Musicians "APPRECIATION"- Why Church Musicians QUIT

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  • Опубликовано: 29 янв 2025

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  • @romienomie
    @romienomie 9 месяцев назад +12

    Really appreciate what you do. It's like having a friend to talk to who understands what we go through as Church musicians

    • @TerenceFisher1
      @TerenceFisher1  9 месяцев назад

      I really appreciate your kind words!!

  • @STEVE609able
    @STEVE609able Год назад +19

    I feel you brother. No raises , skipped over and kindness taken for granted !!!

  • @meekoloco
    @meekoloco Год назад +50

    The last church I worked at, which was my home church which I was committed to with my family, hired a young minister of music and I thought this would be good, that there would be new music with a new attitude behind it. But during the first rehearsal, I started a particular song, correctly I might add, and the new music minister stopped me and raised his voice at me into the microphone, we were all IEMs mind you, to tell me I was playing it incorrectly. I tactfully stood up for myself, and asked him what he thought the proper way to play it was and did my best to accommodate him. After that rehearsal, I gave my notice and never went back. I’ve been a professional musician for 40 years, and I have never been spoken to like that before or since.

  • @nancybrewington9000
    @nancybrewington9000 Год назад +28

    For the near 49 1/2 years I have been playing, I Know That I Am Not Appreciated, & Underpaid!! Some Churches Want More Out of Us, & DON'T Care How Feel About Situations! We Are NOT Robots!!

    • @spark300c
      @spark300c Год назад +1

      believe or not we are point robots can play it all. We vocal synths that sound human. We have robots that play instruments.
      how ever a lot praise team so they should appreciated for what they do. a lot small church can not afford to pay a whole team. though the minister of music should be paid Because he his to do more than just show up for practice. his job to find song that theology sound. 2nd is figure what kind of music that congregation wants to listen too. I also accepted that church music will always be mediocre because it's impossible to please everyone. it why I make mine own music.

  • @dstanton002
    @dstanton002 Год назад +13

    This comment is absolutely no disrespect to any other comment here…but i keep myself humble when serving by always remembering Jesus displayed the ultimate in serving. He had a mission and fulfilled that mission regardless of the disrespect he endured. Not just disrespect, but a grueling death. Keep things in a healthy perspective my musical bros and sisters! This is really stated in love for every person here and high regard for the gift given to each us by God our Father. Peace and blessings!!!❤

  • @LION-q7g1c
    @LION-q7g1c Год назад +10

    May everything we do be all for the Glory of God don’t count on man giving you the appreciation God knows your heart and will bless you 🙏

  • @simbaking6338
    @simbaking6338 Год назад +12

    U speaking facts bro....We are taken for granted on so many levels!!

  • @kentbrooks3227
    @kentbrooks3227 Год назад +3

    Man, I'm so sorry for the loss of your singers. Over the years, I've lost choir members and it's like losing a family member. You hit on some good points. When I do church music workshops, I offer a session titled, "Who ministers to the minister?" Those of us in Levitical positions are expected to pour out more and more, but like any vessel, we'll eventually need to be filled. The moment we're out of pocket or God forbid we take Sunday off, everyone's life is turned upside-down. We also need to be spiritually fed. We need mental health days. We need vacation days that don't include being on call. We need good communication with the pastor so that we don't have to anticipate the vision. We need love when we experience loss, etc.

  • @jamesanderson4014
    @jamesanderson4014 Год назад +17

    The best most permanent church musicians are those individuals who already have a solid career. As a matter of fact most ministers of the calling and different callings already have a career as I am stating again. Ministry should be financially secondary income especially with younger people. Everybody should always be respected and appreciated.

    • @rong648
      @rong648 Год назад +2

      The musicians that play at your church are they believers/ members of your church?

    • @jamesanderson4014
      @jamesanderson4014 Год назад +2

      Absolutely and all musicians have their own careers.

    • @BETHEONE77
      @BETHEONE77 Год назад +1

      I agree! Career or just a second job in general.

    • @rong648
      @rong648 Год назад

      @@jamesanderson4014 Trence's videos give me the impression; the people he calls "church musicians" are not believers or members of the church they play for. They are just someone hired to play music.

  • @jovitoondiano5802
    @jovitoondiano5802 Год назад +3

    I have been a keyboardist for a catholic church for 30 year. I love doing this for the Lord.

  • @EliezerMercado1975
    @EliezerMercado1975 Год назад +13

    I first experienced the disrespect in the pentecostal churches. But now is common in the majority of churches I've been in. Embarrassing musicians from the pulpit. Musicians are like punching bags for church leaders.

    • @micah3823
      @micah3823 Год назад +4

      I experienced this in pentecostal and baptist churches as well..

  • @soundrat
    @soundrat 7 месяцев назад +2

    I have been a church musician for decades and while there were great experiences, there is also at times the petty politics, high school “cool kids” popularity contest and favoritism and cronism. One is the finger pointing such as “you are performance oriented or not spiritual enough”. Those kind of ministries are hard to change. I find it best to keep circulating until you find a church that is open to your talents and gifts. If God closed a door, it may mean that He wants you to go through a bigger door. God gave you your musical gifts for a reason. I’m in a mega church now that has let me play without any baggage and been very encouraging and made a lot of great friends. They are out there.

  • @ManuelDRodriguez
    @ManuelDRodriguez Год назад +4

    Appreciation is big.

