42. Young'un! My wife and I made 44 years before she passed. I can say with certainty our best years of life and sex were our 40s and 50s. She was a bit of a closet freak. Before she passed she made me promise to get back out there as soon as I could. She said the girls would thank her. They do. It's been 11 years, but they don't make them like her anymore. Your best years are ahead of you. Thank you for what you do. Please continue.
A few days ago my sexual power was absolutely low and now suddenly my sexual power has increased 10X 😅 also my timings are increasing day by day, only one table can recover my energy
Acroyoga is amazingly fun and so much easier than it looks. There is nothing quite like the joy of seeing someone achieve something they didn't think they could do. I've had flyers laugh uncontrollably and even cry tears of joy at the new connection and ability they've discovered. It's particularly empowering for women when they realize that they can be the base.
A few days ago my sexual power was absolutely low and now suddenly my sexual power has increased 10X 😅 also my timings are increasing day by day, only one table can recover my energy
I'm a late 60's man who admires you for who you are and how you teach, encourage, and relate to your audience. Outwardly we all visibly age and change as part of the human experience. Most of us resent it at first but then come to embrace it. Inwardly, we continue to develop, and have a good deal of control over that.. My SO and I are still very active though in a different way to when we met in our early 40's. We agree that you are still very appealing, straighforward, honest, open and dare I say....cute.
I’m 44, I endure fibromyalgia and I’m fat. I wasn’t until a few years ago that I discovered that I’m desirable. Not in a fetishized way, not in a pitiful way, not in a Hollywood way, but in a human way. I’m demisexual as well and need connection. I like to say the only way in is through the friendship entrance. So yes, I have limitations, but it doesn’t limit my worth. I love the work that you do here, I’ve learned so much. As much as I want a good, attentive, well informed and enthusiastic partner, I want to be one too. Thank you Dr. Doe, your work is so important to me and too so many others.
As someone from a purity culture, i can’t express how much I love this. Thank you for affirming and reminding me that it’s normal for sex to be “awkward” at first and can be a tool to build stronger communication ♥️
Someone much wiser than me once said, "A person is not old until regrets take the place of dreams." Please keep dreaming, Dr. Doe. You are very beautiful and I'm sure many people find you very VERY attractive. I certainly do. What is the meaning of life, the universe, and everything?... 42! I thought about that quite often when I was 42. I'm 48 now. Take care and please keep doing the important work you do!
My 40s were difficult for me sexually. I was in an unhealthy relationship and completely shut myself down sexually. Now in my 50s, I'm out of that relationship and having so much fun both sexually and non-sexually. I see the 40s as a transitional decade. Our bodies ARE aging and changing including perimenopause which until we are through it, being through that monthly cycle of hormones and emotions is all we have known. Post-menopause is amazing! So much freedom! Fantastic video! Keep up the awesome work you do!
A few days ago my sexual power was absolutely low and now suddenly my sexual power has increased 10X 😅 also my timings are increasing day by day, only one table can recover my energy
I've been watching your videos for many years and, to me at least, you've become more attractive as time has gone by, not less. I hope you too feel this way. Thank you so much for what you do!
As a man it always amazes me when a beautiful young woman like you feels old and not sex anymore (yeah I had no idea you were in your 40's yet). I am glad you found yourself back to feeling attractive and sexy.
Chronic pain and fibromyalgia certainly makes sex a challenge. Looking forward to continuing to enjoy you and hopeful. For any tips, you can offer folks in our situation.
Thank you for this video. It's helped me (a 23 year old man) feel even more comfortable with the aging process. Just want to say that (as little it may fall on your soul) you're still gorgeous, I think that often, we tend to hold ourselves to the highest expectations and can't accept our current body in comparison to what was. Best advice I've ever had was this; "just boss-bitch it and you'll be fine!" Always appreciated your work, can't believe it's been ten years. Hope for another ten! You're a gem!
Without any intention to be rude, before you even mentioned the element of age and attraction I'd already spotted 🍑 and thought "Damn, Dr Doe rocking 🎂 and looking good." But I know the feeling of a health condition knocking your confidence though and you have my sympathies. You lift people, too, with your knowledge and contagious energy. You certainly helped me to help a lot of people out there.
great to see and hear that your evolving, as we all do...... this experience we have (called life) changes throughout our lives, and our experiences become further extensions of this experience. run with it (or walk along, all good).....
