WRONG WRONG WRONG!!! Men, do what whatever makes you feel confident! Every woman is not going to be attracted to you and you can’t force them! Be yourself, find your tribe, and the women who like you are the ones you should be with.
@@openranks4519he didn’t say you won’t be attracted being yourself.. he said things tht u think make u attracted but its actually weird. i mean data don’t lie.
I think it's time to stop really giving an F about what women think is attractive. I went down this rabbit hole years ago and lost myself in the process. If she's really worth a damn... she's going to love you based on who you are more so than what you look like.
I can confirm the validity of this comment. I have been fat, in shape, and fat again. In every senario i get the same amount of play because im confident in who i am as a man and what value i bring to a womans life. They always recognize it regardless of my appearance. I find this video useless and misleading for weak men
One thing to note Austin, is that glasses makes you less intimidating which really helps outside the relationship sphere. Being black + glasses can really lighten things up lol.
The unfortunate truth. If you wanna apply for a job as a black man, showing up for the interview in glasses will elevate you in the eyes of your interviewer.
Be yourself. Be happy. Live life with freedom. If a girl wants you a specific way that is not good for you, she's not worth it. Simple. It's just not worth overcomplicating things. Just get the basics down like good hygiene practice and looking after yourself. Good luck 👍
Everything he say is subjective. 1. Glasses can enhance your look depending on the color and the shape of the frame. 2. Beards are good if you don’t have a strong jaw 3. Groom yourself 4.Moderation is key 5. Clothes depends on style
this dude is a straight up g lol, last year around this time i had low confidence, was hella underweight and dressed in baggy clothing and smelled like garbage (not afraid to admit it) 1 year later, im way bigger with the gym progress, i wear pretty simple neat outfits and i def smell better lol. austin doin gods work!
@@nicholasrodriguez4990 yeah bro 💀i was so addicted to overwatch i would start skipping showers and basic shit like that. kinda sad when i look back on it, but hey ive gotten a lot better
Austin speaks straight facts, I have decent eyes and As soon as i started wearing contacts instead of glasses i started getting double or even triple the amount of looks from women.
1. Lose the Glasses 👓 2. Keep Beards short 🧔🏾 3. Bare Minimum 4. Look physically fit. Going to the gym just to get girls. Do it for yourself but don't be so muscular you're gonna make her self conscious about her physique. 5. Wear fitted clothes instead of Oversize Attire.👕👖
She deserves to be self conscious about her physique. I'd rather be a virgin for life than to be with someone who doesn't believe in taking care of themselves and a balanced diet and rigorous exercise routine.
This is all very true especially the part on being "too muscular". In the past, I was on multiple cycles of SARMS and I was honestly too big. Now I am natural and have a V taper with good muscle tone and I look 100x better.
I think most guys, including myself, always believed that bigger is better. But that isn't true. It's ok getting big because you want to look that way, but most women like slimmer, aesthetic looking guys. Not big, bulky bodybuilders. When I started a Test 400/d-bol cycle, a lot of women I knew asked if I was on steroids and said I looked worse for it. As soon as I came off cycle, I received compliments saying I looked better.
At the end of the day, when im driving I have to see. Unless she don't want me to crash while I'm driving, im wearing my glasses. I use to care what women would think, but now I just don't give a fuck. They always expect perfection out of men then end up with a guy thats highly flawed and dont criticize him.
I have been rocking the long beard this year and can honestly say that my results speak volumes. Women are not as drawn to men with long beards. Even when I was dressed very dapper women were not as receptive and open to being approached
That may all depend on how you look without it, or what grade of hair you have. I walked around wolfing most of the time for years. My grade of hair was more of the focus than guys I knew who stayed in the barber shop. I'm known to dress quite well, but I don't really care about hair cuts or a shape up.
Cool video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her..
alot of men in the west hate everything about self improvement/looks maxxin they sit on their laptops all day watchin garbage that doesnt add any value we need more masculine figures like the tates,fresh and fit etc.... men have no good leaders anymore
very good point. I am a powerlifter and have been doing this for 15 years. I am muscular and the part about girls not preferring someone muscular is true on some part. Thank god I have never done this for the purpose of attracting women but is all being about challenging myself and testing the limits of my body. The health benefits are also a plus. However I have also met women who were attracted to me because of my physique😄. I think it's just a matter of preference.
Realest thing about your channel is that it’s true that the more handsome you get, the more problems you get. You attract all the wrong women, but the women you really want are afraid of you. Smh
If you've never heard Russell Westbrook's ," What???? Bruh,what are you talking about, man??! Sound clip, I suggest you look it up because that's my response to the getting too handsome comment 😅
Always have had a good jawline that attracted women but during college when I was able to grow a beard I let that shit get Abraham Lincoln big thinking it would make me more manly but was taking away from my good jawline and making myself less attractive. Changed to a short stubble that expressed my jawline and got far better results with women.
another thing when it comes to building muscle and making sure its not "too much" is just to not run a cycle. most natural bodybuilders look aesthetically pleasing to the point where its not "too much" but to actually look like a bodybuilder, you'd have to take stuff.
