Christian Women Will Find You Attractive If . . .
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- Опубликовано: 7 фев 2025
- What do Christian women want in a man? How can you be more attractive to women? Here are 6 traits that Christian women find attractive in a man.
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0:36 Responsibility
1:54 Validation
4:09 Direction
5:05 Pursuit
5:45 Provision
7:45 Maturity
Will definitely be coming back to this video!
😂 all empty meaningless words
decisiveness is a trait that women love in men. know what you want first off. be able to clearly and firmly communicate what you want and be able to make that decision instantly. a man that knows what he wants, isnt afraid to say what he wants, and is able to go after what he wants and isnt afraid of failure, thats one thing that will not only make you more confident and seem more masculine to others, but it also shows that youre less likely to be swayed or let your opportunities pass you by and these are all things that women like in a man in my experience. women want a man that can lead them and being unsure of what you want and not having confidence in your decisions only leads to less confidence in them of your decisions and where youre leading them.
My brothers, this is SO RIGHT ON 🌺
I think this is one of my favorite videos on this channel by you, Mark. Thanks for making it!
Glad you enjoyed it!
Unfortunately, many Christian women often still follow the world’s standards when it comes to attraction, and they will pass up a good Christian man because he is “not exciting” enough for her.
True. I feel I had to change part of my personality. Reading Wild At Heart helped somewhat, but I sometimes struggle to get rid of my nice guy traits. Foreign women seem to appreciate God fearing men more than western Christian women though.
I think a godly woman will see real "excitement" when she sees a man that is stepping outside his comfort zone and doing what he fears to be more like Jesus and obey His calling.
The Christian walk shouldn't be a boring one. It should be the most exciting adventure we are called to. Most of us are just too afraid to do what God has put on our hearts, and women can sense that.
I'm not saying that's either of you, I'm just saying that we have to be honest with ourselves. And honestly, all humans, myself included, have the tendency to do what is comfortable. It's the desire of our flesh. We have to submit to Jesus daily.
And you know what's crazy? Once godly women see a man operating in the fear and submission of God, they will start to pursue God even more so that they can join a man like that on his adventure. And that's how it should be. The man steps into fear first, and the woman follows.
That simply tells you that 'christian' woman is not the one for you. Move on until you find the one God has for you who will accept you. However, while on the path, work on yourself as a man
Yes this is true
Every man wants respect, but only a real man wants responsibility. Wow!! What a phrase! I knew it all along but couldn't phrase it!
yeah be a betabuxx deluxe.
This is so spot on! Every point hits the nail!
We need Christian videos for men over 30 because there are many Christian men over 30 still waiting for a wife and have no child and never married and want a family even if they worst case scenario have to be a “stepdad “
Agree though I don’t think it’s completely their fault. There’s so many Christian women who pass up good Christian men in their 20s because they didn’t seem exciting or fun, just because they take God seriously. Only to find those men more attractive in their 30s when it’s often too late.
Yes, exactly this. I am one of those Christian men over 30.
Sometimes I think women should be attracted to a man who seeks to improve his knowledge and relationship with God. He not only reads his Bible often, but reads many Christian books, watches many Christian videos on a wide variety of subjects, gets involved at church. Most Christian women don’t seem impressed or find a man’s knowledge and intelligence attractive though, even if it would benefit her and help her grow stronger as a Christian.
You are not alone brother. That’s the rejection I have been experiencing with a woman’s focus on my lack of provisioning first rather than looking at all the other spiritual things I do possess and am improving on.
No wonder . Women aren't impressed with your spiritual knowledge. You got to give that angle up.. I don't know everything but they shurley seem more moved by a guy that can show more of Jesus living in there life.. the " I am the way the truth and the life" its Jesus inside of us that they like if they love Christ. But that means we got to live for him and let him shine through us best we can.. Jesus said" if I be lifted up I will draw all men to myself " simple lift up Jesus and that draws others to him but then there drawn to us being Christ like..
@@michaelquintana1098”Desire without knowledge is not good. He who hastens with his feet makes waste.” Proverbs 19:2. My unique charisms from the Lord are knowledge, wisdom, discernment of spirits, encouragement, and probably more I haven’t realized yet. I may not be great according to the world’s standards with a big career, status, financial independence and wealth, and material possessions for my age like the world expects at age 27 for a single man, but the point of our gifts we have been given by the Lord is to love others and draw them to Jesus in using them and relating to others through compassion and encouragement from our experiences. A woman who does not accept a man for his current position in the world placing so much emphasis on it and rejects him without judging his character, heart, knowledge of the Word, his relationship with the Lord, fruit in his life, etc. values the fading material and physical as the foundation for the relationship over the Lord and spiritual things that will sustain it. This is the same for a man who pursues a woman out of lust and only for her youth and beauty. Divorce is what they resort to because they made what the world tells them the foundation of the relationship instead of the selfless love of Jesus and the Word.
Thats because you have to also be good looking and tall. All those are just bonuses and isn’t enough if she isn’t attracted to you from the first place.
