lOO G CHEST SIZE APNI BIWI SAY POOCH LAINA GARI SHARAYEEE HO GAYA???...BOTTOM LINE IS SHE DID NOT WANT TO LIVE WITH HIM....ISS AURAT KO FIRST OF ALL KISSI NAY ISLAM SEEKHAYA NAHI AUR NIKAH KER DEYA..BAI IT IS IN QURAN THAT BIWI NAY APNAY SHOHAR KO HAR TERHA SATISFIED KERNA SEXUALLY AUR USS KI ADAAAT KERNI HAIN UN MAAMLO MAY JO SHARYEE HAIN...MASLAN WOH USS SAY ANAL SEX KI DEMAND NAHI KER SAKTA THA...USS KAY ILAWAYA YEH QURAN KA HAKUM KAY AURAT AUR MERD MAY SHADI KAY BAAD KOYEE PERDA NAHI...NIKAH BAY HAYEE SAY BACHATI HAIN MUTLAN AURAT AUR MERD APNAY APPNAY KO KO AIK DOSRAY KI JISMANI TOO PER USE KER KAY BAY HAYEE SAY BACHATAY HAIN...ISLAM MAY SEX KI BUNYAAD HEE NIKAH HAIN ISSI LEYE TU HADESSS HAIN KAY APNI SEX DRIVE KO CONTROL KARO ROZAY RAKH KER AGHER TUMHARAY PAAAS BIWI RAKHNAY KI SAKAT NAHI... YEH AURAT AUR RAFTAR CHANNEL WALAY PEHALY ISLAM TU SEEKH LOO..TUM LOG MERA JISM MERI MERZI WALA BAUAMEUA PHELA RAHAY HOO...LET ME SHARE SOME AHADEES WITH YOU...RASOOL ULLAH PBUH SAID, AGHER AURAT CAMEL PER BHI TRAVEL KER RAHI HOO AUR USS KA HUSBAND USS SAY KHAWAISH KARAY TU BIWI USS KI KHAWAHIS POORI KARAY..JO AURAT APNAY SHOHAR KO HAMBASTRI KERNAY SAY MANA KARAY US PER FARISHTAY SARI RAAT LAANAT KERTAY HAIN....AIK DAFA AIK SAHABI NAY KISSI AURAT KO DEKH KER MUTASI HOWA TU RASOOL ULLAH NAY USSAY KAHA KAY APNI BIWI SAY JA KER HAMBASTRI KARO KUKAY TUMHARI BIWI KAY PAAS BHI WOHI KUCH HAIN JO TUMHAY AIK GAIR MAHRAM AURAT MAY NAZAER AAYA.....****THIS IS THE BIGGEST EXAMPLE THAT AURAT APNAY HUSBAND KO HAR HAAL MAY KHUSH RAKHAY AUR WOH JUB BHI KHAWISH KARAY WOH USS KI KHAWAISH POORI KARAY..UNLESS WOH BEMAAR HOO...MOOD NAHI HAI KAHNAY WALI AIK LAANTI BIWI HAIN*** UNDERSTAND THE ISLAM BEFORE MAKING THIS AN ISLAMIC ISSUE BECAUSE IT IS NOT....YEH EX WIFE DEFINATLY APNAY SHOHAR KO PASAND NAHI KERTI THI AUR AB APNA BEDROOM PUBLIC MAY SHARE KER RAHI HAIN WHICH PROVES SHE WAS NOT GIVING HERSELF TO HER HUSBAND LIKE A MUSLIM WIFE SHOULD...ISS TERHA KI AURTAY SHADI NA KARAY AUR APNAY MA BAAP KAY GHAR MAY HEE RAHAY
Finally!! Someone speaks about it, Alhamdullilah I'm mature boy, I understand the feeling and know how to handle a beautiful Relationship between Husband and Wife 💝.
What kinda logic is this?? Just because there's lots of se* involved doesn't mean that bv becomes a p0rnst@r..... By having lots of se* , Bv is still a bv and not a p0rnst@r....
do you know why most of men are like this ? Girls form childhood are raised in such a way that they develop high EQ compare to a guy, a girl since childhood imagine being married / having kids etc.. A boy since childhood are raised in such a way that they lack EQ but develops good IQ , guys not even in there dream think about getting marry / having baby / families etc.. all they think about is sex. ( result of low EQ ) It is proven that people who have high EQ and SQ are very successful compare to people who has only IQ, it takes a lot of time for guys to develop/ being mature / reach to the level of EQ and SQ to that girl has. How much time ? most guys develop 50% of EQ ( compare to girl ) after getting marry / and having kids. The guys who masturbate is just thinking in a IQ level ( just seeing women as an object of sex ) while the women is thinking with its EQ / SQ level, so its not about he is cheating, its about he is having very low EQ / SQ , and he need to work on that, and when he develops high EQ / SQ then he will also become sensitive regarding women. A women / parents plays a crucial role in life of men, a man have to raise with all samskaras ( subtle mental impressions caused by every thought, intention, and action an individual has ever experienced) like of women and vice versa is also true. Without love of women, a man is not able to grow in his life, Women need to teach men on how to express love ( men think that love means sex { because of less EQ }), why to express love, what is love actually is etc.., why women need constant love and attention after getting marry ( its because they leave there home and hence the only person they know is their husband in his family and husband need to show love everyday to her in order to make her comfortable / welcoming. ) like these small small thing MEN DON’T KNOW, so it will be very helpful for men if women teach men these things in a language that men understands, i.e IQ level ( as men understand with IQ ie logics more ). One interesting fact - In ancient Egypt there use to a ritual such that when man get marry they are made to wear long wigs, why ? its because when they get marry its assume that now they had reached to the mental level equal to that of a women.
انتہائی اہم موضوع، بہت شکریہ اس پر بات کرنے کیلئے۔ پورن انسانی ذہن اور کردار کو اس انداز میں تباہی کرتا ہے کہ وہ صرف ایک جنسی درندہ بن کر رہ جاتا ہے جسے نہ رشتوں کی تمیز رہتی ہے نہ دین و اخلاقیات کی۔ سب سے بڑا نقصان یہ ہوتا ہے کہ وہ اس حرام کاری کی نحوست سے حلال رشتوں کے لطف سے بھی محروم ہو جاتا ہے۔ اس لئے بہت ضروری ہے کہ اپنے بچوں اور نوجوانوں کو اسمارٹ فون دیتے وقت اسکی برائیوں اور نقصانات سے کھل کر آگاہ کریں اور ان پر نظر رکھیں تاکہ کل کو وہ کسی کی بیٹی کی زندگی خراب نہ کریں
@user-jn6fo9do6e پورن نے صرف مردوں کو نہیں عورتوں کو بھی متاثر کیا ہے اور اپنے پاٹنر وہی توقع کرتی ہیں یعنی لمبی ٹائمنگ جس کا اصل زندگی سے کوئی لینا دینا ہے۔جس کی وجہ ہے میاں بیوی میں دوری پیدا ہوتی ہے۔اور یہی وجہ ایکسٹرا میرٹل افئیر کی۔
Bakchodi kitni asaan hoti hai na???saare surveys btatey hai ki pakistani poori dunia me sabse jyada porn search krte hai fir uske baad bhi apni dimagi bimari ko nhi aurato ko kaaran bta rhe ho ?gazab ho yaar tum log
@@ImranKhan-cl7pq bro in india btw iam a bengali muslim here marriage is seen not as love but a heavy responsibility and love between husband and wife is totally absent and btw both spouses work so less time for each other
@@raftartv I Believe its because most of the backward minded desi families watch TV, and avoid social media apps (except WhatsApp) since this social media thingy didn't came at their time (they didn't grew up with it) and they are not much aware of it. TV is present in almost every home.
Because ese masle sab ko dekhne chiyee humari orateen Sirf dramee dekh dekh kar khud ka dimag kharab kar rahi hain they should be aware of these topics
I will keep my wife free from such a life, and give her all the happiness she deserves, I just want to keep the mother of my children like a queen. May Allah help me to do all this. Ameen
Haan bhae har aurat apna freedom chahti hai aaj k dour me or aap unki ghulami me rehte ho... main bhe yahi kar raha hun wese lekin ye Islam me kahin nai hai... rights apni jaga hen lekin limits bhe hen ... q k wo chahti hai k wo apne friends se baat kar sakay chahy wo larke hon aap unhen kuch na kaho... lekin iske bar'aks agar aap sirf dusri shadi ka shosha chor do tw world war 3 shuru ... mere bhai ye sab media bhe ajkal haqaaiq nai batata aap k liye court me case bhe hosakta hai lekin aap sirf talaaq de sakte ho bss. Equality ki baat karti hen ye aurten kahan hen wo ajkal k dour me
@@maazbinimran4986Yar ap jesa keh rhe ho aesa aj kal shadi ke baad 70 percent hota hi nahi fazul me har larki ko galat na banao Freedom limits me deni chahiye wife ko bhi ok lekin limits ke sath
@@grenadeonceadaykeepstheene7053 then give the solution, i think when person has this kind of mentality then there are 90% chances that you can not change him
@@grenadeonceadaykeepstheene7053 then give the solution, i think when person has this kind of mentality then there are 90% chances that you can not change him
People really need to understand all this, salute to you guys for making this, I really hope all girls get motivation to speak up after watching this. We are surrounded by cheap men & the worst part is, it's not about literacy or illiteracy, that how they're made to believe. Messed up. 6 years into the marriage, Alhumdulillah, never thought of it, or anything, Scared to do so. You should talk about her rights too, my wife works, we have a kid alhumdulillah, I work, my friends/family think we are needy that why my wife is working. I always tell people. If nabi pak could kneel down so his wife could get on the camel, to tumhari kia auqat hai.
