My wife of 23 years left me and our family of 4 adult children living in Maui to go be with a married man with no job. Of course it lasted only until I filed for divorce. She now lives in St Louis in a government assisted living facility on welfare. I've since found someone who appreciates having a good man. We married last year.
Great Points Brothers. I Didn't Want To Make A Scene At The Funeral So I Kinda Let Her Believe It Was Possible. When She Called I Hit "Block Number." 😂🤣😅
me and my ex of 7 months broke up on Christmas didnt even get 2 give her and her fam the gifts.. F her, her kids and mama gotta new chick and our 1st date is tomorrow and im excited stay on your purpose and leave the past in the past
I also want to add, women get validation from men anywhere they go whether is supermarket, workplace, in the traffic on the road etc. just because they have a good physique, which makes it very easy for them to cheat on their man. It is much easier for a woman to cheat than a man.
The moment she says, "I'm YOUNG! I wanna explore my options!", that's when I'll be the gentleman I've always been and open the door for her...to leave.
Tyrone Williams - As an older man I can say that America has got even many of these 50-60 year old women delusional thinking that they want to play their options too. Still haven’t figured out that a man paying them attention doesn’t mean they care about them! Still in the hoe phase like they’re 20 years of age and have “their whole future” in front of them😅!!!
But if I am perusing the Skreets, why wouldn’t I trust a Big Butt and a Smile, For One Night!!! Maybe ✌🏾nights🤷🏾♂️...I’m gone drop you off where I found you🚌
It’s their egos. Simps have gassed them up so much that they can’t even fathom a man NOT Wanting them. Until they run into a REAL Man with Self Respect and who Values himself. And right then and there is when they gon’ learn today.
@@TheRealest127 That shit perplexes the hell out of me because they would never do that shit. I’m batting at 99% of them trying to come back and I’m like HTTFN. Like I’m gonna take you back after you been getting banged out for the last 6 months to a year. It took that for you to realize I’m your best option? Shiddddd I can’t trust you because you have bad judge of character. I send all of their asses packing. Nope. Gone over there.
It’s because if we did it they’d take us back, they find it attractive. They can’t understand a world that doesn’t operate through their own lens. Even if you explicitly tell a woman, “touch another man and there’s never a chance”…….doesn’t matter they’ll still try this foolery.
I'm an old man now... but I have had more than a few women try to get back in the seat they used to have.... saying I was a good man. Still angry at me but wishing they had a time machine to undo the mess they made in their bad choices
Wow! Aaaye this has happened to me too, recently!! One even CRIED HER HEART OUT in front of her friends confession her sorrow for how she did me.... and came looking for me 25yrs later. Found me on FB. But its the closure for ME!!! AND I politely said "No thanks" & DENIED her ANY HOPE of everrrrrrr having ME again in life!!💪🏿
@@antilaw9911 Women often place blame on you or anyone prior to you on you...we are seen as all one continuous line...a build up of all her frustration from life. And somehow the next guy is supposed to be the " right man".… It's easier to blame the men in her life rather than face her own issues.
I absolutely hate when they try to come back after having multiple kids, by multiple guys, got their tubes tide, and still have the audacity, and arrogance to think they're still a prize.
Real talk...six years ago my ex-wife left me. Three times this woman tried to come back!!! Saying I'm sorry and I love you. Nope I'm good. Since than I started two businesses and got my life back right. Yet never been worried.
It’s always all on the man. This is the way it is. They’re children. You’re using logic. They don’t. It’s not a 2 way street. See how she talks about her husband? He raised her. She was 21 when they got together. She thinks the way he thinks. When I was w my ex it was the same thing. I got her when she was 21. But I was too stupid to marry her and move her in. So other people started to sway her. I was just busy working. Lost her 6 years later.
I was thinking the same thing If you feel the relationship is boring do something to spice things up but no that to much works Just blame the other partners
Removing negative energy from your life is not an option its mandatory if you cant be yourself around anyone then they are toxic to your wellbeing and cut them lose with out a hesitation. Live the best version of you growth is necessary.
So true...wish I would of just let my ex years back leave when she wanted to...took me years to realize that chasing these folks will just destroy your confidence. Stay up fellas!
Sometimes as men we suffer because we don't want to take advise.What she is saying is 100% true, perhaps there are very many women and the right one will surely pop in.Dont you ever run after someone who already left you for just a minor reason
Guys. Never let a woman be your purpose. Always keep the abundance mindset, and understand if a woman wants to leave, help her pack. Let her go. Don't even attempt to put up a rebuttal. Some of these cases on here, WOW!
This was good! My ex wife’s friend dm’d me 6 weeks ago prying into my business asking me if I was married, had a gf and if I’ve spoken to my ex lately. I was thinking to myself, *itch please! I haven’t seen or spoken to her in almost 8yrs, I know what this is. I just simply told her my life is going really good and I like to keep it that way and that I move forward and not backwards. Regret is a horrible feeling to live with. We need more women to speak truth to power about these kind of mistakes. The wall is undefeated and no high value man with any sense will step down and back because someone overvalued themselves in the Sexual Market Place and thought they could monkey branch up. #facts
“...When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things...”- 1st Corinthians 13:11. Men, if your woman steps to you with this foolishness, tell her to go follow her desires and don’t ever look back...
