To Hell And Back Season 1 Episode 7

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  • @Vickymackay
    @Vickymackay 9 месяцев назад +92

    you guys .. thank you for watching.. really appreciate ❤❤

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 9 месяцев назад +339

    Ladies please kindly learn from these stories, this is not umgosi, its pure education that you can never get in school or at home

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 9 месяцев назад +82

    I can see her pain behind that smile.....she will heal and conquer again, she is a Queen

    • @chloebadass9526
      @chloebadass9526 9 месяцев назад

      Seems like I will never sign in before you😂😂😂

    • @Vickymackay
      @Vickymackay 9 месяцев назад +3

      babes thanks i wish i could give you a hug ❤

    • @Vickymackay
      @Vickymackay 9 месяцев назад

      i’m here

    • @candycarol2766
      @candycarol2766 9 месяцев назад

      @@Vickymackay all the best and sending u❤ignore all the ignorant comments. You’re doing well 💪🏽🙌🏾

  • @lynnettekm1661
    @lynnettekm1661 9 месяцев назад +214

    Same story happened to me from Uganda.My Nigerian fiance left me sinking bankrupt and I was 3weeks pregnant at the time.. Nigerians keep creating a bad name for themselves even when we try to give them benefit of doubt

    • @annabelkeisha1157
      @annabelkeisha1157 9 месяцев назад

      Learn to date your men,you ladies are not different from them,you date them and bad mouth their women

    • @boldlyowamie
      @boldlyowamie  9 месяцев назад +7

      💔💔

    • @nochoyi8340
      @nochoyi8340 9 месяцев назад +13

      We need this story Mommy

    • @gracegeorge7285
      @gracegeorge7285 9 месяцев назад +1

      Why do you give them benefit of doubt? Because of your own lack of self control and fantasy you make up in your head? Why not get with your own men and who told you Nigerians need to prove themselves to you for any reason? You sound quite ignorant to paint a whole people with a broad brush. So there are no bad men where you come from? Pathetic comment.

    • @ladybee3764
      @ladybee3764 9 месяцев назад +25

      Sorry this happened to you. Why do you people keep dating them ? You want to give them benefit of doubt

  • @beewest5704
    @beewest5704 9 месяцев назад +38

    I saw a vid on YT of Nigerian woman warning other woman from Nigerian men. She said that all Nigerian men has a duty to marry a Nigerian women. He might date you, get you pregnant & even marry you but it will never change the fact that he has to marry a Nigerian woman. She says you will one day see his "sister" with her 3 kids moving in with you. They will make your life hell so you move. You will later find out that he used you for citizenship to get his wife & kids in the country. Even after divorce you will still find him making loans, opening accounts & registering kids you don't know into your name. I was shocked.
    Be aware!!!!

    • @tl3482
      @tl3482 9 месяцев назад +3

      😮

    • @nginamacharia8225
      @nginamacharia8225 9 месяцев назад

      Very true.. they do blood ritual with their women before they leave their country

    • @chikochiringa7247
      @chikochiringa7247 9 месяцев назад +1

      Evil indeed

    • @user-kf8ii6nd2t
      @user-kf8ii6nd2t 8 месяцев назад +2

      I have a bitter experience with one Nigerian guy .....he used me to get what he wanted....some of them are heartless

  • @sesimakoya
    @sesimakoya 9 месяцев назад +27

    “I still want to go back to the church…”
    👀 girllll they’ll finish you off now mos

  • @bridgetbabe3042
    @bridgetbabe3042 9 месяцев назад +72

    Every time I hear stories about these Western African scammers the more I get more Afraid to even get close to them

    • @goodnessmitileni1120
      @goodnessmitileni1120 9 месяцев назад +7

      Yey I'm scared of any men not South African, stories like these are the worst

    • @thando_t1723
      @thando_t1723 9 месяцев назад +9

      The MALEMA says we are one in Africa 😭 One Africa he shouts remove the borders😭💔yeah neeh

    • @thabangmalepe1663
      @thabangmalepe1663 9 месяцев назад +6

      I don't greet them cc

    • @maytshifularo5415
      @maytshifularo5415 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@thabangmalepe1663me too. I even walk faster as soon as they greet me.

    • @benbo7042
      @benbo7042 9 месяцев назад

      😂😂😂😂

  • @mariaebbanangolo6973
    @mariaebbanangolo6973 9 месяцев назад +113

    All the way from Namibia 🇳🇦….OMG women are really going through a lot worldwide. God have mercy upon our lives. Let’s hold our hands together as women and pray 🙏🏽

    • @elizabethletsoso2558
      @elizabethletsoso2558 9 месяцев назад +1

      Amen 🙏

    • @tombimashri8149
      @tombimashri8149 9 месяцев назад

      Prayer nd sharing widens nd protects many thing. Name and Shame the perpertraitors

  • @KayNaude
    @KayNaude 9 месяцев назад +46

    I love seeing you win Owamie. You're definitely a hard worker.

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 9 месяцев назад +62

    Guys lets pray to God and thank him for our small small challenges...some people are going through the most

  • @Thenjiwe
    @Thenjiwe 9 месяцев назад +25

    May this type of love never locate me🤞🏿

  • @zhegal1
    @zhegal1 9 месяцев назад +20

    Leave Nigerian men for Nigerian women. No one in the world understands them

  • @mandyishername
    @mandyishername 9 месяцев назад +31

    😂😂😂when she said the church is “Redeemed” I was like oh ok now everything makes sense. The church is a Nigerian church called Redeemed Christian Church of God (RCCG) . If you meet a Nigerian man who goes to that church please run 🏃🏾‍♀️ my sister. They know everything their members are doing and they look away because they benefit from the tithe. The guy was probably in a war with someone who also goes to the church. Maybe it was a cultist or he swindled someone money from the business deal that’s why the guys were looking for him. He was in serious trouble. But the church knows the whole story.

