Same story happened to me from Uganda.My Nigerian fiance left me sinking bankrupt and I was 3weeks pregnant at the time.. Nigerians keep creating a bad name for themselves even when we try to give them benefit of doubt
Why do you give them benefit of doubt? Because of your own lack of self control and fantasy you make up in your head? Why not get with your own men and who told you Nigerians need to prove themselves to you for any reason? You sound quite ignorant to paint a whole people with a broad brush. So there are no bad men where you come from? Pathetic comment.
I saw a vid on YT of Nigerian woman warning other woman from Nigerian men. She said that all Nigerian men has a duty to marry a Nigerian women. He might date you, get you pregnant & even marry you but it will never change the fact that he has to marry a Nigerian woman. She says you will one day see his "sister" with her 3 kids moving in with you. They will make your life hell so you move. You will later find out that he used you for citizenship to get his wife & kids in the country. Even after divorce you will still find him making loans, opening accounts & registering kids you don't know into your name. I was shocked. Be aware!!!!
All the way from Namibia 🇳🇦….OMG women are really going through a lot worldwide. God have mercy upon our lives. Let’s hold our hands together as women and pray 🙏🏽
😂😂😂when she said the church is “Redeemed” I was like oh ok now everything makes sense. The church is a Nigerian church called Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG) . If you meet a Nigerian man who goes to that church please run 🏃🏾♀️ my sister. They know everything their members are doing and they look away because they benefit from the tithe. The guy was probably in a war with someone who also goes to the church. Maybe it was a cultist or he swindled someone money from the business deal that’s why the guys were looking for him. He was in serious trouble. But the church knows the whole story.
When she said God was giving him a sign not to go there I started suspecting someting rituals she's lucky to be alive God loves her so much she saved her life it's a good thing the guy left that's why I play far from Nigerian man bcos yoo no ways is only a few that are good the rest of them are a no no sorry
A man from Zambia tried to persuade me to buy a Toyota Hilux for us to start a "business" in Zambia, but something inside me said absolutely not. Looking back and knowing what I know now, I could have been scammed. I'm so thankful to God.
I think Owamie should start leading these interviews more because it seems like people tend to go off on a tangent if they aren't provided with a structure. Naye losisi kept losing herself here and there but it wasn't that bad because Owamie was able to bring her back.
I like the other stories where the lady takes us through the relationship before the horror haybo lana kuvele kwaConfusing in the church haybo hospital haybo sgaxa after sgaxa from the beginning and the entire time u like hawu who did this? ewu
Yhooooo imagine dating in matric?. Haii Ladies.💔💔💔😩😭 She was in this relationship alone. This man took advantage.. The sad part is ; if he can come back TODAY, she would still take him back. She loves him
I was a member of a church for 16 years, served for all those years But when it came to me separating from my husband they never intervened or showed genuine concern. I got just one call from the pastor telling me when" I cool down I know where to find them". Am telling this story to mention that the leaders only like you when you come to church. When sh!t hits the fan you are of no use to the church.
l think that was the best thing for you because most churches gaslight women to stay in an abusive marriage. They will enable the husband's behaviour and tell the woman to be submissive. When l left my marriage my ex was running around trying to find church pastors to knock some sense in me, pastors l did even know nor attend their churches.
I thank God for my church..the Pastor has been very supportive to me and my family,and the pastors wife has been more than a mom to me,super loving❤❤. There still are good churches out there.
I thank God for my church..the Pastor has been very supportive to me and my family,and the pastors wife has been more than a mom to me,super loving❤❤. There still are good churches out there.
This guy enjoyed and wasted her youth. 😢 Yoh Laba nabo 🇳🇬😂 my ex used to call his girlfriend that he left in Nigeria his ex but they are married now. One thing about Nigerian girls they can wait for their men and be patient no matter what they are doing in the country they are in.They can wait for 10 years, very strong women 💪🏾
They don't wait for waiting sake. It is all about money. As long as the guy is showering them with money, they just don't care how long it takes and what the guy does. It is money not love.
When we tell them about Nigerians they say we are jealous😂. Imagine dating someone who is trying to get citizenship so they can use it to commit crime.😭
The worst part is to use women for prostitution n drugs n then leave u bankrupt, in jail or dead .. beautiful Kenyan former air hostess are rotting in jails in china cause they were used by Nigerians as drug traffickers
First of all this foreigners escaped poverty from their country. They came here in SA to make money but we keep giving them our hard earned money but anyway they have their way of scamming us 🤦🏾♀️
You are not imagining things that guy was a target by his people he knew exactly why you guys are shot, he never loved you that's why he was sending money to Nigeria while still things were good he knew what he was doing that money was going to his real fiance in Nigeria. Glad you are healed you are so young you got a whole world ahead of you now its in your hands to take the early lessons of life and be wiser. You are beautiful move on and enjoy your life ahead. Owamie Shibobo I'm with you people of that church are going to hell.
That’s fair enough. I’m glad you know you are stigmatizing some very good people because of a few experiences but do we care? We don’t. We don’t need you and don’t trust you either. I know many of your countrymen that are worse.
@@fashionKalmahouseikr😢,they are all over and always target wealthy women (how gullible),apparently the government is silent on the matter yet they are just here for scamming,watch out for Ghanaians too
She's even protecting him with the shooting. Mina i would've immediately put 2 and 2 together after he disappeared with my money. Wayefuna ukumbulala, even the people that were "threatening" her were probably in cahoots with him trying to make it seem like he had a legit reason to vanish. Funny thing is that Nigerians always say that they are here to hustle and prefer to marry Nigerian women. People just don't want to listen.
