As a woman who is getting ready to leave her alcoholic abuser this song is everything to me. 8 years of abuse... 4 kids.. it’s never going to stop. He will never change.. this song gives me back my voice when I feel I have none. Thank you for creating something that I’m sure has helped many people.
Oh girl I know that all to well I left 2 yrs ago And went back thinking he was going to change after being forced to stop bc he was on house arrest he never changed I was cheated on thrown around treated like a dog. A month ago after I found I was pregnant with our fourth I said goodbye for good. my mental health is back
Im only 46 seconds in and I feel so.. so strong. He choked me? He can go choke now. He gaslit me? It doesn't matter what his own personal narrative is, but I remember the facts. He was unfaithful? He's now sad and lonely. while I HAVE BLOSSOMED.
This is finally a song I can truly relate to. I'm tired of apologizing for things I didn't do, tired of apologizing to ppl who just wanna abuse me. Imma take this song and use it as my motto for life now. Aint no mean person gonna waste my time occupying my mind and heart
Same! I'm obsessed with this song, because I have an issue with setting boundaries since I've been conditioned to believe my worth comes from what I can provide for others, regardless if it crosses lines. But I'm working to take the steps to learn and unlearn those unhealthy mindsets. Let's hope we both can make it out of this free
@@nuny4592 remember this during your trials and errors....if the action feels uncomfortable you're probably doing something right because in the past your actions were determined on how to avoid being uncomfortable, it lead to a state of being where people pleasing has had more negative outcomes for your own growth, you may well find that the people that makes this transition harder for you will inevitably be the ones you walk away from, when making these changes its hard to avoid losing friends and family who were toxic to begin with...hold strong because those people will try to pull you back and make you behave the way that makes them feel more comfortable, dont fall for that trap 👍
@@angelafahlenkamp9311 Thank you, that's one of my biggest setbacks- the fear of losing someone close to me. I'm trying to actively tell myself that if they respond with resentment or leave, then they're not worth it to begin with. I'm excited to weave out those who aren't truly worthy of me and overtime lose the anxiety that comes from walking over eggshells to please people. Thank you for the advice and reassurance, it's always appreciated 💞
I just heard this song for the first time after today having my dad call me to say he's not coming to my wedding because it won't be "traditional." It hurt me to hear him say that, but I have to stand my ground and do what's right for me, not have my life revolving around what other people expect of me. I'm proud of me. I'm learning. It took a lot of growing up for me to get here.
I totally relate. My dad didn’t come to my wedding for religious reasons. Broke me. But I’ve grown and realized that I’ve tried my whole life to please him and make him love me. You will heal and I’m rooting for your growth ❤️
@@stephanieschaeffer5202 Thank you. I'm sorry you also had to experience that heartbreak, but it's kinda nice knowing I'm not alone. I came from a conservative religious family, so coming out as queer and making the decision to marry my husband in spite of all their hate have been life-changing for me. Totally worth it. I've finally found the real family I never thought I would have when I was younger. 💛
People pleasers, softies, all those who have been used, Highly Sensitive People, Empaths, etc UNITE!!!! This is our song😭😤✊️🔥 Edit: ahhhh thankyou everyone for the likes :)) Your sensitivity is what makes you beautiful and is your strength, regardless of what anyone says/feels about it. I see you all and I hope for love, healing, peace and strength on all your journeys 🤍
You have no idea how perfect the time was for this song when I found it. It’s really easy now to see the people I thought knew better for me get visibly uncomfortable when they realize they can’t fool me anymore. I see it burns them inside now that I’m using the very word they brainwashed me into thinking was wrong when I spoke it for myself. I can’t thank you enough for making this song❤️
my 2 ex guy besties / crushes and my ex / our mutaual friend they fooled me so many times . now they can't and they should be ashamed of themselves 😌😌💅💅
This song was stuck in my head for two months before it was released. The full track did not disappoint. This song means the world to me. It's like it was written for me. Thank you.
