My Struggles With Singleness...⎮The Single Diaries

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  • Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024

Комментарии • 32

  • @Cuppycakezz13
    @Cuppycakezz13 5 лет назад +29

    Loving this little series girl! Thank you for being vulnerable. I always try to remind myself that I will only ever be as good in a relationship as I was in my singleness. Cheers to more solo dates ! ❣️

  • @Mrb614
    @Mrb614 4 года назад +58

    Imagine her knowing “a year from now I’m gonna be engaged.”

    • @christinawatkinsyoutube
      @christinawatkinsyoutube 4 года назад +5

      so crazy! God works in mysterious ways!

    • @ICWFO
      @ICWFO 4 года назад +1

      Funny enough, when I saw this video I thought the exact same thing!!! 😁

    • @motheowalerato701
      @motheowalerato701 3 года назад +5

      And now she's married 🥰🥰

  • @Abc-cp6cb
    @Abc-cp6cb 5 лет назад +32

    What helped me was realizing that my worth is dependent on who God says I am, rather than who people say I am.
    I placed my ultimate value in friendships and relationships.
    While those are good, they aren't what defines me.
    One of my favorite scriptures in Psalm 23:1
    "The LORD is my shepherd, I lack nothing. "
    If I have God what do I need or lack? Nothing!

    • @MIMIX015
      @MIMIX015 5 лет назад

      Abc 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @biankadownsanchondo3055
    @biankadownsanchondo3055 5 лет назад +7

    Hi Kian my name is Bianka from Las Vegas ! I just spent the last hour binge watching a few of your videos. I started with your testimony video and I have watched your singleness series as well. You and I would totally be friends if we knew each other in person. I relate so much to you and many of your videos. I can literally understand so much about dating yourself embracing singleness and having a past that you feel eternally grateful for that God has made new. It's crazy because the other day I considered taking myself to a country bar here in Vegas. But I got tired and did not go . It was so cool to see that you did the same! I am getting ready to take myself to New York City for 3 days in June. As I'm watching your videos about taking yourself on dates, I am feeling even more confident about dating myself and New York. I even booked a ticket to see Lauren Daigle at Radio City Music Hall, to which I am going by myself! So here's to us and all the other women who are doing this knowing that God has our back no matter what. Cheers!!

  • @randymortensen9938
    @randymortensen9938 5 лет назад +4

    I definitely hear you on the struggles of being single, alone, and doing things by yourself. I’m glad that you talked openly about it. Did you enjoy the music festival? Meet anyone?

  • @violetmelon
    @violetmelon 5 лет назад +17

    I'm a 34yo virgin and never have had a boyfriend. I understand what it is to be alone and watch the years roll by. Life def doesn't go as planned. 😂 At my age, this is ridiculous. I know I'm going to need IVF if I ever want a baby. Meanwhile, everyone whom I know who is married/engaged didn't wait for marriage. Ironically, having a past is better than not having one. 😂Some days, I regret not having a past. Morals can be so isolating, and it's difficult for non-older virgins and virgins who married young to understand us. What can we do?! Just wait longer. 🤦🏻‍♀️ Cheers! 😊

    • @Mateogreat
      @Mateogreat 5 лет назад +1

      i get the frustration i'm 34 and never married or had kids i tried the online and the women are shallow it sucks trying to date in south florida

    • @kryer981
      @kryer981 5 лет назад

      I actually understand what you mean. Those with a past truly KNOW what life before and after Jesus is really like.

    • @Wetesk53
      @Wetesk53 5 лет назад +2

      Just looked through your videos. You are sooo gorgeous, you look like a model.

    • @KaimaVixen
      @KaimaVixen 4 года назад +4

      Wow your absolutely beautiful! I’m 35... not a virgin but never had a serious relationship. It’s been hard watching everyone get what you desire. I’m trying to hopeful. I hope we both get loving relationships!

    • @ezyx3977
      @ezyx3977 4 года назад +4

      On the flip side, I'm a girl who didn't wait. I was sexually active from my teens until I turned 26. I was raised in a Christian home and I knew I was willfully sinning. After rededicating my life to God, all my past sins caught up to me and the crushing, breaking, pressing has been brutal. Most days I regret having a past. Most days I feel sorry to God for getting ahead of myself. I could have waited, and regardless of having a husband or not, I could have just looked to the Lord and humbly praise him in obedience. But I didn't.
      I look up to women like you who were able to wait, and keep on waiting even as years go by. I hope God will bless you with the desires of your heart.

  • @SLVBULL
    @SLVBULL 5 лет назад +8

    Your never alone with Jesus in your life. One thing I just realised is that I can never bring myself to highlight or draw in my bible.

  • @yourmorningbird
    @yourmorningbird 3 года назад

    I love this singleness series. I know you're married now but thank you for sharing your journey with us. This really helps me because I'm in this season!

  • @britneyallyce5166
    @britneyallyce5166 4 года назад +1

    Hi Kian! Love your videos! Thank you for being so inspirational & encouraging to us single women!

  • @niriaantonio9097
    @niriaantonio9097 3 года назад +5

    Who is here after everything that happened?

  • @adamcotton1295
    @adamcotton1295 4 года назад +3

    Great Confidence

  • @Mayllie
    @Mayllie 5 лет назад +1

    What song did you use near the end of the video?

  • @morgangrime7936
    @morgangrime7936 3 года назад +2

    Lol I’m laughing cause this pot plant is exactly what now Kian would have bought for her boho apartment with her husband...modern kian who? I don’t know her😂😂

  • @robertoterella9864
    @robertoterella9864 4 года назад +1

    If you were not 7000 kilometers away from me I would eat a Pizza with you 😅

  • @finnsilver16
    @finnsilver16 5 лет назад

    I've just had a girlfriend for one day, and that's because she already had a boyfriend...

  • @gideoncephas9755
    @gideoncephas9755 5 лет назад

    Cute

  • @biancad.2771
    @biancad.2771 5 лет назад +1

    I like your videos and they can be really helpful for some. But I believe you need to change your wardrobe. Some of your tops reveal too much and if men watch you, do you ever ask yourself if you make them sin in their thoughts ?

  • @ZeroFloat.
    @ZeroFloat. 5 лет назад

    "My... me... I... I like skating, I love shopping... I was not happy... I was lonely." No wonder why are you still single.

    • @HannahBirzes
      @HannahBirzes 5 лет назад +5

      Gontainer what a strange comment. Hope you are filling your days with love

    • @motheowalerato701
      @motheowalerato701 3 года назад +3

      Silly comment. She's happily married now. Your comment was such a waste of space🙄

    • @tberry24
      @tberry24 3 года назад +1

      Well it is called the single diaries. She was dating herself so I'd say that is accurate.