Tammee did this and I guarantee that trauma started when Naomi was little. She felt rejected since she was a child. The woman didn't even let them call her mother.
That mama pissed me off. I don't know why we have so many mothers in our community who can't love their daughters, but I truly hope newer generations of mothers do better.
There are thousands of reasons why mothers don't love their daughters the way that they should. It doesn't mean that they don't love us, just they don't love us the way that they should
@@jadynnewsome390She had her as a teen and we don’t know the circumstances behind her conception. It amazes me how people are always quick to judge a lifetime based on info we hear in a short segment of a talk show. How do we know that Naomi’s poor life choices haven’t also created friction between her and her mother and other family members?
The mom has been rejecting her daughter since she was a little girl I can tell she doesn’t like being told the truth and really doesn’t like her own daughter and that is why her daughter is jealous of the relationship between her aunt and her mom! you guys keep saying that the mom isn’t a babysitter and are missing the important fact that what hurts her the most is that she is even rejecting her grandchildren! spending quality time and building a bond with your grandchildren isn’t babysitting! So the problem at hand is that no matter what the daughter does the mom will never give her the love she deserves and with that she just needs to separate herself from her toxic mom and love her from a distance.
@@honeyblunt4201 I agree she does come off ungrateful and bitter. Instead of her using the pain to break generational chains, she has chose to harbor hate and resentment. Sadly she is choosing the more easier route and she will continue to hurt herself, her kids until she chooses to want better by loving herself and walking away.
Unfortunately, she needs to start accepting the fact that for now her mom is not someone she needs in her life. If the aunt wants to be there for her, let her.
@@live4life24-7 but what a mum ! wtf sometimes is better to let it GO, the first red flag WHY CALLING HER TAMMY instead of MUM ? She must’ve been horrible cause I feel nothing but meanness from the mum.
As soon as the breakthrough was going on with the neice and aunt, the mom runs out like she didnt want them to get along and comes out going off on the daughter. I feel for the daughter.
The way Tammy chose to walk back on stage the exact moment it seemed like the daughter and the aunt were about to have some type of breakthrough was very telling....
As soon as the mom noticed that Karamo was making a breakthrough with the daughter & aunt- the mother tried to walk back out to cause division. She doesn’t want them close. She wants her daughter to feel isolated. She’s punishing her for some reason. Rejection from your parents is the worst. I’m praying for you, my girl. ❤
Wow the momma saying I don't watch kids ... that's cold. Now I get that Naomi is dramatic and jealous but she's hurt and wants a relationship with her momma. She needs her momma. And she needs her aunt. I hope they heal.
@@saffronlealle464 no one is obligated to be anyone's childcare provider. Yall need to start having kids by men that wants to be a father instead of thinking yall could pawn your kids off onto your mom
@@urdestinydaughterofyah9739 Thank God, a lot of us had grandparents who helped. All races help their grandkids but what's going on with so many black ppl with this "nobody has to watch ur kids". It's true, they don't but most love their grandkids and want to spend time with them. Most watch while the parents work. If she was homeless, why wouldn't mom not want to help? Also, I wouldn't want Tammy watching my kids. Telling the 3 year old she doesn't like her? Smh
@@emanueldavis1627yall are right but it’s just the way she says it. My brother has a 3 yr old , anytime he ask my mom can she babysit for a few hours , it’s all open arms , so yea in a way saying you don’t want to babysit you’re grandchild is kinda crazy , you don’t want a bond with you’re grandchild?
If u notice, it seemed that Karamo was having a breakthrough with the neice and daughter and to ME,that's when the mom came out raising all kind of hell getting on the daughter. Imagine how the daughter feels. U want the love of ur mother and she gives that love to a sister she just met. This been going on for 15 years. I empathize with the daughter. If ur mother doesn't love u or show u love, it will affect ur life.
The daughter wants something from the mom that she doesn't want to give. She's so hurt and the little girl in her is crying out. She has to choose to heal and live. No matter how hard it is.
Yes but at least she has this concrete evidence that is Reality and at the end of the day you have to accept reality. Hopefully she can accept her aunt in some capacity…
@@MyaVatMii Childhood trauma that is not dealt with through therapy can be brought into adulthood and cause major issues. So, you cannot speak to this woman’s issues. This show has revealed that many children were damaged by their own mothers.
Mom left the stage and said she wasn't coming back out. They are hopefully coming back for the maternity test and he can talk to them more... hopefully. The daughter feels neglected. Everyone SHOULD understand how she is feeling. U think a child growing up feeling not loved will just shake it off because they are adults? She needs prayer and God to heal her heart. Mom caused all of this.
My heart really goes out to the daughter and the sister the daughter just wants a better relationship and love from mom and sister wants to be accepted from everybody in the family and not just her big sister when the mom came out again when karamo was breaking down the wall between the auntie and the daughter the mom come out and try to messed up everything
The daughter is in pain and it’s affecting her attitude. Bad attitudes push people away. I wish her mother was more loving and understanding of her daughters needs.
I really hope and pray for the healing of Naomi I just know her heart is golden under all of the scar tissue and tar from her past traumas, you will make it through this my love, you and your six kids I speak it into existence!
yes the aunt was the only one there for the right reason cause the daughter and the mother both annoying won't receive anything and it was frustrating to watch
@@kaitlyncarey3269 maybe so, it’s just kinda cringe to shout HARD Around someone in demise even if you not wrong to celebrate. But honestly it’s the daughter that need to stop the jealousy bc it’s not the sister fault. So sister not wrong imo
That's her mother's fault. Idk what it's like to not receive a mother's love or be treated by my mom in that way, but it's obviously something that's detrimental to a child. For your mom to treat someone the way you deserved to be treated and still want to, and your mom is using that to play in your face, it's wild
Exactly! Still crying bc her mother has failed her. Well, build a relationship with ur aunt and if ur mom comes around, good. If not, then what's new??
