@Rocky Boy ya I'm not happy about it either, I'd really do anything to back and erase it. Alas people make mistakes and I was still a learning Muslim. I had alot of growing to do, still have . But alhamdulillah, I've grown alot more closer to our Deen and I'll keep trying in Sha Allah
Being single is very difficult nowadays, the social media is crazy out there. I just pray Allah to give me a pious wife, i am 24 and sick of these temptation. muslim communities should make the marriages easy wallahi. May Allah guide us all and give us sabr.
I do recommend getting off social media. It has been found to be a link to depression in young people and girls harm themselves because of it. Insha Allah Allah will reward you with a pious partner. Please and I will say this but never get into a illegitimate relationship as likely it won't work out and you don't want to go through heartbreak. I'm saying this through experience. Shaytan starts to put doubts and false ideas in your head about it and it really doesn't help
Don't worry brother.Keep patience and soon Inshallah you will find yourself with a beautiful pious wife.Just don't lose hope.Just remind yourself you are asking to the one who created the entire existence
Almost 80% of my friends had girlfriends before or have now. But Alhamdulillah I never had. Allah protected me from this. May Allah make our eyes wide awake.
@@JohnDoe-yw6cn A brother who calls another brother "ugly" is nothing but a beta male in my eyes. A low self-esteem, narcissistic, no-confidence guy. You're weak for calling him ugly, I'm sure you're like that in real life too. :)
Man, this perfectly describes my situation right now. I am a student in a boarding school in Malaysia. I'm a 16 year old boy. There's this girl that every once in a while (not often but it's noticeable) comes at me to ask questions related to education. You know, subject related questions. Not personal questions. Thing is, she decides to ask these questions to me, and only me. Alhamdulillah, Allah has gifted me with the ability to be able to understand what the teacher teach in class really easily. However, in my class, there are students even better than me. So it makes me think, why me? I thought to myself, 'There's other students in my class that are better than me, and most of them are girls. It would undoubtedly be better if she asked these questions at them (my girl classmates that are better than me) rather than me because well, they're better than me, they can explain things better than I do and most of all, they're of the same gender, so I can keep my distance and insyaallah, avoid zina.' Once, she asked me these questions, again, and I told her about what I think. I told her it's better if she just asked her girl classmates rather than me. However, she insisted that she only wants to ask me. Now here is where things escalate. One day, she's at it again. Asking me questions. However, this time, my girl classmates shipped me with her. Like, they made a joke that both me and the girl are in love with each other. I denied it, of course, but to my surprise, the girl didn't. I said things like 'No, we aren't in love' etc. But she just stood there, not denying what her classmates were saying. This is where I got the idea that she likes me. Thing is, I also like her, but I choose to keep this halal and I will approach her dad and talk about my feelings for her when the time is right. But the time is, 100%, not now. Now's the time to learn, not to love. I have been trying my best to contain my feelings for her. Alhamdulillah, so far, it's still under control. I haven't started a haram relationship with her yet. I hope to keep it that way. I hope this goes the same to all others too. Stay strong and remember, this world is only a pitstop, where the real destination is Heaven, our homeland.
May Allah bless you brother. I would definitely advise you not to ever let yourself be alone with her. In fact, actively try to avoid her. And remember Allah. She really shouldn't keep coming to you. You might want to consider getting a part time job to gain maturity and money, to get yourself ready one day in the future. May Allah grant us all jannah
i broke up with my girlfriend 7 years ago and i was heartbroken and sworn not to have a girlfriend for years and after 2 years i was thinking that I should find a girlfriend, but alhamdullilah after not having a girlfriend for 2 years I was thinking to myself that theres nothing wrong with it. I can live without it, and after 7 years (im 26 years old now) and I can say ive matured a lot, I think more on responsibilities more and If i were to marry i want to find a good pious women, inshaallah. I thank Allah for breaking me with my girlfriend 7 years ago and save me from adulteries tilll now. Pray for me brothers and sisters so that I get married fast and with a good women. haha
MaShallah! Bro , Big Respect for you it really takes some guts to have that patience and really good thinking and self control to reach for what you have reached with your mind and the experience you had , may allah bless you and guide you and us to the straight path and give you a Great Wife that will take care of you and live a peaceful happy life with her , for me as Well! hehe :D ... Ameen! Al Salamo Alikom!
I have'nt seen her but i love her , i have'nt heard her but i am waiting for her , i dont care if she is buetifull or not , i dont care if she is rich or poor , i lower my gaze even if the girls are attractive to me becuase i know that she only deserves my sight , she only deserves my love because she is the other half allah has made for me , the love of my heart, the love of my life , the love of my eternal after life , my unknown future spouse that allah has created for me ... They may say that we muslims doesnt know the meaning of true love , but we muslims are filling our clouds of love for all these years so that we can rain her with love after the nikah ,THE TRUE LOVE May allah provide all of our muslim singles (including me) a worthy pious wife/hus ... Ameen
I respect you however how can I meet a good man if my family is not muslim and you guys never look or open the door to meet.... so how can I find a muslim man as a revert?
@@katalenaanastasia You can contact some Islam groups that do nikah sister. May Allah reward your deen for there are none better than those who return to Allah.
@@katalenaanastasia sister, as far as I am concerned, converts are more preferable than born Muslims bcz they truely know the taste of Iman. I think you can inform nearby mosque because your marriage is their 'DUTY' and I will pray to Allah that you would get the best of the best.
My last breakup was 2 years ago, and until now I don't have any close relationship with any men. The great thing about being single is I have lots of time to develop myself, spend time with families and good friends, and of course get close to Allah. I don't think I can love Allah this much if I'm still in a relationship with my boyfriend. But what disappoints me is I'm living in a society where having a boyfriend/girlfriend is winning. A single man/woman is being treated as a loser. It's a "sin" if I spend Saturday night alone or go anywhere alone. People look down on me because of that. I hate it because I don't want this to ruin my iman. I don't want this to affect me and make me fall into relationship that Allah forbids.
