Man this is what I love about Judge Toler. She's real and is like a mother figure and she's genuinely concerned. This is what I'm gonna miss when she leaves
You can always tell a good couple by the way they leave the courtroom. The husband generally steps out first and holds the gate open for his wife. They are a lovely couple.
He said he works 9-10 hours and doesnt have time for her but earlier he said he goes out with his friends 4,3,2,1 times a week. Your wife comes before your life
Exactly! I thought the same thing, not that she should become his life, but that if he's making time to go out with his friends 1234 times a week, why he can't take his wife out just as much, ya know.
But clearly they don’t have any common things to do together. If she started playing video games, they could play together or she could have a hobby of her own so she can preoccupy her time. He likes to lay up and play video games, she likes to lay up and watch shows, they can do both. But no, god forbid a woman take a step towards compromise with her man, let’s just tell him the onus is on him.
@@risharddaniels1762 Right go have fun with him play game with him. And Make another account to save and get that second car back. They should Work together
Don’t get me wrong, i love my girlfriend but women are worriers and it can be testing having somebody worry about you all the time when you’re a fully sufficient man. My homeboys aren’t going to bug me about this, that and the other, we just tryna smoke, drank and play some damn video games! Clearly a large amount of women can’t or won’t do those same things with their man, which is why so many struggle to keep them. Just cause a woman have a vagina doesn’t mean that’s all we want outta life.
Men an women are different, 100% different that’s why do not understand why! And I think the big issue occur when people try to compare men to women. We are really completely different, different way of thinking, different ways of doing things
true, but i feel he needs to grow up. u got a pregnant wife at home alone on yal first pregnancy and u already know she a lil insecure. everyone diff & i wud rather spend all my free time wit my woman she can do for me wut men friends cant but if u jus gotta b wit yo boys split it 60 wit wife/girlfriend and 40 wit homies
Those men saying “I work all day, 9,10 hours” behave like thats ALL they need to do. I work 11 hours a day and take care of many other things. Thats lame. Pick up your dirty clothes after yourselves. Nobody wants to touch that. And he kept saying “we dont have time” but could go out and spend money/time with his dudes 4 times a week? He’s not mature enough for marriage and shes clingy coz she’s too dependent on him.
He didn't want a wife he wanted a maid, so he can hang with his friends and do as he please. She worked. She is on maternity leave because her condition is high risk. Where is his support for her, why is it all about him?
He is acting like he is still single goes to work with her car and doesn't come home until 2 or 3 am in the morning. His wife is having a difficult pregnancy and he is not interested in her or her health if he dosen't change she should leave him. His so called friends are more important than his wife ??? He should stop spending money so freely they only have one income now he needs to give more time to his wife something could happen and he is out with his friends his place is at home.
typical woman answer yall are so damn lost you are at home every day granted she is pregnant yet all you self entitled females still think you don't have to do nothing but lay there and do nothing this is the problem in all relationships
Zelisa Coss but who wants to be with a woman who bitches and insecure and nags and brings that in the marriage she’s not mature she needs to work on herself
Exactly, when both of them are put on a balancing scale he is found more wanting than her. He must be a man enough. A pregnant women needs even more attention, more love physically and emotionally so that she stays stable minded , secured and happy. I hate these grown arse man for being so inundated in video games like fucking teenagers and not taking care of man's business. He can fix all of his weaknesses , they are not unfixable weaknesses unless he is and idiot. He doesn't look like an idiot though, it's just that he doesn't know how to take care of a woman particularly a pregnant woman with a complicated pregnancy for that matter.
One thing I have learned if I haven’t learned anything else is to NEVER EVER EVER take relationship advice form my mother, grandmother or any woman in my family. They are all extremely wounded from their past and can and do ONLY speak from that stand point. I lost a whole (workable) marriage behind them and my mom who was literally NEVER there for me my entire life (in prison or in the streets) came to pick me up and helped me end my marriage. I look back on it now and I realize that likely brought her great joy. To make sure I’d have to be single and struggling just like she was single and was never happy in a marriage.
