Kat Graham's Natural Hair Beauty Routine | Beauty Secrets | Vogue

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  • Опубликовано: 5 июн 2024
  • From holy grail hair oils to freckle-enhancing blush and long-lasting foundation; Kat Graham opens up about her go-to beauty regimen.
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  • @Vogue
    @Vogue  3 года назад +1951

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      @unknowngirlhehe9166 3 года назад +2

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      @unknowngirlhehe9166 3 года назад +2

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    • @loumax8985
      @loumax8985 3 года назад +12

      Dear vogue, we don't want to see people applying skincare on top of their foundation.they have like almost everything done and turn off the filters please.we need transparency, otherwise want's the point of these videos.we are not dumb.

    • @edmacastrocabezas6646
      @edmacastrocabezas6646 3 года назад

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    • @perfectoutcomes844
      @perfectoutcomes844 3 года назад

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  • @Destiny_Echols
    @Destiny_Echols 3 года назад +26493

    “The African afro texture is not something that Hollywood has ever really embraced.. So I hope that one day I can play a character that I actually look like..” dang.

    • @r0bz1985
      @r0bz1985 3 года назад +85

      Says the woman who lives in green contact lenses and got a massive nose job lol

    • @leslie226
      @leslie226 3 года назад +1110

      r0bz1985 why you hatin on every comment ?

    • @mansooraabdulshakur5122
      @mansooraabdulshakur5122 3 года назад +416

      @@r0bz1985 how do u know what she got and even if she does so whatt f off

    • @hungrychat7304
      @hungrychat7304 3 года назад +457

      @@r0bz1985 So you're proving her point....stupid

    • @r0bz1985
      @r0bz1985 3 года назад +9

      @@hungrychat7304 that makes no sense

  • @hiekfbisnl2772
    @hiekfbisnl2772 3 года назад +13829

    *"I hope one day I can play a character that I actually look like."* That made me tear up a little

    • @tifanylately5897
      @tifanylately5897 3 года назад +77

      Amen 🙏

    • @vicky23241
      @vicky23241 3 года назад +127

      i can see her playing on "insecure" or maybe "the chi"

    • @BarefootPsalmist
      @BarefootPsalmist 3 года назад +20

      Awwww, bless you. It really was quite moving. 🧡🧡🧡

    • @DestinyEkwueme
      @DestinyEkwueme 3 года назад +93

      Meee toooooo. Black girls understand how you can go you entire life not knowing what your hair looks like 😔 because people don’t care to see it

    • @alextroy9202
      @alextroy9202 3 года назад +1

      Destiny Ekwueme not me

  • @navya3vedi
    @navya3vedi 2 года назад +3590

    Her actual real hair would have complemented her role in the Vampire Diaries. She has such beautiful hair! She's so pretty naturally! Would love to see her in a role that would respect her natural self!
    ALSO VAMPIRE DIARIES WOULD HAVE BEEN NOTHING WITHOUT YOU! YOU ARE A STAR!!

    • @paulabdul4505
      @paulabdul4505 2 года назад +14

      She's doesn't even wear her hair like this! She wears nothing but wigs to this day!

    • @isabellamurungi4366
      @isabellamurungi4366 2 года назад +2

      Yessss❤️🙌🏾

    • @shacks29
      @shacks29 2 года назад +3

      @Diamond James She still wears wigs to this day more than her natural hair...

    • @Sarah-di7vx
      @Sarah-di7vx 2 года назад +16

      @@shacks29 do we blame her??

    • @kaylanawilliams6937
      @kaylanawilliams6937 Год назад +30

      @@shacks29 Look at the roles she still to this day is playing and what they require of her. It's easy to sit on here and say someone is wrong when you aren't in their position or have a job like them

  • @dallaslyndlee
    @dallaslyndlee 3 года назад +2795

    I don’t think she’s crying over hair, but moreover, identity. To come out and embrace your hair, especially when it’s not accepted in society, is an emotional process. It’s accepting yourself, and it’s saying you don’t care what others say anymore. She’s taking care of herself and her hair; that’s what it’s about.

    • @peter7129
      @peter7129 Год назад +14

      She's completed her circle for self love

    • @its_vlkxtyz
      @its_vlkxtyz Год назад +9

      It’s def not over hair it’s because she was getting emotional about all the abuse she was facing

    • @brosef5033
      @brosef5033 10 месяцев назад

      Lmao hair is not accepted in society😂? Please. It’s 2023. The fact tht privileged Americans cry and whine about hair and call it oppression is baffling to me. Americans are ao out of touch with the rest of the world. While yall are offended because a white person wore braids but called them french braids over box braids, there are people starving and dying. While yall cry because a stranger on the street accidentally used the wrong pronoun, there are children being sold into slavery. People are opressed all over the world. Kat Graham is not one of those people. Get over yourselves.

  • @AshleyBunni
    @AshleyBunni 3 года назад +5381

    the fact that she’s crying as she reminisces about realizing that her natural hair is beautiful just shows how much of an affect black women’s hair in specific has a huge impact on our lives and how the standards
    of society can really take a toll, ESPECIALLY on black women.. 😞

    • @r0bz1985
      @r0bz1985 3 года назад +7

      Oh shut up

    • @barsharsathe9688
      @barsharsathe9688 3 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/aXFiw7LKKlU/видео.html please watch

    • @Chris-zq5ew
      @Chris-zq5ew 3 года назад +111

      r0bz1985 what is wrong with you

    • @ninobk196
      @ninobk196 3 года назад +87

      @@r0bz1985 This is so rude...telling people to "Shut up"?? Such a lack of respect. I hope you can find a better vocabulary to express yourself and learn how to be respectful to other people.

    • @shitwipe
      @shitwipe 3 года назад +13

      r0bz1985 go listen to your mariah carey playlist

  • @lonexmo1605
    @lonexmo1605 3 года назад +10406

    It hurts me to see how society has affected black girls throughout the years. Everyone should be able to embrace their natural beauty.

    • @jessicamavila2417
      @jessicamavila2417 3 года назад +1

      Vous en pensez quoi si les gens commencent à faire ces genres des vidéos ?? 🤦🏽‍♀️ ruclips.net/video/JGBPMtLsUXI/видео.html

    • @eyecolor9648
      @eyecolor9648 3 года назад +4

      ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

    • @aanyamallick7747
      @aanyamallick7747 3 года назад +83

      Yass girl. I'm black, but I'm also Syrian/Indian. And it's hard enough putting my hair in one. That's why I love having someone cornrowing, plaiting and styling my hair for school/events(But I can also comb my hair but it's really long and have so much body). I was born and am living in Jamaica and it's so hard finding products that are good for my hair type,so I experiment ALOT, all of my siblings have different hair types. My older sisters hair is more afro, and a bit curly(kinda like 3c), she couldn't manage it so she choose to cream it🤣. My mom is Syrian/Chinese so her hair is wavy,have body and really long. Also, guys try onion, coconut oil, eggs and avocado in your hair, it's great and healthy

    • @marym1476
      @marym1476 3 года назад +2

      If only we knew.

    • @lonexmo1605
      @lonexmo1605 3 года назад +47

      It’s Makaela Shes mixed with black. Her dad is black... well America Liberian which have African American Ancestry. And her mom is Jewish.

  • @yaldahsamadi7846
    @yaldahsamadi7846 2 года назад +1040

    the worst part is the fact that she felt stupid about crying over her hair becuase thats what society has taught her. This woman does not deserve that. Poor Kat, i wish i could hug her. :( Her hair doesnt make her any less beautiful, i think she is one of the prettiest girls out there. Nothing can change that.