I really really appreciate your taqwa sister. Remember, this is supposed to be that hard. There is a reason the Prophet (SAWW) called the "War Against Your Self" as "Jihad-e-Akbar" (The Best Jihad). Because this war is harder than the one in the battlefield. Get married to a righteous man. If that is not possible currently, make du'a for that and keep your eyes fixed on the Akhirat. May Allah guide and protect us. Ameen.
@@nirpari7220 Extremist?! I can't tell what is the relation of this word to that situation but Do I care or something? anyways.. Look for you your thoughts your behavior you interests your manners your bad words every thing you have is very common so it's so so easy to find someone like you.. For me it's different your taste of women is not like mine what attracts you what you like what you concentrate In the point is a couple married in the name of Allah are perfectly a happy couple forever how can't they???! I wish that Allah will get me with someone like me one day it can only be done this only can happen by one common thing we argue in we forgive eachother for we love eachother for.. It's the religion it's the God .. So I won't marry a bad woman from your thoughts and say omg this is the best choice from Allah no that's my choice even if I married a Muslim by name that's also my choice it's all about your choice and how close it is to your interests or for me as I said to the manners the principals and so on
I fell in love a year ago, but never been in a relationship. It was just my heart that yearned for him. We talked few times only, but my feelings were rooted . I prayed for allah to help and guide me. Although it still hurts I learned long ago to hide my feelings and now and then I pray for him. May Allah guide us all insha'Allah.
@@miashobbies4739 I think praying for that person is not right because if that person os not be meant your destiny it will shatter you more so just pray to Allah swt that if that person is good for me and my eternal life , make that person mine but if not them remove all the affection from my heart regarding that person and gave me the strength and courage to deal and accept it ....
Allah Chose our parents for us and I know what you mean. You just wish that your family was pious, but Allah talks about this in the Quran. "Indeed, [O Muhammad], you do not guide whom you like, but Allah guides whom He wills. And He is most knowing of the [rightly] guided." -Quran 28:56
my 1st language is Arabic and I really love when you explain and translate the Ayat to English , you make it so simple and understandable May Allah Bless You
No, it depends on you, I'm from Bangladesh and my 1st language is Bangla and then English, but I have intense intention to learn Arabic oneday, just because understanding the beauty of Quran more explicitly, and I love Arabic because it's my prophet (sm)'s language. And you are talking about English is more clear form..? lol, English is just to using to convey the message who don't know the Arabic, but it's a polluted form as well, because we are missing the miraculous Grammar in the holy Quran.
When I had my previous Instagram account. I used to text guys a lot. I never dated anyone or had a boyfriend but my guilty actions were texting and chit chatting, but later I swore to never do it again and Alhamdulillah it's been months and I had never felt better and happier and to my SISTERS who think that chit chatting in social media will bring you a husband. You are in a BIG delusion. May Allah forgive our sins and grant us Jannah Al firdous.
How will we be able to find a spouse than, waiting and making dua does not help. It Makes it easier inshaAllah.... I am 26 now, and still no clue how to Chat OR communicated with the opposite sex, just because I "ignored" them my whole life believing this is shaytan trying to seduce me. There is something wrong in our culture/world. Doors to marriage are hard to Reach Doors to haram is a second away from your smartphone estakhfirullah!!!. May Allah Guide us all and Make US among those who are patientet, make us strong in our Character and make us fast (mondays and thursdsys) to kill any urge. But in the Same time this urge makes a man wanna go out and Find a wife OR a life companion. I dont get it at all. There is no solutions for this problem but I am convinced in these times, surely, Allah wants to test us, as we are reaching higher levels or progressing in life. I am willig to stay single my whole life, if thats the point. Sometimes I ask myself questioons like : "why did Allah Made our biology like this, where is the Limit of patience, or is ther any ? why is it so hard getting to know someone, ...etc about myself: I just would like to marry a believing person, which complets my deen and gets me closer to ALLAH. I believe that, Love will grow then time passes, instead of love being in the peek at the beginning of a relationship and than decaying slowly. Questions like these might be interesting for the the youth outthere (inclusve me)....there should be definitely more practical ways for muslims to get to know each other....am I the only one thinking this way ? I hope not :) ...to finish I would like to add these lines: "we may not understand everything but "gratitude" is one of the most powerful emotions (some compare it to the emotion of LOVE in general), why am I telling you this, because of the simple fact that this simple gratitude "thing" is the reason for our never ending patience, jasakallah khair to everyone reading this, may allahn guide us all, indeed those you seek refuge in Allah will be guided
@Tarik Mehmed I understand your frustration but don't lose hope in Allah SWT. Keep making Duaa and do not think for one second that Allah does not hear you, he does. He knows your intention and in the right time Allah will grant you your wish. I know the doors for haram are easy to reach. May Allah keep you away from them and grant you righteous spouse and don't lose hope and don't forget the power of the duaa.
I am 22 & in those years I haven't engage myself into this gf/bf thing ever, Alhamdulillah. It's not like that I was not tempted by this idea but in the end, I restrain myself from envolving in this loopwhole. All praises to Allah who gives me the mental strength to do so. Now-a-days this relationship thing is becoming normal day by day which should not be, so thank you for your valuable advice, it'll be a reminder for my future & keep spreading peace.
Haraam relationships are reason of great sadness and trial sister, as a 26 year old guy I have been in these situations before. Allah (s.w.t) has protected you greatly, may you stay steadfast.
