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- Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024
- Wrinkles and other marks of time aren’t often paired with sexuality in society so it is natural to struggle with aging and helpful to rediscover my body. In this episode of Sexplanations my friend Elvis helped me sort though this. By photographing me and holding my aging body in time and space he enabled me to see me through a new lens. He helped me increase visibility, connect with this unfamiliar aged Lindsey, and detach from social pressures to hide my changes or hibernate my sexuality.
If you're into photography or curious about it, I recommend following his journey on INSTAGRAM : / ondu_cameras and RUclips: / @onducameras
You can also find his hand-crafted cameras, made with care in picturesque Slovenia at ondupinhole.com/
A big thanks to him and our friends who make all of our lives more beautiful.
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42. Young'un! My wife and I made 44 years before she passed. I can say with certainty our best years of life and sex were our 40s and 50s. She was a bit of a closet freak. Before she passed she made me promise to get back out there as soon as I could. She said the girls would thank her. They do. It's been 11 years, but they don't make them like her anymore. Your best years are ahead of you. Thank you for what you do. Please continue.
Ditto!
I’m 29 year old young’un and this was lovely to read thank you for giving me a smile.
I'm a late 60's man who admires you for who you are and how you teach, encourage, and relate to your audience. Outwardly we all visibly age and change as part of the human experience. Most of us resent it at first but then come to embrace it. Inwardly, we continue to develop, and have a good deal of control over that.. My SO and I are still very active though in a different way to when we met in our early 40's. We agree that you are still very appealing, straighforward, honest, open and dare I say....cute.
Dr. Doe I am a 63-yr old widower who had to rediscover my sexuality after the death of my wife 4 years ago. We had no marital intimacy (in any form) for 20 years. It was daunting to start over with an older body and a total lack of self-confidence. But Sexplanations helped me gain my footing and learn how to be a good lover. Your emphasis on meaningful communication, verbal and non-verbal, was key. So was the de-mystification of sexuality. In the process I cast aside stereotypical notions of beauty. I soon discovered like-minded people who also had similar needs and desires and concerns. Thanks to you I have become a sensitive and sexually fulfilled partner despite age induced limitations; we all age in different ways. It's okay to feel mortal, just don't let that be a barrier. Just recognize that an adjustment is needed and keep pushing. And please keep inspiring and stay curious!
I will always like and always comment. We need people like you to keep tackling sexuality openly instead demonizing it.
This is one of your best stories.
awww, thank you for this nice compliment
Acroyoga is amazingly fun and so much easier than it looks. There is nothing quite like the joy of seeing someone achieve something they didn't think they could do. I've had flyers laugh uncontrollably and even cry tears of joy at the new connection and ability they've discovered. It's particularly empowering for women when they realize that they can be the base.
I agree so much with all of this!
My 40s were difficult for me sexually. I was in an unhealthy relationship and completely shut myself down sexually. Now in my 50s, I'm out of that relationship and having so much fun both sexually and non-sexually. I see the 40s as a transitional decade. Our bodies ARE aging and changing including perimenopause which until we are through it, being through that monthly cycle of hormones and emotions is all we have known. Post-menopause is amazing! So much freedom!
Fantastic video! Keep up the awesome work you do!
Awesome video wonderful messages, beautiful artistic style and emotionally moving. Thank you
Nobody is old while they have strength of spirit and energy to keep up. Don't let the world bring you down. Take a deep breath, a pause, a break, run away if you need. Just don't give up
Let's see, next birthday I'll be 80. You can keep it going as long as you want to, assuming certain physical challenges don't get in the way.
Chronic pain and fibromyalgia certainly makes sex a challenge.
Looking forward to continuing to enjoy you and hopeful. For any tips, you can offer folks in our situation.
Beautiful people are always beautiful a wrinkle won't change that one bit
As a man it always amazes me when a beautiful young woman like you feels old and not sex anymore (yeah I had no idea you were in your 40's yet). I am glad you found yourself back to feeling attractive and sexy.
This is so fascinating and looks like SO much FUN!!!
Love you Dr. Lindsey 💖 You're incredible 🥰
I've been watching your videos for many years and, to me at least, you've become more attractive as time has gone by, not less. I hope you too feel this way. Thank you so much for what you do!
As someone a few years older than you, I think the wrinkles and a little loose skin, etc just makes someone sexier.
Wow way to go. I understand about the loss of confidence with age. I’m 55 and overweight, with limited movement with back and knees. It can make exercise hard and of course makes me feel limited what a can do otherwise. Stay strong in your own way.
I love how much fun you two are obviously having together! It's so comfy.
Someone much wiser than me once said, "A person is not old until regrets take the place of dreams." Please keep dreaming, Dr. Doe. You are very beautiful and I'm sure many people find you very VERY attractive. I certainly do.
What is the meaning of life, the universe, and everything?... 42! I thought about that quite often when I was 42. I'm 48 now. Take care and please keep doing the important work you do!