Wow way to go. I understand about the loss of confidence with age. I’m 55 and overweight, with limited movement with back and knees. It can make exercise hard and of course makes me feel limited what a can do otherwise. Stay strong in your own way.
42 is not old. I'm 58 and have more medical problems than I would care to admit. I have followed your channel for the past 10 years. Keep on with your Sexplanations mission.
Nobody is old while they have strength of spirit and energy to keep up. Don't let the world bring you down. Take a deep breath, a pause, a break, run away if you need. Just don't give up
Those insecurities that come with age are almost as inevitable as aging itself. On the other hand, being able to do this at all makes you a lot more fit than a lot of other 42 years olds. Definitely looks like it required a lot of communication, ideally some diagrams too.
Thank you Elvis for doing most of the work and agreeing to let this be a video. The yoga poses were amazing Dr. Doe and Elvis - beautiful and stunning!
I love this so much. I've never seen Dr. Doe as anything but sensual and open, but it's also awesome to see the honesty and the way she solves this problem of perception
A few days ago my sexual power was absolutely low and now suddenly my sexual power has increased 10X 😅 also my timings are increasing day by day, only one table can recover my energy
[Dr] Lindsey, I’ve watched your channel since day 1. And you’ve been consistently beautiful in your messages and approach, and I never cease to appreciate the insight you have to offer. Thank you as always. (Also, you’re really freakin good at that acro-aerobic stuff 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻)
This is such a great video you shared. More women need to watch this. So many hung up about being judged for older bodies, when in reality, love is larger than all those fears.
My wife and I talked about this today, wow. I will be sharing with her now. Thank u so much for all the years. I watched your first video a few days after it was released, and I'm watching this. U are an amazing and wonderful human. I am so glad u are back and doing the videos u want to do! Please, never stop being curious!
Incredible. You're still inspiring the next generation of curious people. I'm currently going on college tours and want to be just like you when I'm older
Beautiful video! And absolutely impressive acrobatics! 1:33 is a great thing to remember. It reminds me a bit of holidays. There's so much expectation that it must be a perfect day and everybody's happy and nobody argues and the food is amazing because it's (insert day of cultural or personal significance). When in reality it's just a day like any other, sure, you can prepare some things, but you can't guarantee that everything will be 'perfect'. And that's fine, it can still be a good day. And if it isn't then the next day can be better. One thing I think is important to remember with aging and sex is that maybe we think of 'aged' bodies as 'unattractive' because they weren't attractive to use when we were younger? And then we dread becoming that 'ugly' body. When really... yeah, if you're 20 you're most likely not attracted to someone who's 60. Most people date within a smaller age range. But that probably also means that by the time you're 60 you'll find other 60 year old's attractive, and probably less so 20 year olds. Beauty's in the eye of the beholder. (But also yes, society's/capitalism's influence.)
Has it really been 10 years? I remember finding your original crowdfunding efforts (I believe it was on Subbable before that closed, yeah?), and I've enjoyed and been educated by you ever since. I was also in my 30's then, and now my situation is so much different...but I still love seeing your videos, and I always learn something new. Here's to 10 more years of very high quality and accessible sex education, on topics most places wouldn't even consider talking about!
Dr Doe, I feel like I'm right there with you at 40. Our bodies are not what they used to be and there's a definite grief that comes with these changes. It also seems as though middle age is when many people are coming to terms with decreased desire in their long term partnerships or previous sexual and emotional traumas. But there's a lot of us out there going through the same things and these challenges create opportunities for bonding and intimacy.
At 22 and struggling with... a lot, including sex. It's been a rocky couple years of a dry spell followed by a period of still no sex but physical contact that i didn't realise i was missing and that made me feel like a starving animal who was just handed a prime cut of meat, and i still dont know how to feel about it. I've gone up and down the spectrum of opinion and whatever about sex (the internet is a dangerous place for this) from borderline incel behaivour to trying to hard to sexualise my self. I dont know where i'll end up, i know i am terribly young, tho sometimes it feels as if im late to everything and time and death are breathing down my neck (jeez, dramatic much?). I hope it all works out in the end, it usualy does. I think i've lost my train of thought. If you, kind stranger, made it to this point of my rant you have some impresive mental fortitude. I just felt the need to vent in here, as i lack a secluded enough forest, or thick enough walls to yell stuff out into the world without sounding like i've gone 100% mad. I wish i could get my first time back, i cant help but feel like i threw it away. I crave to play again, to find someone who will be just as curious about themselfs as me and with whom, together, we may find answers, and morning cuddles, and warm showers, and tasty meals, and with enough luck fun, soft, wholesome, tender, caring and safe sex .... yeah.
