this is actully became of the internet cuz it only gives light to people who say crazy shit real or not so if we see so only femenist who say [kill all men or men are dogs] get viral and men's rights activist who say [women shouldn't wear short dresses or its the women's fault that she went out at night] get the spot light and also i know u may have hear this things in real lifie too by some uncle or some cheap minded people belive me most people won't say things like this even i have hear my farther's sister who can't get married becuz she is unhealthy fat like over 100 kg i belive say [sab ladke vese bhi ladkiyo ko marte hai mujhe saadi nhi karni ab] and remember this is the same women who went on many dates with guys who ofcourse rejected her so yea
@Future vocalist If everyone would have said that's the girls fault than instead of rapists the victims would had been hanged. It was people only who made it possible that rape is taken so seriously in our country. Usa never hanged one because they don't even take that seriously. And because our country hate rape so much thats why it's been said to girls too to take precautions. Is it wrong. Just because off channels like this made the girls take that advice as some sort of rebel.
Everyone saying this type of men only exist in web series or drama but I found my man 5 years ago he accepted my past I told him what happened with me when I was child and his reaction was "I will hold you for forever don't worry it wasn't your mistake". It's been 5 years and he isn't changed he is the same even now he is more possesive of me and love me more.
Hats off to the girl's confidence.... it's very tough to admit and say this thing.... and when someone understands you, the feeling you get in that moment can't be compared to any thing... 😊🙏👏❤
@@sureshtripathi7 Woh toh sune wale logon ke mindset & understanding pe nirbhar kar tha hai... Isiliye hamara kam hai logon ko aware karna, knowledge provide karna and victim blamed ko rokana.
It’s not about rape. It’s the emotional trauma the girl has to go through. All through her life that scar will be there. It will affect her, then her family. And for a man to accept her he should accept her not just the past but all the future issues she will go through. Her fears, her insecurities, her anxiety. And there are such wonderful men who accept all of it. I had experiences in the past which haunts me till today. I have depression and anxiety. And I never hid my past from my husband. He knew all of it even before we started dating. And even today he stands strong next to me. Takes me to my psychiatrist appointments. Has listened to my worst nightmares and gave me confidence. Loves me without any judgements. We are together for 13 years and with two beautiful kids. Let’s stop this male hate. There are so many wonderful men out there. Don’t go for the looks or money. Marry someone who is worthy of your love and respect.
Loved your comment! I agree, there are good men as there are good women. I agree with you in the sense that one has to accept their past and the baggage that comes with it, be honest about it to their partner and if the partner is generous enough, they will honour you with the same honesty, respect and support.
Madam, could I call you, BEtee, please. Please accept my greetings and best wishes for having such an understanding life partner. Though I know not you, I feel proud of you both and your parents. May you all be blessed.
@Future vocalist if this happeneds to the girl i like i will still marry her with no regrets and i can't even think i can forget her because of something which wasn't even her fault rightnow im working on my carrier which is going the greatest way it can and when its time for me to get married i will even fight with my farther to marry her becuz i know they won't let me because as u said she is also a so called average looking girl, dark skined but in my eyes i have never seen someone more beautiful then her and the only reason im working is for the life she deserve i can't ever see her suffer [btw i don't even know if u want to hear this or if u would even belive me but i make 4 lakh a month im saving up so i could settle for her only] so i think men who respect the girl they like do exist]
No no one can fix to anyone... You have to heal yourself .. The girls is already heal from the trauma that she have that's the only reason she got courage to speak truth.. And face the reality ..
I don't understand this concept. If a girl is molested or raped why do they say that ki ladki ki izzat chli gayi. Bhai jisne wrong kia hai uski galti hai ladki ki izzat kaise gayi isme. Ye to indirectly ye kehna ho gaya ki agar koi murderer kisi person ka murder krde to uss person ko blame kro ki tujhe Marne ki zaroorat hi kya thi. Kisi ka accident ho jaaye to usse hi blame kro ki tujhe accident krne ki zaroorat hi kya thi.
Getting your point..but they say 'izzat loot li'..meaning she was robbed of her dignity....it doesn't mean she doesn't have any...it just means the act of looting someone's honor.. the expression is not meant to blame the woman in itself.. I think it's more to denote how a woman would feel after being raped.. she would for sure feel that her dignity has been violated..
@@neelt4975 I don't fully agree i have seen people in real life too saying that ki agar ladki rape ho jaata hai ya ladki agar consensually bhi agar already kr chuki hoti hai to bhi 'izzat chli gayi' term use Kiya jaata hai. I can understand the consensual one coz 's*ex' is not yet a comfortable topic in India but saying izzat chli gayi and literally treating that girl like damaged goods after what she went through is what really happens. Don't believe me see the reactions of the neighbours of the girl in Nirbhaya case. They literally said no to go police station and hospital with them and their literal words were ki muh kaala kra ke aayi usse to marne ke liye chod dena chahiye. Uss ladki ke liye jiske andar literally rod ghusha di thi. Or else you should watch national television where politicians said ki itni raat ko bahar jaayegi to yahi hona tha. Par vo kya haina vo kuch acche logo ke candle march ke peeche ye asliyat chup jaati hai
"HELP I HAVE BEEN SHOT" "Well we're you wearing a bulletproof vest?" "No" "Then it's your fault" "How!?" "You weren't wearing a bulletproof vest, people can't handle themselves when they see someone without a bulletproof vest 🙄"
Bro This is India... If you have money no matter what the worst crime you do, you got escaped .... In west Bengal our educational minister caught with thousands crore of black money and still not in jail
@@DJISBEST your comments makes zero since now get lost Definitely don't need your advice it makes sense or not ............ because senseless like you can say anything .
Truth if said in a bold way.....means a lot....but if we express it in a hesitating way.....can be a different one.....so speak louder when you are not wrong.....
I also been through the same when I was a child... I told this to my ex- husband to make him understand why I am who I am. His response was I don't care. Then after few years of divorce I dated a man. He said I have left a virgin girl for you. I felt insulted and stabbed.... So trust me these kind of men only happen in scripts... In real, men are assholes...
Is your father too. If a girl has right to choose whatever man she likes than why you said so about your husband if he just stated what he wanted. What about his rights.
@@Shiva-zj6od yes, he has right to choose but look at his choosing standards literally &enseless, baseless n toxic now, if his mother or sister were also victim of this n, he abandoned them on this basis, n say its my right to choose damm where r ur morals gone, literally +rash
@@somyashrivastava2056 r u mentally ill or what? So u meant that a man marries his mother or sister. What a woke u are. Its in ur home culture. Not in real good society. How in this conversation u brought mother and sister. Its about the marriage not abondoning. A marriage on lie is definitely morally correct as per u. Please get a check up. U think bringing mother or sister will equalise everything. What u do with your bf. Do u do the same with your brother. The requirements from every relations is different. Get yourself educated on this thing first. Every relation is different. If u have moral to do the same with your brother or father what u will do with ur husband. Then do it but don't expect society to accept it.