Mind you, I don't know you, your mother, or your relationship; but if as you said she was coming from a place of pain and woundedness, could her taking joy in helping you to end your marriage have been because she thought that she was helping you out by protecting you from pain that she experienced?
He takes his sweet wife for granted. He should want to be rushing home to see his beautiful, sweet wife and want to spend time with her. When you marry, you're supposed to die to self. He's selfish. I can understand where she's coming from. I hope he wakes up before it's too late. I wish them all the best.
They resemble one another!! Like siblings alomost.! Thier baby will look like both of them mixed together. Great looking couple, I pray they make it though.
I can't believe Judge Lynn is coming off the bench of Divorce Court, pray she is stepping into the executive/producing decisions and future of the show If not, happy retirement and we learnt a lot, good worthy valuable advice on what not to do, especially as a woman and not to allow We love you Judge
And there will never be another divorce court Judge like Judge Lynn at all. But I do think A african american male Judge with wisdom would be good to watch.
Once they get the wife they often forget how hard they've worked to get her just to say I do, what they do not know is that you have to work even harder to keep her next to you and also happy, a happy wife is a happy life😉
Just because the wife is happy does not mean the man is happy. I hate that phrase foreal. There's a lot of men out here trying to keep wives happy just to be miserable themselves. Its not the mans job to make you happy its your job to be happy and become happy together.
@@deonteathens1043 I feel where you're coming from but I can tell that you don't fully know the meaning behind "Happy wife, happy life" bruh lol ~ it's an old school phrase that symbolizes a transcendence of equal happiness for both if you're willing to put emotional immaturity & pride aside to ennsure that your wife is happy which will in turn work in your favor as she will work feverishly to keep you happy in return bruh 😎
@@TT-th1gb I know what the saying is, and I know the meaning behind it "BRUH" lol. My point was, not every female is that or for better words, deserving of the "happy wife happy life" phrase. As in some women will never be happy, and or will drain you of your happiness for her happiness, in turn leaving the man "ie: you or me to not be happy. So my point still stands even after you're weak rebuttle on trying to school me, "BRUH".
Sometimes we subconsciously feel like our friendships are fleeting as our responsibilities evolve. Taking care of ur family (in all ways) has to be the #1 priority, ALWAYS. I think they’ll be just fine.
That's what was throwing me off. And had me thinking he's lying. What sane reasonable man or woman keeps OLD messages in their phone? Besides history of experience has taught me that once a man ends the relationship or if his ex woman does... they delete you out their phones so fast... he is definitely lying. Those are recent messages from current affairs. She's just vulnerable, emotional, and pregnant that's why she's kind of sort of believing his lies.
She is bored and lonely and he is just living life in his neighbourhood, amongst his friends - and not involving her. He needs to find ways to take her out and help her to find a friend circle.
This is definitely fixable! Judge got her down to a T. She's scared. He's just gotta make her feel more secure and she won't be hovering over him all the time. That baby boy is going to be so cute!
My favourite couple on this show so far. Both are cool & mature. His wife is so beautiful, and to top it off; she has the sort of voice that cures diabetes!
Such an adorable couple, Judge gave some great advice to them both. They do not have a marital problem, more like a growing up issue on his part, charming couple.
It was refreshing to watch this couple's issues, they are both good ones, just some small nick-nacks between the two that can be repaired and improved on with some attention and more awareness. They both seemed to love each other and are actually married which is what Divorce Court was originally supposed to be about. I hope those two worked it out. #blacklove.
I love judge tola she had taught me a lot I'm a Divorcee You taught me about love respect and understanding And anger solves nothing Keep up the good work judge
All my gosh I love this judge she's the real thing. I wish and pray that she comes back or make a new show. Please come back. May God bless you always 🙏 ❤️
Girls! buy your man his games and hooked him up online with his friends so he is playing at home, then you can do your things next to him and spend that time together. Relationships doesn't mean you have to always doing the same things. I've been helping my husband on Need for Speed or Assassin Creed (and many more) for the past 14 years we have been married and we are still happy together. P.s. when I don't help him, I read or do my crafting or playing my own game on my own device....of course, right next to him.
