I get personal preference and all, but how does he think he'll handle that if he someday wants kids? Like will he get a partner pregnant and then screw off because he lost attraction?
First story: After a breakup clean your place carefully. Get rid of anything that belongs to your ex. From the girlfriend's perspective, this really looks like cheating. Second story: He can do as he wishes, but .... Remember this situation when you get older and start to gain weight. Third story: You can't unsay anything. What he said is what he said, and it's not what he said but how he took it.
For first, it either looks like he's cheating or he's not over his ex. I mean, who keeps the ex's bra with them. Shirt, pants I can understand, but bra???
@@sparkyblue7016 It was in a drawer in the closet. Probably hadn't been in there in ages hense why he was cleaning it out. He forgot it was there no big deal!!!!! Here I am not knowing if I'll live another day because I have 4 types of cancer, and this girl is worried over a bra! Some people need to get their priorities right. Not like he was cheating.
0:05: Looking back, OP should have simply told her it was an ex-girlfriend's and he forgot it was in his closet. I don't know if it would have rectified the situation, but doing what he did made it all the worse. 2:13: If OP truly loved his GF, he'd still support her through no matter what. What if he eventually marries her, and she gains extra pounds after kids? How would he react then? 4:45: OP was probably more upset about her BF comparing her to an ex-friend. These two really need to talk about this situation and go from there. If he truly loves her, he'd have to be willing to go to the ends of the earth for her. However, if something like this keeps up, OP should kick him to the curb.
True love doesn't always mean it's unconditional like that, IMO... That's not that realistic, and I think compromise of both sides is just more important, for any situation, if one of them *don't* want to compromise though, then that's their choice too, and in most cases, the other person can make their own choice based on their reaction (The guy in the second story contemplating about leaving cause even *after* he tried to motivate her to get back in shape, she struggled to keep it up, though being honest first would probably go a long way + The guy in the third story seeming to just blurt something out without thinking, and maybe he genuinely apologized afterwards, but the girl was still reasonably upset and could've decided that she wasn't attracted to him anymore cause of that remark, if it was really too hurtful to just recover from, *especially* cause it was said by her BF)
In the first situation, op totally misjudged it. He's saying how his gf feels insecure about her bra size, when that wouldn't be in her mind at all. I'm struggling to understand how he reached the conclusion of her being insecure, and not that it looked like he was cheating or not over his ex to keep something like a bra still in his closet.
Just imagine your bf having another woman's bra and making a distasteful joke about your size (fully knowing you're insecure about it AND that the unknown bra is a bigger size)... It sounds like an honest mistake from his point of view but, putting myself in the gf shoes, i'm not sure i would regain my trust on him
it did but going after an insecurity is always wild, regardless. and he's just focusing on the wrong thing anyway, seemingly unwilling to really try understanding her perspective or at least act apologetic
@@sparkyblue7016 Probably didn't know it was still there. He was cleaning his closet so obviously hadn't been through the drawers for awhile. An innocent mistake.
Idk about the second story, i think in regards to personal preference that is fair, but what if he wants kids in the future? Will he leave a pregnant partner over this? What about weight gain due to illness or old age? Idk i just see so many ways for this to turn out bad.
The first guy isn’t wrong, just a little slow on the uptake 😅he just should clarify asap that it’s his ex girlfriends and not that he’s cheating. The relationship can be salvaged
Because perhaps she needs a moment? I would've been shocked too if my partner threw another woman's bra at me, I'd either think he's cheating and trying to cover it up, or he's not over his ex at all.
@@Ruby...XFr like her being " insecure about her bra size " litteraly doesn't have shit to do with the situation that was just him searching for an excuse 💀 All he could have done and can still do is simply go apologize and explain it to her without using unrelated justifications to make her think she's in the wrong when he's the one who did something genuinely worth being pissed off at being his gf Like just apologize then tell her it was your ex's and explain why it was there, that's it that's all you gotta do.
What no? He threw another girls bra at his gf and thinks the problem is her being insecure??? No the problem is why does he have another woman's bra in his closet.