  • @flipflopquest
    @flipflopquest Год назад +3

    In 30 years of faithful service, I have worked full-time, part-time or volunteered with 7 churches. My
    most recent church, I have been with 11 years. I left two churches due to lack of appreciation or didn't feel right, I've been fired once (no reason given), laid off by one (lack of funds) quit one (the Pastor was an a-hole), I've had my PT salary cut 3 times at my current church but somehow, still feel appreciated. I've never had a pension or 401k offered, while working with Pastors with $90k to $110k plus salaries, full benefits packages and retirement funds, oh and some had all their housing paid, cell phones, gas, etc. I'm still doing it but this is my last church! I love Jesus ❤

  • @yawbass
    @yawbass Год назад +1

    Thank for This Advise

  • @jasonlewis5350
    @jasonlewis5350 Год назад +1

    Never seen your channel/videos before, but having been through these issues myself over the years, I can attest to the fact that you’re spot on and I subscribed. Thanks for sharing the truth on this matter.

  • @prophetsofpraise5206
    @prophetsofpraise5206 Год назад +4

    been doing worship since the late 70's. Follow God and not man. Make sure your relationship with Jesus is always fresh and one thing my sister in law who is in full time ministry in a mega church in So Cal said. It's GOING to be hard working with others. You have to decide if ministering to God's people is worth it. Has God called you to do that? God bless you in what ever HE calls you to 🤙

  • @BikerEgg1
    @BikerEgg1 Год назад +2

    I'm not a church musician, but have gotten into discussions about pay. I was surprised at how many church musicians believe they should not be paid.

    • @micah3823
      @micah3823 8 месяцев назад +1

      Are the pastors and associates paid?

  • @LivingHisWordDaily
    @LivingHisWordDaily Год назад +1

    Praying for you bro during your time of loss-the first 3 minutes of your video resonates

  • @raybankin8342
    @raybankin8342 Год назад +1

    I didn't know all of this. Well now, musicians should get paid and respected for lifting our spirits.

  • @KeytarKris
    @KeytarKris 6 месяцев назад

    Makes me super happy to see this. I was a worship pastor years ago and I’d never go back again.

  • @InnocentAbyssinianCat-eb7ge
    @InnocentAbyssinianCat-eb7ge 6 месяцев назад +1

    I'm way ahead of you I quit on the idea of being a church ⛪️ musician because I've refused to set foot in a church since 1980 except once in 2012 and then I remembered why I stopped going in 1980 in the first place

  • @dethsyndrome
    @dethsyndrome Год назад +4

    Starting to see why I never got the gig. God said no! Keep training.

    • @dethsyndrome
      @dethsyndrome 11 месяцев назад

      You got a scammer on your site. Never trust telegram.

  • @strumrockschool
    @strumrockschool 6 месяцев назад

    Thanks, I can relate on so many levels.

  • @jaydee9968
    @jaydee9968 8 месяцев назад +1

    Getting paid a nominal amount would make huge a difference. I have tons of high-quality gear, drive many miles, spend precious time practicing, etc... and it would sure help to get a little remuneration for that plus a little for what we bring. I've played in churches for decades for free. The best "pay" I ever got was directly from a congregant. I once quit because of the utterly awful mix quality, but the church resolved the issue and I ended up staying. One member told me how glad he was I was back. That meant a lot. I cynically tell my wife that God doesn't pay his musicians while clubs do. I played clubs back in the day and it helped me pay my way through college. I'm seriously considering getting back into that. I don't drink or like the club environment, but it still would be fun and would help out financially as a decent side hustle. As far as the people who go tot clubs go, they're adults and I respect their decisions to do what they do unless they endanger others by engaging in stupid behavior such as drunk driving.

  • @PJK7135
    @PJK7135 7 месяцев назад

    It’s one thing to feel appreciated and another to feel like s star. I’ve had too many musicians join my group who were not first members of the church, only to leave when they didn’t get to play the solo or sing the lead. As a church musician, are we performing for the audience or are we leading the congregation in a performance for our God. If you’re there to perform for an audience then go play at a bar. Church is for community worship first and foremost. If your soul is in it, the congregation will show appreciation by their participation. God bless.

  • @teddynruthstudstill1508
    @teddynruthstudstill1508 8 месяцев назад

    Great information and very well appreciated. 👍🏿

  • @AJWilsonMusic
    @AJWilsonMusic Год назад +3

    Yes Sir your talking right your a inspiration To me man

  • @theverystones2643
    @theverystones2643 10 месяцев назад +2

    The thing that gets me is quite obviously a lot of church musicians are far more dedicated to their work and craft than the pastors that bowl up on a Sunday and do a little motivational hypocritical pep talk and walk home for the week with the salary. 💣

  • @mattmasonoklahoma
    @mattmasonoklahoma Год назад +4

    every year the required rehearsals got more numerous for a 45 min production.. the lil jokes about being out late at nite playing somewhere the night before and “partying with ozzy osbourne”😆😆 got really old and when they cut me fifty bux the last years easter program, i simply went got my amp and havnt been back

    • @ruminantmelanoid5444
      @ruminantmelanoid5444 Год назад

      Bruh, did they reduce your check by $50.00, or did they cut you a $50.00 *_CHECK?_*

    • @mattmasonoklahoma
      @mattmasonoklahoma Год назад

      @@ruminantmelanoid5444they reduced my check by $50 without telling me.. surprise!

