Ignoring Cats at a Cat Cafe

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  • Опубликовано: 6 янв 2025

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  • @Whateverrrr96
    @Whateverrrr96 2 месяца назад +936

    To a cat being ignored is the same as "we're good fam I'm cool with you." throw in some slow blinks and you made a bestie.

    • @24tommyst
      @24tommyst 3 дня назад

      yep lol, it's true. That and the occasional cheek rub and ass massage.

  • @ghostie7790
    @ghostie7790 Месяц назад +642

    it's true. I went to a cat cafe in my area and also ignored them. One went straight into my lap and didn't leave for an hour an a half. My leg fell asleep and it was so painful walking after that, but of course I couldn't' just get up!

    • @user-rx7pd1xv4k
      @user-rx7pd1xv4k Месяц назад +16

      Oh that happened to me too!!! Well, minus the leg falling asleep. It was the one cat with some kind of eye problem though, which was pretty nast, but still cool!!

    • @HermiaIhavenolife
      @HermiaIhavenolife Месяц назад +4

      Fr Fr my cat is so jealous if I hold like a other cat and I went there and I had to ignore the cats because my cat is cute and I don’t want my cat to be jealous lol 😅 and it was so hard to ignore them because some of the cats went up to me

    • @MuffHam
      @MuffHam 25 дней назад +3

      I got 4 cats. Once one lays on you. your stuck and unable to move even a little bit. The only good reason to disturb kitty is your about to pee or shit your pants. Then your allowed to get up.

  • @stephenallen224
    @stephenallen224 2 месяца назад +989

    It's actually not that cats like you more if you ignore them, it's that they feel less intimidated/threatened. If you are already familiar with a cat, there's no point. You can accomplish similar simply by not looking directly at the cat, and leaving them alone until they approach you.

    • @mjg1544
      @mjg1544 Месяц назад +45

      Unless you have a traditional Siamese that follows you everywhere, watches you cook dinner, and never shuts up.

    • @stephenallen224
      @stephenallen224 Месяц назад +14

      @@mjg1544 Siamese are much too intelligent and curious for the usual cat behavior, I agree.

    • @RockChick63174
      @RockChick63174 Месяц назад +16

      ​@@stephenallen224nonsense. They're no smarter than any other breed.

    • @Yoni123
      @Yoni123 Месяц назад +1

      Less intimitated = like you more

    • @lenandersson617
      @lenandersson617 Месяц назад +10

      Although, If I've paid too much attention to one of my cats for a while, they seem to appreciate it when I give them space/ignore them. Which often makes them sit closer to me than they did before. They really teach me about boundaries and balance.

  • @crazyfox892
    @crazyfox892 2 месяца назад +609

    "I got straight to ignoring them" that sounds so wrong 😭
    Also its less that cats like when you ignore them, its more that dont like being bothered

    • @PROTOTYPE-hg9gg
      @PROTOTYPE-hg9gg 2 месяца назад

      Sounds like a punishment for girls

    • @ravaplayz5298
      @ravaplayz5298 2 месяца назад +25

      It depends on what cat it is if it’s a shy cat it will definitely like you if your ignoring it or just not playing much attention however if it’s an active cat it likes you paying attention to it

    • @yurimessiah
      @yurimessiah Месяц назад +8

      @@ravaplayz5298 yes!! they all have different boundaries and personalities, and ppl tend to forget that fact. it's the same with any other animal.

  • @pippa3150
    @pippa3150 2 месяца назад +291

    Kurt's meow is absolutely priceless. 😍

  • @ShantiIly
    @ShantiIly Месяц назад +172

    They're all like... "what is this sorcery!?!? Arnt I cute!?!?"

    • @Riku_addict
      @Riku_addict Месяц назад +10

      Reality: They are all like.. "A normal human? Wow"

  • @Robertoni7
    @Robertoni7 Месяц назад +286

    Most cats will mark everything in their house because it’s their territory/domain. If a cat purposely avoids an entire couch, I’d be concerned there was something wrong with it (the couch) imperceptible to my human senses.

