Why is no one talking about the last one?!?! The train, the awful poem, the smack in the head, and the “I really thought it was sweet”. I’ve been laughing for an hour because of it😂🤣
@@Random-xw1fg thanks for sharing. I had an inkling when the train said, "not so sweet". Still, there's a lesson in how he didn't stop when she tried to get him to stand up. He didn't care about her, he wanted the attention. Unfortunately, many men are that entitled
god that was terrifying. first half was cringe. then she hit him with that wooden thing. i was horrified. she even tried to stop him. dont think they were even dating. maybe they were just friends?
Proposing in a public place is not problematic since: A MAN SHOULD BE READY FOR ANYTHING. Men should get over any type of embarrassment after the age of 18 seriously. Also most of these guys are all desperate who can't "take the hit" because they are very poor seducers, they got stuck on that woman and not they act like it's the end of the world it's not. In the next 45 years (rest of their lifetime on average) there will exist 40 BILLION women. They have a lot of options, they're just oblivious to them.
Lmao thats such a stupid statement. Men should get over embarrassment at 18? HAHAH WHAT?! You speak as if on your 18th birthday, a man suddenly looses his ability to feel emotions that would then make him feel embarrassed? Do you have any idea how the human brain works? Also why do men have to stop feeling embarrassed once their an adult? That's incredibly sexist. You can't generalise the men in this video either, because you have no idea how strongly they felt towards their partner, what they are like in their romantic lives etc all of which would influence why and how they propse... This comment was so dumb i had to call you out on it
I would hate a private proposal, my guy already knows I want be married to him. Him asking me privately is like him asking if I want pizza tonight. Duh, of course I do. What a stupid question.
@Layla BTS because a lot of the romantic norms of our society are based on the idea of women, and their sexuality, being a commodity that can be bought, traded for, etc.
@Layla BTS There are definitely a lot of sexiest ideologies that are deeply engrained in our society. I my opinion, a lot of feminists are only seeking equality in areas that are beneficial to women, and not total equality in all things. But honestly, you can't really judge those that are fighting for equal pay for equal work and things of that nature.
Michelle Ohai men asking for permission 2 get married is so boring and 1950s candy crap! I'm glad USA divorce rate is 50% ish. Stick it to them foolish atheist "women"
The last one fucking killed me; the waffling, the train coming through, the band playing completely out of place, the whack in the head with the ukulele… absolute perfection 😂
These guys are idiots for doing this in front of hundreds and thousands of people, putting a girl on the spot basically. Ending up embarrassing themselves.
I'm grateful that my boyfriend didn't want to make a scene when he proposed! He went into a park and kept looking behind us to make sure no one was around (It made me feel like someone was following us! Ha ha) We're getting married next month ^_^ About 2 months after he proposed I asked him if he was a girl and a dude did something like this, what would he do. He told me "I would say yes so I wouldn't embarrass him, and when we got away from everyone then I'd tell him the truth!" I thought that was interesting... ha ha
Jay Mills Exactly what I'd do. You don't want to scar a guy for life or even just make him embarrassed like that, so you say yes first then tell him privately how you really feel. Those close to you will eventually find out, but nothing like rejecting him in front of a huge crowd of strangers.
Jay Mills Exactly...even though they would probably never meet him again, there would be the "Remember the guy who was rejected at the ballgame last year?" Still mortifying...
You know, I always thought the girls who slapped the guys after proposing were being a tad over-dramatic and selfish, but that guy absolutely deserved it.
@@eli-oh3oq, of course it is, but we have that mechanism because some people haven't learned to deal with fear 😂 or have inability to read body language ect haha I just feel bad for all involved.
You can just see from the women's body language how much they don't want what's coming. Note to everyone - men and women: DO NOT PROPOSE IN PUBLIC unless you are 100% sure their answer will be yes (meaning you've discussed marriage beforehand and you know they like public displays).
JL Davies Absolutely. My fiancé proposed at a restaurant, but we’d talked about it for over a year and I knew the proposal was coming *eventually* , I just didn’t know how (and he knew I was totally onboard with something public). It turned out absolutely magical, but if I were a shy person, or if we hadn’t talked about marriage, then it might have been a total fail.
@@ushoys Unless they discussed it with their girlfriend beforehand and she was enthusiastically onboard, there's no way they could have been 100% sure.
lol tbh if I didn't wanna marry the guy and it was in public I'd faint so I could atleast turn him down in private later. ((but also idk wh yid be with someone who I couldn't picture marrying))
A lot of the people in the comments are right - there are multiple conversations that need to happen before you get to a proposal to avoid feeling humiliated in front of a crowd. Marriage absolutely needs to be discussed before any sort of proposal. You can’t spring that on people out of the blue. Make sure you’re on the same page about where you want your relationship to go. There are a lot of things people may want to talk about or experience before feeling ready to get engaged. It’s also beneficial to talk about what kind of proposal you want/your significant other wants long before that day comes. Some people may want a public proposal, and that’s okay. Some don’t. Ask the person you want to propose to a while ahead of time what they want, or if you would be the person getting proposed to, speak up and say something about your preferences. I made it extremely clear to my husband on multiple occasions that I did not want to be proposed to in public, so he was respectful and didn’t propose in public. Granted, there will always be some people who have a change of heart when the question is finally “popped,” but a lot of these public letdowns in the videos could definitely have been prevented. I wish these people the best of luck in the future and hope they get their happy endings.
If I propose to a girl I'm doing it in private so I don't have to live with the humiliation if it's a no, and if she says yes then the fact no one else is around would make it more special.
Lessons taken from this video: 1. **DON'T** even think about having a huge crowd, unless you've asked about that possibility. Some girls might be fine with a few friends around, but that's it. 2. TALK ABOUT THE POSSIBILITY OF MARRIAGE **BEFORE** PROPOSING!! (gosh, this should be #1) 3. Maybe talk about who would rather do the proposing? That last video - the train had me laughing so hard!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@troywright359 And that's not the same in public how so? I'd much rather an honest and realistic answer than pressuring someone into a decision she doesn't want to commit
Anita Biot I agree. It must suck for a girl. A girl might love a man and still not be ready for marriage and when she rejects a proposal it must be hard to continue a relationship with the man even thought she wants to get married in the future
9:04, I’m so sorry, but this one has to be the best one. The poem, the band, the random singing train, and the ukulele slam to the head to top it all off. *italian hand kiss thing* marvelous.
