In this video I talk about my 22 month journey to get pregnant with my first baby in my 30s. My Blog: missyjwhite.com Facebook: / mcasadevall Instagram: / misula29 Pinterest: / misula29
I had my first girl at 31 y/o, my second girl at 38 y/o and my son at 40 y/o. I’m Beyond blessed as they were all born healthy. At times I struggle with how old I will be when my son becomes a man. Though I still have plenty of energy to run around with him so I remind myself that through Christ I can do all things!
Very beautiful story you are blessed Gods timing is always the best time for his little miracles I am waiting for mine I know it’s coming it will very soon. Blessings to you all 🙏
Seriously this is what I needed to hear! I’ll be having my first at 31 and yea thinking of the future scares me and imagining my body gone forever is mentally affecting me
It totally is! Before becoming pregnant with my first I thought I was way too old and missed my chance to have kids … it’s very possible and I love hearing about moms in their 30s/40s, it’s beautifully inspiring ❤️
@@misula29 Thank you for this. I am 34, almost 35 and was losing hope I may be too old now and I just met the love of my life in the last year and never wanted children with anyone before but I do with him, he is such a beautiful man.
Im 37, trying to get pregnant. Im praying and staying positive to become parents soon. You're right. I feel like I can't talk about it to anyone really except my husband. It can be also stressful if people keep asking why you not having a baby. Its so hurtful and I feel hurt and mad at times. But I'm hopeful.
First, sending you lots of baby dust ✨... it is all very stressful and then doctors tell you not to be overly stressed when trying to conceive! But just know you are not alone it this sometimes painful journey. I have all my fingers and toes crossed that you get that positive pregnancy test, and soon! 💕
I am in the same boat sister! 37 and been trying since May, but was on Nuva Ring since I was 15. I think my body is finally figuring itself out after all these years and I am starting to establish a cycle pattern. I had NO idea of the natural pre and post Ovulation symptoms until now! I am having to decipher what is associated to normal PMS symptoms vs "if I am preggers" symptoms. I pray that I am not too late. Good luck and sending extra BDL (Baby Dust Love) your way! I am 4DPO and impatiently waiting lol. SORE BOOBS OMG!
Your title made me click to your video right away... I'm 35 years old and currently struggling to have my first miracle baby... you are a true inspiration!💗💖💞💝
Aww thank you! I turned 35 a month after we started trying and I am living proof that pregnancy in you mid thirties is VERY possible. I will keep all my fingers and toes crossed for you! Sending baby dust ✨
Your description of yourself during the process sounds exactly like Me this past year! Thanks for sharing your story- I’m so happy It ended well and with a happy, healthy. and very cute baby boy!
I am sending you all the baby dust in the world ✨…. I’ve had two healthy babies since I posted this so babies in your 30s (without fertility treatment) is not doomed.
I am 38, will be 39 in December and currently trying to get pregnant. Trying to stay positive, not think about it too much and hope that everything goes well. I had a miscarriage at the very beginning of this year, which hurt so much as that would have been my first baby :( Now, my bf and I feel like we're ready to try again. I do feel like talking to others about it who haven't really gone through trying to conceive is hard (three of my sisters, granted they've been very kind about my miscarriage.) So fingers crossed, and all the baby dust, that we'll be pregnant soon!!
I’m so sorry for your loss. That must have been so insanely hard to go through… and trying to get pregnant is such a challenging thing and I feel like most people have no idea what you’re going through …. I also still feel like 38 is young! I conceived my second baby at 38 and gave birth at 39, so it’s very possible. I am sending lots of baby dust and good vibes your way ✨ 💕 ❤️
I know the feeling I have just found out am pregnant at 37 I was heartbroken as my son is 16 and my daughter is 7 but guess I got to take it as a blessing just really scared to be pregnant in this pandemic 😷
Being pregnant during the pandemic is definitely different… I almost felt robbed a little bit of all the public/party things that go along with being pregnant. But I try to make the best of it …. Congratulations on your pregnancy! I hope you have a healthy and wonderful pregnancy 💕
I had an ectopic rupture at 31 and lost tube and so I wanted to try again and with one tube I knew prob be harder. Here I am 33 and due next week. I did buy an ovulation kit on Amazon and was best purchase I ever made bc I got pregnant first try. The kit comes with like 50 ovulation strips and then a bunch of tests. When I got pregnant I gave the rest to a co worker struggling.