Please keep on exploring! Patience is hard when you are still discovering who you are and what you want (okay, so that is a life long endeavor). There's no shame in not currently having a sex partner! Curiosity is the key. Life brings challenges, joys, and sorrows and they are all gifts! Your current situation will change, as long as you don't give up! Stay curious, and above all stay here!
Hey OP - only 27 so not all that much further along than you, but I do definitely want to say that both of us still have a lot of life ahead of us. It's easy to fall into the despair pit but a lot of stuff and life circumstances can change over time, especially when you are taking action about it. First times are understandably meaningful, and I got friends who hold a lot of regrets and heartbreak about theirs. But also, a first time is still ultimately just One time. No one's first time at anything is going to be as good as the 50th, or any future times after they've gained experience and self-knowledge and learned from all the mistakes from the 49 times before that. Including the first one. You'll be able to be okay about it eventually, even if you're really not okay about it now.
42? You’re in your prime young lady. You look awesome. Age is a state of mind. As Satchel Paige said, “How old would you be if you didn’t know how old you are?” You look great. Keep doing what you’re doing to stay young and healthy. 🥰
A few days ago my sexual power was absolutely low and now suddenly my sexual power has increased 10X 😅 also my timings are increasing day by day, only one table can recover my energy
Thank you for sharing your joy and embrace of your own sexuality. It is beautiful to see people of all adult ages experiencing this kind of freedom and joy. Growing up in America, I was lucky to have a grandmother who was a family, marriage, and sex therapist (her words to describe herself) who taught us to respect the beauty in diverse people and their bodies. And I am grateful to belong to different adult communities where we can celebrate this. Kudos to you, and if you feel comfortable sharing, I would love to see more videos like this. You do you, in all your sexy glory :)
I'm a guy and followed you since you started. Female sexuality fascinated me. I'm glad you brought this topic up I feel the same however you are still sexy. Not trying to be a creep. Your intelligence the knowledge you possess as well as your personality make you very attractive as well as your physical appearance. Keep being you.
Dr. Doe, hearing you talk about being self conscious about what age does to the body hurts my soul. You still look so beautiful, young, and vibrant. That is not to be dismissive of the validaty in feeling that way. I definitely get the sentiment. My 36 year old wife has Fibro also, and although she is still beautiful, it definitely has a negative affect on her emotional well-being and sense of self-love. It's heard to feel sexy when you ache to your core and don't have energy, even when you really, really are.
42? You're the answer to Life, The Universe and Everything! It was fantastic seeing you, Elvis and Alissa play together! Thank you so very much for sharing this! Two questions, if I may . . . First, fibromyalgia? I don't recall you mentioning that before. I can appreciate why you might not: I don't know how relevant it was to previous content. But it's interesting -- and inspiring -- to know that you're seeking and finding ways to keep that from limiting your life too much. Second, who was the furry person in the video? It's been a long time since my wife and I had a canine member of the pack, and I miss pack time! So I love it when I can get it, even if it's vicariously. Thanks for sharing that, too!
At 52 I feel like I’m just hitting my stride both in general physicality as well as sexually. The more I age, the more comfortable I feel and the more I want to play. I feel incredibly lucky my life is working out this way
This was lovely! ^_^ Such a great speech. I definitely feel most people aren't open enough with sex, with others, their partners, or themselves. It's supposed to be fun!
This was so sweet and uplifting I got misty eyed! 🥹 You worked wonderfully together, thank you to all of you for sharing this 🥰✨ Exquisite team work too 👏👏👏
unrelated directly to sexuality, this video and some other things has really helped me to see that I've lost what sense of play I had almost completely.
I pointedly avoid saying this kind of thing to educators, content creators, and my parasocial relationships (and especially with you, Lindsey, because of the subjects that you cover), but I think that it is appropriate in this vary narrow case. Lindsey, you are an attractive woman. I know that doesn't really help with the negative self talk that may happen, and that this video is addressing. Never-the-less, there are people who find you attractive, even with all of the signs of age that you see on yourself. Feel sexy Doc, because you are. And thank you for sharing this part of yourself. So many people need this message (as you know, which is why you made the video 8)
I feel like talking to some older lesbians might be enlightening! I feel like I meet so many with a really well rounded appreciation of aging. Hope you’re feeling brighter
You have fibromyalgia too?? After years and years of trying to figure out why I was so tired and in pain all the time, I just got my fibromyalgia diagnosis. I’m feeling very lonely in it, and have been mourning my body as it was before I started having symptoms. But watching you do this and knowing you have fibromyalgia too, I feel like I haven’t lost my body, I’ve just got to treat it well and take care of myself. Thanks for being visible. 💕
My experience as a 75yr old boomer, 4yrs widower, is that the desire for physical intimacy does not diminish, even when the ability to actualize procreative sex fades into memory.