Pro tip, guys--a surprise proposal out of the blue might sound romantic, but getting married is a big deal, and if you haven't talked about it with the girl, she might freak out, and rightly so. But even more than that, never, never, NEVER, put her in the position of making the biggest decision of her life on TV in front of tons of people. It's inconsiderate, presumptuous, and it leads to public humiliation for all involved. Don't do it. If you want to marry the girl, TALK TO HER. You don't have to disclose when and where and how you're going to propose, but if you're going to be married, you need to be on the same page. True for the proposal and for the rest of your lives together.
Beautifully said. I agree 100%. But there is one huge thing that bothers me a lot and that is " together for the rest of our lives". Who can guarantee that any marriage, or anything in the world, will and can last for the rest of one's life? That is an empty and cheesy phrase. Nothing is for sure except the fact that the only person you will live for the rest of your life with is you with yourself. That is actually the only thing that is carved in stone.
@Suga's grandpa dance Infired me so hard you like kpop, do you need help with your nonexistent good taste, bitch? this is just to show how stupid you sound treating people as bitch or dumb/brainless in an attempt to sound smarter
@@mysterysunfurled What does someone's taste in music have to do with anything? Not everyone likes the same music. You are a hypocrite calling her a bitch and then getting mad because she called someone else a bitch you dumbass
@@wonderland1492 it was to show how stupid the comment sounded lol. I was copying them because it sounds dumb to call someone a bitch or brainless, just makes you sound childish.
Can we NOT normalize public proposals anymore please? Its such an immature and unrealistic progression into a marriage that it needs to stop. Most married couples usually talk about it before they put a ring on. None of this one knee down and open the box bs. Sheesh, my Fiance and I just bought each other rings and off we went to plan our marriage vacation and life. No public proposal. No seen. Just priorities and adulting.
Come on, getting married and spending the rest of your life together should be a decision you've discussed and agreed to, rather than a yes/no question in public when one person out of the couple feels like it.
I agree. I bet some of these people didn’t run away because they said “no,” they ran because they were overwhelmed and needed time to think about it and *talk* about it *IN PRIVATE*
Absolutely the most dead-heart robot-like proposal, right? Yah...not so sweet was exactly what I was thinking. What's with proposing after 3 months too? Super weird.
I hate when guys trying to propose a girl in the public places. If u really love someone , propose her in a private environment so both of u enjoy the moment.
Sirius Black it's not but being married gives you that bond. not being married gives you an easy way out. you are more likely not going to work through the hard times.
I am a married guy, father of a wonderful daugher. Me and my wife took the decision to spend our lives together, well... together. We discussed it a lot before announcing it to anyone. Why do people feel compelled to propose in public ? It's a very tough decision, that will change your life forever. Don't expect your partner to take it on the spot in front of everyone, without the time to properlly reflect upon it, without the time to talk to you about it. Don't transform this commitment into a little show just because it makes a better story.
Widemore well it's also cause not everyone takes marriage or hell relationships seriously anymore. Which is pretty depressing. Not all. But these people do exist.
The only times I think it's okay to publically propose to someone is if you're absolutely 100% sure the other person is going to say yes anyway, otherwise you risk publically humiliating yourself, and you're putting unfair pressure on the other person to say yes.
MuffinTails exactly, like personally I would love to be proposed in public since I’m more of a social and extroverted person but there are some people out there who are more shy and introverted who would probably hate being put in this situation.
I didn't so much ask as dare my wife to marry me. She took the challenge and 20 years strong. Mad respect to those that say no though. It shows me that at least a few people out there still value marriage and how serious it is.
When you propose in public in front of a crowd you aren't being romantic, you are forcing her to either give you the answer you want or look like the bad guy. Proposing in front of a crowd makes it about you, which means you just don't get women yet and aren't ready for marriage.
Sure, if that is the case. Often times it seems more about putting someone on the spot so they cant say no. If you are constantly telling your man you want him to propose, then yeah, nothing wrong at all with it. As we see in this video and 50 more like it, they don't know the girl is going to say yes.
It's not proposing in public that's the problem and that's where people like you are mistaken. The problem isn't proposing in public, the problem is proposing at the wrong time. It's not proposing itself that should be the surprise but WHEN you propose. What I mean by this, is you should already know she will say yes before you do it. Most couples will have already talked about possibly getting married after being together a while, so by that point you should already know the answer. People don't propose in public because they want to force an answer they do it because, yes, it is actually romantic (when done right). People just forget to make sure it's actually going to be a yes first before doing it, hence this video.
Proposing is supposed to be a very special, once in a lifetime thing, by not thinking it through and asking her in a crowded mall after eating greasy mall food court fast food tells me he's going to take the marriage/relationship just as seriously. It's not a good sign, to me. Personally I would rather be asked in private and I have the feeling some women said no because they felt pressured and uncomfortable by the crowds, but that's just me. If you're going to make it public, don't ask in a stupid manner/place, or don't get married at all ... why do people even get married anymore?
You are right -- shame on someone for not watching that baby more closely -- falling from that distance off a table can cause brain damage to an infant!
I actually think anyone who proposes in public DESERVES to get turned down. It's incredibly manipulative. It's like "she won't say no to me in front of all these people". It's pressuring her to say yes. Plus it's so invasive, in what should be a private romantic moment, not a freaking theatrical production. I guess I'm weird but I would just say NO. (My husband proposed to me on Valentine's Day, in the local paper's Valentine's messages, which he knew I liked to read. He knew I'd find it. )
" So he still proposed you publicly and you accepted it? " There wasn't an audience to know the result, that removes the manipulative part of the public proposal.
I'd like to believe in most cases, wanting to get married is already a mutual feeling before one partner proposes, it's just a matter of when it happens and the couple is ready for the commitment. Two people who've been together long enough have discussed their marriage plans already and how they hope their partner might propose. Hopefully the only surprise is when it happens.
Can I just say the most awkward ones are when you go “hey everyone can I have your attention” i mean if you have family around that’s one thing or to have planned it out with people but to just inturupt people that you’ve never met makes it more awkward
This video basically teaches us to not propose to people in public. Not only is it embarrassing but it is very overwhelming and just not very romantic.
