These 10 Words From The INFJ Will Destroy Narcissists
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- These 10 Words From The INFJ Will Destroy Narcissists. Have you ever dealt with someone who calls you several times at night, not knowing what boundaries are? Have you met someone who always tells you you’re “too serious” or “too sensitive” whenever you react to their offensive jokes? If yes, you surely are dealing with a narcissist- and as a peace-loving person, you should dismiss these trouble-makers immediately. So, what words should you tell these parasites to drive them away?
As soon as you tell these phrases to the narcissist, they will immediately victimize themselves, play the "poor me" game, and engage in smear campaigns about you. But these attempts are all pathetic and cheap, and as an INFJ, the last thing you could do is stoop down in their level. Have you tried saying these phrases to a narcissist? How did they react?
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00:35 10 “I know what you're trying to do there.”
01:37 09 "I'm busy."
02:23 08 "I can see your efforts, but it’s not working.”
03:27 07 "I don't remember."
04:28 06 "You're a joke."
05:12 05 “It's your fault anyway."
06:06 04 "That's all you can do?"
06:59 03 "Why would I believe you?"
07:51 02 "I don't care."
08:43 01 "Goodbye"
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00:00 INTRO
00:35 10 “I know what you're trying to do there.”
01:37 09 "I'm busy."
02:23 08 "I can see your efforts, but it’s not working.”
03:27 07 "I don't remember."
04:28 06 "You're a joke."
05:12 05 “It's your fault anyway."
06:06 04 "That's all you can do?"
06:59 03 "Why would I believe you?"
07:51 02 "I don't care."
08:43 01 "Goodbye"
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I think I might like commenting a little too much😅
It's always the liars.
Dear lord ....! I use almost all these words spontaneously, when I sense that a person is a narcissist......
“Have You Ever Provoked Narcissists By Belittling Their Manipulative Efforts?”
ABSOLUTELY!!! 😈😎
I'm so honored to be in the INFJ introvert personality. Introverts in general are the most awesome people on earth that will most likely be one of the few, if not the last one standing in your corner if your kingdom of life happens to come crashing down. INFJ's we just have this special aura about ourselves that makes it almost effortless to pick up on people's evil intentions, body language, and anything negative that your typical extroverted person will have to learn the hard way.
Words will never destroy a narcissist, they fabricate their own reality. Stay silent and don't play. Walk away while they are talking and never look back. If they slip a message threw, never respond.
And they have other people sons amd daughters to play with like the nutsman son, and if you dead you in your 40 old.prostitures Infj and or invell they can wait another 26 years at least they will have a young family incel ,
You spoke the whole entire truth!! They don’t even hear what you say anyway!
Now this is good advice. Anything else, is just giving them the attention they crave.
That's somewhat true. My ex is a narc. Myself and 3 other ex's banned together and exposed him. He told me out of all the relationships he had he has never had someone expose so much of how he is to himself. Doesn't mean he will change but I picked all of his behaviors apart and explained in great detail that he needed help, but that it wouldn't be me...I left. But I have no doubt that it made an impact on him.
@@Unassuming_usernamer They won't change, ever. I've picked them apart in public in the middle of a restaurant. They reason within their own minds, make excuses ... you will not win
" Nice try. Next time, do better"
Best way to drive them crazy -- silence-- then give them that indifferent look with a smirk then leave. 😅😅 translation: " You're not even worth an ounce of energy"
Yup, they going nuts with my smirk.
Yes, I've done that too.
It comes out naturally when you are fed up
My ex was a mad Narcissist and I said and did everything called out in this video and Gave her the final goodbye within 6 months of the relationship , I was feeling a bit guilty (As we always do) for giving her doorslam but No more! After watching this video, I can say 'I've completely moved on' 😊
6 moths is good enough time, some think that as INFJ should be giving more time and more opportunities, but we also know what we are willing to accept and keep or what we are ready to let go. A narcissistic personality can go out of my life, and I will never feel regret saying goodbye, I understand the feelings of guilt, because that's what the narcissist wants you to feel, they want you to feel sorry for them, for their pain and for their misfortune.
Good 4 u 👍 and Good luck in your new life without narcissism
Nice. My dad is narc im INFJ...40+ years of the same games. Not easy...he knows I know!
I’m an adult male in my late 20s that recently learned more about being an INFJ. My older brother has since childhood been a manipulator, and I recently learned that he is a narcissist. This Christmas Eve I finally stood up for myself watched him crumble into excuses blaming everyone else for all his problems. Finally, I don’t have to feel guilty about not meeting the emotional needs of someone who doesn’t offer me the respect I deserve.
I wouldn't say it's a "right" for an INFJ to act a certain way, we don't use our personality as a right to do anything. We do it because we aren't held down by laws. We are free spirits, therefore we can do anything. There is nobody that can regulate us except God. If we are cornered, we do what nobody expects a human would do. We make our own rules. Though peace is preferred, if peace cannot be attained then we have no problem defending ourselves in the most efficient way. Either that or completely disconnect from emotions and not engage. In fact, the main reason narcissists have no power over us is because we can shutoff our emotions and not react, since narcissists like to play with others emotions.