You must be clueless how childhood trauma works. How a person is raised usually dictates how they navigate through life. Poor parenting can lead to mental health issues, self medicating, abandonment issues, generational curses, amongst other things. Seems like you’ve been lucky enough to have loving parents, but not all of us are.
@James-wd1ho shut tf up! We all suffer from childhood trauma!! None of our parents did a great job raising us. Counseling has always helped and will forever be the best thing anyone can do. Stop making excuses and take care of yourself and the family you create! You can't change the family you were born into , but she can damn sure stay to herself and focus on her kids and not harming them the way her mother hurt her. Bottom line
@@Bhannahable This is a wild thing to say. I have never felt like I wasn't wanted by my parents. That would be tough on any child growing up, and it is detrimental to childhood development and can affect you for the rest of your life.
@@777JESUSISLORD71 "Someone else's kids" their her grand(kids) no one said she's responsible for her children but she can help out sometimes especially for her daughter's mental health to have a little time for herself, not all the time and she should want to be around her grandkids anyway. 🤔
@@jazzyjennshighway my mom has never participated in her grandkids life,but I knew it was something I had to hand over to JESUS,and love her holding no wrongs against her, because GOD holds none against me through my asking for his forgiveness for my own sin. When people can't extend love,it's a deep rooted reason why,this is why our love source is suppose to come from our heavenly father. There's no one who can love you in the way you need to be love without first having a spiritual understanding of what love is. GOD is love,and those who love not,knows not GOD...We got to REPENT,and mature in the way that GOD desires,and stop looking for someone to love who us ,and our kids who just can't. GOD is the father to the fatherless,he will never leave us or forsake us, before he formed us in the womb of our mother,he knew us. He knows the thoughts he thinks towards us,and it's good,not evil,to prosper us,to give us a hope and a future. The first thing we should be doing is making sure we are loving our children in the way they need to be loved,and that love comes from GOD,and learning about his character. When we have children,our main goal should be teaching them about the love that comes from JESUS CHRIST. A love that causes you to love your enemies,to bless those who curse you,and to pray for those who spitefully use you,but at the same time guarding your heart with all diligence,for out of it,flows the issues of life. We can set healthy Boundaries,and love people in the way that GOD tells us, even if that love is not extended. When we hold high expectations of others to give us something that they just can not,we will be forever miserable,when our true love source,true JOY,true peace,only comes from the heavenly father,and his son JESUS CHRIST. When we learn about that love,were aren't looking for someone to fix our broken heart, because trust me. There's is broken to,and without JESUS,they can not love you fully
Wow that daughter is so hurt, and has such a big child trauma wound. I really hope she heals and can maybe get love from her aunt, because her mum seems like the problem.
I have a feeling Naomi is like my daughter. My daughter made bad choices over and over again and I've done a lot to help her while she has turned down offers by the state to get on her feet. 4 kids later by 3 different fathers, I'm still trying to help. Raised my grandson for 3 years while she was supposedly getting on her feet. And still, sometimes she goes on a tangent and gets it into her mind that I haven't helped at all. My, how short her memory is. I refuse to do everything for her and at some point, she has to take accountability for the choices she made.
No wrong Tamie did not raise any of her kids and if you listen carefully she left her homeless the young lady had to figure it out on her own and Tamie is mad disrespectful did you see how she got kicked off the stage?
I have a feeling you weren't paying attention to this family at all, smh. You so tunnel vision focused on your daughter, you missed the part when she said her mom didn't even answer to her calling her mom/mommy... & girls who grow up to be women starting new family trees again and again COME FROM a dysfunctional family tree. Pray & heal, stop tryna throw your daughter under the bus 🙄
If your daughter is ungrateful u may let her figure out things but plz those 4 kids take them under your wings, don't let the system manage them. They need a mom and if u r the only one to raise them do so God will bless u.
@@NayyAmowheeew I was gonna say this . She learned the behavior from someone . And why was it RUclips’s business that she has 3 baby daddies ? Idk these new age mothers real strange
The mom likely never reconciled the fact that she is a mother .15 years old is a very young age to have a child & who knows what the details concerning how she had Naomi . It’s easier to be a sister which why is was so easy for her to take in the relationship she has with her sister than taking in a relationship with her children because of whatever feeling she has towards being a mother . And a lot of y’all are saying that Naomi is being dramatic, but she’s actually responding as a child would because of her inner child pretty much responding. The age in which she was traumatized and hurt is the same person talking right now. She’s likely felt defeated since she was a child.