Like the one at the baseball game it was so loud I felt like it was going to blow out my eardrums XD Depending on the person I would be like I'll say yes but can you redo this somewhere quieter so I can actually hear what you are saying to me XD
Abby Koos I never thought I would find people who don’t like that sort of thing. Most of the people I’ve found in different comment sections were okay with it.
Oh, please guys, do not ever propose in public, in a restaurant, at a show or a game. Be a little more romantic and private, and most important; be sure she feels the same as you do. She might like you, but that is not the same as wanting to spend the rest of her life with you.
You opinion. I would find a public proposal super romantic, he’s displaying how much he wants to marry me to the world. That’s way more romantic then him asking me to marry him privately. That would be super dull.
@@Cloverfr No, I said don't spend the real lover time... just because you want sexe or things like that ... Because it's really crazy to think that a girl who you've spend 2 or 3 years reject your proposal , by the simple excuse iy is Stressful... If you really love the person you would note hurt him.. if you date with someone is that you already love him and not start to love him... It's really romantic for many girl to be proposal like this that's a memorable day ...
A proposal should be between YOU and HER. Why would you ask everyone to look at you and tell them. Pretty sure if you just asked her in public and other people watched it'd be pretty obvious to them already lol
There are 3 rules to follow for a marriage proposal, 1. Keep it private, don't make it into a public show. 2. Make sure you've discussed marriage a good deal. 3. Actually date this person for long time(more than 2 years) and that you really know each other.
I have a big anxiety problem so if I was is the position where they were being proposed to in a crowd I would know that that person is not right for me if they do not know that I have that problem and not doing it there and then wouldn't be a good idea cuz I would probably faint start crying or I would start crying and I bet you a panic attack on the floor I know it's supposed to be a happy moment but I would kill me
7:10 how ridiculous to bring a mini-megaphone to your own proposal. Can you imagine being on the receiving of that? "WILL YOU MARRY ME" blasted from 4 feet away, clearly more interested in the attention he'll get from random strangers than actually getting married.
And just how ridiculous of the guy at 5:25 of even thinking of proposing while dressing like a 10 year old.... If a guy is gonna do that he should dress like a MAN just like your photo
It's OK to propose in public, but please make sure that you've discussed your mutual future BEFOREHAND, and that the intended lady is on the same track as you are. Save yourself the embarrassment and heartbreak.
How about her embarrassment ? To be in public like that, to sort of force the situation so she'll say yes... terrible. I know someone who tried that. He proposed to his off and on girlfriend of six months at a big celebration event because he hoped she'd say yes if he did it in front of all those people. He thought wrong. She didn't run away immediately, not like the girls in the video, but she kept saying "no, no, no, don't do this". He kept trying to give her a ring but she wouldn't take it. She broke up with him later that evening, in private, telling him she could never forgive him for pressuring and humiliating her in public, in front of all those people. When I talked with her days later, she told me she'd never even told him she loved him, but he'd thought he could bring her around with the proposal. She thought what he'd done was sadly misguided and not at all romantic being in front of all those people. She'd been very very embarrassed.
hatchling88 well obviously that's your friends problem I mean like the girl said she never told him that she loved him but tbh in that situation I would've just said yes instead of running away since that's just embarrassing for the both of us..Then after all of that is finished I'll just tell him in private that it's not gonna work out. Though honestly If I was a guy I'll ask a good friend of hers to see how she'll like the idea of that (but not spoiling it)
Yeung Joey - but if you say yes and then change your mind later, everyone is going to be super upset with you. They wont see it as if you were trying to spare him public humiliation, they'll see it as you being deceptive. I guess it doesn't matter in the long run though, because if a girl rejects a proposal publicly she's going to receive negative attention either way. I can't tell you how many times I've turned down guys only to have people tell me that I'm being picky and stuck-up and cruel because I should just "give him a chance" since he put himself out there.
tonykeo83 I guess some girls do like it. I know someone who was proposed to in a very public setting (at a speech or convention or something like that) and she thought it was most romantic thing ever. Now I on the other hand...😶
Different women have different personalities and degrees of tolerance for public displays of affection/vulnerability. Assuming every woman wants the same cliché "romantic" things is ignorant.
Luna Lovegood What he said applies to certain situations only. A lawyer wants to win the case, so he pressures his opponent to answer questions he (the lawyer) knows the answers to. And this applies to what the video is about too, since if you don't know if the girl will say yes, you'll get embarrassed when she says no.
Pls don't think I'm wicked, but when the last guy proposed and the girl hit him with an ukulele (or whatever it was) and he fell, I found it so funny 🤣😭
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DON'T. PROPOSE. WITH. A. CROWD. AROUND. YOU.
The woman shouldnt feel bad
The men should.feel so depresed
*IF. YOU. HAVENT. TALKED. ABOUT. IT. YET.
Yeah, to be on the safe side.
Yeah, to be on the safe side.
Exactly i mean som of these proposals are like in cafeterias, malls and STREETS... come on man u could've picked a more private place
Never propose in public. It's embarrassing and not romantic.
How??
@Matt Eru i think it really depends on the situation
Definitely
That depends on the person and their perception
Matt Eru what if it's a girl proposing to a guy? It can go both ways.
Why is no one talking about the last one?!?! The train, the awful poem, the smack in the head, and the “I really thought it was sweet”. I’ve been laughing for an hour because of it😂🤣
“The crazy train. Take me where I want to go”
I thought she said "i really thought it was fate" 😅
It's an old video famous to be fake
@@Random-xw1fg thanks for sharing. I had an inkling when the train said, "not so sweet". Still, there's a lesson in how he didn't stop when she tried to get him to stand up. He didn't care about her, he wanted the attention. Unfortunately, many men are that entitled
god that was terrifying. first half was cringe. then she hit him with that wooden thing. i was horrified. she even tried to stop him. dont think they were even dating. maybe they were just friends?
No one is talking about the baby falling? Terrifying.
ikr!
Shut up and piss off
Totally planned. The baby is the one who didn't want that proposal being successful.
