Hi important to note. We are all born losers here Marni. You have found a group of losers willing to pay you for some coaching but we are still losers with not girlfriend. I have 0% success rate just like my colleagues like Harikejn. We will pretend to have success with girls but in reality we don't. It was my birthday yesterday and I was alone without a girlfriend.
Add number 11. My Dad taught me as teenager when you start dating...Always satisfy the woman first. She will give you more in return than you can imagine.. I have used that through out my life and has been some of the best advice ever.
Important things: 1:22 First Thing - A Steady Buildup; 2:17 Second Thing - Lock Eyes; 2:58 Third Thing - Show Excitement; 4:29 Fourth Thing - Play A Little Rough; 5:16 Fifth Thing - Go Downtown; 5:56 Sixth thing - Notice Her Reaction; 6:38 Seventh Thing - Experiment With Kinks; 7:23 Eight Thing - Make Her Pleasure A Priority; 8:32 Ninth Thing - Kissing, And Cuddling After Sex; 9:03 Tenth Thing - Change It Up; 10:05 Eleventh Thing - Asking And Listening What Is Thrilling Our Partner (before doing any of these mentioned things); and 10:18 To summarize all the told here.
Wanting to understand the fine details must be the first step. Learning all that from your partner can follow if cultural barriers are overcome. Honesty is king, as always.
Can confirm. My first long term relationship, post-divorce, was with a woman who did all these things with me. I know it sounds cringey to say it like this but the sex was therapeutic for the time we spent together. If a man finds a woman who is as communicative as Marni describes here, gentlemen study up if you don't know these things already. The benefit is good for both.
Yeah rite! Look at her face. Does she have the kind of face that anyone would say to her, you look happy! You must have just had sex!! You can't so that means her man does not know how to do the things she says you should do. And that is bc she has no knowledge of her sexuality. This I what is missing from men and women. But did you know that the 'readiness' is based upon foreplay until you satisfy the foreplay barrier? It takes 30 mins but most if any reach it after 3 decades with the same person. I discovered the secret to it. I learned how that when your woman walks up to you in your own spaces that she is wet! This is what the goal of foreplay is. If you place foreplay then she will approach you wet which means she is ready. What it does is prepare her faster for climaxing so she can orgasm. So its foreplay, climax, orgasm. If it takes time to get there, (O) and it is based partly on foreplay. Then it stands to reason if she is wet she is ready to climax. That means if cut foreplay time out then she is closer to climaxing. (stage) The problem is men don't satisfy her in foreplay. He will not satisfy her in foreplay, Penetrate her too soon, too fast and too deeply, which bypasses everything bt a climax. She has to climax at least 3 times before she can orgasm once. But Narni is clueless. Ppl these days are preying upon the ignorance of each other for entertainment. that is all she is saying, entertainment. She has never experienced the height of her sexuality by saying what she is saying. very few have.
I’m really glad to hear that one of the points you mentioned about women like for their man to go downtown on them, because I myself, love it so much that I feel guilty that it completely turns me on doing that for her.
Thank you Marni, this was a great investment ... Thank you again and wow I didn't realise that I was such an intuitive lover laready and you just boost my confidence levels
A woman once asked me to go down on her, and the way she asked was absolutely heartbreaking. She was clearly used to partners saying no. And she BARELY asked. It got me thinking how many women don't even bother to do that anymore because of having been turned down. Guys, you have NO idea how low that bar can be, sometimes. It means a lot to them, ESPECIALLY if you're reciprocating something she did for you.
Going down on a woman is something that comes naturally depending on how sexually attractive she is. It depends on the level of passion or just how turned on a man is... Likewise a woman would give head without even being asked to if she is really crazy about her sexual partner.
@S500 Prometheus the only reason I don't always do it automatically is because I do have a few female friends that told me it doesn't do anything for them and they actually find it feels kinda gross, the sensation if a tongue down there. I'm more likely to do it automatically if sex is happening, but in the story I just mentioned it was a strictly oral situation
I never had to ask, and no woman ever asked for it - I just do it. Never had a complaint, but they often lose control. Some women are embarrassed about their privates being too visible. One gf resisted even though I had done it before. She clamped her legs together and squealed in protest. As soon as my tongue made contact with her pubic region, she went totally limp and started moaning. Then I gingerly parted her legs and went to work.
