Quit flattering yourself my guy we aint complainingwe will never complain there are more women than men inSA plus they date huns who are at the clubs 24/7 literally they are buying love n pussy coz those huns if you dont pay them they falsly accuse you of Rape jallof boys can come n take all slayqueens n leave us with our well cultured women who date only south africans
@@imeldangadzania5212 This isn't true at all. A Nigerian man would prefer a black American woman over a Kenyan any day ...esp an educated black American.
Thats your mentality qnd thats the one of very bad habits of the black man and thats why you have problems in protecting your women and children. This is why safety in Africa is low and bad.
@@Mbaye77 Oshay needs to stop this. This is basically feminism in Africa. Dude left the us to get away from high matienance and allows Jonita to shame her men who are probably worse off economically than Americans were. Actually very sad
The dating pool in Nigeria is very very tough for men who are not doing well financially. Those in the average middle class have to put in humongous efforts to get women because those in the upper middle class won't give these women breathing space. From a young age, we learn to be very competitive in anything we do, so much so that when we go to other African countries, it seems like soft and easy work
I swear especially if you stay in the south eastern part of the country, the best place to get women now easily is either south west and middle belt area
@daniells71 nobody loves you for nothing. You have to be fulfilling a purpose for her. Why have a man who can't take care of you? Why alot of African men ask why Nigerian women don't date outside. We don't have time for foolishness. As a woman I am come with everything. No thanks go look for someone cheaper. Proudly Igbo
I totally get and agree with your point. Relating to someone as an ATM is obviously wrong and no one will enjoy that, male and female alike . However, how do you show a woman that you are both able and willing to take care if her, should you need to, later if you both marry? We can see you paying your bills and taking care of yourself,which is good, but that is standard for most adults , but what about when your responsibility is for more than just you alone? Some men when looking at how women are with cooking , and a nurturing nature even when getting to know her, its to see if she has wife potential for him, but also mother potential . He is not just picturing himself eating her meals , but any children he may, eventually have with her. Its not good to go in blindly and never look at the traits and attributes you'll need, in a wife or husband. Men need nurturers and necessary contributors in wives, but women need providers and protectors in husbands. You must see traits that existed in them, before they even met you. It's not after marriage you begin to look.
I don't blame the young Nigerian brotha's, they're jus trying their best to get a piece of the pie that the older gen who have boat loads of money keep to themselves.
What this girl is describing is lack of good manners among most men,the kind that will soften the heart of a woman enough to accept a relationship ..it's not even about money ....we will laugh and fight each other during these gender wars but all this will lead to is the extinction of humanity.Someone needs to address this topic with level headedness otherwise we are in trouble...you can't believe the things brothers do these days which unfortunately has turned young women into callous beings
I don't believe you give women everything. She'll run over you, but this is bad manners by leaving a woman on the side of the road like that. There's levels to all of this stuff and what I see the East African men doing to them is not right. You treat them like they're not Not our companion. That's why they losing their women to western men and Europeans. And even the Chinese are getting some now. This is very sad it needs to stop. Women of the lifeblood of the community and if there's no women with balance then the children will be all abused by them because of being angry at the fathers. Just like in the west.
Maybe you should be thinking about what happened to men the majority of the time they are "soft" with women. It's a circle period, put in the work to prove you deserve that treatment don't just blindly expect it.
Where do you find kindness for women that look at you with contempt for just passing by and minding your business? Where do you get the temerity to work hard and provide for a woman that is talking to 20 other men?
Simps don't understand. I know men that make 200, 300k in usd, and are left with like 10k, 20k at the end of the year but always complain they can't achieve what they want in life.
Obviously. The moment a woman calls you stringy, know that you are doing the right thing. Simply means you are not a simp. Most of these women are pros+!tutes seeking relationship as though it's poverty eradication program. Most of them their parents can't even afford a decent meal yet imagine the entitlement mentality... Poverty mentality
Im a Nigerian, grew up there. When it comes to them ladies, the street code is, you can never be stingy. We get her by any means necessary. Spending money on a woman we like is just our lifestyle, it’s in our DNA.
No way..West African men, especially Nigerian and Liberian men know how to impress spend money on their women ooooooo..Especially for shopping and upkeep..and we love it naaaa. ❤❤❤😂😂😂😂
Oshay needs to stop this. This is basically feminism in Africa. Dude left the us to get away from high matienance and allows Jonita to shame her men who are probably worse off economically than Americans were. Actually very sad ...Not for long. Multiple comments.
Nairobi wao ndo wabaka ji nambara moja.Ukisikia binti alienda kwa nyumba akapewa juice akanywa akazirai ni wao alafu wakaendelea na man3no mb0ff, hio thika road single mom wengi sana watoto wao wengine wao walitoroka,wengine kafukuzwa wizari ya uhamiaji. Napiga hesabu watu aslimia nukta moja au chini ya idadi ya watu hapa kenya eti wanap0konya kina dada.Kama dad amepata jama anataka kufunga ndoa,amelipa mahari nini shida.Hizi tuu ni mbwe mbwe.Intermarriage imekuwa barani afrika na mababu zetu pia wao walipata kabila tofauta wakifunga ndoa.
Any Nigerian man that works hard to get his money doesn't spend money anyhow on a Woman.. This women will finish your money and cannot stay with you when there is hard time, they will run a way..
It's all about home training. I stand by this. If your parents don't teach you better (especially fathers) then the young men won't value a young women.