I hate that clip. So irresponsible to have the baby just sitting on the top of the stroller like that. Wth? I'm glad the proposal was ruined
@@urmomdotcom4039 I hate that clip, too.
moral of the story: if you want to get married, make sure the other person also wants to get married... oh and don't propose in a public place
" make sure the other person also wants to get married ..." you might wanna add "to YOU!"
ashitakaharuo hahaha.
Proposing in a public place is not problematic since:
A MAN SHOULD BE READY FOR ANYTHING.
Men should get over any type of embarrassment after the age of 18 seriously.
Also most of these guys are all desperate who can't "take the hit" because they are very poor seducers, they got stuck on that woman and not they act like it's the end of the world it's not.
In the next 45 years (rest of their lifetime on average) there will exist 40 BILLION women.
They have a lot of options, they're just oblivious to them.
PrankArmyWorldWide What?
Lmao thats such a stupid statement. Men should get over embarrassment at 18? HAHAH WHAT?! You speak as if on your 18th birthday, a man suddenly looses his ability to feel emotions that would then make him feel embarrassed? Do you have any idea how the human brain works? Also why do men have to stop feeling embarrassed once their an adult? That's incredibly sexist.
You can't generalise the men in this video either, because you have no idea how strongly they felt towards their partner, what they are like in their romantic lives etc all of which would influence why and how they propse...
This comment was so dumb i had to call you out on it
Proposing is public is manipulative, its best to do it alone
I would hate a private proposal, my guy already knows I want be married to him.
Him asking me privately is like him asking if I want pizza tonight.
Duh, of course I do. What a stupid question.
@Layla BTS because a lot of the romantic norms of our society are based on the idea of women, and their sexuality, being a commodity that can be bought, traded for, etc.
@Layla BTS There are definitely a lot of sexiest ideologies that are deeply engrained in our society. I my opinion, a lot of feminists are only seeking equality in areas that are beneficial to women, and not total equality in all things. But honestly, you can't really judge those that are fighting for equal pay for equal work and things of that nature.
Layla BTS that's why divorce rate very high....
Michelle Ohai men asking for permission 2 get married is so boring and 1950s candy crap! I'm glad USA divorce rate is 50% ish. Stick it to them foolish atheist "women"
Im so sorry, but the one at 9:10 KILLED ME when the train read "NOT. SO. SWEET." 💀
I think this one is fake
😂😂😂😂😂
@@katezattthat's real
The last one fucking killed me; the waffling, the train coming through, the band playing completely out of place, the whack in the head with the ukulele… absolute perfection 😂
it's fake anyway, wasn't even that funny.
These guys are idiots for doing this in front of hundreds and thousands of people, putting a girl on the spot basically. Ending up embarrassing themselves.
I'm grateful that my boyfriend didn't want to make a scene when he proposed! He went into a park and kept looking behind us to make sure no one was around (It made me feel like someone was following us! Ha ha) We're getting married next month ^_^
About 2 months after he proposed I asked him if he was a girl and a dude did something like this, what would he do. He told me "I would say yes so I wouldn't embarrass him, and when we got away from everyone then I'd tell him the truth!" I thought that was interesting... ha ha
Jay Mills
Exactly what I'd do. You don't want to scar a guy for life or even just make him embarrassed like that, so you say yes first then tell him privately how you really feel. Those close to you will eventually find out, but nothing like rejecting him in front of a huge crowd of strangers.
Guys and girls* if you watched the video.
Mariah Thompson I know a lot of the people would never see us again, but still lol
Jay Mills
Exactly...even though they would probably never meet him again, there would be the "Remember the guy who was rejected at the ballgame last year?" Still mortifying...
Talk about marriage before you propose
Max Moore of course ! These reactions are incredible
Well thats a good idea thanks i could use that in the future
I'm wondering how people don't consider this :p
Tila Jocelyn reply me lol
Exactly! You should know the answer before you formally propose.
0:25 “everyone look - this baby would rather die than have him as a father”
*baby jumps*
Yeah... he should have consulted the baby first... 🥲
People proposing in public scream VALIDATE ME.
Most woman don't want to be proposed in public because it's embarrassing....
Ciel And Sebastian true !!
Yup.
And that's one way of knowing they're not your true love
Ciel And Sebastian Thank you!!!
Ciel And Sebastian Is that V in your dp 😂😂😂
Proposing in public is super cringy.
anything in public is super cringy.
Except for farting. That to funny cause you know someone is gunna smell it, and think to themselves, who farted
easier than doing it on her dad's couch
Joey Dolan
I think its time for your nappy wappy.
@@joe187976 I-
I like the" You're my Sweetie Pie" and then she hit him with a mini guitar lmao
I LOVED IT
You are my sweetie pie, you are my cutie pie 😂😂😂😂...No wonder she refused. ....this guy has no game
Don't ask the question unless you already know the answer!
You must be a cop!
That is why you do it in privacy, so you don't embarrass the lady or yourself.
Yessss, you have to have had "the talk" before you go down on one knee. Marriage is just tooooo serious to throw at someone like that.
Lilly Wolf Cheshire cat said this to Alice
Damn I knew it was from the game but I was sure the cat said it. It's all coming back to me now. 😊
The April Fool's joke---seriously how cruel can you be?
You know, I always thought the girls who slapped the guys after proposing were being a tad over-dramatic and selfish, but that guy absolutely deserved it.
She even wait patiently while no one was listening to his stupid speech. It was just horrible.
The guy is a cruel jerk...
That Was so funny man
I would agree but it’s amazing to watch women get rejected lol
I've not seen one person empathise, cuddle their partner and say "I'm so sorry, I'm not ready right now, can we talk about this." They just run 😂
P. Prasad because marriage and everything involved with it is fucking stupid lol
@@eli-oh3oq, of course it is, but we have that mechanism because some people haven't learned to deal with fear 😂 or have inability to read body language ect haha I just feel bad for all involved.
A lot of them are probably frozen because they are in front of a crowd
I just wonder what happens when they get back home 😅
🤣🤣🤣
9:55 the little guitar to the side of the head was definitely a classic touch. I DID NOT see that coming. LMFAO
You can just see from the women's body language how much they don't want what's coming. Note to everyone - men and women: DO NOT PROPOSE IN PUBLIC unless you are 100% sure their answer will be yes (meaning you've discussed marriage beforehand and you know they like public displays).