Its all bcz of porn addiction and its prevalent in our generation regardless of gender. Parents don’t know how to communicate with children. They discourage extra curricular activities and sports and put children in-front of screens. Raftar is doing great and they have set a bar real high for Pakistani youtuber’s scene but i felt this one was bit half hearted attempt. Instead of painting black and white between Husband and Wife we should talk more and cover multiple aspects of how Porn is affecting our society and i can assure u its not just Men.
do you know why most of men are like this ? Girls form childhood are raised in such a way that they develop high EQ compare to a guy, a girl since childhood imagine being married / having kids etc.. A boy since childhood are raised in such a way that they lack EQ but develops good IQ , guys not even in there dream think about getting marry / having baby / families etc.. all they think about is sex. ( result of low EQ ) It is proven that people who have high EQ and SQ are very successful compare to people who has only IQ, it takes a lot of time for guys to develop/ being mature / reach to the level of EQ and SQ to that girl has. How much time ? most guys develop 50% of EQ ( compare to girl ) after getting marry / and having kids. The guys who masturbate is just thinking in a IQ level ( just seeing women as an object of sex ) while the women is thinking with its EQ / SQ level, so its not about he is cheating, its about he is having very low EQ / SQ , and he need to work on that, and when he develops high EQ / SQ then he will also become sensitive regarding women. A women / parents plays a crucial role in life of men, a man have to raise with all samskaras ( subtle mental impressions caused by every thought, intention, and action an individual has ever experienced) like of women and vice versa is also true. Without love of women, a man is not able to grow in his life, Women need to teach men on how to express love ( men think that love means sex { because of less EQ }), why to express love, what is love actually is etc.., why women need constant love and attention after getting marry ( its because they leave there home and hence the only person they know is their husband in his family and husband need to show love everyday to her in order to make her comfortable / welcoming. ) like these small small thing MEN DON’T KNOW, so it will be very helpful for men if women teach men these things in a language that men understands, i.e IQ level ( as men understand with IQ ie logics more ). One interesting fact - In ancient Egypt there use to a ritual such that when man get marry they are made to wear long wigs, why ? its because when they get marry its assume that now they had reached to the mental level equal to that of a women.
FINALLY!!!!!! Smbdy talked about this openly because every now and then we get to hear our friends, cousins taking khula bcz of this exact issue. Since we don't have sex education in our country, at times women think what is being demanded from them is quite normal and sadly get abused by their own husbands and later get to know what happened to them. But a lot of religious clerics see this as normal as they quote women cannot say no to her husband. Thank u raftaar for being so courageous and talk about this topic.
All the men and women defending such kind of attitude should refrain from arranged marriage and go for their own types after long courtship or whatever but don't ruin lives of other people. In arranged marriages it should be strictly prohibited, first understand the comfort level of your partner and then proceed.
you realize that most of the marriages are forced ? right? ..Pakistani parents will tie their kids to a tree but won't let them marry the person they want !
Unfortunately porn addiction is real and no one in Pakistan is realising this is the real worst enemy of humans. Once they watch BTS of such acts they will regret it
baat wohi ajati hai oor specially yeh cheez gf bf ke culture mai boht common hai to yeh jo apnay baat kahi first of all it is against islam oor yeh apne west ka culture bata diya usmai to Allah maaf karay woh loog shadi se pehlay hi bachay paida kar letay hain phir unko pata chalta hai agay ki life kisky sath guzaarni hai
I had a few such friends but they are very few and my experience is that such men become sexually weak very quickly within few years.... and start drugs and even become gay.
شکر کرو بہن کہ نکاح کے فوراً بعد رخصتی نہیں ہوئی ورنہ اور پشتانہ پڑتا 😊 اللّٰہ تمام مرد و عورت کو ایک دوسرے سے محبت اور مخلص رہنے والا عطا فرمائیں۔ آمین!
HADEES; Huzure S.A.W ny farmaya, "Jo shakhs tumhain Akhlaq our Deen main pasand ho agar tumharey pass us ka Rishta aye to apni beti ka Nikah us say kerdo warna fitna fasaad phel Jaye Ga"
This is my second video of this channel, I literally subscribed after watching the first video. It takes a lot of courage to take such step in a society where no one wants to even talk about such issues or consider such topics as an issue. Literally so much appreciated♥♥. Keep up the good work. You all are a light of hope for our nation. Lots of prayers for yall. JAZAKALLAHH
Where does one draw the line between abuse; uncomfortable conversations, and unjust sexual demands? If a woman/man find themselves with a life partner who is completely consumed by the post-modern culture of sex, and personal gratification, shouldn't this be solved through mutual understanding, and counselling? This is a problem for the whole society, and generalising by presenting a single case, paints a one-sided picture. (Not expected from Raftar) Why was the woman advocate labelling a person making unjust demands a "rapist with a licence"? What even makes a person a rapist after getting a "licence"? We didn't even discuss provisions of shariah in this regard. Do men find themselves in marriages with women who have already experienced whatever is supposed to come after marriage? ...Women who put forward unjust demands, and then threaten the union? How do the men cope? What type of "licence" does the woman have in this case? This is a sensitive topic, but needs to be addressed from a broader perspective. Labelling a specific gender as a perpetrator because they said the wrong thing at the wrong time is not going to solve a widespread problem. Legal provisions have to be formulated with extreme care, as they are often abused by influential spouses. This ends up making the institution of marriage hostage to a person's legal battle-fighting capabilities, as in some Western countries. Provisions of shariat may be the only crystal-clear option to aolve this problem. Consider doing a podcast with Engineer Muhammad Ali on such topics.
What kinda logic is this?? Just because there's lots of se* involved doesn't mean that bv becomes a p0rnst@r..... By having lots of se* , Bv is still a bv and not a p0rnst@r....
Oh Man. I really dont want to hurt you, but it seems to me that you have a victom in such sort of relationship. Look, there are many perspectives of this relationship but here the content is all about those males who target their wives as a sexual object and to be honest to be an "Object" in any sort of case is the worst feeling of anybody's life. Allah Paak has entitled males as the leader of their women does not represent that they are elible to do what so ever they want beyond the limits of Islam and Basic human rights on which Islam imposses us so much Alhamdulillah. When you are titled for some dignity by Islam then you will certainly have to follow the lifestyle of our Holy Prophet S.A.W. Can you quote any Hadees or any authentic saying by of her Azdawaaaj that He was brutal in his relationships?? The only thing you will find in this regard is "Low financial conditions" thats it. Sorry to say but your words are representing that you are roaming somewhere in the mid of Islam and this modern world. The content is not for a male like you if you are truely a good Muslim.. so Relax and stay calm. Sorry if my words hit you somewhete. I truely did not mean it. I stand with all the women who are sexually abuses or who are brought down by their Husbands on the name of Male supermacy in Islam, Islam never never and never supports you in this. Now there may be multiple other confitions too when a male can also be abused and threatened by his life partner, in this case one should seek wisdom in the light of Sharaah and do the same as pet the teaching of our religion. Peace❤😊
Alhamdulillah ... Allah has given me a sense to differentiate between halal and haram as well as how to treat a girl or a wife. And I know by the grace of Allah Almighty how to handle a halal relationship till the last moment of death .
This is such a devastating story and one I imagine of many young women in Pakistan. Thank you for brinfing these difficult conversations to the forefront
Hadiths natrated from Hazrat Ayesha r.a is that whenever prophet Muhammad used to come close to me, neither I nor he saw each other's SITR. In men, sitr is area between naval and knees, in women its a area between chest and ankle. Allahuakbar Makes sense because when you finally see something you may lose curiosity, affection attraction. When you do not see, attraction is evergreen❤
Zabardast raftar ...i have at some places conflict of opinion with u ...not in this post but another one but this bold step seriously won my heart its high time now to tell n educate the world what modernization and mordern islam mean ots not about lessen the clothes but to raise n solve social taboos educate our youth ...keep it up
دوسری بات یہ کیوں نہیں کی جاتی کہ میڈیا پر جو ڈرامے، پروگرام، اشتہارات میں عورت ماڈل بنا کر پیش کی جاتی ہے اسکا سد باب کیا جائے کیونکہ میڈیا کسی بھی معاشرے کی سپر پاور سمجھا جاتا ھے جہاں سے لوگ یہ سبق لیتے ہیں کہ ہم سفر ایسا اور ایسا ہونا اور نظر آنا چاہیے...
@@rizwananazakat3966 islam is the only system who empowers women the most and as per Islam women are more powerful inside the perimeter of her home and in hijab if ever she needs to go outside under any needful circumstances
@@rizwananazakat3966 look Modeling is not right until they are decent clothes and according to Islam. Either its for boys or girls. But in modeling women are not covered. Also what do you guys think women empowerment is. Is it to earn money from any means?. And also do you know in western countries they say the onlyfans girls are empowered and independent. It plays an important role that how they are earning.
جی میں مکمل اتفاق کرتا ہوں آپ کے اس موضوع سے! جو جو باتیں حِنا بہن نے کہیں ہیں وہ اکثر مرد حضرات میں پائی جاتی ہیں! اس کی زیادہ ذمہ داری والدین پر بنتی ہے ، اولاد (لڑکا ہو یا لڑکی) کی تربیت قرآن مجید اور احادیث صحیحہ سے ہی کرنی چاہیئے! اس طرح معاشرے میں بہت بہتری لائی جا سکتی ہے!
The content is excellent; at least this channel addresses the pertinent issues surrounding marriage in our society. It highlights how many men lack fundamental knowledge about marriage and married life.
I am surprised by the comments of men on this video.... why are they even justifying it? Lust is such a disgusting thing. Physical intimacy should be out of love, not lust.
@ansar68pk seriously? No one stopped anyone to express love. Love initiates a yearn for long term relationship. No one ever condemned a long term legal and explicit relationship, which of course is marriage.
@ansar68pk ok, let me tell you. Sex out of lust is selfish, a person with lust only thinks about one's gratification and ignores the wishes of other person and sometimes hurt the other person in this ptocess. When you love someone and then get intimate with them it's gentlr, it's considerate, it's not violating or forced.