Oh yeah!!!!
I quite like the fact that I’m an INFJ! I’d *think* if any of the 16 personalities could choose their desired personality, why wouldn’t the INFJ be the winner, every time?!
(Little do the other personalities know the difficulties we’ve endured…but it’s well worth it, to be where we are now. And where we’re headed!) Now that I know what I am, I’ve accepted and been amused in learning more. FINALLY, it all makes sense.
Which god, lol. Dictating anything by such god is spiritual abuse.
I have tested an infj but according to this video im a false one or broken😊 or an infj is being overestimated in a way😊
Yeah, that made me cringe. Everything about infj is cringe now, because it's the target for being special and rare, but it's just getting weird. The content I find on this is laughable. I feel like a cartoon character.
Cut communication with a toxic narcissist immediately and let them know that you will not engage in any other communication but email because that keeps a legal record in case you might need it in the future, and they know.
"For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction."
Thank you so much! Dealing w a narc is challenging and dangerous just get space between you as soon as possible.
I don't use lines or words. I use logic and call out their manipulation tactics. I find their tactics entertaining and encourage them to try harder
Or” get some help” that burns them up!!!!
I'd often tell my narc friend, "I don't believe you!" or "I didn't do a thing!" Or maybe even sometimes, "You just want attention!"
With "I don't care" i destroyed a narcissist.
#11 “I’m not afraid of you!”
Number twelve you can't tell me what I can and can't do!
Never want to destroy anyone. But definitely want to not be bothered.....especially by negativity. I can definitely get some peace.....quickly. 🤣
My mom is a covert narcissist and my sister plus half brother is also but there are different type of narcissist.
And I grew up by a mom with no dad and I've finally found out what there are and I was like Damnn..
I got rid of a narcissist "friend" of 40 years last year & I haven't regretted a moment of it nor missed her. What a waste of skin she is.
Just be honest with yourself.. That always gets them!!!! But they won't🤷
And when the person also is sociopath, it is amazing package you can imagine how much pain the ass this
My mother matched each one
Yep, just had a narcissist in my life. I could see through everything they were doing by staying calm and analyzing. I kept giving them hints and keeping my distance. I really wanted to help and be supportive and I keep ruminating about what could've been.
Omg now I know for a fact this is my true personality trait heads down!! !!! I hosted my last ex Malignant Narcissist funeral!! I told him that, I didn’t even like him anymore and I became extremely COLD 🥶!! He died!! He was completely taken back, seriously!! He NEVER seen this side of me coming, but I had warned him early on that, If a person cross me, I will shut them out of my life forever with no hesitation!! Buttttt, he shouldn’t have never taken me for granted in the first place, so that’s what he get!!
One time I had a problem cashing a check from work something was wrong with the numbers being to close to the bottom of the paper to be scanned or something. Definitely not my fault. So I took it back to my boss and was like you need to fix this and he replied I gave you the check it's out of my hands even with the error on the paper. So I said no! You didn't give me a check, you gave me a piece of paper with my name on it and some numbers, if it was a check I would have been able to cash it and we wouldn't be talking right now.
1-It’s not all about you.
2-You are your own person, you did it to yourself.
3-Why would you desire to live my life if you’re not going to die my death?
People that think they deserve and are entitled. Trying to blame me for their mistakes and trying to control me or manipulate me have heard those words from me.
These are very GOOD and perfectly expressed feelings I've had but wasn't able to verbalize! Thank u so much for sharing! Have you always been able to set boundaries like this? I'm so impressed! I give u the wow....somebody impressed me award (just joking....sort of LOL)...thanks for sharing. Love it!
@@jodisherland5335 Hi! You made me laugh, thanks! I can say since childhood I had been considered rebellious by older people, but I have not done anything that goes against moral principles and the guidance of my God. I haven't always been able to verbalize these words exactly the way I write them. But my actions and attitude can tell them for me. Sometimes my silence and expressions say more than my speech.
@@DeyaIV LOL I'm happy I could make u laugh. I believe what your saying your comment said nothing offensive at all however there is an aura that I felt from it that says 'don't F wit me! I'm NOT playing' I can sense your a person with a very strong internal strength. I'm typically better at writing however in the last 8 years of my end of Mayan Calender life I'm becoming very good at oral delivery as well. Anything I can't fix in my head I will take to my pulpit because in order for me to have any decent existence on this planet I'm gonna have a few demands regarding what appear to me as violations of basic human rights and I can go on and on so I know that we as the children of a. Creator have a responsibility to ensure our home is livable for all. I can see you are a part of this movement already :)
@@jodisherland5335 I guess I have that aura hidden inside of me, but not everyone see me like that. Sometimes people think I am funny, I guess I should't speak my mind to everyone that isn't ready to listen what I have to say. It's interesting you mention the Mayan Calendar, I am part Mayan form my father side, he used to tell stories about his ancestors, I studied a little about ancient civilizations while I was going to school in Mexico. Since childhood I used to tell everyone that touched the subject on the Mayan Calendar: I believe the Mayan priest that was in charge of writing the calendar couldn't fit more years in the circle (I know there must be a better explanation, but at that time I did not believe the Mayans wanted to predict catastrophe)... they laugh, they thought I was joking, but archeologists discovered that the mayans didn't predict apocalypse with their calendar, and I felt so happy to hear that. It is good to enjoy life as if an apocalypse is about to come tomorrow, and learn from every circumstances as if you are going to live forever.