JL Davies Absolutely. My fiancé proposed at a restaurant, but we’d talked about it for over a year and I knew the proposal was coming *eventually* , I just didn’t know how (and he knew I was totally onboard with something public). It turned out absolutely magical, but if I were a shy person, or if we hadn’t talked about marriage, then it might have been a total fail.
But they were 100% sure, every one of them. They were absolutely sure she'd say yes or they wouldn't have risked such awful public humiliation.
@@ushoys Unless they discussed it with their girlfriend beforehand and she was enthusiastically onboard, there's no way they could have been 100% sure.
@@jenny6904 If you discuss marriage with a girlfriend and you indicate that you want it, THAT is the proposal, not anything that comes afterwards.
ushoys oh thats so true, the actual on one knee proposal is more of a ceremonial thing
HAHAHAH the girl that fainted was like screw that I rather play dead
Looked like a muslim environment so maybe she was shot at?
dieutient mexican environment lol but carry on
dieutient u made my day 😂😂
lol tbh if I didn't wanna marry the guy and it was in public I'd faint so I could atleast turn him down in private later. ((but also idk wh yid be with someone who I couldn't picture marrying))
The April's fool proposal was very mean!!
A lot of the people in the comments are right - there are multiple conversations that need to happen before you get to a proposal to avoid feeling humiliated in front of a crowd. Marriage absolutely needs to be discussed before any sort of proposal. You can’t spring that on people out of the blue. Make sure you’re on the same page about where you want your relationship to go. There are a lot of things people may want to talk about or experience before feeling ready to get engaged. It’s also beneficial to talk about what kind of proposal you want/your significant other wants long before that day comes. Some people may want a public proposal, and that’s okay. Some don’t. Ask the person you want to propose to a while ahead of time what they want, or if you would be the person getting proposed to, speak up and say something about your preferences. I made it extremely clear to my husband on multiple occasions that I did not want to be proposed to in public, so he was respectful and didn’t propose in public. Granted, there will always be some people who have a change of heart when the question is finally “popped,” but a lot of these public letdowns in the videos could definitely have been prevented. I wish these people the best of luck in the future and hope they get their happy endings.
Proposing in public is the complete opposite of romantic.
If you're going to propose in public, be prepared to be dumped in public.
I am prepared to be dumped publicly in the comment section. But I prefer a yes.
Will you marry me?
Aw. That's sweet. But, alas. It's gotta be a no. ;D
God dam rejected hahahaha
Elizabeth Angel are u single? :(
If I propose to a girl I'm doing it in private so I don't have to live with the humiliation if it's a no, and if she says yes then the fact no one else is around would make it more special.
This is why I think proposing in a public place is a stupid idea
VJ love I couldn't agree more.
yhe, before proposing in a public place, make sure she/he is on the same page
Lessons taken from this video:
1. **DON'T** even think about having a huge crowd, unless you've asked about that possibility. Some girls might be fine with a few friends around, but that's it.
2. TALK ABOUT THE POSSIBILITY OF MARRIAGE **BEFORE** PROPOSING!! (gosh, this should be #1)
3. Maybe talk about who would rather do the proposing?
That last video - the train had me laughing so hard!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
This!! Lol my BF proposed in front of a crowd but at least he made sure he knew I’d say yes xD
The guy at the mall is #1 🤣 and lady askin’ “are you ok?” Should get the prise 🤣
I would never propose in public. It’s nobody’s business but hers and mine.
Hiram Guerra right and it's so unoriginal
yeah, you'd propose in private where you could hit her until she said yes.
lmao
We wouldn't enjoy watching proposals anymore
@@troywright359 And that's not the same in public how so? I'd much rather an honest and realistic answer than pressuring someone into a decision she doesn't want to commit
Proposing in public is the worst possible way to do it.
Malene Hansen no
No it's not.. It's proposing to someone who doesn't love you that is wrong
Alexander the Great Are you dumb?Just because you're not ready for marriage doesnt means you dont love them.What an immature statement
Anita Biot I agree. It must suck for a girl. A girl might love a man and still not be ready for marriage and when she rejects a proposal it must be hard to continue a relationship with the man even thought she wants to get married in the future
better than while she is in the bathroom taking a shit
9:04, I’m so sorry, but this one has to be the best one. The poem, the band, the random singing train, and the ukulele slam to the head to top it all off. *italian hand kiss thing* marvelous.
The small Train at 9:10 is absolutely knocking me out 😂😂😂
that last one is fake. it is from a commercial
Pro tip, guys--a surprise proposal out of the blue might sound romantic, but getting married is a big deal, and if you haven't talked about it with the girl, she might freak out, and rightly so. But even more than that, never, never, NEVER, put her in the position of making the biggest decision of her life on TV in front of tons of people. It's inconsiderate, presumptuous, and it leads to public humiliation for all involved. Don't do it.
If you want to marry the girl, TALK TO HER. You don't have to disclose when and where and how you're going to propose, but if you're going to be married, you need to be on the same page. True for the proposal and for the rest of your lives together.
Beautifully said. I agree 100%. But there is one huge thing that bothers me a lot and that is " together for the rest of our lives". Who can guarantee that any marriage, or anything in the world, will and can last for the rest of one's life? That is an empty and cheesy phrase. Nothing is for sure except the fact that the only person you will live for the rest of your life with is you with yourself. That is actually the only thing that is carved in stone.
You’re so right!!
you got it absolutely right
all these people have casual sex with each other and think they will accept their proposal after dating a few months lol.
Amen! Cheers 🥂
I wonder how many women want a public proposal. I would be so mortified.
Jenny Marie Those women usually tell a guy to.
I don't understand why some people want that, it's so embarassing even if you say yes.
Jenny Marie how is it embarrassing
Jenny Marie
So would I...😶
I knew it was over when the Train rolled on through his proposal!🤣🤣🤣🚂🚂🚂
The fucking train rolling by saying “not so sweet” with the guy’s heavy Indian accent is the funniest one 😂
*"It's not like I can't afford it myself...I'm not going to marry you just for this house!"* mad respect
Seems she's not true Chinese
@Suga's grandpa dance Infired me so hard you like kpop, do you need help with your nonexistent good taste, bitch?
this is just to show how stupid you sound treating people as bitch or dumb/brainless in an attempt to sound smarter
@@mysterysunfurled What does someone's taste in music have to do with anything? Not everyone likes the same music. You are a hypocrite calling her a bitch and then getting mad because she called someone else a bitch you dumbass
@@wonderland1492 it was to show how stupid the comment sounded lol. I was copying them because it sounds dumb to call someone a bitch or brainless, just makes you sound childish.