"Locking eyes" is expertly represented in the Avatar movies (e.g., way of water) in the expression "I see you!" which, of course, is rife with meaning and significance. Deep, interpersonal relationships are an end in themselves.
Also I’ve been with a woman or two that had my same mindset. Were lovely interactions! I was once with a woman who gave me shivers. She said I’ll get you up no matter what,& if you finish too quickly I’ll get you right back up. She did & did & did. One of the most glorious times of my short life!
It’s so weird how you see tens to hundreds of videos of someone via the internet… which gives you the feeling of being close to someone. I guess what I am saying is thank you for being such a good indirect friend. I bet you would be a great person to chat with whatever the topic would be. I am a happy customer and avid reader of your material and wanted to thank you for your great content through all those years.
I’m Italian all of this comes naturally to me. Oral? My favorite thing to do to a woman. The first time with my wife she said, “whoever taught you to do that, thank her for me”
I don't know if you read comments but I think a lot of the guys would appreciate if you interviewed a few hypersexual women not necessarily nymphomaniacs but you know ...really up there, we want to know what makes them tick
"Lock eyes" is hard because most women keep their eyes closed during sex, know why, they can not stand seeing a man enjoying themselves. Not true, my wife and I still lock eyes during sex and it is the silent way to say "I love you so much" without saying a word, been working for 20 years.
I’m interested in this joint mode. I just have one question and concern about the quality of the product and that is can you assure to me that none of the intended effects or results of this will be in the product itself is a big concern I have and why I stick with federally regulated productsbecause the feds are total professionals
Reference going down. Many women at least pre 1990's (70's, 80') were either embarrassed, had been taught it was wrong, or assumed a man didn't want to. As a result, they would say no and discourage it. To go down, a guy almost needed "to be rough" and take control. At which point she would feel free to enjoy it. I hope young women communicate better now.
I have been married for going on 47 years, and I learned SO much from her! I had a bold and honest conversation with my wife immediately afterwards. Wow! She admitted to almost everything Marnie discussed, and the result was incredibly astounding!!
My recent ex. We both had wonderful love making, she overly expressed it alot. And recently she left me over something so small and this hot cold happened all the time but our love making was one thing she would always focus on. Once gone she even told me my love is demonic etc etc. Ughhhh
Very interesting video. From my experience, I observed that women in general are reluctant in general when it comes about receiving pleasure. All you can do is having patience and reassure her that is your pleasure to do that for her. Be open and discuss this together. If you make your woman happy first, maybe, after that she will want to do the same thing for you and you'll have an amazing experience together. Marni, looking forward for other interesting videos like this!
A lot of women also love to role play to act out their wildest desires with their guy and vice versa. It keeps the flame going and prevents infidelity.
Nice paragraph of tips which you turned in to Ten Things That... just like a proper journalist. Clickbait title but a girl gotta do what a girl gotta do. I like this and I saved it.
I can only judge by my exs’ facial expressions and inability to stay quiet, but I learned most of what’s list long ago. Unfortunately, haven’t put it into practice in over a decade. Think it’s pretty clear what women are actually attracted to; an emotionally available man who cares about her pleasure doesn’t really seem to be high up on that list of theirs, if at all. I actually miss making a woman happy almost as much as I miss the sex and intimacy itself; but modern women prefer being used by strangers off tinder, rather than being treated well by a partner now🤷🏻
I’m not so sure about that conclusion. I wish you to find someone who wants a relationship instead of the superfluous and insipid cut off sexuality… some people compartamenalize out out fear, or past hurts or insecurities that sometimes they miss out of the best of being with someone… as such men as well as women need to learn vulnerability and self-awareness.