This is the problem about us women judging one another,until it happens to you,you won't believe it. Even now you can't see it's still like a dream to her and trust me for those of us who work with her we know and see how it affected her
Owamie, I was busy eating my vetkoek when I started watching this and I had to come sit down now because I want to pay full attention while writing this comment. When I first started watching your content here on RUclips, I was of the opinion that your English and grammar was not that great. In fact, it irritated me a bit to try to understand what you're saying, even though I assumed it was not your first language. It was to the point where I commented my dismay and I gave you advice to speak slower and speak more clearly. Looking back now I could have been kinder with my wording. (don't judge me, we grow😅). And you were graceful in your response, which was simply liking my comment. Anyway, I kept watching for some reason. I was attracted to your character. Something about queen ninja just kept me coming back to your content. I have now been watching you for 3 years. I'm the biggest ninja and I don't watch SA news on RUclips unless it's you posting it. In those 3 years I have watched you IMPROVE immensely. You constantly level up. Your vocabulary, your wordplay.....your EGRISH is now ENGLISH. And I couldn't be happier to swallow my critique. I just want to say congratulations on your growth and all your new endeavours. I look forward to seeing what else you come up with for our entertainment. I'm rooting for you.
Work on your attitude. Apologising is not enough. We are all different in talk & action when talking. Owami is the same as before but you have now become used to her. Stop belittling this sweet lady. She would win any man with the way she talk and move her head when talking. Can you upload yourself talking so that l can comment. Im sure a hyena is better. Stop belittling. 3years and you think she is still crawling. She is it. The mighty Victoria Falls of a lady. The smoke that thunders. Peace
@@mrhumbamakombe8387thank you for saying what I was going to say. This mumu just wants to use all their small small engrish to criticise an entire queen! Nxa!
Girl was smitten and dickmatised. I know it's wrong to paint people with the same brush(stereotypes) but I've witnessed and heard so many stories about Nigerians to rule them out as lovers. My SA ladies PLEASE let's stay away from those people period! Never date someone you can't trace. Please forgive yourself my lady and heal. God loves you, love and light, I wish you nothing but the best ❤
It’s weird that Nigerian women feel even more fear toward SA men. A lot of the SA news we get in Nigeria has to do with SA men unaliving their women, committing xenophobic attacks etc
The Xenophobic attacks are as a result of the crimes done by Nigerians. South Africans are tired of witnessing their own being destroyed. Taking the law into their own hands is wrong but I understand where they are coming from. Have you ever watched any SA news about the syndicates of Nigerian human trafficking & drugs? I've lived in Johannesburg & Pretoria for over 20yrs and the things I've witnessed Nigerians do have traumatized me🙆🏽♀️ A lot of them travel to SA for crime. Same thing I witnessed in Brazil. America has a special drug unit just for Nigerians. The fear towards them is very real!
That man came to South Africa with a mission!. Sounds like he even had a whole wife at home. But for him to leave you pregnant, haii his coming back. Scary! I’m so sorry for you. I wish you can just get therapy, move on, give love a chance again. That was not love.
My goodness I don’t know how many times I clapped my hands due to shock and even said this is like a Nigerian movie script ; alas she then said the guy is Nigerian 😮.
1. When did you meet the guy/girl 2. How would you describe the early stages of your relationship 3.After how many year/days/Months into the relationship did you guys start having problems?
I didn't know of you before madam owamie, but I'm so happy the algorithm brought me here I've watched every single interview since the fairytale marriage to this one and I'm hooked my heart goes out to these women!! like khanyi said MEN WILL LEAVE YOU IN THE DESSERT WITH NO WATER!! YOH!!!
Girl..... as a nurse,I know😮 they put you at the adge of the ward cos the colostomy is smelling . That was so bad and unprofessional. The sadation was so you dont call them so much😢😢😢im sorry for that traumatic experience.
Actually foreigners are here for purpose ladies must wake up serious I know lots of girls who Are married to foreigners now they are dumped with kids , and funny thing thdon't know there home country.
Redeem is a Nigerian church owned by Adeboye and maybe those people knew he was married back home and you were just a girl that he was using while hustling in South Africa . That guy might have been involved in shady things and he was a Yahoo boy
I can't believe she never mentioned him being a suspect in that shooting after what he did. He wanted to kill her. Did he even get shot or he just told her that he too got shot? No mention of his businesses and what happened to them but they had money? She knew his shady businesses. South African women basijwayeza kabi ngalabantu. Khuthiwa siyanuka, asikwazi ukugeza, si dom because of them. Love yourselves enough not to throw yourselves to filth that you know is filth just coz it's love bombing you.
@@lesedikhoaripe8072 No just the way she narrated and put together the story. In the middle of the story thats when she mentions by the way he is Nigerian.
I knw Redeemed its an international church n its origin is in Nigeria. Most Naijas go there...its disappointing that the church ddnt help and or follow up with her. One thing ive learnt though. Church is not God.
They pretend so. They can do anything to achieve their goal that’s for sure. They can live with a person for 10 years until they get what they want. That’s how determined they are.