  • @johnsey2625
    @johnsey2625 9 месяцев назад

    I can’t quite put my finger on it…it might be a combination of your dedication to professionalism and your delivery on these high quality videos that is frankly, oddly inspiring and pushes me to become a better musician. Anyhow, I really appreciate your time sharing these little valued nuggets and hope you continue going strong. God bless you and all church musicians out there in their struggles 🙏

  • @DamnDucks-mb8ge
    @DamnDucks-mb8ge Год назад

    Great video! We added it to our article. :)

  • @Bashanvibe
    @Bashanvibe Год назад +2

    I’ve been married now for 4 years and my wife has been asking me to leave church alone because of the lack of resprecation!!! They expect so much from me and I give them that I’m not getting the same expectation!!!

    • @truealpha3527
      @truealpha3527 Год назад

      What is it you are asked to do? By the look of it you must be doing so much.

  • @ShreddingFinn
    @ShreddingFinn Год назад +7

    I mean really all we need to worry about is doing our best for God, not if some church admin person likes you or not

    • @kennygsmooth83
      @kennygsmooth83 Год назад +5

      I can't fully agree with that. Yes, we are to do our best for God, but a bad relationship with someone at church can ruin the whole environment for yourself and others. Especially, if it has to do with a Minister of Music or the Pastor. I've been able to avoid most conflicts in church, but that's honestly not the norm.

    • @lorenzodavis8380
      @lorenzodavis8380 Год назад +3

      Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. In addition to that , God is a God of order and peace not disorder and confusion.

    • @lorenzodavis8380
      @lorenzodavis8380 Год назад +2

      If there is no order then disrespect and confusion occurs and individuals take advantage of that especially when given a title.

  • @FredMason3
    @FredMason3 Год назад +2

    Bro, you spoke a word in the first 60 seconds.

  • @brighterhealthshop
    @brighterhealthshop Год назад +1

    Im blessed to play for a great church for 22 years. I am dedicated to play at service. When outgoing events, i get paid more. It was 2 services, now its one. Our pay didn't change. During Covid, being a guitarist, the bassist and i, due the virus, did not have to play. My church, STILL paid my salary, the whole time, until Covid eased. Oh, and i just got another raise. And i can get any gear i want. In 2007, they got me $2300 Mesa Dual Rectifier. Had for years in service. After that, I got Fender Twin, i was able the keep the Mesa Half Stack and take it home.

    • @yawbass
      @yawbass Год назад

      U are blessed

    • @kvtar
      @kvtar Год назад

      You are so lucky. I've always had to bring my own amp. Good thing I have more than one. My church would never be any equipment for me. And they wonder why I got mad when someone let their little brat mess with my stuff. All the singers had to do was show up, and a mic was provided for them. I had to bring the stuff I paid GOOD money for

  • @kel5423
    @kel5423 Год назад +2

    This also happens to Christian bands (that are not playing for churches). Many have quit altogether and some members have even walked away from Jesus. It's unfortunate because many of these bands released great albums.

  • @robinr.2233
    @robinr.2233 8 месяцев назад

    After playing in Praise bands for over 25 yrs, my experience is that church musicians are not victims unless they take that on. I’ve been in plenty of situations where it felt like it was a dare to keep showing up and doing my best but if you’re called to do it, do it. God will let you know when to stay and when to go. It’s his plan, not yours, the blessings you receive in the service to the Kingdom far out weigh the vicissitudes you deal with as a church musician (and in life).

  • @lionhearttx7156
    @lionhearttx7156 6 месяцев назад

    Antidotal: for me I suffer from extreme cycles of imposter syndrome or the feeling like I am not talented enough to be on the same stage as the other players in our network. It’s a large church that has an embarrassment of riches in skilled and knowledgeable musicians.
    But I’m still here. When I think I can’t take anymore, I say give it one more week.

  • @betts827
    @betts827 Год назад +48

    This must be a big church issue. I have been on multiple praise teams and have been in productions and never been paid or expected to be paid. It was about service unto God my reward is in heaven. I would never consider pay to worship him.

    • @MyTEEsharp1
      @MyTEEsharp1 Год назад +5

      Wow man!! RESPECT 🔥🔥🔥

    • @jgirizarry
      @jgirizarry Год назад +2

      AMEN 🙏🏻

    • @BETHEONE77
      @BETHEONE77 Год назад +5

      its not really about pay for me. I do because god has blessed me with a gift. Even if i didnt get paid i would be still doing it. But the fact of the matter the ministry has blessed me in turn there have been ups and downs but they still been good to me. The musicians in leviticus didnt work there sole purpose was to prepare for worship, so theres nothing wrong with getting a stipend :)

    • @zacharykim295
      @zacharykim295 Год назад +4

      I feel the same way. To me its very strange that churches pay musicians to play worship for them. Worship team members should be volunteers from the same church they attend.

    • @BETHEONE77
      @BETHEONE77 Год назад +8

      ​​@@zacharykim295 Dont feel it strange. Let me bring scripture.And in Nehemiah 11:22b-23 says of the sons of Asaph, the singers were over the business of the house of God. For it was the Kings commandment concerning them, that a certain portion should be for the singers, due for everyday. The Temple had professional singers and musicians. They had their own portion, paid daily. But remember not all ministries are created equal :).

