Dez you have come a long way ! you need to stay single stay focus on urself and being a father you don’t always need to be in a relationship . u have 3 baby mamas time to stand on ur own .peace
🥰I don't always comment but I've been watching you and Kiara since you've lived in Alaska. When you separated I continued watching both of your channels. The way I see it, this helps both of you when it comes to putting cash into your pockets for the kids. I want to see y'all win, it doesn't matter if you're friends or a couple. I love how you guys show love to your kids. Also hat's off to Kiara's mom and dad they are a great example of showing up in the same place for their family even though they are divorced. It's all love for y'all as a family.🥰
The "how you met" video is one of my favorites as well as the video on the first night yall hung out in your barracks room when she was sitting on the floor singing and you were behind her.
@iamdesmondcassell It's the same people just stronger and wiser years later. The "how you met video" with the "date with the ex-wife" have the same chemistry and energy and there's a decade difference. If all you end up being are best friends bc we can all agree that it's deeper than just coparenting, then that works too. But she's meant to be close to you. She's your soft place and she knows you in a way that others don't. As long as she ignore the bulk of her subs, yall will be fine. We're rooting for you and your genuine happiness and peace. I want to point out that one wasn't willing to follow when it mattered the most and one, at the age of 21 packed up and followed despite the unfamiliarity, the problems, the necessary maturing and growth that was yet to come, etc. That's the one you can lead. Prayers and love to you Dez! I love the content, the journey you're on right now, etc. Keep it up and consider podcasting. You have very interesting perspectives. Don't worry about getting off topic, I'm ADHD too but you can bring light and education to some things to include what it's like to be a military husband and father, the truth of it. We all know no one talks about it but I watched a documentary on the station you retired from...continuous prayers and blessings to you and all attached to you! 💙💖🩵🩵🩷🩵
I’ve been watching you guys for a min way before the divorce and I can honestly say you guys look so much happier w/ what yall doing now as a family! Keep that faith up and keep building, god has plans for y’all much love to yall! Peace! *btw first comment everrrr lol
I feel like all of OG viewers can tell a difference in you. I think the best thing is for you guys to continue on your current course and put family as 1st priority. Forget the labels and titles, showing consistency and loyalty means more than all of that.
I definitely started watching you from Kiara's videos, but I will say the growth I have seen from you in the last 2 years is awesome. I'm not talking about your relationship growth. I am speaking on your growth. You know what you want in life, and I always say your own happiness matters most. You can not make others happy if you are not happy. You remind me of my husband a lot. A Manly Prideful Man 💪🏽
Hey Bro!!! I see nothing but good things coming out of this new found relationship with Kiara!! I can see a great blossoming love relationship between you and Kiara. Some ppl are just meant to be together and I pray that God bless you guys and your family ❤
Help her get fine for herself Sir! Lol But I feel all warm and fuzzy watching yall together, not even no romantical type way ...thats yalls business. But I think it's cool to see yall work together and have a friendship.
Never say never 😊... I watching you Guys since Alaska and seriously there is still Something.. im Sure you Guys will get Back together in the Future ❤ *Fingers crossed*
It would be cool for you to keep up what you're doing with a part 1 on your channel and part 2 on hers to raise subscribers and views. So like you were saying you will have different parts and it wont be the same thing twice. Love y'all ❤
In my opinion I think you both have feelings for each other. Both of u have grown n matured. If it’s meant to be it will happen.? I love u guys together n I think u guys are going to find yourself back in each other’s arms.
Omg I neverrrr comment anywhere but I feel moved too. I gotta be honest I watched y’all two since Alaska I’m happily married with two kids Kali and my son are 3 months apart hers was the first channel I found to watch on a pregnancy journey with mine I made my husband watch with me I could relate I was invested. I enjoyed y’all good times. But when she left it was needed. Not saying she was perfect but sheesh idk you gotta admit I felt like you were going through something personally. But now …. WOW god bless you I feel like you really woke up I pray you can stay on this path you gotta admit you were angryyyyyy lol and then when y’all were separating I wanted to keep watching both but it got dark there Dez. I spoke to her privately on IG it was just painful I pray for y’all both yall clearly loved each other but you but the pain and pride first. Listen being married imma say do what y’all want. You had another baby though respect that big change but with humility it could work.
Lol don’t think of it like that. Your supporting your kids mother to be a healthier version of herself which actually benefits the kids. It be dope to see yall do a sit down reaction video to “How We Met” video
I think it’s so cool that you guys are co parenting the way that you are, just make sure you make decisions while keeping your kids in mind. Because at the end of the day, it’ll affect them the most.
