Dad being assaulted in the past is tragic but in no way excuses him beating his 14 year old son into a hospital bed for being gay. No he's a bad person just like the freaking mother
I agree that dad’s past is not an excuse for what he did, that was terrible, but it seems he has suffered the consequences, understood what he did and is trying to redeem himself. Doesn’t mean that OP has to forgive or even talk to him, but labeling his as bad is counterproductive and is an oversimplification of the situation.
Money and stability basically. He probably should see a therapist though, might be suffering from depression. Not an excuse for running, but it could make it dang near impossible to finish things and do what needs to be done.
So Ex ran away bc OP started talking about being an adult and decided to listen to his loser friend? He also doesn't have a job and was "forced" (pretty sure OP encouraged him) to finish his degree instead of sitting on his ass and playing games. OP dodged a bullet bc he sounded like he didn't hit puberty.
Well, depression can cause a lot of the symptoms he may have shown, but he also showed he wasn't overly invested in her emotionally or he wouldn't have ran away. He would have at least fessed up to his troubles and feelings and seen what she had to say. Overall, she shouldn't take him back, but he also should seek help via a therapist and maybe medication. I know all this because I've had almost lifelong uncontrolled depression and I know the panic and desire to "run away", but I also know it's not a good show of character to just up and run away when you have responsibilities and ties.
As to why you feel something about your mother's death. Our society and civilization is geared toward respecting and honoring our parents no matter what. Unfortunately, "no matter what" is the problem. We have to put up with the idea that the parents are terrible and learn to accept and believe it's not our fault.
@@Featheryfaith7No... Op was being abused, his father put him in the hospital, and his mother sick or not is asking for compensation as an apology, she doesn't deserve an apology. You're in the wrong here.
Last Story: The Ghosting Boyfriend I'm not buying his excuses. Why wouldn't he talk to OP, his PARTNER about those things? Barring mental illness, most people aren't that impulsive. He's still hiding something because there is no logic to his explanation, and even accepted at face value, doesn't explain why he didn't talk to OP during that time. Here's some crazy theories (don't put any stake in them, I am pulling these out of my ass to illustrate how it could look to others): • He spent a few weeks in jail and didn't want to own up to it. It's not uncommon for people to be held pending a trial, and then have charges dismissed. That explains why even his parents wouldn't talk about his whereabouts. Do a background check, they're like $25, and can be done online. It's money well spent regardless of the outcome. • Get an STD test. This is a shot in the dark, but actually happened to a buddy of mine. His girlfriend cheated, then found out she had herpes, so she disappeared for a few weeks hoping he would go out and "move on with some rebound chick", and he'd think THAT'S where he caught it, at which point she intended to come back and take him back anyway and hold it over his head. He was saved by her affair partner actually coming forward and explaining the situation after his own diagnosis. This is unlikely, but people do think this way. (My friend came back negative BTW, in cases anyone was wondering). • Closeted Bi-Sexual - He runs off to "Experiment" with his friend, the realizes he likes OP better as a partner or leans more toward a female preference. Wouldn't be the first time someone did something like that. • Long-Distance Affair - He meets some girl (or catfish) online, falls head over heels, rushes off to the other side of the country, and of course the online romance is significantly different in person. The woman he's been flirting with is 20 years older than she claimed, 300lbs heavier, or a man, lol. • Some undisclosed ex-baby-mamma tracked him down for child support for a kid OP knows nothing about. He really needed a job out of state and a different residential address to keep the hounds from OP's door and outing him. That's way more likely than running from loan sharks and gambling debts as someone implied, but effectively the same thing, lol. • He got scammed. He lost money in a scam and is embarrassed. He went to visit his miraculously cheap, $40,000 foreclosed beach house in Oxnard only to realize it didn't exist and he just traded his college fund to a member of the Nigerian Royal Family, who also works for Microsoft Tech Support and is an enforcer for the IRS, lol. These are all unlikely, but there are really infinite possibilities here that are more plausible than him just running away in a panic. This is a young guy who went from living with his parents to college to living with his long-time girlfriend. He's never really been on his own. He allegedly moved to a new place, started a great new job despite not having any substantial work history. When people panic, they don't generally run toward the unknown, the panic keeps them where they are, it's why so many abuse victims have trouble getting away, preferring the company of the proverbial "Devil they know" to the daunting prospect of facing the unknown. His behavior doesn't match his words. And if this is what his panic response looks like, the dude's got some serious issues.
I would buy a few of these, or even undiagnosed mental illness. It’s also very possible OP only knew the ideal version of him that saved her over half a decade ago and doesn’t actually know who he’s been for awhile
S3: if they leave like that, there's a reason. It may be a STUPID reason or even a crazy one, but the best thing to do is NOT to go looking for him. It really sucks and I'd want to know too, but chasing it won't do any good. OP needs to not take him back if/when he returns.