I want to get married by end of next year, I'm only 21 now and I have found someone who is serious about me and marrying me. We are both students but want to get married to please Allah and earn peace and contentment of the heart InshaAllah. Make dua for us that Allah grant us the strength to work through it InshaAllah
Assalamu alaikum....When we make dua, we should not use Inn Sha Allah...Inn Sha Allah need to be said for d works "we"decided or wished to do....cz if Allah does not will we must be stopped to do dt through any of d means by Allah....! Bt Allah,The Master of the Worlds is able to do anything...💙 So " O Allah grant me d strength to work through it if it is better for me" N "O Allah forgive me" May Allah make it easy for all of us💙
Who is greater, Allah or your parents? If their requests are wholly unreasonable (clearly preventing you from marriage, i.e. the halaal, and turning you towards the haraam), or altogether un-Islamic in the first instance (e.g. you are Muslim but your parents are Hindu and they want you only to marry another Hindu), then in these very rare instances you disobey your parents _in favour of_ obeying Allah. Just remember that disobeying your parents is a very serious matter. Seek advice and permission in person from someone authorised to do so (e.g. your local 'alim/imam/sheikh). Don't only listen to 'a brother on RUclips'. May Allah make it easy for you, ameen.
@@xanime9010 there is only one way for a Halal relationship that is getting married to a pious women/man. Did you know there is also Halal dating? You can go out on a date with the significant other to get to know them better before getting married, to see if you're in sync with them or not. Now the first rule of Halal dating is that some elder family member preferably the father from each family be present. So it's not just a one on one dating play. And other rules such as discussion, space between each other etc you can find in various videos on RUclips. Just search Halal dating and you'll find a few. Good Luck. InshaAllah may you find whatever you're looking for if it's the best for you.
i watched this video three years ago while i was in a haram relationship and prayed i can get the courage to break it off and alhumduallah i finally did last year. i kept this video in my mind for a long time
MashaAllah, I haven't had any boyfriend since birth. And I guess that's something to be proud of, anyway I find all ur speech and stuff so comforting and helpful, indeed ur making a great difference to once life esp. to the youth nowadays.
...don't say i m strong and i can handle......gentlemen Hazrat Yusuf a.s. was much...much stronger than we all yet he ran to the door.....amazing....may Allah help us take heed, aameen!
This story of Yousuf (peace be upon him) helped me to overcome my haram relationship and thanks to Nouman Ali Khan for the excellent explanation. All praise is due to Allah 👌
Alhamdulillah alhamdulillah alhamdulillah Allah has protected me from social media alhamdulillah Allah has always protected me from the GF bf culture alhamdulillah after watching this video I realized how big trouble Allah has protected me from alhamdulillah shukran allah
May Allah give me a future husband can guide me more better.. Aamiin. InshaAllah.. Just follow Allah for better life. He never leave us . Allah Ya Kareem
It could not have been explained better. The best response to an indecent situation as described is 'no response'. How beautifully explained in the Quran and how well explained by brother Nouman! Jzk
I was in a long distance relationship..we were so much close and was best friend before... Then suddenly we broke up and it was from her side bcz of a family issue.. I am born muslim but didn't have much knowledge about islam.. And i used to think it's not that much haram or something to be in a relationship.. Actually i didn't even prayed except jum'aa... But when she left me i started praying and supplicating to Allah that to give her back to me(ASAP as a gf)...bcz i missed her a lot and truly loved... Than i suddenly found some videos on islam.. I started learning a lot than before.. And understood Rltnship is haram.. But i was still praying to Allah to give her back if as a friend..but i decided if she come back want relationship i will try to make it halal through marriage and if she want friendship(as she asked at the time of brkup to be a frnd) i'll give it bcz i thought it's may be not that much sin to be friend.. after 2 month suddenly she came back and wanted friendship so i give it her as decided.. But by the time passed i get to knw that even talking to girl without reason is also prohibited.. So i decided to leave her.. And i did few days back...and i stopped talking to other girls... But some days after i again started to miss her and i'm feeling like i still love her.. I knw it sounds dumb...like I want her in halal way by marriage but it's not possible... I'm so much broken now...can't even concentrate in my prayers. So will someone suggest me what to do in that situation.. I don't want to continue any kind of haram things...I just want to be a religious person... Pray for me that Allah may give me proper hidayah.. Keep me in the right path... And plz suggest me how can i overcome that broken situation and can stick to my deen
I used to be a stud but I'm trying to be a good Muslim and the hilarious thing about it is that I just have turned 18 today and I know Allah will help me in this journey. you guys pray for me that may Allah grant me courage. why courage because I'm an orphan and I was trying to find out love in the wrong place but I ended up terribly.
I m 18 year old too , I m attractive and and have a unique personality , bcuz of this i can attract girl's easily ; but i never had a girlfriend , never be in a relationship just stay away from them bcuz of fear of Allah . But now days its tough for me to stay on the right path , need help ....🖤
i just got dumped by someone who i thought Allah sent to me for a life to be spent together. i thought the mutual pure intentions to marry each other were the signs of a relationship bonded by Allah. but i was proven wrong. as soon as i got dumped i started questioning why my relationship didn't work out and all that. in the end i just accepted that i was chasing the person more than i pursued Allah the longer i stayed in the relationship. people would be sad and yes i was sad only for a short period of time then i started to pursue the love of Allah and Alhamdulillah the "pain and sadness" slowly faded away and the key is always acceptance. by being sad and not moving on, you're not accepting the reality bc of the one you made in your head, where you stay w the person forever. throw that mindset away, Allah has saved you from the wrong one. the love of Allah is greater than any form of love you can ever have in this world
Thanks for highlighting these verses of Quran. I didn't paid attention upon the essence of these verses before. Just pass by it. Brother Nouman is Blessed with knowledge we require today.
I am a sophomore and sometimes I feel a bit lonely because nowadays people look at relationships and having a girlfriend as a success or happiness. May Allah guide me to a good relationship one day and get me to be a better place in life.
thank you brother Nouman, i really needed this. May Allah SWT grant you and the people in Quran Weekly a special place in jannah. and may Allah SWT keep us away from doing this sin ameen
I can't believe that there's brothers and sisters out there that don't trust this guy or rate him. Like.. why? What valid reason do you have to not like this guy and believe in his knowledge. Allah subhanahu wa ta ala has blessed this brother with piety, respect and digestible knowledge. May he be rewarded greatly! Ameen. May the blessing, peace and mercy of Allah subhanahu wa ta ala be upon our beloved Prophet Muhammad. Ameen.