I had a Friend yts ago her n her husband together for 9 yrs divorced n came bk together 6 yrs later n remarried. It happens. They both grew apart n second time around are stronger than first time married ❤❤
Real talk but I knew your relationship was not going to work with zakiya yall had too many things that were opposite of each other. You never seemed happy and neither did she. Just enjoy being single for once and have fun dating other people 😊
I think when you and Kiara were in Texas you were Miserable being in the Army!! It made everything at home intensified....And just "STRESS" you and Kiara were dealing with. You are not the same man! Your very intuitive of who you are now!! And I ADMIRE the Love you have for your children. ❤
I watched a documentary on where he was stationed, and I think every person who steps foot on that base will have a special type of PTSD. That's one deadly station area, seriously.
Great video! Have you considered becoming a certified personal trainer? You work for yourself and it's super flexible hours. Plus there are tax perks to being a business owner. And you can even add it to social media for extra 💰
I have a juicy question. lol so, how does Z feel about you living with K?? That must stinggg…. Unless she just doesn’t care ? Also, was Z the first woman you were with after the separation ? (Which probably stung for K). Basically, how do they feel about each other ❤
1. Do you plan to return to trucking? 2. Do you prefer trucking or army life? 2a. How is retired life? Is it what you expected? Was it hard to adjust? 2b. Hows your relationship with Christ? 3. Do you still have physical attraction for Kiara? 4. How often do you talk to Kobe? 5. What currently brings you the most joy and the most sadness? 6. Do you see a romantic future with Kiara? If so, what would you do differently to ensure the relationship remains intact? 7. Are you still in therapy?
He had a whole other baby child , but this was necessary for the kids!!! Jericho and Kalia …Especially Kalia!!! DESERVE THIS! Let’s keep it healthy and about the kids
She's constantly saying that she doesn't want to get back with him. Looks like they both have moved on, but having this great friendship works well for coparenting. They're putting the kids first and that's why it's working 💪 teamwork!!!
Both of you were displaying your lives on social media. In my opinion, you need to match yourself with women who are on your level. You should focus on getting yourself together and working on your career outside of the military. Maturity is key in how you make decisions. Kiara should be your past. No disrespect, Kiara isn't doing anything to better herself. She has no excuse to work or go to school because both kids are in school. I worked while raising my daughters and got my Bachelors degree while pregnant with my last daughter. Kiara can do the same thing.
Dez you have come a long way ! you need to stay single stay focus on urself and being a father you don’t always need to be in a relationship . u have 3 baby mamas time to stand on ur own .peace
🥰I don't always comment but I've been watching you and Kiara since you've lived in Alaska. When you separated I continued watching both of your channels. The way I see it, this helps both of you when it comes to putting cash into your pockets for the kids. I want to see y'all win, it doesn't matter if you're friends or a couple. I love how you guys show love to your kids. Also hat's off to Kiara's mom and dad they are a great example of showing up in the same place for their family even though they are divorced. It's all love for y'all as a family.🥰
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Wow, it's the growth and maturity of both. I applaud you guys for putting the children first 👏🏿 🙌🏾!!!
Thank you so much!!
I love how kalia and Jericho are soo happy with their dad!!
Dad is happy with them too
Good to hear Brother @@iamdesmondcassell
The "how you met" video is one of my favorites as well as the video on the first night yall hung out in your barracks room when she was sitting on the floor singing and you were behind her.
Those look like two different people 💔
@iamdesmondcassell It's the same people just stronger and wiser years later.
The "how you met video" with the "date with the ex-wife" have the same chemistry and energy and there's a decade difference. If all you end up being are best friends bc we can all agree that it's deeper than just coparenting, then that works too. But she's meant to be close to you. She's your soft place and she knows you in a way that others don't. As long as she ignore the bulk of her subs, yall will be fine. We're rooting for you and your genuine happiness and peace.
I want to point out that one wasn't willing to follow when it mattered the most and one, at the age of 21 packed up and followed despite the unfamiliarity, the problems, the necessary maturing and growth that was yet to come, etc. That's the one you can lead.
Prayers and love to you Dez! I love the content, the journey you're on right now, etc. Keep it up and consider podcasting. You have very interesting perspectives. Don't worry about getting off topic, I'm ADHD too but you can bring light and education to some things to include what it's like to be a military husband and father, the truth of it. We all know no one talks about it but I watched a documentary on the station you retired from...continuous prayers and blessings to you and all attached to you! 💙💖🩵🩵🩷🩵
I am very proud of you you have really came a long way you show what it means to be a real man keep up the good work do what's best for you and yours
Together or not it’s amazing seeing you both together co-parenting & just getting along,Family is everything!!!. God bless you all. 🙇🏻♀️❤️
Thank you so much!
