When a grown up child is very difficult: | urdu | | Prof Dr Javed Iqbal |

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  • Опубликовано: 3 дек 2024

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  • @Irfanaimran8377
    @Irfanaimran8377 2 года назад +20

    I am a mother and My eldest son has just completed his 13 years,
    I was actually searching how to get my son back close to me and u gave me a very simple solution by giving him unconditional love and not to be strict to him... JazakaAllah Khair sir.

  • @saadiasattar7965
    @saadiasattar7965 Год назад +2

    Alhumdulillah is se itna fayda howa k bche kuchh bhi galat sochne ya krne lagte hen to Allah ki mohabbat or dr onhen wapis track per leata he Shayed me koi bohet achhi practicing muslim nhi bhi thi lakin mene apne ander hmesha Allah pak ki mohabat or dur mahsoos kiya he jiska ntija Allah ne muje nake oalaad ka phal diya Halan k me single parent hon

  • @saadiasattar7965
    @saadiasattar7965 Год назад +10

    Mere Alhumdulillah 4 bche hen bre bete orbeti ki shadi ho chuki he or chote do bhi yong hen mashaaAllah jb ye chote the to me ird gird ke mahol or roz broz berhte fitnon ki waja se inki terbiat ki trf se bohet zeyada preshaan rehti thi or Allah se doain mangti thi ake din Allah pak ne mere dill me dala k inhen tarjume k saath quraan prhaaon Inko bnane wala khud hi inki terbiat krdega IA

  • @zeefoodycrafty5081
    @zeefoodycrafty5081 2 года назад +4

    ربنا هب لنا من ازواجنا وذرياتناقرةاعين واجعلناللمتقينا اماما
    This dua should be recite for kids and spouse .

  • @rethinkyourreality8649
    @rethinkyourreality8649 2 года назад +4

    Alhamdulillah…Dr. Sb. Ye Allah ka Karam hai ke woh hr daur mein Qaum ki Ishlah ke khatir Aap jaise logo ko bhaijta hai……fi Amaan Allah ❤from 🇮🇳

  • @saadiasattar7965
    @saadiasattar7965 Год назад +2

    Assalamo Alaikum wrwb i respect u
    Mene ap k sare clips to nhi dekhe q k itna time hi nhi hota after all aj tk jitne bhi clips dekhe hen I agree with you Allah pak apse hmesha khush rhe Aameen

  • @muhammadjaffarali7523
    @muhammadjaffarali7523 2 года назад +2

    Allah salamat rakhe apko ilm me mazeed barkaten Ata farmae
    Aameen

  • @Harpreet_kaur01
    @Harpreet_kaur01 2 года назад +18

    What a wise advice !
    When such thoughts are come from your side.....it’s definitely making impact .
    Respected Dr. Saheb....Thanks a lot .

  • @subhanallah1683
    @subhanallah1683 7 месяцев назад +3

    بہترین گُفتگوُ - بُہت اعلی۔ شُکریہ، جزاک اللہ ❤

  • @MegaShai
    @MegaShai 2 года назад +24

    for worried parents... you can recite Rabbana Hablana min azwajina..
    In sha Allah Allah SWT will bring them back to us!😢

    • @zeefoodycrafty5081
      @zeefoodycrafty5081 2 года назад +2

      ربناهب لنا من ازواجنا وذرياتناقرةاعين واجعلناللمتقينا اماما

    • @Ash-tb8wk
      @Ash-tb8wk 9 месяцев назад

      How many times ? any time keep telling? Ya in namaz?

    • @MegaShai
      @MegaShai 9 месяцев назад

      @@Ash-tb8wk after namaz... even if 1 time but wholeheartedly... With tears in your eyes....