    • @benbo7042
      @benbo7042 9 месяцев назад +1

      You are absolutely right.

    • @kaybee918
      @kaybee918 9 месяцев назад +2

      When she said God was giving him a sign not to go there I started suspecting someting rituals she's lucky to be alive God loves her so much she saved her life it's a good thing the guy left that's why I play far from Nigerian man bcos yoo no ways is only a few that are good the rest of them are a no no sorry

  • @richardtjipepe
    @richardtjipepe 9 месяцев назад +19

    Dear lady, he was scamming you. Nigerian brothers are doing this all over the world even here in Namibia 🇳🇦. They know how to do the long game.

    • @tombimashri8149
      @tombimashri8149 9 месяцев назад

      Majority mixed race children in Western worlds now Africa are from Nigerians, God is watching

    • @Gorgeous493
      @Gorgeous493 9 месяцев назад +1

      You see, that long game thing, will deceive you if you don't know your story.

  • @gabrielthuu
    @gabrielthuu 9 месяцев назад +22

    Ladies these shows are for y’all to LEARN
    ITS NOT JUST ENTERTAINMENT!!!!!!!

    • @thando_t1723
      @thando_t1723 9 месяцев назад +2

      Even for you men to talk to each other

  • @busai1399
    @busai1399 9 месяцев назад +30

    A man from Zambia tried to persuade me to buy a Toyota Hilux for us to start a "business" in Zambia, but something inside me said absolutely not. Looking back and knowing what I know now, I could have been scammed. I'm so thankful to God.

    • @teascobie6557
      @teascobie6557 9 месяцев назад +3

      never give men money, nor purchase them expensive things

    • @TheLilianbaby
      @TheLilianbaby 9 месяцев назад +1

      Meaning is not just Nigerian men.

    • @chikochiringa7247
      @chikochiringa7247 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@TheLilianbabyit's everywhere unfortunately.

    • @loliwemoyo5680
      @loliwemoyo5680 8 месяцев назад

      Even SA men can scamm its just that Nija men do it better.

  • @ayandabazimukile990
    @ayandabazimukile990 9 месяцев назад +43

    Its so sad to see how much love women have to give yet they keep on bumping into scammers and men with cruel and impure intentions 🥺

    • @thando_t1723
      @thando_t1723 9 месяцев назад +2

      Even men also go through the same 💔

    • @la-ry1ms
      @la-ry1ms 9 месяцев назад

      Women get used and dumped all the time why does it become an issue just because a Nigerian is involved.Atleast the she has a baby to remember him by

    • @aliceeyong411
      @aliceeyong411 8 месяцев назад

      ​@@la-ry1ms This is so heartless of you to say. Y'all will get your reward soonest from God's wrath.

  • @Claire-yt6xx
    @Claire-yt6xx 9 месяцев назад +164

    Owamie, I was busy eating my vetkoek when I started watching this and I had to come sit down now because I want to pay full attention while writing this comment.
    When I first started watching your content here on RUclips, I was of the opinion that your English and grammar was not that great. In fact, it irritated me a bit to try to understand what you're saying, even though I assumed it was not your first language. It was to the point where I commented my dismay and I gave you advice to speak slower and speak more clearly. Looking back now I could have been kinder with my wording. (don't judge me, we grow😅). And you were graceful in your response, which was simply liking my comment.
    Anyway, I kept watching for some reason. I was attracted to your character. Something about queen ninja just kept me coming back to your content.
    I have now been watching you for 3 years. I'm the biggest ninja and I don't watch SA news on RUclips unless it's you posting it. In those 3 years I have watched you IMPROVE immensely. You constantly level up. Your vocabulary, your wordplay.....your EGRISH is now ENGLISH. And I couldn't be happier to swallow my critique.
    I just want to say congratulations on your growth and all your new endeavours. I look forward to seeing what else you come up with for our entertainment. I'm rooting for you.

    • @boldlyowamie
      @boldlyowamie  9 месяцев назад +43

      This is soo sweet thank you so much 🥰🥰

    • @mrhumbamakombe8387
      @mrhumbamakombe8387 9 месяцев назад +47

      Work on your attitude. Apologising is not enough. We are all different in talk & action when talking. Owami is the same as before but you have now become used to her. Stop belittling this sweet lady. She would win any man with the way she talk and move her head when talking. Can you upload yourself talking so that l can comment. Im sure a hyena is better. Stop belittling. 3years and you think she is still crawling. She is it. The mighty Victoria Falls of a lady. The smoke that thunders. Peace

    • @Claire-yt6xx
      @Claire-yt6xx 9 месяцев назад +11

      @@mrhumbamakombe8387🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I needed this laugh thank you

    • @khanyisilemathebula6582
      @khanyisilemathebula6582 9 месяцев назад +3

      ⁠😂😂😂kill me one more time please

    • @Sacred_Walls
      @Sacred_Walls 9 месяцев назад +14

      @@mrhumbamakombe8387thank you for saying what I was going to say. This mumu just wants to use all their small small engrish to criticise an entire queen! Nxa!

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 9 месяцев назад +49

    The guest is superb...she is explaining everything clearly, I'm glad she is okay

    • @Vickymackay
      @Vickymackay 9 месяцев назад +2

      thanks babes .. i’m here ❤

  • @pulanala1421
    @pulanala1421 9 месяцев назад +33

    When we tell them about Nigerians they say we are jealous😂.
    Imagine dating someone who is trying to get citizenship so they can use it to commit crime.😭

    • @tloutlou2655
      @tloutlou2655 9 месяцев назад

      🤔🤔🤔🤔

    • @nginamacharia8225
      @nginamacharia8225 9 месяцев назад

      The worst part is to use women for prostitution n drugs n then leave u bankrupt, in jail or dead .. beautiful Kenyan former air hostess are rotting in jails in china cause they were used by Nigerians as drug traffickers

    • @Ladyle4ever
      @Ladyle4ever 9 месяцев назад

      First of all this foreigners escaped poverty from their country. They came here in SA to make money but we keep giving them our hard earned money but anyway they have their way of scamming us 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @williamshakur8715
      @williamshakur8715 9 месяцев назад +2

      They think Nigerian are here for relationship. 😢😢😢❤❤❤

  • @tip-z2398
    @tip-z2398 9 месяцев назад +12

    I like the other stories where the lady takes us through the relationship before the horror haybo lana kuvele kwaConfusing in the church haybo hospital haybo sgaxa after sgaxa from the beginning and the entire time u like hawu who did this? ewu

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 9 месяцев назад +22

    Can we expose this man and hospitals....maybe the chirch should also explain if they did a police report or something

    • @Letstalkaboutit2323
      @Letstalkaboutit2323 9 месяцев назад +1

      They are many. A facebook group exposing them should be created ba expoziwe goet.