@@DeyaIV my dad's gramma was full Havasupai so we must know 3achother from that time. I just found out my dad is 33 percent and looked up our tribe and it was pretty interesting....I am pretty sure that they were allies of the Mayans. I don't recall for sure but that would explain why I brought them up lol!
I'm sure u are funny as well intelligent with a.strong aura! Cuz ur ancestors are coming back probably which means to will be a maybe @ anatives came to me at the begining of my journey and for awhile I couldn't look at anything without seeing native American faces carved into everything....they also seemed quite angry and I got the sense they were coming to help. It was scary at the time and some parts still are....like as far as living forever....one of the first things they revealed. I fell apart so badly....I was an aethiest at the time and I had to put my beliefs to the side so I could throw the biggest longest fit over having the death card removed from my deck....I'm not even sl
Mypset though thank
WOW!!🤯🎯🎯🎯 spot on this is clarity for sure
Mirroring has recently helped me a ton!
Can you elaborate?
I Just chill and see what they are doing and don't care about anything they say, I have been lately dealing with many narcissits but I learned how to play better i just make them think i am falling for their games but deeply inside i know their reality and then when i had enough I slap them off by one of these 10 phrases but not a goodbye cuz i know they can;t live without me.
love you for this. Truely. Empowering us with knowledge.
If we use such sentences for them
We're the ones whos being portrayed as a narc, it'll be easier for them to call us out for this
Let's not use these sentences unless we're to slam the door for them for ever
Luck y'all
I just had my heart ripped out by a narcissist. I knew deep down in my gut, but my logic said I had no proof. However, retrospectively, there were many red flags I could've used as evidence if I chose to. I wanted to believe in the good in him, and there was nothing that would've stopped me from forgiving all the " little flaws".
Single for life it is. 😌
please do NOT DO any of these if they are highly on the scale of narcissism, physically abusive or could be or you suspect they could becoming dangerous. its better to carefully and secretelly plan your exit, if need be to a shelter etc. and perhaps with help of well trusted friends, and proffesionals as well as Authorities. Do NOT PUT yourself or girlfriend(s) in Danger. its better to be allive and well and away from them then "winning the Right Fight".
Awesome and informative. Thanks.
I do these things unconsciously, it's great!!😇🙃
I was just dating a narcissist but my overall purpose after I acknowledged it was a parasitic relationship (which I mentioned subliminally) was to understand more. Idk. Yes I ended up hurt in the end (not broken tho) but the mind of a maniac is very intriguing. I basically drug it on until I started to realized I need to get back to work. So I let it fall apart as it should’ve anyway. I jus wanted to see where it’d be going or how long they planned on playing such a ridiculous game. In which I’m not even really playing. Kinda jus watching as I let this 3D body roam obliviously. Just as I started wanting to play back and start giving them a taste of their own shii, they ran. 😞😒selfish. How you can play me but not allow me to play back? Weak. Gutless. Sad. Overall it was a very challenging experience and worthy to say less. Not something I’m looking to try again but it’ll be fun to see what I’m able to do with my newly accommodated knowledge. #infj #tothemoon
100 % correct I just made mine leave my house a week ago after her living with me for 7 years. Cant believe how Evil she looks already to me and that's after a week lol
Im proud of you brother!!! so was I used the similar strategies towards my ex who was a narcissist. I was hurt during the process.
He tried to convince me I said something which I never agreed nor said anything about agreements. This dumbass keep saying "I have said after 6 months if we see each other in real life we will see how it goes". I was pissed!!! when I heard something I never said. I stood on my ground and confronted him that don't play this game with me.
He was lucky we were in a long distance relationship. Other wise, I will smack the shit out of him or in the other way around :)
All true.
Great video. Thank you for sharing. 🙏
Thank you always
10. I have much more subtle methods to deal with narcissists. One is that I let them believe that they are successful and then pull the rug out from under them. Their fall is much more complete. They are ever after doubtful of their abilities, if they survive thoughts of suicide. Yes, I know that this seems cruel. It is, on their part.
8. Yes. That is elementary.
7. No, I don't do this. That is lying. I'll go the opposite way. I tell them all the things I remember that they wanted me to forget. Then it's their turn. They always deny. Then I say, 'Well then, you are not as smart as you think that you are. Or else you are just a liar.' Either way I told the truth. NO ONE CAN GET ME TO LIE!