    • @coralxaffinnity3675
      @coralxaffinnity3675 8 месяцев назад +6

      As someone who has the same hair type as her, i love this comment sm

  • @hushdolll5112
    @hushdolll5112 3 года назад +1032

    The way she cried about her hair hit me SO HARD as a 15 year old blck girl who’s still learning to control her hair :)

    • @chamham6734
      @chamham6734 2 года назад +79

      Don’t say control sis. Say embraces, our hair doesn’t need to be controlled or tamed. 🥰

    • @thekims6271
      @thekims6271 2 года назад +1

      Hey , why is it like that ? What's wrong with hair ? Is it because it's too curly?

    • @teafallbliss3409
      @teafallbliss3409 2 года назад +2

      ​@@thekims6271 Because white dominated cultures invented the modern concepts of race to justify racism, and decriminalize everything preceding the 3 pronged global slave trade. East asians were called yellow, natives/mid-east were called red, Africans/Jamaicans were called black while the now called "race" with the most blood on their hands ironically were called white to symbolize narcissistically incorrect purity which Hitler was a fan of.

    • @hi-wl7ly
      @hi-wl7ly 2 года назад +2

      ugh yes, trying to get it tobstay dowm for school is such a struggle :(

    • @nehaverma6508
      @nehaverma6508 Год назад

      Your skin is beautiful I hope I also have same...

  • @Emilia-eq5nn
    @Emilia-eq5nn 3 года назад +22234

    Why is nobody talking about Kat? Talk about her! She literally just cried in front of camera because of the struggles she's had with her natural hair, and loving and accepting it. This is her first vid like this and she is the most genuine celebrity I have seen! All of this is so genuine, I came here cuz I saw Kat's face, but now I have such a deeep respect and love for her.

    • @Maria-xu4vd
      @Maria-xu4vd 3 года назад +263

      I’m so used to calling her Bonnie that for a second I was like who’s Kat😂 but I agree!

    • @mamifall7819
      @mamifall7819 3 года назад +22

      you are right

    • @TheWonderGirl23
      @TheWonderGirl23 3 года назад +193

      I mean this is the real hair journey for many black girls and women or mixed girls and women. Personally, I was blessed to be raised by my black mom who knew and understood how to do my hair which is 4C curl pattern through time, effort, knowledge, and the legacy of life skills my grandmother passed to her. Even that wasn’t enough just in my immediate family all our hair textures are so different even though we’ve had similar hair struggles. But the pride we have through our hair by loving it, accepting it, growing with it, and working with it is priceless. It’s a everyday process and sometimes you have those bad days where you wrap it put it in a bonnet and call it a day. Lol. I’m glad she showed this side of her, I never thought to think during Vampire Dairies she was using sew ins and wigs (it makes sense) but in my opinion her natural hair is beautiful and makes her look younger.

    • @thebodysuitlady6591
      @thebodysuitlady6591 3 года назад +7

      So true

    • @thebodysuitlady6591
      @thebodysuitlady6591 3 года назад +3

      @@Maria-xu4vd me too

  • @camillasabatino9574
    @camillasabatino9574 3 года назад +24122

    The fact that I’ve never seen her natural hair before on the vampire diaries is kinda crazy...

    • @micahwilliams1332
      @micahwilliams1332 3 года назад +484

      I realized that when I last rewatched it. She may have had braids once...

    • @Anakin737
      @Anakin737 3 года назад +544

      Micah Williams Don’t bother clicking on that link above, it’s literally just some stupid song which has nothing to do with Bonnie’s hair on tvd.

    • @Brooklynbaby443
      @Brooklynbaby443 3 года назад +14

      same

    • @micahwilliams1332
      @micahwilliams1332 3 года назад +39

      fandomheart thanks. ThT was random

    • @nyakechnyangi7003
      @nyakechnyangi7003 3 года назад +98

      i saw this and thouh the same...I wish she could have worn her hair on the show

  • @Alina-st5vj
    @Alina-st5vj 2 года назад +866

    I love Kat’s transparency in this. As a black woman I completely feel her and when she cried I cried too! It’s deeper than just hair.

    • @diopfifi4937
      @diopfifi4937 Год назад +15

      It's absolutely deeper than hair.

    • @bethanyflarrety4656
      @bethanyflarrety4656 3 месяца назад

      ​@diopfifi4937 Her real hair is gorgeous I would love to have seen her afro on tvd, all hair textures are beautiful ❤

  • @Heartcore90
    @Heartcore90 3 года назад +481

    After this video, I did a bit of a dive on her past. She is a super hard working girl. All these mistreatment stories really shocked me. I always thought she was the most beautiful girl on TVD. Really a pity what she had to endure. I don't know if she would ever read this, but we are rooting for you Kat!

    • @Heartcore90
      @Heartcore90 3 года назад +3

      @r0bz _ I don't have Instagram :) But I would think there is still a difference between wanting to wear them and expected to wear them, no?

    • @lokunmisanyaolu2716
      @lokunmisanyaolu2716 Год назад +8

      Honestly she is just so beautiful

  • @thebonniemonroeshow3708
    @thebonniemonroeshow3708 3 года назад +4742

    Black girl hair is soooo emotional. Like... it is NOT a game. I felt her so hard when she was like, "Why am I crying over conditioner?" It's just that way sometimes. If you know, you know. We're a sisterhood, and we feel you. :-)

    • @janeddooee
      @janeddooee 3 года назад +64

      I’m white and I’ve cried over my curls too. It feels like it will be a lifelong journey to figure them out. And why do we put so much of our self worth into our hair?

    • @allisonm127
      @allisonm127 3 года назад +60

      Curly Crew
      Honestly , I’ve found that a lot of white people just don’t know how to deal with curly hair. I bet if you grew up with me (I’m biracial) , you would’ve loved your hair haha.

    • @janeddooee
      @janeddooee 3 года назад +23

      Allison M
      I would give so much to even have a friend with curls! The white society offers so little support for them!

    • @Tabby09
      @Tabby09 3 года назад +39

      I'm white and finally, 2 years ago I stopped straightening my hair. Ignore my profile pic haha that was back in 2010 when I straightened every single day. When I stopped straightening, I notice all my defined curls were gone. I was shocked to find how upset this made me. All my life I was told that straight hair is the most beautiful...every girl I knew straightened their hair. After a few months of not straightening my hair and not blow drying it, all my curls returned. I comb it with leave in conditioner after I shower and let it air dry. I love and appreciate my natural curls. All my white friends straighten their curly hair but one. My hair is so much thicker. I live in Florida with extreme humidity. My curly hair loves humidity haha makes it more curly. Embrace your curly hair. Curly hair is beautiful and don't let anyone tell you different!

    • @carlosandmuriel
      @carlosandmuriel 3 года назад +41

      I really do feel her...with every fiber of my BEING....this pandemic has helped me embrace my curls.....I'm going to a natural centric stylist so that she can cut the rest of this relaxer out of my hair......I cannot WAIT!!!!

  • @daydreamerdest
    @daydreamerdest 3 года назад +14570

    Her crying over her hair brought tears to my eyes. I’m so glad she is loving her natural hair because it’s gorgeous!

    • @neighbour_dan
      @neighbour_dan 3 года назад +218

      isn't it just! i thought she looked beautiful with the hair I've seen her with on tv and movies but her natural hair is just so much prettier AND its who SHE is. i feel so bad that so many different people have been made to suppress their culture and natural beauty, I'm glad she was able to show us her beauty in all of its glory!

    • @SuperToocool4skool
      @SuperToocool4skool 3 года назад +116

      My hair has made me cry many times throughout my life. I totally get how she was feeling.😭🤎

    • @amirhalynch3103
      @amirhalynch3103 3 года назад +79

      This is beautiful, y’all. I also starting crying because I too have curly hair and learning to love my hair after straightening it for YEARS has been a truly intense but fulfilling experience. Us curlies gotta stick together!

    • @neighbour_dan
      @neighbour_dan 3 года назад +88

      I have no idea if this is weird to say to strangers on RUclips comments but imma say it anyway 😂 I’m so proud of y’all for not letting society erase and suppress your natural beauty.
      My aunts recently embraced their natural hair and it was so empowering to see. I was once embarrassed about my Jamaican heritage but, especially over the past few months with BLM, I have become so proud of my heritage and I really hope that this movement will truly change the world for good so black people and all ethnic minorities can flourish and be their true, authentic selves. BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL!