When I found my little sister, she was 14 years old, I wanted to show her the love she missed out on through out the years, I wanted her to bond with my family and grow up with my kids, my 22yrs old daughter was pure evil, was mean and ugly towards my sister, they eventually became like bff's but that first year was pure hell. and I raised all my kids. so I can see how a grow up daughter could feel a way - especially after the results were given, because my daughter hollered at me one day, "she not even your child.."! In my case - my daughter was spoiled and felt she would have to share me with another girl. lol
@@kitrinka37 i get it tho. I have an older sister by 11yrs and she used to spoil the ish outta me til my early twenties. Then i had my daughter n shes like a second mom to her n spoils her rotten . N i sometimes feel jealous but then remember that my daughter deserves all of it and more
This woman with the purple hair almost died when she found out that this woman was related to them. She was praying for her not to be her aunt. She directs her anger towards her aunt but is really jealous and angry at the relationship her aunt has with her mom. When she had never had a relationship with her mom. And why the fuck do you have 6 kids but complain about not getting support from mom and family. WHERE ARE THEIR FATHERS? Your mother is not obligated to watch your children and if you leave and not come back on time that will make people not want to watch your kids. Im not saying the mother is 100% right but this woman also needs to do some self reflecting
Karamo can be so one sided a lot. Has people on the show and never lets half the guests speak. Naomi should have been sent off stage so we can hear her side. Can't stand when one guests gets to speak, then when the other comes out....Karamo lets the other speak over and interrupt. Naomi is just that selfish person who needs the world to revolve around her.....there are just people like that
The daughter need to take heed of what karamo said…. She need to stop being jealous… that trait is dangerous. It’s the mom she need to recognize is actually toxic… you can read that vibe a mile away.
I was thinking it was because Tammee didn't want her sister to like her daughter, when they finally had that breakthrough on stage and learned that the daughter was just misdirecting her anger, she stormed out to try to stop it immediately.
I hope the niece & aunt can maintain a good relationship. Naomi & her mom need counseling, all that crying ain’t gone change nothing. She has 6 kids & needs to get her head together for them if nothing else.
The mom is hella toxic and that’s so hard to see the daughter doesn’t even know how to accept the love she’s asking for because of her mom that’s ridiculous. And I do see the mom getting pleasure out of it which is sickening. There is no reason you would feel comfortable with your daughter calling you by your first name expecting them to have a connection with you since young that’s weird af.
Same! Homeless on and off from 17 30 Mom even said, "Go back to the box you crawled out of", but whenever I pulled 70-80 hour work weeks, she had her hand out. Finally found stability and she still shitted on me for having the same goals for years that I haven't accomplished: graduating from college(2 semesters left),obtaining my CDL class A license( I have a CDL C)and getting some type of medical certification (CNA, Pharmacy Technician)(fall back plan after graduation by might aim for LPN/RN) . That was because of homelessness 🤷🏽♀️ Now the bills delay my goals 😅 I just don't understand the negative energy after 20 years 🤷🏽♀️
Whew Chile I’m so grateful for the mom I had… I don’t know how it feels to be beefing with my momma and I’m so thankful for that. I feel for people who have to go through this.
Your mother is the kid's GRANDMA! What kind of grandmother would not want to watch the kids when mom is in danger of being homeless?? But what can we expect from a mother who doesn't even let her kids call her mom
@@thekalenichannel1812 All this and she still decided to have 6 children! I doubt they have the same father. why didn't she factor in the fact that she's not financially secure, husbandless, and had no support when she brought 6 kids into this world, sounds evil to me. She is a terrible mother just like the one she has.
I feel like everyone is being to hard on the daughter .😅 I don’t understand what’s it’s like not have a caring mother but I do understand not have a parent that have never been there for you and not taking your feelings in consideration. It seems like the mother never had love or showed love for her daughter in a way the daughter could recognize it. She probably could never go to her mom and talk about the things happening in her life and what she was going through.( to the point that she can’t even call her mom) And throughout all these years of her mother not showing love that she needed to meet as a mother she grew to hate her to a certain extent. At the end when she asks for a dna test and everyone was laughing it really hurt me to see that because she was so for real. She doesn’t even want to be related to that women that just goes to show had bad she treated her growing up. And the sister has no right to say that she doesn’t believe the daughter just because of what the mother told her. She should of sat down and have a deep talk with her to know the in and out of her relationship with her mother to truly understand what wrong with their relationship.
Basically the daughter had kids by a bum and wants to pawn her kids off on her mom and feels like the aunt is the reason mom don't want to be a free babysitter
I agree! I have a child that behaves the same way. He created a life of chaos and tries to make the world feel sorry for him because I won't engage....
@@kaitlyncarey3269 All this and she still decided to have 6 children! I doubt they have the same father. why didn't she factor in the fact that she's not financially secure, husbandless, and had no support when she brought 6 kids into this world, sounds evil and heartless to me. She is a terrible mother just like the one she has. She needs to cry about that and worry about giving her kids the quality life they deserve.
KARAMO YOU ALREADY KNOW HOW MUCH I LOVE YOU, BUT I AM SO HAPPY THAT THAT MOTHER REJECTED HER. I KNOW YOU AND I ARE NOT GOING TO SEE EYE TO EYE ON THIS ONE BUT THAT'S OKAY. I SEE WAY TOO MANY MOTHERS WHO KEEP STEPPING UP TO THE PLATE AND IT'S NEVER APPRECIATED. THE SAME WAY THESE FEMALES CAN HONOR, RESPECT AND FIGHT TO HOLD ON TO THESE TOXIC NO GOOD DUSTIES, THAT'S THE SAME THING THEY SHOULD DO FOR THEIR MOTHERS. FIGHT AND PRAY FOR THEM!!!
I wish i could connect with this young lady because I have been where she is and there is a new way you can go forward!! you forgive not for them but for you and you talk and take care of that little girl inside you! tell her shes safe now
The sisters are TWINS!!! & the daughter is childish, and immature, the fake tears are just ridiculous 😂 she wants a free babysitter, and I hope she can eventually connect with her auntie and form a MATURE healthy ADULT releationship with / without her mother
I Thank God for my mom everyday she did not start off as an amazing mother but today she is an GOD FEARING WOMAN AWESOME MOM GRANDMOTHER AND FRIEND! Wouldn’t trade her for the world literally. I’m hoping that they can renew their relationship I’m so sorry that your mom is not who you want her to be God has you and he will wipe your tears and fill you with Joy! Sometimes you have to love people from a distance.