Who can deal with this,....you want to eat all once,...east African women are too hard to work with,...Nigerian women are very respectful,.. Who said by having you we should give all our fortune to make you happy
@@S41GON I hate that westernized mentality. You would think African women would see how it has and is destroying women in the US but they have that herd mentality
I want to be a secret member of this group. I never let it be known I have no intentions of spending anything on them. Maybe we can go to the park and have a picnic 😂.
For many Nigerian men especially igbo men. Its a disgrace if you wife or partner is not well taken care of . In fact the worth of a man is judged by hkw well he takes care of his woman and kids.. that why they dont ioke with that its culture and upbringing.
She isn’t talking about married couples. She is talking about receiving money as a girlfriend. Ofcourse a man’s wife is entitled to his money, but this entitlement that this girl talks about is the cause of toxic marriage life. After marriage all you get is negative energy from the man.
Nigerian 🇳🇬 brothers also need to show much more respect to the Nigerian Woman also....and empower our righteous sistars in Nigeria 🇳🇬. All our Black ⚫️ Women in all of Africa 🌍 need to be empowered by all the Black ⚫️ Men in Africa 🌍 and America 🇺🇸. Etc........ Our East African Brothers must have forgotten that it was their Mothers who birthed them and loved 😍them even in the womb and took care of them when they couldn't do nothing for themselves when they were babies.... East African Men owe it to empower our women in all of East Africa 🌍.....
Joanita outted the videographer for leaving the girl on the road, but never said what the girl did.😂. He left Jonita to cross the street, doesn't she possess legs.🤣🤣🤣
See there should be a natural protectiveness over a female. Its not by choice , but instinct. The same instinct that will make a Nigerian man ensure that while walking he walks closest to the traffic. The same one that has them carrying a lady's handbag and sleeping closest to the door. So that if anything goes down, a perpetrator has to get through him first, to harm you. Give me those protector types, ANYDAY.
Why must a guy always spend given the high cost of living. East African woman should infact help the East African men to be strong not draining from the their pockets.
Exactly!! If all she wants is your money, what is the difference between her and a known prostitute? Also, if your money runs out or business slows down, she will leave for the next highest bidder. If you find a woman before you have money and she is working with and supporting you, hold on to her and cherish her like gold. Otherwise, Make and save your money. Then search for a woman who will value your character over your money. These prostitutes can go to the white, Chinese, Arab and Indian men. They can have them.
Spending or been generous is a life style..if most Nigerians are generous with women then good it makes them popular amongst women around the world.. women loves gift and generosity ❤❤❤
Let me say this very clearly for Non Nigerians 🇳🇬, it’s a NIGERIAN CULTURE for a man to take care of the woman (wife, kids, family and siblings who are financially disadvantaged) if they are dating you it’s the same thing so it’s in our DNA. It doesn’t matter the woman’s Job, career, business or degree the Nigerian man is RESPONSIBLE for the household. The Nigerian woman who is working knows what to do to support her husband and the household but it’s not HER DUTY, Nigerian men are ALPHA MALES (this is an UNARGUABLE FACT) despite their caring and giving nature this is not to be taken for stupidity and Nigerian women understand this (after all the Nigerian men are raised by Nigerian women) for those Non Nigerian women who think that by the generosity of Nigerian men, they can take them for granted and treat them as simps (well you can try 😂🤣) others have tried and like we say in Nigerian Pidgin English those women saw “shege” so do not take a Nigerian man’s cultural way of treating a woman for stupidity, as they will teach you an unforgettable lesson.
@@paultumelo7321 stop being ignorant and dumb and take your hatred and bitterness elsewhere!! I speak of what I know factually and that is my culture ☺️ speak about yours who is holding your mouth, OZOUR.
I ain’t forget. June 10 you said. Look for a place called Laweza Lounge 11 Makadara Rd across from Mombasa Dishes Restaurant. There’s a juice bar inside. I’ll link you on the ground
Because the average Nigerian woman lacks the body features that is mostly considered the standards of beauty for example a curvy body and a nicely shaped behind hence their men will do anything for women who poses these rare features in their home countries. I am a Ugandan who has got a chance to travel across different countries in Africa at least am speaking from experience. I don't mean to offend anyone. This Joanita girl is still stack in those African mentality of 'a man to offer financial means as a way of proving his love' hell no you can continue with your journey. These types are usually not home builders as their sense of family wealth creation is very distorted.While I am well aware of my role of providing means of security and comfort to my partner which in most cases means financial resources, i strong believe love should come unconditional.
How many Nigerian ladies do u know to say they don't have curves. Come to Nigeria and see beauty. The fact that I marry foreigner is a matter of choice and that is not to say ladies back home are bad
My dear Ugandan brother, it is your women that are using Nigerian men to s*it on you. Nigerian women are not the ones here humiliating you. Leave the Nigerian women out of this. Get some balls and face and respond to the ppl that are embarrassing you. Deal with your publicized dirty laundry. There are more than enough men in the world to satisfy Nigerian women and that’s one of the reasons you never or rarely ever see Nigerian women in the center of these “relationship” squabbles.
Look at all the men who had to listen to a western importation of manhood. If you for one second think the brother from America is not pushing his upbringing then we are all fools in Africa. I bet he can’t try this bs in Nigeria. Of course he can do it in Uganda, no disrespect to Uganda but this nonsense will not fly in Naija. They even use Nigeria in that title because we know it’s for our clicks. Just so you know, we are watching you. My message to you guys in Uganda is: in the world of the blind the one eyed man is king. You all are blind and that brother is the one eyed man. Leave your American exceptionalism in America.