You're beautiful and you can do it. ;) the body is just a vessel and the magic will always be around, it just changes a bit. Thank you for your words, and be sure we see you! ❤
Lindsey, as I quickly close out another year and just as quickly close in on 61 I can readily relate to some of the things you are feeling about getting older and the various changes one goes through over time. As time marches on it is hard to view yourself in that way and to see the changes that come with time, I know it's been hard for me anyway. When I was young I was far more fit and active and felt more desirable and had far more self-worth. As time marches on and changes progress and old injuries and the like come back to visit it is harder and harder to feel that way and I certainly get why age brings on those feelings and between that and a few other occurrences in my life I've kind of given up on and distanced myself from all of that over time. When I was young, long before even my earliest memories my Grandmother and my Grandfather got divorced. After that for the rest of his life until he passed away at 93 he never met anyone else and instead chose to live a life by himself other than his friends and family. When I was a kid, and a young man, and even a middle aged adult I never understood that and couldn't understand why my grandfather had never met someone else. It was something that was very hard for me to ever understand. Now that I've gotten older and have gone through some very hurtful things I sometimes feel like I understand those choices better. I'll never completely understand it but age has allowed me some insight into that. All that being said, I know that getting older and the changes that come with that can be hard to accept and adjust to but know that regardless of how you might feel or view those changes you are still incredible and gorgeous, both inside and outside, and while the outside might show a few scuffs and bangs here and there as time goes on, having once met you, I know for certain that you will always be the same incredible and gorgeous person on the inside that you always have been.
42. Young'un! My wife and I made 44 years before she passed. I can say with certainty our best years of life and sex were our 40s and 50s. She was a bit of a closet freak. Before she passed she made me promise to get back out there as soon as I could. She said the girls would thank her. They do. It's been 11 years, but they don't make them like her anymore. Your best years are ahead of you. Thank you for what you do. Please continue.
Ditto!
I’m 29 year old young’un and this was lovely to read thank you for giving me a smile.
A few days ago my sexual power was absolutely low and now suddenly my sexual power has increased 10X 😅 also my timings are increasing day by day, only one table can recover my energy
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@@endo_pump.male_enhanchement why do u make it sound like you're playing rise of kingdoms 😂
I think this is the most beautiful episode you’ve ever made.
I will always like and always comment. We need people like you to keep tackling sexuality openly instead demonizing it.
If you are attracted to a child, you ARE A DEMON AND DESERVE EVERYTHING THAT COMES AT YOU CUNT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I love it. You're not old, child. You're lovely. I will be 81 in January, and have been following you for years. Thank you for your work..
Acroyoga is amazingly fun and so much easier than it looks. There is nothing quite like the joy of seeing someone achieve something they didn't think they could do. I've had flyers laugh uncontrollably and even cry tears of joy at the new connection and ability they've discovered. It's particularly empowering for women when they realize that they can be the base.
I agree so much with all of this!
A few days ago my sexual power was absolutely low and now suddenly my sexual power has increased 10X 😅 also my timings are increasing day by day, only one table can recover my energy
This is one of your best stories.
awww, thank you for this nice compliment
I'm a late 60's man who admires you for who you are and how you teach, encourage, and relate to your audience. Outwardly we all visibly age and change as part of the human experience. Most of us resent it at first but then come to embrace it. Inwardly, we continue to develop, and have a good deal of control over that.. My SO and I are still very active though in a different way to when we met in our early 40's. We agree that you are still very appealing, straighforward, honest, open and dare I say....cute.
Awesome video wonderful messages, beautiful artistic style and emotionally moving. Thank you
I’m 44, I endure fibromyalgia and I’m fat. I wasn’t until a few years ago that I discovered that I’m desirable. Not in a fetishized way, not in a pitiful way, not in a Hollywood way, but in a human way. I’m demisexual as well and need connection. I like to say the only way in is through the friendship entrance. So yes, I have limitations, but it doesn’t limit my worth. I love the work that you do here, I’ve learned so much. As much as I want a good, attentive, well informed and enthusiastic partner, I want to be one too. Thank you Dr. Doe, your work is so important to me and too so many others.