"Muslim preacher Nouman Ali Khan first wanted to divorce his wife and mother of 7 children in 2015. Before the divorce was final, he had at least one secret wife, propositioning several other women. After the scandal broke, he claimed to have been divorced, which was only one untruth among many."
Because the sin of having a girlfriend or boyfriend is too strong, I live in a town where you are considered weird if you dont have a partner, plus Im 18 and Im the only one who doesnt have a gf. It makes me crazy because there are some girls i could go out with(even tho Im not that interested in them). It makes me furious to think about not having a gf honestly. I dont drink i dont sin in any major way but Im afraid I have to sin in this situation.
I was in a relationship( never did anything physical) and both sides wanted to make it halal but it broke off and now I'm here regretting giving a namehram my heart and trying to get over the feelings...
YUP! HE'S THE MAN! LOVE THE WAY NOUMAN IS DIRECT AND TELLS HIS AUDIENCE HOW IT IS AND HOW IT SHOULD BE! ...man there's way too many Muslims youths thinking it's totally okay to have bf & gfs ...may Allah guide us all!
Nouman Ali Khan, please suggest me a dua to recite for someone who in a haram relationship. May Allah shower you His mercy and keep you healthy and wise to keep leading us toward becoming practicing Muslims. Jazak'Allah Khayr.
Patience is truly the key word here, I live in Australia and I can say that temptation is everywhere, I’m 24 years old now and I mean everyone is doing it. Nowadays, if you tell people that you’ve never had a Gf/Bf they think somethings wrong with you and that kinda made me depressed, but I’m adamant that I’ll only get married.
I just want to thank you, not just for this video but for all the ones like it that you have made. Each was great and reminded/taught us about things we should be/not be doing. May Allah swt bless you
Alhumdullilla i m 22 nd never had any haram relationship i just believe that pairs are made by allah long time ago so when right time comes will find it automatically
I thought it only me avoid from haram relationship..Actually many people know the reality and fear of Allah swt.. Alhamdulillah,i hope everyone sabr for so long because of Allah..I pray all of u get great reward in shaa Allah..
alhamdulillah.. I have been tru a really tough situation which has left d biggest scar of my life so far.. due to d insult from d dearest one whom u nurtured and fostered for 3 years like ur own kid.. but ultimate result was very terrific which has shattered me completely.. However, I became close to Allah bcoz of that dearest person for which I would always b thankful to her. and indeed grateful to Allah for making me withstand and move on in my life..Nouman videos r like d healing antidote for such circumstances..May Allah bless us all. ..Alhamfulillah
This vedio really helped to overcome my attraction with opposite gender , as being a teenager trying my best to ignore boys I till felt attracted to one and when I realised I was fully messed up. And began thinking about him , wanting his attention etc , but I prayed and cried bcz I was not what I was becoming so I asked Allah to guide me and he indeed did my puting a thought in my mind about this vedio
alhamdullilah i never talked close to strange girls but allah gave me one more extra ability to run away from girls haha but i am upset in my class there r so many boyz who have gf may allah open thier mind to wright path ameen i m in 10 th std allah pls keep the whole world away from sins ameen and inshallah we will score good marks in 10 th pray for everyone
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I had a crush on someone but remembered Allah and have stopped and moved forward with life
Mashallah In my although life I was fetching for a perfect method for cut off my those sins, ultimately ustad you show me a perfect practical task to stand away from these harams, may allah bless you, jazakallah khair
Timeless advice, I seem to keep needing to remind myself of. May Allah grant us all ease in this life and in the hereafter and strength to overcome our temptations. Also if any of you have this problem calling them cute or going up to them or looking at them it is the first step I tell you, don’t do it....Ameen❤️
I'm so upset with my self. I'm in haram relationship and yesterday I leave her for the shake of Allah . But still her memories are hurting me😓 . I just need allah's guidance and I hope I'll be a better muslim .
I am listening to your speech with tears in my eyes. I try to pray five times and keep my utmost faith towards Allah SWT but the problem is I have a girlfriend. I am having this immense problem to leave her. I just can't leave her. I love her and I have given promises to her. I want to make the relationship halal right now right this moment but our parents won't accept it because I'm still doing my graduate and I don't have a job.
Salam 3aleykom brother Hope all is well with u and ur family during ramadan n all is going well, don't forget specially that we are in the month of ramadan and its a very special time! Seek guidance from allah in ur salats n do alot of du3a that he will help u and surely make the right path more clear for u. My muslim adivce to u is to get married to that girlfriend of urs if u both will it and she is mulsim! your parents are not greater than allah even if they might be thinkin of u in a good way, U getting married dont mean u need to buy a house buy a nice car get a pool n all that. Just get married so the relationship is ''HALAL'' and u will find peace in ur heart n just carry on with ur studies normaly and look for a job. That's how simple it is, no need to stress it out or just say oh no icant marry cuz this or that, Marriage means u create an environment of halal instead of living in haram n guilt. Hopefully this helps u think around it abit n I hope u find peace n chooses the right path. Remember if u put ur faith in Allah he will never abandon u or make u walk a blind path. May Allah guide u n help u thru this bro! Amiin
Every human must listen and understand this is of great piece ,., subhanaAllah This is why ollamas are essential for our LIVES May Allah bless u and all of us with emaan and FILLUP our hearts with noor-e-emaan Ameeen ya Rabbi
Youssef had encountered a serious set of temptations !! Beauty of the Queen , wealth , position !! Yet refused !! someone of us will run to , not from such ** treasure ** :( , except those who are being preserved by Allah the Almighty , May Allah keep us clean until we find the Halal , ameen
I once had a girlfriend but she isnt muslim. If I followed everything she wanted, Id probably be a fornicator already. recently she left me because she doesnt like the fact that im a muslim and I am very sad because I really love her very much. And this, here is a good reminder to stay away from such things. Anyway, I do hope she finds the right path and not have to endure hell. Anyone wants free good deeds, please pray for my well being and hers too. Thanks
Brother , you have done the right thing! If you are meant to be together, then be sure Allah swt will open doors you never expected, & if the opposite then Allah knows best. I think the clue in this life is to have complete trust in Allah, may He grant us all this trust.