That was my favorite one I think 😳 LMAO
4:40 April Fool Proposal is a suicide for your relationship. it aint funny for the girl
Yeah and it’s not funny to assault someone like she did
Girls can purpose too!
@@AnimaAim They can also lay concrete technically but good luck seeing that ever happen.
Ikr who would do that? Doesn't people have any common sence
I think that was the point.
You know when to propose to your woman?
YOU WAIT FOR HER TO COMPLAIN ABOUT IT! 😂
Can we NOT normalize public proposals anymore please?
Its such an immature and unrealistic progression into a marriage that it needs to stop.
Most married couples usually talk about it before they put a ring on. None of this one knee down and open the box bs.
Sheesh, my Fiance and I just bought each other rings and off we went to plan our marriage vacation and life.
No public proposal. No seen. Just priorities and adulting.
Come on, getting married and spending the rest of your life together should be a decision you've discussed and agreed to, rather than a yes/no question in public when one person out of the couple feels like it.
Agreed, I can't believe people actually propose directly without discussing about marriage beforehand.
True. With all those strangers around yelling "Say Yes, Say Yes!"
@James Bachi yea they make big weddings then cheat like dogs
I agree. I bet some of these people didn’t run away because they said “no,” they ran because they were overwhelmed and needed time to think about it and *talk* about it *IN PRIVATE*
Zuzannatruba very sensible comment.
some girls react to proposals the same way some guys react to pregnancy announcements
Oof.
😁😁
Big oof
Ooff
joesephine reimer Absolutely
The train said “not so sweet” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
“I really thought it was sweet”
perfect ending. 😂💀⚰️
This is why you never propose in public and watch yo damn baby!!
@If you laugh you sub! lol
that baby is annoying 😂
The choo choo train interrupting the proposal with *NOT SO SWEET* painted on it had me rolling. 😆
That was actually the joke - the wohle thing was staged and was a commercial for the chocolate brand advertised on the train.
Yes,, cos it prevents from saying anything 😂
Lmao i knowww
Absolutely the most dead-heart robot-like proposal, right? Yah...not so sweet was exactly what I was thinking. What's with proposing after 3 months too? Super weird.
Shaking laughing 😂
If i was at the food court with the guy who april fooled the proposal to his girl
I would have thrown my chair at him
I hate when guys trying to propose a girl in the public places. If u really love someone , propose her in a private environment so both of u enjoy the moment.
mronenext - why not? And why cant girls propose? Just asking. Not starting an argument
Bryce Kirkland- oh ok 👌🏻
Not just guys do that you know
Bryce Kirklan That’s not always the case. Sometimes they do it in public because they want it to be big or in a place where everyone’s happy.
I think they do it to add pressure THINKING she won't embarrass herself and say no....that never works
Don't propose in public?
Don't propose at all!
and just be a couple forever but never marry? well that is a crappy life.
Colter Hansen uh no? Marriage is unnecessary.
Sirius Black it's not but being married gives you that bond. not being married gives you an easy way out. you are more likely not going to work through the hard times.
I don't know if the public part was the problem 😳😐
9:20 the cleaner just keeping mopping the floor .... Hero😂
The last one has to be the most embarrassing one ever in the world lmfaoooo. That train and that song has me dead everytime I see this hahahaha !!
I am a married guy, father of a wonderful daugher. Me and my wife took the decision to spend our lives together, well... together. We discussed it a lot before announcing it to anyone.
Why do people feel compelled to propose in public ? It's a very tough decision, that will change your life forever.
Don't expect your partner to take it on the spot in front of everyone, without the time to properlly reflect upon it, without the time to talk to you about it.
Don't transform this commitment into a little show just because it makes a better story.
Widemore well it's also cause not everyone takes marriage or hell relationships seriously anymore. Which is pretty depressing. Not all. But these people do exist.
Well said.
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Amen
theres always a grammar police.
I don't think it's fair to propose to anyone in public. It's like you're using public as extra pressure.
The only times I think it's okay to publically propose to someone is if you're absolutely 100% sure the other person is going to say yes anyway, otherwise you risk publically humiliating yourself, and you're putting unfair pressure on the other person to say yes.
Well yeah but, that's just your opinion, some people would love to be proposed to in public.
EARTH ONE waow your making me sad .
Rightly said👍
MuffinTails exactly, like personally I would love to be proposed in public since I’m more of a social and extroverted person but there are some people out there who are more shy and introverted who would probably hate being put in this situation.
This is so heartbreaking because that literally means the girl you love don't see herself living a life with you forever.
I didn't so much ask as dare my wife to marry me. She took the challenge and 20 years strong. Mad respect to those that say no though. It shows me that at least a few people out there still value marriage and how serious it is.
how the hell idd you get married if you didn't ask her?
@@yasminaunicorn3735 he said it was a dare
@@yasminaunicorn3735 I did ask but implied it would be a challenge because I am a moron lol thats all
When you propose in public in front of a crowd you aren't being romantic, you are forcing her to either give you the answer you want or look like the bad guy. Proposing in front of a crowd makes it about you, which means you just don't get women yet and aren't ready for marriage.
And is tacky af, in my opinion.
Sure, if that is the case. Often times it seems more about putting someone on the spot so they cant say no. If you are constantly telling your man you want him to propose, then yeah, nothing wrong at all with it. As we see in this video and 50 more like it, they don't know the girl is going to say yes.
TooTall Tim I absolutely agree
And it looks silly. Why you have to show your love to all those crowd lol silly people.
It's not proposing in public that's the problem and that's where people like you are mistaken. The problem isn't proposing in public, the problem is proposing at the wrong time.
It's not proposing itself that should be the surprise but WHEN you propose. What I mean by this, is you should already know she will say yes before you do it. Most couples will have already talked about possibly getting married after being together a while, so by that point you should already know the answer.
People don't propose in public because they want to force an answer they do it because, yes, it is actually romantic (when done right). People just forget to make sure it's actually going to be a yes first before doing it, hence this video.