6. Yes. But instead of saying it I illustrate it but laughing and laughing until they just go away. I know that they'll be back. But not so cocky next time. Eventually they get tired of busting their heads on my granite wall.
5. I don't tell them it's their fault. I prove it.
4. Not usually. What I do is to give my third option. Which is to do things the right way in spite of their efforts to control me. I am master of my own self. Belittling them just makes them angry and they redouble their sick game.
3. Asking narcissists questions like that only opens the door to them more. The 'I don't believe you' statement is much more effective. Although they will try to use that against you, it can be turned back against them again. 'It's my right to believe it or not!' Then all that they can say to that is something like, 'Fine! BE stupid then!' They get a belly laugh from me for that. That ends that.
2. I say, 'So? Don't expect me to be impressed. I'm too occupied minding my own business.' I get a lot of derision from them after this, but that only gives me more material for humorous remarks at their expense.
1. I make them say goodbye to me. If every attempt they make is thwarted and they get nothing that they want from me, but only my rock-solid integrity they are quick to move on.
Thank you again.
God bless everyone.
Hi, i do so enjoy your videos, i have a topic i would like a video on if there isn't one already, I have an INFJ man who has been in abusive and mentally exhausting relationship and i don't understand why he won't leave, children are involved but being an INFJ myself, i still don't understand why he won't leave because i find it so exhausting and makes no sense that he has been in the relationship for over 10 years with absolutely no sign of things changing. Keep up the great work you all get me 100% with every video I've watched!
I told a narcissistic woman who was demanding my attention that I decided that I will block her from my phone and WhatsApp. I did so in a phone call while keeping track of time (the call lasted five minutes), this way it was much easier to end the conversation without unnecessary drama and tantrums from her. I told her "I don't want to talk to you anymore because I don't care about you. This is our last conversation because I will block you from my phone". She was left speechless for a while, and after beating around the bush and basically saying "We must keep talking because we used to talk", I interrupted her, said "goodbye" and ended the call. For good. It's been one year and a half ever since and I couldn't be happier. I shouldn't say this but I enjoyed this door-slam because I know it was well-deserved (Initially I felt bad for feeling this way).
I'm sorry to hear that. Let's break this down and find the truth here. You'll see their whole face 😂 turn beat red. They hate 😡 logic or truth.
Surrounded by narcissistic ppl…overcame survived🥳
An ISTJ won't let a narcissist get close enough to them to even have an interaction. Eventually it will all blow up in one big boom.
Not sure of this is true for all women, but I remember everything you say. I can tell you where you were standing, what you were wearing etc.The narcissist gets mad and denies ever having said that. Not sure what I can do when it was important for me.
Here's a good one: "Who do you think your fooling?"
My 2nd wife was one . she cheated on me for 9 yrs to long,(my bad) b4 and after marrige. as i was walking out the door, she said u dont have to leave...me; u gonna stop cheating...her; no.. me; goodluck!... after i left her i found out she slept with my son...now its been 21 yrs since i left her and haven't dated since then, but this loneliness is destroying me...i miss the presence of being with a warm hearted woman.. the only ones like that are INFJ's. don't know where to find one , i heard theres not that many of out there...oops sorry got off track . anyway im on to them, b4 they even open their firey mouth..great video thnx! P.S. If there are any INFJ women in Prescott Valley Arizona, look me up if you're interested.
Today another one of certain class of workers harassed me about filling patients' soup bowls too full. There was half an inch above the soup level. I'm tempted to say, "It's not my fault if you're too fat and stiff to move a trolley or soup bowl without spilling it!" haha... I just said again "Carry it carefully." ... Of course since she is a person who is always dramatizing how difficult her daily life at work is, and how hard she works, she would not stop at that. She told boss (when boss came in looking for food) "I told her not to fill it up too high. Look it's already made a mess and we haven't even taken the trolley out." I said "There's a whole half-inch of space there!" The boss didn't get involved. I switched the paper napkin to clean up the spill.
fortunately a more fair and friendly person in their work role has come back to work, and she is one of few powerful experienced ones who doesn't behave in this power games and blaming way. I can run the trolley without the slightest spill, when collecting dishes. Why should the patients miss half their soup just cos she wants to draw attention to herself?
I always like to use "I don't give a fuck" and "Fuck off"
Spot on Yes " I do not like you nor do I want you" I had to say this before But I kept giving my husband so many chances just bc he ask me And his treatment of me got so bad that there is no doubt that he never loved me nor is he capable.of loving me He even told me that he follows me but I never notice him And it is true I do not He did so many awful things to me I am truly amazed that he calls me and.can only leaves messages bc I have him blocked But he keeps calling But one day he will stop calling me and that will be a good day
I've told my friend things like "Look, I don't even think I can deal with you anymore!" Eventually that led to her not even contacting me anymore and I love it!
I sure did! All of it! And more!