It depends. I personally look best with heavy stubble. Clean shaven makes me look like a baby and a beard makes me look significantly older than I actually am.@@user-iq7cu5tq3h
WRONG WRONG WRONG!!! Men, do what whatever makes you feel confident! Every woman is not going to be attracted to you and you can’t force them! Be yourself, find your tribe, and the women who like you are the ones you should be with.
Strongly disagree, being attractive to women is important and if feeling confident is the goal then nothing makes a man as confident as being desired by attractive women. Appeal to the female gaze or lose the game imo
I don't agree with any of this. You should just be who you are, wear what you want and attract the people who are into that version of yourself. If you're too busy putting on a show you're not really attracting who wants to be with you. You're attracting who wants the show.
You don’t agree because your comprehension skills aren’t that high and your listening skills are lacking. He stated in the video, if you want to be overly buff like C Bum, do it for YOU! Pay attention. However, if you want to attract the MOST amount of women you want to avoid niche’s. It’s not complicated. So if you want to not put any effort in and have a “take me as I am” approach, do your thing. You will surely be able to attract atleast a few women if you’re not ugly and have atleast a decent personality. But most people like having lots of options, and those are who his advice is catering to in this specific video, as you would have heard him state if you were actually listening. 0:31 you’re welcome.
@@RJ_100 Maybe you're the one who needs comprehension classes. I understood everything he said. However attracting the MOST amount of women should never supersede the desire to attract the RIGHT woman. That was my point. Thinking otherwise is a recipe for failure and part of the reason why relationships ain't shit these days. The value system is all fucked up. But judging by the way you chose to respond you seem like a lost cause already.
@@SergMilli yet you clicked on a video with this title and listened to the entire video after the guy stated the intention of the video within the first 45 seconds. It was never a question of whether being yourself is better long term compared to making modifications to appeal to more women. This video was only about appealing to the most women, point. blank. period. If guys are looking for a long term relationship with the “right woman”, maybe they should find content for that? Lol
If you're out during the day you can just wear stylish prescription sunglasses. I think almost everyone looks better with sunglasses. But even with regular glasses it really depends on the style. I think Kevin Samuels looked good in thick black glasses. It gave his look some additional flair.
Except oversized fit certainly is the most attractive, you can just see the kind of men that women are liking and sharing on tiktok and who are the most popular with women. Even Austin was dissed by a girl that he would be 10 if his pants were looser. At least I can tell, that getting oversized clothes certainly improved my interactions with young girls (18-25), which are exactly girls i wanna attract.
both look good you need to find a balance, too oversized you will look like a kid, too tight you will look feminine. It will depend on what you are wearing, T Shirt and Shirt are completely diferent per example
I think because Austin's physique is such a strength, he benefits a lot from showing it off. The oversized fit may be cool but it hides one of his biggest strengths, so it's gonna be more of a net negative for him, compared to most guys
I personally agree with the glasses to a certain extent. For example I own a pair of white shades which makes me stand out due to my darker skin color so they contrast perfectly. It's crazy the amount of compliments I've received from women. Great vid Austin 👍🏽
It depends on why we do what we do! Personally I represent myself the way I do for me, not to acquiesce to any objective perspective. If you like me you me if you don’t you just don’t! It’s best we are comfortable in our own skin first. If we’re just conforming to please other and it’s not authentic we still set ourselves up for failure.
not the right advice to ppl, he literally preaches about the best version of yourself in video but also tells you what women find attractive, and if you want to be attractive, who cares what you think
@@oshurus9137 well what he preaches goes without saying but however,for people who are new to this type of advice it’s best to reinforce the fact that if the change you’re making for validation isn’t a genuine change will only backfire. It’s always best we consider all the pros and cons of our decisions before making those decisions. When everything else ceases, authenticity should always be our foundation for anything. What shall it profit a man to gain the world but lose his soul? Mark. 8 Verses 34 to 38
Yo Austin I really agree on the glasses part, I look so much better without them and when I take pictures I always take them off, most ppl look way better without glasses
Do a video on what to do to look more attractive... like full on 2023 master video from looks maxing, to designing a profile, a funnel, the whole thing. You got it.
@@Ceiling_Gatoaffordable my ass besides the prices always diffrent from diffrent regions and countries not to mention our paychecks most if the time dont allow us to do that unfortunately
Regarding your point about being muscular. MY type is gym girls and they tend to LOVE big and jacked guys. Austin Dunham's physique is amazing and most people will not get it naturally. Again I just want to attract gym girls! Sure maybe the average girl will not like a gymbro look but I want to appeal to athletic/slightly muscular women specifically!
Bingo. That's the kind of woman I want minus being muscular. But as you said, gym girls want gym guys. After being in the gym for a year, I switched my preferences in women from naturally thicke to gym fit, slim waist.
Good point on the long beard, and how there are just a few exceptions. For me, I have a very dense, full beard where the connectors fill in perfectly to my mustache with no patchiness. Because I've been using the straight blade and Andis T-Outliner for years, it's always groomed very well, and consistently 1-2 times per night when I'm out someone random will come up and compliment it. Similarly, on dating apps I always do better with my longer beard vs the stubble (I don't have a great jawline IMO).