May Allah give you sabr (patience) through this difficult time. When we love someone or something greater than Allah swt not is it a really huge sin but it also hurts us very deeply. Many of us have gone through something similar so please do not feel alone. You have 2 billion + people in this world who love you without even knowing you and consider you their brother. This is worth more than one person's love. Also remember that Allah loves you too. May Allah always protect you and may He guide her and you to the right path.
Liked the Video just because of how he used "awesome" to describe his character. In todays world where awesome people have one (if not more) "Girls" {and the other way round as wello} its nice to here awesome ness in the sense of his character being "awe-able"
SubhanAllah! you explained it so well ustadh and the seriousness of the tone really makes us ponder that how can we disobey Allah for such silly things!
I once had a Girlfriend, i prayed to allah to make us break up without both of us not hurting up , i prayed soo hard , next day we broke up , may allah always grant our wishes
Can I ask what made you pray for that? Just curious. I used to like a Muslim girl back in secondary school and college. We weren't open about liking each other but since we went to different unis and not seeing each other it has made me depressed. That was 4 years ago. I've noticed the decent Muslim girls don't be open about liking someone and having boyfriends. A cousin of mine was messing around with a girl, heard she was going to his house with his parents not there. Funnily heard he's getting married to her soon. As a Muslim that don't sound good especially the way they were meeting up
@@zaink7037 hello , i was dating her for a long time and i felt like i was doing an haram things , something that my creator doesnt like , i then thought that what is she going to do to me and help me in my life , of course the person that sent me here , allah , i will always obey his rules over hers and i knew that breaking up with her for the sake of my god , the one that created me would be better , of course to me she would be no one after i die , and allah will , so i chose allah over her . And luckily, allah answered my prayers the NEXT DAY , i did not know how but she broke up with me , it hurt to get dumped but it also made me feel better that i chose allah over her . Reply to this if you want to know anything else .
@@daecotyt9846 Brother i just want to know that what kind of relationship you were having with her? like you guys just used to talk or meet nothing else? and why you guys didn't got engaged or had your nikkah done when you used to like her?
@@zuhairzafar1649 i couldn't not even marry her either way and i knew i wasnt going to because i am 14 and she was not even a muslim , even if she was a muslim i didnt want to marry her anyways , we only used to meet and talk , we had never kissed or commited zina . I did not want to break her heart so i asked allah to break me up with her and allah granted my wish . Hope this comment helps you Allah knows best
Subhannallah it is very scary. I dated Once and only Once and it was I who initiated the seperation because I was beginning to loose sight of myself and I was thinking more and more like her. I knew what I was doing was wrong and I knew Allah was watching me and I didn't care anyway... it's very scary. And each time my mind was cleared of lust, all the guilt and shame and my senses everything came back all at once. But Alhamdulillah we did not spend much time together because of distance and things didn't get far, with support from my friends Alhamdulillah I was able to overcome the test and end the relationship. Especially in this day and age, it's a constant struggle for young muslims especially with so much temptation.
Reading these stories and hearing people proudly declare the fact that they are single is extremely empowering. I wish the rest of the world thought as we do, I wish our culture didn't make us face this war with ourselves in the first place. Inshallah Allah makes it easy for all of us. I have recently been admitted to a college where I have to dorm, please make dua that I do not fall into sin. Ameen.
By the grace of Allah I managed to call off the communication with a person whom I actually liked, no more fear of being single, I strongly belive in Allah, n will always try to please him.
ALLAH se rishta toot jaye toh kissey rishta ban jaata hai? , Dua ki qubuliyat ke waqiyat aur deegar islamic videos ke liye aap channel visit kar sakte hain.. jazakALLAH khayr... ❤
"Astagfirullah, that's haram sister, you really should think about what you're saying..." XD That made me laugh, wonderful analysis of this juz, a prevalent reminder for us all indeed
I wish there was a resit button in life, I feel like drowning , alone and feel distant from the most high. Can you guys pray for me as a brother in Islam? Or is it too much to ask?
Dear ... Assalamu alaiykum.... U just need to be patient ... May Allah give u the strength to thrive all these difficulties.... Whatever happens, keep ur faith ON... Insha Allah.. u will be okay. .. just relax... I too had such situations... So i can understnd ur feelings... Insha Allah... Evrythng gonna be okay # Stay safe # stay home # include me in ur prayers
Salaam in life there isnt a reset button, but in Islam there is Alhamdulillah! It's called Taubah. Repentance for your sin and a sincere yearning to not do the sin again, then follow up with good deeds!
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I'm trying to cut off my haram relationship for the sake of Allah... please pray for my strength to face it
May ALLAH give u strength and steadfastness in deen ameen. ..... I advice u just do it for the sake of ALLAH.. And u won't regret.. In sha ALLAH
You can do it!!!
hallumi limna great
@Rocky Boy ya I'm not happy about it either, I'd really do anything to back and erase it. Alas people make mistakes and I was still a learning Muslim. I had alot of growing to do, still have . But alhamdulillah, I've grown alot more closer to our Deen and I'll keep trying in Sha Allah
@@hallumilimna8655 How's it going? you still in the realtionship?
