FYI, complimenting her little changes doesnt buy you brownie points because you noticed how she expresses herself. She literally thinks you called her pretty without directly saying so. Why? Because women make changes to "look prettier" or improve their appearance. Noticing these improvements is validation of 3 things: 1. That you believe she's more attractive since you noticed her attempt to appear more attractive. Women tend to conflate these two concepts and thus view the noticing as a compliment. 2. That her change was worthwhile which buys you brownie points because your response allows her to observe an increase in her relative value, aka personal overall value relative to the competition. 3. That since her change was validated as worthwhile, her actions and approach as a competent women is also validated, meaning her personal evaluation of her own status becomes solidified. This is highly important because females are more oriented toward negative emotions like existetial anxiety and having a solidified status soothes this mental emotional-burden and makes a woman feel secure. A man that provides security is highly attractive a woman.
I TOLD A YOUNG LADY, VERY GENTL,Y, A COMPLIMENT, AND SHE BECAME, VERY OFFENSIVE, AT ALL THE SUDDEN JUST A FEW DAYS LATER, SHE WENT OUT, WITH ANOTHER GUY, MAND SHE HAD GREEN & BROWN SPOTS, ON HER FACE! ! SO I ASKED FROM HER. WILL YOU = N O W ACCEPT MY COMPLIMENT. . . ? AND ON PURPOSELY, I PAUSED. THAN I CINTINUED. ISTED OF GIVING YOU DIFFERENT KIND OF MEDDALS??! ( SOME WOMEN, SIMPLY CAN'T ? DON'T ACCEPT COMPLIMENTS, JUST WHEN IT'S TOO LATE?!!! ( SO? WHAT SHOULD I DO, IN SUCH OCCASION???!! )
MY POINT EXACTLY?!! I'M PAYING HER COMPLIMENTS. AND SHE ( THEY, ACTUALY TAKE IT FORGRANTED? ) SEVERAL TIMES, I WAS ASKED? AREN'T YO UGONNA COMPLIMENT MY, KNITTING . . . . . ? ? ?
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FYI, complimenting her little changes doesnt buy you brownie points because you noticed how she expresses herself. She literally thinks you called her pretty without directly saying so.
Why?
Because women make changes to "look prettier" or improve their appearance.
Noticing these improvements is validation of 3 things:
1. That you believe she's more attractive since you noticed her attempt to appear more attractive. Women tend to conflate these two concepts and thus view the noticing as a compliment.
2. That her change was worthwhile which buys you brownie points because your response allows her to observe an increase in her relative value, aka personal overall value relative to the competition.
3. That since her change was validated as worthwhile, her actions and approach as a competent women is also validated, meaning her personal evaluation of her own status becomes solidified. This is highly important because females are more oriented toward negative emotions like existetial anxiety and having a solidified status soothes this mental emotional-burden and makes a woman feel secure. A man that provides security is highly attractive a woman.
OH GET ON WITH IT .....
Forbidden by whom?
Why is it “forbidden”? 🤔
BETTER YET?? WHY AREN'T THEM GIRLS / WOMEN, COMPLIMENT US GUYS, WHEN WE DO DESERVE TO BE???!!
COMPLIMENTING IS A 2 WAY STREET TOO!!
Seeing some female statues would be nice 🥴
I TOLD A YOUNG LADY, VERY GENTL,Y, A COMPLIMENT, AND SHE BECAME, VERY OFFENSIVE, AT ALL THE SUDDEN JUST A FEW DAYS LATER, SHE WENT OUT, WITH ANOTHER GUY, MAND SHE HAD GREEN & BROWN SPOTS, ON HER FACE! ! SO I ASKED FROM HER. WILL YOU = N O W ACCEPT MY COMPLIMENT. . . ? AND ON PURPOSELY, I PAUSED. THAN I CINTINUED. ISTED OF GIVING YOU DIFFERENT KIND OF MEDDALS??! ( SOME WOMEN, SIMPLY CAN'T ? DON'T ACCEPT COMPLIMENTS, JUST WHEN IT'S TOO LATE?!!! ( SO? WHAT SHOULD I DO, IN SUCH OCCASION???!! )
This is so boring and repetative, no matter how many compliments you eventually come out with, she will be asleep by then.
MY POINT EXACTLY?!! I'M PAYING HER COMPLIMENTS. AND SHE ( THEY, ACTUALY TAKE IT FORGRANTED? )
SEVERAL TIMES, I WAS ASKED? AREN'T YO UGONNA COMPLIMENT MY, KNITTING . . . . . ? ? ?
Nothing of substance. Fake, click bait. Nothing but empty words
Goin deep.......hahahah...yikes