Bored? Entertain who? I got to get this money to create a life for a family. A real women is not leaving. A headache of a woman/girl leaving is a true blessing. My brothers, God, purpose, family, and you will never lose. It’s that simple. Continue to evolve. Peace.
Older women now are now on some grass in greener sh*t. Since black don't crack they go into a second childhood. Women between 45 and 50 still finding excitement in the streets.
@@BernardBethea6339 ,so true bro my wife and i got a divorced for that same things and her grown ass son, she's 60 and i'm 68 talking about i don't do nothing.
Don't spice it up, let her go and find someone who is ok with predictability. They are out there. Because if that's truly who you are you shouldn't have to change especially if that's how you focus and stay on track with your goals & providing. If she wants spice she'll find ways to spice it up herself!
Exactly that's what i was disagreeing with her on because like why should i have tp change who i really am I'm simple and direct and basic I'll just be patient and manifest me a woman who is like this aswell.
She may regret what she left and decide she want it back but I don't take leftovers. You can't give that Sorry Dog the Best and then offer me the Rest! If you gotta taste the Rainbow before you know that my Flavor is the one for you then I am not for you, Period.
Imagine not having a "Predictable" income. Wouldn't that be a scary feeling?? Now apply that same logic to an "Unpredictable" partner that you can't rely on when it matters the most.
Boring: you are not moving in a way that will be tempting yourself to cheat or get into something, therefore you are basically “not giving her room to do it...”
Who wants to spend the time and effort on a woman who jus don't deserve you anymore by their pervious actions not me!! Not every woman is the same tho you got my trust 💯 since we decided to be in a relationship with each until that trust is broken 💔 💯 but until then its us against who ever come for our relationship 💯 👊🏼❤
I love your videos. Here what I'm gonna tell all men and women. If you are doing everything good, loving them; being serious, honest, respectful and loyal to them, and people leave you or cheat on you, leave them or let them go, and NEVER EVER put them in your life.
It's no one's responsibility to make you happy but you. I rather be with a routine individual than sitting around wasting my time wondering if my spouse is being faithful. Nobody got time for all that nonsense!!!
Crazy thing is most wymen begging for someone to marry them. Not realizing marriage is mundane and most days will be routine and boring that’s why they call it stability and security. Just shows you most wymen want a wedding but most can’t handle the maturity that comes with a marriage
Exactly How A Child Would Think.A Child Just See His Fav Actor Acting & Goes " I Want To Be An Actor" but not Knowing He Was On A Set Overseas For 6 Months To Shoot That Role.The Kid Don't Wanna Be Actor.He Want The Glam Of Being An Actor Just As The Woman Don't Want A Marriage.She Wanted The Glam Of A Marriage Which Is The Wedding 🅿️
Damn I got married when I was 22 and now I'm 32 I've been divorced for 7 years. And my ex wife definitely use to say I am predictable. We got divorced and 4 months later she got pregnant by another man. But she said words to me that I thought I wouldn't ever hear come from her. And they where very kind and nice I forgave her but my grass is very green on my side and I constantly watering it every day though the growth that I developed from my first marriage.💯
That's the problem as women. We normalize toxic relationships as signs of real love. A.K.A. Struggle Love= Real Love. All of this goes back to not knowing our worth and not believing that if we change our mindset and outlook on our lives we can achieve more.
This was on point!! Exactly what I’m going though right now!! She been texting me off and on for the past 4 months after being broken up for a year. She definitely regrets it! Keep up the good work. We appreciate u D’Nieka!
You can lapse. If it isn't the woman of your dreams let it go. Find a hobby. My exes still send bday wishes and all and I always reply with the blatant truth. I've never been happier.
Bro imagine your your son or daughter, what advice do you give yourself? Stay away, you deserve better. Why can't you see that son/daughter? Where did I fail that you would put up with such disrespect. Be blessed.
@@vVersacev what?! Sorry to hear that, I always felt like it's a myth. This is why women always looked at me like it wasn't possible that I would wish them the best and never ever speak again.
This is a breath of fresh air, I'm thankful for every trial and tribulation, fellas focus on you and your purpose when they get to cutting up ... nothing is made to be perfect but its made to be the best that you can make it worth , yeah its gonna hurt but guess what that pain is only temporary
How bout that spontaneous house mortgage, gas and light bill he pays? How bout that exciting water bill? Don't forget that bad boy car note and insurance! Bore me some more 😴
1:50 come on!!! That actually happened to me! Aww man, she hit the brick wall! I have no remorse whatsoever. I have moved on, and remarried, bought a house, made more money, etc. Life goes on.