@@Shiva-zj6od yes ppl have right to choose but his words speaks abt his mentality, they think women are just a show piece just showing off her for societal status. It was a crime which happened with her in such a tender age and how come someone can blame her for this when it wasn't her fault at all. Did that guy can say this to his own sister that no guy would marry her cus she had this crime in her past.
O just stop your dirty shit Why you shit women's wANT men to accept why can't you accept yourself you disgust mentality . HE IS KINDA TRUTH HE ALSO HAVE SOME EXPECTATIONS IN RELATIONSHIP THAT'S IT . He just have sympathy for you and nothing . Girls like you lose virginity as fun and want other man to accept which is the real funniest thing . CLEARLY SAY YOU ALL ALWAYS NEED MEN THAT'S IT CAN'T FIGHT ALONE .
Even her father stop her to say the truth because he has the fear the girl dont have . after rapp no one is the side of girl even her parents put some rules on her so at she always be at home in front of our eyes so that no one gonna do it again. How ridiculous😤
@Neet 2023 Aspirant yes its a bloody truth but i tried to tell this to my parents and now expect of saying them my parents has strickly kept eyes on me its become a lot of time i have not gone out side because of that bloody bit*h minds😠😠
@pragyasingh1011 i dont know if i am but i will try my best to become. For me if a get a good partner i will put her above my own self. As her man i have certain duties to fullfull i will care for her, provide and protect her. The day she says that i love her the same her father does to her that day i will succeed as a partner.
I do not have burdens anymore. I live my own life with my own purpose. What others think of me is none of my business. I have made amends, and corrected my faults. I am not a victim, to carry others problems, that is their job. I take responsibility for myself in all parts of my life. I have matured and you all should also be matured 😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇
And who is going to decide her purity? Her mental purity? And what does it mean by no one can make her impure, does that mean anyone should let bad things happen to them because it can't MAKE THEM IMPURE? Can people like you stop equating girls with purity??
@@elladianh1191 and also when the right time will come her karma will decide that if she has done something wrong or not, if she think about something or someone bad then others will do the same, that's how it decided about mental purity and also I'd be never said that we should let anything happened to her, it's you who said that.
@@elladianh1191 I can't stop equating people with purity because while judging guy and society we should also take a look at the girl's character what if she is a homewrecker or something, now don't say that a girl can't be a homewrecker becz when it comes to completing desires then a HUMAN can do anything including women, so ofcourse we should treat everyone with equality and girls shouldn't get special treatment just because they are girls. Well the guy could also be wrong so on that place we don't need people like you "professional guys hater promoting toxic feminism" becz on that place the whole SOCIETY will stand up with them.
True hearts....mentally impure people with no physical alignment ...is more dangerous in life . ...just see hearts for love...with spirituality in it...Live for others happiness...love the heart which loves...only...
Let's team up people let's make a team who supports the victims. The team who would kill the monster if they ever see one. The team who will break their bones their heads. Let's make a team who can protect the victim. Let's end this suffering
@@punitasinghal801 did u said 95% , u know every girl out there who went to study out what happens in there life, what they do !! U can talk abt yourself u don't know everyone's story and yeah thoes girls whom u mentioned above are with boys only so count them too shirf ladki nahi hoti hai. U r speaking all this abt a sensitive topic there are many victims too seeing your comments your words are hurting there sentiments.
@@pranjalraghuwanshi8803 how much you will hide the truth this is only the truth it hurts but it's the fact . Most of the youth ......... Example Kota Now what u will hide .
@@pranjalraghuwanshi8803 and with which boy they keep contact . Your words that senseless do you even read what I wrote I think no if you don't know anything better keep your mouth shut I LITERALLY DON'T THINK YOUR AWARE OF IT ALSO.
@@pranjalraghuwanshi8803 victim's should be strong, to listen this type of nonsense.....and should be ready to give the savage reply. She is talking like she has lived with that 95% girls
I had 2 such men in my life! One from my previous marriage! I have gone through molestation and I thought that’s a serious issue! But he came when I was in 1st yr of college! He simply smiled and said, even if you’re are rape victim that doesn’t bother me, as that doesn’t involve my consent! He was just 19 when he said that! We were in love for 7 yrs and married for 2 yrs and one day, all of a sudden he passed away in an accident! He is like a guardian angel to me! I stayed single for 7 yrs! Then my man came into my life! For him, it’s his first marriage, so the event happened in a grand manner as per his wish! Trust me, he never talked about past and now we are blessed with a baby! I MUST admit that, both of my men are from small town and a small village of southern Tamilnadu! It’s all about their brought ups by their mothers!
We all should treat this type of girl similar to any other girl. The boy said absolutely correct, it is an accident she didn't had control over it. The past accident doesn't decide the character of a person.
It's media show only in reality there are not a single men like this..... Only truth is that everyone should try to keep themselves safe as much as they can (both genders).
I was abused as a child at the age of 7 and I told my husband about it during our engagement and we never spoke of it again as he knew it was not my fault the abuse happened, he didn't ask me any invasive questions or any details of the account as it did not matter to him and his ego to know the extent of the abuse rather he was sympathetic about it. A good man always understands that it is not your fault and whatever happened doesnt mean you are tainted in any way.
Why are all the girls expected to be respected This is ridiculous A person is respected by their work and not their gender, go you think that a bad impure girl should be respected who has done many shameless things?? Reply me back if you can
I met with an accident and literally a maid said "kya khubsurat ladki pr ab to langdi hogai" ...I was like I would have punched her on her face...but I remained calm bcz as I science student I knew I'm gonna be well soon...and now luckily I run,jump,walk as I like So dear education is important!!
Every girl here is a school girl. Guys/girls if you want a honest and understanding relationship with your partner then tell them your past and want you want in the future. If they don't want you based on your past, then it's good for you that you are saved from a potential toxic relationship. First if you don't find your ideal partner, move out of that area bruh get a new environment that helps you grow mentally and peaceful which also helps you in finding a mature and understanding person.
@@capterpillerwhy ll anyone try to damage her & her parents' image?? Because It's not the consensual premarital sex of girl. It's a ra*ped.. so it's not her fault & not her parents.