Totally agree with argument that women as a wife must be respected and honored but sorry to say I love Raftar videos but this video is giving a wrong message. The naqaab lady bluntly says that yeh ghar ghar ki kahani hai.. How can you give this sweeping statement. This is a very deep topic and Raftar couldn’t able to explain properly. Instead they have portrayed that all pakistani men are wehshi and lusty.
@@MuhammadMuaaz-gl7mfbecause its an issue of consent, jb consent involve nhi hota or coercion hoti hai then thats considered rape and no longer just am issue between couples. Do better
Syed myzammil official, raftaar so Pakistani utubers are growing.we need more intellectual people like u.u people have huge impact on our generation . alhamdullilah alhamdullilah keep going.
@@MuhammadAhmad-rg4mk agreed but still he is better than other vloggers like ducky rajab ..who are just wasting time of our youth.i do not agreed with sechular ideas of muzammail...
@@GhulamMustafa-fr9ur He fully supported Israel, he supported No-por Sharma an RSS lady, instead of standing with Indian Muslim, I'm shocked how you impressed from such planted culprits of west???
A very necessary and sensitive topic chosen by "Raftaar". An issue which needs to be addressed. A topic which should be discussed & as always Raftaar did after well research. Keep it u😊
As men age, their sexual desire often increases. Unmet sexual needs can preoccupy the mind, while fulfilling them can foster a more romantic, loving, and caring attitude. It's essential to acknowledge that men, like women, have natural desires and needs. As long as men engage in regular sexual relationships, they experience less sexual frustration and become more romantic. However, in our modern society, we often pressure men to suppress their sexuality due to cultural and Islamic values. Meanwhile, we are also adopting Western cultural norms, such as delayed marriages. This paradox creates a challenge. On one hand, we expect Pakistani men to remain non-sexual for an extended period, but on the other hand, delaying marriage can lead to unhealthy alternatives, such as pornography. Consequently, when men marry in their late 20s or 30s, relationship problems can arise due to unresolved sexual issues. Furthermore, can we realistically expect a healthy relationship with a man who has been deprived of a fulfilling sexual connection for 8 to 10 years? Probably not. So, let's shift our perspective: instead of judging, let's strive to understand.
Great topic and very well discussed . But there is another side of the coin . Female hypersexuality of modern females. It should have also been discussed.
You don't have any surveys, authenticity, or references on the topic you're discussing. Whenever you do research, add some references. Ms. Hina can speak in front of you, but she can't teach her husband. A lady said 57-67% do you have reference? This kind of subject without references misleading the society against men .
Men often demand such things. Many of my female clients discuss similar issues; approximately 30% report facing such problems currently. These problems often involve demands for oral or anal sex, or in few cases their husbands' involvement with a man. This is more common among those who are not religious or do not follow Islamic teachings.
Tbh this video is one of the best video I have ever seen in my life regarding this topic. Im glad ka muja ya video sugession ma ai or mana dekhi. Bohat aram or sakoon ka sath professional way ma ap logon an apni bat yaha ki. Tbh Im a youth and I know ka hamri youth ma kia kia chal raha ha kasi batayn ho rahi hayn. and Im alos one of them jo esi batayn sochta tha. But I thank to you guys apki video ki waja sa mara mind ma click hua. Appreciate it
Raftar is best youtube channel, which highlighted the most sensitive and important social issues ever and also political issues. I'm a big fan of Raftar. Allah pak apko kamyabiyan or traqiyan dy ameen.
The number of crybabies in the comment section had me in utter disbelief..whenever such issues surface up, these misogynists' butts r always on fire .. very well done Raftar keep doing the good work ...
Well according to me, Pakistan should have a 2 months course for sex education and marriage life, because 90% of Pakistanies couples even don't know how to move on after marriage, they come to know after 6 to 8 years. The main reason is our balagam media .
Kaya bacho ke sath girls kuch Ni Karti? Dr Shazia Nawaz NY bhi is par likha ha ye cases zayada hen Magar koi bat Ni karta mard ko chup Karwa Diya jata ha Ma 13 saal ka Tha jab mujhy use kiya Gaya female ny
Sister sab Corn ka 🌽 kamaal hai, Insaan ne apne Rab ko bhuladyiaya, Rab ne usko bhuladiya, Or mai ye guarantee deta hu Ek Banda jo Incheezo se ladta rehta hai wo jaroor tutega wo girega, Magar jiske dilo mai ek tinka barabar bhi us rab ke liye muhabbat hoti hai wo usse apne haq ke taraf laa hi deta hai, Alhamdulillah ☝️☝️.
God created humans to act like humans, not animals. No natural human instinct demands such behavior. Watching pornography has corrupted your judgment, leading you to believe it's acceptable for your wife to act like a porn star.
World is fighting on rights of woman or man being higher or lower, but islam and Muhammad SAWW explained beautifully, that rights and both genders are never equal nor can they, but they can't do things they are equally assigned to do , and they both are made to do different things but still Allah made their rights equitable. ❤️ Beauty of Islam ❤️
Simply as long as husband and wife are okay. Sex is private matter. Everyone take it differently. That’s why Islam has right of divorce. If u not happy simply get divorced. I think u should know ur limit . 1st u should not allowed to do what’s Islam prohibited. Then I think after that both person like or dislike. Which u only can do through communication between each other. If u not happy just divorced and move on.
good advice. if wife is not willing to do what husband wants then simply divorce her and get a new wife who is willing to satisfy you. never keep her or abuse her. no point in keeping her if she is not satisfying you
@@habibkmc you're right, if she's not happy she can demand the divorce. I'm not saying the man is right but how Islam can allow you to talk your personal matters to someone na mehram and post it on youtube. She has no right to talk it on such platform it's private matter of husband and wife and if they are not happy then islam provided a path to part ways.
Thanks raftar for highlighting this important issue in our society. Keep raising your voice. JazakAllah May Allah S.W.T give every daughter a pious husband who love modesty and he has modesty, sharam & haya.
A wife is someone who should be treated like a queen, so a man will be king. Ye tho is jahan mn khubsurt rishto mn se hn. Agar ham chahty h k hmaari behne suaraal mn kush rahen tho hmain dosri ke behno k lye aisaa hi sochna hoga. Thanks❤
do you know why most of men are like this ? Girls form childhood are raised in such a way that they develop high EQ compare to a guy, a girl since childhood imagine being married / having kids etc.. A boy since childhood are raised in such a way that they lack EQ but develops good IQ , guys not even in there dream think about getting marry / having baby / families etc.. all they think about is sex. ( result of low EQ ) It is proven that people who have high EQ and SQ are very successful compare to people who has only IQ, it takes a lot of time for guys to develop/ being mature / reach to the level of EQ and SQ to that girl has. How much time ? most guys develop 50% of EQ ( compare to girl ) after getting marry / and having kids. The guys who masturbate is just thinking in a IQ level ( just seeing women as an object of sex ) while the women is thinking with its EQ / SQ level, so its not about he is cheating, its about he is having very low EQ / SQ , and he need to work on that, and when he develops high EQ / SQ then he will also become sensitive regarding women. A women / parents plays a crucial role in life of men, a man have to raise with all samskaras ( subtle mental impressions caused by every thought, intention, and action an individual has ever experienced) like of women and vice versa is also true. Without love of women, a man is not able to grow in his life, Women need to teach men on how to express love ( men think that love means sex { because of less EQ }), why to express love, what is love actually is etc.., why women need constant love and attention after getting marry ( its because they leave there home and hence the only person they know is their husband in his family and husband need to show love everyday to her in order to make her comfortable / welcoming. ) like these small small thing MEN DON’T KNOW, so it will be very helpful for men if women teach men these things in a language that men understands, i.e IQ level ( as men understand with IQ ie logics more ). One interesting fact - In ancient Egypt there use to a ritual such that when man get marry they are made to wear long wigs, why ? its because when they get marry its assume that now they had reached to the mental level equal to that of a women.
A healthy relationship should be based on mutual respect, where both partners feel valued and appreciated for who they are, not pressured to fulfill unrealistic or uncomfortable expectations.
Jh hum apni kwaishat ko zaroorat bana lyty hy tw yeh sb mamlat ka hona Normal ho jata hy. Aj kal hum apni kwaish or zaroorat may frq nai krpaty or taleem ki kami sy hum sahi fail ko glat andaz sy krna jaiz ya sahi smj ty hy. Well, yeh acha topic tha raftar ki trf sy. Raftar ko is topic pr solutions ki video b bana cahiye.
sex is the need of body not only a desire thats why prophet Muhammad saw said if a man calls his wife for sex than she cant deny it doesnt matter how much important work she s doing
Same goes for the Wives of Today! They want their Husband's to treat them that way. They want His looks to be the same. I condem this act for both male and females!!
This same thing are happening with boys as well... Humari housing society mein ak newly wed couple shift hua after 2 years they got divorced because wife ka extra marital affair tha. Or according to girl affair ki reason thi k us ka husband zada sex nai krta jis waja say wife ko depression ho rha tha. Is say zada or yahan kch bata nai sakta or kya arguments thay. There are even much more worst things i can tell you. I'm a doctor and I'd attended so many patients with these kinda issues not only associated with married couple even with the couples without marriage. What i can say right here is if women are facing this problems at the same time men are also dealing with the same issues.
Some time there is lack of communication Unfortunately Hamare society ess issue pay bat he nahe karte Physical needs aik partner ke dosray say different ho sakte hain or as a life partner aik dosray ko understand karna chaiya Par nahe Hum bat nahe kartay na he dosray ko samajtay hain na he khud ko badaltay hain Hum sirf dosray ko blame kartay hain Jo kay Galat ha
every romantic move and relationship should be with mutual consent and mutual ease.... if it is imposed or forced on any of the partner, its rape and ethically wrong even in marriage . you guys did a great job raising this issue. by awareness many girls or boys can be made aware of such issues before getting married
@@DOCTOR239 Shadi aur gf/bf me farak pata hai? Mard ko qawam ku kaha gaya?. Islam has set his boundaries. Mutual consent islam ki boundaries k andar rahty huway follow hu ga.