I'm low key, not into arguing and acting crazy. My now-ex fell into the trap of a guy and talked her into leaving for a "better life". HA! I said "Yeahokbye." With her life now, she comes home from work and has to mow the lawn while he uses the edger! WTF! Oh, he's retired and at home all day. She's been slapped to the floor and she's been called names. He has her on a TIGHT schedule. She freely admits she's miserable. Oh well. Better get back out there and get that lawn.
I’m 58 divorced twice , have three kids and all are doing good , I busted my tail to get them where they need to go , I just want to relax now , I live alone and do what I want now , both thought the grass was greener , well for 9 months it was rough , now , a women is not required financially I’m good , now I enjoy cooking and working around the house , so if yu want excitement and drama that’s next door , not here . I DONT CHASE ,, I REPLACE … 😊
53 and divorced twice !! 2nd almost destroyed me , even though I was at fault !! But 2 wrongs don't make it right !! I also lost my father during my divorce!! God , Family and My Combat Bruthaz helped me pull through !! Everyday it does get easier once you become Transparent and take accountability !! Respect and Salute 🫡 🙏
It all ties in with financial responsibility. That's one main reason why relationships fail. Because the guy has been through some rough times in life and learn to save his money for when hard times come. But the wife, or girlfriend ate still imature and think you should spend it on them or they think you don't love them. But when the clothes washer and dryer breaks, where is the emergency money to buy a new one? See, that's where the problem is today's women are imature High school mentality. They're self esteem based on what others have.
Men navigate the world differently. If you could spend $100 on a outfit that gets you $1000 worth of FREE drinks. FREE drugs. FREE money... It makes sense. Ive had girls who work at my club go 12k in debt for surgery and start pulling +300% in tips, documented. So I couldn't even tell them they shouldn't do these things when the girls with work done are getting random $200 tips with phone numbers attached. It makes you sick of beta males.
Most women expect their guy to keep things Hot and Exciting when it’s their job to keep it exciting and hot for your man Any woman that can not understand her man worth will always be a problem some Women today are totally overwhelming and have way to many distractions
I feel bad if a gold digger date me because I’m huge car guy and will spend money on car parts and mod my cars if she doesn’t like it go ahead the door! She can go find a bum and a sugar daddy I’m sugar daddy on my own
"What if she got that body right?" Her body is not a factor. It's a distraction. It's temptation. That makes no difference whatsoever, because she could look good for you one day and look better for someone else the next day. When she finds herself living in regret, LEAVE HER THERE!!! DO NOT FALL FOR HER TEMPTATION!!! LEAVE! HER! ALONE!!!!!!!!!
to be fair you don't see how things turn out until it's too late, so while friends will be watching and seeing all that "fun" they likely will become P.O.M.E in the process of watching.
They get bored and they get bored quick. Until they see you with someone else or multiple women. Suddenly the interest returns immediately. All women aren't like this though. There's still mentally healthy women out there.
Try to keep her intrigued, if that works, GOOD you kept a good one. Keep in mind, there's a type that doesn't want to be kept, she never grew up and she wants to impress her friends. They hang in packs! Listen to them talk.
A wedding vow is about duty, honor and responsibility. It's not the partner's job to solve your "boredom." Modern women have the attention span of a hamster.
My kids mother left me right after my mom died from cancer for a guy I thought was my friend,now they are going through it,vengeance is mine says the Lord 🙏
My girl left a week before I was scheduled for surgery and we had a horrible diagnosis in my family. They run on a program and TRULY don’t care. Whatever serves them in the moment is the road they will travel
God had already answered the prayers of so many black women who prayed for a good and righteous man, but the women dumped the man for being good or too nice.
Well when they choose to leave and go talk to another guy then want to come back if u only dating she can do that but if she was in a committed relationship a man doesn't always want them back.
I agree especially if the two of them was casually talking here and there they both have a right to talk to other people but if they both decided that they were in a committed relationship with each other and one chooses to leave to explore other options then he or she needs to stay where they thought the grass was greener.
I had my ex hit me with the "accidental" call at some ridiculous time on a Saturday, months after I just stopped trying to work things out. She was cyber stalking me for ages. When I finally, I just thought to myself, do you really think I'm that stupid to think you didn't mean to call me, even though we haven't spoken for 3-4 month's. Really, she probably missed me or whatever but didn't wanna admit it...the silence is deafening We spoke briefly,but it had been so long , I had time to reflect,and I wasn't rlly feeling her like that anymore,lol. I think she could kinda sense it. Been another couple month's since.
I hate the fact that bad women makes other good women look bad. The hilarious part is..... I am on my journey to become someone and who knows maybe win a Nobel piece prize. Thank you for speaking the TRUTH!
Thank you 💯 percent facts, everything you’re saying is facts! It happened to me..TWICE lol. One was my ex wife and one was an long term ex girlfriend after my divorce and these same women, who wanted to “explore their options”, and they’re STILL trying to come back to me even years later Lol! But now I’m with a good woman that finally appreciates me for what I bring and who I am, seven years and doing great! And these same women,are still trying to get me away from my current girlfriend lol.