    • @Bunny11344
      @Bunny11344 Месяц назад +51

      Cats are smart. My neighbors cat used to come over and I told her no, she’s not allowed on the couch where me and bunny snuggle and she never climbs on. She’s super smart it was like having a roommate 😆 I miss her tho

    • @jborrego2406
      @jborrego2406 Месяц назад +3

      ​@@Bunny11344that's so mean so u bunny loving on each other an cat like chop liver lol

    • @IndaglowMatinée
      @IndaglowMatinée Месяц назад +19

      I was thinking the same thing, they do put a lot of bromide into new furniture, for the use as a flame retardant. Insects will avoid anything with drier sheets, which has the same chemical. I wouldn't be surprised if some mammals could detect it as well.

    • @bloocifer
      @bloocifer 15 дней назад

      mark as in piss??????????????

    • @Robertoni7
      @Robertoni7 15 дней назад +3

      @@bloocifer No, by rubbing with scent glands in their body.

  • @johnpett1955
    @johnpett1955 Месяц назад +27

    The black cat in the thumbnail is looking at the camera like, "Can you believe this guy?"

    • @2listening1
      @2listening1 Месяц назад +4

      Yes! Fourth wall breach. They had to appeal to the viewers.

  • @SohiHien
    @SohiHien Месяц назад +33

    The "righting reflex" was working. You can see it happening in the photos. Problem is it takes a certain height for them to have the time to right themselves properly. Too short of a distance and they don't have the time to orient themselves to land properly if they start out too far from proper landing position at the start of their decent. So from high enough places cats always land on their feet. From a short jump like this it isn't always the case.

  • @RegalPixelKing
    @RegalPixelKing Месяц назад +13

    You menacingly standing there at 6:07 paired with the commentary was hilarious.

  • @lynndemartini9379
    @lynndemartini9379 2 месяца назад +94

    Don't know what I like more - Kurt or Abram's quirky sense of humor 😹

  • @selli9917
    @selli9917 Месяц назад +6

    8:11 "He started off by ignoring them both and leaving the room"
    XD That's one of the most cat things I've heard.

  • @robinlandis5226
    @robinlandis5226 2 месяца назад +977

    Kurt won't touch a toxic couch. Your couch is off gasing toxic fumes into your house. Animals can smell the toxicity, humans can't. Same thing happened with my Siamese. I read the label and immediately threw the new cat beds out. Please check out chemical free living.

    • @nova-vrgt
      @nova-vrgt 2 месяца назад +60

      thank you so much I have Siamese

    • @Maddox-yk9xi
      @Maddox-yk9xi 2 месяца назад +35

      Fake

    • @kaiiisdeaaad
      @kaiiisdeaaad 2 месяца назад +148

      @@Maddox-yk9xishut yo corny ahh bro u know nothing 😭😭😭

    • @Germanballasacountryball
      @Germanballasacountryball 2 месяца назад +43

      @@Maddox-yk9xibro you dont even have a catXD I have two an I can relate

    • @Maddox-yk9xi
      @Maddox-yk9xi 2 месяца назад +11

      @@Germanballasacountryball lmao I do in fact have a cat

  • @jmc8847
    @jmc8847 2 месяца назад +44

    Sweet Kurt, you are bundle of joy! Your antics with your dad ,Abram, are a lot of fun!😂😂You are so lucky having such a wonderful DAD and now a MOM!🐈🐈🐈♥♥

  • @ShadowMk3
    @ShadowMk3 Месяц назад +5

    "Don't worry I ended up showing love to all the cats that I ignored"
    Me: "OMG THANK YOU"

  • @AnnDuong-d7n
    @AnnDuong-d7n Месяц назад +21

    my FAVORITE thing about cats is that no matter how mundane, they are still the biggest treasures!

  • @Herry_gremixfan
    @Herry_gremixfan 2 месяца назад +36

    0:20 THAT GRAY CAT LOOKS LIKE ME!!??

  • @SpaceCattttt
    @SpaceCattttt Месяц назад +83

    American houses. They're so big that the furniture looks like discarded dollhouse paraphernalia...

    • @Grimnoire
      @Grimnoire Месяц назад +14

      America, the only place on the planet where big houses exist

    • @user-kr6gw8bq4o
      @user-kr6gw8bq4o Месяц назад

      @@GrimnoireDubai?