As someone from a purity culture, i can’t express how much I love this. Thank you for affirming and reminding me that it’s normal for sex to be “awkward” at first and can be a tool to build stronger communication ♥️
This was heart-warmingly beautiful, Lindsey. Overjoyed for you. Inspired. Moved to tears :'-)
Thank you 🥰
Someone much wiser than me once said, "A person is not old until regrets take the place of dreams." Please keep dreaming, Dr. Doe. You are very beautiful and I'm sure many people find you very VERY attractive. I certainly do.
What is the meaning of life, the universe, and everything?... 42! I thought about that quite often when I was 42. I'm 48 now. Take care and please keep doing the important work you do!
My 40s were difficult for me sexually. I was in an unhealthy relationship and completely shut myself down sexually. Now in my 50s, I'm out of that relationship and having so much fun both sexually and non-sexually. I see the 40s as a transitional decade. Our bodies ARE aging and changing including perimenopause which until we are through it, being through that monthly cycle of hormones and emotions is all we have known. Post-menopause is amazing! So much freedom!
Fantastic video! Keep up the awesome work you do!
A few days ago my sexual power was absolutely low and now suddenly my sexual power has increased 10X 😅 also my timings are increasing day by day, only one table can recover my energy
I've been watching your videos for many years and, to me at least, you've become more attractive as time has gone by, not less. I hope you too feel this way. Thank you so much for what you do!
The master who has neither struggled nor suffered has nothing to teach me. Your beautiful journey continues, and thank you for sharing it.
As a man it always amazes me when a beautiful young woman like you feels old and not sex anymore (yeah I had no idea you were in your 40's yet). I am glad you found yourself back to feeling attractive and sexy.
same here, I was just confused watching this video.
Chronic pain and fibromyalgia certainly makes sex a challenge.
Looking forward to continuing to enjoy you and hopeful. For any tips, you can offer folks in our situation.
Thank you for this video. It's helped me (a 23 year old man) feel even more comfortable with the aging process. Just want to say that (as little it may fall on your soul) you're still gorgeous, I think that often, we tend to hold ourselves to the highest expectations and can't accept our current body in comparison to what was.
Best advice I've ever had was this; "just boss-bitch it and you'll be fine!"
Always appreciated your work, can't believe it's been ten years. Hope for another ten! You're a gem!
Keep going, keep teaching, living, loving, and just being you!
Without any intention to be rude, before you even mentioned the element of age and attraction I'd already spotted 🍑 and thought "Damn, Dr Doe rocking 🎂 and looking good."
But I know the feeling of a health condition knocking your confidence though and you have my sympathies.
You lift people, too, with your knowledge and contagious energy. You certainly helped me to help a lot of people out there.
Thank you for this beautiful vulnerability, Dr. Doe!! And major props to Elvis and the spotter as well. 💖💯
great to see and hear that your evolving, as we all do...... this experience we have (called life) changes throughout our lives, and our experiences become further extensions of this experience. run with it (or walk along, all good).....
Wow way to go. I understand about the loss of confidence with age. I’m 55 and overweight, with limited movement with back and knees. It can make exercise hard and of course makes me feel limited what a can do otherwise. Stay strong in your own way.
42 is not old. I'm 58 and have more medical problems than I would care to admit. I have followed your channel for the past 10 years. Keep on with your Sexplanations mission.
Nobody is old while they have strength of spirit and energy to keep up. Don't let the world bring you down. Take a deep breath, a pause, a break, run away if you need. Just don't give up
This is so fascinating and looks like SO much FUN!!!
This is genuinely one of the best videos I’ve seen in a very long time. Thank you for making it!
You are always down to earth and honest about what ever the topic (s) is. I am glad there are people like you in this world. DRIVE ON!!! Plutonic hug
That looks so much fun! And the video was so joyful & beautiful. Thanks so much for sharing 😊
I love how much fun you two are obviously having together! It's so comfy.
Those insecurities that come with age are almost as inevitable as aging itself.
On the other hand, being able to do this at all makes you a lot more fit than a lot of other 42 years olds.
Definitely looks like it required a lot of communication, ideally some diagrams too.
Beautiful people are always beautiful a wrinkle won't change that one bit
Thank you Elvis for doing most of the work and agreeing to let this be a video. The yoga poses were amazing Dr. Doe and Elvis - beautiful and stunning!