Of course. Good men hold women accountable. Great men get snatched up so quick. I've never been single for more than a month since I was 15. Smart women choose quickly and stick with it.
4 years ago, my ex-wife left after 18 years together. At first, i thought i missrd her.... until i reaized i missed her dog more than her. I didn't miss her at all. I moved on and never looked back. She thought she could do better. She ran into major health issues, nearly lost a foot from an infection, during the divorce. I met another woman that appreciated me, finalized the divorce, and took my health insurance with me.
My wife of 23 years left me and our family of 4 adult children living in Maui to go be with a married man with no job. Of course it lasted only until I filed for divorce. She now lives in St Louis in a government assisted living facility on welfare.
I've since found someone who appreciates having a good man. We married last year.
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So happy for you, congrats!
Amen 🙏 brother God is a God of compensation and consolation
Sorry but this shit funny 🤣🤣😭😭😭☠️☠️☠️
Congratulations
My ex wife showed up at my mother's funeral, 20 years after she walked out, telling me she wanted to come back. GTFOH!!!
huh?
Sick Lid 🏃🏾walk away/No to Rebound
Life done beat her up...the wall is undefeated
She thought she could catch you when needed someone to lean on 😒😒😒
Great Points Brothers. I Didn't Want To Make A Scene At The Funeral So I Kinda Let Her Believe It Was Possible. When She Called I Hit "Block Number." 😂🤣😅
Let them leave and never take them back.
If she leaves before Christmas that was the best present to get.
me and my ex of 7 months broke up on Christmas didnt even get 2 give her and her fam the gifts.. F her, her kids and mama gotta new chick and our 1st date is tomorrow and im excited stay on your purpose and leave the past in the past
Just happened to me.......realist shit ever💯💯💯
@@deejae2489 bro I think you need to focus on yourself for now
@@tradinwarstoriez5641 stacking money n building bro bout 2 either do clothes or art
Talk to 'em!
When a woman leaves there's is no coming back. My wife just left me. To blessed to be stressed.
Real thank god
I totally agree with you if she wants to leave that,s her problem for there,ll be no 2nd chances after that.
At the end of the day, she only played herself.
word
At the end of the day, The day gotta end
This is exactly why a man must have an abundant mindset
I also want to add, women get validation from men anywhere they go whether is supermarket, workplace, in the traffic on the road etc. just because they have a good physique, which makes it very easy for them to cheat on their man. It is much easier for a woman to cheat than a man.
@@oilmin2271 women will always have more opportunities than men
The moment she says, "I'm YOUNG! I wanna explore my options!", that's when I'll be the gentleman I've always been and open the door for her...to leave.
Tyrone Williams - As an older man I can say that America has got even many of these 50-60 year old women delusional thinking that they want to play their options too. Still haven’t figured out that a man paying them attention doesn’t mean they care about them! Still in the hoe phase like they’re 20 years of age and have “their whole future” in front of them😅!!!
Lmfao 😂😂😂
Lol
If you Woman is in the Streets?? Then she for the Streets...!! And you Leave her Ass in the Streets!!!!and you better not take her back!!! 💖💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
I don't deal with our women
But if I am perusing the Skreets, why wouldn’t I trust a Big Butt and a Smile, For One Night!!! Maybe ✌🏾nights🤷🏾♂️...I’m gone drop you off where I found you🚌
Facts
Real
Never let her come back ….EVER
I never understood why women think they can go out and have sex with other men; start relationships; and then think they can go back.
Selfishness from their side. They cheat more than we think
It’s their egos. Simps have gassed them up so much that they can’t even fathom a man NOT Wanting them. Until they run into a REAL Man with Self Respect and who Values himself. And right then and there is when they gon’ learn today.
@@TheRealest127 That shit perplexes the hell out of me because they would never do that shit. I’m batting at 99% of them trying to come back and I’m like HTTFN. Like I’m gonna take you back after you been getting banged out for the last 6 months to a year. It took that for you to realize I’m your best option? Shiddddd I can’t trust you because you have bad judge of character. I send all of their asses packing. Nope. Gone over there.
It’s because if we did it they’d take us back, they find it attractive. They can’t understand a world that doesn’t operate through their own lens. Even if you explicitly tell a woman, “touch another man and there’s never a chance”…….doesn’t matter they’ll still try this foolery.
Crazy asf
I'm an old man now... but I have had more than a few women try to get back in the seat they used to have.... saying I was a good man. Still angry at me but wishing they had a time machine to undo the mess they made in their bad choices
They all been ran through by men and life .
Wow! Aaaye this has happened to me too, recently!! One even CRIED HER HEART OUT in front of her friends confession her sorrow for how she did me.... and came looking for me 25yrs later.
Found me on FB.
But its the closure for ME!!!
AND I politely said "No thanks" & DENIED her ANY HOPE of everrrrrrr having ME again in life!!💪🏿
Why angry at you?
@@antilaw9911 Women often place blame on you or anyone prior to you on you...we are seen as all one continuous line...a build up of all her frustration from life. And somehow the next guy is supposed to be the " right man".… It's easier to blame the men in her life rather than face her own issues.