I feel like this man used this lady from the ON set...he dated her as she was working for him, he probably saw that she's a hard worker and surely she was a potential workhorse for him. I also think he actually wanted her dead, why was he shot on the leg and her on the tummy while pregnant, or those people wanted to kill her to hurt him, maybe. After all the trauma, he gave her another pregnancy as a "thank you ".... izza lot
Vicky I'm proud of you sis.... as your colleague it breaks my heart to listen to the full story of what really happened to you,may God almighty heal you and please never ever blame yourself for what has happened this guy doesn't deserve you❤ But now what if what happened it was meant to happen to you but they short him on the leg just to cover up just saying coz clearly he had his own agenda, maybe he wanted to get rid of you so that he can go back and marry his fiance just think about it😢
It's such a sad story! Women!!!! protect your wombs!!! Stop sleeping and having children with men who would not do right by you. While I empathize with her story, the getting pregnant while going through all that trauma had me like 😮
Red flags beautiful women please!!! Listen to your gut. It never lied. I like her personality. She is smiling looking beatuful. That's the best thing you can do for the sake of your health.
Queen Ninja some of us are definitely born and bred in Gauteng, i was raised by a single mom....Great grandparent( from Mamelodi and hammanskrall)...my grandparents from Ga-Rankuwa( all 4 of them)...my mom's house is in Mabopane....so Pretoria is my village...and it's a beautiful thing. Ke ngwanyana wa touchline😂
Owami this content you are giving us is not only informative but life changing. These stories can help others and encourage those who have gone or going through the same situations to rise up and keep pushing. Love this so much and the quality that you give us is amazing. Thank you so much for your good work and for raising awareness.❤ Yes please for part 2🙏🏾
All African countries should be visa free exuding Nigeria😢😢😢 haaa noo mann brothers sounds like he was a dealer,why were police looking for him? N why were you protective of this guy ? Love will really blind you ninja
Owamie my son loves you, I just found out today, we were listening to the radio and he was like "mummy this person sounds like Owamie" 😂 I was shocketh! Kanye this time has been observing because I always listen to your podcast
Thank you for pointing out that nurses have no right getting tired, we are so use to abuse and mediocre services that we think being treated badly is normal even when you are literally fighting for your life
the shooting rubs me off the wrong way. I think he had her as some sort of assurance/insurance. He wanted to make less suspicious getting shot on the foot. Why did he go directly to her after HE was shot?wasn’t he gonna look for help or hide for safety?there’s something iffy with that.
there are lots of these stories with jollofinas i know a lady who was used as a drug mule by her nigerian husband..he then fetched his wife from Nigeria while she was service 15 year jail sentence.
So true. And we tell women to stay away from nigerian men they attack us. Those people are not nice people. Their own country is not doing well so they will do anything to stay out of their country, hence going the using women route.
So true. And we tell women to stay away from nigerian men they attack us. Those people are not nice people. Their own country is not doing well so they will do anything to stay out of their country, hence going the using women route.
Ndaa. i am listerning to your shows. Very educative and informative. There are a lot of shows i have listened to were our S.A. sisters scammed by foreigners and some even stayed in prisons a result. i still looking for a show were S.A. men are scammed by foreign women. I lost two neighbors in Soweto infected with HIV by their foreign boyfriend from Malawi. this is said and very painful. i wish our SA ladies can find a way just stay away from this guys tuu.
I always ask myself why do their women take long (or never) give birth? All these tears from people who create their foundations 💔 some tears don't go unnoticed
What are u on about hon? 😂😂 not defending them but choosing to be out of secondary school and being of age before giving birth is not “taking long”. Nigerian women are actually very fertile, that’s why we are the most black populated nation in the worlds. Not everyone wants to be a teenage mom.
@Tatianarain I don't know what you on about really 🤔 and if you listen to the story and reread my comment you'll understand this is not about Nigerian women being infertile but what most of these men do abroad to be rich and go back to innocent women back home to ask for marriage while they are carrying all these curses. Read to understand ok. Bye
The fiance' shot you. Some women fall pregnant for a guy, she don't know his back-ground and never been to his family home. How many times SA women get robbed using same scam? Instead of getting pregnant by Sibusiso, Mandla or Tsepo whom you know his entire family
I agree with you! Knowing where a person comes from is very important. It's much easier to get hold of someone in the same country. Where will one start to look for a Nigerian in Nigeria? You are not even sure if the identity that he shared is true.
I’m inspired by your strength and how you are now calm in sharing this story. Your daughter is special and God allowed her to come for a reason. Can we have mass prayer for SA women against these crooks 🙌🏽, and not wait for Womens month 😢
Haiii I feel like sometimes God is also shocked at the things we do on this earth because of the decisions we take as women who are inlove!! Yhoooooooooooo‼️🥹
The sad thing about such experiences is that you will only come into terms with the impact in your older years, she's still young, the constant smile through out signs that she has not fully grasped what she has been through. Love and light to you my love, modimo o omo rapelang ago dira botse
you guys .. thank you for watching.. really appreciate ❤❤
Hey girl u r strong. Keep it up hun.
What is his name this guy?
@@ISO_FN-r5n😊
I've just subscribed hun❤
Ladies please kindly learn from these stories, this is not umgosi, its pure education that you can never get in school or at home
Sooo True
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Well said 🙏🏽
Very true my sister
❤ Dankie Gatsheni
Same story happened to me from Uganda.My Nigerian fiance left me sinking bankrupt and I was 3weeks pregnant at the time.. Nigerians keep creating a bad name for themselves even when we try to give them benefit of doubt
Learn to date your men,you ladies are not different from them,you date them and bad mouth their women
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We need this story Mommy
Why do you give them benefit of doubt? Because of your own lack of self control and fantasy you make up in your head? Why not get with your own men and who told you Nigerians need to prove themselves to you for any reason? You sound quite ignorant to paint a whole people with a broad brush. So there are no bad men where you come from? Pathetic comment.