    • @Grimnoire
      @Grimnoire Месяц назад +5

      @@user-kr6gw8bq4o doesn't count, only america. And by america I mean specifically North America, because anything besides the US doesn't count as america

    • @Sasparilla_
      @Sasparilla_ Месяц назад +7

      @@Grimnoire ahem. theres north america and south america, the north one contains america the country. when you say 'america' referring to both continents, you mean to say 'the americas" -- the north america and the south. hope this helps

    • @SpaceCattttt
      @SpaceCattttt Месяц назад +1

      @alrightyeahuhhuh Perhaps, but these are just cat people...

  • @givemeoats
    @givemeoats 2 месяца назад +20

    Cats are too soft and fluffy to ignore for too long

  • @seramoonirl
    @seramoonirl 2 месяца назад +15

    I swear Kurt is so loved. 🥰🥰🥰

  • @OfficialLittleluimusic_gaming
    @OfficialLittleluimusic_gaming 2 месяца назад +81

    I love Kurt ❤ he’s an absolute legend

  • @Kittiesxswifties13
    @Kittiesxswifties13 2 месяца назад +16

    Kurt is so cute I CAN'T

  • @susansusan6612
    @susansusan6612 27 дней назад +1

    That couch is haunted…. 😂

  • @Glxyy_official
    @Glxyy_official 2 месяца назад +4

    The way he just falls is so adorable 😭 2:20

    • @JujuG-fj2zy
      @JujuG-fj2zy 2 месяца назад

      I love ur profile pic

  • @ThatGuy182545
    @ThatGuy182545 Месяц назад +1

    “I ignored the cats at the cat cafe.”
    Cats: “Challenge accepted.”

  • @artisticfilzah
    @artisticfilzah 2 месяца назад +2

    "roar Kurt!"
    *_"mrreoww"_*

  • @acidicspecter
    @acidicspecter 2 месяца назад +9

    Dogs: "Yes! More pets, please! Tell me I'm a good boy."
    Cats: "Just feed me and pretend I'm not here."

  • @CatonicWeirdo
    @CatonicWeirdo 2 месяца назад +4

    The podcast part was so adorable😂😂😂

  • @meteoresky
    @meteoresky Месяц назад +45

    I agreed with what others said about cat’s sense is much better than human and might detect the dangerous toxic humans didn’t aware of. Besides, I’d like to add another viewpoint after years of living and observing cats, we often ignored how they were brought up especially cats being outdoor before - camouflage will make them feel safe due to nature instinct. As a result, white cats preferred white, black cats preferred black or dark spots, orange cats love brown/orange settings(like dry fallen leaves in the yard) etc. Hope this helps.

    • @Kawaiitwo
      @Kawaiitwo Месяц назад +3

      My black cat absolutely loves dark places, so I can confirm that.

    • @rep-vile
      @rep-vile Месяц назад +2

      It just doesn't like the couch. There're toxins in their food as well, and some consume coffee/tea/choco/plants which are poison to them. They're not that clever.

    • @hilihkintil6789
      @hilihkintil6789 29 дней назад

      Idk about that. My neighbor cat always jump my window straight to my bed, *A SINGLE WORKING ADULT MAN* bed, which basically as toxic as sewers. The moment i opened my window on the weekend she jumps and stays at my bed. It's been my weekend routine for almost 2 years. She jumped on the weekday too at first but i keep throwing her out, she doesn't even try anymore 😂

  • @mufeet
    @mufeet 2 месяца назад +16

    Don't know if you'll see this, but I learned about you from your old teacher Ms. Melanee Barton! She's my professor at my University and she talked about how she knew a famous influencer (you) and how you were determined to be one and you just signed some deal with a cat food company for 4 million. Pretty cool!

  • @2listening1
    @2listening1 Месяц назад +1

    Scientists tell us that “the plural of anecdote is not data.” But it is adorable.

  • @andrewnguyen777
    @andrewnguyen777 Месяц назад

    The little furball’s different interview poses 😹

  • @andrewnguyen777
    @andrewnguyen777 Месяц назад

    I like his style. Buys the fancy cat toys, cat doesn’t like for a bit, but he’s making the best use of the entertainment while it doesn’t for his own money 😂

  • @williamj.dovejr.8613
    @williamj.dovejr.8613 Месяц назад +12

    I would fail... first, I have been a cat dad to five cats. Second, cats just come up to me. Finally, I just can't help but love them. If I am petting a cat, I am in my happy place.