And u let them com back WTF
You got to let her go and never take her back. If She leaves she is a goner for good.
I agree & you don,t deserve nothing toxic in your life once she leaves there,s no coming back sorry.
I absolutely hate when they try to come back after having multiple kids, by multiple guys, got their tubes tide, and still have the audacity, and arrogance to think they're still a prize.
RIGHT. IM LIKE R U SERIOUS? FOH
💯 facts
Love u sister,
Sister does women belongs to the street. Godspeed.
Sister they no where it were good at all the time. They belong to the street. So when they leave don't take them back. Peace ✌️.
Real talk...six years ago my ex-wife left me. Three times this woman tried to come back!!! Saying I'm sorry and I love you. Nope I'm good. Since than I started two businesses and got my life back right. Yet never been worried.
Amen broh
Well done brother.
That’s good business 😎✊🏽
💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽👏🏾👏🏾
Good job man
Going through this right now 🤦🏽♂️ I’m definitely a good man and she definitely going to regret it.
When a woman gets bored in the relationship, has she done anything to spice it up or put it all on the man? It’s always a 2 way street.
It’s always all on the man. This is the way it is. They’re children. You’re using logic. They don’t. It’s not a 2 way street. See how she talks about her husband? He raised her. She was 21 when they got together. She thinks the way he thinks. When I was w my ex it was the same thing. I got her when she was 21. But I was too stupid to marry her and move her in. So other people started to sway her. I was just busy working. Lost her 6 years later.
@@albertodeulofeu5277 damn you on point with that.
Never listen to a women.
I was thinking the same thing
If you feel the relationship is boring do something to spice things up but no that to much works
Just blame the other partners
remember it's always our fault
Straight Up!! Let them go!!! Real Women will hold on to a Real Man!!! And She's not letting him go!!!! 💯
Removing negative energy from your life is not an option its mandatory if you cant be yourself around anyone then they are toxic to your wellbeing and cut them lose with out a hesitation. Live the best version of you growth is necessary.
Yea I agree i don’t allow fuckery or peons in my life regardless of history on my way to becoming a self made millionaire
MY WIFE LEFT 40 YEARS AGO WHEN SHE LOOKED LIKE HALLE BERRY NOW SHE LOOK LIKE CHUCK BERRY
My ex wife too😂😂 , my ex wife got tattoos every where 350 lbs 😮NOPE...
Mine looked like Vivica Fox & now looks like Redd Foxx.
So true...wish I would of just let my ex years back leave when she wanted to...took me years to realize that chasing these folks will just destroy your confidence. Stay up fellas!
Yeah, NEVER CHASE! That only gives them power over you.
Sometimes as men we suffer because we don't want to take advise.What she is saying is 100% true, perhaps there are very many women and the right one will surely pop in.Dont you ever run after someone who already left you for just a minor reason
Or season
Guys. Never let a woman be your purpose. Always keep the abundance mindset, and understand if a woman wants to leave, help her pack. Let her go. Don't even attempt to put up a rebuttal. Some of these cases on here, WOW!
Let her see how green that grass is
Quick sand
The grass is greener on the other side cause is full of bullsh!t
A woman who is bored is equivalent to a child who has everything but don't appreciate what they have!!!!! 🙂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This was good! My ex wife’s friend dm’d me 6 weeks ago prying into my business asking me if I was married, had a gf and if I’ve spoken to my ex lately. I was thinking to myself, *itch please! I haven’t seen or spoken to her in almost 8yrs, I know what this is. I just simply told her my life is going really good and I like to keep it that way and that I move forward and not backwards. Regret is a horrible feeling to live with. We need more women to speak truth to power about these kind of mistakes. The wall is undefeated and no high value man with any sense will step down and back because someone overvalued themselves in the Sexual Market Place and thought they could monkey branch up. #facts
They get bored with guys that don't like drama!
Man I aint tryna make my life toxic with drama and drain my mental health for these lame ass broads that dont bring shit to the table
Facts 💯
Word,
Been there. Tired of toxic chics. It's a plague out here. Lol
Yep, so then they try to sabotage the relationship.
“...When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things...”- 1st Corinthians 13:11. Men, if your woman steps to you with this foolishness, tell her to go follow her desires and don’t ever look back...
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Amen 💯💯💯💯💯
Amen.
Preachhhhhh
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Once it's broken it's irreparable. Like that old Soul to Soul song said "keep on moving don't stop"
Real
Bored? Entertain who? I got to get this money to create a life for a family. A real women is not leaving. A headache of a woman/girl leaving is a true blessing. My brothers, God, purpose, family, and you will never lose. It’s that simple. Continue to evolve. Peace.
Amen!
True indeed
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If she step out let her go. Community property will be just that
Older women now are now on some grass in greener sh*t. Since black don't crack they go into a second childhood. Women between 45 and 50 still finding excitement in the streets.
If excitement is what you want and risk thats fine.. You don't get the benefits of having a stable home.