#3. just let him go and don't go chasing after him. if you get obsessed with trying to find out why .. and just keep pursuing this.. this might be a part of this.. and damsels in distress sometimes end up just being distressed damsels. find a therapist...
My friend had a similar story to the last girl except she didn’t live with her bf. He broke up and got back together with her 2-3 times after many years together & the last time they made up, she didn’t tell anyone they were together again. They’ve been married for a few years now and he’s an amazing husband. I think he was just going through tough times and kept ending his relationship as a self-destructive habit. Now he’s more stable & has dealt with his issues. She definitely took a leap of faith with him but hey, sometimes people do need another chance.
She is very patient. IMO sometimes someone will change with a second chance but that doesn’t mean they deserve it. If one can change it is their responsibility to find someone else to treat better not to go back to the person they hurt. I want to clarify i am happy for your friend that it all worked out well, but that doesn’t mean I would ever encourage someone to make that choice. It’s far more likely that the person will get comfortable and refuse to change again than to actually change when taken back
The thing is, his self finding should NOT be on her cost. No Person should let them selfs get played like that. Bc this "happy ending" is not the normal case. And will it stay one? a few years married isnt much. Bad times will come again. Will he still be there in 20 yesrs? I hope it for your friend.
Story #2..I'm sorry for the loss of your sister, but I'm surprised the estate's attorney didn't ask you about funeral and final costs, as those really should have been paid by her estate and not your parents, even though they did so willingly.
Ok OP in third story. Travel after him! No just love on and forget him don’t contact him just move on. You can’t be this naive if he had not been fired he would never have returned
Tip to author; fix the spelling and wrong words (as in in for on, taking for talking etc) then the AI can do better. Second tip, tell the AI how to pronounce "live" properly.
The stories read really badly in this video. idk if it's poor narration or they were typed that way but you need to really do better with proofreading.
It must be true i saw on it a cartoon with ai narration. why are you all taking this at face value? there's enough real bad stuff going on in the world without getting worked up about ai clickbait.
What the gay person did was disgusting. She had health problems all through her life that was why she assaulted him. The gay person should be sued. Bruh, the lady was innocent... ☦ The cops, the judge and the jury also need to get sued. Edit: @arleneclark6369 You do know that it was still illegal and unenthical. No one shall take an advantage of a sick person. Still no excuses. They are the vulnerable too...
@@reneeharper84 Legally, no. They had health issues and so it would be slander and medical discrimination by court justice and by law. Counter lawsuits.....
@@Featheryfaith7Not at all, having mental problems doesn't excuse anything, she was the one trespassing every time, she's the least innocent one in that story, stop your BS.
Are u freaking serious?? So she has health problems, so what, that's no excuse for abusing someone else, jesus we all have problems in life whether they are physical, mental etc it's still no excuse for abusing someone else. SMFH.
@@arleneclark6369 You do know that it was still illegal and unenthical. No one shall take an advantage of a sick person. Still no excuses. They are the vulnerable too...
Dad being assaulted in the past is tragic but in no way excuses him beating his 14 year old son into a hospital bed for being gay. No he's a bad person just like the freaking mother
The woman had health problems. This is no excuse to harm a sick person. Disgusting...
@@Featheryfaith7Who in the world gave this comment a thumbs up?
@@MrModaman, you already know they liked their own comment. 😂
@@MrModamanGave a thumbs down to even it out
I agree that dad’s past is not an excuse for what he did, that was terrible, but it seems he has suffered the consequences, understood what he did and is trying to redeem himself. Doesn’t mean that OP has to forgive or even talk to him, but labeling his as bad is counterproductive and is an oversimplification of the situation.
Apologize to them for WHAT? Being gay?
Actually, the gay person should be apologizing to his parents. That was terrible. They had poor health issues and should be sued for slander...
@@Featheryfaith7lmao
Yeah he should apologize for being a dissapointment
@@Lucifer-gy6wghe should apologize for being filthy rich 😢
@@Lucifer-gy6wg the only disappointing people here are the parents.
If she didn't want to look bad, she shouldn't have been bad
She was ill. Disgusting comment...
@@Featheryfaith7being Sick doesn’t excuse anything
@@Featheryfaith7 and by you saying this discards ALL THE WORK people who actually got help for being sick did.
@@Featheryfaith7also she HAD 40 YEARS To get help but didn’t.
People like this can't self reflect. The egg donor is delusional.
Jesus, that first story was chaos incarnate.
The boyfriend who disappeared will continue to disappear anytime he feels like it. He's only back for her money
Money and stability basically. He probably should see a therapist though, might be suffering from depression. Not an excuse for running, but it could make it dang near impossible to finish things and do what needs to be done.