    • @mikaylamc8840
      @mikaylamc8840 3 года назад +25

      Daniel Barnett it’s not weird at all and thank you so much, it means a lot

  • @Soldecision
    @Soldecision Год назад +172

    I really empathized with Kat's emotions during: 4:41-5:10 - I don't think those who were not born with highly textured African/Afro-textured hair will really grasp how much hair care is a big deal in the Nubian/Black community internationally. So thank you for highlighting your hair care routine and being vulnerable Kat, much appreciated!😊💫

  • @angelwingz622
    @angelwingz622 2 года назад +104

    I cannot believe this is the first time seeing her natural hair texture. ❤

    • @paulabdul4505
      @paulabdul4505 2 года назад

      The reason it's your first time seeing it is because she still wears nothing but wigs. She's full of sht and doesn't wear her hair thisbway

  • @a.d.w8385
    @a.d.w8385 3 года назад +18820

    The most disrespected yet most valuable character on tvd was Bonnie Bennet.

    • @olavihekandjo2928
      @olavihekandjo2928 3 года назад +84

      If she was made the most valuable, then how was she the most disrespected?

    • @calmeshera4131
      @calmeshera4131 3 года назад +1090

      I agree, she literally saved the world. She deserved better. To me she was the strongest witch and female character in TVD. Followed by Caroline

    • @queenofsheba1000
      @queenofsheba1000 3 года назад +56

      Truth

    • @opaquea2448
      @opaquea2448 3 года назад +256

      I want her to produce her own show and get better treatment

    • @Nikksinterlude
      @Nikksinterlude 3 года назад +60

      Niyah R you sound like you haven’t watched the show.

  • @canaldazany
    @canaldazany 3 года назад +5943

    only black woman understand how powerful and spiritual it is to start owning and using YOUR hair. I got emotional with her. Its powerful

    • @AB-yk2pq
      @AB-yk2pq 3 года назад +35

      White people can have curcly hair

    • @babydijonay5594
      @babydijonay5594 3 года назад +236

      @@silentsubscriber4019 who is use to wearing it since birth and that hair type is accepted.. black women are programmed as a child to adjust their hair texture or cover it up

    • @jessicamarie6448
      @jessicamarie6448 3 года назад +213

      @@silentsubscriber4019 What about them? We’re talking about black women because we are black women.

    • @JLDReactions
      @JLDReactions 3 года назад +163

      @@silentsubscriber4019 Most Middle Eastern women don't have type 4 hair. It's not uncommon, but most definitely not the majority. Type 4 is the least accepted by society because like most things, anything associated with blackness is seen as inferior.

    • @itzclo
      @itzclo 3 года назад +160

      @@JLDReactions thank you. i swear the "what about me" train is NEVER late

  • @elisabethwaldron3192
    @elisabethwaldron3192 11 месяцев назад +41

    Watching this almost three years later… her testimony still hits hard, she really showed the world the struggles of learning to love your hair as a black/biracial woman❤

    • @MixedChick1
      @MixedChick1 6 месяцев назад +3

      she is mixed not black

    • @kaileighmosley9317
      @kaileighmosley9317 6 месяцев назад +2

      @@MixedChick1she literally said black/ BIRACIAL. key word, BIRACIAL

    • @MixedChick1
      @MixedChick1 6 месяцев назад

      @@kaileighmosley9317 It's just biracial woman not black/biracial woman!.

    • @destinygallien6706
      @destinygallien6706 4 месяца назад +1

      @@MixedChick1yes she said it correct as black/biracial woman because being biracial means you are two different ethnicities, for example white and Asian, Mexican and Indian anything. She said Black biracial meaning she is biracial, and her other side is black

  • @rinoa7896
    @rinoa7896 2 года назад +215

    Watching Kat cry brought me to tears, you can really see the pain in her eyes with what she’s had to deal with over the years especially the mistreatment during TVD. Her hair is absolutely beautiful! What an Amazing, strong women inside & out. Wish all the best for her got a lot of love.

  • @taizyakaite
    @taizyakaite 3 года назад +9746

    People don't realize that she wasn't just crying about her hair, there's something deeper 🥺

    • @kelly__9056
      @kelly__9056 3 года назад +1155

      The ✨ *racism* ✨she had to go through as an actress. I don't know when we will get accepted to be our natural selves

    • @deadchannel3610
      @deadchannel3610 3 года назад +527

      Exactly, i hate when yt's said like "it's just hair." Hair is your crown, it can tell so many stories. Thats why they chopped off native american and korean hair so they would lose themselves.

    • @sapphire2825
      @sapphire2825 3 года назад +274

      It was racism she had to experience working with Hollywood they did her dirty and she is still thankful

    • @STEPHIEoficial
      @STEPHIEoficial 3 года назад +92

      Yeah RACISM

    • @brookejohnson8289
      @brookejohnson8289 3 года назад +96

      @@deadchannel3610 exactly our hair is a big part of us and our culture!

  • @lisa-minniezondi3118
    @lisa-minniezondi3118 3 года назад +3385

    When she started crying when she spoke about her hair, I FELT THAT. Crying while doing your hair is a different kind of pain. Especially for women who have 4C type hair.

    • @arp5546
      @arp5546 3 года назад +46

      Minnie well at least her hair isnt 4c. I know the struggles of true 4c. 😑

    • @biscoffology
      @biscoffology 3 года назад +1

      @@arp5546 would u say its 4b??

    • @haircrazygirl
      @haircrazygirl 3 года назад +58

      It's too bad she didn't have help getting to know her hair as a kid.

    • @queenblessyy
      @queenblessyy 3 года назад +11

      She definitely has 4b

    • @knotalie
      @knotalie 3 года назад +48

      @@queenblessyy her hair is probably 3c just because you could see her true curl pattern when its wet... i know a lot of people who thought the had type 4 hair because they only really paid attention to how it looked in its dry state hahaha

  • @januckey1
    @januckey1 11 месяцев назад +62

    I cried with her. Being “alone” with your natural hair can be overwhelming even for black women who are use to taking care of and managing their own hair, but for someone who has never had to face or deal with it themselves, to do it for the first time and realize you will be ok is very emotional. Kat is beautiful and I hate that she was treated so poorly on TVD. She didn’t deserve how they treated her and I hope she is happier than she has ever been.🥰

  • @zahaanaz6123
    @zahaanaz6123 3 года назад +176

    Shoutout to kat's hairstylist rachel for helping kat find her confidence 💘💘💞

    • @shamah-fm8vz
      @shamah-fm8vz 8 дней назад

      What was the product that she first put in her hair during the video ❣️
      I also wanna use it ☺️❤

  • @Panay2011
    @Panay2011 3 года назад +6286

    Don’t apologize Kat, Julie should be apologizing she treated you bad through the years of Tvd. That racist woman does not deserve you

    • @hehebug3103
      @hehebug3103 3 года назад +203

      I agree I’m so glad the cast stood up for her

    • @rafiaamin5560
      @rafiaamin5560 3 года назад +349

      @@hehebug3103 specially Ian he said he would leave the show with Kat if they killed Bonnie

    • @Darkwaifu
      @Darkwaifu 3 года назад +177

      Cast Except Matt And Alaric
      They Racist Asf👁👄👁

    • @misssyk2004
      @misssyk2004 3 года назад +16

      @@Darkwaifu right, stupid selves

    • @acidocianidrico
      @acidocianidrico 3 года назад +13

      Wait, what happened? O_O

  • @hjaida9779
    @hjaida9779 3 года назад +5208

    No ones gonna talk about how she is literally glowing she is so beautiful

    • @greertheodore4799
      @greertheodore4799 3 года назад +11

      Yessss!!!