Older than that I know this 60 plus on the CC
@@vanderumd11 That's the truth there 💯
@@BernardBethea6339 ,so true bro my wife and i got a divorced for that same things and her grown ass son, she's 60 and i'm 68 talking about i don't
do nothing.
Don’t nobody want no old cougar spinster ran through dramatic ass ole lady lol
The " Drama Queen " .... She goes from the adrenaline rushes to becoming an " Excitement Junkie " . & then lose a good man . 😞
Don't spice it up, let her go and find someone who is ok with predictability. They are out there. Because if that's truly who you are you shouldn't have to change especially if that's how you focus and stay on track with your goals & providing. If she wants spice she'll find ways to spice it up herself!
Exactly that's what i was disagreeing with her on because like why should i have tp change who i really am I'm simple and direct and basic I'll just be patient and manifest me a woman who is like this aswell.
I could write book on the comeback lol , 🤣 , stay on your purpose fellas, great show
Don't leave something that is good to what you think is better. Cause when you realize better ain't good, good is found better! It's too late then
ALL my exes could have been on this show. LOL.
98%+ of them have come back (trying to rekindle something)...
If she leaves it's her loss ✌️
She may regret what she left and decide she want it back but I don't take leftovers. You can't give that Sorry Dog the Best and then offer me the Rest! If you gotta taste the Rainbow before you know that my Flavor is the one for you then I am not for you, Period.
Damn bro that shit you just said right here was 💯 well said fam..💯
@@izrealwalking5421 🤣,facts tho
@@zackzues4830 yea that ish" was Gospel💯
@@izrealwalking5421 💯
@modivated1 that’s to much Sauce Playa lol
Like TD Jakes said : when someone walks out your life let them Go 🚶♀️.
Imagine not having a "Predictable" income. Wouldn't that be a scary feeling?? Now apply that same logic to an "Unpredictable" partner that you can't rely on when it matters the most.
facts
@duntaebuck OMG my G...!!
This comment should have 1 million likes hands down.!
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Felt that deep in my core being.!
Damn bra.!
Hit it dead on the nose man!
True ....imagine if the sun was unpredictable
Thought outside the box on this one ☝️ lmao😏😏😏😏
Your husband is a lucky guy you have a good personality and spirit plus you funny as hell too 💯 😂
He knows it and she knows it lol
Its that Aquarius
🤣😂😂💪🏼💯she something else
Boring: you are not moving in a way that will be tempting yourself to cheat or get into something, therefore you are basically “not giving her room to do it...”
Very well said!!
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Who wants to spend the time and effort on a woman who jus don't deserve you anymore by their pervious actions not me!! Not every woman is the same tho you got my trust 💯 since we decided to be in a relationship with each until that trust is broken 💔 💯 but until then its us against who ever come for our relationship 💯 👊🏼❤
Wow that's what it is. This makes so much sense on so many levels
Can The Church Say Amen To This One FrFr 🎯🎯💯💯💯
I’m so glad I watched this video. My wife left 5 months ago and treated her above great and I hear she is regretting it
I look at all the chicks from my past and they are miserable and I'm eating my popcorn laughing
I love your videos. Here what I'm gonna tell all men and women.
If you are doing everything good, loving them; being serious, honest, respectful and loyal to them, and people leave you or cheat on you, leave them or let them go, and NEVER EVER put them in your life.
It's no one's responsibility to make you happy but you. I rather be with a routine individual than sitting around wasting my time wondering if my spouse is being faithful. Nobody got time for all that nonsense!!!
Stability comes with boredom
Crazy thing is most wymen begging for someone to marry them. Not realizing marriage is mundane and most days will be routine and boring that’s why they call it stability and security. Just shows you most wymen want a wedding but most can’t handle the maturity that comes with a marriage
Our women are lost
Exactly How A Child Would Think.A Child Just See His Fav Actor Acting & Goes " I Want To Be An Actor" but not Knowing He Was On A Set Overseas For 6 Months To Shoot That Role.The Kid Don't Wanna Be Actor.He Want The Glam Of Being An Actor Just As The Woman Don't Want A Marriage.She Wanted The Glam Of A Marriage Which Is The Wedding 🅿️
Damn I got married when I was 22 and now I'm 32 I've been divorced for 7 years. And my ex wife definitely use to say I am predictable. We got divorced and 4 months later she got pregnant by another man. But she said words to me that I thought I wouldn't ever hear come from her. And they where very kind and nice I forgave her but my grass is very green on my side and I constantly watering it every day though the growth that I developed from my first marriage.💯
"You never know what you have til its gone"......she must be regretting it inside.
Lol
Thank god
@@danmarley2926 real
Man I know that shit hurt G keep going
Never commit, only to yourself
THERE IS NO COMING BACK KEEP IT PUSHING IAM GOOD ON YOU !!!
That's the problem as women. We normalize toxic relationships as signs of real love. A.K.A. Struggle Love= Real Love. All of this goes back to not knowing our worth and not believing that if we change our mindset and outlook on our lives we can achieve more.