Tammee did this and I guarantee that trauma started when Naomi was little. She felt rejected since she was a child. The woman didn't even let them call her mother.
@@oddchocolate964 yes frfr
Agreed but I also think that the Aunt will help fill the void because the Mom seems to need healing too
Yes you can hear that when shes speaking.
Bro Naomi is lying she’s my sister it’s an act this is embarrassing
Yes, Horrible
I really hope she starts to let her aunt in, because I feel like their relationship could be magnificent
100
@@PinkDracoAntics I don’t think she’ll be able to allow her aunt in.
Fr. Her Auntie is a loving soul.
I agree Pink Draco Antics
Yeh the aunt definitely seemed to actually gaf more than her mom
That mama pissed me off. I don't know why we have so many mothers in our community who can't love their daughters, but I truly hope newer generations of mothers do better.
Right! Like what's the problem?
Jealousy . Repeated cycles that have not been corrected . Tammie may have experienced the same with her own mother .
Because they refuse to love themselves
There are thousands of reasons why mothers don't love their daughters the way that they should. It doesn't mean that they don't love us, just they don't love us the way that they should
@@ambzcloud I’m sick of it tbh ☹️😢
It’s an honor to be called mom. The fact that the kids call her Tammie is ridiculous!
The fact that she makes them call her Tammy is ridiculous
@@live4life24-7 yup. A former friend refers to her mother as Ms. Lynn. She stopped calling her “mom” after years of abu$e.
@@jadynnewsome390She had her as a teen and we don’t know the circumstances behind her conception. It amazes me how people are always quick to judge a lifetime based on info we hear in a short segment of a talk show. How do we know that Naomi’s poor life choices haven’t also created friction between her and her mother and other family members?
It’s really sad and heartless
@@live4life24-7 The fact they call their mother Tammy says far more about her than it does them!
The mom has been rejecting her daughter since she was a little girl I can tell she doesn’t like being told the truth and really doesn’t like her own daughter and that is why her daughter is jealous of the relationship between her aunt and her mom! you guys keep saying that the mom isn’t a babysitter and are missing the important fact that what hurts her the most is that she is even rejecting her grandchildren! spending quality time and building a bond with your grandchildren isn’t babysitting! So the problem at hand is that no matter what the daughter does the mom will never give her the love she deserves and with that she just needs to separate herself from her toxic mom and love her from a distance.
@@giselleromero9350 preach!
Exactly
The daughter seems ungrateful to me.
@@honeyblunt4201 I agree she does come off ungrateful and bitter. Instead of her using the pain to break generational chains, she has chose to harbor hate and resentment. Sadly she is choosing the more easier route and she will continue to hurt herself, her kids until she chooses to want better by loving herself and walking away.
Omg this my sister she’s lying she was never treated wrong smh
She don’t want her aunt, she wants her momma!
Right
Unfortunately, she needs to start accepting the fact that for now her mom is not someone she needs in her life. If the aunt wants to be there for her, let her.
@@live4life24-7 but what a mum ! wtf sometimes is better to let it GO, the first red flag WHY CALLING HER TAMMY instead of MUM ? She must’ve been horrible cause I feel nothing but meanness from the mum.
@@NakyaMamiThts just like call my sperm donor a dad…….if u don’t understand. Don’t even try or don’t even say anything.
@@live4life24-7 right and the aunt wants Tammy.
The daughter wants the relationship with her mom that the aunt has, but you can't force love
@@Mrscarricom That woman is not capable of true love.
@@nonamenoidea9792 doesn't have to be true for someone desperate. That girl will always be looking for her mother's love from other people
Exactly.....healing only comes thru acceptance
As soon as the breakthrough was going on with the neice and aunt, the mom runs out like she didnt want them to get along and comes out going off on the daughter. I feel for the daughter.
@@tonitwitty9529 I totally agree , I was wondering if anyone else peeped that. That’s the reason she came and sat in between them
That's what you call a jezebel spirit.
Oh i peeped
Oh Yes, I get the same impression
The way Tammy chose to walk back on stage the exact moment it seemed like the daughter and the aunt were about to have some type of breakthrough was very telling....
As soon as the mom noticed that Karamo was making a breakthrough with the daughter & aunt- the mother tried to walk back out to cause division. She doesn’t want them close. She wants her daughter to feel isolated. She’s punishing her for some reason. Rejection from your parents is the worst. I’m praying for you, my girl. ❤
Wow the momma saying I don't watch kids ... that's cold. Now I get that Naomi is dramatic and jealous but she's hurt and wants a relationship with her momma. She needs her momma. And she needs her aunt. I hope they heal.
@@saffronlealle464 no one is obligated to be anyone's childcare provider. Yall need to start having kids by men that wants to be a father instead of thinking yall could pawn your kids off onto your mom
Not really. The mother is not obligated to raise her kids or watch her kids. She’s only obligated to have raised her own children.
Grandmas don't grandma anymore 🤷🏾♀️
@@urdestinydaughterofyah9739 Thank God, a lot of us had grandparents who helped. All races help their grandkids but what's going on with so many black ppl with this "nobody has to watch ur kids". It's true, they don't but most love their grandkids and want to spend time with them. Most watch while the parents work. If she was homeless, why wouldn't mom not want to help? Also, I wouldn't want Tammy watching my kids. Telling the 3 year old she doesn't like her? Smh
@@emanueldavis1627yall are right but it’s just the way she says it. My brother has a 3 yr old , anytime he ask my mom can she babysit for a few hours , it’s all open arms , so yea in a way saying you don’t want to babysit you’re grandchild is kinda crazy , you don’t want a bond with you’re grandchild?
