My Father Announced He Was a Transsexual When I Was 11 - Emma Thomas

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  • Опубликовано: 8 фев 2025

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  • @juliettejuliette-bf8df
    @juliettejuliette-bf8df 10 дней назад +60

    Emma, I'm a transwidow with still very young children. Thank you speak. Women like me appreciate it so much as we worry for the future of our children. ❤

    • @robertmarshall2502
      @robertmarshall2502 10 дней назад +2

      Out of interest have you ever gotten in touch with Ute Heggen?

    • @MissyKaitlyn
      @MissyKaitlyn 8 дней назад +1

      Guess who is behind all of this 👃🤥🤫

  • @BestPunkyEver
    @BestPunkyEver 10 дней назад +65

    “A man looks at and feels desire, beyond that you have no purpose.” Said trans women about themselves as women. If that isn’t the absolute HEIGHT of misogyny, I don’t know what is.

    • @juliesheard2122
      @juliesheard2122 10 дней назад +7

      It is indeed

    • @julius_the_python
      @julius_the_python 10 дней назад +1

      Every aspect of trans identifying people is misogyny. The males who hate females and play dress up, reducing women to sexual stereotypes, and the females who try desperately to escape misogyny by becoming "men". Sick shit.

    • @KD-rs6xx
      @KD-rs6xx 10 дней назад

      No, the absolute height of misogyny is HATING all women.

    • @robertmarshall2502
      @robertmarshall2502 10 дней назад

      ​@@KD-rs6xx You mean how the statement from the "trans woman" openly displays?
      Misogyny is also including any man who says he's a woman as a woman because it similarly reduces womanhood to a male thought

    • @miriamlana833
      @miriamlana833 7 дней назад +1

      @@KD-rs6xx the opposite thing with misandy (of which some claim it wouldn't exist) is also true, only never pointed out, because blaming men for EVERYthing is widely accepted in society but blaming women for ANYthing not in the slightest. And that shall be a completely "man-made" society "only for the needs of men"?

  • @sanecatlady77
    @sanecatlady77 10 дней назад +50

    Outstanding presentation, Emma. It's so ironic that our popular culture is currently obsessed with calling out everything as narcissism, yet has been completely snookered by the blatant narcissism on display by fetishistic crossdressers and AGPs.
    My heart hurts for that little girl forced the be her father's dress-up accessory. (The second most horrific thing to ever happen in something pronounced ar-DEN.)

    • @juliettedauterive3745
      @juliettedauterive3745 10 дней назад +5

      You can see how uncomfortable she is , rocking back and forth and flapping her hands.

    • @annajuliet5652
      @annajuliet5652 10 дней назад +5

      Yes, a sweet, pre- adolescent little girl trying to please her father & getting completely overlooked at this tender stage in her life. Very sad to see.

  • @ladabingo7912
    @ladabingo7912 10 дней назад +26

    So much of this presentation was disturbing but delivered by the speaker with unwavering clarity which is absolutely what is needed.

  • @BingingInPeace-ev3bp
    @BingingInPeace-ev3bp 10 дней назад +27

    This was such a disturbing listen. So glad that you are speaking up! I’m deeply disappointed that there aren’t more people discussing how this mental illness is impacting spouses and children. It’s truly sad that so many children are being exposed to these delusions at such a young age when they are supposed to be learning fact from fiction. I’m so sorry that you went through this and hopefully the world will see how this madness truly harms children.

    • @UteHeggenTranswidowHeals
      @UteHeggenTranswidowHeals 10 дней назад +3

      I'm posting about this almost every day at yt chan, Trans Widow Ute Heggen. I just love Emma.

  • @jm162
    @jm162 10 дней назад +50

    The father and daughter dress ups was very, very disturbing. I hope the child is safe and supported...

    • @juliesheard2122
      @juliesheard2122 10 дней назад +22

      The child is being told that the dress is more important than she is.😢

    • @sparagmos4748
      @sparagmos4748 10 дней назад +10

      I felt so sorry for her.

    • @jm162
      @jm162 10 дней назад +8

      @ ...and that she's an accessory for Dad...

  • @manuluc01
    @manuluc01 10 дней назад +31

    A person who has children should be forbidden to transition! Being a parent is a duty! Such change and lies are harmful to children!