Everybody have right to choice If anyone thinks that this girl is not appropriate for me, then its completely his choice to reject her; if anybody thinks that this girl is appropriate for me, then its his choice to accept her I don't know why society make a man great if he accepts a girl who had some bad past There is no need of this Its about anyone's choices
Because it's the same for the girl too,there is no forceful act that you have to but it is immoral if you say no and it's not just for men but for women too if they reject men for these kinda reason
@@barbiedoll4873 when did i mention that girls has no rights to reject a boy? As it is for the boy, it is same for the girl too. It is as simple as that And who decides what moral and immoral, wait why is the topic of morality coming here? Its about choices, right? If you bring the concept of morality, it is clear that you are forcing someone to do any action I clearly mentioned that if anyone thinks that he/she is appropriate for him/her then he has complete right to accept and if anyone thinks that he/she is not appropriate for him/her then he/she has complete right to reject It is as simple as that
@@Smart_Soham no it's not,it's discrimination it is an simple as that It was literally taught in sixth grade That if your choose or not choose someone due to reasons as...... you are discriminating Discriminating against a rape victim or against accident victim opinion is you like white I like pink it's not anyone who wears white are(insert ABC bad or good comment)
@@barbiedoll4873 'Its discriminating'!!!! Discriminating for a rape victim???? Well by mentioning 'rape victim' you just showed the inequality you have to them. Each and every girl is equal and each and every girl deserves the same treatment irrespective of their caste, race, religion or other situations It means that no girl deserves extra privileges as each and everyone is treated equally according to the context And you have exposed your silliness by general consideration of yours of choosing or rejecting th girl as she is rape victim or not I can't even understand that how can the context of 'rape victim' can come while choosing or rejecting a girl Its completely a person's choice And discrimination, do you even know the meaning of discrimination? And what? sixth grade, right? Keep your sixth grade with you I don't know why can't you understand this simple thing Choosing or rejecting a person completely depends on the person and not anyone else Here no context like 'rape victim' doesn't come Its completely the person's choice If the person fits/doesn't fit in the person life then the person has complete right to accept/reject the person and it completely depends on them And you are bringing irrelevant topics like discrimination What's your age, ha???
@@Smart_Soham awwww again you did the same mistake Then according to your logic there should be no reservations?????for specific people?but the reason that they are discriminated due to certain reasons they are provided privileges because there is a difference between same and equality 😊 No one is saying you do not have an option no one can or should force but it's simply wrong because you are treating them differently just because of that certain reason where it wasn't even their fault It applies if you would have accepted the girl if she wasn't raped,which means you are just taking that specific point and it is absolutely horrible
Yes uncontrollable situations unpredictable life. Yet some psychopaths want to control everything and everyones life . And they do it well. But not forever.
Girls saying these men exist in web series only. Remember you have to be parvati first in order to get shivji. First you choose a$$holes over nice guys and then blame the bad men for leaving you. When any relationship ends the girl says its the mans fault but never acknowledges that she choose the wrong person. You need to learn to choose the good men. After breakup guys hit the gym, go intp self development improves himself and learns from his mistakes. They hold themselves accountable for failed relationships while most women put the blame on the guy and assume i deserve better and never looks onto herself what she did wrong in choosing for a guy.
@@capterpillerblaming parents for the love failure is just an excuse ,but nothing. Kya maa baap se puchh kar pyar kiya tha?? Kya maa baap se puchha tha..kise bf banau?? Nahi na.. Ye sab nautanki he unn ladkiyo ki. Aaj kal ke ladkiya..jan bhukh kar aese ladko ko chunte he..jinko pyar aur shadi se koi matlab nahi. Bas pyar ka naam lekar ,,unke saath so jate he. Aur baad me bolte he..ki...ladke unka sareer ka istemal karke chhor diya. Jan bhujh kar khud aese ladke chunte he,,,jinko sirf se*x se matlab he. Bas dono ne aapni hawas..lambe samay tak pura karne ke baad,,ladka chala jata he. Aur ladki baad me magar mach ki aanshu dikhakar kisi achhe ladke ko...aapni jaal me fasane ke liye...bolte he:-""mera ex bf ne Mera istemal kiya". Par hakikat kuchh aur hi hota he. As I said....most love relationship aren't actually love. Those love relationships are only for long term hookup upto marriage.
@@ra....0 parents ko hurt nahi karna chahti?? Ye kya bakwas he?? Tumhari life he. Decision tumhare hona chahiye. Baat karlo uss se. Kyunki agar sach me sahi ladka he...to phir shadi karke sukun se rehe sakti ho.
@@ra....0 Tumhari pasand ki naam v to koi chiz he?? Tumhe kon pasand he ..wo tumhara choice he. Par ladkiyo ki pasand?? Me tumhari baat nahi kar raha hu. Pyar ke liye uss type ke ladke...aur shadi ke uss type ke ladke pasand aate he. Isliye ek kahabat he:-""ladki chahe bf kisiko v banale ;par shadi wo uss type ke ladke ke se karegi jiske saath uski future safe ho" Par sirf shadi ke liye uss type ke ladke chaiye??😡😡 Koi object thodi he wo ladke?? Isliye to...Aaj kal ye ladkiya .. chutiyon ke saath pyar ka naam lekar aayasi karne ke baad ..shadi ke liye uss type ke ladko ko next bf banane ka target rakhte he..ya phir ..sidha arrange marriage me inhi ladko ko dhundte he. Ye galat he. Jo banda genuinely achha hoga...usse achhi ladki ke saath hona chahiye. Aise ladki ke saath nahi...jinko pyar ke liye chutiyo type ke ladke pasand he..aur shadi ke liye uss type ke genuinely achhe ladke.
Genuinely acche ladke par ajkal hote kaha hai? Ajkal ladke bhi exactly yehi same kaam karte hai, gf banate hai aise hi timepass k liye lekin shadi ki baat aaye to 'sanskari' ladki dhundhte hai.. there is no difference in the attitude between boys and girls here..so stop with your female shaming bullshit.
When a girl cheats or leaves a boy, why do boys say girls are cheaters, No loyalty in girls, Only boys love truly but not girls? (These types of comments are significantly more than the boy blaming comments you mentioned) Why don't boys say I chose the wrong girl?
Girls saying these type of men exist in the web series "To get shiv you have to be parvati first" Ask yourself what kind of partner you want to become and then search for the same. Or you may look into your friendzoned list there you will find guys like this.
@@capterpiller better milega tumko….. just make sure ladka care kare tumhare life and make sure ki tumhe caring and charming ke bich ka difference pata hai.
@@capterpiller thats sad, ab kuch log ese hai ki jinke liye mujhe bhi sharm ati hai, im sorry tumne ye face kia. But just to let you know ye abuse tha, nonconsensual chiz thi , is chiz ke liye agar tumhe koi accept nahi karra then wo insan “C” hai. Agar tumne hookup ya fir pre marital seggs apne marzi se kia hota us basis pe samajh ata. Lekin yahape tumhari galti nahi hai. Khair past change nahi ho sakta but i would recommend ki tum pehle khud heal ho jao. Khud pehle is chiz ko face karo and uske bad hi kisike baare me socho. Jab us insaan ko tum trust karne lag jao tab hi uske sath past share karna . I wish you the best👍…. Tum better deserve karti ho
@@capterpillerhey,, don't feel sad. U have faced abused in childhood. But it's not ur fault. Aur aese kyu bol Rahi ho ki...tumhe life partner milna aasan nahi he. Maybe u never hv met guy like me. Isliye aesa sochna v maat!! Even good looking man having high profile job ll agree to make u life partner.
@@capterpillersome guys have problem to marry a girl who has done consensual sex with her so called bf in the name of love relationship before marriage. Bcuz today's most love relationship isn't for love..but for long term hookup. That's why 99% love relationship aren't successful. Cause those relationship are full of lust,,not love. But ur case is different. U are se*xually abu*sed. It's not ur fault. So don't think too much.guy like me ll definitely accept u completely.