I feel like out of all of these the beard is the most objecctive like ive met plenty of women who love beards on a man i guess the most important thing i the presentation of it/grooming
Most of what he said is strongly based on the PERCEPTION OF A WOMAN N CAN VARY FROM WOMAN TO WOMAN... THIS MAN IS SPEAKING FOR ONE SIDE OF A GRAND ROOM!!!😂
The most objectively attractive thing there is, is confidence, no matter how you look. I’ve seen confident donkeys pull more 10 than models due to their confidence and demeanor
This is a video we all need to hear because a lot of people don’t understand attractiveness and you have to see it from both sides of the spectrum because what you think is attractive may be attractive to you but not to others witch lowering your chances of being as attractive as possible and ruining your chances with women especially
You said everything that FitX and that other guy said. Objectively speaking if every man is attractive then none of us are. Its quite like the economy once every man gets buff and good looking then it becomes about who has the biggest stick who makes more cash and whose taller. It will never be equal there will always be a few get vast majority and the others will struggle.
It will never be enough either. Fix your sight, you're still broke. Got money, your not 6'2. Just be you and the right one will be reveal themselves to you.
I’m a girl, and this is 100% accurate when it comes to looks, at the same time if I meet someone with glasses or baggy clothes or too muscular I don’t like them at first but if their personality is attractive and actually likes the guy I wouldn’t care about his looks anymore.
Not quite. To do exactly THIS - broaden your female "buyer" audience, glasses (stylish rectangle "GUCCI" form) can enhance your image - especially WHEN you're buff ripped, well-groomed and stylish like Austin. Essentially to make you look more intelligent, smart, educated and sofisticated, to soften and counterplay that bad "dumb bodybuilder" stigma image. Same with beard - to gide / enhance your less than perfect jawline, you NEED a beard (but well-kept and clever shaped to protrude your jawline)
What you listed is broad in general which i do agree with, but they are miniscule in reality. I would say 70% is confidence, the last 30% is appearance and grooming.
All of your information definitely works for me. I’m an older guy and I’m in great shape for my age and fitted clothing has always worked for me. Thanks Austin.
6:34 Teige Hanley reached out to me in regards to being sponsored by them but i never heard of them until seeing this video. Maybe this is a sign to give em a try
I see guys with beards everyday with the hottest women. I work in the mall so I see it all day everyday. This guy is capping. I agree you dont want a mega huge beard but these guys beards definitely arent small either.
Honestly just excel at the things you can control and be secure and confident in the things you cant control. That way not only do you open yourself up to more options you also aren't running the risk of finding someone who's disingenuous.
Also your body hair lol keep it 😂 I've never had a woman once tell me trimmed and shaved body hair is attractive and frequently they say my body hair is attractive
Unless you're have ideal genetics AND are perfectly ripped, like Austin (only 1% of men), oversize attire will work BETTER AND make you even look younger. Both these things are especially key for 30+ y.o. men, that do NOT want to lead with their wallet (rich / business attire type) You don't want your 20 y.o. gf's friends think, that you're her uncool dad. You will be surprised - how clever styling alone can make a man look 10, even 20 years younger and thus make a man eligible for younger women (don't tell me, you don't want that. Most women look better and are more fun, when they're 20 y.o. than them being 30+ y.o.) Women do NOT in fact want older men! It's a cap copium lies, that red pill spreads! Most women want their men to be ONLY like 3-7 years older, if anything!
The sad fact is that women are so age prejudiced it doesn't even matter how young or good you look. Earlier this year there were these 2 women (not at the same place) that thought I was hot and wanted to go on a date with me, until they learned my age and changed their mind. Just because of my age, a pointless number. It's true, they are THAT age prejudiced.
This is bad advice. I have terrible lifting genetics and i look much better in fitted clothing. Im naturally built like slender man but ive spent over a decade in the gym so more fitted clothes look great on me. Baggy clothes make you look like you dont lift.
@@aroncampos5720 i agree even when you out of shape the bigger clothes no good i tried to wear bigger it makes me look more out of shape i wore a fitted lacross shirt it made me look more fit
Objectively speaking, tighter clothing on men is less attractive. Yea some people might not like the super baggy look, but there’s a reason why fashion models on the runway and in catalogs are lean. This is due to the clothing being able to fit straight down their body to show off the shape and proportion of the garment. No clothing brand that’s not appealing to a gym bro would have a super buff dude modeling their apparel
The glasses is thing is true. Usually when I’m at work or in the gym, I’ll more than likely have my glasses on, but when I’m going out or doing photoshoots, the glasses come off. I even did an experiment and went out with my glasses and I noticed I wasn’t getting as much attention compared to when my glasses were off.
Yeah. I love my glasses as an accessory. However, i use it to my advantage. A woman i want to approach see me in them and i will introduce myself and then take off the glasses. Its a james bond move that never fails.
I was with you until you said the thick beard because when I cut my beard, women always ask me why because they like it. I’m not an ugly guy but I’m no Brad Pitt either. I’m like a seven but when I have the beard, I feel like an eight based on the responses.