    • @juliesheard2122
      @juliesheard2122 10 дней назад +7

      Absolutely! It is abuse

    • @eagalgael
      @eagalgael 10 дней назад

      @@juliesheard2122its not mate

    • @eagalgael
      @eagalgael 10 дней назад

      So just because someone wants to express them self means they can have children?, get a life

    • @annika2272
      @annika2272 10 дней назад

      True!

    • @robertmarshall2502
      @robertmarshall2502 10 дней назад

      ​@eagalgael You didn't watch the video if you think he just wanted to express himself.
      Btw you can't write a sentence.
      This ideology has nothing to do with freedom of expression and believe it or not a parent has to put the child before their own paraphilias.

  • @madelinecox4101
    @madelinecox4101 11 дней назад +53

    The way that father was competing with and belittling his own daughter 🤮 Gross and disturbing. Poor girl's self-esteem is going to be in the gutter.

    • @HeathenGranny
      @HeathenGranny 9 дней назад

      I mean you people in the end believe that LGBTQ+ people are a ✡️ agenda to destroy the ⬜️🏁.😂😂😂

  • @nicolepreou6754
    @nicolepreou6754 11 дней назад +31

    Thank you Emma, the link with cluster B personality disorder and cults is getting harder to ignore.

  • @juliesheard2122
    @juliesheard2122 10 дней назад +16

    Thankyou for your courage and honestly ❤

  • @bridgetonowhere
    @bridgetonowhere 10 дней назад +43

    Trans-identified parents who shirk their responsibilities and force their kids to play into their delusions are so narcissistic and cruel, especially the trans-identified males who force their babies to drink their disgusting, drug-induced lactation mystery secretions. I feel so bad for this woman, but I'm proud of her for bravely speaking out.

    • @UteHeggenTranswidowHeals
      @UteHeggenTranswidowHeals 10 дней назад +5

      I'll tell you, it's very hard for trans widows now, in the time of over-reactions to the recent executive orders in the US. Our ex-husbands and their allies feel compelled to repeat their attacks on us, defaming us all over again, after a couple years of relative quiet. Trans Widow Ute Heggen chan for our stories, from 65 trans widows.

    • @justmy2cents652
      @justmy2cents652 10 дней назад +1

      @@UteHeggenTranswidowHeals Dear Ute, so hard to hear that! My best wishes to you! You help other women to speak up and find help and community. Thank you for that! 🌻

    • @bridgetonowhere
      @bridgetonowhere 8 дней назад +2

      @@UteHeggenTranswidowHeals I feel so much anger and sympathy for the forgotten women who are continually victimized by "trans activists". We're living through the only time in history where males are actually celebrated for abandoning their families, as long as they "identify as women". Best of luck to you all, just know you are not alone and many out there do support you.

    • @UteHeggenTranswidowHeals
      @UteHeggenTranswidowHeals 7 дней назад

      @@bridgetonowhere Please tell receptive friends and relatives about this channel.

  • @ellenvandevoorde8943
    @ellenvandevoorde8943 11 дней назад +38

    I'm sorry that happened to you, you needed a father and you got a narcissist. Thank you for sharing

  • @jellyrcw12
    @jellyrcw12 10 дней назад +14

    One of the best and most insightful stories I've ever heard about the topic. Very powerful. My heart goes out to her

  • @Messier45_Pleiades
    @Messier45_Pleiades 11 дней назад +13

    What a sad story. God bless you, Emma.

  • @AtsircEcarg
    @AtsircEcarg 10 дней назад +22

    Heartbreaking. These children aren’t allowed to mourn. They are supposed to celebrate the selfishness of the adult.

    • @AaronDavidMatthew
      @AaronDavidMatthew 18 часов назад

      And parents of adult trans kids aren't allowed to mourn, either. They are supposed to celebrate the selfishness of their adult child.

  • @leiaskywalker4216
    @leiaskywalker4216 11 дней назад +38

    I hate seeing people who entrap their children into their sick fantasies 😡

  • @Matti-r4c
    @Matti-r4c 8 дней назад +3

    Some people get stuck at character creation, they never live life, they just constantly change what they look like. Like you said, they get a little dopamine kick out of it and a big dopamine kick when they can enforce it on society.

  • @sallylines3141
    @sallylines3141 10 дней назад +5

    Well done! Thank you for speaking up with such heartfelt clarity.🙏🏻

  • @josephblue4135
    @josephblue4135 10 дней назад +31

    I'm a 70-year-old gay man and I never had children, but just watching this makes me think that if a man wants to transition and has children he should leave.

