Hell no, he showing his true colors before marriage red alert ,i cant believe she gave him that money,even after he showed his true colors. Lesson learned.
Oh hell no, dump this guy and run !! I collect books and have spent a lot of money on books. I've even spent £100 on one book before. If my partner ever said he was taking charge of my money and getting rid of my books, I'd wave goodbye and leave lol. No partner should be in charge of their partners' money ever, this is a form of abuse !!
Yup. I got pissed at my fiancée cause he was saying about about monet. WELL I told him he cannot have his pooky (dip/ cigarettes). I am not funding it.
RUN!!! Far and fast. I’m three minutes into this video and I can tell you I would have all ready told him to take a fly leap and I’d no longer see him and never move in with him. She’s lived this long without him she can live longer alone. If he is acting this way at this point it will only get worse.
I just love how a BF - not husband - wants control of his GFs finances. This is a deal breaker right there b/c he'll only get worse if she marries him!
No way! I have been married nearly 30 years. I collect sports memorabilia (yes I am a female that loves sports), and my husband collects comics. If either of us ever told the other to get rid of their collection we would probably get rid of them! Lol
So Tony would rather marry a woman who is quiet and stupid instead of the one who is smart and defend themselves. Cause, if he married to a person like that he wouldn't be able to financially abuse them with money.
Don't let him have access to your bank accounts. That is your money. Tell him to kick dirt. He has no right to keep your money. Just leave him. What he is saying about the "man" controls all the money is total BS. If you get married or live together than you open a joint account for living expenses. Keep your other accounts in your maiden name. Girl break things off with this idiot. Have a lawyer file for a restraining order.
OMG the second story with the idiot calling himself the Master first time he said that she should have told him to kiss her ass as she was walking out the door. Well it seems like she has . This story got way better. Great story great ending.😂 Love the karma 😂
As a wife, I am in charge of the family finances. We each get a fairly generous allowance and it goes into our premarital bank accounts. They are both joint accounts, but I don't use his and he doesn't use mine. We also do not monitor the other's spending. The rest goes into savings and the household account. We did not mix our money until AFTER we got married. This has worked for us for 48 years. This girl should RUN! As far and as fast as possible.
Seen these before. Still, what are these fools that think the way to keep/improve something good is to take it for granted and/or exploit it to the very limit. When has that ever worked?
NO! Run! Do not ever listen to creeps it is not worth it. He will steal everything from you & leave you heartbroken & Zero in your bank & all your CCs maxed out. PLEASE, Do not marry this kinda person. Gosh, I get scared, for girls no person is worth anything If they treat you in such a manner. They are trash. Peace IMHO
What the hell is wrong with her you never give anybody control of your own money I was in a relationship and he wanted me to put my money in his bank account I told him this is my money NOT YOURS I have my own bills to pay boy oh boy the fighting started I stud my ground I won he doesn’t know how to spend money
So....this dude gets after her for collecting anime-related things? Geez, he'd hate it if he found out about the Transformers figures and a Gundam that I display on a shelf over my bed and a binder of comic books (a few that are signed) There ain't no way I'd give up my collections for *ANYBODY*
He'd really hate me and would afraid of me: Star Trek(TNG/DS9/Voyager) era Star Wars, Transformers G1, model military airplanes, specifically F-4 Wild Weasel configuration, F-14, F-15, regular F-16, F-16XL, A-10, A-6 F-22, and F-35 swords, not wallhangers or decoration but fully functional and sharpened and stoned weapons favorites are my shinken(basically a katana made with modern steel as opposed to traditional with tamahagane or iron sand, in my case W1/T10 steel. The W meaning Tungsten, my Highland Dirk also made out of W1/T10 and my Sgian Dubh also W1/T10. He'd really run from my gun collection. Notable guns in it: S&W Military and Police 5-screw, 4th change made in 1930 .38 S&W Special--belonged to my maternal grandfather, left it to me when he passed away. Colt 1908 .380 made in 1919.--belonged to my paternal grandmother who left it to me when she passed away. S&W Model 15, USAF markings--my father's issued revolver when he was in the USAF. Gave it to me when I moved out along with $15K to get started in the world. He vowed he would not let his babies go out into the world penniless or defenseless. Sister also got $15K and his 4" Ruger Mark II pencil-barrel and two bricks of Mini-Mags. Mauser-made, Walther P38 as the BYF code denotes made in 1942 all but the barrel is matching numbers. The first semiautomatic pistol I ever bought. It's my nightstand gun. Taurus Model 66, stainless 6", half-lug .357 Magnum. The first handgun I ever bought on my own and wasn't a gift or inherited. Bought it on my 21st birthday. M1 Garand, Danish barrel, Italian made. I think it's post-war. Got it in a trade with a friend of mine who wanted a professional network setup in his new house ie:a 42U rack, professionally routed cables, professional grade router, wireless access points. I had some of the equipment he needed, a Cisco 2811 router with a fast switch daughter card was using xfinity as his primary connection. I set up the rack and hardware. I had to call a mutual friend who was a licensed low-voltage electrician who did structured cabling. He paid a combination of money, New York Style double pepperoni pizza and the Garand, would normally sell for $2500+, even post-war ones.