---- Fuck the apologies Done being sorry for wanting the things that I want I broke my back carrying baggage For strangers who only ever did me wrong Was it more appeasing when I was just pleasing? Look good on my knees Sucks you're never gonna get me back again When I got healthy, did that make you hate me? And now, I'm never losing sleep, I'm over it This is how I learn to say no Take your pretty words and go choke People talk shit say they're gonna get better I hold my breath I can't hold it forever This is how I learn to say no, oh All of the butterflies turned into vicious lies I'd rather be on my own Tired of people being sad Told my mom to leave my dad Sometimes you just gotta go Was it more appeasing when I was just pleasing? Look good on my knees Sucks you're never gonna get me back again When I got healthy, did that make you hate me? And now, I'm never losing sleep I'm over it This is how I learn to say no Take your pretty words and go choke People talk shit say they're gonna get better I hold my breath, I can't hold it forever This is how I learn to say no, oh "I think what we proved is that we are family And no matter what we're always going to be a fuckin' family Sing with me!
As someone who is a people pleaser and survived an abusive ex bf, this definitely hits hard. I need to set boundaries and not let people walk all over me.
can't relate to being a people pleaser , I used to be that way but now I do what I want and say what I want regardless of it'll displease anyone . causr I'm not here to please or entertain anyone 💅💅
Not a song I can personally relate to or need in my life, but really hoping it will help my friend gather some confidence and stand up for herself more. Sending it straight to her 🙌🏻
To Emeline, I don’t know if you look at comments, but I just finally left an abusive relationship, he’s trying to get me back and I’m finally learning to say no and set my boundaries. This song found me at the perfect time. Thank you so much for this masterpiece
since i first heard part of this I've been ryhtmicly looking it up to see if its been released yet, I'm glad the algorithm caught on and put it at the top of my home page the second I opened youtube after it was released. love the song!!
This is literally me learning to set boundaries with my dad. It hits so hard I cant even put words to it. I held my breath I can’t hold it forever This is how I learn to say no
I am nearly 35... And have been away from him for nearly 10 yrs. But I can't stop listening and crying. Thank you for putting my wounds in words... You have a gift for giving others a voice.
This is so intensely, _intentionally_ written. Lyrically creative, melodically & rhythmically dynamic... this song is instantly unforgettable. Well done, Emeline.
Unforgettable? What the fuck are talking about? It's has new sans written all over it. It's the most generic music video, the most generic song, the most generic sound, the most generic looking girl 🤣. I mean come on stop the serious cap. I just came from a video of her singing this live. She sounds horrible live and Hardy could keep a tone. All the comments were people bagging on her for sounding so generic, people just wished singers could actually sing. Now every 20 something American women that's taken singing classes thinks she can sing. There just isn't a lot of deep, soul cutting, eye catching material here.
Was in an emotionally abusive (14 years )boarderline physical ( 1 year) relationship. This is strength. This is power. This song is my support to stay strong even though he had me believing i was worthless and nothing without him. Thank you
Saw her singing a few seconds in her car… came went through all her songs… and am in lost of words by the quality and energy of her songs… wow… can only wish you the mega success you absolutely deserve!!! Wowww
laying in bed sobbing while listening to this. Very easily my favorite song because of how inspiring it is. I know there had to be some real bad pain in there to make something like this, I hope your journey is treating your better now 💙
Been listening to this for hours since I got broken up with. He was controlling and I didn't realize it till now. It was for the better, but now he's chasing to get back with me. This is empowering to me and is helping me to say NO!
I had a very toxic friendship and environment. I'm still healing from it and this song is very inspiring to me and I hope it helps other people love you!
This song speaks to my soul! I’m an empath who has suffered under the abuse of many narcissists, family included! Recently I removed the toxic force and this song tells the story so perfectly! Learning to say no in order to protect yourself is key to a successful happy life! Many blessings to all!