  • @rebonematonsi426
    @rebonematonsi426 9 месяцев назад +13

    She knows what this guy was involved in. May she be completely healed ❤.

  • @Tonto773
    @Tonto773 9 месяцев назад +38

    Girl was smitten and dickmatised. I know it's wrong to paint people with the same brush(stereotypes) but I've witnessed and heard so many stories about Nigerians to rule them out as lovers. My SA ladies PLEASE let's stay away from those people period! Never date someone you can't trace. Please forgive yourself my lady and heal. God loves you, love and light, I wish you nothing but the best ❤

    • @Boikanyo_M
      @Boikanyo_M 9 месяцев назад +1

      I agree with your sentiments , better safe than sorry.

    • @Tatianarain
      @Tatianarain 9 месяцев назад

      It’s weird that Nigerian women feel even more fear toward SA men. A lot of the SA news we get in Nigeria has to do with SA men unaliving their women, committing xenophobic attacks etc

    • @Tonto773
      @Tonto773 9 месяцев назад

      The Xenophobic attacks are as a result of the crimes done by Nigerians. South Africans are tired of witnessing their own being destroyed. Taking the law into their own hands is wrong but I understand where they are coming from. Have you ever watched any SA news about the syndicates of Nigerian human trafficking & drugs? I've lived in Johannesburg & Pretoria for over 20yrs and the things I've witnessed Nigerians do have traumatized me🙆🏽‍♀️ A lot of them travel to SA for crime. Same thing I witnessed in Brazil. America has a special drug unit just for Nigerians. The fear towards them is very real!

    • @Boikanyo_M
      @Boikanyo_M 9 месяцев назад

      @@Tatianarain Fear men in general. lol

    • @tombimashri8149
      @tombimashri8149 9 месяцев назад +1

      I think the topic here is on Fake Love marriages dubious lies etc nit xenophobia, xenophobia is for another blogg

  • @mandyishername
    @mandyishername 9 месяцев назад +15

    This guy enjoyed and wasted her youth. 😢 Yoh Laba nabo 🇳🇬😂 my ex used to call his girlfriend that he left in Nigeria his ex but they are married now. One thing about Nigerian girls they can wait for their men and be patient no matter what they are doing in the country they are in.They can wait for 10 years, very strong women 💪🏾

    • @glorymuzyamba2440
      @glorymuzyamba2440 9 месяцев назад

      That's exactly what my ex did only God will judge them ....

    • @benbo7042
      @benbo7042 9 месяцев назад +4

      They don't wait for waiting sake. It is all about money. As long as the guy is showering them with money, they just don't care how long it takes and what the guy does. It is money not love.

    • @banyana6515
      @banyana6515 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@benbo7042Exactly. They are money worshiping whores.

  • @Elizabeth-vu1tb
    @Elizabeth-vu1tb 9 месяцев назад +13

    Yhooooo imagine dating in matric?. Haii Ladies.💔💔💔😩😭
    She was in this relationship alone. This man took advantage..
    The sad part is ; if he can come back TODAY, she would still take him back. She loves him

  • @patriciamotsamai3850
    @patriciamotsamai3850 9 месяцев назад +60

    Finally a guest who can narrate events well and clearly

    • @CynthiaFrancis-wr4xp
      @CynthiaFrancis-wr4xp 9 месяцев назад +11

      The shade😂

    • @noxzienocturnal4544
      @noxzienocturnal4544 9 месяцев назад +13

      I think Owamie should start leading these interviews more because it seems like people tend to go off on a tangent if they aren't provided with a structure.
      Naye losisi kept losing herself here and there but it wasn't that bad because Owamie was able to bring her back.

    • @neosjournal_
      @neosjournal_ 9 месяцев назад +5

      @@noxzienocturnal4544 when she tries to lead them people complain and say she’s interrupting them 😂

    • @minenhledumakude9896
      @minenhledumakude9896 9 месяцев назад +2

      Dont be insensitive wena rubbish

    • @patriciamotsamai3850
      @patriciamotsamai3850 9 месяцев назад

      @@minenhledumakude9896 who are you insulting

  • @bangiwenjanga2949
    @bangiwenjanga2949 9 месяцев назад +9

    Most woman are afraid to expose themselves they feel ashamed, thanks for sharing..

  • @sanga8349
    @sanga8349 9 месяцев назад +42

    1. When did you meet the guy/girl
    2. How would you describe the early stages of your relationship
    3.After how many year/days/Months into the relationship did you guys start having problems?

    • @kms708
      @kms708 9 месяцев назад +44

      At this rate y'all should open your own podcast🤣....not everyone interviews the same.

    • @sanga8349
      @sanga8349 9 месяцев назад

      @@kms708 REST

    • @boitumelojoycemasuge4467
      @boitumelojoycemasuge4467 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@kms708😂😂😂 abeg

    • @thando_t1723
      @thando_t1723 9 месяцев назад

      ​​@@kms708😂😂😂 tell them wena

    • @dianastjohn700
      @dianastjohn700 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@kms708No. Please, we need all stones turned. It helps us better to know what to look out for.