Critical issue has been raised in this video. It's good initiative that the damage that has been done is surely not reversible, but educating other people and trying to prevent in future. I Respect this initiative
Genuine appeal not to follow blindly whatever you see or hear... Let's start first Two things.... 1) they should share accurate amount of time they spend together.... Bari cheezain samajh aayen gii... Iss baat se.. No personal details just how long were they married for or together? 2) kya nikkah huwa tha agar haan toh kya rukhsatii huwii thii? Always remember taali 1 hath se nahi bajti.... Agar rukhsatii nahi huwi out of family rishta tha, start ke 3 ghanto main hii pata chall geya toh khud kyun details share kii.... Not defending any gender, just against the idea of playing victim and manipulating things according to self need..... Ab mujhe hate mille gii but meri gut feeling hai niqab wali behn ya divorce /khulla le chukki hai ya koi banda unke mindset ka hai hii nahi....(maybe not even her own husband) Qayamat ke din aana hii hai ghullat guide karna bhi gunnah hai.. Divorce ideas kii bajaye awaam ko pehla hii apni self respect ko le kar awareness daen.... (khuwa mard ya aurat) Kyun jis par beet chukki usne koi na koi kaam kar liya hai.... Dehaat main shayad hota hoga aaj bhi lekin shehar main ab arranged marriage bhi achii khasii naap tol se, do logon ke status se, do logon kii education etc ko deakh ke kii jaati hai maam... Lekin agar phir bhi bud-qismati se aisa shaqs mill jaye toh (mard ya aurat) take immediate action rather than playing along to see where this game leads to... Duniya kii sabse pyarii aur kamzoor cheez aurat hai... Maa, behn, beti aur biwi.... Aur duniya ke sabse mazboot aur dheet admii ko jo pyar se ya chalakii se mor de ya tor de wo bhi aurat hii hoti hai.... Bacho jaisi baat bhi karun, musalman houn seekha hai talaaq se khuda ka arsh kanp jata hai, shohar majazii khuda hota hai... Demaghii kii bemarii jaisi nahi lekin barii zayada aur bare tareekon se apni biwi ko muhabat kar sakta hai... Bas mera jism meri marzii ne bhi pornstar point kii tarha iss rishta ka bhi janaza nikal diya hai.... Be muslim being human khud ban jao gay.. Bas khuda cancer aur simp se mehfooz rakhe... Aa jao jise jo kehna hai pata challe kaun kya hai...
I agree to you but yeh shohar Mizaji khuda hota hai wala keera nikal den dimag sy. Yeh concept Islam main tu nahi hai. Khuda aik hai ALLAH. Yeh Mizaji khuda wala concept Pakistanion ny Indians sy liya hai jo Mard ko pati parmeswar Kehty oski poja atrthi karty hen.
Aj-Kal Larkiya Bhi Had Se Guzar Rahi Hain , Porn Addict Larkiya Bhi Hoti Hain , Aj-Kal Larkiyo Ko Bhi Unki Limits Batana Parhti Hain , Sirf Larko Ko Hi Blame Dena It's Not Fear .
@@Arooj553 Obviously My Dear , Aisa Hi Hai , Wild SE_ Ki Demand Larkiyo Ki Taraf Se Bhi Hai , Baki Bahesyat Majmooi Es Issue Par Larkay Aur Larkiyu Dono Ki Before Marriage Councilling Ki Buhut Zarurat Hai .
i am a guy and i totally disagreed bhai aisa nahi hai, story per focus kia jaye , Porn insaan ki soul ka barbad kardeti hai specially mens aisa koi case samney nahi aya women ka key wo porn addict hu jiski waja sey problems aye relationship mei lekin mens key hazaro stories hai.. Porn insaan ko janwar bana deti hai jo cheez hamarey Islam mei Haram hai uskey peechay scientific logic hai
ISS BIWI KA BHI YAHI MASLA HAIN...SHOHAR KI HIDMAT KERNA AUR USSI KHAWHISH POORI KERNA INAHY GULAMI LAGTA HAIN AUR YAHI INHAY EDUCATION SYSTEM MAY SEEKHAYA JAATA HAIN
@Adamspredictions aurat ki job ka Hissa hai kay sub pehlay husband ki ataat karay aur ussay khush rakhay aur uss ki zaroorat poori karay kukay Islam may Zina say bachnay kay leye Nikah ka hukkum hai...
@@AllahRasool-ISLAM Aur shohar ki atat kis had tak jaiz hai??? Channel ka naam ALLAH Rasool rakh Lene sy AP k pass Deeni Ilm nhi ajata. Un khabees mardon ka kya Jo anal sex demand karty hen ya oral? Kya yeh Islam mein Haram nhi? Aur kya Quran O hadees main wazay nai k shohar kisi gair Islamic Kam ka kahy tu oski baat manana ALLAH ki nafarmani hai.
مرد کی بے حیائ میں بڑا کردار تربیت میں کمی بھی ہے اللہ تعالیٰ سب مرد حضرات اور خواتین کو اس نکاح والے پاک رشتے کو سمجھنے کی نبھانے کی پاکیزگی سے نبھانے کی توفیق عطا فرمائے آمین ❤
Never thought any pakistani youtube channel could be that much bold...appreciate it
@@ahtishamzaman7990 theses are critical and important points
bold hone ke liye kuch nahi chahiye...
lOO G CHEST SIZE APNI BIWI SAY POOCH LAINA GARI SHARAYEEE HO GAYA???...BOTTOM LINE IS SHE DID NOT WANT TO LIVE WITH HIM....ISS AURAT KO FIRST OF ALL KISSI NAY ISLAM SEEKHAYA NAHI AUR NIKAH KER DEYA..BAI IT IS IN QURAN THAT BIWI NAY APNAY SHOHAR KO HAR TERHA SATISFIED KERNA SEXUALLY AUR USS KI ADAAAT KERNI HAIN UN MAAMLO MAY JO SHARYEE HAIN...MASLAN WOH USS SAY ANAL SEX KI DEMAND NAHI KER SAKTA THA...USS KAY ILAWAYA YEH QURAN KA HAKUM KAY AURAT AUR MERD MAY SHADI KAY BAAD KOYEE PERDA NAHI...NIKAH BAY HAYEE SAY BACHATI HAIN MUTLAN AURAT AUR MERD APNAY APPNAY KO KO AIK DOSRAY KI JISMANI TOO PER USE KER KAY BAY HAYEE SAY BACHATAY HAIN...ISLAM MAY SEX KI BUNYAAD HEE NIKAH HAIN ISSI LEYE TU HADESSS HAIN KAY APNI SEX DRIVE KO CONTROL KARO ROZAY RAKH KER AGHER TUMHARAY PAAAS BIWI RAKHNAY KI SAKAT NAHI...
YEH AURAT AUR RAFTAR CHANNEL WALAY PEHALY ISLAM TU SEEKH LOO..TUM LOG MERA JISM MERI MERZI WALA BAUAMEUA PHELA RAHAY HOO...LET ME SHARE SOME AHADEES WITH YOU...RASOOL ULLAH PBUH SAID, AGHER AURAT CAMEL PER BHI TRAVEL KER RAHI HOO AUR USS KA HUSBAND USS SAY KHAWAISH KARAY TU BIWI USS KI KHAWAHIS POORI KARAY..JO AURAT APNAY SHOHAR KO HAMBASTRI KERNAY SAY MANA KARAY US PER FARISHTAY SARI RAAT LAANAT KERTAY HAIN....AIK DAFA AIK SAHABI NAY KISSI AURAT KO DEKH KER MUTASI HOWA TU RASOOL ULLAH NAY USSAY KAHA KAY APNI BIWI SAY JA KER HAMBASTRI KARO KUKAY TUMHARI BIWI KAY PAAS BHI WOHI KUCH HAIN JO TUMHAY AIK GAIR MAHRAM AURAT MAY NAZAER AAYA.....****THIS IS THE BIGGEST EXAMPLE THAT AURAT APNAY HUSBAND KO HAR HAAL MAY KHUSH RAKHAY AUR WOH JUB BHI KHAWISH KARAY WOH USS KI KHAWAISH POORI KARAY..UNLESS WOH BEMAAR HOO...MOOD NAHI HAI KAHNAY WALI AIK LAANTI BIWI HAIN***
UNDERSTAND THE ISLAM BEFORE MAKING THIS AN ISLAMIC ISSUE BECAUSE IT IS NOT....YEH EX WIFE DEFINATLY APNAY SHOHAR KO PASAND NAHI KERTI THI AUR AB APNA BEDROOM PUBLIC MAY SHARE KER RAHI HAIN WHICH PROVES SHE WAS NOT GIVING HERSELF TO HER HUSBAND LIKE A MUSLIM WIFE SHOULD...ISS TERHA KI AURTAY SHADI NA KARAY AUR APNAY MA BAAP KAY GHAR MAY HEE RAHAY
@@SalmaSaqlain-l6s Did you face it too?
@@moonknight6918 nope... But I have seen many couples who are suffering due to lack of awareness about sex
Finally!! Someone speaks about it, Alhamdullilah I'm mature boy, I understand the feeling and know how to handle a beautiful Relationship between Husband and Wife 💝.
رشتہ مانگنے کا اچھا طریقہ ہے
@@talha__ahmed Rishtaa!! I'm already married bro 😂
Ok
@@muhammadtayyab6721 may Allah keep your marriage steadfast. Ameen
@@muhammadtayyab6721 اوہ معذرت غلط فہمی ہوگئی 😅
Raftar always talk about those critical issues which we can't discuss in any kind of our groups.
Allah tala hamari behn betiun ko aisi darindoon k hathon charhny sy bachaye. Salam hai iss behn ki himmat ko…
@@noorhussainwarsi4209 o Bhai sukun kar
Tu sakoon kr@@UNKNOWN-ss2zl
Much needed discussion finally initiated by Raftar. More power to you. Great job!