Fr tho lot of guys wanna be 10s but wont humble themselves to let go of what they like and try sum else fr. If you wanma learn sum you learn from the people who gettin results not to your feelings
Been watching you for years on off man but recently I’ve been binging u hard, I respect your honesty as of recently and that you’ve accepted other pills (blackpill) to a large extent acknowledging looks do yes matter A LOT that is. But there is also a game/presentation aspect to it since most guys on tinder etc have horrible pics set up from horrible angles etc. would appreciate if u saw this Really big fan man!
I'm exactly like that thumbnail with the x and i still get approaches from women lmao. Bruh i'm here for the workout advice fuck all that maintaining looks shit
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WRONG WRONG WRONG!!!
Men, do what whatever makes you feel confident! Every woman is not going to be attracted to you and you can’t force them! Be yourself, find your tribe, and the women who like you are the ones you should be with.
@@openranks4519key word “should”
i agree with this dude especially the bear and over doing the gym thing 😂
@@openranks4519he didn’t say you won’t be attracted being yourself.. he said things tht u think make u attracted but its actually weird. i mean data don’t lie.
His game is trash and it doesn’t work
I think it's time to stop really giving an F about what women think is attractive. I went down this rabbit hole years ago and lost myself in the process. If she's really worth a damn... she's going to love you based on who you are more so than what you look like.
Perfectly said you said everything I was about to say that's the best comment in this comment section ❤❤
Think of it this way. By being the best version of yourself you are getting the highest possible chance at finding someone like that for you.
Unfortunately people are visual creatures.
I can confirm the validity of this comment. I have been fat, in shape, and fat again. In every senario i get the same amount of play because im confident in who i am as a man and what value i bring to a womans life. They always recognize it regardless of my appearance. I find this video useless and misleading for weak men
it's so fucking stressful even for handsome dudes, I feel bad for the amount of effort and stress most women have to deal with on regular basis
One thing to note Austin, is that glasses makes you less intimidating which really helps outside the relationship sphere. Being black + glasses can really lighten things up lol.
The unfortunate truth. If you wanna apply for a job as a black man, showing up for the interview in glasses will elevate you in the eyes of your interviewer.
@@starmorpheusgood point. Doing this from now on
Lol 🤣
Yea, but fuck that mental space. Walking around hiding yourself leads to losing yourself.
When I wear my designer frames I get more female attention
If you don't design your own life plan, chances are you'll fall into someone else's plan. And guess what they have planned for you? Not much.
Cope
Just quoting psychacks without any credit smh
I doubt people really have a "plan" for people (probably your point) but I agree, design your own life plan.
Shouts out to Jim Rohn!
Uncle Jim Rohn
Be yourself. Be happy. Live life with freedom. If a girl wants you a specific way that is not good for you, she's not worth it. Simple. It's just not worth overcomplicating things. Just get the basics down like good hygiene practice and looking after yourself. Good luck 👍
The glasses one is facts. I always wore glasses all my life, and whenever I go out, I go out without glasses
🤓 to 😏
Nah, I think it depends on the person and type/frame of the glasses.
I wear both glasses and contacts. Women love me regardless
Everything he say is subjective.
1. Glasses can enhance your look depending on the color and the shape of the frame.
2. Beards are good if you don’t have a strong jaw
3. Groom yourself
4.Moderation is key
5. Clothes depends on style
Polo Ralph Lauren?
I hate contacts and laser too pricey. I aint gonna be walking blind just to pull bitches fuck that.
this dude is a straight up g lol, last year around this time i had low confidence, was hella underweight and dressed in baggy clothing and smelled like garbage (not afraid to admit it) 1 year later, im way bigger with the gym progress, i wear pretty simple neat outfits and i def smell better lol. austin doin gods work!
Smelled like garbage??? Broo keep up with your hygiene and watch ur diet 😂😂😂😂 deodorant and cologne is also necessary and shower every day
@@nicholasrodriguez4990 yeah bro 💀i was so addicted to overwatch i would start skipping showers and basic shit like that. kinda sad when i look back on it, but hey ive gotten a lot better
@@zen4915improvement is the key 🔑
Austin speaks straight facts, I have decent eyes and As soon as i started wearing contacts instead of glasses i started getting double or even triple the amount of looks from women.
nah you fowl bruh... stanky ahh
IDC what you say i'm keeping my beard lol
He never really said completely get rid of it but just keep it groomed especially for the dudes with bigger beards
1. Lose the Glasses 👓
2. Keep Beards short 🧔🏾
3. Bare Minimum
4. Look physically fit. Going to the gym just to get girls. Do it for yourself but don't be so muscular you're gonna make her self conscious about her physique.
5. Wear fitted clothes instead of Oversize Attire.👕👖
You forgot pay the sponsor, tege
I kinda need glasses to see.
@@jvauxholder651get some contacts lol jk
She deserves to be self conscious about her physique. I'd rather be a virgin for life than to be with someone who doesn't believe in taking care of themselves and a balanced diet and rigorous exercise routine.
Is that true about being so muscular?
This is all very true especially the part on being "too muscular". In the past, I was on multiple cycles of SARMS and I was honestly too big. Now I am natural and have a V taper with good muscle tone and I look 100x better.
I like how he made the solid point that u would be niche ing urself down and that the goal is to be mass appealing to most women.