  • @TattoosByDee
    @TattoosByDee 9 месяцев назад +20

    Ladies, be careful out there.
    Love with all your eyes open wide... 😳🤯

  • @patiencempirirwe5449
    @patiencempirirwe5449 9 месяцев назад +73

    Shes knows the illegal business he was into, tell us the whole story, there is no need to protect him now.

    • @rudzanikharivhe6294
      @rudzanikharivhe6294 9 месяцев назад +8

      I saw it from the moment she started talking about her shooting, she's not telling us tge truths

    • @angiegona4238
      @angiegona4238 9 месяцев назад +4

      Exactly my thought shame but I do feel sorry for her it’s so painful no one deserves that

    • @noxzienocturnal4544
      @noxzienocturnal4544 9 месяцев назад +7

      She's even protecting him with the shooting. Mina i would've immediately put 2 and 2 together after he disappeared with my money. Wayefuna ukumbulala, even the people that were "threatening" her were probably in cahoots with him trying to make it seem like he had a legit reason to vanish. Funny thing is that Nigerians always say that they are here to hustle and prefer to marry Nigerian women. People just don't want to listen.

    • @Mtase1234
      @Mtase1234 9 месяцев назад +16

      This is the problem about us women judging one another,until it happens to you,you won't believe it. Even now you can't see it's still like a dream to her and trust me for those of us who work with her we know and see how it affected her

    • @jae-realistic
      @jae-realistic 9 месяцев назад

      I beg to differ, these people can be very secretive. Once Nigerians cross each other , they don't hesitate to kill

  • @Bbb-ml4gb
    @Bbb-ml4gb 9 месяцев назад +26

    You are not imagining things that guy was a target by his people he knew exactly why you guys are shot, he never loved you that's why he was sending money to Nigeria while still things were good he knew what he was doing that money was going to his real fiance in Nigeria.
    Glad you are healed you are so young you got a whole world ahead of you now its in your hands to take the early lessons of life and be wiser.
    You are beautiful move on and enjoy your life ahead.
    Owamie Shibobo I'm with you people of that church are going to hell.

  • @Elizabeth-vu1tb
    @Elizabeth-vu1tb 9 месяцев назад +12

    That man came to South Africa with a mission!.
    Sounds like he even had a whole wife at home. But for him to leave you pregnant, haii his coming back. Scary! I’m so sorry for you. I wish you can just get therapy, move on, give love a chance again. That was not love.

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 9 месяцев назад +18

    Uheadboy/prefect of the Ninjas has arrived, please sit back, relax and enjoy

  • @pinkqueen916
    @pinkqueen916 9 месяцев назад +38

    I was a member of a church for 16 years, served for all those years But when it came to me separating from my husband they never intervened or showed genuine concern. I got just one call from the pastor telling me when" I cool down I know where to find them". Am telling this story to mention that the leaders only like you when you come to church. When sh!t hits the fan you are of no use to the church.

    • @boldlyowamie
      @boldlyowamie  9 месяцев назад +2

      😳😳

    • @Me-xoxoz
      @Me-xoxoz 9 месяцев назад +2

      l think that was the best thing for you because most churches gaslight women to stay in an abusive marriage. They will enable the husband's behaviour and tell the woman to be submissive. When l left my marriage my ex was running around trying to find church pastors to knock some sense in me, pastors l did even know nor attend their churches.

    • @mrsG488
      @mrsG488 Месяц назад

      I thank God for my church..the Pastor has been very supportive to me and my family,and the pastors wife has been more than a mom to me,super loving❤❤. There still are good churches out there.

    • @mrsG488
      @mrsG488 Месяц назад

      I thank God for my church..the Pastor has been very supportive to me and my family,and the pastors wife has been more than a mom to me,super loving❤❤. There still are good churches out there.

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 9 месяцев назад +58

    The way Owamie is so beautiful is illegal

    • @vickynhlengethwa3242
      @vickynhlengethwa3242 9 месяцев назад +4

      Illegal 😄😄😄

    • @tebor1381
      @tebor1381 9 месяцев назад +1

      It's very much illegal struu❤Queen Ninja umhle❤

    • @thandothando2779
      @thandothando2779 9 месяцев назад +3

      She is too much, you can a
      See she is in her happy era and I love it for her🌸🌸

    • @fashionKalmahouse
      @fashionKalmahouse 9 месяцев назад +2

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😅illegal

  • @Youtube_Bee
    @Youtube_Bee 9 месяцев назад +63

    Did Owamie do a counselling course because her emotional intelligence and empathy are amazing.

    • @boldlyowamie
      @boldlyowamie  9 месяцев назад +20

      Not yet though i did study psychology a long time ago ❤ Thank you

    • @missbongantwasa8268
      @missbongantwasa8268 9 месяцев назад +4

      She's a qualified nurse, remember??

    • @neomalete5832
      @neomalete5832 9 месяцев назад

      very true, knowing me i'd meet her for the first time and tell her my whole life story😅

    • @iddashivolo5366
      @iddashivolo5366 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@missbongantwasa8268no sis she's not. She even explained she quit nursing school. But she might have done some modules

    • @thando_t1723
      @thando_t1723 9 месяцев назад +1

      ​​@@boldlyowamieask some how psychologist who you can work with , who would volunteer and counsel for free.. the wanted to help people after all 😂😭💔

  • @thokomasango2294
    @thokomasango2294 9 месяцев назад +12

    It's obvious this guy is criminal. The inappropriate laugh is a sign of dealing with pain

  • @amandamaphosaphumzile2348
    @amandamaphosaphumzile2348 9 месяцев назад +10

    I SUSPECT IT WAS A SACRIFICE THAT WENT WRONG

    • @Gorgeous493
      @Gorgeous493 9 месяцев назад

      Yhu, don't say😮

  • @preciousisiguzo2052
    @preciousisiguzo2052 9 месяцев назад +10

    Redeem is a Nigerian church owned by Adeboye and maybe those people knew he was married back home and you were just a girl that he was using while hustling in South Africa . That guy might have been involved in shady things and he was a Yahoo boy

  • @sinehope_
    @sinehope_ 9 месяцев назад +52

    Love the hair Ninja. I've always told my Nigerian friends that we might get along but I will never trust them. Apologies but the stigma

    • @gracegeorge7285
      @gracegeorge7285 9 месяцев назад

      That’s fair enough. I’m glad you know you are stigmatizing some very good people because of a few experiences but do we care? We don’t. We don’t need you and don’t trust you either. I know many of your countrymen that are worse.