Thank you for writing this song.When you grow up watching a co dependent and a narcissist play out their mess it leaves you seeking out that same role play as an adult.I spent years not knowing why I was doing this or that I even was.I finally understand and now Im free of those chains.💕🙌
This has been MY song! I listen to it on repeat at work and at home. Loudly singing along! (much to my kitties dismay) This is my "I don't have to accept your bs. I deserve better." song. Thank you Emeline!!!! I love it!
My life lived... every word. ThankS for this super strength in words and song...I'm well on my way healing from tons of toxic injury through my life... thank you so much!
Thank you. The worst part of mine, after I tried to kill myself, was having my 3yr old stroking my back saying “it’s ok mommy please don’t cry” while my ex screamed at me. We’ve been on our own for 2 years now and couldn’t be happier. If you’re reading this and need inspiration, girl, just run. Run and never, ever look back.
I am so happy you escaped, your little one may never say thank you but I'll thank you for them... my mom didn't leave and me and my siblings paid a heavy price for it.... I'm so happy for you
I really want to like this song but I can’t get through it without crying for some reason. I’ve heard it a few times but can’t finish it. Keep doing what you’re doing!
I can not stop listening to this song. It's beautiful and I really believe it deserves to be a #1. When I say I have listened to it on repeat for about 5 or 6 now times, I'm not kidding. This song just speaks to me
This is really a beautiful song that resonates with me deeply I have always had more hope for people than they have for themselves and they always break their promises to me and I am so tired of it.
This is amazing!!! I've recently kind of realized that I'm tired of being a punching bag for everyone else. Or a human diary to dump all of their emotional baggage onto. It hurts me to say no. It really does. But I know this is good for me.
I used to be that way when I was little till I was almost a preteen . eventually something snapped within me and I had enough of it . now I am happier that I made that change 😌
I need this so much in my life right now. My family left me because I left my abusive relationship. They hate me because I said no to his abuse and no to their enabling bullshit. I love this song so much. Thank you for writing, recording and sharing ❤️
EMELINE babe you are a fighter and a winner! I'm so happy for you that you got better and became happier! This new song rocks! Wish you all the best! Keep on rocking girl! ❤️💕
I have this song on replay and it's funny how you find that one song in the time of need for strength. Thanks doll, your words in this song are perfection!
I'm literally the reason my parents split because my mom finally listened to me after over a decade of telling her to leave his abusive ass. I needes this song so bad and i am so very thankful it exists.
I sent this to my friend she really needed to hear this perfect timing for her life what a beautiful song I look forward to you having a lot of success in this industry just don't sell your soul
Listening to this til it gets a million views. Cause that's how many times I need to hear it. Thank you for this! I'm sure you created this because its what you've struggled with yourself, thanks for breaking through and creating this song! 💕
I have been playing this song a repeat since the day it came out. I’m obsessed with this song!!! It’s so good!❤️❤️❤️❤️ I have sent it to so many people
I've watched you sing this so many times on the clock app and it's so great. It makes me feel so validated and strong. I love every bit of it and I'm so glad you're getting recognition for it.
This song goes along great with my therapy and I’ll continue to come back to it when I need strength. I’m currently experiencing what its like to set boundaries and have people lash out at them. I was certainly “more appeasing when I was just pleasing”, but I almost died that way. Now I’m learning to look inward and respect my energy. Thank you for this beautiful song 🌿💞
A very good listen.. coming from a complicated childhood.. and being mislead as to what actual love is., Having to learn what it really is one one's own can be very hard.. love this song hope you make many many more..!!
10 years in recovery from an eating disorder and this gives me such vibes!! OMG. Love to all you young or wise still learning to say no and love themselves
FINALLLLLLY! You are being slept on, girl! I am waiting for you to blow up. I love your voice- so freaking beautiful as are you 🖤 keeping throwing us the jams. I AM HERE FOR IT
Im so happy to see this song out. Ive been struggling and i have a story to tell but its shared with people i love and it sucks being in the middle of it and not sharing the story to make sure their reputations are okay. But its my life too. How am i supposed to feel about all this now when im 25? Still feel like im not allowed to say outloud what my truths and experience has been. Im tired of being scared and im still the one alone and confused. I was just a kid. I still feel like one sometimes. In my head i say its not their fault. They were just kids too they didnt know until they experienced it for themselves. Just like their parents did. And now im trying to stop generational Trauma and just not have kids. This life hasnt been too kind. We need people like you who isnt scared of the truth and what you have experienced. Helps people like me, to scared to tell the world.