Aww, she's feeling so rejected. Her pain...
And mom is only 15 years older than her child. Wow! This is so deep because there is so much broken pain.
Yeah gives new meaning to the saying Hurt people hurt people
Yeah gives new meaning to the saying Hurt people hurt people
that beautiful dark skin is just 🤌✨
@@marathonbleu Yes
@@marathonbleu @ YESSS THEY ARE BEAUTIFUL BEAUTIFUL BLACK QUEENS. 👸🏾👑✨❤️🇨🇦
💯👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Yes, just gorgeous!
@@marathonbleu yes w the purple is sickening!!
It’s kinda seems like the mother might be planting the seed of jealousy in her daughter.
Look at how she went against her daughter for her sister. I agree with you
If u notice, it seemed that Karamo was having a breakthrough with the neice and daughter and to ME,that's when the mom came out raising all kind of hell getting on the daughter. Imagine how the daughter feels. U want the love of ur mother and she gives that love to a sister she just met. This been going on for 15 years. I empathize with the daughter. If ur mother doesn't love u or show u love, it will affect ur life.
@@tonitwitty9529 Yes! That’s what made me put it all together. Smh unfortunately it doesn’t seem like she likes her daughter very much.
I agree...it's like she gets some kind of gratification out of denying love to her daughter 💔
Yes!
Your momma doing that on purpose. Make amends with the auntie she love the kids. Tammie don’t like you and love to make you jealous. Sad but true
That "she's finna take her" broke me cause i know how that feels fr
The daughter wants something from the mom that she doesn't want to give. She's so hurt and the little girl in her is crying out. She has to choose to heal and live. No matter how hard it is.
Perfectly Said!!!
The mother don't want them to be friends
I’m glad these videos have been going longer than 13-14 mins these last few been hittin
This is so much emotion...and it's still not fixed
Yes but at least she has this concrete evidence that is Reality and at the end of the day you have to accept reality. Hopefully she can accept her aunt in some capacity…
sure not
yeah they need to come back on
Her Mama is Something!! And the daughter is feeling like a lost child from neglect!!
Naomi is absolutely beautiful, its sad she was born from a monster.
I swear I understand the daughter and she needs to hear those words from her mom.
Her mom probably hates her dad and she just rejected her
@@jay13x81 That's what I was thinking too.
I'm thinking it's because she had a child so young, still a baby herself smh
I feel like Karamo made this show all about the sister...that girl is hurting because she wants her mother...
@@MyaVatMii Childhood trauma that is not dealt with through therapy can be brought into adulthood and cause major issues. So, you cannot speak to this woman’s issues. This show has revealed that many children were damaged by their own mothers.
That doesn’t justify her misplaced anger.
@@hazelboyce7230still a choice. As someone who CHOSE to deal with my trauma
Mom left the stage and said she wasn't coming back out. They are hopefully coming back for the maternity test and he can talk to them more... hopefully. The daughter feels neglected. Everyone SHOULD understand how she is feeling. U think a child growing up feeling not loved will just shake it off because they are adults? She needs prayer and God to heal her heart. Mom caused all of this.
@@tonitwitty9529100% and hurt doesn’t come from nowhere. Unfortunately this was just a messy episode ..
I can feel Naomi’s pain omg. She just wants a mother-daughter relationship & I have a feeling tammie was never a mother to her.
I believe the aunt has pure intentions and wants to build a relationship. "Start where we at". I felt that!!
My heart really goes out to the daughter and the sister the daughter just wants a better relationship and love from mom and sister wants to be accepted from everybody in the family and not just her big sister when the mom came out again when karamo was breaking down the wall between the auntie and the daughter the mom come out and try to messed up everything
I love this show!! Karamo always gets to the core of the issue. I hope that young lady accepts the relationship with her aunt!!
I just love Karamo I’m old enough to be his mother but I wish I had had someone like him in my life when I was growing up and even now!
She needs counseling she’s not thinking logically. She wants her mother to be someone she isn’t.
She has abandonment issued. Don't dismiss that
She wants her mother to be a mother? Which she isn’t. That’s sad.
They need Miss Iyanla Vanzant.
The auntie has a heart of gold
The way the moma came out like that was ridiculous
This is the sadness i ever seen im crying 😢 for the daughter and auntie omg im praying for yall
Let Karamo Speak 😫
The daughter is in pain and it’s affecting her attitude. Bad attitudes push people away. I wish her mother was more loving and understanding of her daughters needs.
The daughter wants something from her mom that she’s not willing to give and that’s love and forgiveness!!!
That mother is extremely toxic she didn’t acknowledge or try acknowledge the pain of her daughter.
yea...there is some jealousy here. Karamo, love how you allowed them to vent so we could get to the real issue!
I really hope and pray for the healing of Naomi I just know her heart is golden under all of the scar tissue and tar from her past traumas, you will make it through this my love, you and your six kids I speak it into existence!
Karamo has some serious patience.
yes the aunt was the only one there for the right reason cause the daughter and the mother both annoying won't receive anything and it was frustrating to watch
Something about the mother and the sister is very wicked
@@tymberlynnj9875
I think the mother is more wicked than the sister
Yep bc the way the sister paraded hard around the daughter of the results kinda seemed slick messy. Especially when she knew how she felt about it
@@jazzyjennshighwayI think she means well not gonna lie because she gave Naomi lots of physical support and reassurance.