I love this so much. I've never seen Dr. Doe as anything but sensual and open, but it's also awesome to see the honesty and the way she solves this problem of perception
Let's see, next birthday I'll be 80. You can keep it going as long as you want to, assuming certain physical challenges don't get in the way.
Yay! Keep on playing!
A few days ago my sexual power was absolutely low and now suddenly my sexual power has increased 10X 😅 also my timings are increasing day by day, only one table can recover my energy
As someone a few years older than you, I think the wrinkles and a little loose skin, etc just makes someone sexier.
Indeed! They are a symbol of life, and (hopefully) character building!
[Dr] Lindsey, I’ve watched your channel since day 1. And you’ve been consistently beautiful in your messages and approach, and I never cease to appreciate the insight you have to offer. Thank you as always. (Also, you’re really freakin good at that acro-aerobic stuff 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻)
This is such a great video you shared. More women need to watch this. So many hung up about being judged for older bodies, when in reality, love is larger than all those fears.
My wife and I talked about this today, wow. I will be sharing with her now. Thank u so much for all the years. I watched your first video a few days after it was released, and I'm watching this. U are an amazing and wonderful human. I am so glad u are back and doing the videos u want to do! Please, never stop being curious!
What a great video, and trust me Doc, you are a solid 10 on all counts
Incredible. You're still inspiring the next generation of curious people. I'm currently going on college tours and want to be just like you when I'm older
I am forever in awe of you Lindsey. This video just brought tears of happiness to my eyes. I love to see your smile!
Long time viewer of your show. Love this, great post. Take a bow.
This was a delight to watch! Saved it to my favorites ❤️
Sex, but only with increasingly restrictive conditions IS such a chain on our healthy and honest lives.
Love you Dr. Lindsey 💖 You're incredible 🥰
It is so good to see you enjoying yourself! What a lovely smile you have. You deserve to have fun and be happy.
Beautiful video! And absolutely impressive acrobatics!
1:33 is a great thing to remember. It reminds me a bit of holidays. There's so much expectation that it must be a perfect day and everybody's happy and nobody argues and the food is amazing because it's (insert day of cultural or personal significance). When in reality it's just a day like any other, sure, you can prepare some things, but you can't guarantee that everything will be 'perfect'. And that's fine, it can still be a good day. And if it isn't then the next day can be better.
One thing I think is important to remember with aging and sex is that maybe we think of 'aged' bodies as 'unattractive' because they weren't attractive to use when we were younger? And then we dread becoming that 'ugly' body. When really... yeah, if you're 20 you're most likely not attracted to someone who's 60. Most people date within a smaller age range. But that probably also means that by the time you're 60 you'll find other 60 year old's attractive, and probably less so 20 year olds. Beauty's in the eye of the beholder. (But also yes, society's/capitalism's influence.)
Has it really been 10 years? I remember finding your original crowdfunding efforts (I believe it was on Subbable before that closed, yeah?), and I've enjoyed and been educated by you ever since. I was also in my 30's then, and now my situation is so much different...but I still love seeing your videos, and I always learn something new. Here's to 10 more years of very high quality and accessible sex education, on topics most places wouldn't even consider talking about!
Dr Doe, I feel like I'm right there with you at 40. Our bodies are not what they used to be and there's a definite grief that comes with these changes. It also seems as though middle age is when many people are coming to terms with decreased desire in their long term partnerships or previous sexual and emotional traumas. But there's a lot of us out there going through the same things and these challenges create opportunities for bonding and intimacy.
The light house doesn’t stop and look around for boats it stays in one spot and shines - Anne Lennox , your amazing thank you for existing
Thank you so much for being a part of my life, this video busts my heart wide open!!!
lovely! so many new things to learn, and it never stops. Thanks!
so good to see you, great content, aging sucks the older we become, pushing 71 here and not feeling sexy
This is lovely! And the little dog participating too 😂❤
Beautiful play with Beautiful people!!
Thank you for this piece!!
(had a beautiful lil cry about it)
I did not expect him to make his own cameras. First I've heard of that.
At 22 and struggling with... a lot, including sex. It's been a rocky couple years of a dry spell followed by a period of still no sex but physical contact that i didn't realise i was missing and that made me feel like a starving animal who was just handed a prime cut of meat, and i still dont know how to feel about it. I've gone up and down the spectrum of opinion and whatever about sex (the internet is a dangerous place for this) from borderline incel behaivour to trying to hard to sexualise my self.