    • @onlyguru144
      @onlyguru144 8 месяцев назад

      @@MegaShai and always remember withu dua , dawa (medicine mean some practical work is also important ) mtlb dua ke sath dawa zaroori he for example jab sahaba jang me jate the to sirf dua nai the krte lkin dua krke dawa bhi kre the so please understand this !!
      for example jab faron apni foj ko lekar aya to Allah azwjal direct bhi koi mojza kr skte the sanp bna skte the from nothing beshak Allah azwjal hr cheez pr qudrat rkhne wale but onhon ne framay ke e musa is lathi ko phaink do mtlb aik cheez ko zariya bnaya to dua ke sath dawa krna bhi zaroori he my beloved sister . JazakAllah khairan kaseera

  • @imranasuri3630
    @imranasuri3630 2 года назад +2

    Jo last main aap ne bataya wo boht achi bat batai k hr hal main bache se mohabbat karo boht umdah

  • @iramfirdos6056
    @iramfirdos6056 2 года назад +4

    Very very true! Excellent advice. May Allah SWT increase you in your knowledge. Ameen ya RABBUL Alameen

  • @soniaawan9921
    @soniaawan9921 7 месяцев назад +1

    MashaAllah Dr sahab you're the wisest man in Pakistan

  • @UmmyAbdullah-o1b
    @UmmyAbdullah-o1b Год назад +1

    Dr sahib Allah apko jzay khair dy hr ache bat pr.slamt rahin.

  • @naveeda263
    @naveeda263 2 года назад +25

    Thanks for guidance.being a mother I appreciate your videos.

  • @asiyaasif9108
    @asiyaasif9108 7 месяцев назад +1

    Nice Dr sb realy mera beta suru se hi ladla tha or h but he is cheng the behavior last 6 month mane apna behavior cheng kiya pehly se zayada payar or ahmeyat di so mashallha ab man tention se nikl gae hon beta 12 april ko 14 na how's h

  • @mr.anonymous784
    @mr.anonymous784 2 года назад +4

    Truth.
    As being a teacher I practice this with my students who are off track

  • @asadfiroz2343
    @asadfiroz2343 2 года назад +9

    Unconditional love 💜
    True said Dr Saab ☺️

  • @Hassankhan14460
    @Hassankhan14460 2 года назад +1

    Thanks sir ap ne meri mushkil asan kar de Allah ap ko ajar de ameen khush rahein.

  • @shumamemon883
    @shumamemon883 7 месяцев назад +1

    Dear Meri do betian hen Masha allah deenee taaleem or schools m bhtreen hen mere beti 13 ke h wo mree best friend h hr bat mjhsay share krte h bolte h mama m teacher bnonge mny kaha yes teacher or m usko teacher kahte hon uske bht respect krte hon ,Masha allah wo kahte h mama ap mree ideal mama hen,kuk mree Kafi friends Apne mama say nfrat krte hen,

  • @salahworld901
    @salahworld901 2 года назад +1

    Jazakallha sir itni achi guidelines daine k lye

  • @khushbumor5322
    @khushbumor5322 2 года назад +1

    Mohabbat me wo takaat he jo kisi me nhi ❤️

  • @noorfatima2377
    @noorfatima2377 2 года назад +4

    Brilliant..... Thanks. You are doing great. You are a shining star. Blessings and prayers

  • @saimakamran1251
    @saimakamran1251 2 года назад +2

    mashAllah what a beautiful n heart touching style.i can watch ur 1 vedio again n again

  • @fauziaqureshi6856
    @fauziaqureshi6856 6 месяцев назад +1

    JazakAllah
    Allah aap ko jannat mein aalaa muqaam ata karey.aameen
    Allah jis se chahta hae naik kaam le letaa hae
    Allah se dua hae k hum se bhi koi khidmat le le .
    Warna insaan mohtaaj hae .

  • @laibaimran1835
    @laibaimran1835 2 года назад +3

    Allah ap ko jazzy khar daay ameen

  • @gulshanbanoo2370
    @gulshanbanoo2370 2 года назад +1

    Thanks for guidance being a mother

  • @sabrahsharif6867
    @sabrahsharif6867 2 года назад +1

    Masha allah v v good talks...Dr sb allah ap ko khush rakhy

  • @saminawaheed7093
    @saminawaheed7093 2 года назад +1

    Doctor shahb main wohi larki hoon jo ap k pass ap ke clenick per ek sal phely ramzan k baad aie thi aur ap se kha tha k main bemar hoon aur ap ne Kha k is k elaj main nahi ker Sakta aur main ap ke liey dua karo ga aur main depration main thi to ab main theak hoon docter saheb ap ka shukriea k ap mehnt ker k Hamary Liy itne achi video banate hai aur main ap k liey bhi dua kerti hoon aur ap ki videos like kerti hoon aur ap ki knowledge se hamy faida hota hai aur main khuch hoon k ap muslims k liey dua bhi kerta hai