Yup! I think you can hold the test in your urine stream but I chose to dip the test in a cup of urine. The app you don’t necessarily need but is handy to track tests over multiple days
Ohhh❤❤❤😊cute.. U break all the noise around who forced woman to get pregnant befr 30 s. Specifically in our country lik India but now is changing world wide. Happy stay blessed guys❤
Congratulations on your channel and your family! The first time I used a fertility test it worked. I had been trying to get pregnant for a year, but I would just follow an app which indicated the best day, but now I see the app was always wrong, even if I described my cycle as it was. Unfortunately my pregnancy went only until the 7th week and in the 8th I discovered the missed abortion. Besides the pregnancy, I believe I was into unnecessary stress just before I found it out and maybe it played a role in maybe letting me down or careless about habits and eating after one year being so conscious. I hope to be more focused and won't let any worries disturb my peace. I even believe that tiny baby was a warrior for staying as much as he or she did. May we all have our children, healthy and happy. God bless.
First I’m so sorry for your loss. That must have been so difficult to go through …. Sending hugs!… and second, yes I had a bunch of inconsistencies while using apps too which only makes the whole process of trying to get pregnant that much more frustrating. Good luck on the future 💕 and thank you so much for watching my channel ❤️
Oh I completely agree ... my doctor had originally told me it would only take a few weeks to get out of my system but it took us SOO long to get pregnant with my first after being on birth control.
Hello my dear! I just found this video and I wanted to say it was absolutely beautiful and I found myself cheering for you through the whole thing. I'm so glad that you were able to have a kiddo! I'm also 37 and I was wondering if being pregnant at 37 was difficult or hard for you in any way :-( I'm also only 4'8 in height and chubby so I'm a little scared.
Thank you so much!! I was only pregnant 2x in my late thirties so I dont have anything to compare that to regarding how hard it will be. Both my pregnancies were very different. I had horrible hip pain with my first pregnancy, and then horrible morning sickness with my second. But I would do both pregnancies all over again because I got two sweet as pie littles out of the deal. I was also overweight for my first pregnancy so I believe that contributed to it taking so long to conceive. What I have learned about myself years later is that I believe I am sensitive to insulin. So I would recommend checking out literature on Insulin Resistance, if you haven't already. It may or may not be relatable to your situation. I will be thinking about you and sending lots of baby dust your way ✨
I'm 24 with one child I've decided not to have anymore but lately I've been contemplating having a baby boy maybe when I'm in my late 30s but I'm afraid I'll be exhausted idk I just need some advice
I can't speak for having a baby in my twenties, but looking back on where i was at that point in my life I would definitely be dealing with different challenges and struggles that I am now in my thirties .... just speaking for me, having kids in my late thirties was nice because I was more job stable and able to get a lot of stuff for my babies that I probably wouldn't have been able to afford in my twenties. Also having kids in my late thirties has been exhausting at times, but in a cheesy way has made me feel younger because I have to be more active to keep up with a toddler... if any of that make sense. I hope that helped in some way! Wishing you lots of love!
My gf is finally pregnant at 37.shes at 5 and a half weeks. She's had been on metformin and clomid before but it didn't work. Now she's taking progesterone to prevent miscarriage because she had one before. I'm kind of wondering if she should had been taking just metformin on its own. Just worried about her hormone levels etc. She has pcos.
Congratulations on the pregnancy, I send lots of good wishes for a healthy pregnancy and baby. I was on metformin while I was pregnant for a few months on the advice of my OB. I would say tell your OBGYN of all your concerns at your next appointment… best of luck! 💕
@@misula29 unfortunately she miscarried. We will try again but this time I'm wondering if she should just take metformin and thats it. I read a good article about it. She doesn't need it to get pregnant but to prevent miscarriage.
Thank you for sharing. I felt the same way when we decided to try and get pregnant, I spent all those years trying not to get pregnant and when I wanted to get pregnant I didn’t really know how. I did tons of online research, read lots of books and of course talk to your doctor or OBGYN. I wish you the best of luck 💕
@@misula29 Thanks Missy. My periods are regular, I'm 37 trying since 3-4 yrs now. I don't know if I have PCOD because there are no cysts in the ovaries but the AMH level is 6.2. In past 1 year, I see its increasing. Last year it was 5.4. At the same time I was diagnosed with PCOD but 1 month of exercise cured the disease, no longer have cysts. Not sure what else I should be doing.