    • @fashionKalmahouse
      @fashionKalmahouse 9 месяцев назад +12

      I don't trust them either.thats what they do even here in Nairobi Kenya.

    • @norahmaleka-lt8uv
      @norahmaleka-lt8uv 9 месяцев назад +6

      I can never trust them yerrrr

    • @Kg_525
      @Kg_525 9 месяцев назад +8

      Me too we can laugh together but the is always the side eye

    • @maulinenkatha7076
      @maulinenkatha7076 9 месяцев назад +9

      @@fashionKalmahouseikr😢,they are all over and always target wealthy women (how gullible),apparently the government is silent on the matter yet they are just here for scamming,watch out for Ghanaians too

  • @prettyleremi9748
    @prettyleremi9748 9 месяцев назад +41

    Nigerians don't love us shemmmm😢

    • @boldlyowamie
      @boldlyowamie  9 месяцев назад +1

      😢😢😢

    • @gracegeorge7285
      @gracegeorge7285 9 месяцев назад

      🙄

    • @ScissorN
      @ScissorN 9 месяцев назад +1

      Not even SAns loves us what did you expect wena

    • @YouWell2
      @YouWell2 9 месяцев назад

      SA women don't have the most respectable rep, if we are being honest...

    • @mapulahaidymashaba217
      @mapulahaidymashaba217 9 месяцев назад

      Actually foreigners are here for purpose ladies must wake up serious I know lots of girls who Are married to foreigners now they are dumped with kids , and funny thing thdon't know there home country.

  • @neegee3755
    @neegee3755 9 месяцев назад +13

    She’s such a pretty black berry 😍

  • @victorioussisters3307
    @victorioussisters3307 9 месяцев назад +10

    My goodness I don’t know how many times I clapped my hands due to shock and even said this is like a Nigerian movie script ; alas she then said the guy is Nigerian 😮.

  • @shireenmonama5765
    @shireenmonama5765 9 месяцев назад +34

    They are here to finish us🥺

  • @iddashivolo5366
    @iddashivolo5366 9 месяцев назад +13

    Girl..... as a nurse,I know😮 they put you at the adge of the ward cos the colostomy is smelling . That was so bad and unprofessional. The sadation was so you dont call them so much😢😢😢im sorry for that traumatic experience.

  • @user-tk1uq2iy9p
    @user-tk1uq2iy9p 9 месяцев назад +5

    Im from South Africa many Nigérian man used South American women to survive and later left to get married their country same thing happen to me😢

  • @siyamthandamgunculu9950
    @siyamthandamgunculu9950 9 месяцев назад +31

    Loving this space you’ve created for women to speak about their experiences without judgement ❤️☺️I hope she finds healing

  • @gracedrosie5127
    @gracedrosie5127 9 месяцев назад +12

    men always choose themselves, we ought to learn to be selfish and only do what makes us happy. always choose you.

  • @mapsmaps805
    @mapsmaps805 9 месяцев назад +21

    I can't shake off the feeling that this gentle lady is lying through her teeth. There are many gaps in her story😂

    • @talkativelindy2531
      @talkativelindy2531 9 месяцев назад +6

      I also feel the gaps like how did She go from having a business to not having anything.

    • @refiloera
      @refiloera 9 месяцев назад +2

      A lot something is not adding up man

    • @refiloera
      @refiloera 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@talkativelindy2531exactly

    • @nametsopule
      @nametsopule 9 месяцев назад +10

      Ya'll don't know Nigerians 😅, they will humble you.. .

    • @refiloera
      @refiloera 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@nametsopule 🤣🤣🤣🤣yhoooo

  • @thuliendlovu719
    @thuliendlovu719 9 месяцев назад +8

    Lets not lie, 9 years older than a matriculant is too much!

  • @SiphindileMKSouthAfrica
    @SiphindileMKSouthAfrica 9 месяцев назад +12

    Owamie please tell our guest that i say i pray that Lord Jesus may provide her with her heart desires ❤

  • @lovenessmadimu3901
    @lovenessmadimu3901 9 месяцев назад +15

    They are disgusting,im also a victim..i would love to share my story whenever i come back to Africa..
    They are making their world smaller and smaller

  • @yoursTruly20711
    @yoursTruly20711 9 месяцев назад +39

    This is heartbreaking 🥺. I pray she finds healing. Thank you guys for giving us all these life lessons ❤

  • @Potato-lp5ij
    @Potato-lp5ij 9 месяцев назад +9

    I didn't know of you before madam owamie, but I'm so happy the algorithm brought me here I've watched every single interview since the fairytale marriage to this one and I'm hooked my heart goes out to these women!! like khanyi said MEN WILL LEAVE YOU IN THE DESSERT WITH NO WATER!! YOH!!!

  • @noxzienocturnal4544
    @noxzienocturnal4544 9 месяцев назад +13

    I can't believe she never mentioned him being a suspect in that shooting after what he did. He wanted to kill her. Did he even get shot or he just told her that he too got shot? No mention of his businesses and what happened to them but they had money? She knew his shady businesses.
    South African women basijwayeza kabi ngalabantu. Khuthiwa siyanuka, asikwazi ukugeza, si dom because of them. Love yourselves enough not to throw yourselves to filth that you know is filth just coz it's love bombing you.