    • @manuluc01
      @manuluc01 10 дней назад +16

      More than that! Let him take responsibility for his parenthood and give up this egotistic delirium for the sake of his child!

    • @juliesheard2122
      @juliesheard2122 10 дней назад +12

      ​@manuluc01 NO! he should just get on with the role of father which he committed to when he married and fathered a child. You must put your children first!!! An adult accepts responsibility. Sex as sn activity is NOT that important.

    • @gracelovesme-r3j
      @gracelovesme-r3j 10 дней назад +1

      Yes, I strongly agree, that he should leave and the earlier the better, it will be for everyone concerned. Women with children, who are knowingly married to a man, with strong inclinations towards, autogynephilia should think about the welfare of their children, and have the guts to end such potentially damaging marriages. I speak from my own experience.

    • @robertmarshall2502
      @robertmarshall2502 10 дней назад

      You're imagining circumstances whereby the man doesn't know he has this urge and isn't using the women and children in his life to indulge in it.
      These guys clearly manipulate women and choose pregnancy or when kids are young to try to pressure everyone into playing along with his fantasy. There's also clearly a link to other offences against women and children.
      You are expecting these men to have a basic moral compass. And that "transition" is a reality.

    • @miriamlana833
      @miriamlana833 7 дней назад +1

      Then the wife claims to be a "trans widow".

  • @Berlinetta-h7p
    @Berlinetta-h7p 10 дней назад +13

    Thank-you for telling your story Emma. Huge hugs. Your story is a microcosm example of what is happening in all organisations in the West at present. Marxism and the loss of freedom to narcissistic fantasy. It is an uphill battle to return to reality.

  • @bristolcorvid8894
    @bristolcorvid8894 10 дней назад +15

    What sick abusers.

  • @annak6918
    @annak6918 11 дней назад +13

    Amazing presentation

  • @oldbird-zm8qt
    @oldbird-zm8qt 7 дней назад +4

    I am so proud of myself for detransitioning, but so ashamed of myself for helping establish credibility towards the trans narrative.

  • @lynnemaclean7201
    @lynnemaclean7201 10 дней назад +3

    Wonderful presentation. Thank you.

  • @gabrieladee9898
    @gabrieladee9898 9 дней назад +2

    A meaningful authentic presentation bravo 👏 👏👏

  • @amaryllisequistra
    @amaryllisequistra 11 дней назад +13

    Bless you and what you are doing 💗💗💗

  • @jdillayoyo1539
    @jdillayoyo1539 11 дней назад +17

    Im ao worried about my brother.

  • @cestmoi4532
    @cestmoi4532 10 дней назад +2

    Amazing work, ladies. I was grateful to watch the Lime Soda film, very well done.

  • @india1422
    @india1422 10 дней назад +7

    This “feeding” of a baby is absolutely abuse of the child

  • @Jessicad9304
    @Jessicad9304 10 дней назад +10

    This is disgusting honestly. Involving your child in your sexual fetish. It’s outrageous and abusive.

  • @evelynsommers9444
    @evelynsommers9444 8 дней назад

    Learned a lot. Such a needed conversation. Thank you to Emma.

  • @eb3222
    @eb3222 10 дней назад +2

    Thank you! 💜🤍💚

  • @Viky.A.V.
    @Viky.A.V. 3 дня назад

    freakin hell! I mean, how can an adult man try on his 10 (ten!) y.o. daughter's clothes, and be proud of the applause he gets? I feel sick.
    I'm so sorry for all those families and for the traumatized kids(

  • @nejafeja
    @nejafeja 10 дней назад +4

    Every human on earth should watch this

  • @deirdreoriordan9042
    @deirdreoriordan9042 9 дней назад

    Thank you Emma, you highlighted issues and consequences i hadn't thought of so very informative

  • @Amiegala
    @Amiegala 9 дней назад +1

    Wow. This was a powerful speech!

  • @unowen-nh9ov
    @unowen-nh9ov 8 дней назад +1

    Dad died when I was 12, I had it easier than you.❤

  • @chatterbox-y8k
    @chatterbox-y8k 9 дней назад +2

    There's an American family on TikTok who I find very odd. Husband, wife and 2-3 kids under the age of 10. They come across as glamorous, "open minded and liberal", and the wife completely embraces the husband's fantasy, and posts lots of seemingly "fun" family TikToks. Most of the time he (the now transwoman/wife) just stares at the camera silently, battering his eyes and looking like he's in a model shoot. He doesn't talk much on camera apparently, as his voice is still masculine. But because they are an attractive couple, they have a lot of impressionable fans, & people on TikTok fawn over them. But I find it all rather unsettling, and wonder about the kids. The man, now a transwoman has a very meek representation of what he assumes a woman to be, and how a woman should look. It's right along the lines of this comment from this video, “A man looks at and feels desire, beyond that you have no purpose”, and it often looks like he is now in love with himself.