It’s such a hard journey for some to get pregnant, so you are definitely not alone. I will be thinking of you and hope you get that positive pregnancy test result soon ❤️
Since I didn't have pregnancies in my 20s, I don't have anything to compare to ... but I do wish I was ten years younger because I would have tried for more than two kiddos
I had my first girl at 31 y/o, my second girl at 38 y/o and my son at 40 y/o. I’m Beyond blessed as they were all born healthy. At times I struggle with how old I will be when my son becomes a man. Though I still have plenty of energy to run around with him so I remind myself that through Christ I can do all things!
That’s beautiful 💕… You’ve given me such hope!
Very beautiful story you are blessed Gods timing is always the best time for his little miracles I am waiting for mine I know it’s coming it will very soon.
Blessings to you all 🙏
Amen 🙏🏾
Seriously this is what I needed to hear! I’ll be having my first at 31 and yea thinking of the future scares me and imagining my body gone forever is mentally affecting me
Pregnant at 37 y/o and sad about how little time i'll have with him/her and not knowing If i'll meet my grandchildren. I was not TTC.
37 is still young! My mum had my brother at 47. My friend is pregnant at 41
It totally is! Before becoming pregnant with my first I thought I was way too old and missed my chance to have kids … it’s very possible and I love hearing about moms in their 30s/40s, it’s beautifully inspiring ❤️
@@misula29 Thank you for this. I am 34, almost 35 and was losing hope I may be too old now and I just met the love of my life in the last year and never wanted children with anyone before but I do with him, he is such a beautiful man.
😍😍😍🥰✝️🙏🥰
Im 37, trying to get pregnant. Im praying and staying positive to become parents soon. You're right. I feel like I can't talk about it to anyone really except my husband. It can be also stressful if people keep asking why you not having a baby. Its so hurtful and I feel hurt and mad at times. But I'm hopeful.
First, sending you lots of baby dust ✨... it is all very stressful and then doctors tell you not to be overly stressed when trying to conceive! But just know you are not alone it this sometimes painful journey. I have all my fingers and toes crossed that you get that positive pregnancy test, and soon! 💕
Hlongs hlongs i feel u 😢.
😭😭😭😭same here😭😭😭😭
Same 😥
I am in the same boat sister! 37 and been trying since May, but was on Nuva Ring since I was 15. I think my body is finally figuring itself out after all these years and I am starting to establish a cycle pattern. I had NO idea of the natural pre and post Ovulation symptoms until now! I am having to decipher what is associated to normal PMS symptoms vs "if I am preggers" symptoms. I pray that I am not too late. Good luck and sending extra BDL (Baby Dust Love) your way! I am 4DPO and impatiently waiting lol. SORE BOOBS OMG!
babies still happen at 37. sending baby dust ladies ❤️
Your title made me click to your video right away... I'm 35 years old and currently struggling to have my first miracle baby... you are a true inspiration!💗💖💞💝
Aww thank you! I turned 35 a month after we started trying and I am living proof that pregnancy in you mid thirties is VERY possible. I will keep all my fingers and toes crossed for you! Sending baby dust ✨
Trust me I'm doing the same thing!!!... lol all fingers and toes!!🤞🏾🤞🏾
@@greyjayfamalay7532 can u update us now?
I am 36 yrs old and struggled with unexplained infertility I recently had uterine polyps removed and ttc hoping and praying its not to late for us
Oh my gosh, hugs!!... it’s such a hard thing to go through. Just know you are NOT alone.
For uterus related problems you can take giloy and/or cinnamon.
@@misula298
Your description of yourself during the process sounds exactly like
Me this past year! Thanks for sharing your story- I’m so happy
It ended well and with a happy, healthy. and very cute baby boy!
Thank you so much! And I wish you nothing but the best in your journey as well
I’m 33 and trying to have a baby. I just pray that I will be blessed. I know this video is old but congrats on your baby
I am sending you all the baby dust in the world ✨…. I’ve had two healthy babies since I posted this so babies in your 30s (without fertility treatment) is not doomed.
Thank you so much for sharing your story and those super helpful details!