  • @wojtekpolska1013
    @wojtekpolska1013 23 дня назад +1

    8:00 but you still can actually pretty well see how he's turning, he went from being vertical head-up to almost normal cat position in a fraction of a second.
    but the thing is - if the fall is short enough that he can't land on his feet, it's probably short enough of a fall that it doesn't rly matter that he didn't

  • @hollyuniek1583
    @hollyuniek1583 14 часов назад

    Loved your video. Shout Out to the Catio in Nashville Tn… Best place EVER to relax and play with all the Cats and Kittens, and maybe be inclined to adopt one and take it home!

  • @mikegaustad477
    @mikegaustad477 10 дней назад

    The instant reaction of your cat smelling the sofa once up there says it all. It stinks to him !

  • @LionessWarriorII
    @LionessWarriorII 2 месяца назад +9

    hey Abram and Kurt! Love you both!!! this video is really good

  • @saroonahali468
    @saroonahali468 Месяц назад

    I love how they were " like bro why are you in here if you gonna ignore us...."

  • @mogmoogle8183
    @mogmoogle8183 Месяц назад +2

    I went to my first cat cafe this past month and as a cat person I know not to bother them and follow them round like a lot of other customers were doing. I just sat down got comfy and before I knew it I had two cats trying to settle on my lap. The first cat that claimed my lap had a good wash, fell asleep and stayed there my entire visit. When it came to leaving I had to slowly slide them off in to a cushion, luckily i didn't get the stink eye for doing that lol.

  • @lunardoeseverything5393
    @lunardoeseverything5393 Месяц назад

    KURT IS SUCH A SILLY LITTLE GUY 😭😭

  • @SigmaAlphaWolf-y8g
    @SigmaAlphaWolf-y8g 2 месяца назад +26

    Only OGs know this is re-posted

  • @alh6255
    @alh6255 16 дней назад +1

    Most cats know almost immediately that a "mouse" or "insect" "made" with light is fake. They don't even have to "touch" it...

  • @curiousnerdkitteh
    @curiousnerdkitteh Месяц назад

    I love when he just WATCHES the tennis ball launcher launch balls lol.

  • @pleegjepleegje
    @pleegjepleegje 2 месяца назад +6

    They're ignoring the dawgs, they're ignoring the cats, they're ignoring the pets 🎶of the people that live there🎶
    💙💙💙🌊🐬🌊💙💙💙

  • @zenithperigee7442
    @zenithperigee7442 Месяц назад +3

    @Abram Engle, seriously, who could go to a kitty Café & ignore the kitties, that's self-torture, lol. Kurt still looking handsome as ever!🐈^_^ As for his running speed, keep in mind that a velocity of 30mph is equivalent to ~44 feet per second! Kurt being in the house he doesn't have as much room so to be moving at ~25-30 feet per second is impressive! My very old treadmill goes up to 10mph which is about half the speed Kurt ran and yet I used to run it up to 10mph, it's a lot faster than people think especially for those of us with shorter legs! Those with longer legs are able to traverse greater distances with each stride without requiring as much energy. Usain is 6'5", imagine what it'd be like for someone 12" shorter trying to running that same speed.

  • @Beth9228
    @Beth9228 2 месяца назад +5

    I liked Kurt. He does looked liked my 1st cat that was named Morris. Even looks liked my sister’s cat Gizmo,too.

  • @Michael-pp8lz
    @Michael-pp8lz Месяц назад

    cat: "This guy's chill"

  • @YouTubeusername4321
    @YouTubeusername4321 2 месяца назад +2

    They just feel that you are sre chilling and are one of their own

  • @felixhenson9926
    @felixhenson9926 Месяц назад

    I do honestly think the righting reflex absolutely came into play but he didn't have enough height to have the time to get through the full twist.

  • @afraadimash4171
    @afraadimash4171 2 месяца назад +3

    Yo I’m a great fan! Your cat is way too cute and I love cats just as much as you do!

  • @cosmospray
    @cosmospray Месяц назад

    He can run way faster in a bigger space ! ❤❤❤

  • @broblox8088
    @broblox8088 2 месяца назад +11

    I have not seen any one do this test before! so cool!❤

    • @AndrewAce.
      @AndrewAce. 2 месяца назад +1

      It's not an easy test...