These places are sooooo romantic. No wonder why they failed
El Pato tbhhhh
"Jesus Jam" ??? vomit lol
109367 My thoughts exactly!
There is a time and place for everything.
Proposing is supposed to be a very special, once in a lifetime thing, by not thinking it through and asking her in a crowded mall after eating greasy mall food court fast food tells me he's going to take the marriage/relationship just as seriously. It's not a good sign, to me. Personally I would rather be asked in private and I have the feeling some women said no because they felt pressured and uncomfortable by the crowds, but that's just me. If you're going to make it public, don't ask in a stupid manner/place, or don't get married at all ... why do people even get married anymore?
Tables Ladders and Guitars in the last one .😂😂😂
"Your my sweetie pie, my cutie pie, my honey....but all I want to do is run a train on you." CHOOO CHOOOOOO (9:10)
That baby falling was more tragic than any of these proposals! 😭
the ones rejecting them need killed i would set them on fire
Agreed! No parenting skills from the mother or whomever let the kid drop!
Lily & Ian iiiiiiiiiiiii
poor fuckin baby, man
You are right -- shame on someone for not watching that baby more closely -- falling from that distance off a table can cause brain damage to an infant!
I actually think anyone who proposes in public DESERVES to get turned down. It's incredibly manipulative. It's like "she won't say no to me in front of all these people". It's pressuring her to say yes. Plus it's so invasive, in what should be a private romantic moment, not a freaking theatrical production. I guess I'm weird but I would just say NO. (My husband proposed to me on Valentine's Day, in the local paper's Valentine's messages, which he knew I liked to read. He knew I'd find it. )
greenshp S
So he still proposed you publicly and you accepted it?
" So he still proposed you publicly and you accepted it? "
There wasn't an audience to know the result, that removes the manipulative part of the public proposal.
Truth
Absolutely right!
Finally someone that speaks out exactly what I think!
The train randomly passing by saying ”Not so sweet” 😳😂
Omg how could he (( the April fools)) she loved him how cruel
Y’all. This is why it’s important to discuss marriage with you partner and when. So that when you ask, they’ll say YES🤦🏼♀️
99% of these were staged actually
I'd like to believe in most cases, wanting to get married is already a mutual feeling before one partner proposes, it's just a matter of when it happens and the couple is ready for the commitment. Two people who've been together long enough have discussed their marriage plans already and how they hope their partner might propose. Hopefully the only surprise is when it happens.
Well if the bitch say no fuck we dating for at that point she getting dick and the dollar menu 🤣🤣🤣
All of these are staged you idiot woman
Men are smart they dont do dumb shit like proposing on public
Abigail will you marry me 🌹
“Guy: Your my sweetie pie, my cutie pie, my honey.”
“Me: no stop just stop”
You're
@@akselsmetveit2602 grammar nazi
“You’re my IRS outstanding balance”
Indian people 😂
The song was so fucking annoying too!
If you are wondering whether or not they will say yes, it's too early. If a girl wants to marry you, you'll know it
Lmao 😂I love how everyone runs away. Not sure why anyone would propose without knowing 100%, seems kinda strange.
Rejected marriage proposals are life saving events.
Leopold Stotch 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yes lol
Yes it is like cleaning a loaded gun with the safety off and not getting shot in the face.
How clueless do you have to be to publicly ask such an important question and not know the answer ahead of time?
All the people going Usain Bolt after the proposal are killing me
Can I just say the most awkward ones are when you go “hey everyone can I have your attention” i mean if you have family around that’s one thing or to have planned it out with people but to just inturupt people that you’ve never met makes it more awkward
This video basically teaches us to not propose to people in public. Not only is it embarrassing but it is very overwhelming and just not very romantic.
Like the one at the baseball game it was so loud I felt like it was going to blow out my eardrums XD Depending on the person I would be like I'll say yes but can you redo this somewhere quieter so I can actually hear what you are saying to me XD
Compilation of reasons why you should never propose in public unless you’re 100% sure the answer will be “Yes”
Being turned down then is a blessing in disguise.
Even then...Don't do it lol
Yes if she is begging you to marry then that would be fine
well they all must be 100percent sure but illuminati{you know}
That last one was amazing from beginning to end. The train cracked me up. But then that ukelele strike. Omg. It was perfect.
HAhahahahahahahahahahahahahaah..... The last one DONE ME IN!!!!!!! The recorder, " ARE YOU OK???" Hahahahahaahahaha
Proposing public is not a good idea :/
Abby Koos I never thought I would find people who don’t like that sort of thing. Most of the people I’ve found in different comment sections were okay with it.
Unless it was discussed and agreed upon.
No, it could be the best idea ever. Just make sure you discuss the topic of marriage beforehand and you are 100% sure she'll say yes.
Oh, please guys, do not ever propose in public, in a restaurant, at a show or a game. Be a little more romantic and private, and most important; be sure she feels the same as you do. She might like you, but that is not the same as wanting to spend the rest of her life with you.
Atta girl TA
But why she spend her actual time with the guy ?
+Just Mervin Are you trying to say you date someone with the only intention to get married? ....weird...
You opinion.
I would find a public proposal super romantic, he’s displaying how much he wants to marry me to the world.
That’s way more romantic then him asking me to marry him privately. That would be super dull.
@@Cloverfr No, I said don't spend the real lover time... just because you want sexe or things like that ... Because it's really crazy to think that a girl who you've spend 2 or 3 years reject your proposal , by the simple excuse iy is Stressful... If you really love the person you would note hurt him.. if you date with someone is that you already love him and not start to love him... It's really romantic for many girl to be proposal like this that's a memorable day ...
Guys, please listen to us women. Don’t propose in a cringe way in public, especially without really knowing how your girl feels.
The it’s written on the walls one got me lol it says Jesus jams 😂
I'm so happy my husband proposed IN PRIVATE! My wedding can have an audience...not my proposal or marriage.
I would be too
I would never try a public proposal either.
Aww so sweet god bless
A proposal should be between YOU and HER. Why would you ask everyone to look at you and tell them. Pretty sure if you just asked her in public and other people watched it'd be pretty obvious to them already lol
Shane Miller Amen!
Or, if they're 100% sure, do it in public. Mine was at a major event. Totally amazing.