What about when this narcissist is your boss?
The only solution to fight a narcissist is to run far, far away from them, and never look back but, in my situation is not easy. This relationship is destroying me. There's no solution to deal with this psycho people.
Sorry your going thru this. I have a Narcissistic boss I am dealing with myself and I feel your pain. It's not easy to just quit a job sometimes.
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I’m sorry to hear that. Eventually, I had to quit my job. Now I have a boss who respects me. The previous one is a monster, and will never change. I was harassed by him too.
Hope you find the best solution.
The grey rock method may help.
My mom is a narcissist, I remember ounce we were in it n she told me she got her computer friend to hack into my ps3 from his comp, it was so damn funny to hear her lie just to get back at me🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 the ps3 n computer are completely different pieces of technology n some computer tecknision cant just get into a video game system when it's not even on, it was literally unplugged n this random somehow hacked into it? Ok Karen 🤣😂🤣😂
I love my mom but just wow
Narcissistic season mean deer season yup
No don't worry about him don't worry
We cannot belittle them like they do
They're gon say you like hurting me and if u say that u don't they'd say 'yes u do as you preferred being rude tho u knew I'll be hurt, u do these things on purpose, you're bad'
And now we're the ones whos bad 💤
I kind of disagree. You can say these things to a narcissist, but what someone needs to do to actually trigger something in them is tell them their truth in front of other people, people they don't like or the people they try very hard to impress. If you guys are alone you should probably just walk away and spend your time and energy in something or someone important.
I did say some of this words probably the reason i got discarded(silent treatment )out if nowhere 😅 i didnt want to used it though but she is just too much to handle lol
I don't think I would dare say any of that to my younger brother. the last time I tried to help him, I thought he might attack me or injure me or even kill me. I left and never went back. My late father was a narcissist. This video described them to a tee. They are scary people who could kill or may have.
There’s something between all shades of ‘pragmatic’ idealist (ENFJs, ENFPs and INFJs) that seem/s to attract narcissists and the stereotypical ‘toxic/dumb things extroverts say/do to extroverts’ happen to those three types the most. Dr Ramani mightn’t be a Jungian extraordinaire per se but she doesn’t need to be because her findings and talks on introversion/extroversion (in general behaviourist terms), social anxiety and narcissism are universally-applicable whether you’re an XNFJ/ENFP (or reserved persons of any other type but the aforementioned are the types it seems to happen to most) in Chester, Newcastle, London, New York, Owerri or San Francisco. Gaslighting (especially undermining capabilities), toxic gossiping (especially the mind that makes unsuspecting person’s situation ten times worse, often when they thought it couldn’t get any worse and were barely hanging on by a thread in the first place) and blame-shifting that takes on the nature of a never-ending smear campaign are big red markers that eventuate when you’re not good at setting boundaries with toxic people.
Side effects of taking yourself too seriously are_________
It REALLY depends on the relationship the INFJ has with the Narc. Are we dealing with a Narc boss? Can’t exactly behave in such a disrespectful manner, that being the case.
Is it a spouse? Again. It’s a dangerous thing, to challenge a Narc, ESPECIALLY if they are in a position that can make your life miserable. You’re literally giving the devil a dare, by going toe to toe with a Narc. (& they would take that as a compliment.)
It’s draining and self defeating to argue, explain, negotiate or compromise. The victim role is GARGANTUAN when it comes to the Narc.
What if the Narc is the INFJ’s parent? Child? Adult child? There has to be tact but maintain one’s position firmly, all the while playing a reverse psychology game and zipping the mouth SHUT, majority of the time. They just don’t understand. They’ve chosen lies so the truth gets filtered outside their brain somewhere.
They’ve rejected truth, and Jesus is the Truth as well. So because the Narc has chosen dark over light…it’s ugly and has the potential to get even uglier. It’s a spiritual thing, most of all.
Tread lightly. The Narc is much more inclined to comprehend what we’re saying when it’s NOT with words. Ignoring the Narc will cause more of an implosion, anyway. Far more than any words ever will! It’s our words that give them ammunition to attack so don’t take their bait.
In my situation I choose to play the game.
If she would get pissed and hurt my dogs I would probably spend the rest of my life in prison.
That would do no one any good especially the folks I help on a regular basis.
So I sit back and plan my escape. Now you see me now you don't.
I met a narcissistic guy on playstation network ounce who tried to convince me I envied his crap, I was like "Bro why would I want anything you have? I'm a minimalist dude, I barely have anything anyway and I'm still tryin to get rid of what I do have, why tf would I want Your crap? Especially if it's yours and not somethin I might actually want?" Homie got salty n blocked me, guess he actually knew how to use his brains critical thinking skills 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Even by watching this . As an infj , I can't see myself doing it to them . It means im mirroring those bad behaviors .. and just saying that those Words will destroy them and hurt them.. it's kinda unhealthy to do . They have NPD .. we shouldn't take it personally , we just need to be strong on our boundaries and don't let them take control over us . And the best way is to go no contact with this kind of people . Im talking by experience , im literally having ptsd , by i start to find ways to copy with it , to heal myself from that emotional abuse . But i won't think of destroying them . I think some narcissits (ofc not those who are self aware and do harm by purpose .. or the ones who have psychopath traits ..) just need therapy to be more self-aware and i hope it will help them to change .