She is a strong woman I tell ya How can he go out every day and dsnt come back until after midnight he is acting as if he is a teenager and she has no right to put alert on his card he should be responsible enough to look after his finance
Just a sound advice for men (in fact everyone), that smug look this man has on his face throughout the episode, it's not attractive at all. There is a difference between confidence and smugness.
Oh no, if I buy something and my girlfriend puts an alert on the account then calls me right after a purchase; we got to have a talk! I’m a grown ass man
kib coren It was MC Hammers job to be a man and know how manage his money instead of fancy cars and parachute pants. Men take responsibility not look for a woman to micro manage them
@@JazzyJeffRealTalk While I agree that her current fear is causing her to hover and make him feel suffocated, this is their JOINT account. Their money is intertwined. She has a right to peace of mind when it comes to money that is hers as well. She just needs to step back a bit, communicate with him when they're both calm, and let him take responsibility as a grown man for his financial decisions.
Naturalista Nas I hear you and you make good points, but I bet you if she bought any thing materialistic and he called and did the same thing to her, she would call him controlling. I’m just saying flip the script and ask yourself how would a woman react to her man putting alerts on accounts and calling after every purchase?
@@JazzyJeffRealTalk If she's being fiscally irresponsible, she only has so much right to be upset. She better woman up and get it together so he doesn't have to worry she'll spend them broke. I had a short period where I suffered an injury and fell into emotional eating from depression. I was spending too much on food and my boyfriend was concerned. I put myself in his shoes, validated his feelings and got my act together. It was the mature and healthy way to handle the situation. I agree that I don't seem to be the status quo, so I don't really blame you for getting on the defense. I did the same.
He is inconsiderate of the loneliness she feels. She is going through what a lot of women go through when the man is playing with friends and excludes her. I had that happen, and I threw a stupid fit because I was so hurt. It didn't help me acting immaturely. I can't undo history, I can make new friends and forget him.
I'm reading some of these comments and it seems that a lot of women in the comments have been hurt and are so suspicious and negative. Glass half full people.
You dont have the time..... but you have the time to hang with your friends. Dont sound like he think he needs to engage with his woman because he already got her. Why arent you taking care of your life but taking care of fun. Shes not fun cause shes pregnant and has a high risk pregnancy.
I got a sense of something off with him and wasn't sure if I was being paranoid because I couldn't put my finger all the way on it. I sure hope this isn't the case. Nothing can come out of that but a miserable marriage, infidelity or divorce.
Like Steve Harvey says, "If he's still looking, he hasn't found the ONE YET" and YES even while he's married and/or in a relationship... you call that an unhappily married man or single man (If he's unmarried yet in a relationship) and imma take it even further... here's how ya know how: #1cheating #2 immaturity #3 still has women friends and last but not least HE AINT HAPPY every little thing ya do... irks his nerves even when things are going good and right. But when a man is happily committed... there's no other woman nor women PERIOD he seeks to find... he's happily married, stable, secure, giving, selfless, loving, faithful, and loyal just to name a few or if he's not married yet happy within his relationship with the ONE for him. #truthhurts It's a shame he got her pregnant before he knew he was for sure.
I think in a relationship one should make sure that the other feels more that what one is giving not what they're doing for the others but with and for the significant other.
... ppl lie for no reason ... If someone says something that is true and factual they simply just state it .... because it is the truth . With that being said they don’t have $1,000 for that baby lol they have no savings if they are living check to check “barely making monthly payments. “ I cringed hard as hell , straight up lie . Hopefully they got it together ...
Girl he was just a lying when he got there. Judge couldn't look past his cuteness... he is far from physically attractive and handsome. It's them cute ones you have to watch out for too.
He's living like he's still single but the wife give up her job and independence for him and the baby. She's probably so depressed by being stuck in the house all day by herself with nothing to occupy her mind.
Judge Toler need to have another show like this! She's easily the best judge on tv ever!
I LOOOVE Judge Toler. She is the best judge. People swear Judge Judy is the best but I never liked her.
@@sophiaandre139 judge Judy is honestly just a judgey old bitty who needs someone to put her in her place
Man this is what I love about Judge Toler. She's real and is like a mother figure and she's genuinely concerned. This is what I'm gonna miss when she leaves
She's leaving?