Too much damn reality TV!
Lol
This was on point!! Exactly what I’m going though right now!! She been texting me off and on for the past 4 months after being broken up for a year. She definitely regrets it! Keep up the good work. We appreciate u D’Nieka!
go no contact for good
You can lapse. If it isn't the woman of your dreams let it go. Find a hobby. My exes still send bday wishes and all and I always reply with the blatant truth. I've never been happier.
Bro imagine your your son or daughter, what advice do you give yourself? Stay away, you deserve better. Why can't you see that son/daughter? Where did I fail that you would put up with such disrespect.
Be blessed.
You ain't never lie, I took her back and got dragged again! 🤔...
All good. Don’t take her ass back a 3rd time. Let her Feel it For the Rest of her life.
@@TheRealest127 🤣Mos Def!...
Me too I was so DUMB & IN LOVE I took my ex back 4 times & each time she did me wrong & left me & hurt me I'm still sad about it till this day
@@vVersacev what?! Sorry to hear that, I always felt like it's a myth. This is why women always looked at me like it wasn't possible that I would wish them the best and never ever speak again.
@@TheRealest127 that’s why I never go back after we are done. I’m done
When she leaves she will never return
Sometimes I went back once or twice we was going different rodes more or less traveled
Nah she will return but only after she been passed around the neighbourhood
@@steveross4151 lol
This is a breath of fresh air, I'm thankful for every trial and tribulation, fellas focus on you and your purpose when they get to cutting up ... nothing is made to be perfect but its made to be the best that you can make it worth , yeah its gonna hurt but guess what that pain is only temporary
How bout that spontaneous house mortgage, gas and light bill he pays? How bout that exciting water bill? Don't forget that bad boy car note and insurance! Bore me some more 😴
1:50 come on!!! That actually happened to me! Aww man, she hit the brick wall! I have no remorse whatsoever. I have moved on, and remarried, bought a house, made more money, etc. Life goes on.
Yessir!!! 💪🏾
I'm low key, not into arguing and acting crazy. My now-ex fell into the trap of a guy and talked her into leaving for a "better life". HA! I said "Yeahokbye." With her life now, she comes home from work and has to mow the lawn while he uses the edger! WTF! Oh, he's retired and at home all day. She's been slapped to the floor and she's been called names. He has her on a TIGHT schedule. She freely admits she's miserable. Oh well. Better get back out there and get that lawn.
I’m 58 divorced twice , have three kids and all are doing good , I busted my tail to get them where they need to go , I just want to relax now , I live alone and do what I want now , both thought the grass was greener , well for 9 months it was rough , now , a women is not required financially I’m good , now I enjoy cooking and working around the house , so if yu want excitement and drama that’s next door , not here . I DONT CHASE ,, I REPLACE …
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53 and divorced twice !! 2nd almost destroyed me , even though I was at fault !! But 2 wrongs don't make it right !! I also lost my father during my divorce!! God , Family and My Combat Bruthaz helped me pull through !! Everyday it does get easier once you become Transparent and take accountability !! Respect and Salute 🫡 🙏
If someone in your life, is able to walk away from you, THEN LET THEM WALK
Most of them can't be entertained enough. Now matter what the man does. Been through that more than once. And never will I take any of them back.
That’s because they are children when they talk like that
I was predictable before, now Im out doing business all day. Different predictablity
Monkey branching. She won't let go of one branch, until she has a death grip on the next one. Men, mark it as experience and carry one.
this lady really needs a gold medal for the Great IQ she got respect💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿🙌🏿
40:54😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣She put that mama voice on.🤣🤣😂😂🤣😂U BETTER NOT TAKE HER BACK!!!!!Said between clenched teeth 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
You are what you eat protect your energy people
She is on top of her game.
If you're entertaining dysfunction, then you can't cry about wanting peace.
They don't reside in the same house.
It all ties in with financial responsibility. That's one main reason why relationships fail. Because the guy has been through some rough times in life and learn to save his money for when hard times come. But the wife, or girlfriend ate still imature and think you should spend it on them or they think you don't love them. But when the clothes washer and dryer breaks, where is the emergency money to buy a new one? See, that's where the problem is today's women are imature High school mentality. They're self esteem based on what others have.
Men navigate the world differently. If you could spend $100 on a outfit that gets you $1000 worth of FREE drinks. FREE drugs. FREE money... It makes sense. Ive had girls who work at my club go 12k in debt for surgery and start pulling +300% in tips, documented. So I couldn't even tell them they shouldn't do these things when the girls with work done are getting random $200 tips with phone numbers attached. It makes you sick of beta males.
You are so wise!! This sounds like TM’s exact story.