I’ve been watching you guys for a min way before the divorce and I can honestly say you guys look so much happier w/ what yall doing now as a family! Keep that faith up and keep building, god has plans for y’all much love to yall! Peace! *btw first comment everrrr lol
I feel like all of OG viewers can tell a difference in you. I think the best thing is for you guys to continue on your current course and put family as 1st priority. Forget the labels and titles, showing consistency and loyalty means more than all of that.
I definitely started watching you from Kiara's videos, but I will say the growth I have seen from you in the last 2 years is awesome. I'm not talking about your relationship growth. I am speaking on your growth. You know what you want in life, and I always say your own happiness matters most. You can not make others happy if you are not happy.
You remind me of my husband a lot. A Manly Prideful Man 💪🏽
❤️❤️❤️ Thank you 🙏🏾
Hey Bro!!! I see nothing but good things coming out of this new found relationship with Kiara!! I can see a great blossoming love relationship between you and Kiara. Some ppl are just meant to be together and I pray that God bless you guys and your family ❤
Help her get fine for herself Sir! Lol
But I feel all warm and fuzzy watching yall together, not even no romantical type way ...thats yalls business. But I think it's cool to see yall work together and have a friendship.
❤❤❤❤ Thank you so much for watching and commenting.
Never say never 😊... I watching you Guys since Alaska and seriously there is still Something.. im Sure you Guys will get Back together in the Future ❤ *Fingers crossed*
Wow, great video Dez you really show growth in this, but let’s not forget that Dez didn’t leave his family. Do better next time around
Well said. Thanks for watching
Sometimes you drift apart to become better and meet up later in life. ❤
I believe that too
The ending was great! Funny 😆 my dude!
Hey Roni 👋🏾 Thank you for watching and commenting
It would be cool for you to keep up what you're doing with a part 1 on your channel and part 2 on hers to raise subscribers and views. So like you were saying you will have different parts and it wont be the same thing twice. Love y'all ❤
You are a good Daddy I'm sure you know that💙I watch your videos and smile🙂sometimes get teary because I just wish my Son had his Dad in his life😢
Awesome vlog ❤ u should include the kids more
You have such a beautiful/ handsome Legacy ! Truly blessed..
Thank you 🙏🏾 You are so kind
Stay true to yourself, focus on your health on everything 💯 God got you back
❤❤ thank you for watching
You are welcome 😊
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In my opinion I think you both have feelings for each other. Both of u have grown n matured. If it’s meant to be it will happen.? I love u guys together n I think u guys are going to find yourself back in each other’s arms.
Omg I neverrrr comment anywhere but I feel moved too. I gotta be honest I watched y’all two since Alaska I’m happily married with two kids Kali and my son are 3 months apart hers was the first channel I found to watch on a pregnancy journey with mine I made my husband watch with me I could relate I was invested. I enjoyed y’all good times. But when she left it was needed. Not saying she was perfect but sheesh idk you gotta admit I felt like you were going through something personally. But now …. WOW god bless you I feel like you really woke up I pray you can stay on this path you gotta admit you were angryyyyyy lol and then when y’all were separating I wanted to keep watching both but it got dark there Dez. I spoke to her privately on IG it was just painful I pray for y’all both yall clearly loved each other but you but the pain and pride first. Listen being married imma say do what y’all want. You had another baby though respect that big change but with humility it could work.
I know I had another baby while were separated. It was years in already. My kids always come first.
Great video Dez.
Thank you ❤️
You definitely need to spend time on your own to figure out what you really want
Loved the video Dez!! ❤❤
Glad you liked it!!
Lol don’t think of it like that. Your supporting your kids mother to be a healthier version of herself which actually benefits the kids. It be dope to see yall do a sit down reaction video to “How We Met” video
I think it’s so cool that you guys are co parenting the way that you are, just make sure you make decisions while keeping your kids in mind. Because at the end of the day, it’ll affect them the most.
Hi and thank you for watching and commenting. We are always thinking about our beautiful children.
Hi and thank you for watching and commenting. We are always thinking about our beautiful children.
Hi and thank you for watching and commenting. We are always thinking about our beautiful children.