  • @starvloger5517
    @starvloger5517 2 года назад +1

    Well said and Well guided dr shahab, jazak Allah bakhair

  • @laibaimran1835
    @laibaimran1835 2 года назад +3

    Thank you sir mujy laga ma ise sawal ka jawab dond rahi thi 😍

  • @aniqabashir7921
    @aniqabashir7921 2 года назад +2

    Mr.dr. Javed Iqbal your suggestions are Fantastic ways of grooming children 🥰

  • @englishbuffet.5913
    @englishbuffet.5913 2 года назад +1

    I'm following your guidelines for my kids.
    Thankyou sr

  • @Homeschoolingece
    @Homeschoolingece 2 года назад +6

    There is a lot to learn in your lectures 💜

  • @kashifqamar1454
    @kashifqamar1454 2 года назад +3

    JAZAK ALLAH sir ❤️

  • @maryamshahid9538
    @maryamshahid9538 2 года назад +1

    Assalam o alikum sir and all of you.
    ALLAH bless you ja za ka Allah

  • @PoetryHub-gu9lo
    @PoetryHub-gu9lo 2 месяца назад

    Dr sab AP bht achy Dr hn me AP ke bht ezat krte hon

  • @asmakareem5656
    @asmakareem5656 2 года назад +5

    Thanks for guidance ☺️👍❣️

  • @mansoorahmad5632
    @mansoorahmad5632 2 года назад +6

    Great man always takes great 👍.

  • @umairkhan2448
    @umairkhan2448 5 месяцев назад

    رب اشرح لى صدرى ويسر لى امرى ..

  • @ashfaqmushtaq4967
    @ashfaqmushtaq4967 2 года назад +1

    Excellent. JazakAllah

  • @saminafarhat3052
    @saminafarhat3052 2 года назад +4

    Another excellent video like always

  • @sajidakamran6778
    @sajidakamran6778 2 года назад +6

    Well said 👏👌👍sir
    Jazak Allah
    Buhat questions and silent problems k answer mil gaye
    Respect is a key of relationships 👌
    And unconditional love 💘❤

  • @muhammadimranmansoor4459
    @muhammadimranmansoor4459 2 года назад +1

    Bht Acha guide kr rhy hn ap.sir plz toddler ky bary m b guide kry new mothers ko plz.taky wo day 1 sy apny bacho k achi trbyiet kr sky

  • @chandamughal3036
    @chandamughal3036 2 года назад +1

    Bhhhht kmaaaaaal h uncle

  • @sahdyah
    @sahdyah 2 года назад +19

    issue between husband and wife impact on children also how they've been brought up .my suggestion is if you can please educate people if they are having a marriage problem go for counseling and improve your marriage relationship. It's a taboo subject In our culture, it seems to be a bad idea to take professional help if you are having a problems in your marriage. Rather then taking it out on kids and each other. Normally they get their families involved which is not always a good idea.
    I think we need to educate more people especially men to take responsibility and if they need help Theres no harm asking for it . that could improve the relationship between kids and parents as well. every relation is linked together.

    • @hinaali3319
      @hinaali3319 2 года назад +3

      Absolutely true it's a biggest problem of our society, mostly people specifically man not understand

    • @sahdyah
      @sahdyah 2 года назад +2

      @@hinaali3319 it's a vicious cycle

    • @razamughal9095
      @razamughal9095 2 года назад

      Councelling doesnt solve anything. If a marriage is not working, its not working. End of story. The issues in the world are mostly brought about by women. Its no coincidence that more women will go to hell. The only education this ex hindu country needs is how to deal with children after a divorce. If the children grow up seeing both parents and sleeping in both parents houses then they WILL grow up happy.

    • @sahdyah
      @sahdyah 2 года назад

      Totally agree but counseling is the first step. If marriage isn't working the yes by all means on good terms though. .it does come with educating our people. Starting from home. Slow , meaningful talks. Educating our young generation.
      Also there are more women in hell because if Thier ratio to men bit because they sinners.