Wao
What kinda logic is this?? Just because there's lots of se* involved doesn't mean that bv becomes a p0rnst@r..... By having lots of se* , Bv is still a bv and not a p0rnst@r....
Haya Imaan se hai...
حیا ایمان سے ہے۔۔۔!
Beshak ❤
do you know why most of men are like this ?
Girls form childhood are raised in such a way that they develop high EQ compare to a guy, a girl since childhood imagine being married / having kids etc..
A boy since childhood are raised in such a way that they lack EQ but develops good IQ , guys not even in there dream think about getting marry / having baby / families etc.. all they think about is sex. ( result of low EQ )
It is proven that people who have high EQ and SQ are very successful compare to people who has only IQ, it takes a lot of time for guys to develop/ being mature / reach to the level of EQ and SQ to that girl has. How much time ? most guys develop 50% of EQ ( compare to girl ) after getting marry / and having kids.
The guys who masturbate is just thinking in a IQ level ( just seeing women as an object of sex ) while the women is thinking with its EQ / SQ level, so its not about he is cheating, its about he is having very low EQ / SQ , and he need to work on that, and when he develops high EQ / SQ then he will also become sensitive regarding women.
A women / parents plays a crucial role in life of men, a man have to raise with all samskaras ( subtle mental impressions caused by every thought, intention, and action an individual has ever experienced) like of women and vice versa is also true.
Without love of women, a man is not able to grow in his life, Women need to teach men on how to express love ( men think that love means sex { because of less EQ }), why to express love, what is love actually is etc.., why women need constant love and attention after getting marry ( its because they leave there home and hence the only person they know is their husband in his family and husband need to show love everyday to her in order to make her comfortable / welcoming. ) like these small small thing MEN DON’T KNOW, so it will be very helpful for men if women teach men these things in a language that men understands, i.e IQ level ( as men understand with IQ ie logics more ).
One interesting fact - In ancient Egypt there use to a ritual such that when man get marry they are made to wear long wigs, why ? its because when they get marry its assume that now they had reached to the mental level equal to that of a women.
انتہائی اہم موضوع، بہت شکریہ اس پر بات کرنے کیلئے۔ پورن انسانی ذہن اور کردار کو اس انداز میں تباہی کرتا ہے کہ وہ صرف ایک جنسی درندہ بن کر رہ جاتا ہے جسے نہ رشتوں کی تمیز رہتی ہے نہ دین و اخلاقیات کی۔
سب سے بڑا نقصان یہ ہوتا ہے کہ وہ اس حرام کاری کی نحوست سے حلال رشتوں کے لطف سے بھی محروم ہو جاتا ہے۔
اس لئے بہت ضروری ہے کہ اپنے بچوں اور نوجوانوں کو اسمارٹ فون دیتے وقت اسکی برائیوں اور نقصانات سے کھل کر آگاہ کریں اور ان پر نظر رکھیں تاکہ کل کو وہ کسی کی بیٹی کی زندگی خراب نہ کریں
Great step.....i am glad someone talk about this topic and trying to raise awareness...keeping raising your voice
بہت زبردست اور بہت اہم مضمون ہے جس پر بہت کم لوگ بات کرتے ہیں ۔یہ پورن کے سائڈ ایفیک ہیں جو کئی شادی شدہ لوگوں کے لیے مسئلہ بنا ہوئے ہیں
These issues can't be resolved like that, in these kinds of situations they must consult a psychiatrist for counselling and sexual therapy
@user-jn6fo9do6e پورن نے صرف مردوں کو نہیں عورتوں کو بھی متاثر کیا ہے اور اپنے پاٹنر وہی توقع کرتی ہیں یعنی لمبی ٹائمنگ جس کا اصل زندگی سے کوئی لینا دینا ہے۔جس کی وجہ ہے میاں بیوی میں دوری پیدا ہوتی ہے۔اور یہی وجہ ایکسٹرا میرٹل افئیر کی۔
Is admi ke bare men sunke sab s pehle mere dimag men yehi bat aayi. I totally agreed 😢
Bakchodi kitni asaan hoti hai na???saare surveys btatey hai ki pakistani poori dunia me sabse jyada porn search krte hai fir uske baad bhi apni dimagi bimari ko nhi aurato ko kaaran bta rhe ho ?gazab ho yaar tum log
@@muhammadyousuf1580 porn is the big issue in today's life in our nation i think talk about that more to avoid
سلام ہے اس بہن کو جس نے اتنی ہمت کی ۔۔ اچھا موضوع اس پر مزید پروگرام ہونے چاہئیں ۔۔ شادی سے پہلے خاص طور لڑکوں کی تربیت ہونی چاہیے
@@ImranKhan-cl7pq bro in india btw iam a bengali muslim here marriage is seen not as love but a heavy responsibility and love between husband and wife is totally absent and btw both spouses work so less time for each other
Deen ko ager acchi terha Sy per liya jaye TU sari taleem us mn hy lerki k liye bhi or lerkon k liye bhi
Raftar should be a tv channel for such non political issues. It should be a news channel for such issues
Why TV bro?
@@raftartv I Believe its because most of the backward minded desi families watch TV, and avoid social media apps (except WhatsApp) since this social media thingy didn't came at their time (they didn't grew up with it) and they are not much aware of it. TV is present in almost every home.
Because ese masle sab ko dekhne chiyee humari orateen Sirf dramee dekh dekh kar khud ka dimag kharab kar rahi hain they should be aware of these topics
Why tv ? Then why RUclips
@@raftartv He just need you to take step forward. You are doing great on RUclips so you should be on TV
I will keep my wife free from such a life, and give her all the happiness she deserves, I just want to keep the mother of my children like a queen. May Allah help me to do all this. Ameen
Ameen
Haan bhae har aurat apna freedom chahti hai aaj k dour me or aap unki ghulami me rehte ho... main bhe yahi kar raha hun wese lekin ye Islam me kahin nai hai... rights apni jaga hen lekin limits bhe hen ... q k wo chahti hai k wo apne friends se baat kar sakay chahy wo larke hon aap unhen kuch na kaho... lekin iske bar'aks agar aap sirf dusri shadi ka shosha chor do tw world war 3 shuru ... mere bhai ye sab media bhe ajkal haqaaiq nai batata aap k liye court me case bhe hosakta hai lekin aap sirf talaaq de sakte ho bss. Equality ki baat karti hen ye aurten kahan hen wo ajkal k dour me
O bhai shadi to kr first 😂
@@maazbinimran4986Yar ap jesa keh rhe ho aesa aj kal shadi ke baad 70 percent hota hi nahi fazul me har larki ko galat na banao Freedom limits me deni chahiye wife ko bhi ok lekin limits ke sath
@@maazbinimran4986 Oh bhai har larki ko apni biwi jesa kyun samajh rahe ho. Larkiyan bhi keh sakti hain har mard bewafa aur tharki hi hota hai
If some girl faces such issue then she should immediately demand divorce no other option
Absolutely
Divorce is not the best solution. Kindly dont provide an inappropriate solution.
What issue? They made nikkah.. he was being little bit naughty over the phone.. so what?
@@grenadeonceadaykeepstheene7053 then give the solution, i think when person has this kind of mentality then there are 90% chances that you can not change him
@@grenadeonceadaykeepstheene7053 then give the solution, i think when person has this kind of mentality then there are 90% chances that you can not change him
Much needed thing.... Allah pak tamam behnon betion k naseeb achay farmaaye... Ameen..
Ameen
People really need to understand all this, salute to you guys for making this, I really hope all girls get motivation to speak up after watching this. We are surrounded by cheap men & the worst part is, it's not about literacy or illiteracy, that how they're made to believe. Messed up. 6 years into the marriage, Alhumdulillah, never thought of it, or anything, Scared to do so. You should talk about her rights too, my wife works, we have a kid alhumdulillah, I work, my friends/family think we are needy that why my wife is working. I always tell people. If nabi pak could kneel down so his wife could get on the camel, to tumhari kia auqat hai.
thanks boss :) need your love and support
Allah aisy mardun ko hidayat ata farmaen
@@aashirafaq2883 Zina To nai kia na Us Nay Ba sMard Bura hai Liberal Aurat be girat aurat
Its all bcz of porn addiction and its prevalent in our generation regardless of gender. Parents don’t know how to communicate with children. They discourage extra curricular activities and sports and put children in-front of screens. Raftar is doing great and they have set a bar real high for Pakistani youtuber’s scene but i felt this one was bit half hearted attempt. Instead of painting black and white between Husband and Wife we should talk more and cover multiple aspects of how Porn is affecting our society and i can assure u its not just Men.
I think you born yesterday
do you know why most of men are like this ?
Girls form childhood are raised in such a way that they develop high EQ compare to a guy, a girl since childhood imagine being married / having kids etc..
A boy since childhood are raised in such a way that they lack EQ but develops good IQ , guys not even in there dream think about getting marry / having baby / families etc.. all they think about is sex. ( result of low EQ )
It is proven that people who have high EQ and SQ are very successful compare to people who has only IQ, it takes a lot of time for guys to develop/ being mature / reach to the level of EQ and SQ to that girl has. How much time ? most guys develop 50% of EQ ( compare to girl ) after getting marry / and having kids.
The guys who masturbate is just thinking in a IQ level ( just seeing women as an object of sex ) while the women is thinking with its EQ / SQ level, so its not about he is cheating, its about he is having very low EQ / SQ , and he need to work on that, and when he develops high EQ / SQ then he will also become sensitive regarding women.
A women / parents plays a crucial role in life of men, a man have to raise with all samskaras ( subtle mental impressions caused by every thought, intention, and action an individual has ever experienced) like of women and vice versa is also true.
Without love of women, a man is not able to grow in his life, Women need to teach men on how to express love ( men think that love means sex { because of less EQ }), why to express love, what is love actually is etc.., why women need constant love and attention after getting marry ( its because they leave there home and hence the only person they know is their husband in his family and husband need to show love everyday to her in order to make her comfortable / welcoming. ) like these small small thing MEN DON’T KNOW, so it will be very helpful for men if women teach men these things in a language that men understands, i.e IQ level ( as men understand with IQ ie logics more ).