I think most guys, including myself, always believed that bigger is better. But that isn't true. It's ok getting big because you want to look that way, but most women like slimmer, aesthetic looking guys. Not big, bulky bodybuilders. When I started a Test 400/d-bol cycle, a lot of women I knew asked if I was on steroids and said I looked worse for it. As soon as I came off cycle, I received compliments saying I looked better.
@@paulwright22 Dude your body is done if you use roids
Being swole is not going to ever stop.
1. Glasses 👓
2. Beards 🧔🏾
3. Bare Minimum
4. Going to the gym just to get girls.
5. Oversize Attire.👕👖
you people try so hard for 304s it's literally pathetic
At the end of the day, when im driving I have to see. Unless she don't want me to crash while I'm driving, im wearing my glasses.
I use to care what women would think, but now I just don't give a fuck. They always expect perfection out of men then end up with a guy thats highly flawed and dont criticize him.
@@HipHopFanatic-s8yYeah. I just buy more stylish glasses now that I can actually afford them.
I have been rocking the long beard this year and can honestly say that my results speak volumes. Women are not as drawn to men with long beards. Even when I was dressed very dapper women were not as receptive and open to being approached
That may all depend on how you look without it, or what grade of hair you have. I walked around wolfing most of the time for years. My grade of hair was more of the focus than guys I knew who stayed in the barber shop. I'm known to dress quite well, but I don't really care about hair cuts or a shape up.
If you're natural, 99% of guys will never get "too muscular" for women no matter how hard they try, especially if they stay lean (below 14% bf)
I wonder what percentage of men that aren’t natural are deemed too muscular however
Cool video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her..
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.
Why did the relationship end?
bro its a bot lmao. they do this shit with crypto all the time. now relationships lmao@@happygolucky9004
fuck i responsed to e abot
This is the only time I’ve actually ever purchased something that’s sponsored by a RUclipsr. Good job with the promotion your going places Austin
He is places
They not going to like the skin care part 😅… every men need a skin care routine 💯💯💯
alot of men in the west hate everything about self improvement/looks maxxin they sit on their laptops all day watchin garbage that doesnt add any value we need more masculine figures like the tates,fresh and fit etc.... men have no good leaders anymore
Skin care routine is what I care more than any other point mentioned.
A skin-care hack (at least for me), is drink about 2-3 cups of homemade bone broth every day...no skin-care routine required with this method.
Africa doesn’t have naked women😂😂😂😂
very good point. I am a powerlifter and have been doing this for 15 years. I am muscular and the part about girls not preferring someone muscular is true on some part. Thank god I have never done this for the purpose of attracting women but is all being about challenging myself and testing the limits of my body. The health benefits are also a plus. However I have also met women who were attracted to me because of my physique😄. I think it's just a matter of preference.
brother the problem Is that I'm Almost blind without my glasses
Realest thing about your channel is that it’s true that the more handsome you get, the more problems you get. You attract all the wrong women, but the women you really want are afraid of you. Smh
Hmmm, you have a point
Can’t win I just rot away in my room it’s easier! 🤣
Give me your handsome problem, bro lol😅 I'll take it off your hands, no problems, and deal with your issues with open arms 😅
If you've never heard Russell Westbrook's ," What???? Bruh,what are you talking about, man??! Sound clip, I suggest you look it up because that's my response to the getting too handsome comment 😅
Only a handsome guy would say being too handsome is a problem 😆
He's right...the longer my beard the less choosing signals i got this yea....great video‼️
I appreciate all of the tips man. Your channel def has a spot in the dating tips world for men. I've learned a lot from you.
Always have had a good jawline that attracted women but during college when I was able to grow a beard I let that shit get Abraham Lincoln big thinking it would make me more manly but was taking away from my good jawline and making myself less attractive. Changed to a short stubble that expressed my jawline and got far better results with women.
Yeah stubbles are 🔥
Beards work better with people who have regressed chins
That’s why you gotta mew
Did you get laid
What if you dont have the best jawline
another thing when it comes to building muscle and making sure its not "too much" is just to not run a cycle. most natural bodybuilders look aesthetically pleasing to the point where its not "too much" but to actually look like a bodybuilder, you'd have to take stuff.
The long beard is very subjective, it depends on the individuals
It depends. I personally look best with heavy stubble. Clean shaven makes me look like a baby and a beard makes me look significantly older than I actually am.@@user-iq7cu5tq3h
Everything is subjective technically.
Apparently you must have not listened he is talking about what is attractive to MOST women 🤦♂️
@@shadowslayer9988 Yes and even according to women the long beard depends on the individual
WRONG WRONG WRONG!!!
Men, do what whatever makes you feel confident! Every woman is not going to be attracted to you and you can’t force them! Be yourself, find your tribe, and the women who like you are the ones you should be with.
i like your mindset but you also kinda have to adapt: Evolve to today's society what looked good years ago may not look attractive in today's society
Strongly disagree, being attractive to women is important and if feeling confident is the goal then nothing makes a man as confident as being desired by attractive women. Appeal to the female gaze or lose the game imo
@@Solla774 beta male logic
@@paperRouteHim past present future🙄
what in the world does any of what you said have to do with being confident🥴
@@openranks4519 Being unattractive is pretty much the epitome of being a beta lmao
I bought this tiege hanley stuff and its literally a magic potion for good skin. I love it bro shoutout to Austin for putting me on
I don't agree with any of this. You should just be who you are, wear what you want and attract the people who are into that version of yourself. If you're too busy putting on a show you're not really attracting who wants to be with you. You're attracting who wants the show.