    • @synthiasadio3463
      @synthiasadio3463 3 года назад +1

      Wait...... ok I talked bye imma go say some more

    • @ashantiboo
      @ashantiboo 3 года назад +4

      frrr

    • @shavashapowell7547
      @shavashapowell7547 3 года назад +3

      Ikr

    • @jessicamavila2417
      @jessicamavila2417 3 года назад

      Vous en pensez quoi si les gens commencent à faire ces genres des vidéos ?? 🤦🏽‍♀️ ruclips.net/video/JGBPMtLsUXI/видео.html

  • @tenisiadavis5435
    @tenisiadavis5435 2 года назад +80

    This made me cry. My heart goes out to her but I’m so glad she’s embracing and accepting of her own hair. Young girls need to see this

  • @natesoto6954
    @natesoto6954 3 года назад +4281

    When she cried over finding a product that works for her curls... I felt that

    • @redglasses33
      @redglasses33 3 года назад +80

      been natural 2 years and have yet to find a product for my hair. May give that conditioner a try

    • @The1GeminII
      @The1GeminII 3 года назад +58

      Sweet Fee -As much as it pains, don’t keep buying a lot of products. I could open a salon with all of my hair care products (I probably use 10 products right now). Journal your hair care, step by step with the products you use. Try to use the same products, in the same order for a month. I know you’ve heard it a million times, and I am honestly still trying to find the right balance, but water is the most important ingredient to your healthcare. Try to find a RUclipsr, with your hair type, porosity, density, and length, to watch. Take care and stay Be-You-Tiful.

    • @DanieB322
      @DanieB322 3 года назад +5

      SAMEEEE

    • @feliciarondon5486
      @feliciarondon5486 3 года назад +3

      Me toooo

    • @ToyaRR
      @ToyaRR 3 года назад +7

      @@redglasses33 hi check out Afope Atoyebi's youtube channel. Search her name along with film forming humectants. I too had extremely dry hair for a few years. Afope speaks on what I found out through trial an error - film forming humectants is the way to go. My go to is sea moss jell (a film forming humectant). I melt it in warm water, let it cool and use that as a moisturizer and then seal it in with oil or grease. Hope that helps.

  • @beatselekta
    @beatselekta 3 года назад +4003

    My ignorance is showing... I had no idea that her hair on TVD wasn't her own. I almost cried with her when she got emotional about never being able to show the hair she was born with.

    • @CR-ce5lf
      @CR-ce5lf 3 года назад +261

      It’s not ignorance, so many people just never focused on her hair because they were more into the characters and storylines. We have to start being open, understanding and accepting of those who don’t look like us and have empathy because our situations are totally different.

    • @beatselekta
      @beatselekta 3 года назад +88

      @@CR-ce5lf You're so right. Thank you for responding to my comment :)

    • @iansomerhalderfanpage5975
      @iansomerhalderfanpage5975 3 года назад +1

      Hi Emma

    • @keriilouis6457
      @keriilouis6457 3 года назад +1

      @@iansomerhalderfanpage5975 make some content .

    • @breekwhal
      @breekwhal 3 года назад +4

      You thought her hair was naturally straight?

  • @DiscoverywithBecky
    @DiscoverywithBecky 3 года назад +152

    All love to people like Rachel Lee, who help others embrace who they truly are!!
    Much love to Kat on this journey of finding out how fun her hair really is

    • @YO-vv8ee
      @YO-vv8ee 2 года назад +2

      Who’s Rachel lee?

  • @Kristendgraham
    @Kristendgraham Год назад +26

    I absolutely loved Kat on the Vampire Diaries. She was my favourite character on the show. I love seeing her embrace her natural hair, such a beautiful woman.

  • @kinara5086
    @kinara5086 3 года назад +3541

    She cried over hair, this is why diversity is important to be showcased on tv and social media, and celebrated. So that lil girls grow up beleiveing that theyre not ugly but beautiful.❤

    • @zyond.5036
      @zyond.5036 3 года назад +44

      @Lisa crawford no such thing as “good hair” in the way you’re using it. Healthy hair is good hair. Having looser curls patterns or straight hair does not mean you have good hair.

    • @Kedesh14
      @Kedesh14 3 года назад +19

      @Lisa crawford girl bye

    • @DiamondJazelle93
      @DiamondJazelle93 3 года назад +8

      @Lisa crawford You sound so ignorant 🙄

    • @jacquelinehilliard9119
      @jacquelinehilliard9119 3 года назад +11

      I think she's also crying because of her journey with those racist people on Vampire Diaries

    • @gillianespinoza3652
      @gillianespinoza3652 3 года назад +1

      Yes yes!!!!!

  • @avanicole3901
    @avanicole3901 3 года назад +2995

    when she said “i hope one day i can play a character that i actually look like” that made me so sad. she is so naturally beautiful! she doesn’t deserve to have to change for others, especially something that she can’t control. i love her hair so much. she deserves so much better.

    • @avanicole3901
      @avanicole3901 3 года назад +10

      @r0bz definition of privilege

    • @stefansalvas1854
      @stefansalvas1854 3 года назад +12

      @r0bz ok and u insecure person if that’s what’s makes her happy let her be I know you wouldn’t say this to madison beer who’s had eyebrows lifts lips plums but you still call her natural beauty stop hating on her if this what she likes to do u idiot commenting on every reply.

    • @eunikemanurung4779
      @eunikemanurung4779 3 года назад +11

      @r0bz it's really funny that you think you're really doing something with these tremendously ignorant comments. go watch content you actually like and care about ffs

    • @eunikemanurung4779
      @eunikemanurung4779 3 года назад +8

      @r0bz just like no one asked for your irrelevant ones you cretin

    • @brittanyg4781
      @brittanyg4781 3 года назад +7

      @r0bz ur literally so obsessed with Kat that ur under every comment, it’s funny yet sad, just say ur soooooo in love with her that it hurts and go

  • @catherinegilmore2709
    @catherinegilmore2709 2 года назад +63

    So beautiful; inside and out. I cried when she cried. I didn't know she went through all that on TVD and it broke my heart for her. So happy she sees her beauty like we do. I hope she's still rocking her natural hair.

  • @josaphinemickelson5108
    @josaphinemickelson5108 Год назад +22

    Bonnie was honestly, my favourite character and I always wanted a spin-off of her travelling the world like she said she would in the finale and break out of the stereotype that was the 'black best friend'. Her story should've had so much more detail and everything about her character was a white girl except for her skin tone. Love you kat!

  • @chidimmambbahoffor
    @chidimmambbahoffor 3 года назад +4504

    She's like "why am I crying? This is so stupid."
    But am over here crying too cos it's so touching to have a caring friend.

    • @r0bz1985
      @r0bz1985 3 года назад +13

      No she's right it's stupid to cry over hair. Kim there's people that are dying

    • @chidimmambbahoffor
      @chidimmambbahoffor 3 года назад +95

      @@r0bz1985 yea its stupid to cry over hair but hair isn't what brought her to tears actually. It is her friend who could think abt her future situation and contributed to it by making life easier for her.

    • @r0bz1985
      @r0bz1985 3 года назад +3

      @@chidimmambbahoffor if she went to hair dressers she could easily asked for tips. I guess she's a stupid person

    • @chidimmambbahoffor
      @chidimmambbahoffor 3 года назад +68

      @@r0bz1985 Don't be hateful.
      I know we are all going through things. But don't take yours out on her. Pls

    • @r0bz1985
      @r0bz1985 3 года назад +2

      @@chidimmambbahoffor this has nothing to do with me. Kat is a stupid person for not asking hair dressers who are hair professionals for advice while she was already there.

  • @auroraseyets8516
    @auroraseyets8516 3 года назад +2549

    "I hope that I one day can play a character that I actually look like." That was just so deep.

    • @Abi-zv4jc
      @Abi-zv4jc 3 года назад +26

      @r0bz why are u so horrible surely you have something better to do

    • @himetilsits1936
      @himetilsits1936 3 года назад

      @r0bz yes u are right,why 😩?