To create healthy boundaries, this song hits hard.
For real
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As a woman who is getting ready to leave her alcoholic abuser this song is everything to me. 8 years of abuse... 4 kids.. it’s never going to stop. He will never change.. this song gives me back my voice when I feel I have none. Thank you for creating something that I’m sure has helped many people.
Praying you were able to get out. If not, I know you have the strength when you’re ready. 💪🏻
Oh girl I know that all to well I left 2 yrs ago And went back thinking he was going to change after being forced to stop bc he was on house arrest he never changed I was cheated on thrown around treated like a dog. A month ago after I found I was pregnant with our fourth I said goodbye for good. my mental health is back
Bad
You got this Mama!🖤
I just left my abusive alcoholic husband as well left with 7 children. And for once im not afraid
This is the perfect song for all types of abuse survivors..It hits hard in a beautiful way! I'm so happy to find the full version released!
This!
YES!!!
Im only 46 seconds in and I feel so.. so strong.
He choked me? He can go choke now.
He gaslit me? It doesn't matter what his own personal narrative is, but I remember the facts.
He was unfaithful? He's now sad and lonely. while I HAVE BLOSSOMED.
Yes!! I agree 💯
Yes!!! I feel so empowered by this! Coming from an abusive home this just helps so much.
This is finally a song I can truly relate to. I'm tired of apologizing for things I didn't do, tired of apologizing to ppl who just wanna abuse me. Imma take this song and use it as my motto for life now. Aint no mean person gonna waste my time occupying my mind and heart
You go!!! You can do this and you’re so strong and you are loved ❤️
yass you do you don’t ever forget it!!
My new favorite song. I’ve had a problem with setting boundaries for myself and I’m finally healing from my trauma!
congratulations on ur healing! may it continue to be healthy and happy healing for you ✨
How freeing it must feel...I was there 10 years ago when I walked into my first therapy session, BEST thing I've ever done!
Same! I'm obsessed with this song, because I have an issue with setting boundaries since I've been conditioned to believe my worth comes from what I can provide for others, regardless if it crosses lines. But I'm working to take the steps to learn and unlearn those unhealthy mindsets. Let's hope we both can make it out of this free
@@nuny4592 remember this during your trials and errors....if the action feels uncomfortable you're probably doing something right because in the past your actions were determined on how to avoid being uncomfortable, it lead to a state of being where people pleasing has had more negative outcomes for your own growth, you may well find that the people that makes this transition harder for you will inevitably be the ones you walk away from, when making these changes its hard to avoid losing friends and family who were toxic to begin with...hold strong because those people will try to pull you back and make you behave the way that makes them feel more comfortable, dont fall for that trap 👍
@@angelafahlenkamp9311 Thank you, that's one of my biggest setbacks- the fear of losing someone close to me. I'm trying to actively tell myself that if they respond with resentment or leave, then they're not worth it to begin with. I'm excited to weave out those who aren't truly worthy of me and overtime lose the anxiety that comes from walking over eggshells to please people. Thank you for the advice and reassurance, it's always appreciated 💞
I just heard this song for the first time after today having my dad call me to say he's not coming to my wedding because it won't be "traditional." It hurt me to hear him say that, but I have to stand my ground and do what's right for me, not have my life revolving around what other people expect of me. I'm proud of me. I'm learning. It took a lot of growing up for me to get here.