  • @Floof_Da_Pom
    @Floof_Da_Pom Месяц назад

    their fascination with yarn could be that it resembles a mouse or other rodent

  • @isof1341
    @isof1341 19 дней назад

    Please be careful that the yarn doesn't get chewed up and eaten as pieces could strangulate their colon. If you use lightweight pingpong balls in the machine I'm certain Kevin would love it. You raised a cutie 🐈🥰💕

  • @strawberrylemonadelioness
    @strawberrylemonadelioness 24 дня назад

    Kurt is a precious kitty!

  • @kellybraun7048
    @kellybraun7048 Месяц назад

    Pool for Kurt- my cat likes his big water fountain, which is the same size or bigger than the little pool around 7min in. He plays with the water, drinks from it, and uses it in cleaning himself. It’s always fun to see him play with a thread or clear plastic spoon or whatnot that falls in. I bet Kurt would enjoy the running water, if you haven’t done that yet.

  • @TheKatarinaGiselle
    @TheKatarinaGiselle 2 месяца назад +7

    When we ignore our cat, that is absolutely when she will come up to us to lay or play!

  • @SuperTracilee
    @SuperTracilee Месяц назад

    This was a good laugh! Thank you! 🤣🙏

  • @gdcat686
    @gdcat686 2 месяца назад +7

    your the best cat owner, but i cant say your cat is the best only because i have my own lol 😂

  • @sparkyheberling6115
    @sparkyheberling6115 2 месяца назад +7

    Maybe the couch is off-gassing. Is it the same stuffing as the other new furniture?

  • @christinamann3640
    @christinamann3640 Месяц назад +1

    That would be like ignoring the hundreds in a wind tunnel with money blowing around

  • @Decentish_Edits
    @Decentish_Edits 2 месяца назад +2

    The idea of this video is so cool I love it!

  • @nuclearcatbaby1131
    @nuclearcatbaby1131 Месяц назад

    My cat hates me, it must be because I can't ignore him. He's my favorite flavor of cat, so radiant and gorgeous...

  • @Dotfye
    @Dotfye Месяц назад

    A cat who doesnt want to get on a couch is amazing since my couch died being loved by one

  • @MrGruffteddybear
    @MrGruffteddybear 8 дней назад

    Usually, ignoring a cat shows them you aren't threatening, so they are more likely to approach you and check you out.

  • @Gaminboi2864
    @Gaminboi2864 Месяц назад

    Cats hate being pestered and like simply relaxing it seems.

  • @emc6860
    @emc6860 17 часов назад

    this is hilarious, the audacity

  • @teddym2808
    @teddym2808 2 месяца назад +3

    What an absolute sweetheart, just found your channel for the first time. Thumbs up.

  • @kayetaylor5551
    @kayetaylor5551 2 месяца назад +2

    Eye contact is the key....it is aggressive to stare apparently ....so lots of blinking and not a lot of eye contact

  • @roseg2239
    @roseg2239 Месяц назад

    Dude his taking his cat outside on a leash 😂

  • @veronicaoliveiro6367
    @veronicaoliveiro6367 Месяц назад

    The thing that threatens cats is intense eye contact, which is a signal of invitation for confrontation in their understanding. By not looking into their eyes directly and throwing in some gentle blinks, the message becomes, "I come with no harm intended, let's be friends. "

  • @Alison-p4p
    @Alison-p4p 11 дней назад

    0:18 I mean, whenever I’m reading outside, this random ass cat just plops onto me and decides, “yeah, imma sit here.”

  • @xNYCMarc
    @xNYCMarc 5 дней назад

    Many couches come from the factory with a pet deterrent on the fabric. So that's probably why Kurt won't go on it. It wears off after a few months.

  • @nomoredrama4thismama314
    @nomoredrama4thismama314 2 месяца назад

    Kurt looks a lot like my Pumpkin! I just had your video pop up on my dash & I subscribed!