    • @himetilsits1936
      @himetilsits1936 3 года назад

      @r0bz yes is true, she is insecure and wish to look more like a white woman 😌

    • @adeyemoifemade7832
      @adeyemoifemade7832 3 года назад +3

      @r0bz you see you are miserable now stfu and stop being annoying and commenting the same thing

    • @Jessicaro
      @Jessicaro 3 года назад +3

      then she should apply to play a black girl with black hair. what is the problem?
      she knew they would ask of her to wear a wig i doubt nina in the vampire diaries wanted to keep her hair in that same style for all those years. it is a role you play a job you get payed for people need to stop acting as if she hadn't a choice.

  • @nenoshkarodriguez6990
    @nenoshkarodriguez6990 2 года назад +171

    No one:
    Not a single soul:
    Kat: CaN YoU hEaR mE
    I love her

  • @annalena7278
    @annalena7278 2 года назад +36

    She's a such a queen! It hurts to hear how much she had to go through... her natural is so beautiful, just like her.❤

  • @lusekosivenathidiki3984
    @lusekosivenathidiki3984 3 года назад +2909

    "i HOPE THAT ONE DAY I PLAY A CHARACTER THAT I ACTUALLY LOOK LIKE" felt that!

    • @jessicamavila2417
      @jessicamavila2417 3 года назад

      Vous en pensez quoi si les gens commencent à faire ces genres des vidéos ?? 🤦🏽‍♀️ ruclips.net/video/JGBPMtLsUXI/видео.html

    • @r0bz1985
      @r0bz1985 3 года назад +1

      Says the woman who lives in green contact lenses

    • @hummingbird4129
      @hummingbird4129 3 года назад +1

      🗣 Volumes

    • @r0bz1985
      @r0bz1985 3 года назад +1

      @@hummingbird4129 when you play a character you play someone else you are not playing yourself. I don't think she has to worry about it tho cause she does not get any acting roles anymore 😂

    • @barsharsathe9688
      @barsharsathe9688 3 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/aXFiw7LKKlU/видео.html please watch

  • @rosalia3468
    @rosalia3468 3 года назад +3561

    I hope this doesn’t offend any black women at all but it makes me angry to see that black women can’t show their beautiful natural hair! It’s so unfair. Black is beautiful. Your features are absolutely gorgeous, your skin is angelic and so so glowingly gorgeous. Your hair is so freaking perfect. Don’t let anyone ever tell you different.

    • @djshockafrica4330
      @djshockafrica4330 3 года назад +135

      Thank you dear

    • @CaraDowneyeroticromanceauthor
      @CaraDowneyeroticromanceauthor 3 года назад +156

      No offence taken... thank you love!

    • @mirandasmith8501
      @mirandasmith8501 3 года назад +90

      No offense at all.

    • @carima7595
      @carima7595 3 года назад +93

      You are absolutely right!I am black and proudly rocking my natural hair. I hope more of us embrace our natural crown!

    • @k.c.4514
      @k.c.4514 3 года назад +47

      Thank you so much! This comment makes me feel so much better about being black, we need more people like you in the world!!! Much love ❤

  • @whosurbunny
    @whosurbunny 3 года назад +61

    I thought I would "side eye" this video... but I found it sooo very touching! I completely identified with her moment explaining her journey in this "uncharted territory" call a "natural afro". I cried remembering my 1st transition and finally my courage to hv a "big chop"! I felt "ugly" everyday for years b4 I finally accepted and learned my hair process to feel beautiful again...🙃 I don't really like wearing makeup but it was a daily necessity while trying to accept my "new look". I Love this Video. It was the Courage to be Vulnerable 4 Me!

  • @saraluisa8565
    @saraluisa8565 2 года назад +9

    Dude, she's so pure, so cute! She's finally free! She deserves the word😭💜💜

  • @simplyshama
    @simplyshama 3 года назад +5644

    Feel like every black woman can relate to this video. Especially when she broke down. It's so much more than hair. It's identity, culture, societal "worth". Very refreshing to see a woman with type 4 hair on Vogue

    • @serenaperez3730
      @serenaperez3730 3 года назад +58

      i love this comment so much

    • @laylacore2959
      @laylacore2959 3 года назад +13

      Exactly used to straighten the shut out of mine but now I’ve learnt to live and manage it

    • @andriaalves5466
      @andriaalves5466 3 года назад +8

      I think every girl who has curl hair
      I'm withe but my mom and graph are black
      But my father and his family is withe
      So turns that I'm like really with
      But my hair is curl and it's really difficult deal with the power of this.
      Because I'm to lasy too

    • @sweetlilangel714
      @sweetlilangel714 3 года назад +55

      I cried with her because trying to find the right product, learning about your hair, also wasting your money in the process takes a toll.

    • @marissastrong5209
      @marissastrong5209 3 года назад

      Yonique Waisome I dmed you on instagram 😁

  • @cambriajolika
    @cambriajolika 3 года назад +2856

    This was one of the realist Vogue episodes in a long time. Her vulnerabilities showed right through the camera lens and the struggle is real especially dealing with natural hair with people of color. Societal norms and especially working in entertainment have white washed the perception of beauty. Kat should know and always know that she is beautiful.

    • @perfectoutcomes844
      @perfectoutcomes844 3 года назад

      *click here* 👇
      ruclips.net/video/q8Ih8S5WGw0/видео.html

    • @tahiyath7049
      @tahiyath7049 3 года назад

      amzn.to/2Fst3e5

    • @mercylago4744
      @mercylago4744 3 года назад +3

      I hope she reads these comments. They're so encouraging

  • @shanicefenton2022
    @shanicefenton2022 Год назад +16

    Her personality is as beautiful as she is!! I'm so surprised at how real and sweet she is! I love her so much more now!!🥰 I never watch beauty routines; I just watched hers to see how she would be... she did not disappoint 👏🏾! Proud of you my sister!! Keep on embracing your natural hair🥰🥰

  • @broomhilder
    @broomhilder Год назад +15

    It warms my heart to see someone so comfortable and happy in their own skin and hair! Loving yourself can be tough, but you are making amazing strides and I couldn’t be happier!

  • @jadaslays9591
    @jadaslays9591 3 года назад +1872

    “I hope I can play a character that I actually look like.” That qoute hits hard

    • @folakemiawosoga
      @folakemiawosoga 3 года назад +1

      I cut my hair after 4 years of being natural😪ruclips.net/video/gctKQ8MyL0Q/видео.html..please show me some love and support 😭

    • @rahafray
      @rahafray 3 года назад +4

      True it does

    • @jadalawes3106
      @jadalawes3106 3 года назад +2

      Bro Jada’s my name

    • @jadaslays9591
      @jadaslays9591 3 года назад +2

      @@jadalawes3106 broooo sameee ahhh loll

    • @Milanomani
      @Milanomani 3 года назад

      Very powerful

  • @American_Boy
    @American_Boy 3 года назад +7828

    Her hair is GORGEOUS 😍

    • @r0bz1985
      @r0bz1985 3 года назад +13

      No it's not. She doesn't seem to think much of it either putting it away in a housewife bun

    • @alzthebp
      @alzthebp 3 года назад +232

      @@r0bz1985 HER HAIR IS GORGEOUS WETHER YOU AGREE OR NOT.
      Also, why are you replying to everyone’s comments, you seem not to have a life.
      Anyways, have a good day.😘

    • @r0bz1985
      @r0bz1985 3 года назад +8

      @@alzthebp if its so gorgeous why is she still wearing wigs in all her insta pix?