The message is that that is not the only thing that has happened in her life... she is much more than a rape victim... someone who is building her life.... someone who is growing out of it and all women should be given that opportunity too.... or else whole life they'd be shamed and told on their face for things that they are not at fault for.... He is not demeaning her trauma but he's socially telling that she is not just a victim she has other identities which she has held up with complete respect... cause his mom is lookin at her with that social stigma he's removing that stigma not the individual girls trauma .... read bw the lines Or think about it if he sympathized with her she'd be given pity all her life and no respect
The similarity is that they both did not have any control or part to play in either of the situations both were just at the wrong place at the wronf time, the difference is one was only physically traumatised other was both physically and mentally traumatised but society reacts to it very differently and consider the SA victims damaged goods and try to make if their whole identity which is completely wrong. That is the point of this video.
If the girl is really beautiful and the guy really likes her, then yes. Anyway, the girl will have to make a compromise with the looks of the guy and his bank balance.
@@_krishnagarg_ that was clever 😁your comment i mean I think that's right But yes you can find a girl like this She will compromise if the boy always support her
These kind of men will be confined to only web series and movies
Same goes for women
@@sigmamaleslogokijalegi6683 Yes pal you're damn true 👍
They are confined to friendzone....they are taken as uncool people...
@@ShyamKumar-wq7ky who said its uncool
i think its kind nature, n everyone appreciate it
@@somyashrivastava2056well here we are talking about them being Bf or husband...no one wants them you can talk about high morals on RUclips
And people see the victim girl as that was girl's fault 😔
There is a situation .
Thinking like that , but people get sympathy and they should WHO REALLY FACE IT NOT THEM WHO USE THEIR NAME
@Future vocalist well
That people has to know now
AND FROM WHERE FAULT CAME , WHY SO INSECURE
Koi nahi bolta aisa
this is actully became of the internet cuz it only gives light to people who say crazy shit real or not so if we see so only femenist who say [kill all men or men are dogs] get viral and men's rights activist who say [women shouldn't wear short dresses or its the women's fault that she went out at night] get the spot light and also i know u may have hear this things in real lifie too by some uncle or some cheap minded people belive me most people won't say things like this even i have hear my farther's sister who can't get married becuz she is unhealthy fat like over 100 kg i belive say [sab ladke vese bhi ladkiyo ko marte hai mujhe saadi nhi karni ab] and remember this is the same women who went on many dates with guys who ofcourse rejected her so yea
@Future vocalist If everyone would have said that's the girls fault than instead of rapists the victims would had been hanged. It was people only who made it possible that rape is taken so seriously in our country. Usa never hanged one because they don't even take that seriously. And because our country hate rape so much thats why it's been said to girls too to take precautions. Is it wrong. Just because off channels like this made the girls take that advice as some sort of rebel.
Everyone saying this type of men only exist in web series or drama but I found my man 5 years ago he accepted my past I told him what happened with me when I was child and his reaction was "I will hold you for forever don't worry it wasn't your mistake". It's been 5 years and he isn't changed he is the same even now he is more possesive of me and love me more.
The reality is most of the men are like this .
Happy to hear this,such men exists 😊
@@rishikeshvashishtha7347 don't be so sure
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Everyone is not so lucky..so cherish what you have 😘
Hats off to the girl's confidence.... it's very tough to admit and say this thing.... and when someone understands you, the feeling you get in that moment can't be compared to any thing... 😊🙏👏❤
Agr real life me aisa karegi to kya sahi rahega uske liye
@@sureshtripathi7 Woh toh sune wale logon ke mindset & understanding pe nirbhar kar tha hai...
Isiliye hamara kam hai logon ko aware karna, knowledge provide karna and victim blamed ko rokana.
@@kaverishingade1403 but all are not victims
Some use victim names . To hide their true identity .
@@kaverishingade1403 victim blaming karna bohot galt hai. Bechari pehle hi dukh me rehte hi log mentally torture karte hai wo alag
@@punitasinghal801 bro no girls will do that thing ok .Just have a brain
It’s not about rape. It’s the emotional trauma the girl has to go through. All through her life that scar will be there. It will affect her, then her family. And for a man to accept her he should accept her not just the past but all the future issues she will go through. Her fears, her insecurities, her anxiety.
And there are such wonderful men who accept all of it. I had experiences in the past which haunts me till today. I have depression and anxiety. And I never hid my past from my husband. He knew all of it even before we started dating. And even today he stands strong next to me. Takes me to my psychiatrist appointments. Has listened to my worst nightmares and gave me confidence. Loves me without any judgements. We are together for 13 years and with two beautiful kids. Let’s stop this male hate. There are so many wonderful men out there. Don’t go for the looks or money. Marry someone who is worthy of your love and respect.
More power to you dear
You are such a wonderful and mature woman
Nowerdays girl's are hell toxic not all but most of them
Internet just ruined youth
@@IIT_BOMBAY69honestly it’s the people not the internet. Yes internet has some influence but it really depends on a persons nature.
That’s awesome!! I am so very happy to hear this. Thank you for sharing.
Loved your comment! I agree, there are good men as there are good women. I agree with you in the sense that one has to accept their past and the baggage that comes with it, be honest about it to their partner and if the partner is generous enough, they will honour you with the same honesty, respect and support.
Madam, could I call you, BEtee, please.
Please accept my greetings and best wishes for having such an understanding life partner.
Though I know not you, I feel proud of you both and your parents.
May you all be blessed.
How gr8 it would be that if in reality all of the men become like this guy😇
There are..but not all
@Future vocalist have you met all of them?
@Future vocalist if this happeneds to the girl i like i will still marry her with no regrets and i can't even think i can forget her because of something which wasn't even her fault rightnow im working on my carrier which is going the greatest way it can and when its time for me to get married i will even fight with my farther to marry her becuz i know they won't let me because as u said she is also a so called average looking girl, dark skined but in my eyes i have never seen someone more beautiful then her and the only reason im working is for the life she deserve i can't ever see her suffer [btw i don't even know if u want to hear this or if u would even belive me but i make 4 lakh a month im saving up so i could settle for her only] so i think men who respect the girl they like do exist]
@@iamnotthatguy816 if yo really meant wht yo r saying ,than i appreciate it
@Future vocalist inspite isn't a word apply some sense in ur life first
That girl is so brave. Telling dark past takes guts. Respect to her and may the rapists Rot in Hell.
Yes. They must rot there forever
Brave kya bhi jaisa script mein likha hota hai wahi hota hai
To vo bhi character ke baree me hi baat krr Rahi hai @@Devil2.0069
"TWO BROKEN HUMANS CAN FIX THEMSELVES"
~ a wise man
No no one can fix to anyone...
You have to heal yourself ..
The girls is already heal from the trauma that she have that's the only reason she got courage to speak truth..
And face the reality ..