That is a misconception ... Kenyan men, Fathers, brother, uncles, friends.. are angry because they the ones who are left to PICK UP the pieces when our sisters get hurt or abandoned or conned. When these deadbeats disappear and we are left to take care of kids they leave behind ...thats the main concern ..
Wengi wao ni wal3 watapewa character development ya kimataifa watawachwa wamekunjika vjiipande ndogo ndogo.Sisi wakenya nikama hatuna fahamu ama tumesahau eti wa0 ndio waba kaj! nambari moja hapa nairobi.Nakadiria wao ni kama sufuru nukta moja asimilia idadinya watu wote hapa kenya.Wanap0nyoka aji na kina dada.Nina hakaki kuna watu wengi wa bongo,uganda,congo,somali,kusini sudan kuwalik0.Nina rafiki alikuwa hapa nairobi mamba ya upelelezi.Weee zile hadithi ako nazo kuhusu hawa watu.Vile matiani alikuwa katibu wa baraza ya mawaziri/ministry of interior alikuwa amewarudisha.Ndio angerudisha wot3. Watu 0 vvyo sanaaaa
They are just using other people's money to simp girls until the law catches up...I know many Nigerians who use to spend thousands on stolen credit cards😂
Is it your money?...i thought you guys think Africans don't have money or enough to spend on others.. Well Nigerians are blowing the roof here in Africa mehh😂 African women salivating for them
Nigerian men may not be quick to marry you bcos certain tribes demands that their men marry from their tribes, however Nigerian men if they have the money, will treat you as their queen. in comparison to East African men, Nigerian men are 100% better off.
Lol Nigerian simps😂 boss my ladies from Tanzania and S.A are always happy with their Nigerian spouses...bro u need to see live fam...love that you guys can't give cos your ladies tag to stingy😂😂
As a Nigerian, I advise young men to empower themselves first. Spend your money arranging your life first. The habit of impressing women through unnecessary spending on women will leave you in poverty and regret. Use your money to invest properly and women will be an addition to all things that will come to you. Any woman who comes to u will know you have substance. Be stingy like an east African man but be kind to people. Help women to build a life when you can but don't go about impressing them. Nigeria is experiencing a plague where young men a wasting so so much time and resources because of women it's so crazy.
Nigerian men are the best when it comes to treating a woman good with money. They will treat you so well that you will feel you owe them some 🐱 and they won’t have to ask you for any. You just give it up freely.😂
😂😂😂😂😂 until they leave you single m0m with 2 kids end up going back to your parents they ran awa or deported..until you hear get me a safaricom line with mpesa,then one day you picked up by the cops wondering whats going on,some1 was using your line do terrible stuff Until you hear lets do business and you told take a loan at equity we car import biz and rans away with the money. Until you get into the h0ze living 10 men he d r v g s you then other 10 men grapp3 you. Many gals gr @pped by em, left baby mamas than married
Because the money is a scam money😂. It's free because it belongs to other people...Nigerians are number 1 in credit card scamming 😂...I used to party with them in America, fun times using other people's money😂😂😂
Great , the modern men should learn from East African men , they definitely not SIMPS and definitely not putting these modern ladies on a pedestal without earning it . Welcome to 2023! Big Up East Africa!
In Kenya, we know what women are capable of. You don't prioritize others forgetting yourself. We (Men) in Kenya work for our sole purpose first. The main problem is once you meet most women you become a minting machine. And what we realized is, Being born a woman in Africa is already a "disability". Work hard fellas for yourself first avoid distractions.
@@bayyinahzhaxx7620 When I was child that was normal. I had grown-ups drop me off on the opposite side of busy streets. I just had to learn to cross the street. The fact that women are complaining about something so simple shows the inequality in treatment of the genders.
@@dliv1687as an African woman who dates white men only i came to that conclusion after dating my first white man and experienced how a man should treat a woman i have never looked back a white man would never live a woman half way the journey or drop her a cross from were she is going a white man make sure your dropped on the door step even if his angry at a woman or disappointed he will still treat you like a lady and treat you right and when his woman needs anything he will make sure the problem is solved without questioning you to all my black ladies please ther other race of men who can make you happy and treat you the right way
Women say that they want you to not be stingy & share. What that really mean is that they want you to give! Women confuse the two meanings. Sharing is an exchange, both parties deposit something tangible or valuable to both, to be used by both. Giving is a transfer from one to another to be used or consumed by the other. Selfish women want you to "share", but they mean give!
You guys are confusing American culture and using it in African cultures.. sorry.. here men are the providers.. nothing like 50-50..if can't provide for her good luck in finding a female.. even parents will not tolerate going with a man who can't afford her certain standards 🤷🏿♂️
The Nigerian philosophy is simple, if something gives you pleasure, spend on it.
And that's our problem, that shit doesn't apply to women except prostitutes, you are just making everything difficult for your fellow men
Well said
Never heard it put so well !
Gbam!
Dumbest thing ever that’s why you broke
South African men are complaining that Nigerian men are taking their women as well
Quit flattering yourself my guy we aint complainingwe will never complain there are more women than men inSA plus they date huns who are at the clubs 24/7 literally they are buying love n pussy coz those huns if you dont pay them they falsly accuse you of Rape jallof boys can come n take all slayqueens n leave us with our well cultured women who date only south africans
Shhh 🤫
They better be glad Americans dont have access
@@Soufside_Slimthey rarely go for black American women. An African man will always prefer his own fellow African women no matter the country.