    • @anawaris3561
      @anawaris3561 2 года назад

      You're absolutely right.

  • @kidsurdunetwork2172
    @kidsurdunetwork2172 2 года назад +1

    You are great Personality

  • @pareesheykhawaja7853
    @pareesheykhawaja7853 2 года назад

    Bht acha lecture. JazakAllah

  • @Editer_fan
    @Editer_fan 2 года назад +1

    You are great man

  • @saadiasattar7965
    @saadiasattar7965 Год назад

    Bus phir me is trf lg gai breko nhi krwa ski but bri beti ko 8th k bad ake saal k liay islamic centre admition krwaya us k bad phir usne baqi studies complete kia isi trha chote bete ko 5th k bad krwaya or choti beti ko 10th k bad or ab wo A levels kr rhi he Alham dulillah

  • @ayyangaming7901
    @ayyangaming7901 2 года назад

    MashaAllah very energetic man

  • @aroojali3707
    @aroojali3707 2 года назад +4

    Guide me for my son who is twelve years and is epileptic as well as hyper active,he is too much queerly with everyone

  • @sumairaejaz168
    @sumairaejaz168 2 года назад +1

    Very informative video ...keep it up sir...

  • @AbdulHanan-tj8dd
    @AbdulHanan-tj8dd 2 года назад +2

    Thanks

  • @Tak_tak
    @Tak_tak 2 года назад

    JazakAllah sir

  • @sobhak123
    @sobhak123 2 года назад

    Everyone in this word is expert in child development.

  • @YasirAkhtarkhan
    @YasirAkhtarkhan 2 года назад

    bohot shukriya sir 🙏

  • @arusakanwal6593
    @arusakanwal6593 2 года назад +4

    Unconditional love...
    Does it really exist? What it actually is

    • @mubashrabhatti6422
      @mubashrabhatti6422 7 месяцев назад

      Lets do them what they are doing. Respect them... Appreciate them

  • @minaabdullah6681
    @minaabdullah6681 2 года назад

    Inshaa Allah

  • @farrukh562
    @farrukh562 2 года назад

    JazakAllah sir.

  • @ayeshaakram7216
    @ayeshaakram7216 2 года назад +1

    Thank you very much for this Dr sahib.

  • @ashajoshi2126
    @ashajoshi2126 10 дней назад +1

    Thanks❤❤

  • @razazaidi7758
    @razazaidi7758 2 года назад

    Wah wah bahot khub

  • @asadijaz7875
    @asadijaz7875 2 года назад

    Boht he kmal video hai

  • @freelanceservice6671
    @freelanceservice6671 2 года назад +32

    well said dr sab... unfortunately parent in brown homes are not well aware that their son or daughter listen to them just because they have no other option... they donot like their parents in real bcz parents never understand their son or daughter

    • @DesiLifeInUSA
      @DesiLifeInUSA 2 года назад +1

      Exactly 💯

    • @khankaisar3392
      @khankaisar3392 2 года назад +1

      Very unfortunate we are... Our parents still wants that their child must behave like they were in the same age😭 but who will tell them that their child has a different start then they were...!

  • @shafiquddeenshah
    @shafiquddeenshah 2 года назад +1

    Love u sir plz do more videos on how to develop a child a good person or to obey from religious point of view......

  • @komalyoutube4704
    @komalyoutube4704 2 года назад

    Bilkul thik kaha he AP ne

  • @muhammadishaqmursaleen7385
    @muhammadishaqmursaleen7385 Месяц назад

    Very informative

  • @masaabsoha
    @masaabsoha 2 года назад

    JazakAllah

  • @tecnofiregaming689
    @tecnofiregaming689 2 года назад

    Thanks sir I got my answer

  • @artsandcraftwithanusha9675
    @artsandcraftwithanusha9675 2 года назад

    Well said sir Allah bless you

  • @f.4588
    @f.4588 2 года назад

    Buhut khoob.