    • @simovihinen875
      @simovihinen875 9 дней назад

      It often looks like people who've been to do a rhinoplasty are in love with themselves? It often looks like people who have come to accept themselves as they are are in love with themselves? It often looks like people who get to freely express their identities are...

    • @sidneymcadorey1412
      @sidneymcadorey1412 7 дней назад

      Is it that former Mormon family in Utah?

    • @sidneymcadorey1412
      @sidneymcadorey1412 7 дней назад

      Amanda and Shaye?

  • @jellyrcw12
    @jellyrcw12 10 дней назад +2

    Thank you for giving a platform to these important conversations

  • @dt1351
    @dt1351 10 дней назад +4

    That's creepy. Sorry your father was mentally ill. I really don't want to know any more.

  • @roseosterndorf1265
    @roseosterndorf1265 10 дней назад +2

    Excellent presentation. I wish Emma good health and all the best to continue to spread this important message.

  • @HelenaBlavatsky-t4n
    @HelenaBlavatsky-t4n 10 дней назад

    Bruce's story is funny?

  • @simovihinen875
    @simovihinen875 9 дней назад

    In case anyone here cares, I know multiple trans-parents and grandparents with good loving relationships with their children. Children, in reality, are seldom as fragile as people expect.
    A study called Children with Trans Parents: Parent-Child Relationship Quality and Psychological Well-being is one way to find a more balanced view on this topic.
    I wanted to listen to this anecdote, but then less than a minute in, she blurts out "autogynophiles" and I'm like "gimme a break!"

  • @janebennetto5655
    @janebennetto5655 10 дней назад +2

    😮😮😮😮😮❤️🇬🇧❌❌

  • @GammelfleischGmbH
    @GammelfleischGmbH 11 дней назад +1

    @1:10 Female that died due to testorenone usage: who, when, where? Trying to find the article on it, thanks

    • @UteHeggenTranswidowHeals
      @UteHeggenTranswidowHeals 11 дней назад +8

      She was in the US southeast. Complications of diabetes, alcohol and drugs and the toxic testosterone. It was kidney failure after a few months of dialysis. I think the name she took was Liam Johns.

    • @unowen-nh9ov
      @unowen-nh9ov 8 дней назад +1

      Exulansic Death List, also canceled Glinner & detransitioners suing their medical "professionals".

    • @UteHeggenTranswidowHeals
      @UteHeggenTranswidowHeals 7 дней назад

      @@unowen-nh9ov She calls it the Deadnames list. We have to be careful how we detail this, as crazed Leftists accuse us of criminal intentions.

  • @una-janewinfield1667
    @una-janewinfield1667 10 дней назад +2

    Can you please revise the transcribed text? Some words are not correctly rendered, and these are the most important words like "autogynaephiles".

  • @HimmelsDaemon
    @HimmelsDaemon 10 дней назад +1

    Amongst the best presentations in terms of exploiting emotional manipulation for emotional manipulation.
    Amongst the worst presentations in terms of still holding and propagating those false pretenses: confirming opposition.
    Have got to refuse the postmodern deconstructed reconstructions. It's no difference whether it fits your personal taste or not, the exploit will still be exploited on way or another.
    Bad use of tertiary examples that would all need their own equal length explanations to even attempt to not be misconstrued or conflated.
    ---
    There is also the point, the proper point about parents, was fully know then in the 80s and though the 90s, if not earlier. It was scrubbed and exiled from medical discussion progressively memory-holed along with individualist care and dissenting "sex/gender" split concepts. (Blanchard being kept around a faux-opposition, many of his ideas used as bases for subversive exploits. Not a "savior" championing the all-covering excuse of "fetish.")

    • @sparagmos4748
      @sparagmos4748 10 дней назад +5

      I don't think we watched the same presentation 🤔

    • @sparagmos4748
      @sparagmos4748 10 дней назад +9

      Your comment is absolute gibberish.