Bro 😄😄😄 I dont prioritize anyone over my job unless it's my family
I am not here to divide or collide but while some people prey on me it doesn't work because I am an Apex predator who only wants to make the world better 🌎 ✌️
Too bloody right I cut him with my tongue 👅..Can read him like a book..Told him.. You want to ply a plyer..you better be good...Cut him out my life Big time. THANK YOU..❤❤❤
I swear… 80% of this is exactly what my ex-wife would say and still does say to date!… and I tried not assuming she was a narcissist 😂 but naturally these are also many of the automatic responses I’ve had to her just as well and sure enough.. she hates it. It clowns her
nice several good ideas to deal with this particualary bad narc. MUAH MUAH MUAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!
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God is going to destroy narcissist
I'm an INFJ. What if the narcissist is my mother? What should I do?
My x were narcissist and no longer are they allowed in my life just as my daughter I cannot be around her I love her I do she is 33 just had to walk away will not and cannot deal with her lies and drama
Doesn't this presume that we INFJ's don't have the capacity to be narcissists?
Here's a question. Why do so many INFJ's manifest narcissists into their lives (enough to make a video about this)? The Law of attraction, we bring into our lives the situations and people which match our frequency.
I think it is sad that as humanity, we all have some disorder or another, brought on by traumas that create maladaptive mechanisms that infiltrate the way we express our selves as a person, that is on a subconscious level (not cheap, heartless or mindless)... to call a person, who had suffered traumas as we all do, a demon or monster? Perhaps more compassion is required and a knowledge of how a persons personality is created or influenced. Some of us may have had a better chance of being less "far gone" than others. If we can not deal with such people, make appropriate choices. If we can not understand them, do not judge them because that is no different than people not understanding how witches worked back in the day, and from fear of the unknown, failure to understand, they were judged as "evil" and burned. The greatest evil is to demonise the unknown, and accept fables as truths. Narcissists are human beings.
I am not seeking for people to empathize but merely recognize, we all are suffering and some are dealing with it better than others. We get to support each other on the journey of life, perhaps I am confused as to why such advice even exists for an INFJ. I would think that their intuition would guide them as they learn to listen and trust it.
Why are we concerned with destroying people? Sounds like subconscious need to seek revenge, how is that any different from being "evil", as awakened people who have the ability to decide... If we hold ourselves accountable for our lives, choices and outcomes of the quality of our lives, this seems, to me, a petty thing to concern ones life and time with. The purpose of this video, I find vile and yes I do not have to like it. I feel it only fair though to encourage us as people to recognize each other as people and grow rather than engage in behavior that may lead to loss of self respect. To live with compassion towards self and others is a choice vs remaining a victim in ones own lives, playing games, and seeking to feel better by being a smited, resentful human being.
Nobody needs to agree with my personal opinion.
While I understand your position, and agree with many points, you have failed to understand a fundamental aspect of both the narcissist and the sigma INFJ.
First, the narcissist is a sadist at heart. They gain degrees of pleasure from the pain they cause. As a result, they play on the empathy of even the sigma INFJ in a sick, twisted manipulation of human nature.
Second, the sigma INFJ is unique, because just like the narcissist can knowingly switch from putting on a front to showing their true nature, sigma INFJs can switch off emotion and reaction instantaneously as well. However, the sigma INFJ never loses empathy, and a true empath only ever wants the person that hurts them personally to feel the pain they do. And it isn't even a desire for revenge, it's a desire to open up their eyes to the truth of what the narcissist does.
However, even notwithstanding this, the narcissist will only admit the truth if they are cornered and have no way out. In other words, put the narcissist in a box with no way out, and they become cowards. They become shells of themselves. But we all know, if you see a hornet's nest, don't poke it with a stick -- instead, if you feel the need to destroy it, you burn it with fire. Or spray it with poison. In other words, make the narcissist take a taste of their own medicine.
Interestingly, you mention having demons or monsters. I wonder if you have ever had them try and make you end your own life. Because I deal with that every day -- and it is the result of a narcissistic woman who, rather than tell me the truth, thought becoming physical was the way to go. The only reason she won the battle she initiated was because of the courts, of which I had very little knowledge of at the time. Had it been 200 years ago, her body would never been found. And because things are the way they are today, I never even struck her, as I could have. I maintained a level of self-control that most men would not have. Even then, she claimed to be an empath -- which she used to cause me pain. It was a ploy, because no true empath would knowingly cause another pain. Yet she did.
As a result, I dance with my demons every day. I was broken from what happened to me. I still have trust issues, and most importantly, I refuse to compromise on my values. Every day I wake up is another battle won.
