks about this. It’s a shameful secret that you carry like a weight.
Post partum depression can be different for everyone this is what a serious case looks like. Very important, no one talks about the serious cases anymore just the mothers who think they won’t be good mothers and want to end their life. Glad this video exists.
I met a woman who was seriously upset. She brought herself into the mental hospital because she didn't feel like she had an emotional connection to the child. She feared she would hurt the child, and I told her a story about people who are fearful of hurting others to the point that they believe they might do it themselves. The fact is, it's a form of OCD, and it's often because they care too much.
M Gray yeah OCD can have intrusive thoughts too but I really do think this woman has PPD
@@Tadpole_Plyrr2 She's not depressed, though. I believe this to be a different diagnosis
M Gray how is she not depressed? You don’t always want to die with depression she looks depressed to me
@@Tadpole_Plyrr2 Depression doesn't cause intrusive thoughts. Depression can be the result of intrusive thoughts.
As a new mom to be, the possibility of getting post partum depression scares the living hell out of me :/
Hoping all went well/is going well ❤️.
Me too:(
Inform yourself how frequent it is, how to recognize it, and what to do when you have it.
My daughter was a "scream baby" and i am so glad i was reading obsessively everything about pregnancy and being a first time mom that i was aware that anger and depression CAN happen. I knew my husband will have to go back to work and that i had no support beside him so i prepared. And anger and depression came. It was so much easier knowing that it is most likely hormons and fear and that it will pass. I knew that i just have to leave the room when i feel agression. Give myself a moment to get grounded again. And it did pass. And she is a wonderful,caring,beautiful young lady now and i love her like crazy:-)
I've heard of this. It's a common symptom of postpartum depression, but a lot of women don't discuss it because of the guilt. I've also heard of this happening to people with OCD. They get an obsessive thought that they might end up killing someone, and even though they don't WANT to, have NO desire to kill anyone, they're so afraid that they might do it, that it keeps them completely isolated from people. It's really sad, because it's really rooted in thinking you're a terrible person and having low self-esteem, and nothing to do with the actual desire to kill anyone. With postpartum, I've heard it comes from fear of being a bad mother, or of something bad happening to your baby.
I don't have a kid, but I suffered with intrusive thoughts for months, and I still do but it was taking over my life, and I've now got it under control. You can heal, you can get better. Stay strong, get help.
Glad you are doing better. Stay strong
Postpartum is very real I went through it myself after losing my first born and then getting pregnant again with my daughter I had thoughts of killing my daughter everyday I had to get mental help thank God I had my family there to help me through it but postpartum is very very very real and it's nothing to joke about I really love this episode because it shows that
The way this short film encapsulates horror is great. The guilt of the instrustic thoughts and the urge contrasting with the reality of the situation was very well done!
God, that's kinda dark.
I don't know. It seems like a lighthearted film for the whole family
@@madisonletellier4095 Fair enough haha!
This made me feel some ways man
But very real
This is what’s called Postpartum Psychosis. It is very real and triggering. The intrusive thoughts she was having about killing her baby was her mind playing tricks. She, sanely, knows she would never hurt her BUT in a psychosis state she easily could have. Sadly, this happens a lot more frequently than people think.
I went through some intrusive thoughts times in my life and, let me tell you it feels like you are becoming more and more of a monster. My psychologist told me that mothers experience the same thing when the have severe anxiety and start thinking about protecting their babies, even from themselves. You can see it like an act of love towards someone you care about while you feel desperate and lost un your life.
Please, if you suffer these kinds of things go see a doctor and seek proffesional help, talk with someone, care about your own mental health and others wellbeing.
I'm not a mom, but have PTSD, and although our thoughts are not facts, those thoughts can get extremely "loud" and persistent, annoying, and definitely can make one feel like they are this horrible, cruel human being. They suck!
Mental health is, alas, still too difficult discuss openly. Mention feeling "blue" or "down" twice to your doctor and you will soon be diagnosed and prescribed. Your (if you are lucky to have one!) insurance company will reclassify you and you now have a lifelong "preexisting condition." But staying silent isn't the answer, either. Difficult.
außerdem könnte ne Wochenbettdepri echt recht schwierig sein zu identifizieren, grade aus der Perspektiv von jdm die neulich Mutter geworden ist.
@@sonquatsch8585 Ja. Diagnose ist alles.