  • @roohisadiq848
    @roohisadiq848 2 года назад

    Insha'Allah ❤❤

  • @FaizXGamer9192
    @FaizXGamer9192 2 года назад

    Thankyou so much Dr sahab

  • @aneelamehtab2815
    @aneelamehtab2815 2 года назад

    Excellent 👍

  • @zeeshangaming5185
    @zeeshangaming5185 2 года назад +1

    Thanks a lot just now I am surching a person to whom I share my problem. My elder son is 18 year old he don't want to study, no namaj, no job doesn't work with his father . Only playing games on mobile eate 2 time only I think within few days he became mental. What to do

    • @SaraKhan-sm3fk
      @SaraKhan-sm3fk 2 года назад

      I am facing the same with my 19 yrs old daughter

  • @qayamfatima6706
    @qayamfatima6706 2 года назад

    Salam alaikum
    Allah aap ko tule umr ata kare
    Meri aap se ek darkhwast k mai 5 bachhon ki maa hun or mera 1 bachha 8 saal ka or last 1 saal ki hai
    Meri preshani ye hai k mai jb kaam krne jati hu to smjh nhi ata kahan se shuro karon ek ka karye karte dosra kaam krne lgti hun or mera kaam b sahi se nhi ho pata bray maherbani meri rehnomai kariye jazak allah

  • @shafa8295
    @shafa8295 2 года назад

    Thank you for your Nice Information 😇

  • @faizankhaleel3529
    @faizankhaleel3529 6 месяцев назад

    Aaj kal k bache unconditional mohabbat karlo kitna hi kyu. Na bigadte dekhlo allah hi dekha meku bolker or bigadte hi chale jate hai

  • @parzival9534
    @parzival9534 2 года назад

    Thx a lot sir!

  • @homegardenfarmandme7333
    @homegardenfarmandme7333 2 года назад

    Thank s

  • @khateebahmed245
    @khateebahmed245 2 года назад +1

    good

  • @wardaansar6758
    @wardaansar6758 7 месяцев назад

    I m just exacly on tbus situation 😢 my 13 years old daughter always angry with me i cant undurstand but i hope i will do this

  • @brainsmechanisim1102
    @brainsmechanisim1102 2 года назад

    Zberdast Dr sab

  • @freelanceservice6671
    @freelanceservice6671 2 года назад

    unconditional love

  • @sidrashehzad9180
    @sidrashehzad9180 2 года назад

    Thank u dr sahab

  • @anasayan9380
    @anasayan9380 2 года назад

    Sir I'm big fan of u

  • @snowmoon7385
    @snowmoon7385 2 года назад

    Hmm..true

  • @zebunnisaqasimi8374
    @zebunnisaqasimi8374 2 года назад

    Please details for this topic. Im always saw ur video its very imformative .

  • @muhammadbilal2244
    @muhammadbilal2244 2 года назад

    Main Apne bacchon ki bahut acchi tabiyat karna chahti hun jabki Meri tarbiyt thukr ma hui but allahamduiliah ma Khush ho bus apny bety ko lekr pareshn hun bhut zaydaa

  • @kishwartahir1557
    @kishwartahir1557 2 года назад

    Need this thanks

  • @renaissance7917
    @renaissance7917 2 года назад

    Mashallah 💖

  • @roshi523
    @roshi523 2 года назад

    Thanx

  • @Mehak00325
    @Mehak00325 2 года назад +3

    ❤️

  • @deeba9440
    @deeba9440 2 года назад

    Very good

  • @fahadpatel8811
    @fahadpatel8811 2 года назад +1

    Meri beti 6 years ki hai wo school me teachers ki bat ni sunti kam bhi ni krti .. intelligent hai .. me mother hun mujh se attach hai bht Meri hr bat manti hai but school me hate hi pta ni Kia hojata hai

  • @hammadirfani8909
    @hammadirfani8909 3 месяца назад

    Zbrdst

  • @baten9447
    @baten9447 2 года назад

    Sir you are great

  • @ummekulsum478
    @ummekulsum478 2 года назад

    Masha Allah Allah apni hayathi me barath de...
    Jazakallah Hu Khaira

  • @PoetryHub-gu9lo
    @PoetryHub-gu9lo 2 месяца назад

    Dr sab mery bety ko 2018 me naf ka msla hoa tha har city Sy chek up kraya sb NY opretin kha phr hm AP k pas ay AP k 1 nuskhy Sy mera beta thek ho gea tha