Even if they appreciate me later, i don’t want you anymore honey lmao, go appreciate someone else
Once its given away. It doesn't have personal value
@@vanderumd11 🎯
You can treat them good or you can treat them bad they gone always be on the lookout for something new
Most women expect their guy to keep things Hot and Exciting when it’s their job to keep it exciting and hot for your man Any woman that can not understand her man worth will always be a problem some Women today are totally overwhelming and have way to many distractions
I feel bad if a gold digger date me because I’m huge car guy and will spend money on car parts and mod my cars if she doesn’t like it go ahead the door! She can go find a bum and a sugar daddy I’m sugar daddy on my own
I don't need a toxic woman in my life been there done that
"What if she got that body right?" Her body is not a factor. It's a distraction. It's temptation. That makes no difference whatsoever, because she could look good for you one day and look better for someone else the next day. When she finds herself living in regret, LEAVE HER THERE!!!
DO NOT FALL FOR HER TEMPTATION!!!
LEAVE! HER! ALONE!!!!!!!!!
This shit is for the birds. I’m happier single.
Why don’t they just watch their friends with the excitement guys, and see how that female lives
to be fair you don't see how things turn out until it's too late, so while friends will be watching and seeing all that "fun" they likely will become P.O.M.E in the process of watching.
Friends lie about the reality. I've seen it and its sad.
Salute to your husband. And salute to you for soaking up game. Real life game.
They get bored and they get bored quick. Until they see you with someone else or multiple women. Suddenly the interest returns immediately. All women aren't like this though. There's still mentally healthy women out there.
This ish was sooooo good I listened to it twice 💪🏾💪🏾 yes mam “ don’t even give a shit if she regrets it or not “ !!!!!
Real like who.cares
And it’s so sad women are like that🙄
Very
It's why a lot of us have given up
@@a.wilkerson2nd334 fact
@@a.wilkerson2nd334 give up on western women, they are broken.
🤣 Free at last free at last!!
That God all mighty I'm free at last!!
Old ran through and tired 💯🖤
Exactly bruh getting ran through like Barry Sanders in his prime, bih bye👋🏾😭🤣
On godddd
Try to keep her intrigued, if that works, GOOD you kept a good one. Keep in mind, there's a type that doesn't want to be kept, she never grew up and she wants to impress her friends. They hang in packs! Listen to them talk.
A wedding vow is about duty, honor and responsibility. It's not the partner's job to solve your "boredom." Modern women have the attention span of a hamster.
Exactly,
Facts
🤣😂Twister got roasted, Cooked, Flamed, burnt, and Baked all at the same time. 🥰 loved it.😂😅🥹
My kids mother left me right after my mom died from cancer for a guy I thought was my friend,now they are going through it,vengeance is mine says the Lord 🙏
My girl left a week before I was scheduled for surgery and we had a horrible diagnosis in my family. They run on a program and TRULY don’t care. Whatever serves them in the moment is the road they will travel
@@ITR1329 so true
God had already answered the prayers of so many black women who prayed for a good and righteous man, but the women dumped the man for being good or too nice.
Well when they choose to leave and go talk to another guy then want to come back if u only dating she can do that but if she was in a committed relationship a man doesn't always want them back.
I agree especially if the two of them was casually talking here and there they both have a right to talk to other people but if they both decided that they were in a committed relationship with each other and one chooses to leave to explore other options then he or she needs to stay where they thought the grass was greener.
Yup I don't
I had my ex hit me with the "accidental" call at some ridiculous time on a Saturday, months after I just stopped trying to work things out. She was cyber stalking me for ages. When I finally, I just thought to myself, do you really think I'm that stupid to think you didn't mean to call me, even though we haven't spoken for 3-4 month's. Really, she probably missed me or whatever but didn't wanna admit it...the silence is deafening
We spoke briefly,but it had been so long , I had time to reflect,and I wasn't rlly feeling her like that anymore,lol. I think she could kinda sense it. Been another couple month's since.
I hate the fact that bad women makes other good women look bad. The hilarious part is..... I am on my journey to become someone and who knows maybe win a Nobel piece prize. Thank you for speaking the TRUTH!
She left for that artificial turf..lol
Facts my ex is trying to talk to me hear n there but she knows she f$&ked up lol and she’s 40 and I’m 30
Loved your show!!♥️
Thank you 💯 percent facts, everything you’re saying is facts! It happened to me..TWICE lol. One was my ex wife and one was an long term ex girlfriend after my divorce and these same women, who wanted to “explore their options”, and they’re STILL trying to come back to me even years later Lol! But now I’m with a good woman that finally appreciates me for what I bring and who I am, seven years and doing great! And these same women,are still trying to get me away from my current girlfriend lol.
Of course. Good men hold women accountable. Great men get snatched up so quick. I've never been single for more than a month since I was 15. Smart women choose quickly and stick with it.
4 years ago, my ex-wife left after 18 years together. At first, i thought i missrd her.... until i reaized i missed her dog more than her. I didn't miss her at all. I moved on and never looked back.
She thought she could do better. She ran into major health issues, nearly lost a foot from an infection, during the divorce.
I met another woman that appreciated me, finalized the divorce, and took my health insurance with me.
I subscribed when she said I see why you have sucker in your name lol... I felt that part
For one, they over look you,by listening to other,women,or dude,s who,then soon as you glowd up and level,d up.its like wow