You don’t agree because your comprehension skills aren’t that high and your listening skills are lacking. He stated in the video, if you want to be overly buff like C Bum, do it for YOU! Pay attention. However, if you want to attract the MOST amount of women you want to avoid niche’s. It’s not complicated. So if you want to not put any effort in and have a “take me as I am” approach, do your thing. You will surely be able to attract atleast a few women if you’re not ugly and have atleast a decent personality. But most people like having lots of options, and those are who his advice is catering to in this specific video, as you would have heard him state if you were actually listening. 0:31 you’re welcome.
@@RJ_100 Maybe you're the one who needs comprehension classes. I understood everything he said. However attracting the MOST amount of women should never supersede the desire to attract the RIGHT woman. That was my point. Thinking otherwise is a recipe for failure and part of the reason why relationships ain't shit these days. The value system is all fucked up. But judging by the way you chose to respond you seem like a lost cause already.
@@SergMilli yet you clicked on a video with this title and listened to the entire video after the guy stated the intention of the video within the first 45 seconds. It was never a question of whether being yourself is better long term compared to making modifications to appeal to more women. This video was only about appealing to the most women, point. blank. period. If guys are looking for a long term relationship with the “right woman”, maybe they should find content for that? Lol
@@RJ_100 You're missing the point of my comment but it's ok. To each his own.
Shhhh your just lazy no willingness to change
If you're out during the day you can just wear stylish prescription sunglasses. I think almost everyone looks better with sunglasses. But even with regular glasses it really depends on the style. I think Kevin Samuels looked good in thick black glasses. It gave his look some additional flair.
Except oversized fit certainly is the most attractive, you can just see the kind of men that women are liking and sharing on tiktok and who are the most popular with women. Even Austin was dissed by a girl that he would be 10 if his pants were looser. At least I can tell, that getting oversized clothes certainly improved my interactions with young girls (18-25), which are exactly girls i wanna attract.
Yep, oversized is better for the frame
both look good you need to find a balance, too oversized you will look like a kid, too tight you will look feminine. It will depend on what you are wearing, T Shirt and Shirt are completely diferent per example
if you want to only attract girls who like oversize clothes go ahead. but if you want to attract baddies u gotta go well-fitted.
I think because Austin's physique is such a strength, he benefits a lot from showing it off. The oversized fit may be cool but it hides one of his biggest strengths, so it's gonna be more of a net negative for him, compared to most guys
@@Paul-yk7ds exactly!
I personally agree with the glasses to a certain extent. For example I own a pair of white shades which makes me stand out due to my darker skin color so they contrast perfectly. It's crazy the amount of compliments I've received from women. Great vid Austin 👍🏽
Terrible glasses, actually.
@@itsglohuncho1406 and that's your opinion
@@jimmymcwatters4182your not even that dark yo
I like your glasses!
@@xqrsss thanks my G 🔥
1- Your Glasses
2- Long beards
3- Doing the bare minimum ( take care of ur skin)
4- being the gymcell
5- Oversize fits
100% agree about glasses all your points were very good about all the subjects you talked about
Over muscled makes clothes look bad. It interrupts the lines and silhouette of your pieces
Same as low waisted trousers with belt loops, destroys the silhouette
@@Solla774what are low waisted trousers?
Austin Dunham back again with another Banger!!
It depends on why we do what we do! Personally I represent myself the way I do for me, not to acquiesce to any objective perspective. If you like me you me if you don’t you just don’t! It’s best we are comfortable in our own skin first. If we’re just conforming to please other and it’s not authentic we still set ourselves up for failure.
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not the right advice to ppl, he literally preaches about the best version of yourself in video but also tells you what women find attractive, and if you want to be attractive, who cares what you think
@@oshurus9137 well what he preaches goes without saying but however,for people who are new to this type of advice it’s best to reinforce the fact that if the change you’re making for validation isn’t a genuine change will only backfire. It’s always best we consider all the pros and cons of our decisions before making those decisions. When everything else ceases, authenticity should always be our foundation for anything.
What shall it profit a man to gain the world but lose his soul? Mark. 8 Verses 34 to 38
Straight up
This mindset is good till you realize it’s a stagnant one, this advice you gave is why fat ppl stay fat…
Production quality is looking amazing bro
Yo Austin I really agree on the glasses part, I look so much better without them and when I take pictures I always take them off, most ppl look way better without glasses
Austin has mastered shaving, and applying moisturizer.
Get the man a Pulitzer already.
Get him a tampon already
It's not glasses, per se, it's the TYPE of glasses that makes a difference.
Do a video on what to do to look more attractive... like full on 2023 master video from looks maxing, to designing a profile, a funnel, the whole thing. You got it.
who else looks better without glasses but actually needs them?
Damn ! Same . I dont know what should I do now ...
Exactly !
I might be better off but there is NO WAY i'm walking down the street or interacting with someone completely blind !