I had a Friend yts ago her n her husband together for 9 yrs divorced n came bk together 6 yrs later n remarried. It happens. They both grew apart n second time around are stronger than first time married ❤❤
Wish I had someone to show me how to use the gym equipment
I know what you mean. It took me a while to get used to all the different machines and some of them are still a mystery
Omg you read my commemt🤗thank you ..im.alexa from puerto rico
Hey Alex. Thank you for watching and commenting. Hope you enjoyed it!
Great video lil brother
Real talk but I knew your relationship was not going to work with zakiya yall had too many things that were opposite of each other. You never seemed happy and neither did she. Just enjoy being single for once and have fun dating other people 😊
Smh. I want to speak about the situation but I probably won’t. Everything happens how it’s supposed to.
I feel you bro
Agree!
God bless❤🙏🏽
I think when you and Kiara were in Texas you were Miserable being in the Army!! It made everything at home intensified....And just "STRESS" you and Kiara were dealing with. You are not the same man! Your very intuitive of who you are now!! And I ADMIRE the Love you have for your children. ❤
I watched a documentary on where he was stationed, and I think every person who steps foot on that base will have a special type of PTSD. That's one deadly station area, seriously.
Loving the vids Dez.. praying for continued positivity for you and kiara and the babies..
Thank you 🙏🏾 ❤️
Yall got my support all day!
I get it I was with my ex for 18 years we split up now we best friends crazy right
I must say my hopes was up for you and k to rekindled ❤ but i guess its not happening 😢
Im gonna keep on watching to see where this is going 😅
Thank you for watching 🙏🏾
Kalia has the Casell jaws for sure.
❤️😂 lol
Des, you looked so young! Just like Corey
Great video! Have you considered becoming a certified personal trainer? You work for yourself and it's super flexible hours. Plus there are tax perks to being a business owner. And you can even add it to social media for extra 💰
Thank you. Yes I have thought about it being a trainer. In takes a few months to get certified. I would most likely train athletes.
@@iamdesmondcassell
Coach or a trainer. I bet you eventually get to one or the other!
DEZ, next time propose on one knee with the Engagement ring.❤
Next time, if I ever do. It will be the right way
I have a juicy question. lol so, how does Z feel about you living with K?? That must stinggg…. Unless she just doesn’t care ? Also, was Z the first woman you were with after the separation ? (Which probably stung for K). Basically, how do they feel about each other ❤
Hi Gg 👋🏾 Great questions. I can’t wait to answer them for you
She’s already fine! She wants to be healthy!
That part
First!
Hey Dez will all of the old videos of y'all old channel be put back up?
They are all up on Kiara’s channel.
1. Do you plan to return to trucking?
2. Do you prefer trucking or army life?
2a. How is retired life? Is it what you expected? Was it hard to adjust?
2b. Hows your relationship with Christ?
3. Do you still have physical attraction for Kiara?
4. How often do you talk to Kobe?
5. What currently brings you the most joy and the most sadness?
6. Do you see a romantic future with Kiara? If so, what would you do differently to ensure the relationship remains intact?
7. Are you still in therapy?
Aye! Excellent questions. I can’t
2nd!
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Dez what birth sign are you??
Yes we wanna know❓❓❓
He’s a Libra
@@labesistretbor237 thank you🥰
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Ahhhh hahahaaaaaa…. I don’t think anything’s wrong with you helping Kiara look good! 🤍
Yes you tripping 😂
No way 😡
You tripping
I suppose I am…not
Personally I think you should give your ex wife another chance, she still has feelings for you
He had a whole other baby child , but this was necessary for the kids!!! Jericho and Kalia …Especially Kalia!!! DESERVE THIS! Let’s keep it healthy and about the kids
Pretty sure she don’t want him . She just seems like she wants to co-parent & that’s it & needs his financial help.
She's constantly saying that she doesn't want to get back with him. Looks like they both have moved on, but having this great friendship works well for coparenting. They're putting the kids first and that's why it's working 💪 teamwork!!!
Thank you for watching. Luckily for us Kiara have a healthy relationship
Both of you were displaying your lives on social media. In my opinion, you need to match yourself with women who are on your level. You should focus on getting yourself together and working on your career outside of the military. Maturity is key in how you make decisions. Kiara should be your past. No disrespect, Kiara isn't doing anything to better herself. She has no excuse to work or go to school because both kids are in school. I worked while raising my daughters and got my Bachelors degree while pregnant with my last daughter. Kiara can do the same thing.
You want me to help you get fine for some other guy 🤣🤣🤣
Exactly. Hell naw. Get her fine for me lol
It's for her not you
Clearly, that’s my point
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