S1: that escalated fast. How did she pass away
Given how fast it all happened, probably self deletion
So Ex ran away bc OP started talking about being an adult and decided to listen to his loser friend? He also doesn't have a job and was "forced" (pretty sure OP encouraged him) to finish his degree instead of sitting on his ass and playing games.
OP dodged a bullet bc he sounded like he didn't hit puberty.
So his failure to launch was never OP'S fault or problem and him running away then coming back like nothing happened tells me he sees OP as a chump.
Well, depression can cause a lot of the symptoms he may have shown, but he also showed he wasn't overly invested in her emotionally or he wouldn't have ran away. He would have at least fessed up to his troubles and feelings and seen what she had to say. Overall, she shouldn't take him back, but he also should seek help via a therapist and maybe medication. I know all this because I've had almost lifelong uncontrolled depression and I know the panic and desire to "run away", but I also know it's not a good show of character to just up and run away when you have responsibilities and ties.
She didn't dodge a thing. She took him back.
As to why you feel something about your mother's death. Our society and civilization is geared toward respecting and honoring our parents no matter what. Unfortunately, "no matter what" is the problem. We have to put up with the idea that the parents are terrible and learn to accept and believe it's not our fault.
Holy shit the ending for story 1 when from 0-100 really quickly.
One moment she is in psychiatric care and the next she's dead.
Update: she is dead
Me: ???
@@FroggyGirlDreams yeah that was unexpected
She had health problems all through her life that was why she assaulted him. The gay person should be sued. Bruh, the lady was innocent.
@@Featheryfaith7 well she had but in this story it wasn't developed or explained.
*Eh dunno if you're being serious or just a edgy teenager.*
@@Featheryfaith7No... Op was being abused, his father put him in the hospital, and his mother sick or not is asking for compensation as an apology, she doesn't deserve an apology. You're in the wrong here.
Wow, that first one, the AUDACITY
Last Story: The Ghosting Boyfriend
I'm not buying his excuses. Why wouldn't he talk to OP, his PARTNER about those things? Barring mental illness, most people aren't that impulsive. He's still hiding something because there is no logic to his explanation, and even accepted at face value, doesn't explain why he didn't talk to OP during that time.
Here's some crazy theories (don't put any stake in them, I am pulling these out of my ass to illustrate how it could look to others):
• He spent a few weeks in jail and didn't want to own up to it. It's not uncommon for people to be held pending a trial, and then have charges dismissed. That explains why even his parents wouldn't talk about his whereabouts. Do a background check, they're like $25, and can be done online. It's money well spent regardless of the outcome.
• Get an STD test. This is a shot in the dark, but actually happened to a buddy of mine. His girlfriend cheated, then found out she had herpes, so she disappeared for a few weeks hoping he would go out and "move on with some rebound chick", and he'd think THAT'S where he caught it, at which point she intended to come back and take him back anyway and hold it over his head. He was saved by her affair partner actually coming forward and explaining the situation after his own diagnosis. This is unlikely, but people do think this way. (My friend came back negative BTW, in cases anyone was wondering).
• Closeted Bi-Sexual - He runs off to "Experiment" with his friend, the realizes he likes OP better as a partner or leans more toward a female preference. Wouldn't be the first time someone did something like that.
• Long-Distance Affair - He meets some girl (or catfish) online, falls head over heels, rushes off to the other side of the country, and of course the online romance is significantly different in person. The woman he's been flirting with is 20 years older than she claimed, 300lbs heavier, or a man, lol.
• Some undisclosed ex-baby-mamma tracked him down for child support for a kid OP knows nothing about. He really needed a job out of state and a different residential address to keep the hounds from OP's door and outing him. That's way more likely than running from loan sharks and gambling debts as someone implied, but effectively the same thing, lol.
• He got scammed. He lost money in a scam and is embarrassed. He went to visit his miraculously cheap, $40,000 foreclosed beach house in Oxnard only to realize it didn't exist and he just traded his college fund to a member of the Nigerian Royal Family, who also works for Microsoft Tech Support and is an enforcer for the IRS, lol.
These are all unlikely, but there are really infinite possibilities here that are more plausible than him just running away in a panic. This is a young guy who went from living with his parents to college to living with his long-time girlfriend. He's never really been on his own. He allegedly moved to a new place, started a great new job despite not having any substantial work history. When people panic, they don't generally run toward the unknown, the panic keeps them where they are, it's why so many abuse victims have trouble getting away, preferring the company of the proverbial "Devil they know" to the daunting prospect of facing the unknown. His behavior doesn't match his words. And if this is what his panic response looks like, the dude's got some serious issues.
I would buy a few of these, or even undiagnosed mental illness.
It’s also very possible OP only knew the ideal version of him that saved her over half a decade ago and doesn’t actually know who he’s been for awhile
1st Story. Glad you got a "happy ending" out of it.