Sorry this happened to you. Why do you people keep dating them ? You want to give them benefit of doubt
I can see her pain behind that smile.....she will heal and conquer again, she is a Queen
Seems like I will never sign in before you😂😂😂
babes thanks i wish i could give you a hug ❤
i’m here
@@Vickymackay all the best and sending u❤ignore all the ignorant comments. You’re doing well 💪🏽🙌🏾
“I still want to go back to the church…”
👀 girllll they’ll finish you off now mos
I saw a vid on YT of Nigerian woman warning other woman from Nigerian men. She said that all Nigerian men has a duty to marry a Nigerian women. He might date you, get you pregnant & even marry you but it will never change the fact that he has to marry a Nigerian woman. She says you will one day see his "sister" with her 3 kids moving in with you. They will make your life hell so you move. You will later find out that he used you for citizenship to get his wife & kids in the country. Even after divorce you will still find him making loans, opening accounts & registering kids you don't know into your name. I was shocked.
Be aware!!!!
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Very true.. they do blood ritual with their women before they leave their country
Evil indeed
I have a bitter experience with one Nigerian guy .....he used me to get what he wanted....some of them are heartless
All the way from Namibia 🇳🇦….OMG women are really going through a lot worldwide. God have mercy upon our lives. Let’s hold our hands together as women and pray 🙏🏽
Amen 🙏
Prayer nd sharing widens nd protects many thing. Name and Shame the perpertraitors
Every time I hear stories about these Western African scammers the more I get more Afraid to even get close to them
Yey I'm scared of any men not South African, stories like these are the worst
The MALEMA says we are one in Africa 😭 One Africa he shouts remove the borders😭💔yeah neeh
I don't greet them cc
@@thabangmalepe1663me too. I even walk faster as soon as they greet me.
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May this type of love never locate me🤞🏿
Guys lets pray to God and thank him for our small small challenges...some people are going through the most
Yey!
Nje
❤ thanks .. i’m here
Listen, am grateful for my life
Dear lady, he was scamming you. Nigerian brothers are doing this all over the world even here in Namibia 🇳🇦. They know how to do the long game.
Majority mixed race children in Western worlds now Africa are from Nigerians, God is watching
You see, that long game thing, will deceive you if you don't know your story.
😂😂😂when she said the church is “Redeemed” I was like oh ok now everything makes sense. The church is a Nigerian church called Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG) . If you meet a Nigerian man who goes to that church please run 🏃🏾♀️ my sister. They know everything their members are doing and they look away because they benefit from the tithe. The guy was probably in a war with someone who also goes to the church. Maybe it was a cultist or he swindled someone money from the business deal that’s why the guys were looking for him. He was in serious trouble. But the church knows the whole story.
You are absolutely right.
When she said God was giving him a sign not to go there I started suspecting someting rituals she's lucky to be alive God loves her so much she saved her life it's a good thing the guy left that's why I play far from Nigerian man bcos yoo no ways is only a few that are good the rest of them are a no no sorry
The guest is superb...she is explaining everything clearly, I'm glad she is okay
thanks babes .. i’m here ❤
Its so sad to see how much love women have to give yet they keep on bumping into scammers and men with cruel and impure intentions 🥺
Even men also go through the same 💔
Women get used and dumped all the time why does it become an issue just because a Nigerian is involved.Atleast the she has a baby to remember him by
@@la-ry1ms This is so heartless of you to say. Y'all will get your reward soonest from God's wrath.
A man from Zambia tried to persuade me to buy a Toyota Hilux for us to start a "business" in Zambia, but something inside me said absolutely not. Looking back and knowing what I know now, I could have been scammed. I'm so thankful to God.
never give men money, nor purchase them expensive things
Meaning is not just Nigerian men.
@@Chloë-r3pit's everywhere unfortunately.
Even SA men can scamm its just that Nija men do it better.
Finally a guest who can narrate events well and clearly
The shade😂
I think Owamie should start leading these interviews more because it seems like people tend to go off on a tangent if they aren't provided with a structure.
Naye losisi kept losing herself here and there but it wasn't that bad because Owamie was able to bring her back.
@@noxzienocturnal4544 when she tries to lead them people complain and say she’s interrupting them 😂
Dont be insensitive wena rubbish
@@minenhledumakude9896 who are you insulting
I like the other stories where the lady takes us through the relationship before the horror haybo lana kuvele kwaConfusing in the church haybo hospital haybo sgaxa after sgaxa from the beginning and the entire time u like hawu who did this? ewu
Ladies these shows are for y’all to LEARN
ITS NOT JUST ENTERTAINMENT!!!!!!!
Even for you men to talk to each other
Leave Nigerian men for Nigerian women. No one in the world understands them
Not even Nigerian women understand them 😂
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Yhooooo imagine dating in matric?. Haii Ladies.💔💔💔😩😭
She was in this relationship alone. This man took advantage..