@@imeldangadzania5212 This isn't true at all. A Nigerian man would prefer a black American woman over a Kenyan any day ...esp an educated black American.
African women will treat you as idiot once you start giving them everything
Facts 💯 Keep your money in your pockets brothas.
Oshay hasn’t learn yet but I’m waiting. Tic toc tac …..
Thats your mentality qnd thats the one of very bad habits of the black man and thats why you have problems in protecting your women and children. This is why safety in Africa is low and bad.
@@Mbaye77 Oshay needs to stop this. This is basically feminism in Africa. Dude left the us to get away from high matienance and allows Jonita to shame her men who are probably worse off economically than Americans were. Actually very sad
Their learning from African American women. It’s a wrap fellas. We thought we could get away from all of that but RUclips is global.
The dating pool in Nigeria is very very tough for men who are not doing well financially.
Those in the average middle class have to put in humongous efforts to get women because those in the upper middle class won't give these women breathing space.
From a young age, we learn to be very competitive in anything we do, so much so that when we go to other African countries, it seems like soft and easy work
Great explanation! However when exchanging money for affection, when the money goes, so does the love.
I swear especially if you stay in the south eastern part of the country, the best place to get women now easily is either south west and middle belt area
@daniells71 nobody loves you for nothing. You have to be fulfilling a purpose for her. Why have a man who can't take care of you? Why alot of African men ask why Nigerian women don't date outside. We don't have time for foolishness. As a woman I am come with everything. No thanks go look for someone cheaper. Proudly Igbo
@@ijeonu2405 go look for something cheaper??? Hahaha meh I've dated a couple of Nigerian women, I don't see what the fuss is about omo.
@@daniells71they’re not even worth marrying 😂 highly overrated and can’t cook well
I don't date anyone that looks at me as an ATM. I work hard for my money, I'm not just going to give it to someone who will not invest in me as well.
I totally get and agree with your point. Relating to someone as an ATM is obviously wrong and no one will enjoy that, male and female alike . However, how do you show a woman that you are both able and willing to take care if her, should you need to, later if you both marry?
We can see you paying your bills and taking care of yourself,which is good, but that is standard for most adults , but what about when your responsibility is for more than just you alone?
Some men when looking at how women are with cooking , and a nurturing nature even when getting to know her, its to see if she has wife potential for him, but also mother potential . He is not just picturing himself eating her meals , but any children he may, eventually have with her.
Its not good to go in blindly and never look at the traits and attributes you'll need, in a wife or husband.
Men need nurturers and necessary contributors in wives, but women need providers and protectors in husbands. You must see traits that existed in them, before they even met you.
It's not after marriage you begin to look.
@@sylviasworld9397 I usually just go for what I want and hopefully it's mutual. I don't go by societal standards and have been lucky to meet the same.
@@daniells71clown 🤡
@@sylviasworld9397Why would he take care of an independent woman? Y'all so stupid I swear 😂
Keep yo money, it gonna kiss u one day
She's too pretty
With a bird brain.
Nigerian men strike a delicate balance between providing and protecting, and still being respectable and respected. It's a tough balance to strike
Thank you as a Nigeria women in the US now I see why African American women love Nigerian men 😁 . Mad respect ✊🏾
@@nikkyjackson6500Nigerian men are highly loved and popular in all the African countries with various African women..
They are simps
@@ngashjr You are BROKE 🤣😏🤷🏿♂️
So putting money in a womans pocket for being a woman is empowerment??? I learned so much on social media today
So we should empower prostitutes then😂
Lol girl thanks was considering East Africa but nah I’ll stick to Nigeria 😂
umm Nigerian men are not foolish either and whatever you think you can finesse you will be outsmarted and lose in the end.
@@Christopher-side_dude-Murican sorry to disappoint I have my own. I just don’t entertain cheap people because I’m not one💣
Nigerian men are very generous by nature...its not a bad thing
@@inmeditatewetrust my fiancé was so I believe you. African American women with money are very generous too
@@Mindbodysoultv01generous to who? The nail lady? The Arab at the weave store?
It's a Simp free zone, it seems.
Is the exact opposite. Full of broke simps
We're East Africans, we don't simp.
Thats what i like to hear
And we still smash
As a Nigerian man we have spoilt our women now when they see us they see as money nothing more
Very true
True😂
I don't blame the young Nigerian brotha's, they're jus trying their best to get a piece of the pie that the older gen who have boat loads of money keep to themselves.
What this girl is describing is lack of good manners among most men,the kind that will soften the heart of a woman enough to accept a relationship ..it's not even about money ....we will laugh and fight each other during these gender wars but all this will lead to is the extinction of humanity.Someone needs to address this topic with level headedness otherwise we are in trouble...you can't believe the things brothers do these days which unfortunately has turned young women into callous beings
I don't believe you give women everything. She'll run over you, but this is bad manners by leaving a woman on the side of the road like that. There's levels to all of this stuff and what I see the East African men doing to them is not right. You treat them like they're not Not our companion. That's why they losing their women to western men and Europeans. And even the Chinese are getting some now. This is very sad it needs to stop. Women of the lifeblood of the community and if there's no women with balance then the children will be all abused by them because of being angry at the fathers. Just like in the west.
And vice versa this problem is NOT one sided
Maybe you should be thinking about what happened to men the majority of the time they are "soft" with women. It's a circle period, put in the work to prove you deserve that treatment don't just blindly expect it.