One interesting fact - In ancient Egypt there use to a ritual such that when man get marry they are made to wear long wigs, why ? its because when they get marry its assume that now they had reached to the mental level equal to that of a women.
Women is Not Always Right But Men Are Not Always Wrong 😢
FINALLY!!!!!! Smbdy talked about this openly because every now and then we get to hear our friends, cousins taking khula bcz of this exact issue. Since we don't have sex education in our country, at times women think what is being demanded from them is quite normal and sadly get abused by their own husbands and later get to know what happened to them. But a lot of religious clerics see this as normal as they quote women cannot say no to her husband. Thank u raftaar for being so courageous and talk about this topic.
It’s true, in Islam she cannot deny him sex. That’s is true, similarity he cannot deny her sex. Men have a Higher sex drive than women.
Very needed and extremely difficult topic you Raised Raftar, i sakute u
All the men and women defending such kind of attitude should refrain from arranged marriage and go for their own types after long courtship or whatever but don't ruin lives of other people. In arranged marriages it should be strictly prohibited, first understand the comfort level of your partner and then proceed.
you realize that most of the marriages are forced ? right? ..Pakistani parents will tie their kids to a tree but won't let them marry the person they want !
Unfortunately porn addiction is real and no one in Pakistan is realising this is the real worst enemy of humans.
Once they watch BTS of such acts they will regret it
baat wohi ajati hai oor specially yeh cheez gf bf ke culture mai boht common hai to yeh jo apnay baat kahi first of all it is against islam oor yeh apne west ka culture bata diya usmai to Allah maaf karay woh loog shadi se pehlay hi bachay paida kar letay hain phir unko pata chalta hai agay ki life kisky sath guzaarni hai
I had a few such friends but they are very few and my experience is that such men become sexually weak very quickly within few years.... and start drugs and even become gay.
شکر کرو بہن کہ نکاح کے فوراً بعد رخصتی نہیں ہوئی ورنہ اور پشتانہ پڑتا 😊 اللّٰہ تمام مرد و عورت کو ایک دوسرے سے محبت اور مخلص رہنے والا عطا فرمائیں۔ آمین!
HADEES;
Huzure S.A.W ny farmaya,
"Jo shakhs tumhain Akhlaq our Deen main pasand ho agar tumharey pass us ka Rishta aye to apni beti ka Nikah us say kerdo warna fitna fasaad phel Jaye Ga"
اخلاق اور دین کا یہ مطلب ہے کہ عورتیں مانگیں سب کچھ لیکن خوبصورت نہ لگین۔ موٹی ہو جایئں لیکن اپنا خیلا نہ کریں۔ میکپ بہترین چاہیے لیکن گندی رہیں۔
Reference?
@@MuhammadAwais-ru6ci It is from Authentic Hadith.
hadees number?
@@ahsanmalik1013 from which book and number?
This is my second video of this channel, I literally subscribed after watching the first video. It takes a lot of courage to take such step in a society where no one wants to even talk about such issues or consider such topics as an issue. Literally so much appreciated♥♥. Keep up the good work. You all are a light of hope for our nation. Lots of prayers for yall. JAZAKALLAHH
Where does one draw the line between abuse; uncomfortable conversations, and unjust sexual demands? If a woman/man find themselves with a life partner who is completely consumed by the post-modern culture of sex, and personal gratification, shouldn't this be solved through mutual understanding, and counselling?
This is a problem for the whole society, and generalising by presenting a single case, paints a one-sided picture. (Not expected from Raftar)
Why was the woman advocate labelling a person making unjust demands a "rapist with a licence"? What even makes a person a rapist after getting a "licence"? We didn't even discuss provisions of shariah in this regard.
Do men find themselves in marriages with women who have already experienced whatever is supposed to come after marriage? ...Women who put forward unjust demands, and then threaten the union? How do the men cope? What type of "licence" does the woman have in this case?
This is a sensitive topic, but needs to be addressed from a broader perspective. Labelling a specific gender as a perpetrator because they said the wrong thing at the wrong time is not going to solve a widespread problem.
Legal provisions have to be formulated with extreme care, as they are often abused by influential spouses. This ends up making the institution of marriage hostage to a person's legal battle-fighting capabilities, as in some Western countries.
Provisions of shariat may be the only crystal-clear option to aolve this problem. Consider doing a podcast with Engineer Muhammad Ali on such topics.
What kinda logic is this?? Just because there's lots of se* involved doesn't mean that bv becomes a p0rnst@r..... By having lots of se* , Bv is still a bv and not a p0rnst@r....
Agreed with your statement
You are a very intellectual person (raftaar SE achaa aap na samjhaya ha) good 💯
Completely agreed with you
Oh Man. I really dont want to hurt you, but it seems to me that you have a victom in such sort of relationship. Look, there are many perspectives of this relationship but here the content is all about those males who target their wives as a sexual object and to be honest to be an "Object" in any sort of case is the worst feeling of anybody's life. Allah Paak has entitled males as the leader of their women does not represent that they are elible to do what so ever they want beyond the limits of Islam and Basic human rights on which Islam imposses us so much Alhamdulillah. When you are titled for some dignity by Islam then you will certainly have to follow the lifestyle of our Holy Prophet S.A.W. Can you quote any Hadees or any authentic saying by of her Azdawaaaj that He was brutal in his relationships?? The only thing you will find in this regard is "Low financial conditions" thats it. Sorry to say but your words are representing that you are roaming somewhere in the mid of Islam and this modern world. The content is not for a male like you if you are truely a good Muslim.. so Relax and stay calm. Sorry if my words hit you somewhete. I truely did not mean it. I stand with all the women who are sexually abuses or who are brought down by their Husbands on the name of Male supermacy in Islam, Islam never never and never supports you in this. Now there may be multiple other confitions too when a male can also be abused and threatened by his life partner, in this case one should seek wisdom in the light of Sharaah and do the same as pet the teaching of our religion. Peace❤😊
Alhamdulillah ... Allah has given me a sense to differentiate between halal and haram as well as how to treat a girl or a wife. And I know by the grace of Allah Almighty how to handle a halal relationship till the last moment of death .
This is such a devastating story and one I imagine of many young women in Pakistan. Thank you for brinfing these difficult conversations to the forefront
Hadiths natrated from Hazrat Ayesha r.a is that whenever prophet Muhammad used to come close to me, neither I nor he saw each other's SITR.
In men, sitr is area between naval and knees, in women its a area between chest and ankle. Allahuakbar
Makes sense because when you finally see something you may lose curiosity, affection attraction. When you do not see, attraction is evergreen❤
Appreciated Content Thanks Raftar to enlighten this issue
1000 % right . Islam me bhi Haq BAAT kehny me koi sharam nai ❤❤
I totally agree but not every man is same there are good/ bad ppl everywhere
Absolutely right but unfortunately galat logon ki tadat ziada ha
Zabardast raftar ...i have at some places conflict of opinion with u ...not in this post but another one but this bold step seriously won my heart its high time now to tell n educate the world what modernization and mordern islam mean ots not about lessen the clothes but to raise n solve social taboos educate our youth ...keep it up
Such a needed topic... Good work raftar...
دوسری بات یہ کیوں نہیں کی جاتی کہ میڈیا پر جو ڈرامے، پروگرام، اشتہارات میں عورت ماڈل بنا کر پیش کی جاتی ہے اسکا سد باب کیا جائے کیونکہ میڈیا کسی بھی معاشرے کی سپر پاور سمجھا جاتا ھے جہاں سے لوگ یہ سبق لیتے ہیں کہ ہم سفر ایسا اور ایسا ہونا اور نظر آنا چاہیے...
@@Pak-dh2cj Females nai males bhi is ka shikaar hen media mien enter honay ky liye males ki demand bhi aisi hoti ha
You are right. I've always said that this is soft porn.
@@Pak-dh2cj why u always come to women empowerment u should understand k mard KO apni souch badalna ki zarorat ha
@@rizwananazakat3966 islam is the only system who empowers women the most and as per Islam women are more powerful inside the perimeter of her home and in hijab if ever she needs to go outside under any needful circumstances
@@rizwananazakat3966 look Modeling is not right until they are decent clothes and according to Islam. Either its for boys or girls. But in modeling women are not covered. Also what do you guys think women empowerment is. Is it to earn money from any means?. And also do you know in western countries they say the onlyfans girls are empowered and independent. It plays an important role that how they are earning.
Allah pak hum sab ko halal rishto ko halal tarah se nibhane ki tofìq ata farmaye aameen summa aameen ya rabilaalameen 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
جی میں مکمل اتفاق کرتا ہوں آپ کے اس موضوع سے!
جو جو باتیں حِنا بہن نے کہیں ہیں وہ اکثر مرد حضرات میں پائی جاتی ہیں!
اس کی زیادہ ذمہ داری والدین پر بنتی ہے ، اولاد (لڑکا ہو یا لڑکی) کی تربیت قرآن مجید اور احادیث صحیحہ سے ہی کرنی چاہیئے!
اس طرح معاشرے میں بہت بہتری لائی جا سکتی ہے!
The content is excellent; at least this channel addresses the pertinent issues surrounding marriage in our society. It highlights how many men lack fundamental knowledge about marriage and married life.
@@noodlesandbredy same with women
I am surprised by the comments of men on this video.... why are they even justifying it? Lust is such a disgusting thing. Physical intimacy should be out of love, not lust.
Don’t blame on all main
@badshahzada5649 who blamed all men?
@ansar68pk seriously? No one stopped anyone to express love. Love initiates a yearn for long term relationship. No one ever condemned a long term legal and explicit relationship, which of course is marriage.
@ansar68pk ok, let me tell you. Sex out of lust is selfish, a person with lust only thinks about one's gratification and ignores the wishes of other person and sometimes hurt the other person in this ptocess. When you love someone and then get intimate with them it's gentlr, it's considerate, it's not violating or forced.