That is Harm OCD if ya'll are confused and it feels devastating
This is the type of things that I hate watching and it gives me anxiety
i couldn't watch it 😣
@@marylevin9262 I know right😭
i honestly felt like i was gonna cry
@@bigsmellyballs same 😭
Then the short film, itself, was well done! And did its job . Sometimes scary and uncomfortable things - when dealing with REAL life situations and circumstances - MUST be seen by others for them to begin to be aware and understand, if not TRY. We all need to help one another when times are tough and unbalanced 💝
This gave me goosebumps. Brings me back to a very dark time. Shines a light on the fact that our tribe is not alone as we battle through the raw birth of becoming MOTHER. Xo
The very last scene the father drop kicks the baby out of the window and shouts "goal"! Cut to mother who is now wearing a football kit. Roll credits. Turns out this was a goalkeeper having anxiety about a penalty.
OMG...I swallowed this without even chewing a little bit...I was really expecting that end!!!
Lol!!
Ok, now that was just too damn funny!!!! I was giving thumbs up on all the good input on post partum and how important it is to talk about it.....and then this...too damn funny!!! :) :)) :)))
Postpartum depression (and postpartum psychosis, for that matter) is absolutely *_real_* and *_horrible._*
Post partum depression/psychosis can be caused by severe chemical imbalances in the mother after giving birth. It's not only a psychological condition, but a severe medical condition, and anyone who experiences any symptoms of this should get help immediately. The truth is, depending on the severity of the post partum condition, usually the mom suffers the most and sometimes it gets so bad that they either kill themselves, or they get to the point where they may neglect the child or place them in risky situations that can harm the child. Get help and don't be afraid to ask....and don't be ashamed. New mama's really need help. No one has their first child and knows everything or is a perfect mother. In this world, mothers need to help new mothers and be there for them, as there's so much anxiety, fear, and loneliness that can come at the most amazing and beautiful event in someone's lives. No mama is perfect, nor should anyone ever think that a new mom should be perfect in every way after bearing a child for the first time.
Luckily, there are also the fathers, no?
I suffered severe post-partum depression and anxiety after my second baby was born. At one point, I lost so much sleep between my infant and toddler's sleep schedules that I began to hallucinate, and my nerves were shot. Please, if you are suffering and worried you might harm your baby, get help! My family were so supportive and really helped me get through... but if you can combine help from those close to you with counseling from a licensed therapist, DO IT. You aren't alone! 💜
Loneliness can be creepy. This is why you should have a joint family that could keep you away from such creepy thoughts.
Nicely put btw.
Damn postpartum is no joke. I've been through it twice. The first time I was very bad but I kept my head up. I'm going through it now with my second child and I'm even worse. Between one kid to the second I had three misscarages. Postpartum is no joke.
Think my mother may have had suffered from postpartum condition. I can't imagine the fearful thoughts she felt or thought. I'm sorry for any mother going through this. You are not alone and you are not a terrible mother. You are loved by the best high. There are alot of peer groups on Facebook or online to assist you with open arms to support. Sending love to all mothers who feel this way.
It’s sad postpartum depression is a real monster
This film was a masterpiece. Postpartum depression is a real issue mothers experience, I hear about the terrible things my mom had to endure because her mother suffered from it and didn't receive treatment. I can't imagine the psychological terror mothers face and the worst part is the ridicule they fear...
Just wanted to say thank you. I’m the writer of this film and I appreciate your kind words!
I had PPD after my first son was born, I was only 15 and I think it may have been triggered by his horrendously difficult and painful delivery . I remember crying for hours on end thinking that I was useless and that my baby would be better off without me , I can’t say I ever wanted to physically hurt him but I felt completely indifferent to him. I fed him, changed him , bathed him but I felt no pleasure in these things , I was exhausted and looking after him was a chore. I went onto have 2 more children and thankfully never experienced it again ... it’s a terrible thing .
Even without seeing I have a feeling this might be about post-partum depression.
I hated those end credits. I was like "don't hurt the baby. don't hurt the baby. DON'T YOU DARE--"
Post-partum psychosis not depression yall
All too real... my baby is 13 months now & I love her so much. I used to go down the stairs how she did being extra careful & dad comes in just throwing her around however
Um excuse me are those onions in the same bowl as the apples 😡 6:30
That’s worse than killin the baby!
LOL
Lol, I’m the writer of this film and that was how the home was set up that we filmed in and we didn’t move anything because real people lived there and let us shoot there and we didn’t move anything unless we absolutely had to, but yes I think you’re right 😂 thank you for watching.
This is a scary depiction of post-partum psychosis. If you're a new mom and having intrusive thoughts or uncontrollable urges, please see a doctor immediately. It's treatable with medication and will eventually resolve.
Yes 🙏
Yes this is true sometimes there are thoughts coming from idk tf where.
This hit hard. The anxiety the confusion. This is real. I don’t understand it but it’s real. I had postpartum with my son. Now he is 20 and fine but this film was very on comfortable to watch because this was me.
I’m happy you got through it 🙏
Any advice I’m going to therapy
we HAVE to do better societally to get new moms all the help they may need
I am suffering from pure O.