  • @dillonpoggenpoel5892
    @dillonpoggenpoel5892 Год назад

    I can't lie, it makes me feel good to see that this struggle is not only my own, but at the same time it's sad because then it means that it is a general thing to not value church musicians. I mean they do their best, not only for the congregants, but for God and it's quite upsetting that God made the Levites - the Children of Asaph (The musicians) one of the most important group of people in Israel and those scriptures and the general idea does not stick in most churches of the modern era.

  • @rhondabryant667
    @rhondabryant667 11 месяцев назад

    God's glory in the earth, from generation to generation, is worth my praise!!! Don't nees your money to praise Him in my own home!!!

  • @josephanthony392
    @josephanthony392 Год назад +1

    Sad but true.

  • @kennygsmooth83
    @kennygsmooth83 Год назад +6

    Real appreciation is about the compensation first for me. I've played in church for about a decade and left as my life became too busy for it. Time is really money, especially when you have a family. You have to properly compensate for time to practice, rehearse and play at multiple services away from family to deliver a quality product.

  • @SoundScientist1
    @SoundScientist1 11 месяцев назад +1

    This subject (obviously) elicits varied views & perspectives. I want to ask the musician viewers a practical question. (Particularly those who are of the mindset that ministries should not be expected to pay their musicians).
    For those who are formally trained (attended university or conservatory) and earned BA's, MA's, & higher in music disciplines... they probably have outstanding school loan debt (unless they were blessed with full tuition scholarships). In order to commit to regular Sunday worship services, one most likely has to forego opportunities to perform secular gigs on Saturday evenings.
    So, how do you rationalize the church community asking those folks to sacrifice INCOME, then further insulting them by not blessing them with a payment for their music performances?

  • @fivepiece
    @fivepiece Год назад +5

    To the musician: do it with a servant's heart and for the glory of God, not for any "appreciation" from people. To the church: take time to show appreciation to the people who serve in ALL capacities, including the ones who empty trash cans and mop the bathrooms and, yes, musicians too.

    • @jojosmoothe
      @jojosmoothe 7 месяцев назад +1

      Amen to both.

    • @jordob5791
      @jordob5791 6 месяцев назад

      @@fivepiece The problem is that custodial work doesn’t require thousands of hours of consistent practice to become skilled. Most people do not understand that music is so much more (especially worship) than we attribute value to. And some church leaders see the musicians in the same light as volunteer custodial work. I myself have served as a musician and cleaned up after people, mowed etc right along with a worship team many times. Being a skilled musician is undervalued in a lot of churches and we should be payed appropriately to the level of involvement just as a pastor is payed. Unfortunately, very unskilled musicians are used more often because they refuse to pay good ones that have the gift and put in the time to play skillfully. It’s not fun to be gaslighted into doing unpaid work that requires skill and be forced into leading worship with an unprepared team playing uninspired, lazy, dull and repetitive music. I think worshipping god through song should hold the highest standard of skill, inspiration and preparation. Just as a pastor is expected to do so.

    • @fivepiece
      @fivepiece 6 месяцев назад

      @@jordob5791 I don't bother myself with any of the "I deserve" or "I'm owed" mindset. It brings nothing but bitterness and resentment and, finally, burnout. I stand by what I said: do it with a servant's heart and for the glory of God.

    • @jordob5791
      @jordob5791 6 месяцев назад

      @@fivepiece I’m not saying it’s about deserving or being owed. It just funny that the pastor always gets paid but when the music side of the ministry comes around all the “servants heart, and glory of god” talk comes out. Of course you should be honoring god. That is a given and the most basic thing when doing any activity in church. We are talking about church leaders holding the music ministry below themselves in importance. This why Christian music sounds terrible in most churches. You don’t understand so you devalue.

    • @jordob5791
      @jordob5791 6 месяцев назад

      @@fivepiece And your whole music ministry may be at a stage in their life where they have the time and resources to play skillfully that is awesome but that is rare. The Bible addresses these things. But it is ignored to the detriment of the church.

  • @johnnyvillage4766
    @johnnyvillage4766 6 месяцев назад

    Hey Terence, You are one true Prophet in the stage of Psalmody. I believe you ought to travel the world by way of Visualisation and Share what Abba Father God Almighty jas installed into you to proclaim the true meaning of Praise and Worship in the Body of Christ
    Johnny K. Kellyville Sydney, Australia 🇦🇺
    Love you Brother✝️👍🏽👍🏽😇

  • @g.e.miller4335
    @g.e.miller4335 7 месяцев назад +1

    Isn't there a musicians union in the United States? Don't you get Union scale?

  • @rickbritton414
    @rickbritton414 8 месяцев назад +1

    Appreciated has nothing do do with anything! Those " church musicians " aren't playing music for GOD!! HE IS our great reward!! Quit serving GOD for you and start serving HIM!!

  • @terryingram7419
    @terryingram7419 6 месяцев назад

    That's why I quit playing in church, and I don't have any desire to go back, these churches don't appreciate musicians, they treat us like a " jukebox" give us a few quarters and expect us to play all day.

  • @whotrickedyouu
    @whotrickedyouu 3 месяца назад

    Interesting I didn't know this was going on.

