Bruh. When you think about it, that is such a bullshit narrative. Even If she wasn't against him. As I told my mom once - If I ever find out either of you cheated, regardless of If it's you or dad, and regardless of the reason, you're getting disowned. Idk why, but I take that stuff very seriously.
The Sister is a monster who shouldn’t be in a relationship. It would be funny if she’s a lesbian and her gf falsely accused her though. Imagine where her “women are always right” logic goes after that.
I couldn’t even imagine trying to convince one of my brothers to pay child support for a child that was proven to NOT be theirs through a DNA test. There’s absolutely no reason for this man to pay child support of a woman’s child especially because she never tried for child support for 5 years, but as soon as she found out how much money he was making, decided he was her next perfect target. Disgusting behavior from the ex, sister and even the mother
OP should’ve told both his mom and sister two women can be on a birth certificate. So they should step up and pay child support for the kid in OP’s place.
This story is a good example of the collective mentality that most folks from Venus seem to be stuck on. This is something that mostly happens to folks from Venus since they have a built in desire to socialize and be part of a group. This wouldn't be much of a problem if they would develop an individual identity of their own, one that can stand against peer pressure, but today's society is literally designed to prevent said development and keep everyone in a state of non identity/ collective thinking.
I am from Venus haha, I can assure you, I love being my own person. Have never fallen into the pack mentality most women have. I have a great group of friends but even that group is small. I don’t like to be around petty, vindictive women and it seems so many women are like that. I would take one great friend for life (which I do have one of them, known her for almost 30 years since elementary school and she thinks the same as me, which is AWESOME), than surround myself with a bunch of fake, vindictive, beeches. Its the same way with “believe every women”, I HATE that mentality as well. I’ve seen many men in my line of work that had their lives either destroyed or nearly destroyed by outright lies from women. Maybe that’s part of why I will never trust or be around women that I can see that petty, vindictive side. I refuse to be brought down by or witness them bringing down someone else. I do agree with you though, so many women are like you described and it’s just sad because they ruin their own lives and alone with the men around them.
Story one, Don’t push him to get divorced, strongly encourage him to get individual therapy to deal with all of this and in time he may come to that decision himself! Good luck op.
“You shouldn’t shirk parental responsibilities for a kid that isn’t yours”. The correct response to this? “Why don’t you step up and pay for her kid, then? If it’s so important to you that the ex gets money for a kid that isn’t mine, then you can put your money where your mouth is. Or are you only eager to spend other people’s money? It’s very easy to pretend to be noble when the money doesn’t come out of your wallet, isn’t it?”
s1: Op's Mom is DEFINITELY a cheater. you should have buried them both in court. Why would you not throw the Mom away? why dont you throw the Sis away? Edit: Yep I FvCKIN KNEW IT! Mom is a cheater.
Mother is a real POS for blaming OP for her mistakes. She'll come to regret she was a monster against her son for no reason. But since she is a cheater it makes sense she defended the cheater instead of her own child. And in Story 2 asking questions from scenarios that actually haven't happened to her is not a sign that it will be a good marriage. And bringing up a scenario that actually did happen to someone else is crossing a line. She needs to grow up out of her teenage mindset. Agreeing to marry someone is saying you'll take things seriously not treat it like it's a big joke.
'If you had done what I said' no, if the ex never came knocking, the sister not so stubborn and the mother being sane and reasonable 'then' none of this would have happened.
Op1's Dad is a joke with no punchline. His sons are willing to help him separate from his disgusting wife, but he just wants to stay...after everything she did to her family.
2nd story. NTA. Fiancée eroded your peace constantly, pushing you and pushing you until you broke. What other choice did you have? OP had the self-respect to maintain his own boundaries and peace.
What type of sister would take some chick side over her own brother?.. I would've been on my brother's side.. she's supposed to have her brother's back.. she tried to help that tramp screw her own brother over. That relationship will never be the same.. you now know your own mom/sister will take someone else's side over yours regardless if they're wrong..
S1: Damn all the women in his life were 🗑️ S2: yea I wouldn’t put up with that she wants to start a problem! That’s not a sustainable way to live a married life.
Even if this particular story was fake, I've seen enough social media posts from misandrist harpies who think accountability is for other people to know that this story was plausible, there was nothing that broke the immersion.
Why would OP get fired for two crazies making a scene at his job? If my boss threatened me like that I would threaten him back with a potential lawsuit and get HR involved.
@@VRDejaVu It doesn't work like that lol... Even at-will states, employees still have rights, OP definitely would had a strong Wrongful Termination lawsuit if he were to gotten let go. Also, for the omitted part that's the great thing about HR because most people know that as soon as that meeting was over all you had to do was go to HR and filed a complaint and asked for an offical copy to give to your lawyer...
Off-topic, but if the company were to fire him because of what those 2 bozos did he would also have a case for Wrongful Termination against the company...
"She is your mother and you can't say anything against her" but she can attack her own son?
Bruh. When you think about it, that is such a bullshit narrative. Even If she wasn't against him. As I told my mom once - If I ever find out either of you cheated, regardless of If it's you or dad, and regardless of the reason, you're getting disowned.
Idk why, but I take that stuff very seriously.
All the women in his life failed him.
OP : PLEASE disown your mom. NEVER let her get away with this.
The Sister is a monster who shouldn’t be in a relationship.
It would be funny if she’s a lesbian and her gf falsely accused her though. Imagine where her “women are always right” logic goes after that.
Being a "good guy"didn't mean doormat people pleasing...