I dont know where i'll end up, i know i am terribly young, tho sometimes it feels as if im late to everything and time and death are breathing down my neck (jeez, dramatic much?). I hope it all works out in the end, it usualy does.
I think i've lost my train of thought. If you, kind stranger, made it to this point of my rant you have some impresive mental fortitude. I just felt the need to vent in here, as i lack a secluded enough forest, or thick enough walls to yell stuff out into the world without sounding like i've gone 100% mad.
I wish i could get my first time back, i cant help but feel like i threw it away. I crave to play again, to find someone who will be just as curious about themselfs as me and with whom, together, we may find answers, and morning cuddles, and warm showers, and tasty meals, and with enough luck fun, soft, wholesome, tender, caring and safe sex .... yeah.
Please keep on exploring! Patience is hard when you are still discovering who you are and what you want (okay, so that is a life long endeavor). There's no shame in not currently having a sex partner! Curiosity is the key. Life brings challenges, joys, and sorrows and they are all gifts! Your current situation will change, as long as you don't give up! Stay curious, and above all stay here!
Hey OP - only 27 so not all that much further along than you, but I do definitely want to say that both of us still have a lot of life ahead of us. It's easy to fall into the despair pit but a lot of stuff and life circumstances can change over time, especially when you are taking action about it. First times are understandably meaningful, and I got friends who hold a lot of regrets and heartbreak about theirs. But also, a first time is still ultimately just One time. No one's first time at anything is going to be as good as the 50th, or any future times after they've gained experience and self-knowledge and learned from all the mistakes from the 49 times before that. Including the first one. You'll be able to be okay about it eventually, even if you're really not okay about it now.
I also struggle with my sexuality. Seeking out other sensual and intimate experiences is good, I agree. Like playing, massage, playfighting
Dude, you awesome!! Love ya face! keep up the great work!!
Wonderful offering! Thanks much for this video essay. Really inspired!
42? You’re in your prime young lady. You look awesome. Age is a state of mind. As Satchel Paige said, “How old would you be if you didn’t know how old you are?” You look great. Keep doing what you’re doing to stay young and healthy. 🥰
A few days ago my sexual power was absolutely low and now suddenly my sexual power has increased 10X 😅 also my timings are increasing day by day, only one table can recover my energy
Thank you for sharing your joy and embrace of your own sexuality. It is beautiful to see people of all adult ages experiencing this kind of freedom and joy. Growing up in America, I was lucky to have a grandmother who was a family, marriage, and sex therapist (her words to describe herself) who taught us to respect the beauty in diverse people and their bodies. And I am grateful to belong to different adult communities where we can celebrate this. Kudos to you, and if you feel comfortable sharing, I would love to see more videos like this. You do you, in all your sexy glory :)
This looks like it was more fun to film than it was to watch. Thanks for doing this as always. You are still young and attractive.
What a beautiful experience. Thank you for sharing
Your good heart is what makes you such a beautiful person. Thank you for being you.
What?…42!!… you’re just getting started. I’m 58 and just discovered GREAT SEX at 43 years of age.
Yes! Keep on playing!
I'm a guy and followed you since you started. Female sexuality fascinated me. I'm glad you brought this topic up I feel the same however you are still sexy. Not trying to be a creep. Your intelligence the knowledge you possess as well as your personality make you very attractive as well as your physical appearance. Keep being you.
You are amazing Lindsay keeping being you and dont worry so much about getting older.. age is a mental thing first and foremost ❤
Dr. Doe, hearing you talk about being self conscious about what age does to the body hurts my soul. You still look so beautiful, young, and vibrant.
That is not to be dismissive of the validaty in feeling that way. I definitely get the sentiment. My 36 year old wife has Fibro also, and although she is still beautiful, it definitely has a negative affect on her emotional well-being and sense of self-love. It's heard to feel sexy when you ache to your core and don't have energy, even when you really, really are.
42? You're the answer to Life, The Universe and Everything! It was fantastic seeing you, Elvis and Alissa play together! Thank you so very much for sharing this!
Two questions, if I may . . . First, fibromyalgia? I don't recall you mentioning that before. I can appreciate why you might not: I don't know how relevant it was to previous content. But it's interesting -- and inspiring -- to know that you're seeking and finding ways to keep that from limiting your life too much.
Second, who was the furry person in the video? It's been a long time since my wife and I had a canine member of the pack, and I miss pack time! So I love it when I can get it, even if it's vicariously. Thanks for sharing that, too!