I totally relate. My dad didn’t come to my wedding for religious reasons. Broke me. But I’ve grown and realized that I’ve tried my whole life to please him and make him love me. You will heal and I’m rooting for your growth ❤️
@@stephanieschaeffer5202 Thank you. I'm sorry you also had to experience that heartbreak, but it's kinda nice knowing I'm not alone. I came from a conservative religious family, so coming out as queer and making the decision to marry my husband in spite of all their hate have been life-changing for me. Totally worth it. I've finally found the real family I never thought I would have when I was younger. 💛
My dad forced me into a marriage, yeah could not be able to shed any tears on that day
@@nandaniraj8532 I'm so sorry you had to go through that. 🫂
@@nandaniraj8532 dad's make better choices
People pleasers, softies, all those who have been used, Highly Sensitive People, Empaths, etc UNITE!!!!
This is our song😭😤✊️🔥
Edit: ahhhh thankyou everyone for the likes :)) Your sensitivity is what makes you beautiful and is your strength, regardless of what anyone says/feels about it. I see you all and I hope for love, healing, peace and strength on all your journeys 🤍
AMEN!!
Yes!
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Currently in a not so good relationship. Feeling this
My whole life 🥺 ... setting boundaries... creating a bubble
FINALLY!!!!! Can't wait to play this on repeat for the next 72hrs 😌
Same. I'm just going to buy it, burn it, and fucking drill it into my head.
Same!!!
Same
Lmaoooo same
Same!
You have no idea how perfect the time was for this song when I found it. It’s really easy now to see the people I thought knew better for me get visibly uncomfortable when they realize they can’t fool me anymore. I see it burns them inside now that I’m using the very word they brainwashed me into thinking was wrong when I spoke it for myself. I can’t thank you enough for making this song❤️
I soooo again
You got this! You know what's right for you!
my 2 ex guy besties / crushes and my ex / our mutaual friend they fooled me so many times . now they can't and they should be ashamed of themselves 😌😌💅💅
@celestial Phoenix queen
And they should be 😌
@@renee997 i'm hoping they are cause they brought it upon themselves 😏😏
This song was stuck in my head for two months before it was released. The full track did not disappoint. This song means the world to me. It's like it was written for me. Thank you.
same here!!!
I agree completely
Masterpiece. Talk about a ‘belt it from the top of your lungs in the car’ song. So empowering. Thank you! I’ve been waiting for this to release!!!
YES!
Literally doing that at this moment
I needed this… so many people needed this 🥺❤️
this women deserves more attention honestly speaking she's so talented and she's my favorite singer from now on
---- Fuck the apologies
Done being sorry for wanting the things that I want
I broke my back carrying baggage
For strangers who only ever did me wrong
Was it more appeasing when I was just pleasing?
Look good on my knees
Sucks you're never gonna get me back again
When I got healthy, did that make you hate me?
And now, I'm never losing sleep, I'm over it
This is how I learn to say no
Take your pretty words and go choke
People talk shit say they're gonna get better
I hold my breath I can't hold it forever
This is how I learn to say no, oh
All of the butterflies turned into vicious lies
I'd rather be on my own
Tired of people being sad
Told my mom to leave my dad
Sometimes you just gotta go
Was it more appeasing when I was just pleasing?
Look good on my knees
Sucks you're never gonna get me back again
When I got healthy, did that make you hate me?
And now, I'm never losing sleep I'm over it
This is how I learn to say no
Take your pretty words and go choke
People talk shit say they're gonna get better
I hold my breath, I can't hold it forever
This is how I learn to say no, oh
"I think what we proved is that we are family
And no matter what we're always going to be a fuckin' family
Sing with me!
My daughter and I have been waiting for weeks. I cannot stop listening!!!!!!!! Beautifully executed! And one of the most important messages!
Love this song 😂😭
As someone who is a people pleaser and survived an abusive ex bf, this definitely hits hard. I need to set boundaries and not let people walk all over me.
can't relate to being a people pleaser , I used to be that way but now I do what I want and say what I want regardless of it'll displease anyone . causr I'm not here to please or entertain anyone 💅💅
Not a song I can personally relate to or need in my life, but really hoping it will help my friend gather some confidence and stand up for herself more. Sending it straight to her 🙌🏻
I'm glad she has a friend like you in her life.