  • @csharrisii325
    @csharrisii325 11 месяцев назад

    My last church, I played for 25yrs, at the same VERY small salary, actually took a pay cut for months to pay Another musician who was paid more than twice my stipend, after he passed away, they went back to my original pay, I only missed FOUR SUNDAYS in 25yrs.... that is the ultimate feeling of disappointment in my worth. The Only reason I'm Not there now, my pastor decided that the Sabbath, was the true day of Worship, so they no longer have service on Sunday. I have a job in which I work Saturdays, I was told, to CALL OFF every Saturday, so I could continue to play. That was December 22, I STILL have the hiccups from laughing.....

  • @bobtee7899
    @bobtee7899 8 месяцев назад +1

    APPRECIATION!!!, it's like trying to get paid for what you enjoy doin....LOL🤣🤣🤣

  • @nickmartinez990
    @nickmartinez990 Год назад +12

    Problem is, people are doing it for money and/or recognition and NOT for the glory of God!

    • @calebnicolas9490
      @calebnicolas9490 11 месяцев назад +2

      It’s not everyone that minister for the money.

    • @rrickarr
      @rrickarr 10 месяцев назад +4

      nickmartinez: So why are pastors so well paid!

    • @theverystones2643
      @theverystones2643 10 месяцев назад +2

      Think that’s pastors your talking about there

    • @frankfonseca5039
      @frankfonseca5039 9 месяцев назад

      @@rrickarr They are not all well paid! Many of them also have heart problems from the stress they are under. Do you actually know any and how much they get paid?

    • @micah3823
      @micah3823 8 месяцев назад +2

      so the Levites were musicians and singers for the money too?

  • @garymcaleer6112
    @garymcaleer6112 Год назад

    What is more important is the fact that Christ could've come before the 20th century if the church had faithfully carried forward the work of the Judean model of worship (I Thess.2:16).
    The betrayal of musicians (of which I devoted years to various churches, receiving no living wage in return) is nothing compared to betraying the congregation as to what sin is and what sin does.
    And today's prophecy gurus tell everyone to sit on their asses as if Bible prophecy is a form of entertainment when the LORD is soon to shake the tree (Revelation 13:13).
    This prophecy sets the stage for the closing events (Revelation 16 & Isaiah 24). And we need serious music to address the coming threat against our souls. "The time is short."

  • @terrywarnold
    @terrywarnold 10 месяцев назад +1

    Without really even needing to watch the video, I can tell you why musicians quit church. It’s because they stopped looking at it as ministry and considered it a job. When you understand the concept that it’s not about you and it’s about Him, it’s ministry. When you start considering it a job, it’s just like any other job, you can quit whenever you feel like it and move on.

    • @jamesbutler7885
      @jamesbutler7885 8 месяцев назад

      As a former music pastor and as an ongoing member of a music team in a large church, I have to say that this is not always the case. It's easy for people to start saying this save this and to use it as a way to bash people who need to take a step back, but I have known plenty of Music ministers who push their people to the breaking point expecting to expecting them to do ridiculous amounts of work with little to no compensation or appreciation. Yes, most of us are volunteers, but the apostles also said that a Workman is worth his hire.

  • @Lilbit1972
    @Lilbit1972 Год назад +5

    No pay. Being told it's a ministry and watching other people get paid who do way less than you with pay and you get nothing. It's easy for them to tell you they appreciate you, but it's a lie. They use people. A musician can't live off of 0$.

    • @truealpha3527
      @truealpha3527 Год назад +1

      Do you believe in the God you lead a congregation to worship?

    • @stevenbatke2475
      @stevenbatke2475 Год назад

      @@truealpha3527should musicians work for free? It is a big commitment in time and money. Good musical gear is far from cheap.
      One can work in a ministry, and get paid.

    • @Lilbit1972
      @Lilbit1972 Год назад

      @@truealpha3527 yes

  • @haroldbatesjr3260
    @haroldbatesjr3260 4 месяца назад

    The expectations of a church musician can sometimes be a bit much.

  • @DOC2089
    @DOC2089 Год назад

    lol wow I’ve been on the reversed appreciation game for a year now and he’s right. I looked at it as campaigning tho, but I like his explanation.
    I was already loved by the mothers of the church and youth ministry, but now I have the deacons and some outreach ministry leaders on my side and like 4 out of 10 ministers too. I told myself I’m going to put myself among the people. Now the pastor calls me boss lol on live stream! (mostly in jest, but he knows I run the church for real). Only person I can’t get on my side is the First Lady 🤦🏾‍♂️ she covertly hates me.
    I feel appreciated and protected at the church now.

    • @kvtar
      @kvtar Год назад

      The problem I have with that above and beyond advice is, many if not most of us do that already. I've even been shot down for it. It was " shut up and play your guitar". I even gave the pastor and his daughter free guitar lessons. Led Praise and Worship once. All this and more is going the extra mile.

  • @djcoolcliff
    @djcoolcliff Год назад +4

    Get your money man!!!!! It’s a business don’t get it twisted! Know your worth! There a lot of churches that’s about their business! Take opportunities that benefit you as a musician!!!

  • @mr.dennis5503
    @mr.dennis5503 6 месяцев назад

    First person to get there; last one to leave; and absolutely the LEAST appreciated!
    Someone told me about a Minister of Music Who was called in by the church governing board, and told that the church would no longer be paying him for his work. They expected him to continue his duties, he simply wasn't going to be paid for his work anymore. The reason they gave him is because, as a member of the church, he should "donate his service!" He was also informed at the church would continue paying the other musicians like the Bass Player and Drummer, who are not members of the church, just not him! In other words, they are not going to take care of their own, they're going to take care of outsiders! This is a common theme in many churches!