@@garljr that freaking satanic
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Yes you are a man and it’s sometimes difficult to be told the truth straight up. In the past i would take it personally but this Pastor gives it to me straight and it’s sometimes not the best thing to hear at that moment
But it’s ok it’s my girlfriend Susanne Bort talking now 😊
I know it’s impossible for a man to be perfect and then date and marry. My case is that I lack the financial resources but not an awareness and knowledge about financial management and being proactive with budgeting the little I have. However there has to come a point where it’s a healthy message to tell both men and women that it’s ok not to have everything all done before they can date and marry because it removes any kind of imposed and unbiblical restrictions that shouldn’t be there outside of the Bible. Things like age, having certain amount of money and career success, requiring a college degree and education, having abundant material resources and wealth, etc. I am not arguing that anything Biblical should be shirked because I would be a liar with God’s instructions. What I am saying is that all the superficial things that modern society worships and tells every new young generation to value above all leads them astray with dating, marriage, life, and God.
He says in a couple of his other videos that most godly women don't need to see the "resources" right now, but they need to see a plan, and a vision, and most importantly, action, from the man.
I have a friend like this right now. He made some bad decisions in the past to get himself in debt, and he recently told his gf. It is scary for her, but as long as he is taking the necessary steps to get out of debt, take financial leadership, and show that he's a new man, then she's willing to join him on the journey.
@@zacht.9585yeah I very much like your friend but am a guy who keeps getting forced to move or be evicted when rental housing leases are up so I can never stay too long in one place and build myself up with a consistent job, career, and financially. I have student loan debt too, but I know how to manage money, calculate the interest rate and seeing the monthly interest payment plus the principal so that the loan is paid on time rather than being extended, knows how to invest in stocks and bonds, knows how to budget and build credit, etc. It’s just I have not been able to make my dream of going back to graduate school a reality yet because of all the moving and not being financially independent of my parents yet to live alone. It doesn’t mean I don’t have a vision and to be an author and start my own business one day either as I am working on that In between everything. It’s just fear making me feel insecure about entering a relationship with all this and telling a woman causing the relationship to break even if it’s a really good one.
Thanks for all you do brother.
Thank you Mark B. God[Bible] Bless you much.
Lovely video man thank you!
Good stuff as usual Mark.
I see plenty of attractive women who seem to want to explore possibilities, but I can't seem to find the vision of getting married for, and in itself. And I'm afraid of the moment I would have to make that choice, so I rarely "start". My dysfunctional childhood seem to have prepared me for my current onliness, and that makes me think it's part of God's plan for me. Yet, I've learned a lot from my dysfunctional beginnings, and I seem to be attractive to a whole other type of woman. Part of the dysfunction, I experienced, desensitized me to non-verbal messages women give men, in the arena of acceptance, desire, or wholesome invitation.
Being nice, being available and showing emotions lol
What if you want to be a BUSINESS Man since you were a kid and already have a track record of success but your going threw something…?
What then?
If you have to ask the question am I a man? means you're probably not. Real men don't tell you they are one, they take care of business.
The advice on pursuit sounded creepy I would rephrase it. It doesn't matter how hard a man pursues a women if she isn't interested its just creepy.
Responsibility and validation are good. I think many young men today are seeking Responsibility and a women's validation. Godly mature men don't need someone else's validation just Christ's. Something you should consider is competition if you see a beautiful women at church or wherever she is either taken or probably has 2 other men trying to get with her. Focus on being the best version of you that Christ's wants you to be without being taking advantage of.
Provision this is just female nature they are looking for the best provider physically spiritually and emotionally there is no getting around that.
Facts
Stewardship is a serving attitude and vector, instead of Authoritarianism; demanding undeserved and unearned respect, and denial of caring (abandoning) in underserved responsibility.
Stewardship grows a man to act as if he were a king, after The King.
Lordship is where we take Christ as our head authority, and make no provision to forsake his lead to live with little pet sin.
Iniquity is imbalance in ignorance of Christ.
Transgression is imbalance ignoring the lordship of Christ.
Sin is imbalance abandoning the (our) identity of (in) Christ.
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1 if you have money. 2 if you have money. 3 if you have money. 4 if you have money. 5 if you have money. 6 if you have money.
Any Bible reference to help support statement #4?
Read Ephesians 5:21-33, Christ as the head of the church is referred to as the husband and the church is referred to as His wife. The husband should pursue the wife as Christ pursue after the church. He would be willing to leave his 99 to pursue a lost sheep; and forsake his possession to purchase the fine pearl.
@@sodium281 right on✊🏽 Thanks for the reply🙏🏽 I was thinking more so in the context of dating. Any references that support #4 in dating?
@@TheStudentOfLife808
Hello and welcome! That mentality applies in dating as well. As the church is not the one initiating the pursuit of restored relationship, but Jesus whom loves us first and pursues us first (1 John 4:19). It is the man's responsibility to initiate the pursuit, to lead the courtship, to be the spiritual leadership of the house and to restore broken relationship.
@@sodium281 Ok. So, a woman should never pursue a man?
@@TheStudentOfLife808
Since you are commenting on this video, I take that you are a Christian. If you desire God to bless your marriage, the courtship needs to honour Him.
Mark in many of his videos draws courtship lessons from the story between Ruth and Boaz. Ruth did not pursue Boaz even when she was clearly interested in him, but she showed her singleness and character and encouraged Boaz to pursue her.
In the name of Jesus Christ i rebuke your shameless exploitation of lonely Christian singles. It needs to end now. You've made countless videos trying to convince your audience that if they follow a certain set of steps, theyll find love. Unless you repent, youre going to have to give an account to God one day for every video youve made on this channel.
He will also be held accountable for PROFITEERING off the faith and lonely Christians.