The sad part is ; if he can come back TODAY, she would still take him back. She loves him
She loves him deeply
I was a member of a church for 16 years, served for all those years But when it came to me separating from my husband they never intervened or showed genuine concern. I got just one call from the pastor telling me when" I cool down I know where to find them". Am telling this story to mention that the leaders only like you when you come to church. When sh!t hits the fan you are of no use to the church.
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l think that was the best thing for you because most churches gaslight women to stay in an abusive marriage. They will enable the husband's behaviour and tell the woman to be submissive. When l left my marriage my ex was running around trying to find church pastors to knock some sense in me, pastors l did even know nor attend their churches.
I thank God for my church..the Pastor has been very supportive to me and my family,and the pastors wife has been more than a mom to me,super loving❤❤. There still are good churches out there.
I thank God for my church..the Pastor has been very supportive to me and my family,and the pastors wife has been more than a mom to me,super loving❤❤. There still are good churches out there.
This guy enjoyed and wasted her youth. 😢 Yoh Laba nabo 🇳🇬😂 my ex used to call his girlfriend that he left in Nigeria his ex but they are married now. One thing about Nigerian girls they can wait for their men and be patient no matter what they are doing in the country they are in.They can wait for 10 years, very strong women 💪🏾
That's exactly what my ex did only God will judge them ....
They don't wait for waiting sake. It is all about money. As long as the guy is showering them with money, they just don't care how long it takes and what the guy does. It is money not love.
@@benbo7042Exactly. They are money worshiping whores.
When we tell them about Nigerians they say we are jealous😂.
Imagine dating someone who is trying to get citizenship so they can use it to commit crime.😭
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The worst part is to use women for prostitution n drugs n then leave u bankrupt, in jail or dead .. beautiful Kenyan former air hostess are rotting in jails in china cause they were used by Nigerians as drug traffickers
First of all this foreigners escaped poverty from their country. They came here in SA to make money but we keep giving them our hard earned money but anyway they have their way of scamming us 🤦🏾♀️
They think Nigerian are here for relationship. 😢😢😢❤❤❤
I’m at work listening 🌚🧍🏽♀️
Same here😂
You are not imagining things that guy was a target by his people he knew exactly why you guys are shot, he never loved you that's why he was sending money to Nigeria while still things were good he knew what he was doing that money was going to his real fiance in Nigeria.
Glad you are healed you are so young you got a whole world ahead of you now its in your hands to take the early lessons of life and be wiser.
You are beautiful move on and enjoy your life ahead.
Owamie Shibobo I'm with you people of that church are going to hell.
She knows what this guy was involved in. May she be completely healed ❤.
Love the hair Ninja. I've always told my Nigerian friends that we might get along but I will never trust them. Apologies but the stigma
That’s fair enough. I’m glad you know you are stigmatizing some very good people because of a few experiences but do we care? We don’t. We don’t need you and don’t trust you either. I know many of your countrymen that are worse.
I don't trust them either.thats what they do even here in Nairobi Kenya.
I can never trust them yerrrr
Me too we can laugh together but the is always the side eye
@@fashionKalmahouseikr😢,they are all over and always target wealthy women (how gullible),apparently the government is silent on the matter yet they are just here for scamming,watch out for Ghanaians too
Loving this space you’ve created for women to speak about their experiences without judgement ❤️☺️I hope she finds healing
Did Owamie do a counselling course because her emotional intelligence and empathy are amazing.
Not yet though i did study psychology a long time ago ❤ Thank you
She's a qualified nurse, remember??
very true, knowing me i'd meet her for the first time and tell her my whole life story😅
@@missbongantwasa8268no sis she's not. She even explained she quit nursing school. But she might have done some modules
@@boldlyowamieask some how psychologist who you can work with , who would volunteer and counsel for free.. the wanted to help people after all 😂😭💔
Shes knows the illegal business he was into, tell us the whole story, there is no need to protect him now.
I saw it from the moment she started talking about her shooting, she's not telling us tge truths
Exactly my thought shame but I do feel sorry for her it’s so painful no one deserves that
She's even protecting him with the shooting. Mina i would've immediately put 2 and 2 together after he disappeared with my money. Wayefuna ukumbulala, even the people that were "threatening" her were probably in cahoots with him trying to make it seem like he had a legit reason to vanish. Funny thing is that Nigerians always say that they are here to hustle and prefer to marry Nigerian women. People just don't want to listen.
This is the problem about us women judging one another,until it happens to you,you won't believe it. Even now you can't see it's still like a dream to her and trust me for those of us who work with her we know and see how it affected her
I beg to differ, these people can be very secretive. Once Nigerians cross each other , they don't hesitate to kill
Owamie, I was busy eating my vetkoek when I started watching this and I had to come sit down now because I want to pay full attention while writing this comment.
When I first started watching your content here on RUclips, I was of the opinion that your English and grammar was not that great. In fact, it irritated me a bit to try to understand what you're saying, even though I assumed it was not your first language. It was to the point where I commented my dismay and I gave you advice to speak slower and speak more clearly. Looking back now I could have been kinder with my wording. (don't judge me, we grow😅). And you were graceful in your response, which was simply liking my comment.
Anyway, I kept watching for some reason. I was attracted to your character. Something about queen ninja just kept me coming back to your content.
I have now been watching you for 3 years. I'm the biggest ninja and I don't watch SA news on RUclips unless it's you posting it. In those 3 years I have watched you IMPROVE immensely. You constantly level up. Your vocabulary, your wordplay.....your EGRISH is now ENGLISH. And I couldn't be happier to swallow my critique.