    • @alzthebp
      @alzthebp 3 года назад +140

      @@r0bz1985 It’s her preference, the fact that she wears wigs doesn’t take away the beauty of her natural hair; what she puts on her hair is none of your business. And please stop, your replies sound really dumb.
      K bye✌🏼

    • @r0bz1985
      @r0bz1985 3 года назад +4

      @@alzthebp it's her preference to wear wigs get a nose job and wear green contact lenses so she should stop crying and being a baby. She's fake

  • @deem132
    @deem132 4 месяца назад +3

    love this woman so much, wishing her a lifetime of joy! she deserves.

  • @jerriroseleaand8372
    @jerriroseleaand8372 Год назад +13

    I love that her hair products and make up are just ordinary products. This makes her so much more relatable

  • @cerysevans8726
    @cerysevans8726 3 года назад +3794

    It’s really sad they didn’t let Kat embrace her self. Although it’s just hair, it has way more meaning than that.

    • @kokobrown007
      @kokobrown007 2 года назад +11

      @Ayaan Misbah Yes!

    • @iheart_c4ts11
      @iheart_c4ts11 2 года назад +45

      Agreed she was the best actor, character and she was honestly the prettiest on the show she literally treated her like a dog on the streets

    • @hangezoe276
      @hangezoe276 2 года назад +4

      @@iheart_c4ts11 RIGHTTTT I LOVE HER

    • @KanadeLapis
      @KanadeLapis 2 года назад +4

      why are you guys lying about her hair being "beautiful" when obviously it's not?

    • @pinkpilatesprincess3566
      @pinkpilatesprincess3566 2 года назад +1

      @@KanadeLapis fr lmao

  • @ariannaroberts6221
    @ariannaroberts6221 3 года назад +2726

    Why is no one talking about how she plugged black owned products

  • @bitchucrazy2116
    @bitchucrazy2116 2 года назад +13

    No matter what ethical background someone has, this is for everyone;
    You are gorgeous ❤️

  • @katherinegreen3857
    @katherinegreen3857 2 года назад +8

    she reminds me of Elizabeth Olsen for some reason. Like her demeanor and voice is very similar, also I just love Kat. She’s a very special person and you can definitely see her true beauty here

  • @hollyg7346
    @hollyg7346 3 года назад +6887

    TVD did her so dirty throughout with her hair so lovely to finally see her real hair

    • @pokecatluvr
      @pokecatluvr 3 года назад +56

      Her bangs were not the move I love her natural hair

    • @Abi-zv4jc
      @Abi-zv4jc 3 года назад +59

      @r0bz please shut up

    • @dc-ib2og
      @dc-ib2og 3 года назад +49

      @r0bz you are such a hater. Kinda funny tho, get a life.

    • @dc-ib2og
      @dc-ib2og 3 года назад +16

      @r0bz mdrrr d’accord imbécile

    • @dc-ib2og
      @dc-ib2og 3 года назад +17

      @r0bz vraiment stupide mais c’est rien c’est la rue

  • @ssnow08
    @ssnow08 3 года назад +2442

    when she cried and apologized.... NOOO you don't have to apologize! Tbh the shows she's been on should apologize to HER (looking @ you, TVD)

    • @florentina9547
      @florentina9547 3 года назад +58

      Foreal man , they did her dirty the entire show over

    • @1diva2dbone
      @1diva2dbone 3 года назад +10

      r0bz
      Her eyes are naturally green/hazel so stop lying and she has shown her real hair but always straight and pressed flat never her natural kinky coils. Stop the hate!

    • @Joker-iq2dk
      @Joker-iq2dk 3 года назад +6

      @r0bz so body shaming is ok?

    • @Joker-iq2dk
      @Joker-iq2dk 3 года назад +4

      @r0bz thata he natural nose you weirdo

    • @Joker-iq2dk
      @Joker-iq2dk 3 года назад +3

      @r0bz And it doesnt matter if she still wears wigs sometimes.

  • @duenisme
    @duenisme 2 года назад +3

    5:24 noo omg im literally in tears 💔she didn't have to apologize for crying we all love you the way you are Kat

  • @pepamaartin
    @pepamaartin 3 года назад +3

    she´s so sweet, I love how she shows naturally and talks openly about her hair and her feelings about it.

  • @UGOOMERO
    @UGOOMERO 3 года назад +4411

    “I hope that one day, I can play a character that I actually look like”. Smh... Whew, that hit me so hard. My hair is the exact same! Very honest, very beautiful. I toast you ! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @priscillalynn1330
    @priscillalynn1330 3 года назад +686

    Her crying talking about her experience with her natural hair is something many black women can relate to🥺 Kat’s such a beautiful person

  • @brittconsciouslymee9803
    @brittconsciouslymee9803 2 года назад +9

    Freaking love this, just b/c the struggle really is real and when u get to know love and embrace your hair it’s truly spiritually uplifting!!! Took me 25 years to figure this out now at 31 I love my long 4c hair rarely use weaves it’s amazing

  • @sarahnatalyaxo
    @sarahnatalyaxo 2 года назад +17

    Aww Kat, you are not alone! So many of us have struggled with our curly hair... you're so beautiful inside and out, hair or no hair, curly or straight. Thank you for being so honest with us and for sharing your tips. Just beautiful! x

  • @crystalbgood831
    @crystalbgood831 3 года назад +2587

    I'm really saddened by the fact, that I NEVER knew this is what her hair really looked like. In all of TVD I cannot believe they never showed her real hair even once. It also makes me sad that her mother never tried to educate herself on how to take care of her daughters hair. I'm happy for her that she is embracing her natural hair. She looks so happy and beautiful :)

    • @616burberry
      @616burberry 3 года назад +66

      I always admired how beautiful her hair looks on vampire diaries .. until now , I didn’t know it was a lace. I’m happy a lot of black women are embracing there natural hair . I’m glad she loving her natural hair and embracing it

    • @HoneyHoney-yf6nd
      @HoneyHoney-yf6nd 3 года назад +2

      Fact

    • @r0bz1985
      @r0bz1985 3 года назад +2

      She always wears wigs even now. Check her Insta all wigs

    • @jasmentea7444
      @jasmentea7444 3 года назад +1

      Super off topic but I love your pfp

    • @crystalbgood831
      @crystalbgood831 3 года назад +1

      @@jasmentea7444 if this was meant for me, Thank you! It is one of my many obsessions 💜🥰

  • @LILaw-db9yr
    @LILaw-db9yr 3 года назад +1645

    Her story is TOO familiar. I attended an all-female, historically black college and I, along with so many of my sisters had to go through that same moment... we never had to deal with our natural hair, alone. What a real and relatable, raw moment.

    • @Serenityblu23
      @Serenityblu23 3 года назад +10

      I'm debating on going to hbc or going some place else. I feel I would be viewed as different by my peers. I not that's not the case I just feel like that

    • @kelli24
      @kelli24 3 года назад +1

      Serenityblu23 feel the exact same way!!

    • @Serenityblu23
      @Serenityblu23 3 года назад

      @@kelli24 i thought i was the only one

    • @kelli24
      @kelli24 3 года назад +8

      Serenityblu23 nope! i’ve lived in a predominantly white neighborhood growing up & once junior high & highschool hit diversity began to increase & i began to hangout with different types of people, including my first all black friend group, it was really nice to have people that looked like ME but i still found it hard to fit in with them & felt like i COULD be myself but NOT myself in a way & felt judged. but, i have the same concerns i really want to go to a hbcu to have that experience, representation, & just be with people that had the same struggles as me but found myself hesitant due to not wanting to be judged :/

    • @KB-sj8hb
      @KB-sj8hb 3 года назад

      Serenityblu23 go to an hbcu

  • @pEAcEgrL81596
    @pEAcEgrL81596 2 года назад +6

    I come back to this video a lot. Love her and her realness and relatability. What a role model!

  • @fiestaguru21
    @fiestaguru21 2 года назад +8

    You need to be so brave to be this vulnerable!! Beautiful journey Kat! It’s amazing how quarantine changed everything for so many people!❤️

  • @selamdestaaa
    @selamdestaaa 3 года назад +1724

    This woman is being so stunning whilst also being so vulnerable. How refreshing. :)

  • @mayc3051
    @mayc3051 3 года назад +3694

    My husband and I always talk about how she was literally the most beautiful one on Vampire diaries!! She is stunning!