@@sajidkazi2819 that's not always true sometimes we need someone to overcome something
Heart broke when u realize it's just an ad 💔
No....🥺 We exist in here still! I mean try to exist, how could I make you believe?❤️
@@Akrushta agree 👍
@@Akrushtathese types of girls only like toxic guys and will cry like anything 😂😂😂
It's always the victim who is suffering the one who did the wrong things are happily doing the same thing to someone
Meri hassi nahi ruk rahi 🤭
@@knightwing2024hasne wali koi baat nhi thi...
@@knightwing2024 keep the same smile when something will happen to any women of your family,, your smile shouldn't be faded away 👍
@@knightwing2024hasi bacha ke rakh jab tere saath kuch esa hoga tab hasna mujhe bhi bulana saath mein hase ge
So true it's always the victim who suffers and people blame victims only... This world is a cruel place to live for victims 💔
I don't understand this concept. If a girl is molested or raped why do they say that ki ladki ki izzat chli gayi. Bhai jisne wrong kia hai uski galti hai ladki ki izzat kaise gayi isme. Ye to indirectly ye kehna ho gaya ki agar koi murderer kisi person ka murder krde to uss person ko blame kro ki tujhe Marne ki zaroorat hi kya thi. Kisi ka accident ho jaaye to usse hi blame kro ki tujhe accident krne ki zaroorat hi kya thi.
Getting your point..but they say 'izzat loot li'..meaning she was robbed of her dignity....it doesn't mean she doesn't have any...it just means the act of looting someone's honor.. the expression is not meant to blame the woman in itself.. I think it's more to denote how a woman would feel after being raped.. she would for sure feel that her dignity has been violated..
@@neelt4975 I don't fully agree i have seen people in real life too saying that ki agar ladki rape ho jaata hai ya ladki agar consensually bhi agar already kr chuki hoti hai to bhi 'izzat chli gayi' term use Kiya jaata hai. I can understand the consensual one coz 's*ex' is not yet a comfortable topic in India but saying izzat chli gayi and literally treating that girl like damaged goods after what she went through is what really happens. Don't believe me see the reactions of the neighbours of the girl in Nirbhaya case. They literally said no to go police station and hospital with them and their literal words were ki muh kaala kra ke aayi usse to marne ke liye chod dena chahiye. Uss ladki ke liye jiske andar literally rod ghusha di thi. Or else you should watch national television where politicians said ki itni raat ko bahar jaayegi to yahi hona tha. Par vo kya haina vo kuch acche logo ke candle march ke peeche ye asliyat chup jaati hai
@@nidhi0251 I agree to your opinion
@@neelt4975 dignity chali gyi?! so what? We start treating them like broken glass. Jitni dignity thi utni abhi bhi hai , jisne rape kiya uski dignity gyi hai.
@@NOONE-og4do You dint understand my point.
"HELP I HAVE BEEN SHOT"
"Well we're you wearing a bulletproof vest?"
"No"
"Then it's your fault"
"How!?"
"You weren't wearing a bulletproof vest, people can't handle themselves when they see someone without a bulletproof vest 🙄"
Not wearing bulletproof jackets does not reveals your skin ... not wearing them does not makes you half naked ... ...
@@md.zaidalam7417bro I think these days animals also need to wear clothes as they are being raped too for going naked all the time.
@@sanjubaba3996fr there are many cases in the world where even animals are getting r#### human cants control their disgusting desires
@@md.zaidalam7417 tum bhi jaroor napunsak ho.
@@md.zaidalam7417 there are also little boys who get raped. What kind of clothes do they wear?
People who rap those types of people direct killed and a strict law should be made 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬
Bro This is India... If you have money no matter what the worst crime you do, you got escaped .... In west Bengal our educational minister caught with thousands crore of black money and still not in jail
@@fine____444 before this grazing India may I know one thing
which country people face crime punishment if there rich .
@@punitasinghal801 damn
You are even here with even more bigotic comment
@@DJISBEST your comments makes zero since now get lost
Definitely don't need your advice it makes sense or not ............ because senseless like you can say anything .
Yeah man. Those mf couldn't love someone. F them
The girl is so beautiful... And also courageous... And hats off to the guy if this ad can bring a change in the mindset of others
She is Bangladeshie actor
Vidya Sinha Mim is a Bangladeshi actress.
Some girls like you wants Polite,good-charactered,successful men to marry a raped women.😂
That doesn't seem fair.
@@shubhramayacharjee1954 wow didn't realise it's Mim!
This man deserves the whole world
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Truth if said in a bold way.....means a lot....but if we express it in a hesitating way.....can be a different one.....so speak louder when you are not wrong.....
I also been through the same when I was a child... I told this to my ex- husband to make him understand why I am who I am. His response was I don't care.
Then after few years of divorce I dated a man. He said I have left a virgin girl for you. I felt insulted and stabbed....
So trust me these kind of men only happen in scripts...
In real, men are assholes...
Is your father too. If a girl has right to choose whatever man she likes than why you said so about your husband if he just stated what he wanted. What about his rights.
@@Shiva-zj6od yes, he has right to choose
but look at his choosing standards literally &enseless, baseless n toxic
now, if his mother or sister were also victim of this n, he abandoned them on this basis, n say its my right to choose
damm where r ur morals gone, literally +rash
@@somyashrivastava2056 r u mentally ill or what? So u meant that a man marries his mother or sister. What a woke u are. Its in ur home culture. Not in real good society. How in this conversation u brought mother and sister. Its about the marriage not abondoning. A marriage on lie is definitely morally correct as per u. Please get a check up. U think bringing mother or sister will equalise everything. What u do with your bf. Do u do the same with your brother. The requirements from every relations is different. Get yourself educated on this thing first. Every relation is different. If u have moral to do the same with your brother or father what u will do with ur husband. Then do it but don't expect society to accept it.
@@Shiva-zj6od yes ppl have right to choose but his words speaks abt his mentality, they think women are just a show piece just showing off her for societal status.
It was a crime which happened with her in such a tender age and how come someone can blame her for this when it wasn't her fault at all.
Did that guy can say this to his own sister that no guy would marry her cus she had this crime in her past.
O just stop your dirty shit
Why you shit women's wANT men to accept why can't you accept yourself you disgust mentality . HE IS KINDA TRUTH HE ALSO HAVE SOME EXPECTATIONS IN RELATIONSHIP THAT'S IT . He just have sympathy for you and nothing .
Girls like you lose virginity as fun and want other man to accept which is the real funniest thing .
CLEARLY SAY YOU ALL ALWAYS NEED MEN THAT'S IT CAN'T FIGHT ALONE .