I just want to say congratulations on your growth and all your new endeavours. I look forward to seeing what else you come up with for our entertainment. I'm rooting for you.
This is soo sweet thank you so much 🥰🥰
Work on your attitude. Apologising is not enough. We are all different in talk & action when talking. Owami is the same as before but you have now become used to her. Stop belittling this sweet lady. She would win any man with the way she talk and move her head when talking. Can you upload yourself talking so that l can comment. Im sure a hyena is better. Stop belittling. 3years and you think she is still crawling. She is it. The mighty Victoria Falls of a lady. The smoke that thunders. Peace
@@mrhumbamakombe8387🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I needed this laugh thank you
😂😂😂kill me one more time please
@@mrhumbamakombe8387thank you for saying what I was going to say. This mumu just wants to use all their small small engrish to criticise an entire queen! Nxa!
The way Owamie is so beautiful is illegal
Illegal 😄😄😄
It's very much illegal struu❤Queen Ninja umhle❤
She is too much, you can a
See she is in her happy era and I love it for her🌸🌸
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😅illegal
Girl was smitten and dickmatised. I know it's wrong to paint people with the same brush(stereotypes) but I've witnessed and heard so many stories about Nigerians to rule them out as lovers. My SA ladies PLEASE let's stay away from those people period! Never date someone you can't trace. Please forgive yourself my lady and heal. God loves you, love and light, I wish you nothing but the best ❤
I agree with your sentiments , better safe than sorry.
It’s weird that Nigerian women feel even more fear toward SA men. A lot of the SA news we get in Nigeria has to do with SA men unaliving their women, committing xenophobic attacks etc
The Xenophobic attacks are as a result of the crimes done by Nigerians. South Africans are tired of witnessing their own being destroyed. Taking the law into their own hands is wrong but I understand where they are coming from. Have you ever watched any SA news about the syndicates of Nigerian human trafficking & drugs? I've lived in Johannesburg & Pretoria for over 20yrs and the things I've witnessed Nigerians do have traumatized me🙆🏽♀️ A lot of them travel to SA for crime. Same thing I witnessed in Brazil. America has a special drug unit just for Nigerians. The fear towards them is very real!
@@Tatianarain Fear men in general. lol
I think the topic here is on Fake Love marriages dubious lies etc nit xenophobia, xenophobia is for another blogg
Most woman are afraid to expose themselves they feel ashamed, thanks for sharing..
Uheadboy/prefect of the Ninjas has arrived, please sit back, relax and enjoy
That man came to South Africa with a mission!.
Sounds like he even had a whole wife at home. But for him to leave you pregnant, haii his coming back. Scary! I’m so sorry for you. I wish you can just get therapy, move on, give love a chance again. That was not love.
Can we expose this man and hospitals....maybe the chirch should also explain if they did a police report or something
They are many. A facebook group exposing them should be created ba expoziwe goet.
My goodness I don’t know how many times I clapped my hands due to shock and even said this is like a Nigerian movie script ; alas she then said the guy is Nigerian 😮.
This is heartbreaking 🥺. I pray she finds healing. Thank you guys for giving us all these life lessons ❤
OMG 😢
Ladies, be careful out there.
Love with all your eyes open wide... 😳🤯
It's obvious this guy is criminal. The inappropriate laugh is a sign of dealing with pain
1. When did you meet the guy/girl
2. How would you describe the early stages of your relationship
3.After how many year/days/Months into the relationship did you guys start having problems?
At this rate y'all should open your own podcast🤣....not everyone interviews the same.
@@kms708 REST
@@kms708😂😂😂 abeg
@@kms708😂😂😂 tell them wena
@@kms708No. Please, we need all stones turned. It helps us better to know what to look out for.
I agree with Owamie, nurses have no right to be tired of a patient's condition. They chose this job. Even us we dont get tired of our jobs.
Vele 😭💔
I wish you could work in a hospital, sometimes it is not easy shame, nurses are human too and have different challenges as well.
The hospital is tough. Seeing people sick and dying everyday . No one who doesn't do that job we do at all
I didn't know of you before madam owamie, but I'm so happy the algorithm brought me here I've watched every single interview since the fairytale marriage to this one and I'm hooked my heart goes out to these women!! like khanyi said MEN WILL LEAVE YOU IN THE DESSERT WITH NO WATER!! YOH!!!
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men always choose themselves, we ought to learn to be selfish and only do what makes us happy. always choose you.
They are here to finish us🥺
Don’t say that😂😂😂
@@boldlyowamie 😂
SA men are not different
@@annabelkeisha1157 okay
@@annabelkeisha1157 thank you
They are disgusting,im also a victim..i would love to share my story whenever i come back to Africa..
They are making their world smaller and smaller
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Me too
Girl..... as a nurse,I know😮 they put you at the adge of the ward cos the colostomy is smelling . That was so bad and unprofessional. The sadation was so you dont call them so much😢😢😢im sorry for that traumatic experience.
Nigerians don't love us shemmmm😢
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Not even SAns loves us what did you expect wena
SA women don't have the most respectable rep, if we are being honest...
Actually foreigners are here for purpose ladies must wake up serious I know lots of girls who Are married to foreigners now they are dumped with kids , and funny thing thdon't know there home country.