@@Sey-KonePopIce yes, Judge Faith is replacing her.
You can always tell a good couple by the way they leave the courtroom. The husband generally steps out first and holds the gate open for his wife. They are a lovely couple.
Good observation Ruthlyn, I agree!
Ruthlyn Aaron yep I always look at that. When the women rushes out of there and the guy lags behind lol you know it’s not working out.
@ ....says the man who refers to strangers as "bitch"... Sure, I'll take *your* works for that...🙄
@ qu6r
Looks can be deceiving.
He said he works 9-10 hours and doesnt have time for her but earlier he said he goes out with his friends 4,3,2,1 times a week. Your wife comes before your life
Hell no.
Exactly! I thought the same thing, not that she should become his life, but that if he's making time to go out with his friends 1234 times a week, why he can't take his wife out just as much, ya know.
For sure! My partner works 10 hour days and always makes time for me. He sees his friends as well, and I encourage this, but if I need him, he's there
But clearly they don’t have any common things to do together. If she started playing video games, they could play together or she could have a hobby of her own so she can preoccupy her time. He likes to lay up and play video games, she likes to lay up and watch shows, they can do both. But no, god forbid a woman take a step towards compromise with her man, let’s just tell him the onus is on him.
@@risharddaniels1762 Right go have fun with him play game with him. And Make another account to save and get that second car back. They should Work together
They shouldn't divorce their problems are fixable.... they're good together
right
Nothing a little consulting can't fix. She more mature than he is.
Yeah
When I got married my wife became my friend 22yrs later she still my best friend
Love it!! You don't hear those kinda stories about marriage anymore. It's inspiring.
That’s nice
That's the way it's meant to be . 💕
I like that!
That's amazing
This was such a pleasant episode. I hope they stay together and work it out 💜
Ayannah Tolliver yeah it was a good episode
Same thing they say bout us hope we stay together
The judge will fix this
A tad trivial though...sorry I had to.
I love this couple! No cussing & fussing or crazy drama just normal relationship issues.
i never understood how guys get a great woman and prefer to spend more time with they friends🤷🏽♂️
friends cant do what your woman can
@Joyful n Blessed playing video games
@Joyful n Blessed they having sexual relations 😂
Don’t get me wrong, i love my girlfriend but women are worriers and it can be testing having somebody worry about you all the time when you’re a fully sufficient man. My homeboys aren’t going to bug me about this, that and the other, we just tryna smoke, drank and play some damn video games! Clearly a large amount of women can’t or won’t do those same things with their man, which is why so many struggle to keep them. Just cause a woman have a vagina doesn’t mean that’s all we want outta life.
Men an women are different, 100% different that’s why do not understand why! And I think the big issue occur when people try to compare men to women. We are really completely different, different way of thinking, different ways of doing things
@@emmanuelnkiriyumwami1225 u speak the obvious old wise one
She is pretty
Her voice can cure diabetes too.
She has some nice tiddays
@@itsallgoodz1 , she is married man, look up.
@@itsallgoodz1 down bad
A tad trivial though...sorry I had to.
I can't even get a date. But, I like the idea of marriage and I watch for advice in case a miracle happens and I get married.
Same here... And I give some of this advice to my friends
Our day will come! ❤
Why can’t you get dates?
@@voskiwoskipeeskiweesi4625 I don't know. Your guess is as good as mine.
No, you know why
Just an observation: Why can’t his friends ever come to their house? Why does he always have to go out?
Cuz he doesn't have a house. They live with his mom
@@ebbyf294 they live in his moms old house
Cause his friends are more than his friends.
@@ebbyf294 they live in his mom old house never said mom lived there
He's out side courting with his friends..
Nice balanced episode! They each had things they needed to work on. I hope their relationship lasts.
true, but i feel he needs to grow up. u got a pregnant wife at home alone on yal first pregnancy and u already know she a lil insecure. everyone diff & i wud rather spend all my free time wit my woman she can do for me wut men friends cant but if u jus gotta b wit yo boys split it 60 wit wife/girlfriend and 40 wit homies
Judge Toler grows my vocabulary. "Encumbered" I love her =)
Those men saying “I work all day, 9,10 hours” behave like thats ALL they need to do. I work 11 hours a day and take care of many other things. Thats lame. Pick up your dirty clothes after yourselves. Nobody wants to touch that.