You are so welcome ❤️
I am 38, will be 39 in December and currently trying to get pregnant. Trying to stay positive, not think about it too much and hope that everything goes well. I had a miscarriage at the very beginning of this year, which hurt so much as that would have been my first baby :( Now, my bf and I feel like we're ready to try again. I do feel like talking to others about it who haven't really gone through trying to conceive is hard (three of my sisters, granted they've been very kind about my miscarriage.) So fingers crossed, and all the baby dust, that we'll be pregnant soon!!
I’m so sorry for your loss. That must have been so insanely hard to go through… and trying to get pregnant is such a challenging thing and I feel like most people have no idea what you’re going through …. I also still feel like 38 is young! I conceived my second baby at 38 and gave birth at 39, so it’s very possible. I am sending lots of baby dust and good vibes your way ✨ 💕 ❤️
I had my first at 25 2nd at 28 and currently 6 months 🤰 with my baby number 3 at the age of 36 with a gap of 8 years
Congratulations on #3! I am one of three siblings and think it’s a wonderful number of kids
I know the feeling I have just found out am pregnant at 37 I was heartbroken as my son is 16 and my daughter is 7 but guess I got to take it as a blessing just really scared to be pregnant in this pandemic 😷
Being pregnant during the pandemic is definitely different… I almost felt robbed a little bit of all the public/party things that go along with being pregnant. But I try to make the best of it …. Congratulations on your pregnancy! I hope you have a healthy and wonderful pregnancy 💕
I had an ectopic rupture at 31 and lost tube and so I wanted to try again and with one tube I knew prob be harder. Here I am 33 and due next week. I did buy an ovulation kit on Amazon and was best purchase I ever made bc I got pregnant first try. The kit comes with like 50 ovulation strips and then a bunch of tests. When I got pregnant I gave the rest to a co worker struggling.
Awwww I loved reading your story!! And I wish you the healthiest of births, for baby and mama 💕
@@misula29 thank you so much! ☺️
Was that test like...dipping the strips in urine and downloading the app in u phone,etc
Yup! I think you can hold the test in your urine stream but I chose to dip the test in a cup of urine. The app you don’t necessarily need but is handy to track tests over multiple days
What is the name of the ovulation kit you bought. I want to buy one.
Ohhh❤❤❤😊cute.. U break all the noise around who forced woman to get pregnant befr 30 s. Specifically in our country lik India but now is changing world wide. Happy stay blessed guys❤
Love this! 😊
Congratulations on your channel and your family! The first time I used a fertility test it worked. I had been trying to get pregnant for a year, but I would just follow an app which indicated the best day, but now I see the app was always wrong, even if I described my cycle as it was. Unfortunately my pregnancy went only until the 7th week and in the 8th I discovered the missed abortion. Besides the pregnancy, I believe I was into unnecessary stress just before I found it out and maybe it played a role in maybe letting me down or careless about habits and eating after one year being so conscious. I hope to be more focused and won't let any worries disturb my peace. I even believe that tiny baby was a warrior for staying as much as he or she did. May we all have our children, healthy and happy. God bless.
First I’m so sorry for your loss. That must have been so difficult to go through …. Sending hugs!… and second, yes I had a bunch of inconsistencies while using apps too which only makes the whole process of trying to get pregnant that much more frustrating. Good luck on the future 💕 and thank you so much for watching my channel ❤️
This just popped up on my feed and I can't believe how tiny he was back then!!! What a little nugget.
I know right 😭 but makes me glad I started RUclips when I did, so I have all these memories of lil nugget to look back on 💕
Thank you for sharing your story and your beautiful baby
Thank you! And thank you for watching 😊
Thank u so much for sharing ! It helped me a lot, im literally crying lol
You're so welcome! :) sending internet hugs!
Women need to know it can take years to recover after birth control and be able to get pregnant. It takes a long time to get it out of your system.
Oh I completely agree ... my doctor had originally told me it would only take a few weeks to get out of my system but it took us SOO long to get pregnant with my first after being on birth control.
Hello my dear! I just found this video and I wanted to say it was absolutely beautiful and I found myself cheering for you through the whole thing. I'm so glad that you were able to have a kiddo! I'm also 37 and I was wondering if being pregnant at 37 was difficult or hard for you in any way :-( I'm also only 4'8 in height and chubby so I'm a little scared.
Thank you so much!!
