How To Wait Until Marriage | Let's Talk About Sex! | The Crutes

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  • Опубликовано: 30 янв 2025

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  • @TheCrutes
    @TheCrutes  4 года назад +7

    Leave us some suggestions on what our group/crew/family name for you guys should be!

  • @jeronsmith3684
    @jeronsmith3684 4 года назад +18

    Love the "No sexual conversations" tip! Big one.

  • @PiterStreak
    @PiterStreak 3 года назад +11

    Christian background, not really active. Been struggling with this. I've had a crush on my current gf for years now.went to prom with her and all. I've asked her out 3 times and finally landed her. Love the girl to pieces but she's on that no sex til marriage and as much as I want to be on the same page, I'm not. Now we do spend time together alone but nothing has happened because of her strong will and what seems like low libito to begin with which can't be fixed by a ring. From countless videos it seems like the best thing to do is being on the same page about this from the get go. Anyways great video yall

  • @momentoftruth5381
    @momentoftruth5381 4 года назад +15

    The car tempted us badly. But we stayed celibate until marriage praise God!

  • @CassandraWHaire-ii2tq
    @CassandraWHaire-ii2tq 4 года назад +16

    The name the Crute Chronicles would be a nice name. Chronicle means a related talks of events.

  • @kboone
    @kboone 3 года назад +9

    I won’t add a lot of details or Contant here just know that a story like this, today in the world we live in is very refreshing to hear. My heart goes out to both of you for such commitment and strength. Be well. . . .
    Love is love, respect is earned, loyalty is priceless.
    Keith in California byway of Harlem❗️🙏🏾

  • @chelseakingston
    @chelseakingston 4 года назад +10

    How bout ‘Crutons’...a play on croutons...😂🤣 I really dig it!!

  • @adventuresofxyz22
    @adventuresofxyz22 4 года назад +6

    Love love this, the alone thing is real lol. Gotta put up those boundaries maynnne!

  • @DrAdnan
    @DrAdnan 4 года назад +22

    Interesting to see this perspective. Muslims usually just keep the dating period really physically separate (no touching at all) ideally with a chaperone, and get married within a relatively short courting period.

    • @jjjjjjjjj2476
      @jjjjjjjjj2476 3 года назад

      Thats how Christian doctrine also explain just that people are ignorant

  • @desid1098
    @desid1098 4 года назад +4

    absolutely love this video! such awesome advice for someone like myself who waits to wait! 💍 y’all are definitely my fav youtubers! ☺️🙌🏻🤎

  • @luckie314
    @luckie314 3 года назад +2

    Good job you two. God loves your message. Keep up the good work!

  • @fredachevalier1967
    @fredachevalier1967 4 года назад +8

    The "Crute saders"♡♡♡♡♡

  • @thenishab
    @thenishab 4 года назад +6

    Come on!!! The Crutes out here trying to teach us the Godly Living 😍

  • @MalkiaMcKween
    @MalkiaMcKween 4 года назад +11

    How did you two transition into marriage? Was it hard to let those dating boundaries go after implementing them for 6 years?

    • @TheCrutes
      @TheCrutes  4 года назад +14

      It actually wasn't hard at all.. We were so close and comfortable with one another, so it made the transition really easy. Hope this answered your question :)

  • @alisoncoach4459
    @alisoncoach4459 4 года назад +3

    You got me I've pressed the subscribed button 🤗 No idea for the name but some videos ideas if I may : Song association Challenge, House tour and your career & education path (education is important tho) Keep doing that gooood like it 😃 Hi from Germany !

    • @TheCrutes
      @TheCrutes  4 года назад +2

      Hi!!! Thank you for the suggestions!

  • @eternalwellnesswithjonatha6436
    @eternalwellnesswithjonatha6436 4 года назад +2

    love the tips! all useful advice for walking out a pure relationship before marriage 👌🏽

  • @magretongubo1902
    @magretongubo1902 4 года назад +8

    Wow you look good and blessed

  • @bertramwoods5257
    @bertramwoods5257 3 года назад +7

    Awesome commitment💒💒💒😍

  • @m.s4764
    @m.s4764 4 года назад +2

    Crutes Crew definitely!