  • @charlieisnotmyname
    @charlieisnotmyname 22 дня назад

    Hey these videos are amazing and helping me learn more about cats cause I'm getting a baby girl kitten next week

  • @archie.da.axolotl123grape
    @archie.da.axolotl123grape 2 месяца назад +2

    Kurt is so cute!!!!!! ❤❤❤❤

  • @js00065
    @js00065 Месяц назад +5

    Wtf? Is this considered news? Ignoring cats is 100% the best way to get them to be curious and interact with you. This is "dealing with cats 101" level. Anyway, good luck to every human & cat 😎

  • @peppergirlrocks
    @peppergirlrocks 24 дня назад

    I did the same when I went to a cat cafe a few years back and it worked. 😂.

  • @chazwilliams576
    @chazwilliams576 2 месяца назад

    Kurt's pur is sooo cute

  • @TheSiriusEnigma
    @TheSiriusEnigma 2 месяца назад +3

    That’s because in cat body language, looking at somecat for more than a glance is a sign of hostility. Not looking at cats is less aggressive than looking at them.

  • @veselt6709
    @veselt6709 2 месяца назад

    I noticed that my cat prefers bigger scratcher because he is stretching himself at the same time he sharpens his little flesh carving blades .

  • @pearlgee5970
    @pearlgee5970 Месяц назад

    You’re funny!!!❤❤❤😂😂😂

  • @Marquise1
    @Marquise1 2 месяца назад +1

    I got it set for my cats to have it as a movie on the wall..❤

  • @OctopusGamingRoblox
    @OctopusGamingRoblox 2 месяца назад +2

    You should have a cat parkour corse for Kurt and see how fast he can do it

  • @emminet
    @emminet Месяц назад +1

    Love seeing a cat owner leash their cat when they go outside! It's responsible!!

  • @elvisbl
    @elvisbl Месяц назад +2

    I think cats feel safer with quiet people. If you move or talk too much, they will not approach.

  • @1xm_mx1
    @1xm_mx1 Месяц назад

    You need 2 more tests: the laser dot test and the cardboard box test on the couch.

  • @teijaflink2226
    @teijaflink2226 2 месяца назад +2

    What a cute kitten.

  • @sandilobianco6734
    @sandilobianco6734 Месяц назад

    Kurt is adorable.

  • @4B4Me
    @4B4Me 2 месяца назад +9

    I wish I had a piece of furniture my cat didn't like. TO CLAW ON.

  • @ChonkyCats
    @ChonkyCats Месяц назад

    Lol now i want to go to a cat cafe to ignore cats 😹

  • @saynotohookups
    @saynotohookups Месяц назад +1

    The cat paying attention to you while you ignore them is not a reliable theory.

  • @venusc5709
    @venusc5709 2 месяца назад +4

    as someone who is allergic to cats (but still owns them) id cry when i have to ignore them cause i cant eat food and pet cats at the same time

    • @monk3yboy69
      @monk3yboy69 Месяц назад

      I’m allergic to cats. I have 2.
      Some days allergies off the charts.
      I keep Peritize in business 😀😀😀

  • @kellenfurter
    @kellenfurter 2 месяца назад +1

    Your couch is haunted. 😂

  • @InAHollowTree
    @InAHollowTree Месяц назад

    Might be the texture of the couch on his paws. I noticed that with the other new piece of furniture that the was sitting on, it had a blanket so that he was not directly touching it.
    Also, when you put the harness on him, he did the classic “I hate being dressed in this thing” crouch and flop that cats do. I think he was too distracted by his discomfort to be interested in the outdoors.

  • @tarshajohnson9628
    @tarshajohnson9628 2 месяца назад +5

    Kurt say I love talking to you and everyone 😂😂🎉🎉❤

  • @KryaDiere
    @KryaDiere Месяц назад

    About the couch, it's possible the prints on the pillows scared him off the first time he jumped off and he's been wary since. My cat got scared off by this green plushie my sis left on it and she refused to go up since. You might want to consider changing that pillow cover temporarily and continue playing with him on the couch.

    • @DKNguyen3.1415
      @DKNguyen3.1415 Месяц назад

      Hey, if I stuck my hands on a mirror and it left hand prints didn't go away I'd be freaked out too.

  • @crystal79jones
    @crystal79jones 2 месяца назад +1

    I need to get over to visit there soon. I live close. I could never ignore the kitties not even for an experiment.😂

  • @abam9787
    @abam9787 Месяц назад

    secret is petting for a max 10 seconds