Lust is a part of love for spouses. Until it's healthy and safe
Totally agree with argument that women as a wife must be respected and honored but sorry to say I love Raftar videos but this video is giving a wrong message. The naqaab lady bluntly says that yeh ghar ghar ki kahani hai.. How can you give this sweeping statement. This is a very deep topic and Raftar couldn’t able to explain properly. Instead they have portrayed that all pakistani men are wehshi and lusty.
The religious scholar beautifully said , Islam ka behtreen Juz Haya ha
Why are men in comment section being triggered.
Madam, its a thing between a wife and husband, WHY ARE WE JUST MAKING IT AN EXAGGERATED ISSUE?
Because here all men are portrayed Bad
because prophet said women cant deny for marriage after sex
Because they'll do anything but take accountability
@@MuhammadMuaaz-gl7mfbecause its an issue of consent, jb consent involve nhi hota or coercion hoti hai then thats considered rape and no longer just am issue between couples. Do better
Syed myzammil official, raftaar so Pakistani utubers are growing.we need more intellectual people like u.u people have huge impact on our generation . alhamdullilah alhamdullilah keep going.
🙏🙏🙏
@@GhulamMustafa-fr9ur we don't need Muzammil and other librandus...
@@MuhammadAhmad-rg4mk agreed but still he is better than other vloggers like ducky rajab ..who are just wasting time of our youth.i do not agreed with sechular ideas of muzammail...
@@GhulamMustafa-fr9ur He fully supported Israel, he supported No-por Sharma an RSS lady, instead of standing with Indian Muslim, I'm shocked how you impressed from such planted culprits of west???
@@GhulamMustafa-fr9ur As far Ducky,Rajab are concerened I also dislike them.
A very necessary and sensitive topic chosen by "Raftaar". An issue which needs to be addressed. A topic which should be discussed & as always Raftaar did after well research.
Keep it u😊
As men age, their sexual desire often increases. Unmet sexual needs can preoccupy the mind, while fulfilling them can foster a more romantic, loving, and caring attitude. It's essential to acknowledge that men, like women, have natural desires and needs.
As long as men engage in regular sexual relationships, they experience less sexual frustration and become more romantic. However, in our modern society, we often pressure men to suppress their sexuality due to cultural and Islamic values. Meanwhile, we are also adopting Western cultural norms, such as delayed marriages.
This paradox creates a challenge. On one hand, we expect Pakistani men to remain non-sexual for an extended period, but on the other hand, delaying marriage can lead to unhealthy alternatives, such as pornography. Consequently, when men marry in their late 20s or 30s, relationship problems can arise due to unresolved sexual issues.
Furthermore, can we realistically expect a healthy relationship with a man who has been deprived of a fulfilling sexual connection for 8 to 10 years? Probably not. So, let's shift our perspective: instead of judging, let's strive to understand.
well said great points
@@raftartv Thank you! I also hope there will be a video addressing societal issues affecting men in our country.
After this vedio....I want to congrats Raftar channel...they are really doing work on those topics which are hardest to tell.....😢
Thank u for choosing such a critical topic. It is very important
Great video,needed more like these videos to change the negative thinking of society
One of the best channel of Pakistan that I ever saw. love this channel and greatly appreciate
Great topic and very well discussed . But there is another side of the coin . Female hypersexuality of modern females. It should have also been discussed.
Yeah, these people are hypocritical
Appreciate it to bring such topics.
Raftar is the future. Well researched, thought and very good presentation...keep up the great work.
Thank you sir, this topic was very important to discuss with youth to make secuure thier future❤
You don't have any surveys, authenticity, or references on the topic you're discussing. Whenever you do research, add some references. Ms. Hina can speak in front of you, but she can't teach her husband.
A lady said 57-67% do you have reference? This kind of subject without references misleading the society against men .
Men often demand such things. Many of my female clients discuss similar issues; approximately 30% report facing such problems currently. These problems often involve demands for oral or anal sex, or in few cases their husbands' involvement with a man. This is more common among those who are not religious or do not follow Islamic teachings.
Tbh this video is one of the best video I have ever seen in my life regarding this topic. Im glad ka muja ya video sugession ma ai or mana dekhi. Bohat aram or sakoon ka sath professional way ma ap logon an apni bat yaha ki. Tbh Im a youth and I know ka hamri youth ma kia kia chal raha ha kasi batayn ho rahi hayn. and Im alos one of them jo esi batayn sochta tha. But I thank to you guys apki video ki waja sa mara mind ma click hua. Appreciate it
Dear Raftaar team you deserve lot of appreciation for this most difficult issue.
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This is a very serious topic and I appreciate raftar for raising those issue. Keep going we are in support
Very good and brave ....bold topic ..but today's very common issue
Really??
Raftar is best youtube channel, which highlighted the most sensitive and important social issues ever and also political issues. I'm a big fan of Raftar.
Allah pak apko kamyabiyan or traqiyan dy ameen.
The number of crybabies in the comment section had me in utter disbelief..whenever such issues surface up, these misogynists' butts r always on fire .. very well done Raftar keep doing the good work ...
If you want respect. Maybe you should use better words and terms in ur communications.
Those are not crying babies , those are mthr fckr
same like womens likes you butts always on fire we we talk about polygamy
Agreed 💯 @@KashifMansha
I love this channel. They talk about every burning issue. Yes true. Licence for the assault.
Such problem occurs when marriage is arranged because in love marriage both parties are agree to how they will have physical relationship
This can be discussed after marriage. And should be discussed.
Are you in senses... Love marriage ka mtlb hmmarry muahry mai haram relation hai.
@@MUHAMMADASLAM-bt7df no
Not necessary
Well according to me, Pakistan should have a 2 months course for sex education and marriage life, because 90% of Pakistanies couples even don't know how to move on after marriage, they come to know after 6 to 8 years.
The main reason is our balagam media .
I appreciate it ... Such things we need to learn
Kaya bacho ke sath girls kuch Ni Karti?
Dr Shazia Nawaz NY bhi is par likha ha ye cases zayada hen Magar koi bat Ni karta mard ko chup Karwa Diya jata ha
Ma 13 saal ka Tha jab mujhy use kiya Gaya female ny
Bilkul sahi kaha
Can u please come forward.. I am aspiring filmmaker
ap ke o mazy ho gay
Allah Apko bhi ye mazy karway
I am sorry about the abuse you experienced.
At last someone discussed this topic, this awareness is really important for man..keep it up
Sister sab Corn ka 🌽 kamaal hai, Insaan ne apne Rab ko bhuladyiaya, Rab ne usko bhuladiya, Or mai ye guarantee deta hu Ek Banda jo Incheezo se ladta rehta hai wo jaroor tutega wo girega, Magar jiske dilo mai ek tinka barabar bhi us rab ke liye muhabbat hoti hai wo usse apne haq ke taraf laa hi deta hai, Alhamdulillah ☝️☝️.
Thank you so much Raftar team for such a important.
Yani married men me agr naturally essi desires hain behtr ha k wo bahr kisi lrki se puri kr ley mgr wife sath nahi?
It's better to avoid porn videos. Because porn videos will ruin your whole life.
God created humans to act like humans, not animals. No natural human instinct demands such behavior. Watching pornography has corrupted your judgment, leading you to believe it's acceptable for your wife to act like a porn star.
Truly appreciate you for this video hatsoff to the whole team
World is fighting on rights of woman or man being higher or lower, but islam and Muhammad SAWW explained beautifully, that rights and both genders are never equal nor can they, but they can't do things they are equally assigned to do , and they both are made to do different things but still Allah made their rights equitable. ❤️ Beauty of Islam ❤️
mashaAllah....GREAT DOCOMANTORY... BEST RUclips CHANNEL I HAVE EVER SEEN
Simply as long as husband and wife are okay. Sex is private matter. Everyone take it differently. That’s why Islam has right of divorce. If u not happy simply get divorced. I think u should know ur limit . 1st u should not allowed to do what’s Islam prohibited. Then I think after that both person like or dislike. Which u only can do through communication between each other. If u not happy just divorced and move on.
good advice. if wife is not willing to do what husband wants then simply divorce her and get a new wife who is willing to satisfy you. never keep her or abuse her. no point in keeping her if she is not satisfying you
@@habibkmc you're right, if she's not happy she can demand the divorce. I'm not saying the man is right but how Islam can allow you to talk your personal matters to someone na mehram and post it on youtube. She has no right to talk it on such platform it's private matter of husband and wife and if they are not happy then islam provided a path to part ways.
Thanks raftar for highlighting this important issue in our society. Keep raising your voice. JazakAllah
May Allah S.W.T give every daughter a pious husband who love modesty and he has modesty, sharam & haya.
A wife is someone who should be treated like a queen, so a man will be king. Ye tho is jahan mn khubsurt rishto mn se hn. Agar ham chahty h k hmaari behne suaraal mn kush rahen tho hmain dosri ke behno k lye aisaa hi sochna hoga. Thanks❤
this should be resolved by mutual conversation, by knowing the desires of each other, everyone has own way
Very sensitive topic very nicely discussed...
do you know why most of men are like this ?
Girls form childhood are raised in such a way that they develop high EQ compare to a guy, a girl since childhood imagine being married / having kids etc..
A boy since childhood are raised in such a way that they lack EQ but develops good IQ , guys not even in there dream think about getting marry / having baby / families etc.. all they think about is sex. ( result of low EQ )
It is proven that people who have high EQ and SQ are very successful compare to people who has only IQ, it takes a lot of time for guys to develop/ being mature / reach to the level of EQ and SQ to that girl has. How much time ? most guys develop 50% of EQ ( compare to girl ) after getting marry / and having kids.
The guys who masturbate is just thinking in a IQ level ( just seeing women as an object of sex ) while the women is thinking with its EQ / SQ level, so its not about he is cheating, its about he is having very low EQ / SQ , and he need to work on that, and when he develops high EQ / SQ then he will also become sensitive regarding women.