I was only pregnant 2x in my late thirties so I dont have anything to compare that to regarding how hard it will be. Both my pregnancies were very different. I had horrible hip pain with my first pregnancy, and then horrible morning sickness with my second. But I would do both pregnancies all over again because I got two sweet as pie littles out of the deal.
I was also overweight for my first pregnancy so I believe that contributed to it taking so long to conceive. What I have learned about myself years later is that I believe I am sensitive to insulin. So I would recommend checking out literature on Insulin Resistance, if you haven't already. It may or may not be relatable to your situation.
I will be thinking about you and sending lots of baby dust your way ✨
Yea
I'm 24 with one child I've decided not to have anymore but lately I've been contemplating having a baby boy maybe when I'm in my late 30s but I'm afraid I'll be exhausted idk I just need some advice
I can't speak for having a baby in my twenties, but looking back on where i was at that point in my life I would definitely be dealing with different challenges and struggles that I am now in my thirties .... just speaking for me, having kids in my late thirties was nice because I was more job stable and able to get a lot of stuff for my babies that I probably wouldn't have been able to afford in my twenties. Also having kids in my late thirties has been exhausting at times, but in a cheesy way has made me feel younger because I have to be more active to keep up with a toddler... if any of that make sense. I hope that helped in some way! Wishing you lots of love!
I’m 27 years old I never been pregnant. I’m starting to lose hope. I don’t know what’s wrong with me 😞
I am sending you a HUGE cyber hug .... You are in my thoughts and I am sending you lots of baby dust!
@@misula29 thank u ❤️🔥
My gf is finally pregnant at 37.shes at 5 and a half weeks. She's had been on metformin and clomid before but it didn't work. Now she's taking progesterone to prevent miscarriage because she had one before. I'm kind of wondering if she should had been taking just metformin on its own. Just worried about her hormone levels etc. She has pcos.
Congratulations on the pregnancy, I send lots of good wishes for a healthy pregnancy and baby. I was on metformin while I was pregnant for a few months on the advice of my OB. I would say tell your OBGYN of all your concerns at your next appointment… best of luck! 💕
@@misula29 unfortunately she miscarried. We will try again but this time I'm wondering if she should just take metformin and thats it. I read a good article about it. She doesn't need it to get pregnant but to prevent miscarriage.
Oh no I am so so sorry. That has got to be so hard to go through. I am sending you all the best wishes and luck in a future, healthy pregnancy ❤️
I am 35 and 2 month of married lit bit tens about my pregnency
You will be pregnanat sOon.... Insha Allah
Wish u all the best and many sleeping hours 💕
Thank you so much :)
I'm 33 Year old I don't know how to concev my baby. My AMH low, my period just spotting plz help me mam
Thank you for sharing. I felt the same way when we decided to try and get pregnant, I spent all those years trying not to get pregnant and when I wanted to get pregnant I didn’t really know how. I did tons of online research, read lots of books and of course talk to your doctor or OBGYN. I wish you the best of luck 💕
How many mg of Metformin did you take?
I was prescribed 500mg tablets of metformin, and I took that 3 times a day
After taking Metformin, after how many months you got pregnant?
It was only four months. My cycle regulated almost immediately after taking metformin. I started it in December and was able to get pregnant in April.
@@misula29 Thanks Missy. My periods are regular, I'm 37 trying since 3-4 yrs now. I don't know if I have PCOD because there are no cysts in the ovaries but the AMH level is 6.2. In past 1 year, I see its increasing. Last year it was 5.4. At the same time I was diagnosed with PCOD but 1 month of exercise cured the disease, no longer have cysts. Not sure what else I should be doing.
It’s such a hard journey for some to get pregnant, so you are definitely not alone. I will be thinking of you and hope you get that positive pregnancy test result soon ❤️
Thanks Missy for your comforting note!
I have pcod cycst
I am keeping my fingers and toes crossed that you will see a positive pregnancy test in your near future 💕
Getting pregnant early is still much better
Since I didn't have pregnancies in my 20s, I don't have anything to compare to ... but I do wish I was ten years younger because I would have tried for more than two kiddos
I am 32age..but I am not convinced pregnancy...my all reports is normal..plz some tips .
It’s so tough waiting for positive pregnancy test … waiting and dreaming of it. I totally understand. I am sending positive vibes your way!!