To Emeline, I don’t know if you look at comments, but I just finally left an abusive relationship, he’s trying to get me back and I’m finally learning to say no and set my boundaries. This song found me at the perfect time. Thank you so much for this masterpiece
You are amazing! I'm so happy you left him.
since i first heard part of this I've been ryhtmicly looking it up to see if its been released yet, I'm glad the algorithm caught on and put it at the top of my home page the second I opened youtube after it was released. love the song!!
This is literally me learning to set boundaries with my dad. It hits so hard I cant even put words to it.
I held my breath I can’t hold it forever
This is how I learn to say no
Listen to it 3 times in tears. It’s better than therapy. You have a gift. Please keep doing what you’re doing. ❤️
I am nearly 35... And have been away from him for nearly 10 yrs. But I can't stop listening and crying.
Thank you for putting my wounds in words... You have a gift for giving others a voice.
This is so intensely, _intentionally_ written. Lyrically creative, melodically & rhythmically dynamic... this song is instantly unforgettable. Well done, Emeline.
The “intentionally” got me…
Unforgettable? What the fuck are talking about? It's has new sans written all over it. It's the most generic music video, the most generic song, the most generic sound, the most generic looking girl 🤣. I mean come on stop the serious cap. I just came from a video of her singing this live. She sounds horrible live and Hardy could keep a tone. All the comments were people bagging on her for sounding so generic, people just wished singers could actually sing. Now every 20 something American women that's taken singing classes thinks she can sing. There just isn't a lot of deep, soul cutting, eye catching material here.
sure.
Was in an emotionally abusive (14 years )boarderline physical ( 1 year) relationship. This is strength. This is power. This song is my support to stay strong even though he had me believing i was worthless and nothing without him. Thank you
The first time I heard this on Tic Tok I bawled. I just sent it to my mom and she said she's trying not to cry. Obviously we have a generational issue
Saw her singing a few seconds in her car… came went through all her songs… and am in lost of words by the quality and energy of her songs… wow… can only wish you the mega success you absolutely deserve!!! Wowww
After my ex boyfriend started abusing me, I felt like I had nothing. But hearing this song makes me want to cry but like in a good way. Thank you
Emeline really out here helping and empowering us with every song she puts out
laying in bed sobbing while listening to this. Very easily my favorite song because of how inspiring it is. I know there had to be some real bad pain in there to make something like this, I hope your journey is treating your better now 💙
I am so ridiculously in love with this song. I can’t wait to share it with my mom, and anyone else I know like her & I who needed this.
The wait felt like a century but its worth it. I resonate on a deep level, this was very much needed !
"people talk shit, saying they're going to get better.
i hold my breath, but i can't hold it forever."
my fav lines.
Been listening to this for hours since I got broken up with. He was controlling and I didn't realize it till now. It was for the better, but now he's chasing to get back with me. This is empowering to me and is helping me to say NO!
I had a very toxic friendship and environment. I'm still healing from it and this song is very inspiring to me and I hope it helps other people love you!
I can’t handle how much this song speaks to me. Thank you so much for not only putting it into words, but into song!! So much love for you!
Needed to find this song today!! To every survivor reading this!
You are strong, amazing and blessed 💜 May you future shine as bright as you!! 💜
I've had this on repeat since it dropped. SUCH an iconic song with an incredible message behind it ❤️
Just ended a 5 year relationship with a narcissist and this song popped up and is exactly what I needed. Thank you!!
Me too the same. We deserve something better and I wish you the best. I hope time to heal our pain in our souls and find our happiness in ourselves 🙏❤
This song speaks to my soul! I’m an empath who has suffered under the abuse of many narcissists, family included! Recently I removed the toxic force and this song tells the story so perfectly! Learning to say no in order to protect yourself is key to a successful happy life! Many blessings to all!
This song gives me so much strength.
I felt the lyrics so deeply. Been waiting weeks for this song to come out.