A women / parents plays a crucial role in life of men, a man have to raise with all samskaras ( subtle mental impressions caused by every thought, intention, and action an individual has ever experienced) like of women and vice versa is also true.
Without love of women, a man is not able to grow in his life, Women need to teach men on how to express love ( men think that love means sex { because of less EQ }), why to express love, what is love actually is etc.., why women need constant love and attention after getting marry ( its because they leave there home and hence the only person they know is their husband in his family and husband need to show love everyday to her in order to make her comfortable / welcoming. ) like these small small thing MEN DON’T KNOW, so it will be very helpful for men if women teach men these things in a language that men understands, i.e IQ level ( as men understand with IQ ie logics more ).
One interesting fact - In ancient Egypt there use to a ritual such that when man get marry they are made to wear long wigs, why ? its because when they get marry its assume that now they had reached to the mental level equal to that of a women.
He only talked about men not women, things like fantasy are not limited to just one gender woman can have them too, this video was very hypocritical
Ma Sha Allah. Well done. Great work. Keep it up 👍🏻
Good work.. promote awareness
A healthy relationship should be based on mutual respect, where both partners feel valued and appreciated for who they are, not pressured to fulfill unrealistic or uncomfortable expectations.
Jh hum apni kwaishat ko zaroorat bana lyty hy tw yeh sb mamlat ka hona Normal ho jata hy.
Aj kal hum apni kwaish or zaroorat may frq nai krpaty or taleem ki kami sy hum sahi fail ko glat andaz sy krna jaiz ya sahi smj ty hy.
Well, yeh acha topic tha raftar ki trf sy. Raftar ko is topic pr solutions ki video b bana cahiye.
sex is the need of body not only a desire thats why prophet Muhammad saw said if a man calls his wife for sex than she cant deny it doesnt matter how much important work she s doing
Same goes for the Wives of Today! They want their Husband's to treat them that way. They want His looks to be the same. I condem this act for both male and females!!
akhir in websites ko he ban q ni kr dya jata Pakistan main
They are banned .
no, tiktok available
Proud to be a subscriber of Raftar. ❤
A very brave stand to talk about it we should educate our boys and girls about sex according to Islam.
Jazak Allah khair to the team! Much needed.
youre welcome
This same thing are happening with boys as well... Humari housing society mein ak newly wed couple shift hua after 2 years they got divorced because wife ka extra marital affair tha. Or according to girl affair ki reason thi k us ka husband zada sex nai krta jis waja say wife ko depression ho rha tha. Is say zada or yahan kch bata nai sakta or kya arguments thay. There are even much more worst things i can tell you. I'm a doctor and I'd attended so many patients with these kinda issues not only associated with married couple even with the couples without marriage. What i can say right here is if women are facing this problems at the same time men are also dealing with the same issues.
Some time there is lack of communication
Unfortunately Hamare society ess issue pay bat he nahe karte
Physical needs aik partner ke dosray say different ho sakte hain or as a life partner aik dosray ko understand karna chaiya
Par nahe
Hum bat nahe kartay na he dosray ko samajtay hain na he khud ko badaltay hain Hum sirf dosray ko blame kartay hain Jo kay Galat ha
so you didn't ask these things before marrying him?
every romantic move and relationship should be with mutual consent and mutual ease.... if it is imposed or forced on any of the partner, its rape and ethically wrong even in marriage . you guys did a great job raising this issue. by awareness many girls or boys can be made aware of such issues before getting married
@@DOCTOR239 Shadi aur gf/bf me farak pata hai? Mard ko qawam ku kaha gaya?. Islam has set his boundaries. Mutual consent islam ki boundaries k andar rahty huway follow hu ga.
Critical issue has been raised in this video. It's good initiative that the damage that has been done is surely not reversible, but educating other people and trying to prevent in future. I Respect this initiative
کوئی شک نہیں کہ جن موضوعات پر آپ لوگ بات کر رہے ہیں یہ پہلے پاکستان میں بہت کم ہی ڈسکس کیے گئے ہیں۔ ویل ڈن 👍👍
Genuine appeal not to follow blindly whatever you see or hear...
Let's start first Two things....
1) they should share accurate amount of time they spend together.... Bari cheezain samajh aayen gii... Iss baat se.. No personal details just how long were they married for or together?
2) kya nikkah huwa tha agar haan toh kya rukhsatii huwii thii?
Always remember taali 1 hath se nahi bajti....
Agar rukhsatii nahi huwi out of family rishta tha, start ke 3 ghanto main hii pata chall geya toh khud kyun details share kii.... Not defending any gender, just against the idea of playing victim and manipulating things according to self need.....
Ab mujhe hate mille gii but meri gut feeling hai niqab wali behn ya divorce /khulla le chukki hai ya koi banda unke mindset ka hai hii nahi....(maybe not even her own husband)
Qayamat ke din aana hii hai ghullat guide karna bhi gunnah hai..
Divorce ideas kii bajaye awaam ko pehla hii apni self respect ko le kar awareness daen.... (khuwa mard ya aurat)
Kyun jis par beet chukki usne koi na koi kaam kar liya hai....
Dehaat main shayad hota hoga aaj bhi lekin shehar main ab arranged marriage bhi achii khasii naap tol se, do logon ke status se, do logon kii education etc ko deakh ke kii jaati hai maam...
Lekin agar phir bhi bud-qismati se aisa shaqs mill jaye toh (mard ya aurat) take immediate action rather than playing along to see where this game leads to...
Duniya kii sabse pyarii aur kamzoor cheez aurat hai... Maa, behn, beti aur biwi....
Aur duniya ke sabse mazboot aur dheet admii ko jo pyar se ya chalakii se mor de ya tor de wo bhi aurat hii hoti hai....
Bacho jaisi baat bhi karun, musalman houn seekha hai talaaq se khuda ka arsh kanp jata hai, shohar majazii khuda hota hai... Demaghii kii bemarii jaisi nahi lekin barii zayada aur bare tareekon se apni biwi ko muhabat kar sakta hai... Bas mera jism meri marzii ne bhi pornstar point kii tarha iss rishta ka bhi janaza nikal diya hai....
Be muslim being human khud ban jao gay.. Bas khuda cancer aur simp se mehfooz rakhe...
Aa jao jise jo kehna hai pata challe kaun kya hai...
I agree to you but yeh shohar Mizaji khuda hota hai wala keera nikal den dimag sy.
Yeh concept Islam main tu nahi hai. Khuda aik hai ALLAH.
Yeh Mizaji khuda wala concept Pakistanion ny Indians sy liya hai jo Mard ko pati parmeswar Kehty oski poja atrthi karty hen.
Aj-Kal Larkiya Bhi Had Se Guzar Rahi Hain , Porn Addict Larkiya Bhi Hoti Hain , Aj-Kal Larkiyo Ko Bhi Unki Limits Batana Parhti Hain , Sirf Larko Ko Hi Blame Dena It's Not Fear .
Really??
@@Arooj553 Obviously My Dear , Aisa Hi Hai , Wild SE_ Ki Demand Larkiyo Ki Taraf Se Bhi Hai , Baki Bahesyat Majmooi Es Issue Par Larkay Aur Larkiyu Dono Ki Before Marriage Councilling Ki Buhut Zarurat Hai .
@@Arooj553 nothing to surprise, dajjali fitna is everywhere
agreee with you world is one way traffic, and bedroom should be in side.
i am a guy and i totally disagreed bhai aisa nahi hai, story per focus kia jaye , Porn insaan ki soul ka barbad kardeti hai specially mens aisa koi case samney nahi aya women ka key wo porn addict hu jiski waja sey problems aye relationship mei lekin mens key hazaro stories hai.. Porn insaan ko janwar bana deti hai jo cheez hamarey Islam mei Haram hai uskey peechay scientific logic hai
I appreciate this bold step
Well done! Such evils should be exposed. Never allow such devils to overtake you.
What an amazing topic and what a fabulous way to explain sir 🎉 hats off to you sir
this was the much needed video salute to you
I'm confused mujhe lagta ha hum sab ko education ki zaroorat ha
True
Mere pehchan wale bhot se log biwi hone ke bawjood zinah ki trf jate he ku ki unki biwi unki zarurat puri nhi krti
ISS BIWI KA BHI YAHI MASLA HAIN...SHOHAR KI HIDMAT KERNA AUR USSI KHAWHISH POORI KERNA INAHY GULAMI LAGTA HAIN AUR YAHI INHAY EDUCATION SYSTEM MAY SEEKHAYA JAATA HAIN
Iss mein biwi se zyada unki apni ghalti hai. Zina kisi bhi surat mein acceptable ni
@@AllahRasool-ISLAM Har aurat ek jesi ni hoti. Majority achi hain pakistan mein
@Adamspredictions aurat ki job ka Hissa hai kay sub pehlay husband ki ataat karay aur ussay khush rakhay aur uss ki zaroorat poori karay kukay Islam may Zina say bachnay kay leye Nikah ka hukkum hai...
@@AllahRasool-ISLAM Aur shohar ki atat kis had tak jaiz hai???
Channel ka naam ALLAH Rasool rakh Lene sy AP k pass Deeni Ilm nhi ajata.
Un khabees mardon ka kya Jo anal sex demand karty hen ya oral?
Kya yeh Islam mein Haram nhi?
Aur kya Quran O hadees main wazay nai k shohar kisi gair Islamic Kam ka kahy tu oski baat manana ALLAH ki nafarmani hai.
Very very well deserved...truly 👍👍👍
مرد کی بے حیائ میں بڑا کردار تربیت میں کمی بھی ہے اللہ تعالیٰ سب مرد حضرات اور خواتین کو اس نکاح والے پاک رشتے کو سمجھنے کی نبھانے کی پاکیزگی سے نبھانے کی توفیق عطا فرمائے آمین ❤
YOU ARE DOING YOUR BEST
GREAT JOB 🖒
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