Contacts exist
laser surgery is affordable these days and solves most of the common issues causing bad sight
@@Ceiling_Gatoaffordable my ass besides the prices always diffrent from diffrent regions and countries not to mention our paychecks most if the time dont allow us to do that unfortunately
Next can you do a video on the struggles of being an attractive guy at work
the attraction paradox...u attract people when u least expect it
Regarding your point about being muscular. MY type is gym girls and they tend to LOVE big and jacked guys. Austin Dunham's physique is amazing and most people will not get it naturally. Again I just want to attract gym girls! Sure maybe the average girl will not like a gymbro look but I want to appeal to athletic/slightly muscular women specifically!
Bingo. That's the kind of woman I want minus being muscular. But as you said, gym girls want gym guys. After being in the gym for a year, I switched my preferences in women from naturally thicke to gym fit, slim waist.
@@POPJack1717 Fair my friend, I honestly find nice arms/delts on a woman so sexy but that is a me thing mate
Exactly. It’s dumb to just throw out a net to catch women you don’t want.
Why would I sculpt my life around what other people like. I’ll do me regardless of who likes it.
I actually look better with glasses on 😂😂😂
Must be some fancy glasses
Nah I have asymmetrical eyes but you can’t tell with my glasses on .
@@paulaljouny230 Oh i see
Good point on the long beard, and how there are just a few exceptions.
For me, I have a very dense, full beard where the connectors fill in perfectly to my mustache with no patchiness. Because I've been using the straight blade and Andis T-Outliner for years, it's always groomed very well, and consistently 1-2 times per night when I'm out someone random will come up and compliment it. Similarly, on dating apps I always do better with my longer beard vs the stubble (I don't have a great jawline IMO).
I feel like out of all of these the beard is the most objecctive like ive met plenty of women who love beards on a man i guess the most important thing i the presentation of it/grooming
Women def prefer a dude w a great jawline, and if you have one there’s not even a need for a beard
Most of what he said is strongly based on the PERCEPTION OF A WOMAN N CAN VARY FROM WOMAN TO WOMAN... THIS MAN IS SPEAKING FOR ONE SIDE OF A GRAND ROOM!!!😂
I cant see without my glasses. If she not feeling them, she's not for me
Why are you trying to attract the most women is the real one question. The most masculine thing is to do things you want to please you not women .
Great video man , we need a video on diet or meal prep or even grocery haul
Real men dont give a F about what women think hell most of them choose Pookie and Ray Ray's anyway
The most objectively attractive thing there is, is confidence, no matter how you look. I’ve seen confident donkeys pull more 10 than models due to their confidence and demeanor
I've seen confident donkeys not pull 10's
Wild beard gang stand up✊🏾
Lmao crickets
This is a video we all need to hear because a lot of people don’t understand attractiveness and you have to see it from both sides of the spectrum because what you think is attractive may be attractive to you but not to others witch lowering your chances of being as attractive as possible and ruining your chances with women especially
Everything here isn't 100% fact, my friend.
Remember this, kings, if you put her on a pedestal, she can only look down on you.
😅😅😅
You said everything that FitX and that
other guy said. Objectively speaking if every man is attractive then none of us are. Its quite like the economy once every man gets buff and good looking then it becomes about who has the biggest stick who makes more cash and whose taller. It will never be equal there will always be a few get vast majority and the others will struggle.
I genuinely couldn't care less if women find me attractive I look how I like and if I'm cutting the women that find me attractive in half idk
It will never be enough either. Fix your sight, you're still broke. Got money, your not 6'2. Just be you and the right one will be reveal themselves to you.
It always good to get a second opinion from someone you trust
Only get feedback on your appearance from attractive chicks, never from guys
I see you with the Godfather's penjalim in the background 😎
I’m a girl, and this is 100% accurate when it comes to looks, at the same time if I meet someone with glasses or baggy clothes or too muscular I don’t like them at first but if their personality is attractive and actually likes the guy I wouldn’t care about his looks anymore.
Glasses? Smh
how is it objective if womens perspective is subjective?
Not quite. To do exactly THIS - broaden your female "buyer" audience, glasses (stylish rectangle "GUCCI" form) can enhance your image - especially WHEN you're buff ripped, well-groomed and stylish like Austin.
Essentially to make you look more intelligent, smart, educated and sofisticated, to soften and counterplay that bad "dumb bodybuilder" stigma image.
Same with beard - to gide / enhance your less than perfect jawline, you NEED a beard (but well-kept and clever shaped to protrude your jawline)
What you listed is broad in general which i do agree with, but they are miniscule in reality. I would say 70% is confidence, the last 30% is appearance and grooming.
I struggle putting on contacts so much
Facts I can’t do it. It’s either glasses or surgery
Contacts are so easy not sure what's hard about it.
I thought oversized went out of style in the early 2000s..
All of your information definitely works for me. I’m an older guy and I’m in great shape for my age and fitted clothing has always worked for me. Thanks Austin.
6:34 Teige Hanley reached out to me in regards to being sponsored by them but i never heard of them until seeing this video. Maybe this is a sign to give em a try
I see guys with beards everyday with the hottest women. I work in the mall so I see it all day everyday. This guy is capping. I agree you dont want a mega huge beard but these guys beards definitely arent small either.