Owamie please tell our guest that i say i pray that Lord Jesus may provide her with her heart desires ❤
She’s such a pretty black berry 😍
As I wait for 12:00🎉😂😂❤
All the way from Botswana 🇧🇼 🙌
Yeah Lena the people who are making Pearl TO be Kedeboni😂
Redeem is a Nigerian church owned by Adeboye and maybe those people knew he was married back home and you were just a girl that he was using while hustling in South Africa . That guy might have been involved in shady things and he was a Yahoo boy
I can't believe she never mentioned him being a suspect in that shooting after what he did. He wanted to kill her. Did he even get shot or he just told her that he too got shot? No mention of his businesses and what happened to them but they had money? She knew his shady businesses.
South African women basijwayeza kabi ngalabantu. Khuthiwa siyanuka, asikwazi ukugeza, si dom because of them. Love yourselves enough not to throw yourselves to filth that you know is filth just coz it's love bombing you.
I feel the same
The way she narrated I thought the fiance and the Nigerian were 2 different people. But woah she's been through a lot. May she continue to heal.
It goes to show that when they say that there are 2 sides to a person and you you’ll never really know someone
@@lesedikhoaripe8072 No just the way she narrated and put together the story. In the middle of the story thats when she mentions by the way he is Nigerian.
I knw Redeemed its an international church n its origin is in Nigeria. Most Naijas go there...its disappointing that the church ddnt help and or follow up with her.
One thing ive learnt though. Church is not God.
Im from South Africa many Nigérian man used South American women to survive and later left to get married their country same thing happen to me😢
I am sorry l!!!
I wish a lot of women can access this stories. Most especially those in Joburg and other urban areas.
Please share 🙏
I SUSPECT IT WAS A SACRIFICE THAT WENT WRONG
Yhu, don't say😮
Nigerian men have true love but its for their fellow Nigerian women
Not even for them. They only love themselves
Those who have love they are few then most they are demons
They pretend so. They can do anything to achieve their goal that’s for sure. They can live with a person for 10 years until they get what they want. That’s how determined they are.
Lets not lie, 9 years older than a matriculant is too much!
I feel like this man used this lady from the ON set...he dated her as she was working for him, he probably saw that she's a hard worker and surely she was a potential workhorse for him. I also think he actually wanted her dead, why was he shot on the leg and her on the tummy while pregnant, or those people wanted to kill her to hurt him, maybe. After all the trauma, he gave her another pregnancy as a "thank you ".... izza lot
Vicky I'm proud of you sis.... as your colleague it breaks my heart to listen to the full story of what really happened to you,may God almighty heal you and please never ever blame yourself for what has happened this guy doesn't deserve you❤
But now what if what happened it was meant to happen to you but they short him on the leg just to cover up just saying coz clearly he had his own agenda, maybe he wanted to get rid of you so that he can go back and marry his fiance just think about it😢
It's such a sad story! Women!!!! protect your wombs!!! Stop sleeping and having children with men who would not do right by you. While I empathize with her story, the getting pregnant while going through all that trauma had me like 😮
Red flags beautiful women please!!! Listen to your gut. It never lied. I like her personality. She is smiling looking beatuful. That's the best thing you can do for the sake of your health.
Queen Ninja some of us are definitely born and bred in Gauteng, i was raised by a single mom....Great grandparent( from Mamelodi and hammanskrall)...my grandparents from Ga-Rankuwa( all 4 of them)...my mom's house is in Mabopane....so Pretoria is my village...and it's a beautiful thing. Ke ngwanyana wa touchline😂
Redeemed is a Nigerian church with headquarters in Nigeria and the founders are Nigerian
I've always been scared of Nigerians even though women love them...I heard a few horrific stories and decided no thanks you
Owami this content you are giving us is not only informative but life changing. These stories can help others and encourage those who have gone or going through the same situations to rise up and keep pushing. Love this so much and the quality that you give us is amazing. Thank you so much for your good work and for raising awareness.❤
Yes please for part 2🙏🏾
All African countries should be visa free exuding Nigeria😢😢😢 haaa noo mann brothers sounds like he was a dealer,why were police looking for him? N why were you protective of this guy ? Love will really blind you ninja
Nigerian and Congolese are topping the charts there by the love bombing departments😂😂😂
"Redeemed" is a Nigerian founded church. Same is true for "Moutain of Fire".
I can't shake off the feeling that this gentle lady is lying through her teeth. There are many gaps in her story😂
I also feel the gaps like how did She go from having a business to not having anything.
A lot something is not adding up man
@@talkativelindy2531exactly
Ya'll don't know Nigerians 😅, they will humble you.. .
@@Nammie_B 🤣🤣🤣🤣yhoooo
Owamie my son loves you, I just found out today, we were listening to the radio and he was like "mummy this person sounds like Owamie" 😂 I was shocketh! Kanye this time has been observing because I always listen to your podcast
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I hope she heals we all are going thru something it differs in Grades yoooh😢😢😮😮
that is why nigerian movies/stories are like this,they experience this in their lives
The baby daddy is so disappointing...kanti thina amadoda do we think straight straight? Something is clearly wrong with us
Injalo nj Gatsheni, man don't know what they want
Bayaphoxa shame abantu beslisa
Angithi they said Nigerian are better. They don't understand the are good and bad people everywhere
Thank you for pointing out that nurses have no right getting tired, we are so use to abuse and mediocre services that we think being treated badly is normal even when you are literally fighting for your life
thanks love that’s my story ❤
the shooting rubs me off the wrong way. I think he had her as some sort of assurance/insurance. He wanted to make less suspicious getting shot on the foot. Why did he go directly to her after HE was shot?wasn’t he gonna look for help or hide for safety?there’s something iffy with that.