You gotta read the whole article. It's mainly saying that people are getting married later so less sex is happening on a regular basis. AND people are living at home longer. It's not as salacious as the "title" sells it
I've done almost everything that you've mentioned in this video. At times even more with the exception of some aggression. Did the looking in the eyes, soft kisses, kissing all over, a soft (and sometimes teasing) touch over various areas of the body and even full body massages with massage oils and candles. VERY little of that was ever appreciated. I haven't given up hope though. I believe there are women out there who do want that and appreciate that
After watching this, i just realised I'm an alrounder, and I've been undervaluing myself. We are so different it is ridiculous; women apparently have a 10 point start ignition sequence to run through, men run on idle 24/7.
Most of these men should know .. shame if not .. this may fall in the kinky category and goes against the others I heard many women say (wife included) that they want to be "man handled 50% of the time" the romance stuff is nice and generally doesn't need full "sex" but assuming she's "ready" ... then just really "pound away in a few dominating positions and "force" her to do stuff", most men find this hard to do with their wife because it really can be rough and raw .. which I guess explains why some women have a "bad boy" on the side
I was never really taught anything. I learned by failure as i was used by woman who wanted treated me like crap as i was too nice. Honestely? I dont know how to reaĺly talj to woman nor how to aproach them the right way. After my ex. I felt depressed and didnt think i would ever be able to have love or even deserve love
Hey Marni, just matched with a girl on Hinge 3 days back. Had fun flirty banter back and forth. I asked her IG so that I could divert the convos over there and later on to call to setup our date but she ghosted me. So I gave her "Dear diary, cute girl vanished should I send a search party?" But still no reply. Should I move on or is there a way to re-ignite the convo?
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Hi important to note. We are all born losers here Marni. You have found a group of losers willing to pay you for some coaching but we are still losers with not girlfriend. I have 0% success rate just like my colleagues like Harikejn. We will pretend to have success with girls but in reality we don't. It was my birthday yesterday and I was alone without a girlfriend.
And some women are just craving a good spanking 😈😂
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Breaking news…women actually know what they want for once. Lol
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Add number 11. My Dad taught me as teenager when you start dating...Always satisfy the woman first. She will give you more in return than you can imagine.. I have used that through out my life and has been some of the best advice ever.
She literally said that it's number 8 lol
Can confirm that is true! I've always tried to do the same!
Tell an erotic story to the point down right nasty porn scenario
d@@meghanlong3494aggree
I have done 3 ways several times. The best way to satisfy both women first..
Important things: 1:22 First Thing - A Steady Buildup; 2:17 Second Thing - Lock Eyes; 2:58 Third Thing - Show Excitement; 4:29 Fourth Thing - Play A Little Rough; 5:16 Fifth Thing - Go Downtown; 5:56 Sixth thing - Notice Her Reaction; 6:38 Seventh Thing - Experiment With Kinks; 7:23 Eight Thing - Make Her Pleasure A Priority; 8:32 Ninth Thing - Kissing, And Cuddling After Sex; 9:03 Tenth Thing - Change It Up; 10:05 Eleventh Thing - Asking And Listening What Is Thrilling Our Partner (before doing any of these mentioned things); and 10:18 To summarize all the told here.
Thank you
@@justincredible3808 You're welcome.
@ricardojaramillo3649 You're welcome.
Haram.
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Wanting to understand the fine details must be the first step.
Learning all that from your partner can follow if cultural barriers are overcome.
Honesty is king, as always.
Can confirm. My first long term relationship, post-divorce, was with a woman who did all these things with me. I know it sounds cringey to say it like this but the sex was therapeutic for the time we spent together. If a man finds a woman who is as communicative as Marni describes here, gentlemen study up if you don't know these things already. The benefit is good for both.
Yeah rite! Look at her face. Does she have the kind of face that anyone would say to her, you look happy! You must have just had sex!! You can't so that means her man does not know how to do the things she says you should do. And that is bc she has no knowledge of her sexuality. This I what is missing from men and women.
But did you know that the 'readiness' is based upon foreplay until you satisfy the foreplay barrier? It takes 30 mins but most if any reach it after 3 decades with the same person. I discovered the secret to it. I learned how that when your woman walks up to you in your own spaces that she is wet! This is what the goal of foreplay is. If you place foreplay then she will approach you wet which means she is ready.