    • @UteHeggenTranswidowHeals
      @UteHeggenTranswidowHeals 10 дней назад +2

      @@sparagmos4748 I'm glad I clicked on this reply. I could not figure what HimmelsDaemon was getting at.

    • @sparagmos4748
      @sparagmos4748 10 дней назад +2

      @@UteHeggenTranswidowHeals Sometimes it just has to be said...😅

    • @robertmarshall2502
      @robertmarshall2502 10 дней назад

      Every single time this guy writes something it is like chatgpt with a brain injury.

  • @eagalgael
    @eagalgael 10 дней назад +2

    You claim that you’re promoting Healthy approaches to things like gender but you clearly aren’t, I’ve seen a lot of the other videos of this channel and it promotes views that no expert would agree with

    • @robertmarshall2502
      @robertmarshall2502 10 дней назад +2

      The views are often literally given by experts.
      Which views do you disagree with? It sounds like you just swallowed ideology and can't think for yourself. I notice none of you guys actually express a specific opinion with concrete ideas of what is wrong. You seem incapable of it.

    • @eagalgael
      @eagalgael 9 дней назад

      @ I think for myself alright, and no unbiased expert would say things like what people are saying in these videos, the views pushed by this channel are usually very harmful to the trans community

    • @simovihinen875
      @simovihinen875 9 дней назад +1

      @@robertmarshall2502 They promoted the Cass Report here? Which was self-contradictory and debunked within no time? EDIT: it was missing the word "and". :)

    • @biblia843
      @biblia843 9 дней назад +3

      @eagalgael, if acknowledging the real damage that parental transition can have on children is “hurtful to the trans community, ” then so be it. The truth can hurt. At the end of the day, the well-being of minor children who do not have the ability to enforce boundaries TAKES PRIORITY over the feelings of trans adults. Children should never be used as props to legitimize or normalize their parents’ lifestyle.

    • @eagalgael
      @eagalgael 9 дней назад

      @ “ lifestyle” go tae hell 🤣

  • @Tom_0f_Finland
    @Tom_0f_Finland 10 дней назад

    She looks about 70. Scary to think she was 18 in 1989!

    • @sparagmos4748
      @sparagmos4748 10 дней назад +10

      No she doesn't 🤨 what you been smokin'🙄

    • @robertmarshall2502
      @robertmarshall2502 10 дней назад +3

      ​@@sparagmos4748 I'm glad it's not just me who thinks this was an unhinged comment

    • @sparagmos4748
      @sparagmos4748 10 дней назад

      @@robertmarshall2502 ikr😁

    • @OddGirlOutcast
      @OddGirlOutcast 9 дней назад +2

      Commenting on her looks after we just listened to how her father made negative comments about her looks.... and that she had a eating disorder during at least one point in her life. . .
      This was really not necessary for you to comment on.
      And she absolutely does not look 70.

    • @Tom_0f_Finland
      @Tom_0f_Finland 9 дней назад

      @OddGirlOutcast 60 - 65 then and easily

  • @jenniferplatts174
    @jenniferplatts174 10 дней назад

    How appropriate tg

  • @davehall8584
    @davehall8584 11 дней назад +8

    I am so shocked....totally ashamed to be a male...horrified by this.

    • @UteHeggenTranswidowHeals
      @UteHeggenTranswidowHeals 11 дней назад +19

      No need to be ashamed of yourself. These men are disturbed and should not have custody of the children. No reflection on all men~

    • @sparagmos4748
      @sparagmos4748 10 дней назад +11

      I have 2 sons. One of them became very aware very early on that certain representations of men were not for him. I just told him 'you don't have to be that kind of man'. Same goes for you - you have a choice, we all do.

    • @miriamlana833
      @miriamlana833 7 дней назад

      Every AMAB human should be ashamed of their sheer existence, that's the overall target of TERF ideology, and they have won in your case. Maybe you should overthink your position towards them and their propaganda.

    • @robertmarshall2502
      @robertmarshall2502 7 дней назад

      @@miriamlana833 I take it you're male.
      The "ideology" is to return to a situation where women had the right to their own spaces, prisons etc and that children who can't possibly consent are not given "treatments" that we know from all longitudinal studies do not work.
      TERFs regularly talk about how the idea of "male toxicity" has had negative consequences when it is applied to normal male behaviours.
      I think you're a bit bitter than you follow what can accurately be called an ideology. You can't just claim those in the centre and therefore not in favour of faith-based pseudo medicine follow an ideology too.
      We get it though. You hate women.