  • @doncoyote5636
    @doncoyote5636 Год назад +1

    Unpopular truth... THERE ARE OTHER WAYS TO WORSHIP GOD BESIDES MUSIC! Worship with obedience, worship with joy, worship by telling God how grateful you are. What passes for worship at most modern churches is not about lifting up the Most High God. As a lifelong professional musician, I have learned that using my God-given talents to bring joy to people wherever they may be is a legitimate calling... especially in such dark days. If you do not feel right about playing at church, GET OUT! Spread love, folks.

  • @TheMeJustMe75
    @TheMeJustMe75 Год назад

    I went to a church in Nashville, Tn several years ago. I was completely turned off by the music. The music leader misquoted scripture and made stuff up to get cheer and applause. They had a light show during the music and tried to turn it into a concert. My wife and I just looked at each in disgust. After church was over a guy approached me and asked what I thought of their music ministry. I told him that the music leader/band was talented but not very scripturally sound. I told him the claims that the leader made were false. The guy just stared at me and walked away. I'm more of a traditional church music guy. If I want Christian Rock/Hard Rock then I will listen to Demon Hunter or Wolves at the Gate.

  • @rlittlefield2691
    @rlittlefield2691 Год назад

    I play at a church they make me feel very appreciated, I am not very good so that is surprising.

  • @b.j.taylor9576
    @b.j.taylor9576 Год назад +1

    Notice in the New Teastament that no mention is made of musicians or musical instruments(except harps in the highly figurative-symbolic book of Revelation), except singing and making melody in your heart to the Lord! Just sayin'.

  • @rhondabryant667
    @rhondabryant667 11 месяцев назад +1

    Christ is Lord!!! He is worthy of my free worship!!! He died for my sins!!! Forget the glitz, and glam, I'm an average human being, trying to live!!! He reigns, not the praise team!!!

  • @sl1ght
    @sl1ght Год назад +2

    Paycheck? what paycheck? Lol. The only person on our team that gets paid is the WL. I play because to serve the Lord, not myself.

  • @TheAcoustic356
    @TheAcoustic356 Год назад +2

    If these musicians quit playing at church, would they actually find a church to attend and worship? That's the million dollar question.

  • @ABS_AD77
    @ABS_AD77 9 месяцев назад

    I would like to support and appreciate Terence for posting the video.
    For some of you who commented that you don't expect any appreciation from church and that you lend free service to church. This Video is not for you !
    This video is for talents who submitted and committed not only their lives but also their talents to the Lord and His service;
    People who committed not only their lives but also their talents to the Lord and His service do not know any other job other than spending their God given talents in service to Church which is a specialised full-time work area, just like full-time pastors.
    If you have some other financial stream as a living for you and your family, all good, nothing wrong about it, but your situation is completely different when compared to others who completely are set apart for the Lord and His service, so please make your comments in light of this reality rather than in a boastful way, telling others that you are working free for God, which do not make any sense because you are fully employed else where, where as people who commited their lifes to the service of the Lord are like little Samuels, whose life is for the service of the church and the church ought to look after their needs just like the pastors; David fully supported the full-time temple musicians in the OT.
    Full-time Pastors = Full-time tech = Full-time musicians = Full-time anybody for Church are all equal in the sight of God and all of them have to be looked after by the church equally well. There is no big, small, or least in Church.
    Remember, what our dear Lord Jesus said, "the First will be last and the least will be first".

  • @tommyapocalypse6096
    @tommyapocalypse6096 Год назад +2

    I thought one played music in church as an expression of worship to God. Imagine my surprise to discover that it’s just another job, after all, and the main focus is how the musician is treated… and paid (!?!)
    No boo-hoos for them. I am glad they are leaving. They show that they have the wrong motives and heart attitude.
    The postmodern church is a dumpster. Let’s get back to home churches and attending for the right reasons.

    • @kvtar
      @kvtar Год назад

      So musicians shouldn't be appreciated?!? No one is saying they deserve special treatment, but come on. See people want to quote scriptures that they twisted around to justify not respecting their musicians. It's not even about the money, because I did it for free. Just show some common freaking respect!!

  • @carl-stevensinkler7894
    @carl-stevensinkler7894 9 месяцев назад

    Can’t even make the doggone lemonade all I got is the doggone peel. Nun but bitterness🌚

  • @greyguy69
    @greyguy69 Год назад +1

    Churches want you to donate your talent and rehearse for no money. They just expect it? Pastors get paid so should the musiciAns? I quit going to church cause they want you to do work for the church with no pay.

  • @fantasybouthour6679
    @fantasybouthour6679 11 месяцев назад

    To be honest, I’m totally over it.

  • @lovelyfullerjr793
    @lovelyfullerjr793 Год назад +1

    I thought that if i came in playing for the church and put God first everything would f ok

  • @snakeplissken44
    @snakeplissken44 6 месяцев назад

    I can tolerate not being paid, but when the worship leader is being paid a living wage just for picking out 4/5 songs for Sunday, and I'm getting nothing, that's when I call BS!!