What it does is prepare her faster for climaxing so she can orgasm. So its foreplay, climax, orgasm. If it takes time to get there, (O) and it is based partly on foreplay. Then it stands to reason if she is wet she is ready to climax. That means if cut foreplay time out then she is closer to climaxing. (stage)
The problem is men don't satisfy her in foreplay. He will not satisfy her in foreplay, Penetrate her too soon, too fast and too deeply, which bypasses everything bt a climax. She has to climax at least 3 times before she can orgasm once. But Narni is clueless.
Ppl these days are preying upon the ignorance of each other for entertainment. that is all she is saying, entertainment. She has never experienced the height of her sexuality by saying what she is saying. very few have.
Hello Marni, I am a married woman from Singapore, I found your relationship advice videos useful. 😊
I’m really glad to hear that one of the points you mentioned about women like for their man to go downtown on them, because I myself, love it so much that I feel guilty that it completely turns me on doing that for her.
GUILTY??? Never feel guilty about wanting to provide pleasure for another person. That's amazing
@@marnikinrys I guess “guilty” as in wanting to do that for her SO MUCH and often. Thanks for your shared info.
I've never had a woman ask me to go down town. Sad , it could be a real turn on.
I was asked .....and I turned her down wished I should of tried
@@johnwaynegates4857 Just ask if she wants the 'Express Bus' or the Local/Lick All Service 🐕🦺!
Thank you Marni, this was a great investment ... Thank you again and wow I didn't realise that I was such an intuitive lover laready and you just boost my confidence levels
A woman once asked me to go down on her, and the way she asked was absolutely heartbreaking. She was clearly used to partners saying no. And she BARELY asked. It got me thinking how many women don't even bother to do that anymore because of having been turned down.
Guys, you have NO idea how low that bar can be, sometimes. It means a lot to them, ESPECIALLY if you're reciprocating something she did for you.
Going down on a woman is something that comes naturally depending on how sexually attractive she is. It depends on the level of passion or just how turned on a man is... Likewise a woman would give head without even being asked to if she is really crazy about her sexual partner.
@S500 Prometheus the only reason I don't always do it automatically is because I do have a few female friends that told me it doesn't do anything for them and they actually find it feels kinda gross, the sensation if a tongue down there. I'm more likely to do it automatically if sex is happening, but in the story I just mentioned it was a strictly oral situation
I never had to ask, and no woman ever asked for it - I just do it. Never had a complaint, but they often lose control. Some women are embarrassed about their privates being too visible. One gf resisted even though I had done it before. She clamped her legs together and squealed in protest. As soon as my tongue made contact with her pubic region, she went totally limp and started moaning. Then I gingerly parted her legs and went to work.
That actually brought a tear to my eye. A woman having to ask for that.
@@jarednovelfc
"Locking eyes" is expertly represented in the Avatar movies (e.g., way of water) in the expression "I see you!" which, of course, is rife with meaning and significance. Deep, interpersonal relationships are an end in themselves.
Also I’ve been with a woman or two that had my same mindset. Were lovely interactions! I was once with a woman who gave me shivers. She said I’ll get you up no matter what,& if you finish too quickly I’ll get you right back up. She did & did & did. One of the most glorious times of my short life!
It’s so weird how you see tens to hundreds of videos of someone via the internet… which gives you the feeling of being close to someone. I guess what I am saying is thank you for being such a good indirect friend. I bet you would be a great person to chat with whatever the topic would be. I am a happy customer and avid reader of your material and wanted to thank you for your great content through all those years.
I’m Italian all of this comes naturally to me. Oral? My favorite thing to do to a woman. The first time with my wife she said, “whoever taught you to do that, thank her for me”
What’s the secret?
Simply Amazing!! I always look forward to the next video....
A beautiful upload, thank you Marni
Hey Marni can you do a video on the most common or top 10 kinks/fetishes for women?
When in doubt ask what she wants
Read Nancy Flowers 1973 book on Women's sexual fantasies.
Marni is making our lives a lot easier fellas.
That was a really awesome comment!
I agree
You could say that again.