@@_mirary_I’m sure he apologized after he had time to process what happened, in an uncertain moment he made a mistake, no one’s perfect Also he never did anything to make her think she’s in the wrong 💀
@@andrewvega5567nah mate, he was in the wrong. Just because it was a mistake does not mean he was completely innocent. That’s like if you accidentally punch someone in the face, you didn’t mean to do it but it still happened - didn’t it? So you should acknowledge the mistake and also the fact that you did something whether or not it was intentional. Him trying to turn it into a joke made everything so much worse too, because I can guarantee now she thinks he doesn’t take her concerns seriously. Furthermore, there’s a discrepancy in his post. He clearly states in the start of the post that he accidentally threw his ex’s bra at his girlfriend, and later he claims that it’s because his girlfriend is insecure about her bra size..? Why the hell would it be about the bra size and not who the bra belongs to? By the sound of it, OP is well aware of the issue and is making excuses. If he wasn’t, he wouldn’t have mentioned the ex in the title at all, he would’ve focused on the bra size instead. I get that he was cleaning out the closet and just happened to find it, but of course a girlfriend is gonna think you’re cheating if she finds out about someone else’s bra in your drawers. I’m actually so confused on why he’s focused on the size and not the person? Even if it wasn’t his ex’s bra, if it’s anyone else’s other than his girlfriend’s things are going to end badly.
How are you doing sweetie? How are you feeling? I hope just great!! In the very first story, there is no way at all that he can apologize for this, and the relationship just might be over. What in the world do you have your ex girlfriend's bra in your drawer for? That's completely creepy and it just say that you're not over your ex yet. In the second story, he is something else because that's the only he's concerned, her gaining weight. He's not concerned about the fact that she is completely stressed out about college. He is extremely petty and he should let his girlfriend go because she's to good for him. In the third story, basically your boyfriend thinks that you are exactly like this woman, but he's with you though. I love you!! Have a great day!! Stay safe!!
He was going through his drawers and closet and found it. Obviously he forgot it was there or maybe he didn't know she had one in there? Here I am dying from 4 types of cancer and a girl is worried about a bra being thrown at her!!!! It's all about priorities!
I don't think the second guy is in the wrong. People do have preferences. And you can't force someone to be attracted to you. The guy also wasn't being disrespectful and was actively communicating and trying to support his girlfriend. But SHE is the one who is not willing to compromise. Being someone who has been stressed from college and has gained weight due to stress, I wish I was my smaller size. I am planning on getting back on exercising and eating healthy again. So I can see why the girlfriend may be falling into unhealthy habits, but you also have to keep your partner in mind. And I feel like the guy is trying to be supportive and is feeling guilty of him not feeling attracted anymore. Which he shouldn't feel guilt. He has communicated his problem, they tried solutions, and nothing has changed. My advice is to break up. It may hurt your girlfriend ,but it might ease up on her stress. Having a partner during a stressful time can add stress for her. Plus, OP isn't happy. He's compromising with the situation, but she isn't.
I get personal preference and all, but what if he wants kids someday? Will he get a partner pregnant and then screw off because she's fat and he lost attraction?
Would you say the same if the gf had gotten pregnant and gained weight? I just feel like an 8 year old relationship being so fragile is sad. Your looks aren't gonna be there when you turn old. Imagine your bf leaving you cuz you have wrinkles lol. But I agree they should break up. It's clearly not working
#1 sotry I get it, he's a man, men are not the brightest at times. And you do not know how often he cleaned out his drawers or his closet, so he was just teasing, is she that insecure really. Men being men also, didn't know what to do, so he tried to make it kind of a joke, she didn't think so. You are being judgemental without really knowing what is going on, just what you read. And it's not that he deson't take things serious, but he probably was embarrassed and didn't know what else to say.
The problem is not the Bra size but the fact that there's a bra that doesn't belong to her in his closet. From her perspective she could think that he's cheating or is not over his ex yet.
@@Ruby...X Yes I can see that, but since it was in his closet and he did throw it at her thinking it was hers and somehow got there, who knows whens the last time he looked back there? I say the fact that he didn't even think and did that tells me he wasn't cheating and just honestly thought it was hers. They are clueless half the time.
Girly pop...Clearly you didn't see that since you said and I quote "is she that insecure" and in the process proceed to get mad at Kyutie who did nothing wrong and just read the story ⚠. And please stop making excuses for him as if it was a "men moment" it's kinda cringe.