Being single is very difficult nowadays, the social media is crazy out there. I just pray Allah to give me a pious wife, i am 24 and sick of these temptation. muslim communities should make the marriages easy wallahi. May Allah guide us all and give us sabr.
Patience is everything brother!
I do recommend getting off social media. It has been found to be a link to depression in young people and girls harm themselves because of it.
Insha Allah Allah will reward you with a pious partner. Please and I will say this but never get into a illegitimate relationship as likely it won't work out and you don't want to go through heartbreak. I'm saying this through experience. Shaytan starts to put doubts and false ideas in your head about it and it really doesn't help
Ameen sum Ameen
Don't worry brother.Keep patience and soon Inshallah you will find yourself with a beautiful pious wife.Just don't lose hope.Just remind yourself you are asking to the one who created the entire existence
I want the same,please Make dua for me.
Almost 80% of my friends had girlfriends before or have now.
But Alhamdulillah I never had. Allah protected me from this. May Allah make our eyes wide awake.
Mahbub Siyam 😌
You're just ugly brother
@@JohnDoe-yw6cn thats rude😡
John Doe lmaooo 😂😂😂
@@JohnDoe-yw6cn A brother who calls another brother "ugly" is nothing but a beta male in my eyes. A low self-esteem, narcissistic, no-confidence guy. You're weak for calling him ugly, I'm sure you're like that in real life too. :)
Man, this perfectly describes my situation right now. I am a student in a boarding school in Malaysia. I'm a 16 year old boy. There's this girl that every once in a while (not often but it's noticeable) comes at me to ask questions related to education. You know, subject related questions. Not personal questions. Thing is, she decides to ask these questions to me, and only me. Alhamdulillah, Allah has gifted me with the ability to be able to understand what the teacher teach in class really easily. However, in my class, there are students even better than me. So it makes me think, why me? I thought to myself, 'There's other students in my class that are better than me, and most of them are girls. It would undoubtedly be better if she asked these questions at them (my girl classmates that are better than me) rather than me because well, they're better than me, they can explain things better than I do and most of all, they're of the same gender, so I can keep my distance and insyaallah, avoid zina.' Once, she asked me these questions, again, and I told her about what I think. I told her it's better if she just asked her girl classmates rather than me. However, she insisted that she only wants to ask me.
Now here is where things escalate. One day, she's at it again. Asking me questions. However, this time, my girl classmates shipped me with her. Like, they made a joke that both me and the girl are in love with each other. I denied it, of course, but to my surprise, the girl didn't. I said things like 'No, we aren't in love' etc. But she just stood there, not denying what her classmates were saying. This is where I got the idea that she likes me. Thing is, I also like her, but I choose to keep this halal and I will approach her dad and talk about my feelings for her when the time is right. But the time is, 100%, not now. Now's the time to learn, not to love. I have been trying my best to contain my feelings for her. Alhamdulillah, so far, it's still under control. I haven't started a haram relationship with her yet. I hope to keep it that way. I hope this goes the same to all others too. Stay strong and remember, this world is only a pitstop, where the real destination is Heaven, our homeland.
May Allah bless you brother. I would definitely advise you not to ever let yourself be alone with her. In fact, actively try to avoid her. And remember Allah.
She really shouldn't keep coming to you.
You might want to consider getting a part time job to gain maturity and money, to get yourself ready one day in the future. May Allah grant us all jannah
I FR HAVE THE SAME SITUATION
BOY YOURE ONLY 16😭😭😭
best thing I heard:
you're not giving her advice, you're just spending more time with her
i broke up with my girlfriend 7 years ago and i was heartbroken and sworn not to have a girlfriend for years and after 2 years i was thinking that I should find a girlfriend, but alhamdullilah after not having a girlfriend for 2 years I was thinking to myself that theres nothing wrong with it. I can live without it, and after 7 years (im 26 years old now) and I can say ive matured a lot, I think more on responsibilities more and If i were to marry i want to find a good pious women, inshaallah. I thank Allah for breaking me with my girlfriend 7 years ago and save me from adulteries tilll now. Pray for me brothers and sisters so that I get married fast and with a good women. haha
Enjoy your life as you see fit, you only have yourself to blame for your sins
MaShallah! Bro , Big Respect for you it really takes some guts to have that patience and really good thinking and self control to reach for what you have reached with your mind and the experience you had , may allah bless you and guide you and us to the straight path and give you a Great Wife that will take care of you and live a peaceful happy life with her , for me as Well! hehe :D ... Ameen!
Al Salamo Alikom!
You will get a pious wife if you're a pious person.
Peaceful Vibez
Harisa Khan lol? You just randomly tagged me??
I have'nt seen her but i love her , i have'nt heard her but i am waiting for her , i dont care if she is buetifull or not , i dont care if she is rich or poor , i lower my gaze even if the girls are attractive to me becuase i know that she only deserves my sight , she only deserves my love because she is the other half allah has made for me , the love of my heart, the love of my life , the love of my eternal after life , my unknown future spouse that allah has created for me ...
They may say that we muslims doesnt know the meaning of true love , but we muslims are filling our clouds of love for all these years so that we can rain her with love after the nikah ,THE TRUE LOVE
May allah provide all of our muslim singles (including me) a worthy pious wife/hus ... Ameen
I respect you however how can I meet a good man if my family is not muslim and you guys never look or open the door to meet.... so how can I find a muslim man as a revert?
@@katalenaanastasia You can contact some Islam groups that do nikah sister. May Allah reward your deen for there are none better than those who return to Allah.
@@katalenaanastasia sister, as far as I am concerned, converts are more preferable than born Muslims bcz they truely know the taste of Iman.
I think you can inform nearby mosque because your marriage is their 'DUTY' and I will pray to Allah that you would get the best of the best.
Aameen ya Rabb ❤️
Bruh i never smiled so hard. This comment made my day
My last breakup was 2 years ago, and until now I don't have any close relationship with any men. The great thing about being single is I have lots of time to develop myself, spend time with families and good friends, and of course get close to Allah. I don't think I can love Allah this much if I'm still in a relationship with my boyfriend.