Woman brain. The mom believed dumb nonsense until she was shown that reality was the popular opinion
I couldn’t even imagine trying to convince one of my brothers to pay child support for a child that was proven to NOT be theirs through a DNA test. There’s absolutely no reason for this man to pay child support of a woman’s child especially because she never tried for child support for 5 years, but as soon as she found out how much money he was making, decided he was her next perfect target. Disgusting behavior from the ex, sister and even the mother
OP should’ve told both his mom and sister two women can be on a birth certificate. So they should step up and pay child support for the kid in OP’s place.
This story is a good example of the collective mentality that most folks from Venus seem to be stuck on. This is something that mostly happens to folks from Venus since they have a built in desire to socialize and be part of a group. This wouldn't be much of a problem if they would develop an individual identity of their own, one that can stand against peer pressure, but today's society is literally designed to prevent said development and keep everyone in a state of non identity/ collective thinking.
I am from Venus haha, I can assure you, I love being my own person. Have never fallen into the pack mentality most women have. I have a great group of friends but even that group is small. I don’t like to be around petty, vindictive women and it seems so many women are like that. I would take one great friend for life (which I do have one of them, known her for almost 30 years since elementary school and she thinks the same as me, which is AWESOME), than surround myself with a bunch of fake, vindictive, beeches. Its the same way with “believe every women”, I HATE that mentality as well. I’ve seen many men in my line of work that had their lives either destroyed or nearly destroyed by outright lies from women. Maybe that’s part of why I will never trust or be around women that I can see that petty, vindictive side. I refuse to be brought down by or witness them bringing down someone else. I do agree with you though, so many women are like you described and it’s just sad because they ruin their own lives and alone with the men around them.
Story one, Don’t push him to get divorced, strongly encourage him to get individual therapy to deal with all of this and in time he may come to that decision himself! Good luck op.
Op mom and sister and ex tried to play stupid games and end up winning stupid prizes story1
The fact that his sister is sat there, still trying to ruin his life, and his family is telling him to get over it. She's still doing it!
This guy needs a new girlfriend. He also needs a new mom and a new sister. Ghost them ALL!!
“You shouldn’t shirk parental responsibilities for a kid that isn’t yours”. The correct response to this? “Why don’t you step up and pay for her kid, then? If it’s so important to you that the ex gets money for a kid that isn’t mine, then you can put your money where your mouth is. Or are you only eager to spend other people’s money? It’s very easy to pretend to be noble when the money doesn’t come out of your wallet, isn’t it?”
Cheater women stand with cheater women... Its what they bond on together.
Listening to this was painful but I needed to hear the end
s1: Op's Mom is DEFINITELY a cheater. you should have buried them both in court. Why would you not throw the Mom away? why dont you throw the Sis away?
Edit: Yep I FvCKIN KNEW IT! Mom is a cheater.
Nice to see a story where the problem person is just immature instead of a fucking sociopath
Mother is a real POS for blaming OP for her mistakes. She'll come to regret she was a monster against her son for no reason. But since she is a cheater it makes sense she defended the cheater instead of her own child. And in Story 2 asking questions from scenarios that actually haven't happened to her is not a sign that it will be a good marriage. And bringing up a scenario that actually did happen to someone else is crossing a line. She needs to grow up out of her teenage mindset. Agreeing to marry someone is saying you'll take things seriously not treat it like it's a big joke.
'If you had done what I said' no, if the ex never came knocking, the sister not so stubborn and the mother being sane and reasonable 'then' none of this would have happened.
Op1's Dad is a joke with no punchline. His sons are willing to help him separate from his disgusting wife, but he just wants to stay...after everything she did to her family.
Why would you support a child that isnt yours
Feminism is a trip.
2nd story. NTA. Fiancée eroded your peace constantly, pushing you and pushing you until you broke. What other choice did you have? OP had the self-respect to maintain his own boundaries and peace.
The gender in group bias is stronger in women than men.
The sister is a nut job. Idk what her deal was, but if she wants someone to step up, then she should do it.😂
The sister is delusional. What's really going on with her
Would never reconcile with the women that failed him. And would of gotten more money
The reason the mom is on the ex's side is the kid, the mom wants grandkids
No she is a cheater
Nice to hear the conclusion for this story. I heard this story a long time ago.
What type of sister would take some chick side over her own brother?.. I would've been on my brother's side.. she's supposed to have her brother's back.. she tried to help that tramp screw her own brother over. That relationship will never be the same.. you now know your own mom/sister will take someone else's side over yours regardless if they're wrong..
Would leave the childhood fiancee
S1: Damn all the women in his life were 🗑️
S2: yea I wouldn’t put up with that she wants to start a problem! That’s not a sustainable way to live a married life.
When did YOU figure out this was fake
Even if this particular story was fake, I've seen enough social media posts from misandrist harpies who think accountability is for other people to know that this story was plausible, there was nothing that broke the immersion.
@djdomain ... you really believe everything you see on social media? I've got a bridge to sell you
Have you ever been on Reddit? It’s a treasure trove of “yasss queen” man hating nonsense like that, and the comments are worse
Why would OP get fired for two crazies making a scene at his job? If my boss threatened me like that I would threaten him back with a potential lawsuit and get HR involved.
If he is employed at will he can be let go any time and for any reason. The boss only has to omit said reason on any document.
@@VRDejaVu It doesn't work like that lol...
Even at-will states, employees still have rights, OP definitely would had a strong Wrongful Termination lawsuit if he were to gotten let go. Also, for the omitted part that's the great thing about HR because most people know that as soon as that meeting was over all you had to do was go to HR and filed a complaint and asked for an offical copy to give to your lawyer...
Story 1: The mother cheated on her husband. He can use her for compensation. He doesn't have to pay her a dime!
Off-topic, but if the company were to fire him because of what those 2 bozos did he would also have a case for Wrongful Termination against the company...
Tired of all these stories where the author can't even work spell check
Ai is horrible will unsubscribe