@@Ruby...X where did you see I got mad at her, sometimes the way she words things is like she is being very judgemental. End of story. I have my opinion and you have yours. So end of conversation. Well it was a 'man' moment whether you see it or not. Otherwise he wouldn't have thrown it at her.
@@theresaeng5330 You said and i quote "you're being judgmental without really knowing what's going on" how is she being judgemental? To me it just seem like you got pressed by what she said and decided to paint her as the bad guy lmao. And you also don't know actually what happend exactly, but you still proceed to defend him as If it was your bf or something, you do realize he's not gonna see this 😭🤚
With the second story, if my partner started gaining weight and wasn’t sticking to anything to fix it, I would probably dump them too. My personal preference with looks is based less on physical appearance and more on health, and if my partner isn’t being relatively healthy, that’s a deal breaker for me. I even have a personal rule against dating anyone who’s obese or worse who isn’t actively trying to lose the weight and improve their health, because being morbidly unhealthy is incredibly unattractive to me.
Sometimes it's not their fault and can be from a medical issue or medication. What if someone gets pregnant? They are going to gain. I've gained over 100 pounds from medication that is keeping me alive! It's very hard for me to lose as I'm paralyzed in a wheelchair. I eat very healthy but that isn't always enough.
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Oh dude, she's not insecure about her bra size. I have always had big boobs and if my boyfriend threw a smaller bra at me, I'd react the same.
The big question, is where did the mystery bra come from?!?, HE KNOWS, for sure. And if he couldn't tell the difference, he's too stupid to be with.
My ex would always say "that other bitch" when referring to his ex. It made me feel he was calling me a bitch,too.
It's definitely important to pay attention to how a person talks about other people.
Wow!
I get it. It's the word, "other." If she's the "other" bitch, then who is the first bitch? 🤨
@@reeses_unicornAgreed, that’s a red flag 🚩 in itself. I just hope he isn’t talking bad about OP behind her back amongst his friends or something
First guy even if she doesn't think he's cheating she's going to think OP is not over his ex or something.
'So how did your last relationship end after so long?'
'She gained weight.'
'Oh mate, you're going to die alone.'
I get personal preference and all, but how does he think he'll handle that if he someday wants kids? Like will he get a partner pregnant and then screw off because he lost attraction?
First story: After a breakup clean your place carefully. Get rid of anything that belongs to your ex. From the girlfriend's perspective, this really looks like cheating. Second story: He can do as he wishes, but .... Remember this situation when you get older and start to gain weight. Third story: You can't unsay anything. What he said is what he said, and it's not what he said but how he took it.
For first, it either looks like he's cheating or he's not over his ex.
I mean, who keeps the ex's bra with them. Shirt, pants I can understand, but bra???
@@sparkyblue7016 It was in a drawer in the closet. Probably hadn't been in there in ages hense why he was cleaning it out. He forgot it was there no big deal!!!!! Here I am not knowing if I'll live another day because I have 4 types of cancer, and this girl is worried over a bra! Some people need to get their priorities right. Not like he was cheating.
@@valerieb8541yea but girlfriend doesn't know that. They need to communicate with each other
0:05: Looking back, OP should have simply told her it was an ex-girlfriend's and he forgot it was in his closet. I don't know if it would have rectified the situation, but doing what he did made it all the worse.
2:13: If OP truly loved his GF, he'd still support her through no matter what. What if he eventually marries her, and she gains extra pounds after kids? How would he react then?
4:45: OP was probably more upset about her BF comparing her to an ex-friend. These two really need to talk about this situation and go from there. If he truly loves her, he'd have to be willing to go to the ends of the earth for her. However, if something like this keeps up, OP should kick him to the curb.
True love doesn't always mean it's unconditional like that, IMO... That's not that realistic, and I think compromise of both sides is just more important, for any situation, if one of them *don't* want to compromise though, then that's their choice too, and in most cases, the other person can make their own choice based on their reaction (The guy in the second story contemplating about leaving cause even *after* he tried to motivate her to get back in shape, she struggled to keep it up, though being honest first would probably go a long way + The guy in the third story seeming to just blurt something out without thinking, and maybe he genuinely apologized afterwards, but the girl was still reasonably upset and could've decided that she wasn't attracted to him anymore cause of that remark, if it was really too hurtful to just recover from, *especially* cause it was said by her BF)
In the first situation, op totally misjudged it.