Fred is a lazy jerk of a husband. Why can't he get his own bath drawn and cook his own meals. If it was his parents he would expect her to take care of them. Please accept the divorce. He's a lousy husband and not your master. He's having an affair. Don't apologize to him and just divorce him. Move back home with your parents if you need a place to live. They wouldn't want you to live in that horrible marriage.
Nope nope nope. I would nope right out of there. No way would i hand over every penny i have so i have to beg for cash every time i need deodorant or underwear that doesnt have holes or stains. He can take his controlling abusive expectations elsewhere
Get your book back, or go to the bank, close the account, transfer the money to a new one, say it's been taken away. He is a theif, you cannot open a joint account without the second signature. Why do you ever put up with abuse? Financial, domestic, physical or just verbal, abuse destroys you, cooking ahead is smart, not lazy. Every adult has the right to choose for themselves. Nobody gets to dictate unless there is something wrong with them.
Good news, they haven't started living together yet. I'm not finishing this one because he already showed his misogynistic hand and her only response should be good-bye, see ya never!
Sorry ,a HUGE red flag to trust some unknown “ boy friend “ talk to someone else for advise re: these ridiculous rules control about your own BANK ACCOUNT !!!
He didn't take it away. Unless he put a gun to her head, she willingly gave it to him. She should have said See Ya the second he ordered her to give up her money. She didn't and went a long with it so... yeah, the second she says "okay, don't be mad at me," she lost any sympathy from me. Wow. Still watching the villain learn how badly he screwed up is always a joy.
What kind of IDIOT even hands over THEIR bank book & card??? Even after marriage!! It's pathetic. An being a supposed lawyer. She should know better!!. I've no sympathy for idiots. No matter how badly they are treated. As she allowed him to walk all over her from the second he demanded her book & card. She obviously isn't that smart if she can't protect her own income & savings. Looks like she is just his DOORMAT. She should have ended it with him the second he made HIS demands on HER money!! I'm not even half a minute into this stupid story. So I'm off. Can't be bothered to listen to any more nonsense!! Be more REALISTIC in your stories. Goodbye.
Girl! RUN AS FAST AS YOU CAN!!
Hell no, he showing his true colors before marriage red alert ,i cant believe she gave him that money,even after he showed his true colors. Lesson learned.
It's her money she can do what she wants .. make your own money
I'm so done with this woman. She really gave this Tony guy her money. Wow 😮
Oh hell no, dump this guy and run !! I collect books and have spent a lot of money on books. I've even spent £100 on one book before. If my partner ever said he was taking charge of my money and getting rid of my books, I'd wave goodbye and leave lol. No partner should be in charge of their partners' money ever, this is a form of abuse !!
Yup. I got pissed at my fiancée cause he was saying about about monet. WELL I told him he cannot have his pooky (dip/ cigarettes). I am not funding it.
I don't buy anime but I do collect and if someone told me to get rid of my stuff, I would send them packing!!!!
Exactly! That’s a huge huge red flag,dump him now,wear your fast running shoes and kaboom girl
RUN!!! Far and fast. I’m three minutes into this video and I can tell you I would have all ready told him to take a fly leap and I’d no longer see him and never move in with him. She’s lived this long without him she can live longer alone. If he is acting this way at this point it will only get worse.
I just love how a BF - not husband - wants control of his GFs finances. This is a deal breaker right there b/c he'll only get worse if she marries him!
This gal is daft. A lawyer? She handed over her bank card and book. I feel sorry for her clients. She has no business calling him an idiot.
You clearly approve of men abusing women.
Run girl. As fast and as far as you can.
Master of the house??? Master.....Bator more like it!
No way! I have been married nearly 30 years. I collect sports memorabilia (yes I am a female that loves sports), and my husband collects comics. If either of us ever told the other to get rid of their collection we would probably get rid of them! Lol
GRAB THE BREAKUP AN RUN!!!!