I know how hard it is to spend every second while having OCD.
That's a tough subject for a movie... I hope all these people end up safe and healthy and that the lady opens up and seeks for help
Damn that was dark..
It's scart to know that this kind of a condition does exist. People suffering from such a condition must be helped and taken care of.
It's ocd
I have it and yes some mothers with ocd have intrusive thoughts about being attracted to their baby in a sexual way too . It feels devastating
Pure O- OCD is like this
yess finally ! That's Harm- Ocd .
This is called Postpartum Psychosis, notice that the woman on the phone was kinda know what she was into, she was her care provider and the mother was already in the Postpartum Depression. Look after your wife, your sister, your friends. This is extremely dangerous and most cases are resulting to infant death.
Nope, this is called a pro-choice syndrome. Nothing more and nothing less.
You mean it’s her choice? No this is a real condition for new mothers. There are stages in this condition.
She was seeing worms and having a psychotic episodes
@@clintthellama6417 I dunno. I never heard of such psychosis or whatever. One of my relatives is a new mother and all she was having was some small nightmares, nothing else. But this one here seemed a bit too fabricated, don't ya think? Because never had she ever even THOUGHT of murdering intents for God's sake!
I know this and I learned about this few years ago. I’m a Nurse and these things were taught to us. You can also find it in google.
Yep, this grabs you by the throat from the start and never lets go. Great film. It also parallels depression (not just Postpartum) and self harm. Incredible story telling here.
Post partum depression and post partum psychosis are real, that's exactly what happens very good portraying it
As a father I can understand this very well because my 1st child was born with colic and the crying was constant. I stayed with our daughter to give my wife a break and go to her grandmothers house so I know what she had to deal with on a day to day basis as I left for work. 11 yrs and 2 brothers later, she's still a little brat. 😂😂 The boys weren't that bad except now being 4 and 5 yrs old. 😳😵
The writer of this film should have included the statistics for postpartum depression and postpartum psychosis and the need for better mental health awareness/care for new mothers.
Hi Violet! I’m the writer of this film and thank you so much for watching. We actually did initially include some statistics in the first run of this film as well as links to find help. We ended up taking them out because we wanted to leave the film open to interpretation by the audience and we were unsure about if we were hitting them in the face too much with the subject matter/sounding too much like a PSA. I sincerely appreciate this comment though because it was a legit back and forth conversation we had as producers. We had the exact same thoughts.
What is postpartum feel like? I mean, I have random thoughts that I’ll NEVER do. I’ll look at my cat and be like, “I could kill her,” but in actuality I would never hurt her. Is it like that?
Postpartum means like after birth. That’s a normal intrusive thought I believe and it’s totally normal and doesn’t make you a bad person or anything
This is a very common thing for woman when they have a baby, Postpartum depression.
Isn't this OCD instead of depression?
@@LV03 No, OCD Obsessive-compulsive disorder, completely different from Postpartum depression.
@@lalareeves1941 I know it's a different thing, but this woman doesn't display depressed feelings, this woman has intrusive thoughts, common in people with OCD, more specific, pure O...
@@LV03 I think it’s postpartum psychosis, a lot more serious than just postpartum depression. You can hallucinate, have manic moods, be paranoid, etc. So I believe this is what they are showing she has.
@@LV03 That's not OCD lol what she has is called Postpartum psychosis
Postpartum psychosis is rarer than postpartum depression, and involves symptoms that include delusions or hallucinations and can put both the mother and her child in danger.
This is so accurate and portrayed so well.
This was so nerve wracking to watch!!! I wanted to jump through the screen and save the baby.
My mom had postpartum depression and anxiety. She told me about how she was so worried that we were gonna die or that she wasn’t gonna be able to love me or my sister. She had to sleep on the floor next to our crib becajse she was so worried
God bless her !!
I know these things happen in life and I hated every minute of this video until the dad walks out of the room with the baby in his arms. 🙏🏻😇
Please make more really really dark and “ hard to watch” ones like this! Love it
Hi
Just wanted to say thank you. I am the writer of this film. Thank you for your kind words!
@@lilas1959i just want to say this is such an amazing film it helped me understand the intrusive thoughts loneliness & anxiety my sister is going through, my sister had gone through a c section and a gall bladder removal surgery right after, she is going through this, my parents think she's going insane and cant understand why she has these extreme thoughts, we all did too, she suffers from paranoia, anxiety and intense fear that something will happen to the baby, she feels everything is like final destination, shes keeping the baby away from guests and refuses to meet people unless they wear masks, im keeping on pushing her to get help in counselling n therapy as shes not getting her daily sleep. I feel so helpless and upset im not able to help her.