And he kept saying “we dont have time” but could go out and spend money/time with his dudes 4 times a week? He’s not mature enough for marriage and shes clingy coz she’s too dependent on him.
He didn't want a wife he wanted a maid, so he can hang with his friends and do as he please. She worked.
She is on maternity leave because her condition is high risk. Where is his support for her, why is it all about him?
And no boo she's not dependent she's a wife wtf.. she's looking for her husband to spend time with her
She’s a good woman and he seems like a good guy. She’s just more mature than him so he needs to work on that
He is acting like he is still single goes to work with her car and doesn't come home until 2 or 3 am in the morning. His wife is having a difficult pregnancy and he is not interested in her or her health if he dosen't change she should leave him. His so called friends are more important than his wife ??? He should stop spending money so freely they only have one income now he needs to give more time to his wife something could happen and he is out with his friends his place is at home.
typical woman answer yall are so damn lost you are at home every day granted she is pregnant yet all you self entitled females still think you don't have to do nothing but lay there and do nothing this is the problem in all relationships
Zelisa Coss but who wants to be with a woman who bitches and insecure and nags and brings that in the marriage she’s not mature she needs to work on herself
Absolutely?
Exactly, when both of them are put on a balancing scale he is found more wanting than her. He must be a man enough. A pregnant women needs even more attention, more love physically and emotionally so that she stays stable minded , secured and happy. I hate these grown arse man for being so inundated in video games like fucking teenagers and not taking care of man's business. He can fix all of his weaknesses , they are not unfixable weaknesses unless he is and idiot. He doesn't look like an idiot though, it's just that he doesn't know how to take care of a woman particularly a pregnant woman with a complicated pregnancy for that matter.
One thing I have learned if I haven’t learned anything else is to NEVER EVER EVER take relationship advice form my mother, grandmother or any woman in my family. They are all extremely wounded from their past and can and do ONLY speak from that stand point.
I lost a whole (workable) marriage behind them and my mom who was literally NEVER there for me my entire life (in prison or in the streets) came to pick me up and helped me end my marriage. I look back on it now and I realize that likely brought her great joy. To make sure I’d have to be single and struggling just like she was single and was never happy in a marriage.
Mind you, I don't know you, your mother, or your relationship; but if as you said she was coming from a place of pain and woundedness, could her taking joy in helping you to end your marriage have been because she thought that she was helping you out by protecting you from pain that she experienced?
She needs your attention as your wife stop giving it to other...he needs to grow up.
Wrong
He takes his sweet wife for granted. He should want to be rushing home to see his beautiful, sweet wife and want to spend time with her. When you marry, you're supposed to die to self. He's selfish. I can understand where she's coming from. I hope he wakes up before it's too late. I wish them all the best.
The guy is less concerned about his wife's social and mental wellbeing.
They resemble one another!! Like siblings alomost.! Thier baby will look like both of them mixed together. Great looking couple, I pray they make it though.
Omg i just thought that and then saw your comment. That’s scary
I can't believe Judge Lynn is coming off the bench of Divorce Court, pray she is stepping into the executive/producing decisions and future of the show
If not, happy retirement and we learnt a lot, good worthy valuable advice on what not to do, especially as a woman and not to allow
We love you Judge
I hate to hear that! Love her words of wisdom! Hope she continues to share on youtube!
@J Peavy yeah, some of these couples that come on is enough to make you want to retire. Just a mess :(
It might not be the couples. It’s the behind the scenes BS
I just adore her. I was just sitting here thinking she would be great as a talk show host on tv or some sort of panel kind of show. We still need her!
And there will never be another divorce court Judge like Judge Lynn at all. But I do think A african american male Judge with wisdom would be good to watch.