However, the point to this is, the sigma INFJ is the type of person that the narcissist knows they can't manipulate, coerce, or otherwise control -- and because the narcissist is completely ego-based, it is relatively easy to destroy what was already fragile. But if the narcissist insists on opening up the dance, the sigma INFJ has no problem finishing it, and doing so with the least amount of effort.
@@isaiahwelch8066 You respond from a personal frame of reference, marred by pain, I understand that.
I have a background in psychology, I identify as an infj, I have suffered demons that left me bleeding on the floor by my Narc spouse... But he wasn't born a narc, he became one as a way of coping.
People affected by cancer, we don't call them cancer, we say it's a person suffering with or from cancer.
Narcs are suffering, or suffered as we do, to the point of adopting mechanisms to protect them.
I used my anger, despair, demons to destroy something yes, not the Narc but the Narc mechanisms that affect the narc and me.
I burned, bled and lost myself, from a place of love for a HUMAN BEING! Just as I am human! And I in ways affected a positive change. How, I'd have to write a book on that.
My point is. We demonise people. Those who suffer the most, hurt others the most. If we can see that and help them heal from their suffering, that's being a human being.
Saying, you're this and that and penalising, judging and distancing etc is self preservation (exactly what narcs or any mechanism seeks to do).
NOT all people are able, or have the knowledge, courage, strength, tolerance or whatever someone like me did, I understand that.
I'm just saying I am against thus vile idea of destroying a person whatever IJKLMNOP A person is. Remember we are human before LABELS!
I wish more people had compassion to wonder why someone slaps us, rather than seek to destroy them because they keep slapping us.
That's my viewpoint!
@@isaiahwelch8066 Further more you open a dialogue mostly to air your experience, have your day in court, bad mouth one type of person, put another on a pedestal (dichotomous thinking)...
We all have choices, we make them, nobody else is responsible for the choices we make because we all get a payoff of some type from the decisions we make. Serves something especially on a conscious or subconscious level so we may not be aware unless we train ourselves to live more aware of our own minds workings!
Read you response again... Sounds like a smitten person seeking empathy! But off course you won't see that. People love taking the victim role happily, it affords pity.
Shame I'm sorry you had such a bad experience, wow she was horrible, I agree with you, I can imagine you are left so wounded... Must be hard
Please learn to self regulate, provide yourself some love, compassion, empathy first before seeking it via others! And yes it's not your intention or goal but that's how it comes across!
I'm up for self empowerment, empathy from others is a band aid to the healing we actively need to DECIDE TO, INTEND ON practicing!
These stories of "how hard I've had it, that bad person" will just keep you in victim mentality!
I hope, for your well being, that you recognise that! ❤️
And this comes from suffering being suicidal so many times that I had to stop to wonder what was wrong with me too. Why was someone else's behaviour leading me to be suicidal? Why was I allowing it, how was I allowing it, what did I need to do to have me own back? The realisation of needing someone else to care about me more than I cared about myself or life was disgusting.
It is that disgust that when we can look at it (our own demons), sit with them, understand them, give them their day in court and listen, then change occurs!
In a narc relationship, there is almost always a codependent or a borderline attached. That's what MBTI was DESIGNED to do, serve as a tool to give a practitioner an idea really fast as to what a person is predisposed to being afflicted with. And to figure out faster than usual a plan of action or how to approach a specific person with greater chance of success.
Hence you will find it is common that Narcs attract empaths, infjs, spiritual people etc, they profile mostly as INF types, similar characteristics.
But people are narcissistically masturbating to "I'm a this, I'm a that!". I, me culture! Segregation and division by labels... That's one of the reasons why the field of Psychology is doing worse than ever before! It fails to see the bigger picture, it's money making, and narcissistic in its own way.
We look at Narcs and curse them sadistic souls that they never were upon their time of birth and never lookout why we attract such people and not healthier individuals! We must be the healthy ones if they are so sick right?
Nobody is humble enough to look at their own selves, their own demons. Our behaviors, responses, choices, decisions must be as a result of someone else. No self accountability, sounds very familiar. Yes we all have a degree of Narc in us, what can't, don't we use it to understand others?
Why do we resort to labeling, shaming, destroying? Sounds like an empathetic thing to do? That all just sounds like a disease on its own.
We get to decide what sort of person we can be proud of, what kind of person we can respect, our traumas are Done too, we get to decide to heal, surpass, rise like a Phoenix above our own Ashes.
What are you deciding?
@@sarika_art_purchase2845 : What am I deciding?
Very simply: To work on killing my sense of empathy, because all it does is get me betrayed, lied to, stolen from, and stabbed in the back.
So I have to shut my emotions off, grit my teeth and bear my pain, as a condemned man in Roman times carried the means of his execution via crucifixion.
Further, I am shutting my empathy off, because it is no longer worth the effort to understand human nature, be a moral human being, when nobody else is. Aristotle once said that a vicious man could live in a virtuous society, and become virtuous.