@@tymberlynnj9875 you picked that up in 20 mins or so ???
@@kaitlyncarey3269 maybe so, it’s just kinda cringe to shout HARD Around someone in demise even if you not wrong to celebrate. But honestly it’s the daughter that need to stop the jealousy bc it’s not the sister fault. So sister not wrong imo
“now she’s really going to take her. im really going to be left out” AWE 😭 my heart hurts for the little girl in her she want her mama
The fact that she has to call her mom by her name speaks volumes! They both need healing.
the daughter needs to grow up like fr you got an aunt that’s wants a relationship with you and you still making it about something it’s not🤦🏾♀️😒
That's her mother's fault. Idk what it's like to not receive a mother's love or be treated by my mom in that way, but it's obviously something that's detrimental to a child. For your mom to treat someone the way you deserved to be treated and still want to, and your mom is using that to play in your face, it's wild
Exactly! Still crying bc her mother has failed her. Well, build a relationship with ur aunt and if ur mom comes around, good. If not, then what's new??
You must be clueless how childhood trauma works. How a person is raised usually dictates how they navigate through life. Poor parenting can lead to mental health issues, self medicating, abandonment issues, generational curses, amongst other things. Seems like you’ve been lucky enough to have loving parents, but not all of us are.
@James-wd1ho shut tf up! We all suffer from childhood trauma!! None of our parents did a great job raising us. Counseling has always helped and will forever be the best thing anyone can do. Stop making excuses and take care of yourself and the family you create! You can't change the family you were born into , but she can damn sure stay to herself and focus on her kids and not harming them the way her mother hurt her. Bottom line
@@Bhannahable This is a wild thing to say. I have never felt like I wasn't wanted by my parents. That would be tough on any child growing up, and it is detrimental to childhood development and can affect you for the rest of your life.
13:27 omg i just wanna hug her!! I know how it feels to be rejected by your parent.. aww this really hit home.. 😢❤
Mom is not responsible for someone else's kids. And if your mom is toxic,why would you want your kids around her in that way 🤔
@@777JESUSISLORD71 "Someone else's kids" their her grand(kids) no one said she's responsible for her children but she can help out sometimes especially for her daughter's mental health to have a little time for herself, not all the time and she should want to be around her grandkids anyway. 🤔
I think she expected her mom to come through when she needed her the most, not to just randomly watch her kids. That’s what hurt her
I agree
I AGREE
@@jazzyjennshighway my mom has never participated in her grandkids life,but I knew it was something I had to hand over to JESUS,and love her holding no wrongs against her, because GOD holds none against me through my asking for his forgiveness for my own sin. When people can't extend love,it's a deep rooted reason why,this is why our love source is suppose to come from our heavenly father. There's no one who can love you in the way you need to be love without first having a spiritual understanding of what love is. GOD is love,and those who love not,knows not GOD...We got to REPENT,and mature in the way that GOD desires,and stop looking for someone to love who us ,and our kids who just can't. GOD is the father to the fatherless,he will never leave us or forsake us, before he formed us in the womb of our mother,he knew us. He knows the thoughts he thinks towards us,and it's good,not evil,to prosper us,to give us a hope and a future. The first thing we should be doing is making sure we are loving our children in the way they need to be loved,and that love comes from GOD,and learning about his character. When we have children,our main goal should be teaching them about the love that comes from JESUS CHRIST. A love that causes you to love your enemies,to bless those who curse you,and to pray for those who spitefully use you,but at the same time guarding your heart with all diligence,for out of it,flows the issues of life. We can set healthy Boundaries,and love people in the way that GOD tells us, even if that love is not extended. When we hold high expectations of others to give us something that they just can not,we will be forever miserable,when our true love source,true JOY,true peace,only comes from the heavenly father,and his son JESUS CHRIST. When we learn about that love,were aren't looking for someone to fix our broken heart, because trust me. There's is broken to,and without JESUS,they can not love you fully
Generational trauma is REAL..... they all need HELP... praying for better days for them 🙏 🙏 🙏
Wow that daughter is so hurt, and has such a big child trauma wound. I really hope she heals and can maybe get love from her aunt, because her mum seems like the problem.
I have a feeling Naomi is like my daughter. My daughter made bad choices over and over again and I've done a lot to help her while she has turned down offers by the state to get on her feet. 4 kids later by 3 different fathers, I'm still trying to help. Raised my grandson for 3 years while she was supposedly getting on her feet. And still, sometimes she goes on a tangent and gets it into her mind that I haven't helped at all. My, how short her memory is. I refuse to do everything for her and at some point, she has to take accountability for the choices she made.
@@kimdean1079 sounds about right. You can tell daughter is the problem
No wrong Tamie did not raise any of her kids and if you listen carefully she left her homeless the young lady had to figure it out on her own and Tamie is mad disrespectful did you see how she got kicked off the stage?
I have a feeling you weren't paying attention to this family at all, smh. You so tunnel vision focused on your daughter, you missed the part when she said her mom didn't even answer to her calling her mom/mommy... & girls who grow up to be women starting new family trees again and again COME FROM a dysfunctional family tree. Pray & heal, stop tryna throw your daughter under the bus 🙄
If your daughter is ungrateful u may let her figure out things but plz those 4 kids take them under your wings, don't let the system manage them. They need a mom and if u r the only one to raise them do so God will bless u.