Even her father stop her to say the truth because he has the fear the girl dont have . after rapp no one is the side of girl even her parents put some rules on her so at she always be at home in front of our eyes so that no one gonna do it again. How ridiculous😤
Well
It is the truth of Bangladesh not India
@Neet 2023 Aspirant yes its a bloody truth but i tried to tell this to my parents and now expect of saying them my parents has strickly kept eyes on me its become a lot of time i have not gone out side because of that bloody bit*h minds😠😠
@@sunlight_07_00 it's so sad sister, work on you girl and established your self it will be a greatest slap
Its rape not rap. Rap is something like-
"Say my name say my name ya,
Desi rap ko bana diya hai mene WrestleMania"
@@_krishnagarg_ cool , yeah 😂 .....but woh sirf e lagana bhul gaya bas ....but cool rap ..yo 🤟
Hat's off to these kinds of men. I wish they exist in real life too...✨
They do
To get shiv first be parvati yourself
@@anshuman368 well congratulations if you are a shiv
@pragyasingh1011 i dont know if i am but i will try my best to become. For me if a get a good partner i will put her above my own self. As her man i have certain duties to fullfull i will care for her, provide and protect her. The day she says that i love her the same her father does to her that day i will succeed as a partner.
সমাজে এমন মনের মানুষ থাকা প্রয়োজন,যে অন্যের চিন্তাধারা বদলে দিতে পারে! 😄
আর ছেলেদের একটু শারীরিক সমস্যা হলেই আপনাদের পরকীয়া করতে দেখা যায়।
these type of men & women exist..i have seen these..but still if you are not able to seen these type of people..be one of them❣️
Love this watching your videos !! This is for the first time I see Bengali videos !! I feel so proud !!
Love from Bangladesh
I do not have burdens anymore. I live my own life with my own purpose. What others think of me is none of my business. I have made amends, and corrected my faults. I am not a victim, to carry others problems, that is their job. I take responsibility for myself in all parts of my life. I have matured and you all should also be matured 😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇
Lots of love respect and power to you
@@yourasmita7616 thank you so much miss 🥰🥰
@Nanma Ann Anil thanks a lot ❤️🤗💖
@@yourasmita7616 I have a lots of respect and love for you ❤️❤️❤️
@Nanma Ann Anil lots of love and respect from my side to you sista ❤️❤️🤗💖💖
Honest relationships always survive
We don't need more peoples like him
We need to be like him
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Men like him is only in TV world 😔 not in reality 😭
THAT MAN'S A KEEPER....
She is very honest. He is intelligent. They're a great combination ❤❤
We need this type of MATURED Society👍
If a girl is mentally pure and honest then no power in the world can turn her into an impure person.
@lol ur mama That's why I said if she is and if she is not then.... Karma will decide.
And who is going to decide her purity? Her mental purity? And what does it mean by no one can make her impure, does that mean anyone should let bad things happen to them because it can't MAKE THEM IMPURE?
Can people like you stop equating girls with purity??
@@elladianh1191 and also when the right time will come her karma will decide that if she has done something wrong or not, if she think about something or someone bad then others will do the same, that's how it decided about mental purity and also I'd be never said that we should let anything happened to her, it's you who said that.
@lol ur mama i clearly said in my comment "if a girl is mentally pure" are you seriously not able to see it.
@@elladianh1191 I can't stop equating people with purity because while judging guy and society we should also take a look at the girl's character what if she is a homewrecker or something, now don't say that a girl can't be a homewrecker becz when it comes to completing desires then a HUMAN can do anything including women, so ofcourse we should treat everyone with equality and girls shouldn't get special treatment just because they are girls. Well the guy could also be wrong so on that place we don't need people like you "professional guys hater promoting toxic feminism" becz on that place the whole SOCIETY will stand up with them.
Such honest girls are rare these days.
True hearts....mentally impure people with no physical alignment ...is more dangerous in life . ...just see hearts for love...with spirituality in it...Live for others happiness...love the heart which loves...only...
We need these type of men in our society! ❤
Let's team up people let's make a team who supports the victims. The team who would kill the monster if they ever see one. The team who will break their bones their heads. Let's make a team who can protect the victim. Let's end this suffering
Interested 👍👍👍
This writer is thinking way back in time and it's wonderful... Some older thoughts, values and customs need to be revived ...
Har maa baap ko aapne ladko ko ek achhaa Or nek insaan jarur banana chahiye 🙂🙂
Perfect for each other.
Agr har Ladka Aisa ho to society change hone me waqt nhi lgega.....🙃
Edit : this is not only about men,
It's about everyone.....men and women both
@@IPV-252 you are right ,
Girl will change,boy will change
Society will change..... 🙃
@@punitasinghal801 did u said 95% , u know every girl out there who went to study out what happens in there life, what they do !! U can talk abt yourself u don't know everyone's story
and yeah thoes girls whom u mentioned above are with boys only so count them too shirf ladki nahi hoti hai.
U r speaking all this abt a sensitive topic there are many victims too seeing your comments your words are hurting there sentiments.
@@pranjalraghuwanshi8803 how much you will hide the truth this is only the truth it hurts but it's the fact .
Most of the youth ......... Example Kota
Now what u will hide .
@@pranjalraghuwanshi8803 and with which boy they keep contact . Your words that senseless do you even read what I wrote I think no
if you don't know anything better keep your mouth shut
I LITERALLY DON'T THINK YOUR AWARE OF IT ALSO.
@@pranjalraghuwanshi8803 victim's should be strong, to listen this type of nonsense.....and should be ready to give the savage reply.
She is talking like she has lived with that 95% girls
Mims acting has developed on a high level 🎚️🎚️🎚️🎚️
I had 2 such men in my life! One from my previous marriage! I have gone through molestation and I thought that’s a serious issue! But he came when I was in 1st yr of college! He simply smiled and said, even if you’re are rape victim that doesn’t bother me, as that doesn’t involve my consent! He was just 19 when he said that! We were in love for 7 yrs and married for 2 yrs and one day, all of a sudden he passed away in an accident! He is like a guardian angel to me! I stayed single for 7 yrs! Then my man came into my life! For him, it’s his first marriage, so the event happened in a grand manner as per his wish! Trust me, he never talked about past and now we are blessed with a baby! I MUST admit that, both of my men are from small town and a small village of southern Tamilnadu! It’s all about their brought ups by their mothers!
We all should treat this type of girl similar to any other girl. The boy said absolutely correct, it is an accident she didn't had control over it. The past accident doesn't decide the character of a person.
But why will any man standard marry such girl
@Himanshu Rattan yes, because you entered the chat
@sureshtripathi7 is it her fault that she gor raped ?
@@sureshtripathi7 will you marry a boy who is sexually weak?
@@sureshtripathi7 standard?? Explain please?
Bangladeshi drama is changing day by day, hats off
Except this isn't a drama, its an ad
I wish this kind of men could exist in our planet. 😍😍
We need more guys like that in real life
Need this kind of people around us..... Awesome video ❤
"Don't offer sympathy to anyone without considering both sides,as we live in a heartless world where everyone knows how to portray them as victim"
🤡
ek actual rape victim ki kya galti bey?🤡
I love this guy and girl we need such people more thats why l love my generation more♥️♥️
We need people with this mentality in our society ❣️😍🚩🙏🤗😀
Thnq for this uploading..its a Bangladeshi ad .
It's media show only in reality there are not a single men like this.....
Only truth is that everyone should try to keep themselves safe as much as they can (both genders).