@@marnikinrys Marni you looks as similar as my chemistry maam. So sexy. ❤
@@marnikinryswat do u think bout pegging
I have never seen a good video like this before, it's award winning advice, thanks
I don't know if you read comments but I think a lot of the guys would appreciate if you interviewed a few hypersexual women not necessarily nymphomaniacs but you know ...really up there, we want to know what makes them tick
Oh yeah- marni has helped me out tremendously- and taught me about women- I love her ❤
"Lock eyes" is hard because most women keep their eyes closed during sex, know why, they can not stand seeing a man enjoying themselves. Not true, my wife and I still lock eyes during sex and it is the silent way to say "I love you so much" without saying a word, been working for 20 years.
Is there a link to your course? How much is it so that me and my brothers can save up. Thanks.
So beautiful. Thanks for the advice.
Great recommendations Beautiful! Sincerely.
Thanks Marni for your help!
Excellent Marni - thanks😊
Awesome as always Marni you have a lots of experience👌Ⓜ💞❤
I’m interested in this joint mode. I just have one question and concern about the quality of the product and that is can you assure to me that none of the intended effects or results of this will be in the product itself is a big concern I have and why I stick with federally regulated productsbecause the feds are total professionals
Reference going down. Many women at least pre 1990's (70's, 80') were either embarrassed, had been taught it was wrong, or assumed a man didn't want to. As a result, they would say no and discourage it. To go down, a guy almost needed "to be rough" and take control. At which point she would feel free to enjoy it. I hope young women communicate better now.
They dont. The post smartphone generation are extremely locked into old gender roles
I wish marni had one on one classes
Your video has helped me understand what I need to do thank you so much! 🌹🌹❤️
I have been married for going on 47 years, and I learned SO much from her! I had a bold and honest conversation with my wife immediately afterwards. Wow! She admitted to almost everything Marnie discussed, and the result was incredibly astounding!!
Yes.. foreplay.. and talking with my lady.. letting her tell me how she wants it.. Thanks
Thanks again for sharing
Well done with this! Very thorough. Appreciate the insight. On point. And will add to the pleasure for both partners.
My recent ex. We both had wonderful love making, she overly expressed it alot. And recently she left me over something so small and this hot cold happened all the time but our love making was one thing she would always focus on. Once gone she even told me my love is demonic etc etc. Ughhhh
It would be extremely hard to get to know someone, or even look at someone else with you as my real life wing girl Marni! 😜🤣 thanks for the tips 😊👍🏽
All you need to do is ask and listen to what she wants!
Thank you for sharing this wisdom! One thing that I really admire about you is that you are not only inspiring, but you sound sooo intelligent.
I wanna say this channel is BadASS! that's what I'm talking about. And I wish U GooD Luck 4 Yor Future & That's Maa heartfelt🤞Thanks...!! ❤️😯👍
Very interesting video. From my experience, I observed that women in general are reluctant in general when it comes about receiving pleasure. All you can do is having patience and reassure her that is your pleasure to do that for her. Be open and discuss this together. If you make your woman happy first, maybe, after that she will want to do the same thing for you and you'll have an amazing experience together. Marni, looking forward for other interesting videos like this!
Thanks for sharing this information Marni have a great day ❤
A lot of women also love to role play to act out their wildest desires with their guy and vice versa. It keeps the flame going and prevents infidelity.
Watching from Ireland
Nice paragraph of tips which you turned in to Ten Things That... just like a proper journalist. Clickbait title but a girl gotta do what a girl gotta do. I like this and I saved it.
Great video, Marni. As always, solid gold. Love you.
Great show 👍👍👍👍👍
I can only judge by my exs’ facial expressions and inability to stay quiet, but I learned most of what’s list long ago. Unfortunately, haven’t put it into practice in over a decade. Think it’s pretty clear what women are actually attracted to; an emotionally available man who cares about her pleasure doesn’t really seem to be high up on that list of theirs, if at all. I actually miss making a woman happy almost as much as I miss the sex and intimacy itself; but modern women prefer being used by strangers off tinder, rather than being treated well by a partner now🤷🏻
I’m not so sure about that conclusion. I wish you to find someone who wants a relationship instead of the superfluous and insipid cut off sexuality… some people compartamenalize out out fear, or past hurts or insecurities that sometimes they miss out of the best of being with someone… as such men as well as women need to learn vulnerability and self-awareness.