Agreed, but do you think these women give regular nice guys a chance....trust me, not even a glance...
Where do you find kindness for women that look at you with contempt for just passing by and minding your business?
Where do you get the temerity to work hard and provide for a woman that is talking to 20 other men?
You can't stack money if you're always spending.
Facts💯🆙
Be single and stack your money. The problem is y’all are greedy and want s3x even when you do not deserve it
Simps don't understand. I know men that make 200, 300k in usd, and are left with like 10k, 20k at the end of the year but always complain they can't achieve what they want in life.
There is he that scatters, yet increaseth, and there is he that withholds more than is meet and tends to poverty - proverbs of Solomon.
Says a stingy person who doesn't spend on a woman he claims he likes.
Nigerian men, most aren't broke and they spend on their women.
She's gorgeous. God I'm going to Africa!! I'm coming home...wherever she is 😅
SHHHAADDAAPPP
Karibu nyumbani 🇰🇪
Word up!
Hahaha
She is indeed very beautiful !
Me, i like kind men, even if he doesn't have much. He should be kind to everyone not just me.
Pls define kind?
😂😂😂
Please define the word "kind"
Stingy is a codeword here. It means they're not rich enough to give them the lifestyle they want, which is typically unrealistic for their country.
good point
Obviously. The moment a woman calls you stringy, know that you are doing the right thing. Simply means you are not a simp. Most of these women are pros+!tutes seeking relationship as though it's poverty eradication program. Most of them their parents can't even afford a decent meal yet imagine the entitlement mentality... Poverty mentality
@@proverbalizerare u rich or scammer
We all adults. Please have your own emergency funds
Agreed, for an emergency.
I have a well paying job, that's not an excuse for a man to be stingy.
@@truethots3088 last time I checked, we live in a world in equality. Therefore women don’t need to be stingy either. Please no double standards.
Yeees
Oshay is bringing his American Simping way of living into Africa!
Well done East African Brothers. We Rockin with you!!
She is beautiful.
Deadass!
Very
Yep, Joanita a baddie. She thick too.
I’d give her a solid 7.5/10
The American sistas are going to come after u, lol
Never allow yourself to be blackmailed into simping 😢
Im a Nigerian, grew up there. When it comes to them ladies, the street code is, you can never be stingy. We get her by any means necessary. Spending money on a woman we like is just our lifestyle, it’s in our DNA.
Because most Nigerians use credit card scams lol
And it should be that way.
Weak
That's why Nigeria will always be a dumping ground for Nigerian dead bodies abroad. What is wrong with you people
A fool and his money
No way..West African men, especially Nigerian and Liberian men know how to impress spend money on their women ooooooo..Especially for shopping and upkeep..and we love it naaaa. ❤❤❤😂😂😂😂
WEST AFRICAN MEN, LOVE WOMEN FROM EAST AFRICA😊😊!!.
I’m a African American with west African roots so it’s only natural that I like East African women.
You don't speak for all West-African men..
Because they are loose
American Black men say any and everything, just dumb for no reason. SMH🤦🏽♀️
I think the man dropping her to work has shown chivalry. You could had caught a matatu😅
Yes, but it was incomplete.
In East Africa, the men are kings by law and culture. Wanaume wa Afrika Mashariki ni wafalme wenye sheria na malezi. kweli kweli
Thank you and she is lying
Oshay needs to stop this. This is basically feminism in Africa. Dude left the us to get away from high matienance and allows Jonita to shame her men who are probably worse off economically than Americans were. Actually very sad ...Not for long. Multiple comments.
Nairobi wao ndo wabaka ji nambara moja.Ukisikia binti alienda kwa nyumba akapewa juice akanywa akazirai ni wao alafu wakaendelea na man3no mb0ff, hio thika road single mom wengi sana watoto wao wengine wao walitoroka,wengine kafukuzwa wizari ya uhamiaji.
Napiga hesabu watu aslimia nukta moja au chini ya idadi ya watu hapa kenya eti wanap0konya kina dada.Kama dad amepata jama anataka kufunga ndoa,amelipa mahari nini shida.Hizi tuu ni mbwe mbwe.Intermarriage imekuwa barani afrika na mababu zetu pia wao walipata kabila tofauta wakifunga ndoa.
Any Nigerian man that works hard to get his money doesn't spend money anyhow on a Woman.. This women will finish your money and cannot stay with you when there is hard time, they will run a way..
Well said brother,love from Uganda.
Not true
It's all about home training. I stand by this. If your parents don't teach you better (especially fathers) then the young men won't value a young women.
❤
Who can deal with this,....you want to eat all once,...east African women are too hard to work with,...Nigerian women are very respectful,..
Who said by having you we should give all our fortune to make you happy
Nigeria women are whatttt
@@thompsonjr7631 very, their men are kings
Lies. It’s the other way around 😂😂😂
Hehehehehe..You are just joking maybe..Nigeria has the most rude,aggressive and loud women trust me
@@thompsonjr7631he has no idea what he’s talking about! Nigerian women are the toughest to handle. So loud and aggressive.
I can guarantee you that the moment Nigerian men realised how good, beautiful and soft spoken East African women were they would never turn back
I’m happy and thankful you guys broadcast in English. Thank you.
east africa men they don't simp that easily not like west Africa men who simp and can even worship women
Exactly I hate my west African brothers for that
Don't complain when your women run to West African men.
@@nomaddiaries9790
Because you are overinflating their value by spending on them too much making them think they are the shit
It's their money let them spend it.. come Nigeria it's even worse here
Nigerian men kneel to the women and are controlled by the women.