If all the people have the same understanding mind like this man and guts like this lady ...this world would have been awesome
How good u r!!!😭🤧 Also me as a teenager I also learned that f word😉
Bangladeshi actor irfan shazzad n actress bidya sinha mim💖💖💖🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩
I would have given the same ans, Respect to the man, and hats off to the girl.
Even tho a script, this portrayed a great beautiful ideal.
The boy is soo much kind heart
I was abused as a child at the age of 7 and I told my husband about it during our engagement and we never spoke of it again as he knew it was not my fault the abuse happened, he didn't ask me any invasive questions or any details of the account as it did not matter to him and his ego to know the extent of the abuse rather he was sympathetic about it. A good man always understands that it is not your fault and whatever happened doesnt mean you are tainted in any way.
Beside a topic can I say
How beautiful she is!!!♥️😍
Actually she is a Bangladeshi actress.
Name
If all women become this honest men will become like this too.
People like him exists ...yes not only in web series but in reality some are present 💝
The boy is such a gentleman....
I can proudly say this ad was made in Bangladesh
This is called a unique type of respect for every woman in our society
For man also
To get respect people has to do respectful work also
@Future vocalist who is expecting such girls like you .
You have so much expectation first stop deleting comment 😏
Why are all the girls expected to be respected
This is ridiculous
A person is respected by their work and not their gender, go you think that a bad impure girl should be respected who has done many shameless things??
Reply me back if you can
सही है ....new generation......... हम है हमे ही शुरुआत करनी होगी
The Man Who Can Only Be Found In Web Series
I met with an accident and literally a maid said "kya khubsurat ladki pr ab to langdi hogai" ...I was like I would have punched her on her face...but I remained calm bcz as I science student I knew I'm gonna be well soon...and now luckily I run,jump,walk as I like
So dear education is important!!
Every girl here is a school girl. Guys/girls if you want a honest and understanding relationship with your partner then tell them your past and want you want in the future. If they don't want you based on your past, then it's good for you that you are saved from a potential toxic relationship. First if you don't find your ideal partner, move out of that area bruh get a new environment that helps you grow mentally and peaceful which also helps you in finding a mature and understanding person.
@@capterpillerwhy ll anyone try to damage her & her parents' image??
Because It's not the consensual premarital sex of girl. It's a ra*ped.. so it's not her fault & not her parents.
if everyone in this society thinks like this man right here the society will be in so much better place
Wow it's so heroic to not mock a victim. It's so heroic to use common sense.
This kind of thinking is heartwarming🤍
She's beautiful damn 😘
These kind of men cannot seen in real life 😭😭
How great our world would be if everybody has the maturity which the guy has..
Webseries name
Finally found some Bangladeshi drama....mim is good actor
First time a bengali man sound this sweet to me in love with his voice tho i was born and raised here khub bhalo
This is called Maturity
🤣🤣🤣
This is different from reality...But still Happy to see this 😊😊
Every future is different from reality
We will together make it happen sister 💪
@@maninlove yes Bhai
@Google baba yes..You are right ..But sometimes patience pay you back.
Still this type of men are surviving may lord😢❤❤❤
That kind of men are bodhisatthvas and they are rare. Super rare. 🥺🥺
If you are honest,soft spoken and not a pseudo feminist then this type of men can be easy.
“Mom I want this one”
Everybody have right to choice
If anyone thinks that this girl is not appropriate for me, then its completely his choice to reject her; if anybody thinks that this girl is appropriate for me, then its his choice to accept her
I don't know why society make a man great if he accepts a girl who had some bad past
There is no need of this
Its about anyone's choices
Because it's the same for the girl too,there is no forceful act that you have to but it is immoral if you say no and it's not just for men but for women too if they reject men for these kinda reason
@@barbiedoll4873 when did i mention that girls has no rights to reject a boy?
As it is for the boy, it is same for the girl too. It is as simple as that
And who decides what moral and immoral, wait why is the topic of morality coming here? Its about choices, right?
If you bring the concept of morality, it is clear that you are forcing someone to do any action
I clearly mentioned that if anyone thinks that he/she is appropriate for him/her then he has complete right to accept and if anyone thinks that he/she is not appropriate for him/her then he/she has complete right to reject
It is as simple as that
@@Smart_Soham no it's not,it's discrimination it is an simple as that
It was literally taught in sixth grade
That if your choose or not choose someone due to reasons as...... you are discriminating
Discriminating against a rape victim or against accident victim opinion is you like white I like pink it's not anyone who wears white are(insert ABC bad or good comment)
@@barbiedoll4873 'Its discriminating'!!!!
Discriminating for a rape victim????
Well by mentioning 'rape victim' you just showed the inequality you have to them.
Each and every girl is equal and each and every girl deserves the same treatment irrespective of their caste, race, religion or other situations
It means that no girl deserves extra privileges as each and everyone is treated equally according to the context
And you have exposed your silliness by general consideration of yours of choosing or rejecting th girl as she is rape victim or not
I can't even understand that how can the context of 'rape victim' can come while choosing or rejecting a girl
Its completely a person's choice
And discrimination, do you even know the meaning of discrimination?
And what? sixth grade, right? Keep your sixth grade with you
I don't know why can't you understand this simple thing
Choosing or rejecting a person completely depends on the person and not anyone else
Here no context like 'rape victim' doesn't come
Its completely the person's choice
If the person fits/doesn't fit in the person life then the person has complete right to accept/reject the person and it completely depends on them
And you are bringing irrelevant topics like discrimination
What's your age, ha???
@@Smart_Soham awwww again you did the same mistake
Then according to your logic there should be no reservations?????for specific people?but the reason that they are discriminated due to certain reasons they are provided privileges because there is a difference between same and equality 😊
No one is saying you do not have an option no one can or should force but it's simply wrong because you are treating them differently just because of that certain reason where it wasn't even their fault
It applies if you would have accepted the girl if she wasn't raped,which means you are just taking that specific point and it is absolutely horrible
I hope i get a man like him 😌❤️
That man
Purely gem
But if even exists in real life
Be that women first 😂
The girl name is Bidda Sinha Mim
These boys exist ofcourse they do in ads and drama and movie 🍿🍿
Women in Indian society face harassment daily in public transport, work places. Very sad.
It's good to see mens having morals like that.. The understanding type.. And resonable..
All characters in this video are fictional, and have no relation to reality.😌
Bcoz the Reality is even Worse
@@ruturajshiralkar5566 Yes, that's what I was saying.
Don't u think it's all pointless if you are not alone happy
Hai Allah make me boy like him and give me a wife honest like her . Protect me from bullshit society and relat6.
Ameem. Summameen
Bhai yeh batao, andrew tate ko lekar kaise khayalat rakhte ho??
That confidence makes you fall in love ❤️
Yes uncontrollable situations unpredictable life. Yet some psychopaths want to control everything and everyones life . And they do it well. But not forever.