Agreed
If you do that and she says no then people might think she's horrible turning him down like that but she might just not like him.
John Juhasz exactly
The train had a message " Not So Sweet" unfortunately guy couldn't see it 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
There are 3 rules to follow for a marriage proposal,
1. Keep it private, don't make it into a public show.
2. Make sure you've discussed marriage a good deal.
3. Actually date this person for long time(more than 2 years) and that you really know each other.
4. Do not drop the baby
Rules to live by: never put a woman on the spot. Some things are meant to be private.
@Layla BTS YOUR A FUCKING MAN STFU "LAYLA"
@OAT351 dodged a bullet
Or man
I have a big anxiety problem so if I was is the position where they were being proposed to in a crowd I would know that that person is not right for me if they do not know that I have that problem and not doing it there and then wouldn't be a good idea cuz I would probably faint start crying or I would start crying and I bet you a panic attack on the floor I know it's supposed to be a happy moment but I would kill me
Embarrassing your girlfriend in front of a crowd by putting her on the spot? Why do people think this is romantic?
Because movies lol
This is why I love women.
“I’ve been dating this girl for a year now…” 😂😂😂😂😂 Obviously not long enough to know her and how she felt about you
7:10 how ridiculous to bring a mini-megaphone to your own proposal. Can you imagine being on the receiving of that? "WILL YOU MARRY ME" blasted from 4 feet away, clearly more interested in the attention he'll get from random strangers than actually getting married.
Also when he threw in “I’ll put your name on the deed to the house.” He could be a nice person but what a terrible proposal all around!
And just how ridiculous of the guy at 5:25 of even thinking of proposing while dressing like a 10 year old.... If a guy is gonna do that he should dress like a MAN just like your photo
Yeah well how cool does he look NOW!! He just made an idiot of himself in front of everyone.
Connor Moelmann a mini megaphone is just a phone tho
Connor Moelmann that made me laugh so hard, like she’s right there what does he need that for
It's OK to propose in public, but please make sure that you've discussed your mutual future BEFOREHAND, and that the intended lady is on the same track as you are. Save yourself the embarrassment and heartbreak.
How about her embarrassment ? To be in public like that, to sort of force the situation so she'll say yes... terrible. I know someone who tried that. He proposed to his off and on girlfriend of six months at a big celebration event because he hoped she'd say yes if he did it in front of all those people. He thought wrong. She didn't run away immediately, not like the girls in the video, but she kept saying "no, no, no, don't do this". He kept trying to give her a ring but she wouldn't take it. She broke up with him later that evening, in private, telling him she could never forgive him for pressuring and humiliating her in public, in front of all those people. When I talked with her days later, she told me she'd never even told him she loved him, but he'd thought he could bring her around with the proposal. She thought what he'd done was sadly misguided and not at all romantic being in front of all those people. She'd been very very embarrassed.
propnel i couldnt agree more
hatchling88 well obviously that's your friends problem I mean like the girl said she never told him that she loved him but tbh in that situation I would've just said yes instead of running away since that's just embarrassing for the both of us..Then after all of that is finished I'll just tell him in private that it's not gonna work out. Though honestly If I was a guy I'll ask a good friend of hers to see how she'll like the idea of that (but not spoiling it)
Intended lady 🤔🤔 sexist much.....
Yeung Joey - but if you say yes and then change your mind later, everyone is going to be super upset with you. They wont see it as if you were trying to spare him public humiliation, they'll see it as you being deceptive. I guess it doesn't matter in the long run though, because if a girl rejects a proposal publicly she's going to receive negative attention either way. I can't tell you how many times I've turned down guys only to have people tell me that I'm being picky and stuck-up and cruel because I should just "give him a chance" since he put himself out there.
My mom was once so nervous after a guy she didnt want to marry proposed to her she threw up all over him in the middle of the airport 💀
Nice
😂😂😂 poor mom!
That laugh from the background every single time.... :D
I don't know why some guys think it is a good idea to propose in public.
tonykeo83 movies that have convinced us that it's what girls want
tonykeo83
I guess some girls do like it. I know someone who was proposed to in a very public setting (at a speech or convention or something like that) and she thought it was most romantic thing ever. Now I on the other hand...😶
tonykeo83 that's sexist
Different women have different personalities and degrees of tolerance for public displays of affection/vulnerability. Assuming every woman wants the same cliché "romantic" things is ignorant.
Please. Please please please talk about getting engaged before you just spring this on someone. It's a big decision.
not to a tone-deaf sports fan dumbass narcissist, they think anything they say or do is awesome - the results are hilarious to me
I agree... I talked to my wifes sister to make sure that's what she wanted and I did it at a museum
I felt nothing but second-hand embarrassment from watching this...
No dought all these people are now suicidal.
There is an old lawyer saying, "Never ask a question for which you don't already know the answer."
Luna Lovegood What he said applies to certain situations only. A lawyer wants to win the case, so he pressures his opponent to answer questions he (the lawyer) knows the answers to.
And this applies to what the video is about too, since if you don't know if the girl will say yes, you'll get embarrassed when she says no.
"I can't even ask a question, when I know the answer is going to be a lie"
There's an even older saying "How can you tell when a lawyer is lying? His lips are moving"
That's like saying, "don't eat food when you're hungry" the point of asking questions is to get an answer because you don't know the answer.
Not in a courtroom. If you ask the wrong question the answer you are not expecting could sink your case.
better to be turned down than to accept your proposal, then cheat on you later
Very true.
Ed Stickler this is actually a good way to look at it!
Ed Stickler actually it's better for her to cheat on you receive your marriage benefits at the same time, then sell your rings.
It’s already a bad sign if proposing around a crowd to justify something.
Pls don't think I'm wicked, but when the last guy proposed and the girl hit him with an ukulele (or whatever it was) and he fell, I found it so funny 🤣😭
Getting proposed to at a mall in front of a crowd and a janitor. How romantic. Just what every girl dreams of. Looooool
You’re my cutie pie you’re my sweetie pie you’re my sugar you’re my everything
Nicole Behdad lmao
Lmao
Like u people hypontized the boys..and start taunting every moment of thier life..keep vanishing thier wishes to conquire ur wishes ...
@@Jonesranjith shut up 😂