    • @r0bz1985
      @r0bz1985 3 года назад +27

      Uh Elena says hi. But she didn't age well tho. Oh Stefan says hi as well

    • @fabianacarrascoguzman6803
      @fabianacarrascoguzman6803 3 года назад +148

      @@r0bz1985 i don't see why we have to compare bonnie and elena🙄

    • @5verse463
      @5verse463 3 года назад +44

      @@fabianacarrascoguzman6803 don't pay attention to them, they're replying to every comment about Kat and being disrespectful.

    • @AlmeGonzalez
      @AlmeGonzalez 3 года назад +26

      Agree and Hayley is one of the prettiest one too

    • @Lawlifelost
      @Lawlifelost 3 года назад +25

      I feel Ian was more beautiful and stunning🙃🙃🙃

  • @JoonieJuice
    @JoonieJuice 3 года назад +4

    This was the most touching of these Vogue beauty routine vids that I've seen. I never knew of this actress prior to this. After reading the comments, I think I'll binge watch the show she was on.

  • @euthearcher
    @euthearcher 2 года назад +86

    i literally cried with her when she cried. i am very happy that she is accepting herself and embracing this side! very proud of this amazing woman. 🤍

  • @emilygracebennett
    @emilygracebennett 2 года назад +4

    She is absolutely stunning. I love how vulnerable she was able to be🖤🖤🖤

  • @kathleenjames8042
    @kathleenjames8042 3 года назад +1203

    omg. the fact that she cried over finding something that made her comfortable with her OWN hair shows you how hollywood and media condition black women to feel like they need to fit western ideals to be beautiful.

    • @KanadeLapis
      @KanadeLapis 3 года назад +19

      i don't think it has anything to do with Hollywood, society has glorified straight hair for way too long and not to mentioooooon black women do like to hide their real hair all the time, they're just as guilty.

    • @gwenlambouths3754
      @gwenlambouths3754 3 года назад +76

      K' Lapis I’m sorry how are black women guilty for covering their hair when you literally just said society is more accepting of straight hair. She had to hide/alter her hair bc her own mother did not find her hair worthy enough to educate herself and her daughter to love and care for it. How would you expect young girls to grow up in that society and then easily accept an attribute that they’ve been conditioned to loathe??

    • @anisaa8803
      @anisaa8803 3 года назад +1

      Gwen Lambouths just shut up lol all yall do is whine give it a rest for a day geez

    • @KanadeLapis
      @KanadeLapis 3 года назад +10

      @@gwenlambouths3754 I know what you mean, i meant women buying wigs and wanting to have straight hair instead of understanding that every hair type is beautiful is also a problem.

    • @SavvyGirl751
      @SavvyGirl751 3 года назад +41

      K' Lapis they are told their hair is unprofessional. They are forced by society to cover it or treat it.

  • @sairathealchemist
    @sairathealchemist 3 года назад +4988

    When she cried about the conditioner...I felt that

    • @r0bz1985
      @r0bz1985 3 года назад +53

      Corny. Crying about conditioner? Kim there's people that are dying

    • @alzthebp
      @alzthebp 3 года назад +429

      @@r0bz1985 oh hello there, we meet again, this is like the 20th time you are replying to a comment negatively.
      It’s ok to be bored and not have a life, what isn’t ok though is for you to be spreading unnecessary toxicity.

    • @thecoolest5813
      @thecoolest5813 3 года назад +88

      @@alzthebp period

    • @alzthebp
      @alzthebp 3 года назад +37

      @@thecoolest5813 yasss💅🏽😂

    • @r0bz1985
      @r0bz1985 3 года назад +1

      @@alzthebp I'm sorry who are you? I have no idea

  • @itskviukmakeup5830
    @itskviukmakeup5830 2 года назад +18

    She is amazing ! I admire her so much ! She is so humble, so pretty, so kind to her fans ! Such an inspiration ❤️❤️ Such a cutie

  • @vanessahill332
    @vanessahill332 Год назад +1

    I love her so much!!!!!!!! I love that she is so vulnerable and open and honest. Such a beautiful woman ❤

  • @keepingitnatural7601
    @keepingitnatural7601 3 года назад +4165

    She doesn’t even need the makeup. Just absolutely beautiful.

    • @thecuantocabronshow5072
      @thecuantocabronshow5072 3 года назад +18

      Exactly, i saw no change

    • @cry5770
      @cry5770 3 года назад +56

      She doesnt wear make up because she needs it. Stop with this mentality.

    • @josieallen6522
      @josieallen6522 3 года назад +1

      YES

    • @gracedean2957
      @gracedean2957 3 года назад +5

      I was thinking the same. She is gorgeous with make up or with out the make up.

    • @pattyoficial567
      @pattyoficial567 2 года назад

      She's Amasing.♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @rihannaali1990
    @rihannaali1990 3 года назад +2528

    Even Ian known how Kat was treating really bad. Julie planned on making a season 9 but Kat said season 8 was her last season lan announced he wasn’t coming back either if she left, he left. He wants her to have strong story arc. Not just dead and dead all the seasons.

    • @peachydreams768
      @peachydreams768 3 года назад +10

      What do you mean what did I miss who was treating her bad

    • @OCR461
      @OCR461 2 года назад +35

      Yes honestly that series is very not so poc oriented

    • @leviackerman2555
      @leviackerman2555 2 года назад +21

      It’s actually disappointing how people treat each other

    • @keepgod1stloveyourself367
      @keepgod1stloveyourself367 2 года назад +35

      @@Klynker exactly I was shocked she carried Vampire Diaries

    • @evelynmucio4207
      @evelynmucio4207 2 года назад +11

      Nina also didn’t want to come back for it

  • @Kod1515
    @Kod1515 2 года назад +7

    I love Kat! She is one of the few black/biracial women I know with a relatable hair texture and that shows black beauty. You can tell through this video she really had a transitional kinda epiphany through her hair journey and I'd love for younger kids growing up to idolize more good souls like her. Im also caramel toned and have 4b hair and growing up never seen beautiful black women with the same look as me around. So this is 💯Shes just the sweetest person

  • @MosbyStinson
    @MosbyStinson 3 года назад +5

    I love her so much, I started to watch vampire diaries for the first time few weeks ago and I love it. I’m so sorry she had to go through all of this with wigs and stuff. She is so beautiful and true. She is so perfect with her own hair and even without make up. She is not even using overpriced products , she is just amazing. I love her. Wish her the best

  • @SummerRenaissance
    @SummerRenaissance 3 года назад +2758

    I always wondered why they put you in these “horrible” wigs on TVD. Sis, Kat, all of us black girls can relate to the depth of the natural hair journey and we appreciate the honesty. I hope you’ll be able to do more roles that allow your natural crown to come through. Glad you’re wearing it with your head up high, Queen. We love you ❤️

    • @creolito9600
      @creolito9600 3 года назад +80

      The only god wig was season 4 with the bang, the rest was not it

    • @_.1jaliyah211
      @_.1jaliyah211 3 года назад +58

      The only one I saw that was good was when she was with enzo.🙄🤦🏽

    • @angelinahilton8674
      @angelinahilton8674 3 года назад +1

      What hair product did she use?