They hold that as a badge of honour 😂
In order words; we Africans are yet to experience the life cycle of cherivery .
Good. Chivalry is wack. They say they want it but really women don't. They like the idea of it.
I'm glad you said cherivery instead of chivalry.
@@kamargee9680 They like it when it benefits them.
@@S41GON I hate that westernized mentality. You would think African women would see how it has and is destroying women in the US but they have that herd mentality
I am president of the Brooklyn chapter of the Stingy Man Association.
I know that's right. 💯👍🏽
Where do I sign up?
😭😭😭
I want to be a secret member of this group. I never let it be known I have no intentions of spending anything on them. Maybe we can go to the park and have a picnic 😂.
@@mateaukalua4426Well picnics aren'r exactly free either.
She is so pretty
For many Nigerian men especially igbo men. Its a disgrace if you wife or partner is not well taken care of . In fact the worth of a man is judged by hkw well he takes care of his woman and kids.. that why they dont ioke with that its culture and upbringing.
She isn’t talking about married couples. She is talking about receiving money as a girlfriend. Ofcourse a man’s wife is entitled to his money, but this entitlement that this girl talks about is the cause of toxic marriage life. After marriage all you get is negative energy from the man.
I was married to such a guy. He was stingy and careless as hell. I had to provide everything. Even with children. I am done.
@@truffaut650truffaut6hey from relationship you will know a stingy man.Kai he will never change when married..😂😂😂
@@aniekwennenna6183He was a passport bro and we were in a hurry to get married.😂 you are right.
She’s so beautiful, and I love that accent 😩
Let them take all, they'll regret in future
Nope😂
East African men are doing well.... I'm sure those men are respected the most.
Nigerian 🇳🇬 brothers also need to show much more respect to the Nigerian Woman also....and empower our righteous sistars in Nigeria 🇳🇬. All our Black ⚫️ Women in all of Africa 🌍 need to be empowered by all the Black ⚫️ Men in Africa 🌍 and America 🇺🇸. Etc........ Our East African Brothers must have forgotten that it was their Mothers who birthed them and loved 😍them even in the womb and took care of them when they couldn't do nothing for themselves when they were babies.... East African Men owe it to empower our women in all of East Africa 🌍.....
Joanita outted the videographer for leaving the girl on the road, but never said what the girl did.😂. He left Jonita to cross the street, doesn't she possess legs.🤣🤣🤣
lol
😂😂😂😂they broke 😂😂😂
See there should be a natural protectiveness over a female. Its not by choice , but instinct.
The same instinct that will make a Nigerian man ensure that while walking he walks closest to the traffic. The same one that has them carrying a lady's handbag and sleeping closest to the door.
So that if anything goes down, a perpetrator has to get through him first, to harm you.
Give me those protector types, ANYDAY.
@@sylviasworld9397feminism trying to kill all that.
@@sylviasworld9397na that’s too much
Very beautiful!
Why must a guy always spend given the high cost of living. East African woman should infact help the East African men to be strong not draining from the their pockets.
Don't take a woman then. You don't deserve one if you not gon overcome that weak thinking
Exactly!! If all she wants is your money, what is the difference between her and a known prostitute? Also, if your money runs out or business slows down, she will leave for the next highest bidder. If you find a woman before you have money and she is working with and supporting you, hold on to her and cherish her like gold. Otherwise, Make and save your money. Then search for a woman who will value your character over your money. These prostitutes can go to the white, Chinese, Arab and Indian men. They can have them.
@@blackchain1900 at least those men provide for them. What woman in their right mind wants struggle "love"?
@@blackchain1900Bingo.
@@nightwishisthegreatestband6355maybe they should get a job as a prostitute, if it pays well 😂. No need for love and honesty
Spending or been generous is a life style..if most Nigerians are generous with women then good it makes them popular amongst women around the world.. women loves gift and generosity ❤❤❤
Where can I find a Nigerian man. They seem to be the business.
Get your own money madam after all you are strong and independent. Welcome to the real world.
in Nigeria lol,
Scamming business 😂
She is Ugandan, beautiful and full of energy!
Let me say this very clearly for Non Nigerians 🇳🇬, it’s a NIGERIAN CULTURE for a man to take care of the woman (wife, kids, family and siblings who are financially disadvantaged) if they are dating you it’s the same thing so it’s in our DNA. It doesn’t matter the woman’s Job, career, business or degree the Nigerian man is RESPONSIBLE for the household. The Nigerian woman who is working knows what to do to support her husband and the household but it’s not HER DUTY, Nigerian men are ALPHA MALES (this is an UNARGUABLE FACT) despite their caring and giving nature this is not to be taken for stupidity and Nigerian women understand this (after all the Nigerian men are raised by Nigerian women) for those Non Nigerian women who think that by the generosity of Nigerian men, they can take them for granted and treat them as simps (well you can try 😂🤣) others have tried and like we say in Nigerian Pidgin English those women saw “shege” so do not take a Nigerian man’s cultural way of treating a woman for stupidity, as they will teach you an unforgettable lesson.
So in the world is only in the Nigerian DNA to take care of the family.Stop capping ma'am.😂
@@paultumelo7321 stop being ignorant and dumb and take your hatred and bitterness elsewhere!! I speak of what I know factually and that is my culture ☺️ speak about yours who is holding your mouth, OZOUR.