S3: if they leave like that, there's a reason. It may be a STUPID reason or even a crazy one, but the best thing to do is NOT to go looking for him. It really sucks and I'd want to know too, but chasing it won't do any good. OP needs to not take him back if/when he returns.
What the dad did was premeditated. It had nothing to do with ptsd from his past
#3. just let him go and don't go chasing after him. if you get obsessed with trying to find out why .. and just keep pursuing this.. this might be a part of this.. and damsels in distress sometimes end up just being distressed damsels. find a therapist...
My friend had a similar story to the last girl except she didn’t live with her bf. He broke up and got back together with her 2-3 times after many years together & the last time they made up, she didn’t tell anyone they were together again. They’ve been married for a few years now and he’s an amazing husband. I think he was just going through tough times and kept ending his relationship as a self-destructive habit. Now he’s more stable & has dealt with his issues. She definitely took a leap of faith with him but hey, sometimes people do need another chance.
She is very patient. IMO sometimes someone will change with a second chance but that doesn’t mean they deserve it. If one can change it is their responsibility to find someone else to treat better not to go back to the person they hurt.
I want to clarify i am happy for your friend that it all worked out well, but that doesn’t mean I would ever encourage someone to make that choice. It’s far more likely that the person will get comfortable and refuse to change again than to actually change when taken back
The thing is, his self finding should NOT be on her cost. No Person should let them selfs get played like that. Bc this "happy ending" is not the normal case.
And will it stay one? a few years married isnt much. Bad times will come again. Will he still be there in 20 yesrs? I hope it for your friend.
Dude I can't stop laughing either😂. She is certifiable.
The third one should just really say goodbye. Let him go. Give him back his rank belongings and find someone decent
Story #2..I'm sorry for the loss of your sister, but I'm surprised the estate's attorney didn't ask you about funeral and final costs, as those really should have been paid by her estate and not your parents, even though they did so willingly.
Why hasn't op checked if their parents took life insurance on sis that passed
He can't make it on his own and needs you to survive, don't let him come back. Nta
This dudes building is agonizingly slow
What is like know is how Op being outed as gay triggered is dad’s SA trauma
Ok OP in third story. Travel after him! No just love on and forget him don’t contact him just move on. You can’t be this naive if he had not been fired he would never have returned
Why does your dad think of your sister money as his? Why do your parents need the money?
Tip to author; fix the spelling and wrong words (as in in for on, taking for talking etc) then the AI can do better. Second tip, tell the AI how to pronounce "live" properly.
"I'm sorry mom. I'm sorry you're going to get re-married in prison. Enjoy being a prison bride."
At least make him tell you what he told his parents
What's the deal with your mother, is she trying to gather money so she could divorce your father?
The stories read really badly in this video. idk if it's poor narration or they were typed that way but you need to really do better with proofreading.
There really wasn't anymore info on how the mother died?
Story 2:
🎶I was broke
Now I’m rich
These parents salty🎶
How many god damn times is this dude gonna say his mom hired a PI? You should have edited the first two out.
HUGS TO U
OP I UNDERSTAND
YOUR FEELINGS CAUSE I KNOW
SOME 1 WHO WAS GAY.
Anyone else mishear something at 27:04? Ha.
Good stories, however, the background jumping around is EXTREMELY distracting.
This story keeps repeating things over and over and over. WTF!
It must be true i saw on it a cartoon with ai narration. why are you all taking this at face value? there's enough real bad stuff going on in the world without getting worked up about ai clickbait.
AI voice
This gay guy sounds insane.
He's hurt and the mom is crazy
You seem very dumb.
Yes, because the victim of abuse is the crazy one and not the people who abused him.
How
You sound insane.
What the gay person did was disgusting. She had health problems all through her life that was why she assaulted him. The gay person should be sued. Bruh, the lady was innocent... ☦
The cops, the judge and the jury also need to get sued.
Edit: @arleneclark6369 You do know that it was still illegal and unenthical. No one shall take an advantage of a sick person. Still no excuses. They are the vulnerable too...
No. Please stop copying this comment everywhere.
The parents were not innocent...the "gay person" (as you so rudely say) was the victim.
@@reneeharper84 Legally, no. They had health issues and so it would be slander and medical discrimination by court justice and by law. Counter lawsuits.....
@@Featheryfaith7Not at all, having mental problems doesn't excuse anything, she was the one trespassing every time, she's the least innocent one in that story, stop your BS.
Are u freaking serious?? So she has health problems, so what, that's no excuse for abusing someone else, jesus we all have problems in life whether they are physical, mental etc it's still no excuse for abusing someone else. SMFH.
@@arleneclark6369 You do know that it was still illegal and unenthical. No one shall take an advantage of a sick person. Still no excuses. They are the vulnerable too...