How did he run to her after being shot in the foot?Her story doesn't make sense!She is an accomplice of wrongdoings this lady.
there are lots of these stories with jollofinas i know a lady who was used as a drug mule by her nigerian husband..he then fetched his wife from Nigeria while she was service 15 year jail sentence.
yhoooooo my Goodness
Yoh mmoditla
So true. And we tell women to stay away from nigerian men they attack us. Those people are not nice people. Their own country is not doing well so they will do anything to stay out of their country, hence going the using women route.
So true. And we tell women to stay away from nigerian men they attack us. Those people are not nice people. Their own country is not doing well so they will do anything to stay out of their country, hence going the using women route.
Guys why do we do this to each other as Africans
U can ask dat again hei,de way naigerians are hurting ppl all over de world i wonder if dey really know God or dey just pretend to
@@BuhlePeter-ws4tt you africans are naturally evil,it in your dna
Ask Nigerian men
@@keneilwemodikwe-md1bwWao! You are really addicted to Nigerian men despite all your bias, ask yourself why.
Nigerian man did that to my friend that's why I'm addicted
What on earth is going on, seriously women are going through hell
Ndaa. i am listerning to your shows. Very educative and informative. There are a lot of shows i have listened to were our S.A. sisters scammed by foreigners and some even stayed in prisons a result. i still looking for a show were S.A. men are scammed by foreign women. I lost two neighbors in Soweto infected with HIV by their foreign boyfriend from Malawi. this is said and very painful. i wish our SA ladies can find a way just stay away from this guys tuu.
It's giving the guy wanted to take her out for policy benefits 👀 hayi shem!! Whos idea was it to go to church?
Exactly. Even having passed by work or something. Something was just off
I always ask myself why do their women take long (or never) give birth? All these tears from people who create their foundations 💔 some tears don't go unnoticed
What are u on about hon? 😂😂 not defending them but choosing to be out of secondary school and being of age before giving birth is not “taking long”. Nigerian women are actually very fertile, that’s why we are the most black populated nation in the worlds. Not everyone wants to be a teenage mom.
@Tatianarain I don't know what you on about really 🤔 and if you listen to the story and reread my comment you'll understand this is not about Nigerian women being infertile but what most of these men do abroad to be rich and go back to innocent women back home to ask for marriage while they are carrying all these curses. Read to understand ok. Bye
But did this girl just say she's a member if the church yet she couldn't say the full name of the church 😊
The fiance' shot you. Some women fall pregnant for a guy, she don't know his back-ground and never been to his family home. How many times SA women get robbed using same scam? Instead of getting pregnant by Sibusiso, Mandla or Tsepo whom you know his entire family
Kuyafana, SA or not because even south Africans can hide you and take you to the friends place . Kuningi nje yaz
@@silindilenxumalo9541yes, but It's easier for them to conceal their background because they come so far away
Kenya it’s worse,Nigerians are sweeping in the name of love with their target being career and wealthy women.it’s so bad
@@silindilenxumalo9541 Ayifani, you can trace us if you were serious
I agree with you! Knowing where a person comes from is very important. It's much easier to get hold of someone in the same country. Where will one start to look for a Nigerian in Nigeria? You are not even sure if the identity that he shared is true.
Owamie, your work is amazing babe. Your work ethic 🙌🏾. I’m inspired.
I always ask for money on talking stage I save myself from lot of things honestly.
This was my strategy 😂🫠 a person was once in the trenches 🫠🫣
@@shelateffo Doll it works the dustys always run and I don't get the bare minimum wen I date
So some actually give? Asking for a friend 😂
@@MahlatsiAP yes doll
Let me do that ,so that they can run yeses 😅
It's possible her fiancee set her up. Even if he got shot too. Maybe he didnt want the baby
The guest should change her number and cut ties with this man, he may trace her and do more harm...cut ties with him
Baby girl is still in love, she says he is still regretting a lot, he is NOT , he is married to the love of his life, you nothing
I’m inspired by your strength and how you are now calm in sharing this story. Your daughter is special and God allowed her to come for a reason. Can we have mass prayer for SA women against these crooks 🙌🏽, and not wait for Womens month 😢
R2000 is currently 100, 000 Naira in Nigeria. This hurts me. Karma will deal with him.
At this point i dont believe theres true love we just helping eachother out 😅
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you know im starting to believe that too
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Bathong, Owamie were are you getting these beautiful ladies that look like Dudu Tsobane from Joyous Celebration 😂
Elvis mara😂😂😂,
Great story but I got lost a lot. Wish Owamie could ask follow up questions more 😢
Guys please you can’t be slow 😅
Its not because of follow up questions..
You got lost because her story is not make sure.. She's still hiding some things and protecting the Guy
If people who don't bath for 4 days look this good I'm gonna bath after a week 😂😂😂
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😂😂😂😂😂u dnt have peace wena
@@IreneTsoeu sorry 😂
This show has me hooked
Thank you ❤
Haiii I feel like sometimes God is also shocked at the things we do on this earth because of the decisions we take as women who are inlove!!
Yhoooooooooooo‼️🥹
I tell you
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The sad thing about such experiences is that you will only come into terms with the impact in your older years, she's still young, the constant smile through out signs that she has not fully grasped what she has been through.
Love and light to you my love, modimo o omo rapelang ago dira botse