@@paultumelo7321You lack comprehension
African women are so feminine. Even when they're upset, they're adorable.
They aren't yet polluted with the teachings of Western "feminism".
SURE..as a Nigerian guy you're on POINT bro
So beautiful
🥶 shout out to guys keeping it tall and staying sturdy on these women. Equal rights. Equal lefts. 😅 🤷🏽♂️
FOH. What type of shit you teaching yo daughters bra. That's that weak beta mommas boy shit.
Yo 6th my dude 😂
@@ViewswithKurt You already 🤣🤜🏽🤛🏾
I ain’t forget. June 10 you said. Look for a place called Laweza Lounge 11 Makadara Rd across from Mombasa Dishes Restaurant. There’s a juice bar inside. I’ll link you on the ground
@@the6thregion I'll link
No simps here. Beasts from the East 👌
Because the average Nigerian woman lacks the body features that is mostly considered the standards of beauty for example a curvy body and a nicely shaped behind hence their men will do anything for women who poses these rare features in their home countries. I am a Ugandan who has got a chance to travel across different countries in Africa at least am speaking from experience. I don't mean to offend anyone. This Joanita girl is still stack in those African mentality of 'a man to offer financial means as a way of proving his love' hell no you can continue with your journey. These types are usually not home builders as their sense of family wealth creation is very distorted.While I am well aware of my role of providing means of security and comfort to my partner which in most cases means financial resources, i strong believe love should come unconditional.
Your mumu is legendary.. you are a yeye fawo
How many Nigerian ladies do u know to say they don't have curves. Come to Nigeria and see beauty. The fact that I marry foreigner is a matter of choice and that is not to say ladies back home are bad
My dear Ugandan brother, it is your women that are using Nigerian men to s*it on you. Nigerian women are not the ones here humiliating you. Leave the Nigerian women out of this. Get some balls and face and respond to the ppl that are embarrassing you. Deal with your publicized dirty laundry.
There are more than enough men in the world to satisfy Nigerian women and that’s one of the reasons you never or rarely ever see Nigerian women in the center of these “relationship” squabbles.
🤣🤣🤣
Look at all the men who had to listen to a western importation of manhood. If you for one second think the brother from America is not pushing his upbringing then we are all fools in Africa. I bet he can’t try this bs in Nigeria. Of course he can do it in Uganda, no disrespect to Uganda but this nonsense will not fly in Naija. They even use Nigeria in that title because we know it’s for our clicks. Just so you know, we are watching you. My message to you guys in Uganda is: in the world of the blind the one eyed man is king. You all are blind and that brother is the one eyed man. Leave your American exceptionalism in America.
Did these guys smash? well that matters. These women be telling on themselves smh.
That is a misconception ... Kenyan men, Fathers, brother, uncles, friends.. are angry because they the ones who are left to PICK UP the pieces when our sisters get hurt or abandoned or conned. When these deadbeats disappear and we are left to take care of kids they leave behind ...thats the main concern ..
Wengi wao ni wal3 watapewa character development ya kimataifa watawachwa wamekunjika vjiipande ndogo ndogo.Sisi wakenya nikama hatuna fahamu ama tumesahau eti wa0 ndio waba kaj! nambari moja hapa nairobi.Nakadiria wao ni kama sufuru nukta moja asimilia idadinya watu wote hapa kenya.Wanap0nyoka aji na kina dada.Nina hakaki kuna watu wengi wa bongo,uganda,congo,somali,kusini sudan kuwalik0.Nina rafiki alikuwa hapa nairobi mamba ya upelelezi.Weee zile hadithi ako nazo kuhusu hawa watu.Vile matiani alikuwa katibu wa baraza ya mawaziri/ministry of interior alikuwa amewarudisha.Ndio angerudisha wot3. Watu 0 vvyo sanaaaa
@@user-se5fm5fz8oeven here in US..enyewe kenyan ladies wamekuwa bure siku hizi..we are not even neighbors with these nyangaus
She’s beautiful
So African men arent called "broke" for not throwing their money at women?🤔
Correct
And you thought the ghetto and the hood only had golddiggers, welcome to 304 Africa
oh, so Nigerians be simpin/trickin
tricking, perhaps. simping, nah. nigerians aren’t green, a return on those investments is usually expected
@@tonyeffik6781 hope so
@@tonyeffik6781 true 100%
They are just using other people's money to simp girls until the law catches up...I know many Nigerians who use to spend thousands on stolen credit cards😂
Is it your money?...i thought you guys think Africans don't have money or enough to spend on others..
Well Nigerians are blowing the roof here in Africa mehh😂
African women salivating for them
With Nigerian simps, trust me it mostly ends in tears... I say this as an East African Man... Who wants the best for our East African Ladies..
Nigerian men may not be quick to marry you bcos certain tribes demands that their men marry from their tribes, however Nigerian men if they have the money, will treat you as their queen. in comparison to East African men, Nigerian men are 100% better off.
Agree.
@@NewworldlegalMost men will treat thier side kicks like a queen.
Na lie joo!
Lol Nigerian simps😂 boss my ladies from Tanzania and S.A are always happy with their Nigerian spouses...bro u need to see live fam...love that you guys can't give cos your ladies tag to stingy😂😂
She is a beautiful looking woman! You go, girl! Greetings from Queens New York United States of America!❤❤🤷🏾♀️😎
As a Nigerian, I advise young men to empower themselves first. Spend your money arranging your life first. The habit of impressing women through unnecessary spending on women will leave you in poverty and regret. Use your money to invest properly and women will be an addition to all things that will come to you. Any woman who comes to u will know you have substance. Be stingy like an east African man but be kind to people. Help women to build a life when you can but don't go about impressing them. Nigeria is experiencing a plague where young men a wasting so so much time and resources because of women it's so crazy.