The warrior adult self with the inner child at the end (in my interpretation) I CANT SHED ANYMORE TEARS WHAT R U DOINGGG I love it 🤍
This is how it's felt to cut off contact with my dad. It sucks to be tough when you're soft, but it's so so worth it to not be hurt anymore
Thank you for writing this song.When you grow up watching a co dependent and a narcissist play out their mess it leaves you seeking out that same role play as an adult.I spent years not knowing why I was doing this or that I even was.I finally understand and now Im free of those chains.💕🙌
This has been MY song! I listen to it on repeat at work and at home. Loudly singing along! (much to my kitties dismay) This is my "I don't have to accept your bs. I deserve better." song. Thank you Emeline!!!! I love it!
This song is the best xoxo thank you ❤❤❤❤
My life lived... every word. ThankS for this super strength in words and song...I'm well on my way healing from tons of toxic injury through my life... thank you so much!
As a woman who is trying to get away from her toxic abusive mother this song is helping me move on and learn to say no
Thank you. The worst part of mine, after I tried to kill myself, was having my 3yr old stroking my back saying “it’s ok mommy please don’t cry” while my ex screamed at me. We’ve been on our own for 2 years now and couldn’t be happier. If you’re reading this and need inspiration, girl, just run. Run and never, ever look back.
I am so happy you escaped, your little one may never say thank you but I'll thank you for them... my mom didn't leave and me and my siblings paid a heavy price for it.... I'm so happy for you
You are too beautiful ... To be true ...
Too talented ..... Ur all lyrics are getting soooo close to my heart
I really want to like this song but I can’t get through it without crying for some reason. I’ve heard it a few times but can’t finish it. Keep doing what you’re doing!
Same here
Been there. Keep listening.
Thats called release...your body seems to crave it...if you don't the energy turns inwards and causes illness....trust me, I'm there
I can not stop listening to this song. It's beautiful and I really believe it deserves to be a #1. When I say I have listened to it on repeat for about 5 or 6 now times, I'm not kidding. This song just speaks to me
As a woman who was in a very abusive relationship for nearly 2 years…. This song right here!!! This is song means everything to me.
I am obsessed!!!
This is really a beautiful song that resonates with me deeply I have always had more hope for people than they have for themselves and they always break their promises to me and I am so tired of it.
ditto
It takes time but some of us learn how to recognize the ones who will suck you dry and stay away from them!
Ur songs help me soo much
This is amazing!!! I've recently kind of realized that I'm tired of being a punching bag for everyone else. Or a human diary to dump all of their emotional baggage onto. It hurts me to say no. It really does. But I know this is good for me.
I used to be that way when I was little till I was almost a preteen . eventually something snapped within me and I had enough of it . now I am happier that I made that change 😌
This song hits hard when you’ve been through a lot of trauma both in childhood and in relationships, and are now on your healing journey
This is such an amazing song. I love it
I need this so much in my life right now. My family left me because I left my abusive relationship. They hate me because I said no to his abuse and no to their enabling bullshit. I love this song so much. Thank you for writing, recording and sharing ❤️
Thank you!! 6 months sober today 🥰🥰🔥🔥going to listen to this ALL DAY
You got this! I just hit 4 years. One day at a time
Such a boss! Way to hit 6 months
EMELINE babe you are a fighter and a winner! I'm so happy for you that you got better and became happier! This new song rocks! Wish you all the best! Keep on rocking girl! ❤️💕
THIS SONG IS SO GOOD OMG-
The melody to this song sends me. So proud of you!
I have this song on replay and it's funny how you find that one song in the time of need for strength. Thanks doll, your words in this song are perfection!
The line “when I got healthy did that make you hate me “ hits so hard
“I’m never losing sleep over it” me losing sleep bc I’m too busy vibing to this song
This song builts my confidence in myself when I completely unable to do what people want me to be or to do:)
The power in your "This is how I learn to say NO"... exactly resembles someone who would say that after so long of abuse✨
omg i luv it
Just discovered this song through tiktok a couple hours ago and it's already on my on repeat playlist on spotify.