  • @Poop3144
    @Poop3144 Год назад +1

    Let me tell all the quitting musicians something. ITS ABOUT GOD/JESUS. IF YOURE NOT UP THERE TO BRING OTHERS TO WORSHIP OR TO GLORIFY GOD AND NOT YOURSELF, THEN QUIT. ITS NOT ABOUT YOU! YOU ARE NOT PLAYING FOR YOURSELF. YOU ARE NOT PLAYING OR SHOULD NOT BE PLAYING FOR MONEY.
    God,Jesus should have all the glory and preeminence. The churches today are so watered down and misprioritized. God is not the focus. It's lights, music and flare. musicians crying because they don't feel appreciated. Please. It's not about you. Wake up, and shift your focus back to God and not your own self.

  • @domsab3143
    @domsab3143 Год назад

    I thought it was the same everywhere - voluntary

  • @GreatPlanet-c7o
    @GreatPlanet-c7o Год назад

    I played in church half my life. Mostly unpaid. Glad to have learned in those circles, but have had better treatment in bars. You can't spend your life playing with bad players doing cover songs that are cheesy. The Lord is Heaven a) is not 3 people b) doesn't want you to waste your talent c) Praise" genres aren't drawing you closer to God

  • @lW9497
    @lW9497 Год назад +3

    I'd love to see 90% of church musicians quit. The western church worships music, not God and its all entertainment. Go bact to the house church format with non professionals. Yes, have singing, but maybe just one guitar, not just sing acapella like Jesus at the last supper.

  • @fivepiecekit_
    @fivepiecekit_ Год назад

    First thing is first - Jesus never said "Go build buildings that cost millions of dollars and that requires a continuing flow of cash to function and maintain, then solely focus on growing that congregation "in my name" until you have to build bigger, rinse repeat until you've bought out a stadium." But... since that's the game that everyone decided to play, here we are.
    The lead pastor doesn't get paid in Jesus bucks. The associate pastor doesn't get paid in Jesus bucks. The worship leader and administrative staff don't get paid in Jesus bucks. The guy who gets hired to fix the air conditioner when it breaks down does not get paid in Jesus bucks. So, outside of a very small, brand new church that has no choice but to rely on volunteerism, there is no excuse not to provide payment for the amount of work that it takes to keep and maintain a "church".
    I'm not saying that it's every single church, but I can tell you that religion is weaponized in a way to make you feel like "I shouldn't ask or expect payment, because it's for Jesus." I can speak from experience, volunteering for several churches over the years... they do not care about you, the person. They care about what you can bring to the table to help them grow. Why do you think so many churches have some sort of slogan, like "Give God your time, talent and treasure!" It's like an MLM - you keep bringing people to the church so they can have a bigger and bigger talent pool of volunteers to pull from, so when people wise up and leave or get burned out, some other poor soul that's been indoctrinated can fill the gap.
    I have found that typically, if you're the only person who can do [whatever thing is] then you are very valuable, and you can generally request monetization and you will get it. But, as soon as there is at least one more person, and especially if there are several, then your value plummets. You can leave and never come back without saying a word and you might get one to three calls or texts from people initially, then it's crickets. Like you were never even there.
    I no longer buy into that lie. It's corruption in my opinion. You can't be spending hundreds of thousands of dollars on making a concert-level sanctuary, then get your panties in a knot when someone wants to be paid for their time and talent.

  • @markjohnson9485
    @markjohnson9485 Год назад

    As a musician who grew up in church and played in church, I stopped playing because I wanted to be free of "Churchy" people and everything that goes with them...

  • @EDDIER73
    @EDDIER73 Год назад

    Hmmm. I hear words like corporate, money in this video. Isn't everything we do supposed to be for the glory of God? In recognition of what He has done for us and not what we do?

  • @7392318
    @7392318 5 месяцев назад

    Practically every clergy I have worked with think they are better than the musician. Musicians are called just like ministers. Musicians aren’t better than clergy and clergy aren’t better than musicians. Change thinking to reflect this perspective and the environment will change dramatically.

  • @ilasid
    @ilasid Год назад +3

    A church musician must be also be christian, must be people who give his heart to Jesus convert christian, not just come to church play your music get pay and go home.😮

  • @unclejj9600
    @unclejj9600 3 месяца назад

    If its ur only job at $500 a week . play for funeral homes j weddings, give lessons or also work another paid position at the church to bump up ur pay and in any job out something up

  • @stuartbowlerwell2845
    @stuartbowlerwell2845 Год назад +2

    Wow. Zero references to Scripture to guide our thoughts here. This was all worldy wisdom, treating our call to lead the people of God in sung worship as just a job.
    To all seeking man's appreciation, I'm sure you'll find it and be rewarded here on earth for it, but rest assured no further reward awaits (Matt 6:v5).

    • @TerenceFisher1
      @TerenceFisher1  Год назад +4

      Yeah, it's this line of thinking that's the problem. Overly religious people think that EVERYTHING has to have some scriptural reference. We don't need a scripture to understand that appreciating and treating others fairly is important.
      And it's always funny that the people who receive the abuse are told they are somehow wrong for speaking out about it.
      How about you ask those churches and preachers and such who take musicians for granted, treat them badly, and don't appreciate them what scriptures they are using for reference to treat musicians that way...