  • @babygiraffe53
    @babygiraffe53 3 года назад +4

    I hope this works. Have to wait another 13 months😬 and it’s already SO HARD!!!

  • @worshipwithwonderschurch7732
    @worshipwithwonderschurch7732 4 года назад +2

    I love this!! So good!! Love your personalities together too!

  • @SherinaShantelle
    @SherinaShantelle 4 года назад +3

    Ya'll actually made me Laugh Out Loud! love your love.

  • @linawetipo2553
    @linawetipo2553 4 года назад +3

    Favorite couples🖤
    How much y'll inspired me.

  • @shansullivan8675
    @shansullivan8675 4 года назад +2

    Love The Tips & #The Crutes Crew 🤍

  • @michellej9712
    @michellej9712 3 года назад +2

    Thanks for this advice!! Subbed right after watching!!❤️❤️

  • @chefmakoti
    @chefmakoti 3 года назад +3

    Good advice thanx

  • @sheronam5788
    @sheronam5788 4 года назад +3

    Had to subscribe as soon as I saw the title 😭❤️

  • @leticiagallegos6266
    @leticiagallegos6266 4 года назад +1

    Number 3 is such a good tip! Love it 🤎

  • @jefferycoleman3002
    @jefferycoleman3002 4 года назад +1

    You guys, these are some great tips. I’m definitely loving y’all videos!! Much Love!!

  • @TheServantJ
    @TheServantJ 4 года назад +5

    *Best Tip*
    No emojis 🙅🏼🤣

  • @supremeetnel7707
    @supremeetnel7707 4 года назад +3

    “He makes me a bagel” 😂😂😂😂 that will never not be funny

  • @3OOG
    @3OOG 4 года назад +1

    Crutes Crew 🤘🏾 Just let the fam know when y’all drop that dope hoodie merch 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @NessTalks
    @NessTalks 3 года назад +2

    Love this 🥰

  • @TuscanWonder
    @TuscanWonder 2 года назад +5

    He went six years without sex (from anyone)? That’s fortitude in todays time (and other physical things)

    • @r.walker7986
      @r.walker7986 9 месяцев назад +1

      i need everyone making these claims hooked up to lie detectors

  • @vinashamenka617
    @vinashamenka617 4 года назад +2

    I love this, thanks for sharing :)

  • @MalkiaMcKween
    @MalkiaMcKween 4 года назад +2

    The Crutes Crew 🤍

  • @vivelise16
    @vivelise16 3 года назад +21

    i respect her lol i would never get w someone that wasn't a virgin too. it would make me so uncomfortable if my bf or husband had been w other people like that before me 😭 if i'm waiting you waiting too lmao

  • @jefferycoleman3002
    @jefferycoleman3002 4 года назад +1

    I need relationship help!!

  • @yahshaunyahu
    @yahshaunyahu 3 года назад +24

    I always tell women, that a man really wants to be with you, he'll wait. A man that knows your value will not rush sex just to be wit you. But these chick's can't even wait 2 weeks anymore.
    I left girls to wait atleast 6 months to be in a relationship and an extra 3 montns before sex and they act like that's impossible. I want a challenge. I want someone to make me wait. But these girls giving it away like a clearance sale

  • @lyndengardiner6534
    @lyndengardiner6534 3 года назад +2

    Great!

  • @myarivera4951
    @myarivera4951 4 года назад +1

    love this!!