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Yesssss. Im so excited!!! Ive been waiting for this song so long. I cant wait to blast this in my car!
100% OBSESSED with this song. Can not wait for more from this artist!
I'm literally the reason my parents split because my mom finally listened to me after over a decade of telling her to leave his abusive ass. I needes this song so bad and i am so very thankful it exists.
I sent this to my friend she really needed to hear this perfect timing for her life what a beautiful song I look forward to you having a lot of success in this industry just don't sell your soul
thank you sooooo much for Cinderella's dead and this song. This is a medicine for my depression. The lyrics are damn good. I am addicted to it.
Listening to this til it gets a million views. Cause that's how many times I need to hear it. Thank you for this! I'm sure you created this because its what you've struggled with yourself, thanks for breaking through and creating this song! 💕
i LOOOVE to scream the chorus so much when im home alone. hits really close to home with my past experiences,
As a survivor , this hits harder than a rock 🥺
SENDING LOVE TO ALL OF YOU , STAY HEALTHY , BLESSED AND SAFE WHEREVER YOU ARE 🙏 ❤. ❤🤗😚☺
Thank you for this
I have been playing this song a repeat since the day it came out. I’m obsessed with this song!!! It’s so good!❤️❤️❤️❤️ I have sent it to so many people
my bestie sent to me too! can't stop playing it....powerful message
I've watched you sing this so many times on the clock app and it's so great. It makes me feel so validated and strong. I love every bit of it and I'm so glad you're getting recognition for it.
Been here since Hush in Boston and will still be here after you’re playing the garden
FINALLY I LOVE THIS!!! i’m so proud of you!!!
she did amazing right 👏 👏 👏
This song goes along great with my therapy and I’ll continue to come back to it when I need strength.
I’m currently experiencing what its like to set boundaries and have people lash out at them. I was certainly “more appeasing when I was just pleasing”, but I almost died that way. Now I’m learning to look inward and respect my energy.
Thank you for this beautiful song 🌿💞
OBSESSED!!
A very good listen.. coming from a complicated childhood.. and being mislead as to what actual love is., Having to learn what it really is one one's own can be very hard.. love this song hope you make many many more..!!
What a great song!
10 years in recovery from an eating disorder and this gives me such vibes!! OMG. Love to all you young or wise still learning to say no and love themselves
Im obsessed with this song!!!
FINALLLLLLY! You are being slept on, girl! I am waiting for you to blow up. I love your voice- so freaking beautiful as are you 🖤 keeping throwing us the jams. I AM HERE FOR IT
Thank you for this song!
Im so happy to see this song out. Ive been struggling and i have a story to tell but its shared with people i love and it sucks being in the middle of it and not sharing the story to make sure their reputations are okay. But its my life too. How am i supposed to feel about all this now when im 25? Still feel like im not allowed to say outloud what my truths and experience has been. Im tired of being scared and im still the one alone and confused. I was just a kid. I still feel like one sometimes. In my head i say its not their fault. They were just kids too they didnt know until they experienced it for themselves. Just like their parents did. And now im trying to stop generational Trauma and just not have kids. This life hasnt been too kind. We need people like you who isnt scared of the truth and what you have experienced. Helps people like me, to scared to tell the world.
미쳣다 진짜 너무 좋아ㅏ아아아아아앙ㅠㅠㅠㅠ퓨ㅠㅠㅠㅜㅠㅜㅠㅠㅠ ❤️💖✨
She's so talented I'm speechless ♥️♥️
I am so in love with this song
I am totally obsessed with this song! It came at the perfect time in my life. Thank you!!!
Love from South Africa.. This song hits the feels, keep being fantastic.
Thank you for this song!! This hit the nail on the head!! Such a spot on song to explain EVERYTHING my daughter and I have endured!!❤
Thank you for this song! I’ve had it on repeat…sometimes you just gotta go. Amen I ended 11 years of feeling not good enough and I’ve grown so much 💕