Olive's performance was awesome! I think she's Method.
i will just scroll down at comment sections looking for spoilers bcz this is too triggering to watch :'( i stop at 0:17
I understand her pain. I have one child who's now 4. Postpartum was so bad. All I wanted to do was make sure the baby stayed alive until her father got home. I was so blessed to have family always come over and check on me and the baby. I don't want any more kids ever. Just listening to this baby cry so much in this short film is triggering.
Hope ur doing well now ❤
As a mother who dealt with postpartum depression this is really hard to watch and I stopped watching when they were sitting beside the bathtub (I just assumed something worse was going to happen).
It's not just intrusive thoughts, I think she might have hallucinations.
Gosh.. this is scary because its real
yes and that happens a lot sadly . She clearly has harm ocd . It's just most people doesn't know what ocd actually is
Tnx fr the comments guyz.These comments helped me understanding the problem,the wife is dealing with.
Reality of PPD 😞
PPP
Having PureOCD and also wanting to be a mom scares me because I’m afraid of these things happening too
Very powerful. Very relatable. Very well acted. Very well paced! Exceptional. Very Exceptional!
Thought she was gonna fall past the window at the end...
luckily,was so close.
after birth
hormonal changes are real and severe
depression is Not absent
those who have healthy family relationship and strong support will Not feel it that much
but others like this new mom will face the struggles more intensely !
Seriously challenging!
Often people think that after baby is born
there should be feelings of intense joy but
sadly the opposite is the case!
This is extremely disturbing. It’s so scary to think that some woman experience this .
This is an amazing short film the emotion it invokes is incredible. The Acting, the Music the Lighting it is a true Masterpiece..😁
This is so sad & very much a reality. This is more like postpartum psychosis & it can be very devastating. My heart goes out to those who go through this. Always reach out to those who you know just delivered!
I saw a very similar horror short film where she switched the Turkey.... ended up putting the baby in the oven... that was horrible
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Bro, she needs help like now. Bc I would not leave her with my baby man, to risky
Too risky in what way? She wouldn't actually hurt the baby, that's the whole point. She's so afraid of making a mistake and being a bad mother that she has irrational fears and doesn't trust herself to do normal things. Either way, you're right that she needs help.
Wow the acting in this was so good
What I find is that men think they are so busy with their own lives going to work, they don’t realise the condition their wives are or what they are going through. Not enough of postpartum depression is taught to men. I bet that many wouldn’t known what it is until it’s too late.
thank you for this i brought this up to my psych professor who was also a therapist and they told me that harm ocd wasnt real and i was crazy
God help people with this condition....if the imaginary is so real that you can't tell the difference....this is a true nightmare.
Wasn't sure on the end.Did she really try to kill the baby and it didn't work.Or it was in her head? This movie had me on the edge.
It’s all in her head. She was have intrusive thoughts on what would have happened if she actually did kill her baby. Intrusive thoughts affect many ppl and it does not mean they WANT to do what these thoughts r saying, it’s just horrible thoughts they can’t help from having.
@@thatgirl5630 Yes I know.Just wasn't sure on the end.It's a very emotional movie that's for sure.
It was in her head
I'm not lieing... That call had me dieing... Lmao😹😹😹
I’m so thankful that I didn’t go through this. But thanks for doing this film!
Thank you for making this, very real
Extremely relatable. Thank you for this!
if you have such intrusive thoughts and getting anxious constantly. I think you have ocd , check out on that , it's called harm-ocd .
I'm crying. omg. well done but sooo sad :(
Im not gone this might be first omeleto vid that i gotta come back and finish but u know its a good film if the first 3 minutes are getting me my feelings
Strong one.
Actually believed she did it in the end.
Hopefully my future wife will never feel like this, thats unbelieveble. If so, they need help, immediately.
@BatCatShipper yeh man
I'm order for this feeling not to happen make sure she is supported and you be supportive get her help when needed give her love every day say it and show it pay attention...CLOSE attention to her if her personality change talk to her let her open up to you without judging her. Let her take a break hang out with her friends and laugh with them and enjoy them. She may feel ugly because post-partum body can make you feel down make sure like i said before make her feel beautiful, tell her EVERYDAY TOO love her and kiss up on her.. don't dismiss her feelings by telling her its going to be okay.. ask how you can help her feel better... most importantly...be understanding ❤
Signed,
A woman who had post partum depression and had little to no help ❤🧡💛💚💙💜🤎🖤🤍
3:53 why does the baby sound like a chicken choking on air
I think its a normal sound of a baby.but yeah it does sound like it
@@prekrasnyy8728 hi! I’m the writer of this film and yes it was the baby’s natural cry.
That's a terrible thing to go through!
This is horriffic, I really thought she strangled her baby
Wow that was a great story, bravo!