But what disappoints me is I'm living in a society where having a boyfriend/girlfriend is winning. A single man/woman is being treated as a loser. It's a "sin" if I spend Saturday night alone or go anywhere alone. People look down on me because of that. I hate it because I don't want this to ruin my iman. I don't want this to affect me and make me fall into relationship that Allah forbids.
I really really appreciate your taqwa sister. Remember, this is supposed to be that hard. There is a reason the Prophet (SAWW) called the "War Against Your Self" as "Jihad-e-Akbar" (The Best Jihad).
Because this war is harder than the one in the battlefield.
Get married to a righteous man. If that is not possible currently, make du'a for that and keep your eyes fixed on the Akhirat.
May Allah guide and protect us. Ameen.
sub han Allah may Allah accept ur deeds sister :)
where do you live ? what society think that ?
You need to chill with different people if they look down on you...
Melati Ekasari why every trauma tragedic person thinks " society looking down on you"
Only the perfect couples are those arranged by Allah.
Joe Macias
Absolutely bullshit
That's why Islam called Extremist
@@nirpari7220 Extremist?! I can't tell what is the relation of this word to that situation but Do I care or something? anyways.. Look for you your thoughts your behavior you interests your manners your bad words every thing you have is very common so it's so so easy to find someone like you.. For me it's different your taste of women is not like mine what attracts you what you like what you concentrate In the point is a couple married in the name of Allah are perfectly a happy couple forever how can't they???! I wish that Allah will get me with someone like me one day it can only be done this only can happen by one common thing we argue in we forgive eachother for we love eachother for.. It's the religion it's the God .. So I won't marry a bad woman from your thoughts and say omg this is the best choice from Allah no that's my choice even if I married a Muslim by name that's also my choice it's all about your choice and how close it is to your interests or for me as I said to the manners the principals and so on
Himalayan Tiger You don’t need to approach Muslims like that.
Himalayan Tiger looks like you’ve been watching too much Bollywood dramas 😂
Get a dose of reality and learn that not everything is true.
Islam isn’t extreme there rules that protect us
We are living in an Ultimately shameless world. May our Creator protect all of us and bestow his peace kindness and mercy upon us.
jawad shah ameen
Ameen
He z very much true
Ameen ❤️
Ameen
I fell in love a year ago, but never been in a relationship. It was just my heart that yearned for him. We talked few times only, but my feelings were rooted . I prayed for allah to help and guide me. Although it still hurts I learned long ago to hide my feelings and now and then I pray for him. May Allah guide us all insha'Allah.
Amiin
If he is in ur destiny pray he will be urs if its good for u )
@@miashobbies4739 I think praying for that person is not right because if that person os not be meant your destiny it will shatter you more so just pray to Allah swt that if that person is good for me and my eternal life , make that person mine but if not them remove all the affection from my heart regarding that person and gave me the strength and courage to deal and accept it ....
Nice sis! Keep praying and when the right time comes ,ALLAH will make him yours !
I would be happy if I got a dad like him
Be grateful that you have a dad at all.
Victor Diaz Well said
Allah Chose our parents for us and I know what you mean. You just wish that your family was pious, but Allah talks about this in the Quran. "Indeed, [O Muhammad], you do not guide whom you like, but Allah guides whom He wills. And He is most knowing of the [rightly] guided." -Quran 28:56
Miss Hanaa Chow why? Are you not born yet?
Lets just take the good and leave the bad ? we all do sins
my 1st language is Arabic and I really love when you explain and translate the Ayat to English , you make it so simple and understandable
May Allah Bless You
ibrahim alishoum
is Arabic harder than english to understand?
Shamimur Rahman Shamim depends on your mindset and attitude
No, it depends on you, I'm from Bangladesh and my 1st language is Bangla and then English, but I have intense intention to learn Arabic oneday, just because understanding the beauty of Quran more explicitly, and I love Arabic because it's my prophet (sm)'s language. And you are talking about English is more clear form..? lol, English is just to using to convey the message who don't know the Arabic, but it's a polluted form as well, because we are missing the miraculous Grammar in the holy Quran.
Same
When I had my previous Instagram account. I used to text guys a lot. I never dated anyone or had a boyfriend but my guilty actions were texting and chit chatting, but later I swore to never do it again and Alhamdulillah it's been months and I had never felt better and happier and to my SISTERS who think that chit chatting in social media will bring you a husband. You are in a BIG delusion. May Allah forgive our sins and grant us Jannah Al firdous.
Masha Allah may Allah be pleased with you and bestow barakah upon you and keep you guided to the straight path of Islam my beloved sister.
How will we be able to find a spouse than, waiting and making dua does not help. It Makes it easier inshaAllah.... I am 26 now, and still no clue how to Chat OR communicated with the opposite sex, just because I "ignored" them my whole life believing this is shaytan trying to seduce me. There is something wrong in our culture/world. Doors to marriage are hard to Reach Doors to haram is a second away from your smartphone estakhfirullah!!!. May Allah Guide us all and Make US among those who are patientet, make us strong in our Character and make us fast (mondays and thursdsys) to kill any urge. But in the Same time this urge makes a man wanna go out and Find a wife OR a life companion. I dont get it at all. There is no solutions for this problem but I am convinced in these times, surely, Allah wants to test us, as we are reaching higher levels or progressing in life. I am willig to stay single my whole life, if thats the point. Sometimes I ask myself questioons like : "why did Allah Made our biology like this, where is the Limit of patience, or is ther any ? why is it so hard getting to know someone, ...etc about myself: I just would like to marry a believing person, which complets my deen and gets me closer to ALLAH. I believe that, Love will grow then time passes, instead of love being in the peek at the beginning of a relationship and than decaying slowly.