He's saying how his gf feels insecure about her bra size, when that wouldn't be in her mind at all. I'm struggling to understand how he reached the conclusion of her being insecure, and not that it looked like he was cheating or not over his ex to keep something like a bra still in his closet.
Rip the first guy
Just imagine your bf having another woman's bra and making a distasteful joke about your size (fully knowing you're insecure about it AND that the unknown bra is a bigger size)... It sounds like an honest mistake from his point of view but, putting myself in the gf shoes, i'm not sure i would regain my trust on him
True.
It also looks like he's not over his ex considering he kept it for some reason.
it did but going after an insecurity is always wild, regardless. and he's just focusing on the wrong thing anyway, seemingly unwilling to really try understanding her perspective or at least act apologetic
@@sparkyblue7016 Probably didn't know it was still there. He was cleaning his closet so obviously hadn't been through the drawers for awhile. An innocent mistake.
Idk about the second story, i think in regards to personal preference that is fair, but what if he wants kids in the future? Will he leave a pregnant partner over this? What about weight gain due to illness or old age? Idk i just see so many ways for this to turn out bad.
The first guy isn’t wrong, just a little slow on the uptake 😅he just should clarify asap that it’s his ex girlfriends and not that he’s cheating. The relationship can be salvaged
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last story… what a disgusting misogynistic comment to make. run for the hills girl
WIth the first story I can see that POV. However why not have a talk like adults should instead of walking out and giving the silent treatment?
Because perhaps she needs a moment?
I would've been shocked too if my partner threw another woman's bra at me, I'd either think he's cheating and trying to cover it up, or he's not over his ex at all.
No the first guy isn’t wrong at all. Like let’s be real, he’s human and felt uncomfortable in that moment too and didn’t know what to do.
I rolled my eyes reading that story because he didn't even understand the problem correctly.
@@Ruby...XFr like her being " insecure about her bra size " litteraly doesn't have shit to do with the situation that was just him searching for an excuse 💀 All he could have done and can still do is simply go apologize and explain it to her without using unrelated justifications to make her think she's in the wrong when he's the one who did something genuinely worth being pissed off at being his gf
Like just apologize then tell her it was your ex's and explain why it was there, that's it that's all you gotta do.
What no?
He threw another girls bra at his gf and thinks the problem is her being insecure???
No the problem is why does he have another woman's bra in his closet.
@@_mirary_I’m sure he apologized after he had time to process what happened, in an uncertain moment he made a mistake, no one’s perfect
Also he never did anything to make her think she’s in the wrong 💀
@@andrewvega5567nah mate, he was in the wrong. Just because it was a mistake does not mean he was completely innocent. That’s like if you accidentally punch someone in the face, you didn’t mean to do it but it still happened - didn’t it? So you should acknowledge the mistake and also the fact that you did something whether or not it was intentional.
Him trying to turn it into a joke made everything so much worse too, because I can guarantee now she thinks he doesn’t take her concerns seriously. Furthermore, there’s a discrepancy in his post. He clearly states in the start of the post that he accidentally threw his ex’s bra at his girlfriend, and later he claims that it’s because his girlfriend is insecure about her bra size..? Why the hell would it be about the bra size and not who the bra belongs to? By the sound of it, OP is well aware of the issue and is making excuses. If he wasn’t, he wouldn’t have mentioned the ex in the title at all, he would’ve focused on the bra size instead.
I get that he was cleaning out the closet and just happened to find it, but of course a girlfriend is gonna think you’re cheating if she finds out about someone else’s bra in your drawers. I’m actually so confused on why he’s focused on the size and not the person? Even if it wasn’t his ex’s bra, if it’s anyone else’s other than his girlfriend’s things are going to end badly.
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How are you doing sweetie? How are you feeling? I hope just great!! In the very first story, there is no way at all that he can apologize for this, and the relationship just might be over. What in the world do you have your ex girlfriend's bra in your drawer for? That's completely creepy and it just say that you're not over your ex yet. In the second story, he is something else because that's the only he's concerned, her gaining weight. He's not concerned about the fact that she is completely stressed out about college. He is extremely petty and he should let his girlfriend go because she's to good for him. In the third story, basically your boyfriend thinks that you are exactly like this woman, but he's with you though. I love you!! Have a great day!! Stay safe!!