    • @JJW1028
      @JJW1028 3 года назад +20

      Omg i know. They made me mad when they put her in those bad wigs. There was only like one good wig

    • @yamondiholmes8486
      @yamondiholmes8486 3 года назад +1

      _.1jaliyah ** yep

  • @meleghiusana-maria2795
    @meleghiusana-maria2795 3 года назад +2162

    she looks like she just started playing Bonnie bro how does she look so good 10 years after

    • @thehashslingingslasher6467
      @thehashslingingslasher6467 3 года назад +140

      Its like they always say... Black don't crack

    • @atiyakarim2530
      @atiyakarim2530 3 года назад +33

      @@thehashslingingslasher6467 she looks even better😍

    • @TooCoolforCardi
      @TooCoolforCardi 3 года назад +20

      Well, she’s still young too. She’s not old, so she should still look good. 🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @mol-lenie2056
      @mol-lenie2056 3 года назад +19

      @@TooCoolforCardi they never said she was old-

    • @botlemooa8502
      @botlemooa8502 3 года назад

      @@thehashslingingslasher6467 l0

  • @emilyodonovan4824
    @emilyodonovan4824 2 года назад +2

    I honestly love her hair natural it is so nice and she was blessed with such luscious pretty curls like them I wish I had curls like hers. And she is so sweet and so open with her emotions in this video.

  • @Unknown12389
    @Unknown12389 2 года назад +5

    Watching this video made me see a different view on my natural hair.. I would hate wearing my natural hair and knowing what to do with. I would always want it in braids or flatten cause I wasn’t confident. But watching this , Kat, having the same problem MADE me REALIZE to embrace and love my natural hair .. now I’m wearing my natural hair and like she said it’s actually very therapeutic for me .. she’s the reason I’ve been wearing my natural hair .. it can def be hard knowing what to do but like she said , I’m going w a fro.. usually when I’m out the shower I put CANTU in and some oils and it def makes curly and for the first time it has the best curls I love it…. Thank you kat for being who you are and if you are scared to embrace your natural.. know who you are and wear that THANG♥️♥️

  • @wairimurommy5230
    @wairimurommy5230 3 года назад +1777

    Am I the only one who's never seen her real hair? I love her even more especially for showing her vulnerability. 💛

    • @hamiyed2245
      @hamiyed2245 3 года назад +24

      her what ??? what do you mean by "her vulnerability" ? she has a nice hair. why does it have to be a vulnerability ?

    • @wairimurommy5230
      @wairimurommy5230 3 года назад +86

      @@hamiyed2245 You clearly did not watch the video.

    • @98tam
      @98tam 3 года назад +25

      hami yed please rewatch and listen carefully.

    • @Isabelm0ra3is
      @Isabelm0ra3is 3 года назад +14

      @@hamiyed2245 exactly i agree, she has lovely hair how is it a vulnerability. It may make her feel vulnerable since she never shows it but its beautiful

    • @wairimurommy5230
      @wairimurommy5230 3 года назад +37

      @@Isabelm0ra3is First of all, can you just look up the meaning of the statement “showing one's vulnerability”. Secondly, no one said her hair is a “vulnerability” smh.

  • @kimsasha1607
    @kimsasha1607 3 года назад +1955

    I love how honest she’s being about Hollywood acceptance even on vogue she should have been on her before so many other ppl she been main stream actor for so long.

  • @tessg4799
    @tessg4799 2 года назад +12

    Wow! I love her so much ❤ Self love is something precious. I hope she gets to play a character with her natural hair.

  • @alessiacoppola862
    @alessiacoppola862 2 года назад +1

    my love 🥺🥺🥺
    love you kat, really..
    you’re the most beauty, purest & strong woman that I’ve seen in my entire life.

  • @n.latricia3330
    @n.latricia3330 3 года назад +2096

    When she cried over her hair I felt that so bad, it’s so hard trying to tame my hair and finding the right product is such a relief for natural hair.

    • @r0bz1985
      @r0bz1985 3 года назад +7

      I cringed. Crying about hair? Stfu!

    • @lifegoeson1007
      @lifegoeson1007 3 года назад +5

      My hair gets dry easily so, I try to just use simpler products and increase my water intake

    • @nyah064
      @nyah064 3 года назад +47

      r0bz1985 so glad no one argued with you because they saw the ignorance and knew not to even waste there time but I write this hoping you get a clue god bless you

    • @mariahstankey
      @mariahstankey 3 года назад +9

      @@r0bz1985 Bro shut up she has feelings and i would cry too! :\

    • @r0bz1985
      @r0bz1985 3 года назад

      @@nyah064 I said wtf I said.. 😒

  • @angelab3076
    @angelab3076 3 года назад +1265

    She’s so beautiful. Not even just looks.

  • @Carolina-rd3gh
    @Carolina-rd3gh 2 года назад +4

    Such a precious person. I’m glad she exists.

  • @kimberlynguyen124
    @kimberlynguyen124 2 года назад +1

    sending this beautiful soul all my love for her in the present and in the future. i haven't watched her in years but there's something so captivating about her 🥰

  • @alinacepeda9444
    @alinacepeda9444 3 года назад +743

    You can almost feel that her hair and her blackness in her career life and personal life was a huge obstacle for her as she grew up. When she started crying I almost felt how frustrating it must have been for her over the years, bc I went thru the same thing realizing my blackness and embracing it. She is so stunning and I love her

  • @brittanylight1549
    @brittanylight1549 3 года назад +3212

    Watching a black woman get this emotional over her hair made me realize everything I've taking for granted as a white women in the united states. The power of black women in this country inspire me to be a better woman, person, And friend. My heart aches for the struggles these woman go through that I will never understand. God bless everyone.

    • @princessjas13
      @princessjas13 3 года назад +135

      Reading this made me emotional thank you and God bless you too🙏🏾

    • @noku._.
      @noku._. 3 года назад +108

      Thank you
      carry that you
      because black girls have days where they wake up and feel completely ugly at the age of 9 because of their hair
      I'm an example
      but I'm learning my hair's happiness weaknesses and strengths
      may God bless you

    • @briannamcgill7202
      @briannamcgill7202 3 года назад +21

      Thank you for your words

    • @tarunikaramesh63
      @tarunikaramesh63 3 года назад +20

      I like that even tho u r a white woman u understand her struggles its really good ☺🙂🙂🙂

    • @holyghostgirlb
      @holyghostgirlb 3 года назад +2

      💙💙💙

  • @angelapodaca3387
    @angelapodaca3387 2 года назад +5

    Aww I love her, I’m glad she found the beauty in her natural self💕

  • @melissamellati9668
    @melissamellati9668 7 месяцев назад

    Aww I love that you’re learning how to nurture your natural hair 🥹. I have naturally curly hair and straightened it for years growing up. I don’t know how else to describe this but now that I know how to take care of it, curly hair is my superpower 💕

  • @fifthstr
    @fifthstr 3 года назад +1609

    It’s not just hair. IT HAS NEVER BEEN JUST HAIR.

    • @arianaamores7147
      @arianaamores7147 3 года назад +9

      Bonnie the Bennett witch Exactly it’s just hair it’s a blessing to feel beautiful comfortable and manageable in you hair and skin

    • @blackkatt777
      @blackkatt777 3 года назад +21

      When they right in laws and rules about your hair...no, it's not just hair.

    • @alextroy9202
      @alextroy9202 3 года назад +14

      blackkatt777 exactly when you can get kicked out, discriminated against bc of your hair it’s not just hair

  • @taigangahagan768
    @taigangahagan768 3 года назад +1949

    My god this woman is naturally gorgeous I swear she looks like she hasn't aged since her role as Bonnie bennet !!

    • @r0bz1985
      @r0bz1985 3 года назад +8

      The show only ended in 2017 it was not that long ago

    • @lifegoeson1007
      @lifegoeson1007 3 года назад +7

      eatjinskookie yeah but, some people don’t age that quickly, good genes and taking care of theirselves 😐

    • @TheRealSiahA
      @TheRealSiahA 3 года назад +10

      black doesn’t crack

    • @daughterofyah6209
      @daughterofyah6209 3 года назад +4

      @@r0bz1985 a lot of her cast members have aged

    • @avad1631
      @avad1631 3 года назад

      r0bz1985 u are replying every comment negatively 💀 like boy please

  • @camilafmusic
    @camilafmusic Год назад

    This is so strong... I cried watching! Kat is amazing ! AMAZING ! so much light in her heart !