Girls saying these men exist in web series only. Remember you have to be parvati first in order to get shivji. First you choose a$$holes over nice guys and then blame the bad men for leaving you. When any relationship ends the girl says its the mans fault but never acknowledges that she choose the wrong person. You need to learn to choose the good men. After breakup guys hit the gym, go intp self development improves himself and learns from his mistakes. They hold themselves accountable for failed relationships while most women put the blame on the guy and assume i deserve better and never looks onto herself what she did wrong in choosing for a guy.
@@capterpillerblaming parents for the love failure is just an excuse ,but nothing.
Kya maa baap se puchh kar pyar kiya tha??
Kya maa baap se puchha tha..kise bf banau?? Nahi na..
Ye sab nautanki he unn ladkiyo ki.
Aaj kal ke ladkiya..jan bhukh kar aese ladko ko chunte he..jinko pyar aur shadi se koi matlab nahi. Bas pyar ka naam lekar ,,unke saath so jate he. Aur baad me bolte he..ki...ladke unka sareer ka istemal karke chhor diya. Jan bhujh kar khud aese ladke chunte he,,,jinko sirf se*x se matlab he. Bas dono ne aapni hawas..lambe samay tak pura karne ke baad,,ladka chala jata he.
Aur ladki baad me magar mach ki aanshu dikhakar kisi achhe ladke ko...aapni jaal me fasane ke liye...bolte he:-""mera ex bf ne Mera istemal kiya".
Par hakikat kuchh aur hi hota he.
As I said....most love relationship aren't actually love. Those love relationships are only for long term hookup upto marriage.
@@ra....0 parents ko hurt nahi karna chahti?? Ye kya bakwas he?? Tumhari life he. Decision tumhare hona chahiye. Baat karlo uss se. Kyunki agar sach me sahi ladka he...to phir shadi karke sukun se rehe sakti ho.
@@ra....0 Tumhari pasand ki naam v to koi chiz he?? Tumhe kon pasand he ..wo tumhara choice he.
Par ladkiyo ki pasand?? Me tumhari baat nahi kar raha hu.
Pyar ke liye uss type ke ladke...aur shadi ke uss type ke ladke pasand aate he.
Isliye ek kahabat he:-""ladki chahe bf kisiko v banale ;par shadi wo uss type ke ladke ke se karegi jiske saath uski future safe ho"
Par sirf shadi ke liye uss type ke ladke chaiye??😡😡 Koi object thodi he wo ladke??
Isliye to...Aaj kal ye ladkiya .. chutiyon ke saath pyar ka naam lekar aayasi karne ke baad ..shadi ke liye uss type ke ladko ko next bf banane ka target rakhte he..ya phir ..sidha arrange marriage me inhi ladko ko dhundte he.
Ye galat he.
Jo banda genuinely achha hoga...usse achhi ladki ke saath hona chahiye.
Aise ladki ke saath nahi...jinko pyar ke liye chutiyo type ke ladke pasand he..aur shadi ke liye uss type ke genuinely achhe ladke.
Genuinely acche ladke par ajkal hote kaha hai? Ajkal ladke bhi exactly yehi same kaam karte hai, gf banate hai aise hi timepass k liye lekin shadi ki baat aaye to 'sanskari' ladki dhundhte hai.. there is no difference in the attitude between boys and girls here..so stop with your female shaming bullshit.
When a girl cheats or leaves a boy, why do boys say girls are cheaters, No loyalty in girls, Only boys love truly but not girls? (These types of comments are significantly more than the boy blaming comments you mentioned)
Why don't boys say I chose the wrong girl?
Girls saying these type of men exist in the web series
"To get shiv you have to be parvati first"
Ask yourself what kind of partner you want to become and then search for the same. Or you may look into your friendzoned list there you will find guys like this.
@@capterpiller better milega tumko….. just make sure ladka care kare tumhare life and make sure ki tumhe caring and charming ke bich ka difference pata hai.
@@capterpiller thats sad, ab kuch log ese hai ki jinke liye mujhe bhi sharm ati hai, im sorry tumne ye face kia. But just to let you know ye abuse tha, nonconsensual chiz thi , is chiz ke liye agar tumhe koi accept nahi karra then wo insan “C” hai. Agar tumne hookup ya fir pre marital seggs apne marzi se kia hota us basis pe samajh ata. Lekin yahape tumhari galti nahi hai. Khair past change nahi ho sakta but i would recommend ki tum pehle khud heal ho jao. Khud pehle is chiz ko face karo and uske bad hi kisike baare me socho. Jab us insaan ko tum trust karne lag jao tab hi uske sath past share karna . I wish you the best👍…. Tum better deserve karti ho
@@capterpiller good idea…..👍 best of luck for future
@@capterpillerhey,, don't feel sad. U have faced abused in childhood. But it's not ur fault.
Aur aese kyu bol Rahi ho ki...tumhe life partner milna aasan nahi he.
Maybe u never hv met guy like me.
Isliye aesa sochna v maat!!
Even good looking man having high profile job ll agree to make u life partner.
@@capterpillersome guys have problem to marry a girl who has done consensual sex with her so called bf in the name of love relationship before marriage.
Bcuz today's most love relationship isn't for love..but for long term hookup. That's why 99% love relationship aren't successful. Cause those relationship are full of lust,,not love.
But ur case is different. U are se*xually abu*sed. It's not ur fault. So don't think too much.guy like me ll definitely accept u completely.
Hatt's off to the girl followed by the boy😇😇
This type of man is incredible.. 👌👌🙏🙏
How tf are these situations similar??
The girl is traumatized and that guy just got hurt
The message is that that is not the only thing that has happened in her life... she is much more than a rape victim... someone who is building her life.... someone who is growing out of it and all women should be given that opportunity too.... or else whole life they'd be shamed and told on their face for things that they are not at fault for....
He is not demeaning her trauma but he's socially telling that she is not just a victim she has other identities which she has held up with complete respect... cause his mom is lookin at her with that social stigma he's removing that stigma not the individual girls trauma .... read bw the lines
Or think about it if he sympathized with her she'd be given pity all her life and no respect
The only similarity is that both were accidents
Other than that i don't think i can find anything else similar
Anyway it is clearly mentioned
The similarity is that they both did not have any control or part to play in either of the situations both were just at the wrong place at the wronf time, the difference is one was only physically traumatised other was both physically and mentally traumatised but society reacts to it very differently and consider the SA victims damaged goods and try to make if their whole identity which is completely wrong. That is the point of this video.
If everybody treats it as an accident for any girl, but not a matter of dignity,
Then no girl will be traumatized that much.
These kind of guys ...are they for real?
Can we find these kind of boys in re
If the girl is really beautiful and the guy really likes her, then yes. Anyway, the girl will have to make a compromise with the looks of the guy and his bank balance.
@@_krishnagarg_ that was clever 😁your comment i mean
I think that's right
But yes you can find a girl like this
She will compromise if the boy always support her
They are so beautiful both of them charismatic faces ❤
This type of situation (both of side) not exist 😞
Agr socho koi ladka agr rape hi nhi krta kisi ladki ko...toh wo uur bhi zydda acha hota
It's an ideal case because society can't be ideal. If
Stop living in utopian world