@@NayyAmowheeew I was gonna say this . She learned the behavior from someone . And why was it RUclips’s business that she has 3 baby daddies ? Idk these new age mothers real strange
The mom likely never reconciled the fact that she is a mother .15 years old is a very young age to have a child & who knows what the details concerning how she had Naomi . It’s easier to be a sister which why is was so easy for her to take in the relationship she has with her sister than taking in a relationship with her children because of whatever feeling she has towards being a mother . And a lot of y’all are saying that Naomi is being dramatic, but she’s actually responding as a child would because of her inner child pretty much responding. The age in which she was traumatized and hurt is the same person talking right now. She’s likely felt defeated since she was a child.
Girl she need to be mad at herself why would you have 6 kids and you have all those problems
There's a lot of TRAUMA here!
When I found my little sister, she was 14 years old, I wanted to show her the love she missed out on through out the years, I wanted her to bond with my family and grow up with my kids, my 22yrs old daughter was pure evil, was mean and ugly towards my sister, they eventually became like bff's but that first year was pure hell. and I raised all my kids. so I can see how a grow up daughter could feel a way - especially after the results were given, because my daughter hollered at me one day, "she not even your child.."! In my case - my daughter was spoiled and felt she would have to share me with another girl. lol
@@kitrinka37 i get it tho. I have an older sister by 11yrs and she used to spoil the ish outta me til my early twenties. Then i had my daughter n shes like a second mom to her n spoils her rotten . N i sometimes feel jealous but then remember that my daughter deserves all of it and more
you calling your own child pure evil is so telling about how you are as a parent.
This woman with the purple hair almost died when she found out that this woman was related to them. She was praying for her not to be her aunt. She directs her anger towards her aunt but is really jealous and angry at the relationship her aunt has with her mom. When she had never had a relationship with her mom. And why the fuck do you have 6 kids but complain about not getting support from mom and family. WHERE ARE THEIR FATHERS? Your mother is not obligated to watch your children and if you leave and not come back on time that will make people not want to watch your kids. Im not saying the mother is 100% right but this woman also needs to do some self reflecting
Karamo can be so one sided a lot. Has people on the show and never lets half the guests speak. Naomi should have been sent off stage so we can hear her side. Can't stand when one guests gets to speak, then when the other comes out....Karamo lets the other speak over and interrupt. Naomi is just that selfish person who needs the world to revolve around her.....there are just people like that
Be quiet!!!! Stop talking!!
Yes! I was yelling that 🤣🤣
Right!? Like, damn! 😂
I wish the best for all of them and I hope the niece let her Aunt be in her life she can't keep being angry with the aunt😢❤😢
The more I watch Karamo, the more I love it! You do not play King 💯💯
I know Tammee is the issues, but mna, Naomi needs to heal and break off! She has 6 kids, she needs to be stronger in this situation for them
The mother could be jealous of her daughter. Her daughter is very gorgeous. That is sad, if that's the case.
I don't think the daughter attractive enough to be jealous of off looks alone maybe it's something else
@@DanaysiaBoykin-zx2lgJealousy don't always come for looks it's the heart and the person that a person is...
She’s mad at the auntie when her mom is the problem. The auntie wants to be there for her but her mom and her anger at her mom is in the way
The aunt stepped into some mess that goes way past her. In those moments just sit quietly and dont take sides.
The daughter need to take heed of what karamo said…. She need to stop being jealous… that trait is dangerous. It’s the mom she need to recognize is actually toxic… you can read that vibe a mile away.
Something is wrong with that mother.
Bruh tammee and the aunt are so freaking weird. And she says some disrespectful stuff i wish karamo didnt make her all buddy buddy with each other.
I was thinking it was because Tammee didn't want her sister to like her daughter, when they finally had that breakthrough on stage and learned that the daughter was just misdirecting her anger, she stormed out to try to stop it immediately.
half of yall in the comments don’t know what it’s like to be in Naomi shoes
They really don't 💯
Karamo baby you wearing that cardigan 🥰🥰🥰🤩🤩🤩
Leave this girl alone. She chose to be bitter. This won't end up well
Those are my cousin
Her fear of abandonment is so overwhelming I felt it😩😩🙏🏿 please I hope she finds her way🌞
I hope the niece & aunt can maintain a good relationship. Naomi & her mom need counseling, all that crying ain’t gone change nothing. She has 6 kids & needs to get her head together for them if nothing else.
I love the lady with the red braids personality.
The mom is hella toxic and that’s so hard to see the daughter doesn’t even know how to accept the love she’s asking for because of her mom that’s ridiculous. And I do see the mom getting pleasure out of it which is sickening. There is no reason you would feel comfortable with your daughter calling you by your first name expecting them to have a connection with you since young that’s weird af.
She ain’t never gon be happy lol
😢 not true
@@ThePinkPurples I agree
This is heartbreaking and as a mother,grandmother i could never turn my children or grandchildren away
sounds a whole lot like my situation...homeless...a "mother" who doesn't care,etc.....
Same! Homeless on and off from 17 30 Mom even said,
"Go back to the box you crawled out of", but whenever I pulled 70-80 hour work weeks, she had her hand out. Finally found stability and she still shitted on me for having the same goals for years that I haven't accomplished: graduating from college(2 semesters left),obtaining my CDL class A license( I have a CDL C)and getting some type of medical certification (CNA, Pharmacy Technician)(fall back plan after graduation by might aim for LPN/RN) . That was because of homelessness 🤷🏽♀️
Now the bills delay my goals 😅
I just don't understand the negative energy after 20 years 🤷🏽♀️
@@nicoleraheem1195 felt!🎯💯
The mom isn't show any love or empathy for her daughter while she's crying and pouring her heart out to her for love
i knew that was naomi aunt they look alike
@@braxton-z4x look more alike than her and her mom to me lol
Right!