But a virtuous man cannot live in a vicious society and remain virtuous. Because in order to survive, he must also become vicious -- and if he be thought of as virtuous still, he loses that virtue the minute he is forced to become vicious. And he loses himself in the process.
I am the virtuous man living in a vicious society. Because I have no choice but to live in a vicious society. All I see is the opposite sex demonize men like me, using and abusing us, because they want what resources men have to take care of the kids other men have made -- all the while thinking that they will win the Hyper-Successful Man Lottery. And unless men have something women want, we are used, abused, and discarded like the cheap packaging of a TV dinner.
So to shield myself, despite the desire for the impossible, no longer will I have empathy for anyone. Because empathy is a luxury I cannot afford. It also means that I no longer care about how vicious the society really is, if those in it keep drinking the poison of corruption as though it were spring water. In shutting off my empathy, I shall walk in this society, alone, with only the thoughts in my mind. The plans I make. The scenarios I must be prepared for. Because while I may not have a hand in killing society, because I have shut my empathy off, neither am I any longer obligated to save it.
And so, it shall burn, topple like the house of cards it really is, and collapse under it's own bloated corruption.
Dude ofcourse I dont remember what some random said a few hrs ago, I got short term memory loss + who tf cares if it's not important especially if ya someone I dont even care about
My ex husband is a narcissistic sociopath I was married with him 20 years and I thank God I found my way out
Bruh, bribe me? With affection?? From a narcissist??? 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
Someone like that couldn't bribe me with a solid bar of gold much less affection
I've seen alots. They had that same game , same movements, same patterns , into getting the attentions. Yes. Passive aggression. Then, I told them, through Passive aggressive (like the payback), for all of those people to stop before I came to them directly and asking them directly about what they want. Then, if they won't answer, I will slap them with that long... Stick... There... 😗😗🥂 Since then, I saw them behaved. Shame on them 😗 I saw the guy that used to do it mostly are sweating and shaking thoughout the day.. None of them ever ever play like that on me anymore . Since I am a Sigma , 9W8 INFJ... And they had see the Rage, so... I'm good at keeping Narcissic down on my string of Master Manipulator than they ever were 😁😎😎😋
That why , the I don't care, really make them mad or a goodbye and they crawl at your feet like a baby no don't go away, hahaha
Oh I had an extremely narcissistic girlfriend and one of the things I would say when she tried to keep drama going was "I don't what makes you think you're so special that I have to put up with this because you're not". That statement would shut her down instantly and when she would come back demanding an apology she would be told "This is your problem not mine".
After I door slam them or just show them a mirror of themselves when I have enough they usually will run and hide never to be heard from again. I have had 2 come back for revenge, tried killing them with kindness and uplifting but real truth and honesty . I suppose it's to try and keep them at bay ? The last one came back projecting and spewing all of her own self hatred on me I finally had enough , and just ripped her mask off and she received utter truth with no regard of the damage it would cause. I then felt horrible for Weeks , telling myself I took it too far. Never heard from her again and she moved away 🤷♂️. Be careful out there when you expose a psychopath they will literally come back make every attempt to destroy your life . Do your best to be kind and just avoid crappy people ✌
I got punched in the nose
Oh no how terrible. Was it a spouse? Relative?
Ya las a note ✋⚘
I wasn't a developed INFJ for too long, my intuition tried to warn me, and I did nearly walk away in time, so 15 years and we divorced.....she came at me with an emotional problem a short time later and I said 'I don't care about you anymore'......😂 honestly, it looked like I had actually slapped her the shock was that real and evident. 😁🤣
We only talk now about our daughter and that is seldom.
Now let's deal with the cat this morning and yes I am lucky with , animals whose goal is not to kill my sister or my child, and my friend like me , we don't try to impress people and when , we in sombody house giving us shelter food and other cats to be ( human and social with ) we don't see each other , and thus morning I used the cat like an Andre , a Stephanie or a nattie , I went let us show this stranger , how natty Andre and Stephanie yiu are and the man biting biological enterty , similar to morpheus biting alister , watch me and went like I not performing this morning , for no strange woman , I am giving you support I have a limited amount of time , in this 16 bulkerstreet matrix , forget she she not on you , I am here and again my time is limited and we bite people but we know who the non dark humour child kiling joke is not , let us walk and I said OK,
an Infj will not use those phrases
I accidentally said that - with a much nicer word - "Funny" = rage unlocked
Hold the fk up, if you think I'm gonna fall for the Perfect girl ploy then your crazy, in my time by myself I've grown to love flaws because I know that my perfect girl is indeed perfect WITH her flaws, not even jesus christ was perfect n he was the son of God bro, perfect to me means bein flawed because I'll know her flaws dont break her, everyone has em, even the Perfect woman because if she doesn't then she isn't perfect to me
This just verified I am a true INFJ I always say "mark my word" when I know my premonitions are so right I would place a bet on it. And I don't gamble on my own money.