Ok then
Ok what isthis I just spoke tow four women 70s and they still active sexually two perfer anul and one of them I introduced it to her
That why I say again anul ok
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Hi, Marni.
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Thank you.
#8 ! Repeat that one LOUDLY !
@marni where can you purchase @joymode in Australia?
Very true
Thanks for your info, you're such a sweetie!
I heard a post . That men and women are in a sexless recession. People are not doing it anymore.
You gotta read the whole article. It's mainly saying that people are getting married later so less sex is happening on a regular basis. AND people are living at home longer. It's not as salacious as the "title" sells it
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Good advice❤😂hugs thanks todd
Great
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thank you Marni
Thank you for the video and nice to hear that I do a lot of these things already 😁
Something new again Tanks
Is it still advisable to do it in a hotel room with high tech cameras available nowadays?
Please spill some more, it works!
I've done almost everything that you've mentioned in this video. At times even more with the exception of some aggression. Did the looking in the eyes, soft kisses, kissing all over, a soft (and sometimes teasing) touch over various areas of the body and even full body massages with massage oils and candles.
VERY little of that was ever appreciated. I haven't given up hope though. I believe there are women out there who do want that and appreciate that
Thnkeumam
In the end, the Love that you take, is equal to the Love you make. Hear that Girls?
Amazing
You know what no one ever talks about? How difficult it can be sometimes, transitioning from text to phone call?
I envy anyone who experience this stuff! I’m going to my grave never having any experience in this topic!
Nicely done.
thanks, good video
YOU MY DEAR...are a diamond among stones 💖
Amazing tips.
Marni love you love you
you are right but some time man have alot of pressure so he did not Focus
I basically have no idea how im going to accomplish all this in just 2 minutes
😂
Take your time 😊
Hahahahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!! Thats awesome dude
You only get two minutes worth of pleasure.
Why so long??!! 😂😂😂
In women on women who comes first the 1st women or the 2sd woman
Lovely Marni.
Now only to find a wife or girlfriend which to me is the hardest thing to do!
You're always amazing. I loves it. ;)
I watch your videos because you are so pretty.
After watching this, i just realised I'm an alrounder, and I've been undervaluing myself. We are so different it is ridiculous; women apparently have a 10 point start ignition sequence to run through, men run on idle 24/7.
Keep up the good work i wish you best of luck always
Most of these men should know .. shame if not .. this may fall in the kinky category and goes against the others I heard many women say (wife included) that they want to be "man handled 50% of the time" the romance stuff is nice and generally doesn't need full "sex" but assuming she's "ready" ... then just really "pound away in a few dominating positions and "force" her to do stuff", most men find this hard to do with their wife because it really can be rough and raw .. which I guess explains why some women have a "bad boy" on the side
Love it.
I swear Marni is beginning to look younger and her eyes have always made me think of Sarah Michelle Gellar
I like to go downtown however all but one partner has told me I am wasting her time doing it.
I lock eyes and it connects deeply. It's freaked out a few casual flings. lol
😂😂😂good shoulder moves
Does joymode help with pe
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Baby I know these things already but I'll watch it
Marnie, you nailed😊
Love the video. Love the topic/content. Thank you
Why. It means absolutely nothing
To be honest I really like you 🤗♥
I was never really taught anything. I learned by failure as i was used by woman who wanted treated me like crap as i was too nice. Honestely? I dont know how to reaĺly talj to woman nor how to aproach them the right way. After my ex. I felt depressed and didnt think i would ever be able to have love or even deserve love
No doubt about you Marni your not shy
Hey Marni, just matched with a girl on Hinge 3 days back. Had fun flirty banter back and forth. I asked her IG so that I could divert the convos over there and later on to call to setup our date but she ghosted me. So I gave her "Dear diary, cute girl vanished should I send a search party?" But still no reply. Should I move on or is there a way to re-ignite the convo?