@@MrsMyersSince2011 yeah
@@nicoleraheem1195yeah
Whew Chile I’m so grateful for the mom I had… I don’t know how it feels to be beefing with my momma and I’m so thankful for that. I feel for people who have to go through this.
I’m sorry but your mother is not your baby daddy! They are not obligated to watch the kids y’all made
Your mother is the kid's GRANDMA! What kind of grandmother would not want to watch the kids when mom is in danger of being homeless?? But what can we expect from a mother who doesn't even let her kids call her mom
@@thekalenichannel1812 All this and she still decided to have 6 children! I doubt they have the same father. why didn't she factor in the fact that she's not financially secure, husbandless, and had no support when she brought 6 kids into this world, sounds evil to me. She is a terrible mother just like the one she has.
Big fan!!
I feel like everyone is being to hard on the daughter .😅 I don’t understand what’s it’s like not have a caring mother but I do understand not have a parent that have never been there for you and not taking your feelings in consideration. It seems like the mother never had love or showed love for her daughter in a way the daughter could recognize it. She probably could never go to her mom and talk about the things happening in her life and what she was going through.( to the point that she can’t even call her mom) And throughout all these years of her mother not showing love that she needed to meet as a mother she grew to hate her to a certain extent. At the end when she asks for a dna test and everyone was laughing it really hurt me to see that because she was so for real. She doesn’t even want to be related to that women that just goes to show had bad she treated her growing up. And the sister has no right to say that she doesn’t believe the daughter just because of what the mother told her. She should of sat down and have a deep talk with her to know the in and out of her relationship with her mother to truly understand what wrong with their relationship.
Basically the daughter had kids by a bum and wants to pawn her kids off on her mom and feels like the aunt is the reason mom don't want to be a free babysitter
I agree! I have a child that behaves the same way. He created a life of chaos and tries to make the world feel sorry for him because I won't engage....
I think it was bc she needed her the most at that time.. & bc she refused to help her in a crisis , it hurt her
@@jazzyjennshighwaythese people are heartless
@@kaitlyncarey3269 ikr!
@@kaitlyncarey3269 All this and she still decided to have 6 children! I doubt they have the same father. why didn't she factor in the fact that she's not financially secure, husbandless, and had no support when she brought 6 kids into this world, sounds evil and heartless to me. She is a terrible mother just like the one she has. She needs to cry about that and worry about giving her kids the quality life they deserve.
That was exhausting! 😢
KARAMO YOU ALREADY KNOW HOW MUCH I LOVE YOU, BUT I AM SO HAPPY THAT THAT MOTHER REJECTED HER. I KNOW YOU AND I ARE NOT GOING TO SEE EYE TO EYE ON THIS ONE BUT THAT'S OKAY. I SEE WAY TOO MANY MOTHERS WHO KEEP STEPPING UP TO THE PLATE AND IT'S NEVER APPRECIATED. THE SAME WAY THESE FEMALES CAN HONOR, RESPECT AND FIGHT TO HOLD ON TO THESE TOXIC NO GOOD DUSTIES, THAT'S THE SAME THING THEY SHOULD DO FOR THEIR MOTHERS. FIGHT AND PRAY FOR THEM!!!
You must be a toxic mom as well 🙄 there is no way anyone should chase their mother!
Period karamo not gonna tolerate no disrespect!
WE GONNA NEED A UPDATE KARAMO !!!
Karamo show is soooooo good!
I wish i could connect with this young lady because I have been where she is and there is a new way you can go forward!! you forgive not for them but for you and you talk and take care of that little girl inside you! tell her shes safe now
bro your video is the best
She needs to stop wanting a relationship with her mum and move on . She will never change
I can’t wait to see what the dna outcome going to be for the mom and daughter to see if they really are daughter and mom
The sisters are TWINS!!! & the daughter is childish, and immature, the fake tears are just ridiculous 😂 she wants a free babysitter, and I hope she can eventually connect with her auntie and form a MATURE healthy ADULT releationship with / without her mother
@@iamtammyetv1534 how is the daughter childish for being neglected by her mother?
@@kermmigr8252 something not right with her she acts just like her mother it's annoying they don't listen so why even come in the show
I Thank God for my mom everyday she did not start off as an amazing mother but today she is an GOD FEARING WOMAN AWESOME MOM GRANDMOTHER AND FRIEND! Wouldn’t trade her for the world literally. I’m hoping that they can renew their relationship I’m so sorry that your mom is not who you want her to be God has you and he will wipe your tears and fill you with Joy!
Sometimes you have to love people from a distance.
7:56 you got 6 kids but stay in a studio with 2???
@jen62865 right🤔....6 and only got 2 is wild ....imma need her to be honest like the mom said cuz ummm no ma'am something is not adding up
@@jen62865 maybe they live with their fathers/father
@@0nPlan3tV3nu5 yes i figured that but still
Who was that big ass fine security guard?!
I honestly feel like she making the aunt the medium for her anger and pain caused by her mom and its not making her think logically
Ive watches alot of karamos videos, and ive never seen him have security pull someone off stage 😂 i loved ittt
These last couple of videos been A LOT
9:35 this girl needs to stop talking over him Omfg💀
This made me cry....that might be someone who can help her through life
The mom Tammy is so toxic but the daughter is also weird and mad at the aunt for no reason
I think the whole family is broken