🚩After his 1st comment, it would've been BYE-BYE!🚩
Give me your bank book(access to account)
Even if married...OH HELL NO!!!!!!!! FUCK NO!!!!!!
RUN FROM THAT RELATIONSHIP RFN, YESTERDAY!!!!!!
So Tony would rather marry a woman who is quiet and stupid instead of the one who is smart and defend themselves. Cause, if he married to a person like that he wouldn't be able to financially abuse them with money.
Don't let him have access to your bank accounts. That is your money. Tell him to kick dirt. He has no right to keep your money.
Just leave him. What he is saying about the "man" controls all the money is total BS. If you get married or live together than you open a joint account for living expenses. Keep your other accounts in your maiden name.
Girl break things off with this idiot. Have a lawyer file for a restraining order.
S1: Tony needs a good whooping. S2: That guy is out of the Fred Club forever!
OMG the second story with the idiot calling himself the Master first time he said that she should have told him to kiss her ass as she was walking out the door. Well it seems like she has . This story got way better. Great story great ending.😂 Love the karma 😂
The moment he demanded her bank book is when she needed to leave.
Get rid of him . He's too controlling and you're not even engaged/married. He just wants the money.
Run girl. Fast! He’s controlling and insecure. To the curb!
Run, run, run!
As a wife, I am in charge of the family finances. We each get a fairly generous allowance and it goes into our premarital bank accounts. They are both joint accounts, but I don't use his and he doesn't use mine. We also do not monitor the other's spending. The rest goes into savings and the household account. We did not mix our money until AFTER we got married. This has worked for us for 48 years. This girl should RUN! As far and as fast as possible.
RED FLAG RED FLAG RED FLAG!!!
The cheating husband with his insecure self. Threatening her with divorce is childish, not a gain in being a husband husband.
The second he slapped you, that should have been the end of your marriage
I am married and we tried a joint account but my hubby and I have different money management styles and had to separate our money.
Rent of $400 a month? Can't believe anywhere in Sydney even without a kitchen would go for $400 a week. Most Houses go for double that or more.
WHY would anyone continue or even associate with someone who calls them stupid and treats them as a slave
The only way i see a joint account working is for living expenses example rent, utilities, groceries. Phone bills are individual expenses.
Seen these before. Still, what are these fools that think the way to keep/improve something good is to take it for granted and/or exploit it to the very limit. When has that ever worked?
NO! Run! Do not ever listen to creeps it is not worth it.
He will steal everything from you & leave you heartbroken &
Zero in your bank & all your CCs maxed out.
PLEASE, Do not marry this kinda person.
Gosh, I get scared, for girls no person is worth anything
If they treat you in such a manner. They are trash. Peace IMHO
What the hell is wrong with her you never give anybody control of your own money I was in a relationship and he wanted me to put my money in his bank account I told him this is my money NOT YOURS I have my own bills to pay boy oh boy the fighting started I stud my ground I won he doesn’t know how to spend money
Getting lap dances in a strip club when you have a girlfriend ISNT cheating? What planet are these guys on? 😂😂😂😂
Soon, why did it reach that point
Change your bank, and use it for your pay
So....this dude gets after her for collecting anime-related things? Geez, he'd hate it if he found out about the Transformers figures and a Gundam that I display on a shelf over my bed and a binder of comic books (a few that are signed) There ain't no way I'd give up my collections for *ANYBODY*
He'd really hate me and would afraid of me: Star Trek(TNG/DS9/Voyager) era Star Wars, Transformers G1, model military airplanes, specifically F-4 Wild Weasel configuration, F-14, F-15, regular F-16, F-16XL, A-10, A-6 F-22, and F-35 swords, not wallhangers or decoration but fully functional and sharpened and stoned weapons favorites are my shinken(basically a katana made with modern steel as opposed to traditional with tamahagane or iron sand, in my case W1/T10 steel. The W meaning Tungsten, my Highland Dirk also made out of W1/T10 and my Sgian Dubh also W1/T10. He'd really run from my gun collection. Notable guns in it:
S&W Military and Police 5-screw, 4th change made in 1930 .38 S&W Special--belonged to my maternal grandfather, left it to me when he passed away.
Colt 1908 .380 made in 1919.--belonged to my paternal grandmother who left it to me when she passed away.
S&W Model 15, USAF markings--my father's issued revolver when he was in the USAF. Gave it to me when I moved out along with $15K to get started in the world. He vowed he would not let his babies go out into the world penniless or defenseless. Sister also got $15K and his 4" Ruger Mark II pencil-barrel and two bricks of Mini-Mags.
Mauser-made, Walther P38 as the BYF code denotes made in 1942 all but the barrel is matching numbers. The first semiautomatic pistol I ever bought. It's my nightstand gun.