What a beautiful experience. Thank you for sharing
42 is not old. I'm 58 and have more medical problems than I would care to admit. I have followed your channel for the past 10 years. Keep on with your Sexplanations mission.
Dude, you awesome!! Love ya face! keep up the great work!!
Sex, but only with increasingly restrictive conditions IS such a chain on our healthy and honest lives.
Keep going, keep teaching, living, loving, and just being you!
lovely! so many new things to learn, and it never stops. Thanks!
Beautiful play with Beautiful people!!
Thank you for this piece!!
(had a beautiful lil cry about it)
I did not expect him to make his own cameras. First I've heard of that.
This was heart-warmingly beautiful, Lindsey. Overjoyed for you. Inspired. Moved to tears :'-)
Thank you 🥰
That is so wholesome and beautiful and sexy too. I always learn a lot with your videos and they also make me happy. Thank youuu 💜
Those insecurities that come with age are almost as inevitable as aging itself.
On the other hand, being able to do this at all makes you a lot more fit than a lot of other 42 years olds.
Definitely looks like it required a lot of communication, ideally some diagrams too.
Absolutely beautiful video. Thank you! ❤
Most impressive, especially with FM.
This was so cool! Y'all are so strong, omg
What?…42!!… you’re just getting started. I’m 58 and just discovered GREAT SEX at 43 years of age.
I hope it’a appropriate to say “happy birthday” because I think it’s this weekend!
Sunday
At 52 I feel like I’m just hitting my stride both in general physicality as well as sexually. The more I age, the more comfortable I feel and the more I want to play. I feel incredibly lucky my life is working out this way
You are still very attractive Dr. Doe. 🎉
I'm only a year older tbh😊
I think this is the most beautiful episode you’ve ever made.
Great video. You all look amazing.
The world needs to be educated more about sexuality as a person were born in a very close minded family i needed that
Beautiful. This made me feel better about myself.
Oh to be Young and silly again, thank you.
I also struggle with my sexuality. Seeking out other sensual and intimate experiences is good, I agree. Like playing, massage, playfighting
I'm a guy and followed you since you started. Female sexuality fascinated me. I'm glad you brought this topic up I feel the same however you are still sexy. Not trying to be a creep. Your intelligence the knowledge you possess as well as your personality make you very attractive as well as your physical appearance. Keep being you.
42? You’re in your prime young lady. You look awesome. Age is a state of mind. As Satchel Paige said, “How old would you be if you didn’t know how old you are?” You look great. Keep doing what you’re doing to stay young and healthy. 🥰
Okay, a show of hands please... How many 42yr olds watching just did what she did right there???
That's what I thought!! lol Dr. Doe... You worry too much!! That was stunning and so are you...💖
You're beautiful and you can do it. ;) the body is just a vessel and the magic will always be around, it just changes a bit.
Thank you for your words, and be sure we see you! ❤
Communication is key. Also, when you are with someone, you both have to be on the same page.
I don't know if you've researched it, but one thing that has really helped my fibromyalgia is high-dose vitamin B1. I use benfotiamine.
outstanding!
Beautiful country like outdoors scenery
Incredible video
42? You're the answer to Life, The Universe and Everything! It was fantastic seeing you, Elvis and Alissa play together! Thank you so very much for sharing this!
Two questions, if I may . . . First, fibromyalgia? I don't recall you mentioning that before. I can appreciate why you might not: I don't know how relevant it was to previous content. But it's interesting -- and inspiring -- to know that you're seeking and finding ways to keep that from limiting your life too much.
Second, who was the furry person in the video? It's been a long time since my wife and I had a canine member of the pack, and I miss pack time! So I love it when I can get it, even if it's vicariously. Thanks for sharing that, too!
Very kewl Doc. Thx!
I am happy for you, I have other age issues and my drive is now all but dead. For me I enjoy hearing about things like this for others. My body just hurts too much to play like that or for sex. But vicariously through others I get along
At 22 and struggling with... a lot, including sex. It's been a rocky couple years of a dry spell followed by a period of still no sex but physical contact that i didn't realise i was missing and that made me feel like a starving animal who was just handed a prime cut of meat, and i still dont know how to feel about it. I've gone up and down the spectrum of opinion and whatever about sex (the internet is a dangerous place for this) from borderline incel behaivour to trying to hard to sexualise my self.
I dont know where i'll end up, i know i am terribly young, tho sometimes it feels as if im late to everything and time and death are breathing down my neck (jeez, dramatic much?). I hope it all works out in the end, it usualy does.
I think i've lost my train of thought. If you, kind stranger, made it to this point of my rant you have some impresive mental fortitude. I just felt the need to vent in here, as i lack a secluded enough forest, or thick enough walls to yell stuff out into the world without sounding like i've gone 100% mad.