  • @DeeDiva777
    @DeeDiva777 9 месяцев назад +12

    I wish a lot of women can access this stories. Most especially those in Joburg and other urban areas.

  • @pinkymalatji1683
    @pinkymalatji1683 9 месяцев назад +9

    Nigerian men have true love but its for their fellow Nigerian women

    • @kalimbaayinde25
      @kalimbaayinde25 9 месяцев назад +6

      Not even for them. They only love themselves

    • @glorymokwena8509
      @glorymokwena8509 9 месяцев назад +2

      Those who have love they are few then most they are demons

    • @angelakwaramba9752
      @angelakwaramba9752 9 месяцев назад +3

      They pretend so. They can do anything to achieve their goal that’s for sure. They can live with a person for 10 years until they get what they want. That’s how determined they are.

  • @vukosimphilo1702
    @vukosimphilo1702 9 месяцев назад +5

    Baby girl is still in love, she says he is still regretting a lot, he is NOT , he is married to the love of his life, you nothing

  • @YozNaturali
    @YozNaturali 9 месяцев назад +45

    I agree with Owamie, nurses have no right to be tired of a patient's condition. They chose this job. Even us we dont get tired of our jobs.

    • @thando_t1723
      @thando_t1723 9 месяцев назад +1

      Vele 😭💔

    • @zinhlenorah9867
      @zinhlenorah9867 8 месяцев назад

      I wish you could work in a hospital, sometimes it is not easy shame, nurses are human too and have different challenges as well.

  • @cc35506
    @cc35506 9 месяцев назад +7

    The way she narrated I thought the fiance and the Nigerian were 2 different people. But woah she's been through a lot. May she continue to heal.

    • @lesedikhoaripe8072
      @lesedikhoaripe8072 9 месяцев назад

      It goes to show that when they say that there are 2 sides to a person and you you’ll never really know someone

    • @cc35506
      @cc35506 9 месяцев назад

      @@lesedikhoaripe8072 No just the way she narrated and put together the story. In the middle of the story thats when she mentions by the way he is Nigerian.

  • @anittanxusa
    @anittanxusa 9 месяцев назад +21

    I’m at work listening 🌚🧍🏽‍♀️

  • @bellatalkssa405
    @bellatalkssa405 9 месяцев назад +11

    I feel like this man used this lady from the ON set...he dated her as she was working for him, he probably saw that she's a hard worker and surely she was a potential workhorse for him. I also think he actually wanted her dead, why was he shot on the leg and her on the tummy while pregnant, or those people wanted to kill her to hurt him, maybe. After all the trauma, he gave her another pregnancy as a "thank you ".... izza lot

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 9 месяцев назад +16

    The guest should change her number and cut ties with this man, he may trace her and do more harm...cut ties with him

  • @Skhonza
    @Skhonza 9 месяцев назад +9

    I knw Redeemed its an international church n its origin is in Nigeria. Most Naijas go there...its disappointing that the church ddnt help and or follow up with her.
    One thing ive learnt though. Church is not God.

  • @carolinemashego2533
    @carolinemashego2533 9 месяцев назад +4

    I've always been scared of Nigerians even though women love them...I heard a few horrific stories and decided no thanks you

  • @ladybee3764
    @ladybee3764 9 месяцев назад +8

    It's possible her fiancee set her up. Even if he got shot too. Maybe he didnt want the baby

  • @lungilemotubatse8491
    @lungilemotubatse8491 9 месяцев назад +10

    This story doesn't make any sense.I am sorry

    • @Oracle0211
      @Oracle0211 7 месяцев назад

      40 minutes in and im so lost, I keep going back thinking maybe I missed something

    • @laikainza1
      @laikainza1 15 дней назад +1

      I actually came to the comments to see if I was the only one who found this story all over the place .

  • @tiziay
    @tiziay 9 месяцев назад +6

    "Redeemed" is a Nigerian founded church. Same is true for "Moutain of Fire".

  • @HolisticHealth-sd2ye
    @HolisticHealth-sd2ye 9 месяцев назад +6

    Queen Ninja some of us are definitely born and bred in Gauteng, i was raised by a single mom....Great grandparent( from Mamelodi and hammanskrall)...my grandparents from Ga-Rankuwa( all 4 of them)...my mom's house is in Mabopane....so Pretoria is my village...and it's a beautiful thing. Ke ngwanyana wa touchline😂

  • @uzo435
    @uzo435 9 месяцев назад +4

    It's such a sad story! Women!!!! protect your wombs!!! Stop sleeping and having children with men who would not do right by you. While I empathize with her story, the getting pregnant while going through all that trauma had me like 😮

  • @thusimphahlele5085
    @thusimphahlele5085 9 месяцев назад +7

    the shooting rubs me off the wrong way. I think he had her as some sort of assurance/insurance. He wanted to make less suspicious getting shot on the foot. Why did he go directly to her after HE was shot?wasn’t he gonna look for help or hide for safety?there’s something iffy with that.

    • @user-ye4or5uq3m
      @user-ye4or5uq3m 6 месяцев назад

      How did he run to her after being shot in the foot?Her story doesn't make sense!She is an accomplice of wrongdoings this lady.