Once they get the wife they often forget how hard they've worked to get her just to say I do, what they do not know is that you have to work even harder to keep her next to you and also happy, a happy wife is a happy life😉
I say happy spouse, happy house. 😊
Just because the wife is happy does not mean the man is happy. I hate that phrase foreal. There's a lot of men out here trying to keep wives happy just to be miserable themselves. Its not the mans job to make you happy its your job to be happy and become happy together.
@@deonteathens1043 I feel where you're coming from but I can tell that you don't fully know the meaning behind "Happy wife, happy life" bruh lol ~ it's an old school phrase that symbolizes a transcendence of equal happiness for both if you're willing to put emotional immaturity & pride aside to ennsure that your wife is happy
which will in turn work in your favor as she will work feverishly to keep you happy in return bruh
😎
@@TT-th1gb I know what the saying is, and I know the meaning behind it "BRUH" lol. My point was, not every female is that or for better words, deserving of the "happy wife happy life" phrase. As in some women will never be happy, and or will drain you of your happiness for her happiness, in turn leaving the man "ie: you or me to not be happy. So my point still stands even after you're weak rebuttle on trying to school me, "BRUH".
@@Anonymous-ie5sf your wrong my dear I'm married not happily but married 😉
Awww she's pregnant and love him...so she will have mood swings common dude take it more easy on her
I work 10-12 hours a day and that’s all I’m doing. After all I’m an OTR truck 😅😅😂🤣🤣🤣
"While I continue to ask your wife what's wrong with you." Judge Lynn is savage.
Sometimes we subconsciously feel like our friendships are fleeting as our responsibilities evolve. Taking care of ur family (in all ways) has to be the #1 priority, ALWAYS. I think they’ll be just fine.
Tacarra M yeah but you still need to keep your friends close what if the marriage don’t work
I hope they stay together
Why does he still have that messege in your box. Erase all that stuff, if it's over its over!
That's what was throwing me off. And had me thinking he's lying. What sane reasonable man or woman keeps OLD messages in their phone? Besides history of experience has taught me that once a man ends the relationship or if his ex woman does... they delete you out their phones so fast... he is definitely lying. Those are recent messages from current affairs. She's just vulnerable, emotional, and pregnant that's why she's kind of sort of believing his lies.
That's the only thing that left me confused. I wonder if it was on an app he doesn't use or something. I would hate to find out he was unfaithful.
She is bored and lonely and he is just living life in his neighbourhood, amongst his friends - and not involving her. He needs to find ways to take her out and help her to find a friend circle.
He needs to sit his married behind down, grow the f up, make his wife his number one priority and best friend! Simple as that!
Whenever you said yes l do, you have to make some adjustment.
She's so pretty. They really do make a lovely couple. I hope they work things out. #praying for you both
This is definitely fixable! Judge got her down to a T. She's scared. He's just gotta make her feel more secure and she won't be hovering over him all the time. That baby boy is going to be so cute!
When the child comes things will get better. She will be more busy and he will be at home more cause he will be broke.
😂😂😂😂
Lol 🤣
😂😂😂
lol
🤣🤣🤣
My favourite couple on this show so far. Both are cool & mature. His wife is so beautiful, and to top it off; she has the sort of voice that cures diabetes!
Aww she sounds like a good woman. He better straighten up! We few out here 😄
Work it out!! Family is always first! That’s your wife and baby mama
At the end of the day, the judge loves them both. This matter is adjourned. It is so ordered!
Such an adorable couple, Judge gave some great advice to them both. They do not have a marital problem, more like a growing up issue on his part, charming couple.
Judge summed it up so well in so few words.
I love them so much, wishes them all the best together.
They both need to grow up
You will prosper. You will come out stronger than before and those that mocked you will do it no more
I receive that my brother!
Judge Tolar hits the nail on the head every single time. Her analogies are always spot on.
My wife said she was going to get pregnant again b/c of how I treated her when she was pregnant.
So the good treatment stops after she is no longer pregnant???!
"Mister Aims to Please", handle says it all.
@@beatriceroberts8428 right if that’s the case I feel bad for his wife
It was refreshing to watch this couple's issues, they are both good ones, just some small nick-nacks between the two that can be repaired and improved on with some attention and more awareness. They both seemed to love each other and are actually married which is what Divorce Court was originally supposed to be about. I hope those two worked it out. #blacklove.
