A Man MUST Experience This One Thing In Order To Regret Losing You
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- Опубликовано: 23 июл 2024
- Guides And Coaching: liinks.co/elliotscott
Ready to master the art of making him regret and race back to you? In "Cut Him Off: The #1 Way To Make Him Regret and Return," I, your trusted dating coach Elliot Scott, unravel the secrets behind what truly drives a man to realize what he's lost and come knocking back at your door. Let's jump right into it with a blend of psychology, real-life scenarios, and actionable strategies that you won't find anywhere else.
I am going to teach you:
- The real reasons men pull away and how it's often a quest for a fantasy they've concocted in their minds.
- How to shift the power dynamic by understanding the assets and liabilities in your relationship.
- The undeniable power of no contact and why it's your strongest tool to ignite his sense of loss and longing.
- I show you how to establish boundaries and self-respect that make him see you in a whole new light.
You will want to watch this video because it's not just about getting him back; it's about reclaiming your worth and ensuring he comes back with a renewed appreciation and commitment. This approach is backed by years of coaching experience and countless success stories from women who've turned their love lives around.
Remember, it's not about playing games; it's about understanding male psychology and using it to foster a healthier, more fulfilling relationship. The link is down below, so get your free guide at the end of this video, or sign up for one-on-one coaching to dive even deeper into mastering the art of attraction and relationship dynamics.
Disclaimer: While I share insights based on my experience and success as a dating coach, remember that each situation is unique. This advice is intended to empower and guide you, not replace professional counseling.
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CHAPTERS:
0:00 - Understanding Male Withdrawal
1:00 - Male Perspective on Distance
4:30 - Encouraging Regret in Men
7:15 - Making Him Miss You and Regret
Guides And Coaching: liinks.co/elliotscott
I won’t ever allow a man to treat me like an option. If he wants distance then he can have it and distance himself right tf out of my life.
Yesss 🙌🏼🙌🏼
Instead of a door he will find a wall. I do not care!
Whenever I feel that a man does not know what he wants, I walk away. They all regretted this and searched me. It was too late! I'm a high value woman, so I won't waste my time and my energy with these immature creatures!
These emotional unavailable men are the absolute worst because they are actually a nice person and gives you SO MUCH HOPE to stick around and find out.
Yep, but they will disappoint you 100% of the time. Move on.
They are selfish
The more and more I watch these videos I realize its really men who play all these damn games.
The guys that pulled away acted like and some outright told me they felt like I was trying to "trap" them in a relationship or "wife" them up. Like.. if you see a relationship with someone who's dedicated and loyal as a trap, I can't help you. Gonna be real confusing when I "trap" you into being with me by walking TF out of this mess. Go try Jesus, don't try me.
He's right. The middle he's talking about is the guy is still trying to pick between you and another woman (or his perceived other woman). She's the girl that comes and goes and strings him along but they never really date. Sometimes called "the friend".Waatch out for her. If you've got one of these, she will keep him from thinking he needs to commit. This is where eventually you will have to give an ultimatium "make him choose". Then the decision will finally be hopefully "YOU". In his head you have to become the priority. Otherwise technically, the friend is running/ruining the relationship.
Yesss!!! She ran our relationship! So true. I experienced exactly that and I left. He hasn't come back around. Doubt he will unless she moves away or finds her own guy (which is unlikely since she's a freaking nightmare)
Facts. He made it clear that his female friend (who he clearly has had a crush on for years) had priority over me so I walked away and let him have her. I don’t know if he regrets the decision but I’m a hell of a lot happier not being compared to another woman all the time. Plus she has a boyfriend now so I don’t know what he gained out of it.
@@cass465 Good for you! They need to learn that they can't have their cake and eat it too (he was the one who pursued me even though he is obviously still attached to her!). My guy's nightmare ex also has a boyfriend. He is just causing himself repeated heartbreaks by not letting her go. Sad and pointless
Same thing happened to me! His female friend is also single so she wants a single friend to go out with. He never looked at our 3 year long relationship a priority and always put his friends first. At the end of the day misery loves company 🤷🏼♀️
Oh myyyy!! You just explained something I recently experienced. Thanks 🙏🏼
LOL this couldn’t be timed more perfectly! ❤️
Congrats on 1000 videos ✊🎉
Tysm this helped a lot
Thats why i ended the freind thing ....he knows i want commitment ...but i was only a freind. And he dont want to make a choice 😢
Elliott I appreciate you!
Always great information for us ladies, thank you...
Any time!
Get married to someone else. Keep him guessing!
That's the ultimate 👍🏼
😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
‘That’s not OK, homie’ this 🙌🏻👌🏻
Personally, I actually allow it and maybe it's because im.exploring my options too.. I'm very new to the dating scene coming out of a 14 year relationship. And after all the personal development and growth I realize I can't control anyone and how they move... So if he decides he wants to explore... I let him
I don't take it personal.
Because deep down inside I know that's not the person for me... he may be a good guy and also have asset( someone I can learn something from) for example.
But I wont see him as long term.
I allow the universe to do its thing... I don't have sex with them though either so that may what makes it easier for me...
I just know and trust what's for me will be for me... and it doesn't come with confusion or mind games...
It won't have me looking to convince him or figure out how to keep his attention on me.
It's just not meant to be... and that's okay...
I look for long term qualities in a man who moves like this isnt clear about what he wants he just shopping around to see what the experience is and if someone comes along with a better experience he will take the offer...
Now does that sound like someone you want to be with LONG TERM... lol nah...