Taurus Model 66, stainless 6", half-lug .357 Magnum. The first handgun I ever bought on my own and wasn't a gift or inherited. Bought it on my 21st birthday.
M1 Garand, Danish barrel, Italian made. I think it's post-war. Got it in a trade with a friend of mine who wanted a professional network setup in his new house ie:a 42U rack, professionally routed cables, professional grade router, wireless access points. I had some of the equipment he needed, a Cisco 2811 router with a fast switch daughter card was using xfinity as his primary connection. I set up the rack and hardware. I had to call a mutual friend who was a licensed low-voltage electrician who did structured cabling. He paid a combination of money, New York Style double pepperoni pizza and the Garand, would normally sell for $2500+, even post-war ones.
Fred is a lazy jerk of a husband. Why can't he get his own bath drawn and cook his own meals. If it was his parents he would expect her to take care of them. Please accept the divorce. He's a lousy husband and not your master. He's having an affair. Don't apologize to him and just divorce him. Move back home with your parents if you need a place to live. They wouldn't want you to live in that horrible marriage.
Anime is colourful and makes people happy.
Those opening demands and denigrating remarks SHOULD mean she leaves him or at leastdistancesherself from him
Nope nope nope. I would nope right out of there. No way would i hand over every penny i have so i have to beg for cash every time i need deodorant or underwear that doesnt have holes or stains. He can take his controlling abusive expectations elsewhere
What's a personal detective? Don't you mean private detective?
Get your book back, or go to the bank, close the account, transfer the money to a new one, say it's been taken away. He is a theif, you cannot open a joint account without the second signature.
Why do you ever put up with abuse? Financial, domestic, physical or just verbal, abuse destroys you, cooking ahead is smart, not lazy. Every adult has the right to choose for themselves. Nobody gets to dictate unless there is something wrong with them.
Why do Tony and Fred think they are so superior to the women in these stories. They sound like little kids have a fit.
Call the cops fraud
Good news, they haven't started living together yet.
I'm not finishing this one because he already showed his misogynistic hand and her only response should be good-bye, see ya never!
Stupidity abounds😂😂😂😂😂
Sorry ,a HUGE red flag to trust some unknown
“ boy friend “ talk to someone else for advise re: these ridiculous rules control about your own BANK ACCOUNT !!!
No Tony another Jc how can he use that money to a strip club it's cheating
I WOULD LIKE TO HEAR MORE WOMAN STAND UP FOR THEMSELVES!!!😮😮😮
He didn't take it away. Unless he put a gun to her head, she willingly gave it to him. She should have said See Ya the second he ordered her to give up her money. She didn't and went a long with it so... yeah, the second she says "okay, don't be mad at me," she lost any sympathy from me. Wow. Still watching the villain learn how badly he screwed up is always a joy.
Wife is spelled W I F E, not S L A V E!!!
Great pronunciation, folks 😊
This dude is still alive!?, thank heavens Op dumped him, when she found out everything.
Wth!!
Never give your money mgmt to anyone
All the signs are there !dump this guy and leave as fast as you can ,he is going to be controlling ,!!leave him !!!!
After the first comment, I would make him a star in a frying pan commercial.
Flawed story, first, Tony said he had her paycheck in his hand. So, how could he not know what her salary was.
What kind of IDIOT even hands over THEIR bank book & card??? Even after marriage!! It's pathetic. An being a supposed lawyer. She should know better!!. I've no sympathy for idiots. No matter how badly they are treated. As she allowed him to walk all over her from the second he demanded her book & card. She obviously isn't that smart if she can't protect her own income & savings. Looks like she is just his DOORMAT. She should have ended it with him the second he made HIS demands on HER money!! I'm not even half a minute into this stupid story. So I'm off. Can't be bothered to listen to any more nonsense!! Be more REALISTIC in your stories. Goodbye.
Why don't you go say that to every person of all ages that went for something like this? Since you called them an idiots.
Who has bank books anymore?
I just saw the same story, except it was the MIL.
If someone is demanding you hand over ALL YOUR MONEY AND SELL YOUR THINGS~~RUUUUUUUUN!!! But NOT before making sure he can't REPRODUCE!!!
WHO'S ARMY SAID THAT?
Please go to the police now!
Please if you are angry sound angry please
Making a woman stupid in your stories are really annoying....
I had to stop! I just couldn't tolerate the male VA's voice, especially how "passbook" was pronounced. 😮
COPY FROM ANOTHER CHANNEL
Too annoying
Run Forest Run from Tony!