It is a relationship that is well founded with real feelings between lovers so the problem of insecurity can be overcome good luck
Why won't she go through your phone when you're always away. And the anger is because she couldn't find something 😂😂😂
Big facts 🤣😂
I agree this couple is so beautiful!
Lovely Couple
Judge was great with her love and compassion
I wish them longevity as a couple
Together Forever
Love it
Love it
Love it✌️💐
I love judge tola she had taught me a lot I'm a Divorcee You taught me about love respect and understanding And anger solves nothing Keep up the good work judge
All my gosh I love this judge she's the real thing. I wish and pray that she comes back or make a new show. Please come back. May God bless you always 🙏 ❤️
Beautiful couple. I think they really do love each other and can work things out. I hope they’re okay.
No human being can give another human being complete (100%] and unalloyed happiness
Agreed. No one is responsible for your happiness. The sentiment "you make me happy" is naive. People are responsible for their emotional well-being.
true. it is our expectation of happiness from the other human being and when that doesn't happen, that causes misery. so no expectations no misery.
It’s not about that, it’s about love and respect for your wife! I guarantee his homeboys are single! Guarantee it!!!!
I love how there wasn't no ear rape type screaming, taking over each other, this episode just seems to calm.
Their problems are fixable. They both need to sit down and talk about what they expect out of this marriage. Until they come to an understanding
Girl put on you confidence dress and fight for your marriage. Judge I love you you are full of wisdom
Brilliant advice judge ! God bless this beautiful couple.
This poor pregnant woman is going through what i am going through
Some men don’t want to grow up but want to have a family’s while they remain teenage lifestyles
She's seems to be naturally beautiful
She is very pretty. Her pregnancy glow is everything
She plain, but lovely.
Girls! buy your man his games and hooked him up online with his friends so he is playing at home, then you can do your things next to him and spend that time together. Relationships doesn't mean you have to always doing the same things. I've been helping my husband on Need for Speed or Assassin Creed (and many more) for the past 14 years we have been married and we are still happy together. P.s. when I don't help him, I read or do my crafting or playing my own game on my own device....of course, right next to him.
Beautiful couple. Brand new to this. I hope they're still together and strong 🥰
She is a strong woman I tell ya
How can he go out every day and dsnt come back until after midnight he is acting as if he is a teenager and she has no right to put alert on his card he should be responsible enough to look after his finance
Love Judge Lynn. This information can save a marriage.
They are thee most adorable people ever.
First comes love
Then comes marriage
THEN...comes momma
With the BABY carriage...!
Kudos...work this out
PEACE
This couple represents us. Power couple
Joe, we see you again from this classic replay
THey will be fine. All these little things are very fixable. Good Luck Guys, you all can have a happy Life!!
He needs to be home more
All of their issues seem workable and I haven’t thought that in a long ass time.
I like this couple. Smart and they obviously really love one another.
Bills are tight and he’s buying rounds of drinks with his friends. Smh
Right!!!! Rounds of drinks for the homies and nothing in savings for the baby! Smdh
You need to grow up you going to have a baby leave those friends alone
She just needs friends, I was homey and needy until I got a BFF.
GOOOOOODDDD WOMAN ,
I love this judge. That advice is for me.
wife’s name sounds like a tv show contest it’s so cute! this one was pleasant :)
Great advice from the JUDGE
Just a sound advice for men (in fact everyone), that smug look this man has on his face throughout the episode, it's not attractive at all. There is a difference between confidence and smugness.
Oh no, if I buy something and my girlfriend puts an alert on the account then calls me right after a purchase; we got to have a talk! I’m a grown ass man
When things are tight a brother can appreciate being watched over, think about what happened to MC Hammer.
kib coren It was MC Hammers job to be a man and know how manage his money instead of fancy cars and parachute pants. Men take responsibility not look for a woman to micro manage them
@@JazzyJeffRealTalk While I agree that her current fear is causing her to hover and make him feel suffocated, this is their JOINT account. Their money is intertwined. She has a right to peace of mind when it comes to money that is hers as well. She just needs to step back a bit, communicate with him when they're both calm, and let him take responsibility as a grown man for his financial decisions.