Let things be as it is... let people be as they are. Let a liar be a liar a cheater be a cheater... etc.. just don't get involved in the energy of how they want to move in their life.
Focus on you. Keep the attention on yourself... because you want the person who fu*k with you to reealllyyy f*ckwith you.
Not trying to convince them to fu*k with you or having you strategize to see if he comes back to f*ck with you...
You Fu*k with you first.
Love-🥰🤗
Very true. If they are for you then you don’t need to convince them of anything.
A guy kept me in the middle for two years by saying that I was the one, wanted to marry me one day and have babies with me.
We are at a distance. He ghosted me and takes awhile to reply to me AFTER he asks me for attention.
I walked away nicely, but literally broke up and I just met someone new who is kind and just as handsome.
So yeah, if his feelings were real after two years of talking, he will regret losing me because I do have other options and can’t believe it, but someone new who is a bit better for me at this time in my life of what I am looking for.
Run!!!! Don't look back!!! It does NOT take a man two years to figure out if he even wants to be with you. Most men know by the 1st or 2nd date what category to place you in. He does NOT see you as his wife, or even his girlfriend apparently. Ruuuuunnn!!!
Fed-up of men. Years ago was different. To any young girl or daughter my advice is educate, educate and save and have a man if you so wish. Look after yourself. If he does not chase or treat you well dump him.
These thumbnails crack me up so much 😂
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I responded to my avoidant ex's sporadic reach outs for about a year, I responded hopeful and friendly but not pushing anything. After each time he disappeared for many months. I became resentful and lost hope, didn't wish his birthday like he did mine. When he finally sent really nostalgic messages 15 months after the break up, I ignored. I wanted to see if he would say more and apologise for hurting me and taking me for granted. But since I ignored, he probably felt rejected as he has not tried again.
Do you think he is seeing someone else during the time he is gone?
I feel like I'm in your ex's shoes. I was the dumper, and I sporadically reach out. He sometimes answers, but mostly not. When he answers it's friendly but he doesn't keep the conversation going so I give him space, usually for a couple of months, because his actions imply to me that's what he's wanting. I don't want to act like a toxic stalker and keep contacting him if he doesn't want that 🤷♀️
The last time I gave him space for 6 months and he only responded once, then ghosted again so I'm pretty much done trying at this point
@@reneehyslip4549 I have no idea, but I thought of that. The reason he ended things is because he is emotionally unavailable, commitmentphobe, said my expectations felt too much, he nitpicked and had doubts. He also had an overbearing mother, and enmeshed family.. During the relationship he was hot and cold, loving caring and then cold, moody.. He never had a serious relationship before me (late 30s) and low self esteem.
@@creatureofstyle Maybe you identify with the fearful avoidant attachment style? As a woman you may feel different, but I believe it's the dumper place to express remorse and desire to repair. Mine never did that clearly. Maybe he thought I would chase him after he called for my birthday. I didn't. He sent me mixed signals over a very long time, and I kept being open, I realised he was still confused, keeping me on the hook. When he finally was more vulnerable, resentment and pain had built up for me, I was even scared to respond and what if he was only nostalgic in the moment?
I can see how both sides are insecure and because of fears it ends on misunderstandings. I just wish he was more courageous and would fight for me.
@@reneehyslip4549 I have no idea, he wanted to be alone initially. He's avoidant, never had a girlfriend before and commitmentphobe.
If they don’t like you enough then they need to stay away .. simple
😂😂😂😂 My guy sent me a long text message in the middle of this video but I’m not responding, I don’t want him back. Thanks!
Maybe don't call him my guy then ..
@@elliea8868 I officially dumped my guy, don’t feel sorry for him. He deserved it.
Do not go after great looking men past 40 all players take ordinary who will love you always
What would you say in a full blown relationship when they are not appreciating you, would you pull away and make him realise the same? As I see a connection here
My situation is he is a pilot very busy and has his own business I kind of understand his health is not the best also he had cancer before it is sad hope he will come back
So how do I have to behave when he comes back like calls or texts me???
What if you follow each other on SM? Do I not use my SM?
Why dont you talk more on attachment styles ?
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We cut him off& he is jumping r8 into another relationship..why Does he care we cut him off or not?🤔
You shouldn't care either. In that case it's over.
What if he’s on dating apps right after the relationship ended? Will no contact still be effective?
That's a man that does not value you at all. No contact isn't for him. It's not a tool for manipulate him into loving you - it's a tool for you to regain yourself from this relationship and detach from the person that is hurting you
Why do you want him anyway?
What is a FAY dating coach?
It's Italian lol
Knock, knock, knock…….🦗🦗🦗🦗
Makes me more women's lib daily
Puts me off dating men with good body or looks who can get any womN. Plain men with few options more liable to stay.
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What about if the woman dumps him because of his behaviour will he then regret and miss you or just be angry and as good looking feel he has lots of options.
Not necessarily- my ex was older than me - looked a bit older still - and was anxious about his looks, his growing belly fat, told me I looked amazing and even younger , we got on had fun met all his family,
had great sex, and he liked to show me off and we laughed together so much and did trips - it was amazing. Then - texted me to break it off saying he can’t give me a relationship (after us being in a relationship for 15 months)
Im not sure if he was lazy (didn’t want to carry on making an effort) or an avoidant type.
Or didn’t want a relationship - which is fine - but he was the one chasing me, missing me, doing things for me and talking about the future together.
A shit. Good luck to the new woman. Beg to dislike men