    • @TheCrutes
      @TheCrutes  4 года назад

      thank you so much Mya :)

  • @cbond1c113
    @cbond1c113 3 года назад +9

    Well, it's certainly a touchy subject (excuse the pun). Back when I was your age (realistically probably about 3-4 yeas older) I was heavily involved in the Church, and shared an apartment with 3 other guys from the church, and we would have weekly house meetings were we opened-up about different things in a support group setting. Most of us had a girlfriend whom also attended the same church whom we were serious about and hoped to one day marry. We followed the same guidelines for dating outlined here; double dating, never being alone, keeping conversation centered around the lord, etc. In those weekly meetings, it was found that everyone confessed to falling into masturbation, about once a month on average. Then others admitted to involuntary sex which manifested itself through nocturnal emissions. I'm bringing this up because this should be an 'open' discussion. The problem with religious thought is that it does not want to acknowledge the fact that sex is something that we cannot help having because it is a biological. Should we give full rein to it... absolutely not! However, it is important for young people to develop positive attitudes about a behavior in which most will engage, regardless of whether or not they choose to abstain from intercourse or not. Perhaps we can learn from the example of non-European cultures, where they seem to recognize this fact, and couples are united in marriage early-on, sometimes even at the very onset of puberty.

  • @Itsrebeccadee
    @Itsrebeccadee 4 года назад +11

    The way he looks at you ahh

  • @josephdejarden2080
    @josephdejarden2080 4 года назад +4

    The No Name Gang sounds kinda dope if not The Crutons lol

  • @kkingdom2378
    @kkingdom2378 4 года назад +1

    Nice 👍🏾

  • @jessefoster2832
    @jessefoster2832 Год назад +1

    FOR GOD SO LOVED THE WORLD THAT HE GAVE HIS ONLY BEGOTTEN SON THAT WHOSOEVER SHALL BELIEVETH UNTO HIM SHALL NOT PERISH BUT HAVE EVERLASTING LIFE
    JOHN 3:16

  • @tamaraslay
    @tamaraslay 3 года назад +4

    the cru❤️

  • @tonymanners5361
    @tonymanners5361 3 года назад +4

    “Crute Troop”

  • @lilyrosepunkunicorm9871
    @lilyrosepunkunicorm9871 3 года назад +3

    The Cruties or The Crutons.

  • @SophiaCaton
    @SophiaCaton 4 года назад +2

    All I could think about was yall calling us "crute-ies" like cuties but guys might not like that one 😂

  • @thaiao3988
    @thaiao3988 2 года назад +1

    💯

  • @sespotlhaselo9315
    @sespotlhaselo9315 3 года назад +4

    you guys are beautiful, God bless you. i hope God blesses me with my godly white wife too

  • @hannahmaria9021
    @hannahmaria9021 4 года назад +6

    Croutons!

  • @fredachevalier1967
    @fredachevalier1967 4 года назад +1

    Crute fam

  • @madisoncory6807
    @madisoncory6807 4 года назад +1

    🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🔥

  • @lalou6408
    @lalou6408 7 месяцев назад

    Sooo yall didn’t kiss for 6 years either?

  • @fluffycookie3415
    @fluffycookie3415 3 года назад +6

    Muslim can relate...
    We haven't sex, before marriage

  • @miaconte6930
    @miaconte6930 3 года назад +6

    Are you guys religious?

    • @TheCrutes
      @TheCrutes  3 года назад +15

      We are Christians!

  • @iswiyanto2146
    @iswiyanto2146 3 года назад +9

    your husband is soo handsome...

    • @TheCrutes
      @TheCrutes  3 года назад +3

      I agree!! -Brooklyn 🤍

    • @luisv8887
      @luisv8887 3 года назад +2

      They both are very attractive some beautiful babies are gonna come out of this beautiful marriage!😂

  • @emilykaler108
    @emilykaler108 3 года назад +1

    'CrutePies'

  • @aus2tigran
    @aus2tigran 3 года назад +9

    So basically the guy was friendzoned until they got married

  • @butchblack8582
    @butchblack8582 3 года назад +2

    I dated a girl who said no sex till marriage Ieft her at the bar😂😂🤣🤣😅 I refuse to be married and screwed 😤

  • @Jambuc829
    @Jambuc829 3 года назад +2

    I would never marry a chick I haven’t had a chance to be intimate with. I would fear us getting married and then finding out we don’t have any sexual chemistry and aren’t sexually compatible. That would suck so bad.