Naturalista Nas I hear you and you make good points, but I bet you if she bought any thing materialistic and he called and did the same thing to her, she would call him controlling. I’m just saying flip the script and ask yourself how would a woman react to her man putting alerts on accounts and calling after every purchase?
@@JazzyJeffRealTalk If she's being fiscally irresponsible, she only has so much right to be upset. She better woman up and get it together so he doesn't have to worry she'll spend them broke. I had a short period where I suffered an injury and fell into emotional eating from depression. I was spending too much on food and my boyfriend was concerned. I put myself in his shoes, validated his feelings and got my act together. It was the mature and healthy way to handle the situation. I agree that I don't seem to be the status quo, so I don't really blame you for getting on the defense. I did the same.
Judge Toler is sooo pretty 😍
The advice was so touching.. Thank you
He is inconsiderate of the loneliness she feels. She is going through what a lot
of women go through when the man is playing with friends and excludes her.
I had that happen, and I threw a stupid fit because I was so hurt. It didn't help
me acting immaturely. I can't undo history, I can make new friends and forget him.
Why she sounds like she's gonna cry at any second...🤔
Just a bit nervous
Because she’s hurting! He did a complete 180 on her after he got her knocked up! If you want to act like you’re single don’t get married!
I like this judge she pretty much lays it out how it really is.
I'm reading some of these comments and it seems that a lot of women in the comments have been hurt and are so suspicious and negative. Glass half full people.
Now she’s cute, slim and has herself nicely put together and I believe that’s her natural hair ❤️
You dont have the time..... but you have the time to hang with your friends. Dont sound like he think he needs to engage with his woman because he already got her. Why arent you taking care of your life but taking care of fun. Shes not fun cause shes pregnant and has a high risk pregnancy.
He's not into her. He's saying it in so many ways.
Thank you! He is so over her. 👏🏾
I got a sense of something off with him and wasn't sure if I was being paranoid because I couldn't put my finger all the way on it. I sure hope this isn't the case. Nothing can come out of that but a miserable marriage, infidelity or divorce.
Like Steve Harvey says, "If he's still looking, he hasn't found the ONE YET" and YES even while he's married and/or in a relationship... you call that an unhappily married man or single man (If he's unmarried yet in a relationship) and imma take it even further... here's how ya know how: #1cheating #2 immaturity #3 still has women friends and last but not least HE AINT HAPPY every little thing ya do... irks his nerves even when things are going good and right. But when a man is happily committed... there's no other woman nor women PERIOD he seeks to find... he's happily married, stable, secure, giving, selfless, loving, faithful, and loyal just to name a few or if he's not married yet happy within his relationship with the ONE for him. #truthhurts
It's a shame he got her pregnant before he knew he was for sure.
What the hell did that PARAGRAPH have to do with the case?
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What are you talking about??? Yall need to stop listening to Steve. He is a habitual cheater and liar
I think in a relationship one should make sure that the other feels more that what one is giving not what they're doing for the others but with and for the significant other.
15:57 I'm dead that voice ahhahahahaha
Judge Lynn Toler is such a superhero 💖💖💖
Never give any body your mates time.
Judge was preeeacchhing today! ❤️
Her momma wrong as hell for naming that child TRIVIA. She is sweet though and beautiful
Absolutely cute together🥰
There is married life and single life …. He’s going to have to choose…. Don’t mess your marriage up because of influence of so called friends.
... ppl lie for no reason ...
If someone says something that is true and factual they simply just state it .... because it is the truth . With that being said they don’t have $1,000 for that baby lol they have no savings if they are living check to check “barely making monthly payments. “ I cringed hard as hell , straight up lie . Hopefully they got it together ...
Girl he was just a lying when he got there. Judge couldn't look past his cuteness... he is far from physically attractive and handsome. It's them cute ones you have to watch out for too.
He's living like he's still single but the wife give up her job and independence for him and the baby. She's probably so depressed by being stuck in the house all day by herself with nothing to occupy her mind.