Thanks for telling the truth sista..
All I can say is black women are beautiful asf!!! I want to visit Africa so bad!!!
I'm Nigerian and the entitlement in this video is heavy
Nigerian men are the best when it comes to treating a woman good with money. They will treat you so well that you will feel you owe them some 🐱 and they won’t have to ask you for any. You just give it up freely.😂
😂😂😂😂😂 until they leave you single m0m with 2 kids end up going back to your parents they ran awa or deported..until you hear get me a safaricom line with mpesa,then one day you picked up by the cops wondering whats going on,some1 was using your line do terrible stuff Until you hear lets do business and you told take a loan at equity we car import biz and rans away with the money. Until you get into the h0ze living 10 men he d r v g s you then other 10 men grapp3 you.
Many gals gr @pped by em, left baby mamas than married
@@us7wqtrnek7uu Hater! Keep hating.
Because the money is a scam money😂. It's free because it belongs to other people...Nigerians are number 1 in credit card scamming 😂...I used to party with them in America, fun times using other people's money😂😂😂
No Nigerian men throw money at women
You sound foolish...in the end, do they marry you
Respect to the African men from the states 👏🏾
Jonita is so cute😊
East African chase the " bag" not woman.
There is no need to chase women...
Great , the modern men should learn from East African men , they definitely not SIMPS and definitely not putting these modern ladies on a pedestal without earning it . Welcome to 2023! Big Up East Africa!
They are also losing their women to west African men and especially non African non blk men. I guess stinginess gets you stung 😂
@@RaineRay-gn3bn It gets you stung I agree I am an American and would marry a Nigerian any day as long as he is serious and his own documents.
Exactly. No special treatment.
Facts
@@RaineRay-gn3bn who cares as if a women is the main goal in life lol they only are supposed to add not be the main objective
She's beautiful
In South Africa they're very regenerous
I think those African men have the right idea quite frankly
Her smile is BEAUTIFUL 😊
no man should leave a woman in that predicament
She is pretty 😍❤️
In Kenya, we know what women are capable of. You don't prioritize others forgetting yourself. We (Men) in Kenya work for our sole purpose first. The main problem is once you meet most women you become a minting machine. And what we realized is, Being born a woman in Africa is already a "disability". Work hard fellas for yourself first avoid distractions.
Fascinating 🤔🤔🤔
What's wrong with GAS MONEY?
😂😂
_The expressway might legit be dangerous tho_
Once you give her money, she'll start seeing you as a bank. East african men should continue to reject simping.
Oshay told us to take that money and give it to ourselves lol
She is beautiful love to meet her
My money is my money. I'm not labishing it on any girl
Working together as a team is empowering.
She could model😍
Sounds like equality.
How is that equality? Would you appreciate anybody dropping you off on the wrong side of a busy street? Be real!
@@bayyinahzhaxx7620 that's nothing to me
@@dliv1687 That's you, but it is inconsiderate.
@@bayyinahzhaxx7620 When I was child that was normal. I had grown-ups drop me off on the opposite side of busy streets. I just had to learn to cross the street. The fact that women are complaining about something so simple shows the inequality in treatment of the genders.
@@dliv1687as an African woman who dates white men only i came to that conclusion after dating my first white man and experienced how a man should treat a woman i have never looked back a white man would never live a woman half way the journey or drop her a cross from were she is going a white man make sure your dropped on the door step even if his angry at a woman or disappointed he will still treat you like a lady and treat you right and when his woman needs anything he will make sure the problem is solved without questioning you to all my black ladies please ther other race of men who can make you happy and treat you the right way
They know it , and they are similar here in the States too !
Being kind and generous to a woman or anyone at that is not Simping please.
Great job East African brothas😂😂😂
Destiny's Child dropped Indepenent Woman more than 20 years ago 😂
I see nothing wrong with treating entitled women as this. Women want traditional treatment but give modern nothing.
There are plenty 🎉
These comments are interesting. I’m not African I’m FBA, but I see a lot of your points.
men should be stingy. as it should be. men have to set the tone.
Women say that they want you to not be stingy & share. What that really mean is that they want you to give! Women confuse the two meanings. Sharing is an exchange, both parties deposit something tangible or valuable to both, to be used by both. Giving is a transfer from one to another to be used or consumed by the other. Selfish women want you to "share", but they mean give!
You guys are confusing American culture and using it in African cultures.. sorry.. here men are the providers.. nothing like 50-50..if can't provide for her good luck in finding a female.. even parents will not tolerate going with a man who can't afford her certain standards 🤷🏿♂️
You're right my beautiful because i was dating a Kenyan girl luo from Kisumu for 3 years in Germany. im from west Africa , now living in Rome.
No SIMPING MEN, BUILD WITH A WOMAN THAT IS A HELP MEET. PERIOD.
DON'T LET THE SERPENT PLAY YA LIKE HE PLAYED EVE TO DESTROY HOUSEHOLDS.
Though they're laughing the Esteem influence is penetrating the world and I pray we all rise. And reclaim our wealthy behavior.
Why would a man just give someone money because they a different gender
All men should empower THEMSELVES is correct....no woman should have money....the secrets women keep who have money omg
If you empower African women then why should you be entitled to his resources.