Who the hell cares. I wear what I like, I trim my beard how I like and I honestly don't care who says what about that...
Honestly just excel at the things you can control and be secure and confident in the things you cant control. That way not only do you open yourself up to more options you also aren't running the risk of finding someone who's disingenuous.
Exactly, find you tribe. The women who are attracted to you are the women you should want. Can’t force sexual attraction!
Also your body hair lol keep it 😂 I've never had a woman once tell me trimmed and shaved body hair is attractive and frequently they say my body hair is attractive
On point as usual my brother 💪🏿
Unless you're have ideal genetics AND are perfectly ripped, like Austin (only 1% of men), oversize attire will work BETTER AND make you even look younger.
Both these things are especially key for 30+ y.o. men, that do NOT want to lead with their wallet (rich / business attire type)
You don't want your 20 y.o. gf's friends think, that you're her uncool dad.
You will be surprised - how clever styling alone can make a man look 10, even 20 years younger and thus make a man eligible for younger women (don't tell me, you don't want that. Most women look better and are more fun, when they're 20 y.o. than them being 30+ y.o.)
Women do NOT in fact want older men! It's a cap copium lies, that red pill spreads!
Most women want their men to be ONLY like 3-7 years older, if anything!
The sad fact is that women are so age prejudiced it doesn't even matter how young or good you look. Earlier this year there were these 2 women (not at the same place) that thought I was hot and wanted to go on a date with me, until they learned my age and changed their mind. Just because of my age, a pointless number. It's true, they are THAT age prejudiced.
@@ModelJames13if they young just lie get the draws keep it moving
@@Thatdude-tp7xsThat isn't an option if you're looking for a good woman/potential wife.😎
This is bad advice. I have terrible lifting genetics and i look much better in fitted clothing. Im naturally built like slender man but ive spent over a decade in the gym so more fitted clothes look great on me. Baggy clothes make you look like you dont lift.
@@aroncampos5720 i agree even when you out of shape the bigger clothes no good i tried to wear bigger it makes me look more out of shape i wore a fitted lacross shirt it made me look more fit
5:27 I fucking knew a tiene Hanley sponsored was coming up 😂 they’re the manscaped of facial care
I only wear my glasses when I drive, or when I can’t see that far
Objectively speaking, tighter clothing on men is less attractive. Yea some people might not like the super baggy look, but there’s a reason why fashion models on the runway and in catalogs are lean. This is due to the clothing being able to fit straight down their body to show off the shape and proportion of the garment. No clothing brand that’s not appealing to a gym bro would have a super buff dude modeling their apparel
you're comparing practical real life to male runway models
The glasses is thing is true. Usually when I’m at work or in the gym, I’ll more than likely have my glasses on, but when I’m going out or doing photoshoots, the glasses come off. I even did an experiment and went out with my glasses and I noticed I wasn’t getting as much attention compared to when my glasses were off.
Yeah. I love my glasses as an accessory. However, i use it to my advantage. A woman i want to approach see me in them and i will introduce myself and then take off the glasses.
Its a james bond move that never fails.
I always take pictures without my glasses, cant wait to get lasik eye surgery after i graduate college.
Great analysis my brother💯
I needed to hear this
I was with you until you said the thick beard because when I cut my beard, women always ask me why because they like it. I’m not an ugly guy but I’m no Brad Pitt either. I’m like a seven but when I have the beard, I feel like an eight based on the responses.
The glasses definitely depend on the frames and how blind the person is.
I'm afraid removing my glasses will expose my secret identity ~ Clark Kent
Fr tho lot of guys wanna be 10s but wont humble themselves to let go of what they like and try sum else fr. If you wanma learn sum you learn from the people who gettin results not to your feelings
Attractiveness depends on demographics and lifestyles. Some women like everything you said but where I live more women like beards and glasses
I feel like my eyes pop out more when i wear glasses and im also blind af so yeah for me glasses make me look better
I value my vision over women sorry
Wear glasses with thin gold or silver frames ✌🏽
Don’t forget this works for him not everyone
thank you sm austin
Been watching you for years on off man but recently I’ve been binging u hard, I respect your honesty as of recently and that you’ve accepted other pills (blackpill) to a large extent acknowledging looks do yes matter A LOT that is. But there is also a game/presentation aspect to it since most guys on tinder etc have horrible pics set up from horrible angles etc. would appreciate if u saw this
Really big fan man!
I agree with Austin about men wearing glasses but beautiful women that wear glasses is my weakness lol. I don’t know what it is.
“I’ve been binging you [so] harddd bro” - said from one man to another man. Crazy.
Good video Austin
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left: omw babe 😏
right : i am coming habibi do not worry 👳♂️
Facts brudda but whatever u sitting next to in the video at :34 seconds scared tf outta me
Just bought the first level and hope I don’t regret it!!!
I'm exactly like that thumbnail with the x and i still get approaches from women lmao. Bruh i'm here for the workout advice fuck all that maintaining looks shit
Very informative video thanks bro 💯
Thanks to this video my boys out there causing accidents without glasses
Great video...thanks Austin. Learnt a lot