I wish i could get my first time back, i cant help but feel like i threw it away. I crave to play again, to find someone who will be just as curious about themselfs as me and with whom, together, we may find answers, and morning cuddles, and warm showers, and tasty meals, and with enough luck fun, soft, wholesome, tender, caring and safe sex .... yeah.
PLAY ON BEAUTIFUL DR. DOE❣
you're GORGEOUS & getting BETTER EVERY DAY in EVERY WAY💯
Thank you for making the world a Better place for Us All
Thank you. This video I found very visually stunning.
Beautiful!
I pointedly avoid saying this kind of thing to educators, content creators, and my parasocial relationships (and especially with you, Lindsey, because of the subjects that you cover), but I think that it is appropriate in this vary narrow case. Lindsey, you are an attractive woman. I know that doesn't really help with the negative self talk that may happen, and that this video is addressing. Never-the-less, there are people who find you attractive, even with all of the signs of age that you see on yourself.
Feel sexy Doc, because you are.
And thank you for sharing this part of yourself. So many people need this message (as you know, which is why you made the video 8)
THANKS DOE!
Very cool!
Very impressive fitness
I like your choice of color grading!
That was all Elvis. His photography and videography and camera craftmanship are all stunning
I love you. You are as beautiful inside as you are on the outside. And there should be more people like Dr. Lindsey Doe in the world 🥰
This is beautiful Dr. Doe! I'm still young, but as i approach 30 in just a short two years and remain a virign i feel less and less desirable and more and more afraid that i'll never have any experience in the sexual aspect of life... Thank you for reminding me that i still have time to be sexy..!
What a fun video!
I’m sad that you’re not feeling sexually attractive or doubtful. I have watched many of your videos and you have helped so many people understand human sexuality. Be kind to yourself!♥️
Awesome content as usual DD.
Love You Dr Doe!!!❤❤❤❤
This was awesome! Great video dr. Doe, I’ll send it to my mom ❤🫂
God bless you ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Aging? Or maturing? If you still find Joy in Things (humans and other animals included) then I think we are maturing. I feel we Age when we give up on joy and simply living.
At 74 and living with severely advanced arthritis in both ankles, my Wonderful wife still insists on walking daily before breakfast. Granted, it's under 2 miles per day now, but she does it. And she finds pleasure in the natural things she records for our videos we share with family, as well as any others that watch.
You looked splendid with your two friends. Also, I hope Elvis considers expanding his visibility on Flickr photo sharing site. He can post up to about 1000 for free without a paid membership.
Great video young lady!
yeah but I can't even find a DATE
This looks like so much fuuuun I love it
Doc, I sympathize. For me it's chronic migraine. But as others have said, you're only 42. Don't buy some bill of goods that you'e too old, too sick, to whatever. You'e fine just the way you are.
At 62 I can relate
Your doggie seemed to approve, which is important!
42 year old, I would say that at least 10 younger. It's only a number
Is this a birthday video? Happy birthday lol
Hello there Dr. Doe ✌️😎
Your videos are fantastic…… 😊
I might've tried it farther from a rock covered river, but maybe that's just me.
❤
Impressive!
This is a film.
Where is your friend Elvis from ? Where is “ Sylvania” located at?
I always wondered what it would be like to be in a sexual relationship
Women get too hung up what they look like verses their view of their perfect self. Every wrinkle, stretch mark or grey hair is another page in your story of life. I say embrace every perceived imperfection. Wear your life’s story with pride.
Did you say Slovenia ?!
Yes, it isn't true. Also, as a fellow early 40-er; it's a totally attractive age.
❤️🔥🫂❤️🔥
Is that an actual place on earth dr doe 😢
Algorithm comment.
an old Aphorism "Youth is wasted on the young" expertice is based upon experience - we may be older and less "atractive" but that does not mean one can't experience GREAT SEX
I agree. I plan on having lots of great sex as I continue to age. Sexuality is so much more than sex though.
I assure you that many of your viewers enjoy watching your channel a little bit more simply because an attractive, desirable woman is presenting the still-awesome content.
Also keep in mind that there are lots of "sapiosexuals" out there, no matter how old or broken the wrinkly, hairy meat-sack gets!
not trying to be a creep but you do not look your age at all closer to late 20's
This was surprisingly moving 🥲 I was born with spina bifida, a neurological birth-defect that can become lifelong progressive due to secondary factors. I'm 37 now, a permanent wheelchair user since 30. Since becoming wheelchair bound, my paralysis has progressed, causing muscle wasting and heavy contractures in pretty much my entire lower body... I used to be so confident despite by physical limitations. Well, what I thought were physical limitations... Now I have REAL physical limitations, and I have to be honest its starting to make me feel more insecure in certain bedroom moments... But I do 100% agree that with a partner you 100% trust (I am blessed to have one), and with both open and mutual communication, ANYthing possible, and BOTH parties can feel equally sexy 🥰 Thank you for the reminder, and best sexy wishes to everyone reading this! hehe