  • @masesikubheka416
    @masesikubheka416 9 месяцев назад +5

    Redeemed is a Nigerian church with headquarters in Nigeria and the founders are Nigerian

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 9 месяцев назад +30

    The baby daddy is so disappointing...kanti thina amadoda do we think straight straight? Something is clearly wrong with us

    • @SiphindileMKSouthAfrica
      @SiphindileMKSouthAfrica 9 месяцев назад

      Injalo nj Gatsheni, man don't know what they want

    • @MandyDikeni-cm4ef
      @MandyDikeni-cm4ef 9 месяцев назад

      Bayaphoxa shame abantu beslisa

    • @Tebstechpodcast
      @Tebstechpodcast 9 месяцев назад +1

      Angithi they said Nigerian are better. They don't understand the are good and bad people everywhere

  • @nobuhleb2102
    @nobuhleb2102 9 месяцев назад +10

    I hope she heals we all are going thru something it differs in Grades yoooh😢😢😮😮

  • @NQA1209
    @NQA1209 9 месяцев назад +15

    The fiance' shot you. Some women fall pregnant for a guy, she don't know his back-ground and never been to his family home. How many times SA women get robbed using same scam? Instead of getting pregnant by Sibusiso, Mandla or Tsepo whom you know his entire family

    • @silindilenxumalo9541
      @silindilenxumalo9541 9 месяцев назад +3

      Kuyafana, SA or not because even south Africans can hide you and take you to the friends place . Kuningi nje yaz

    • @darkskinfatgirl0147
      @darkskinfatgirl0147 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@silindilenxumalo9541yes, but It's easier for them to conceal their background because they come so far away

    • @maulinenkatha7076
      @maulinenkatha7076 9 месяцев назад +5

      Kenya it’s worse,Nigerians are sweeping in the name of love with their target being career and wealthy women.it’s so bad

    • @NQA1209
      @NQA1209 9 месяцев назад

      @@silindilenxumalo9541 Ayifani, you can trace us if you were serious

    • @langutamacheke2412
      @langutamacheke2412 9 месяцев назад +2

      I agree with you! Knowing where a person comes from is very important. It's much easier to get hold of someone in the same country. Where will one start to look for a Nigerian in Nigeria? You are not even sure if the identity that he shared is true.

  • @Blacklist_Entertainment
    @Blacklist_Entertainment 9 месяцев назад +8

    All African countries should be visa free exuding Nigeria😢😢😢 haaa noo mann brothers sounds like he was a dealer,why were police looking for him? N why were you protective of this guy ? Love will really blind you ninja

    • @GodsFavourite2024
      @GodsFavourite2024 9 месяцев назад

      Nigerian and Congolese are topping the charts there by the love bombing departments😂😂😂

  • @rexona1178
    @rexona1178 7 месяцев назад +2

    I am not a Nigerian but a British citizen of Cameroonian origin. I have visited South Africa and met a lot of other Africans who had camped in a secluded estate because they were afraid of being lynched by other South Africans. Looking at this channel and listening to the way other Africans are being bashed makes me feel confused. We all make mistakes and i hope we can all learn from it as Africans. I hope i never find myself in a position where a woman can come on social media and be describing me as a naccicists.

    • @RamochekiTshegofatso
      @RamochekiTshegofatso 7 месяцев назад

      Lynched by SAns yet they migrate here daily, why would they come here if they are being killed.
      Stop bad naming us, we live in our country and bother no one.
      They come here sell drugs, kidnapping, murder and other crimes and we can't say anything about it because we labeled as xenophobic.
      Please stop this

    • @khangwelokhangwelo6553
      @khangwelokhangwelo6553 6 месяцев назад +1

      no their not bashing them the truth is ugly and you dont want it cox this will mean that south africans have always been right abount amakwerekwere

  • @dimphonare6034
    @dimphonare6034 9 месяцев назад +22

    As I wait for 12:00🎉😂😂❤
    All the way from Botswana 🇧🇼 🙌

    • @thando_t1723
      @thando_t1723 9 месяцев назад

      Yeah Lena the people who are making Pearl TO be Kedeboni😂

  • @Mtase1234
    @Mtase1234 9 месяцев назад +23

    Vicky I'm proud of you sis.... as your colleague it breaks my heart to listen to the full story of what really happened to you,may God almighty heal you and please never ever blame yourself for what has happened this guy doesn't deserve you❤
    But now what if what happened it was meant to happen to you but they short him on the leg just to cover up just saying coz clearly he had his own agenda, maybe he wanted to get rid of you so that he can go back and marry his fiance just think about it😢

  • @bangibabs
    @bangibabs 9 месяцев назад +15

    Owami this content you are giving us is not only informative but life changing. These stories can help others and encourage those who have gone or going through the same situations to rise up and keep pushing. Love this so much and the quality that you give us is amazing. Thank you so much for your good work and for raising awareness.❤
    Yes please for part 2🙏🏾

  • @theglen85
    @theglen85 9 месяцев назад +4

    But did this girl just say she's a member if the church yet she couldn't say the full name of the church 😊

  • @masesikubheka416
    @masesikubheka416 9 месяцев назад +4

    R2000 is currently 100, 000 Naira in Nigeria. This hurts me. Karma will deal with him.

  • @highandmightyqueen79
    @highandmightyqueen79 9 месяцев назад +9

    there are lots of these stories with jollofinas i know a lady who was used as a drug mule by her nigerian husband..he then fetched his wife from Nigeria while she was service 15 year jail sentence.

    • @zikhonadunjana1842
      @zikhonadunjana1842 9 месяцев назад +1

      yhoooooo my Goodness

    • @ForTheDivine_2000
      @ForTheDivine_2000 9 месяцев назад

      Yoh mmoditla

    • @GodsFavourite2024
      @GodsFavourite2024 9 месяцев назад

      So true. And we tell women to stay away from nigerian men they attack us. Those people are not nice people. Their own country is not doing well so they will do anything to stay out of their country, hence going the using women route.

    • @GodsFavourite2024
      @GodsFavourite2024 9 месяцев назад

      So true. And we tell women to stay away from nigerian men they attack us. Those people are not nice people. Their own country is not doing well so they will do anything to stay out of their country, hence going the using women route.

  • @sinasomxakaza9170
    @sinasomxakaza9170 9 месяцев назад +8

    It's giving the guy wanted to take her out for policy benefits 👀 hayi shem!! Whos idea was it to go to church?