At 52 I feel like I’m just hitting my stride both in general physicality as well as sexually. The more I age, the more comfortable I feel and the more I want to play. I feel incredibly lucky my life is working out this way
This was so cool! Y'all are so strong, omg
wow this is so beautiful and moving. i wont be 40 for some time still but i still feel liberated by this message
This was lovely! ^_^ Such a great speech. I definitely feel most people aren't open enough with sex, with others, their partners, or themselves. It's supposed to be fun!
Absolutely beautiful video. Thank you! ❤
Thank you. This video I found very visually stunning.
I've seen it in other comments, but wanted to say this is probably my favorite episode you've ever done. Stay curious!
42? More like 21 forever. You're an inspiration. This video was a joy to watch.
This was so sweet and uplifting I got misty eyed! 🥹 You worked wonderfully together, thank you to all of you for sharing this 🥰✨ Exquisite team work too 👏👏👏
unrelated directly to sexuality, this video and some other things has really helped me to see that I've lost what sense of play I had almost completely.
That is so wholesome and beautiful and sexy too. I always learn a lot with your videos and they also make me happy. Thank youuu 💜
The world needs to be educated more about sexuality as a person were born in a very close minded family i needed that
I pointedly avoid saying this kind of thing to educators, content creators, and my parasocial relationships (and especially with you, Lindsey, because of the subjects that you cover), but I think that it is appropriate in this vary narrow case. Lindsey, you are an attractive woman. I know that doesn't really help with the negative self talk that may happen, and that this video is addressing. Never-the-less, there are people who find you attractive, even with all of the signs of age that you see on yourself.
Feel sexy Doc, because you are.
And thank you for sharing this part of yourself. So many people need this message (as you know, which is why you made the video 8)
Beautiful. This made me feel better about myself.
I love seeing your joy!
Most impressive, especially with FM.
I feel like talking to some older lesbians might be enlightening! I feel like I meet so many with a really well rounded appreciation of aging. Hope you’re feeling brighter
Beautiful country like outdoors scenery
You have fibromyalgia too?? After years and years of trying to figure out why I was so tired and in pain all the time, I just got my fibromyalgia diagnosis. I’m feeling very lonely in it, and have been mourning my body as it was before I started having symptoms. But watching you do this and knowing you have fibromyalgia too, I feel like I haven’t lost my body, I’ve just got to treat it well and take care of myself. Thanks for being visible. 💕
a 1/3 cup of coffee in the morning halts my pain
I vaguely remember 42. In a little over a week, I'll be married 47 years. Neither of us could do any of this at 20.
My experience as a 75yr old boomer, 4yrs widower, is that the desire for physical intimacy does not diminish, even when the ability to actualize procreative sex fades into memory.
Great video. You all look amazing.
You're beautiful and you can do it. ;) the body is just a vessel and the magic will always be around, it just changes a bit.
Thank you for your words, and be sure we see you! ❤
Great video young lady!
Awesome content as usual DD.
I don't know if you've researched it, but one thing that has really helped my fibromyalgia is high-dose vitamin B1. I use benfotiamine.
Oh to be Young and silly again, thank you.
Lindsey, as I quickly close out another year and just as quickly close in on 61 I can readily relate to some of the things you are feeling about getting older and the various changes one goes through over time. As time marches on it is hard to view yourself in that way and to see the changes that come with time, I know it's been hard for me anyway. When I was young I was far more fit and active and felt more desirable and had far more self-worth. As time marches on and changes progress and old injuries and the like come back to visit it is harder and harder to feel that way and I certainly get why age brings on those feelings and between that and a few other occurrences in my life I've kind of given up on and distanced myself from all of that over time. When I was young, long before even my earliest memories my Grandmother and my Grandfather got divorced. After that for the rest of his life until he passed away at 93 he never met anyone else and instead chose to live a life by himself other than his friends and family. When I was a kid, and a young man, and even a middle aged adult I never understood that and couldn't understand why my grandfather had never met someone else. It was something that was very hard for me to ever understand. Now that I've gotten older and have gone through some very hurtful things I sometimes feel like I understand those choices better. I'll never completely understand it but age has allowed me some insight into that. All that being said, I know that getting older and the changes that come with that can be hard to accept and adjust to but know that regardless of how you might feel or view those changes you are still incredible and gorgeous, both inside and outside, and while the outside might show a few scuffs and bangs here and there as time goes on, having once met you, I know for certain that you will always be the same incredible and gorgeous person on the inside that you always have been.
Fantastic video!