He was going through his drawers and closet and found it. Obviously he forgot it was there or maybe he didn't know she had one in there?
Here I am dying from 4 types of cancer and a girl is worried about a bra being thrown at her!!!! It's all about priorities!
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I don't think the second guy is in the wrong. People do have preferences. And you can't force someone to be attracted to you. The guy also wasn't being disrespectful and was actively communicating and trying to support his girlfriend. But SHE is the one who is not willing to compromise. Being someone who has been stressed from college and has gained weight due to stress, I wish I was my smaller size. I am planning on getting back on exercising and eating healthy again. So I can see why the girlfriend may be falling into unhealthy habits, but you also have to keep your partner in mind. And I feel like the guy is trying to be supportive and is feeling guilty of him not feeling attracted anymore. Which he shouldn't feel guilt. He has communicated his problem, they tried solutions, and nothing has changed. My advice is to break up. It may hurt your girlfriend ,but it might ease up on her stress. Having a partner during a stressful time can add stress for her. Plus, OP isn't happy. He's compromising with the situation, but she isn't.
I get personal preference and all, but what if he wants kids someday? Will he get a partner pregnant and then screw off because she's fat and he lost attraction?
Would you say the same if the gf had gotten pregnant and gained weight?
I just feel like an 8 year old relationship being so fragile is sad. Your looks aren't gonna be there when you turn old. Imagine your bf leaving you cuz you have wrinkles lol.
But I agree they should break up. It's clearly not working
So in the future if he's with someone and she gets pregnant and gains weight it will be ok for him to leave her?
First story seems kinda weird, usually the girl is the one throwing underwear.
Unless it's one of those guys that stretches underwear and shoots it like a rubber band.
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No one is going to say anything about the fact that the gf in the 2nd story was a minor when they got together?!!!!
#1 sotry I get it, he's a man, men are not the brightest at times. And you do not know how often he cleaned out his drawers or his closet, so he was just teasing, is she that insecure really. Men being men also, didn't know what to do, so he tried to make it kind of a joke, she didn't think so. You are being judgemental without really knowing what is going on, just what you read. And it's not that he deson't take things serious, but he probably was embarrassed and didn't know what else to say.
The problem is not the Bra size but the fact that there's a bra that doesn't belong to her in his closet. From her perspective she could think that he's cheating or is not over his ex yet.
@@Ruby...X Yes I can see that, but since it was in his closet and he did throw it at her thinking it was hers and somehow got there, who knows whens the last time he looked back there? I say the fact that he didn't even think and did that tells me he wasn't cheating and just honestly thought it was hers. They are clueless half the time.
Girly pop...Clearly you didn't see that since you said and I quote "is she that insecure" and in the process proceed to get mad at Kyutie who did nothing wrong and just read the story ⚠. And please stop making excuses for him as if it was a "men moment" it's kinda cringe.
@@Ruby...X where did you see I got mad at her, sometimes the way she words things is like she is being very judgemental. End of story. I have my opinion and you have yours. So end of conversation. Well it was a 'man' moment whether you see it or not. Otherwise he wouldn't have thrown it at her.
@@theresaeng5330 You said and i quote "you're being judgmental without really knowing what's going on" how is she being judgemental? To me it just seem like you got pressed by what she said and decided to paint her as the bad guy lmao. And you also don't know actually what happend exactly, but you still proceed to defend him as If it was your bf or something, you do realize he's not gonna see this 😭🤚
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With the second story, if my partner started gaining weight and wasn’t sticking to anything to fix it, I would probably dump them too. My personal preference with looks is based less on physical appearance and more on health, and if my partner isn’t being relatively healthy, that’s a deal breaker for me. I even have a personal rule against dating anyone who’s obese or worse who isn’t actively trying to lose the weight and improve their health, because being morbidly unhealthy is incredibly unattractive to me.
Sometimes it's not their fault and can be from a medical issue or medication. What if someone gets pregnant? They are going to gain.
I've gained over 100 pounds from medication that is keeping me alive! It's very hard for me to lose as I'm paralyzed in a wheelchair. I eat very healthy but that isn't always enough.
At least you're clear with what your preference is. And wouldn't string anyone along.
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