    • @GodsFavourite2024
      @GodsFavourite2024 9 месяцев назад +1

      Exactly. Even having passed by work or something. Something was just off

  • @gladysmoruti
    @gladysmoruti 9 месяцев назад +7

    Owamie my son loves you, I just found out today, we were listening to the radio and he was like "mummy this person sounds like Owamie" 😂 I was shocketh! Kanye this time has been observing because I always listen to your podcast

  • @katlegonatasha7707
    @katlegonatasha7707 9 месяцев назад +29

    If people who don't bath for 4 days look this good I'm gonna bath after a week 😂😂😂

    • @boldlyowamie
      @boldlyowamie  9 месяцев назад +4

      😂😂😂😂

    • @queenm2723
      @queenm2723 9 месяцев назад +3

      😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Estina-zl4sy
      @Estina-zl4sy 9 месяцев назад +2

      🙏😃😃

    • @IreneTsoeu
      @IreneTsoeu 9 месяцев назад +2

      😂😂😂😂😂u dnt have peace wena

    • @katlegonatasha7707
      @katlegonatasha7707 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@IreneTsoeu sorry 😂

  • @ninahmbatha1890
    @ninahmbatha1890 9 месяцев назад +12

    You were never his girlfriend but his side chick 💔💔💔

  • @nosiphimalaza1974
    @nosiphimalaza1974 9 месяцев назад +5

    I'm still wondering how can a man will convince you,to give him or render him money in the name of lov!

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 9 месяцев назад +21

    Guys why do we do this to each other as Africans

    • @BuhlePeter-ws4tt
      @BuhlePeter-ws4tt 9 месяцев назад +4

      U can ask dat again hei,de way naigerians are hurting ppl all over de world i wonder if dey really know God or dey just pretend to

    • @annabelkeisha1157
      @annabelkeisha1157 9 месяцев назад

      @@BuhlePeter-ws4tt you africans are naturally evil,it in your dna

    • @keneilwemodikwe-md1bw
      @keneilwemodikwe-md1bw 9 месяцев назад +4

      Ask Nigerian men

    • @gracegeorge7285
      @gracegeorge7285 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@keneilwemodikwe-md1bwWao! You are really addicted to Nigerian men despite all your bias, ask yourself why.

    • @keneilwemodikwe-md1bw
      @keneilwemodikwe-md1bw 9 месяцев назад +2

      Nigerian man did that to my friend that's why I'm addicted

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 9 месяцев назад +10

    Bathong, Owamie were are you getting these beautiful ladies that look like Dudu Tsobane from Joyous Celebration 😂

    • @phiwam6713
      @phiwam6713 9 месяцев назад

      Elvis mara😂😂😂,

  • @gugumazibuko6275
    @gugumazibuko6275 9 месяцев назад +2

    Red flags beautiful women please!!! Listen to your gut. It never lied. I like her personality. She is smiling looking beatuful. That's the best thing you can do for the sake of your health.

  • @elvisndlovu1232
    @elvisndlovu1232 9 месяцев назад +19

    What on earth is going on, seriously women are going through hell

  • @goitsimangselolo8019
    @goitsimangselolo8019 9 месяцев назад +7

    At this point i dont believe theres true love we just helping eachother out 😅

  • @sisonkepossi
    @sisonkepossi 9 месяцев назад +7

    I always ask myself why do their women take long (or never) give birth? All these tears from people who create their foundations 💔 some tears don't go unnoticed

    • @Tatianarain
      @Tatianarain 9 месяцев назад

      What are u on about hon? 😂😂 not defending them but choosing to be out of secondary school and being of age before giving birth is not “taking long”. Nigerian women are actually very fertile, that’s why we are the most black populated nation in the worlds. Not everyone wants to be a teenage mom.

    • @sisonkepossi
      @sisonkepossi 9 месяцев назад +2

      @Tatianarain I don't know what you on about really 🤔 and if you listen to the story and reread my comment you'll understand this is not about Nigerian women being infertile but what most of these men do abroad to be rich and go back to innocent women back home to ask for marriage while they are carrying all these curses. Read to understand ok. Bye

  • @kenaopematlhare7992
    @kenaopematlhare7992 9 месяцев назад +3

    that is why nigerian movies/stories are like this,they experience this in their lives

  • @ermitamartel
    @ermitamartel 9 месяцев назад +6

    all nigerians always have a nigerian wife already chosen for him from a young age

  • @ktricia6927
    @ktricia6927 9 месяцев назад +11

    I always ask for money on talking stage I save myself from lot of things honestly.

    • @shelateffo
      @shelateffo 9 месяцев назад

      This was my strategy 😂🫠 a person was once in the trenches 🫠🫣

    • @ktricia6927
      @ktricia6927 9 месяцев назад +3

      @@shelateffo Doll it works the dustys always run and I don't get the bare minimum wen I date

    • @MahlatsiAP
      @MahlatsiAP 9 месяцев назад +2

      So some actually give? Asking for a friend 😂

    • @ktricia6927
      @ktricia6927 9 месяцев назад

      @@MahlatsiAP yes doll

    • @nomcebomakhos
      @nomcebomakhos 8 месяцев назад +1

      Let me do that ,so that they can run yeses 😅

  • @TheeMsutu
    @TheeMsutu 9 месяцев назад +9

    Eish Owamie I’m taking what you said and I’m running with it…”when you find love while you’re still young you don’t find yourself, it’s not even a matter of you lose yourself, you just don’t get to discover yourself and you only realize when you’re out that DAMN! So date for fun” oryt Ninja, heard you loud n clear. Let me focus on myself in the meantime 🙏🏾I mean I’m only 21, just only entered the 20s
    This podcast ❤️👏🏾love it

    • @sbonzama7013
      @sbonzama7013 9 месяцев назад

      While dating for fun you will have babies for all these baby daddies and STIs. Ok nice

    • @boldlyowamie
      @boldlyowamie  9 месяцев назад

      🫂🫂

  • @welilefakudze7121
    @welilefakudze7121 9 месяцев назад +4

    Please ask the people at the back ground to not make noise, we can hear them too and already your voices have echo cause the room too big