    • @cwesifree
      @cwesifree Год назад

      @@TerenceFisher1thank you sir

  • @marcusroute935
    @marcusroute935 9 месяцев назад

  • @BruceRReid
    @BruceRReid Год назад +1

    Biblically speaking theirs no such thing as a minister of music the five fold ministry consists of Apostles, prophets,evangelists, pastors, and teachers. Their are worship leaders and musicians which are essential in ushering in the presence of the holy spirit that is their function. Unfortunately within the church today theirs a big confusion between worship and praise. Theirs a big difference between the two. Should we be paid to play music remember this if you take money to do this, you already have your reward. The worker is worthy of wages this is a Biblical principal I've heard of music leaders in mega churches commanding 60g a year each must decide within themselves the motive for why you do it. Remember what Jesus said the least among you is the greatest in heaven. If your playing unto the Lord of heaven and earth and you understand that your sincere act of worship is as incense to the throne room then you won't need people's approval. I've been drumming for 42 years and played on a few worship teams over the years. For me personally I can't charge a church to give back to God the gift which he has given me to bring glory to his name that name is Jesus!

  • @willistaylor4077
    @willistaylor4077 Год назад

    I'd never want to go to a large "corporate" Hillsong type Charismatic church evef again, in my life.😢

  • @blainetrahan8883
    @blainetrahan8883 Год назад

    I’m sorry but this doesn’t work. I’ve been playing in churches for free for 40 plus years. I’ve never been paid a dime and no one ever appreciated me. It’s worse now. I go to a mobile church and set up tear down every Sunday. I was even asked to tear down the drums when I didn’t even play drums that day. I was even told that they pay pros but that’s crazy that they don’t pay the faithful. I’m very discouraged.

  • @themiaestro100
    @themiaestro100 11 месяцев назад +1

    I think musicians today are misguided arrogant and selfish. You cant go on the secular scene whining and crying like you do in the church. Worship is just that and those serving should be believers not hirlings. Some of the worse disrespect ever encountered is from musicians who are only about showmanship and not musicianship. Let’s talk about presentation of attire, hats jeans, sweat suits etc… I blame the preachers who allow worldly musicians to bring the world’s ways into the church. We need anointed minstrels and hirelings. Stop tripping and ooh yeah I’m an organist of 30+ years and I also worked a secular job. Stop trying to live off the backs of the people who support the church. We all can complain. If you don’t like where you work find another Gig cause it ain’t worship you doing. Miaestro Jak out

  • @Runner19577
    @Runner19577 Год назад

    Sorry but the only appreciation I need is the ALMIGHTY ONE.
    Sounds like the church is not putting the kindness,humbleness,love of the lord before anything else.

  • @D_Space2024
    @D_Space2024 Год назад

    Maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaan!😮‍💨

  • @BrianHoffpauer
    @BrianHoffpauer 9 месяцев назад

    Wait... some of you folks are getting paid to play at church???

  • @vinnysilveira4685
    @vinnysilveira4685 Год назад

    are you guys making money playing at church?

  • @BenIsFiguringitOut
    @BenIsFiguringitOut Год назад

    💯

  • @gaboonschoolofmusic9848
    @gaboonschoolofmusic9848 9 месяцев назад

    i am so glad i don't play in church ..i cannot deal with the politics in churches........worst part is the fakeness i see ...i am real so i will hold back for anyone

  • @4-11Sound
    @4-11Sound Год назад

    Lets look at it from a different standpoint...as a freelance sound engineer...I find the ones that are "quitting" (not all) aren't half as talented as they think they are. They might feel underappreciated or underpaid...but can I get a little or even a lot more talent/skill with that attitude...The bigger the church the bigger the diva in these type musicians. Guitarist/bass/ & keys have literally zero understanding of how to gainstage their own rig. Guitarist who can't play in tune, or a pedal board that's beyond noisy....or better yet..."do you have an 1/4" cable?" and they want to be more appreciated or better paid...Hard Pass!!! I get it if you are a "professional musician", but come preprared and act like a real professional. Most of these types (not all)who are quitting don't exhibit any trait of professionalism. Sorry but this cuts both ways. And yes the irony isn't lost on me being a sound guy...my profession has a crap ton of problem people too.

  • @TheSilverGlow
    @TheSilverGlow Год назад +4

    The ONLY reason to be a musician in church is to PRAISE GOD! To whine about not being appreciated is to put SELF FIRST, and its VANITY. This is not to say its ok not to appreciate musicians...they should be, but if their motivation is SELF, then the problem is THEM!

    • @markjohnson9485
      @markjohnson9485 Год назад +2

      That's like saying, "I am a father who works hard and takes care of my family. And that's all that I'm concerned with. it. Doesn't matter if my family appreciates me for what I do." Sometimes, you people get too "churchy" with these answers, live in the real world.

  • @gtrhero100
    @gtrhero100 Год назад +1

    I didn't know you was supposed to get paid for using your God given talents to worship the LORD.

    • @Chilla81
      @Chilla81 8 месяцев назад

      Let’s say you’re gifted to bake cakes, if someone ask you to bake a cake are you willing to spend your money on items for it? spend your time to make the perfect cake and then give it to them because that’s your God given talent on a weekly basis? See It’s not about getting paid for the talent but it is about getting payed for the “time” I took out to practice songs, practicing on my own time with the praise team, choir, and youth choir, money spent to buy equipment with my hard earned money to enhance my God given abilities and that I use at some churches that can’t afford to buy quality equiment or can but just won’t. Theres a bigger picture than a musician just getting payed because he/she has a God given talent. Glad I don’t do that anymore, because you’re expected to do it for free, okay then I’ll play free at home, and get payed elsewhere.