Questions like these might be interesting for the the youth outthere (inclusve me)....there should be definitely more practical ways for muslims to get to know each other....am I the only one thinking this way ? I hope not :) ...to finish I would like to add these lines: "we may not understand everything but "gratitude" is one of the most powerful emotions (some compare it to the emotion of LOVE in general), why am I telling you this, because of the simple fact that this simple gratitude "thing" is the reason for our never ending patience, jasakallah khair to everyone reading this, may allahn guide us all, indeed those you seek refuge in Allah will be guided
@Tarik Mehmed I understand your frustration but don't lose hope in Allah SWT. Keep making Duaa and do not think for one second that Allah does not hear you, he does. He knows your intention and in the right time Allah will grant you your wish. I know the doors for haram are easy to reach. May Allah keep you away from them and grant you righteous spouse and don't lose hope and don't forget the power of the duaa.
@@MAE-vi1wb my dear sister. You are not alone. Inshallah I'll pray for you
Thank you for lovely advice sister ,may Allah swt bless you for helping sisters like me
I am 22 & in those years I haven't engage myself into this gf/bf thing ever, Alhamdulillah. It's not like that I was not tempted by this idea but in the end, I restrain myself from envolving in this loopwhole. All praises to Allah who gives me the mental strength to do so. Now-a-days this relationship thing is becoming normal day by day which should not be, so thank you for your valuable advice, it'll be a reminder for my future & keep spreading peace.
Are you frigide ?
Haraam relationships are reason of great sadness and trial sister, as a 26 year old guy I have been in these situations before. Allah (s.w.t) has protected you greatly, may you stay steadfast.
I want to get married by end of next year, I'm only 21 now and I have found someone who is serious about me and marrying me. We are both students but want to get married to please Allah and earn peace and contentment of the heart InshaAllah. Make dua for us that Allah grant us the strength to work through it InshaAllah
Ameen
Assalamu alaikum....When we make dua, we should not use Inn Sha Allah...Inn Sha Allah need to be said for d works "we"decided or wished to do....cz if Allah does not will we must be stopped to do dt through any of d means by Allah....!
Bt Allah,The Master of the Worlds is able to do anything...💙 So
" O Allah grant me d strength to work through it if it is better for me"
N "O Allah forgive me"
May Allah make it easy for all of us💙
How your parent agreed
@@saim2006 I made them listen to mufti menk 🙏
@@wafiya1449 great
Man when he just said, "I hope you man up and turn this into an hallal relationship!", I just had a sigh of relieve! Subhanallah!
But when you want to b in halal relationship but ur parents dont accept.. Wat can we do
Who is greater, Allah or your parents?
If their requests are wholly unreasonable (clearly preventing you from marriage, i.e. the halaal, and turning you towards the haraam), or altogether un-Islamic in the first instance (e.g. you are Muslim but your parents are Hindu and they want you only to marry another Hindu), then in these very rare instances you disobey your parents _in favour of_ obeying Allah.
Just remember that disobeying your parents is a very serious matter. Seek advice and permission in person from someone authorised to do so (e.g. your local 'alim/imam/sheikh). Don't only listen to 'a brother on RUclips'. May Allah make it easy for you, ameen.
Me too. It is the guidance I’ve been seeking.
can someone please tell me what he meant by halal relationship?
@@xanime9010 there is only one way for a Halal relationship that is getting married to a pious women/man. Did you know there is also Halal dating? You can go out on a date with the significant other to get to know them better before getting married, to see if you're in sync with them or not. Now the first rule of Halal dating is that some elder family member preferably the father from each family be present. So it's not just a one on one dating play. And other rules such as discussion, space between each other etc you can find in various videos on RUclips. Just search Halal dating and you'll find a few. Good Luck. InshaAllah may you find whatever you're looking for if it's the best for you.
i watched this video three years ago while i was in a haram relationship and prayed i can get the courage to break it off and alhumduallah i finally did last year. i kept this video in my mind for a long time
Subhan Allah. May Allah have mercy upon you❤
I wish I could press "like"more than once!
U can
I like this very everything is good
THIS SIMPLE EXPLATION BOOSTED ME ENOORMOUSLY mashALLAH, Barakallah alayKum.
MashaAllah, I haven't had any boyfriend since birth. And I guess that's something to be proud of, anyway I find all ur speech and stuff so comforting and helpful, indeed ur making a great difference to once life esp. to the youth nowadays.
Best way is following quran and hadit
protect yourself sister. you're among the rare
don't be proud but grateful
Omg u r really special pray for me allah give enough strength
Be grateful to Allah, because he preventet you.
Ya Allah, i felt like he was personally talking to me -.-
May Allah protect us all from haram relationships, Ameen
...don't say i m strong and i can handle......gentlemen Hazrat Yusuf a.s. was much...much stronger than we all yet he ran to the door.....amazing....may Allah help us take heed, aameen!
This story of Yousuf (peace be upon him) helped me to overcome my haram relationship and thanks to Nouman Ali Khan for the excellent explanation. All praise is due to Allah 👌
The way he can connect something from the Quran with something and make an example out of it is bonkers beautiful!
Although I fell in love with my lover, I left her because it was a sin. I hope it will be good in the future.
Alhamdulillah alhamdulillah alhamdulillah Allah has protected me from social media alhamdulillah Allah has always protected me from the GF bf culture alhamdulillah after watching this video I realized how big trouble Allah has protected me from alhamdulillah shukran allah
Alhamdullilah
everytime im tempted icome here, Alhemdoulillah this person exist. thank you allah.
@Starkos k
Because he teaches us the word of Allah ❤
Allah is with the patient.
May Allah give me a future husband can guide me more better.. Aamiin. InshaAllah.. Just follow Allah for better life. He never leave us . Allah Ya Kareem
His eyes reflect his pure soul ,Noor of salaah subhanallah
It could not have been explained better. The best response to an indecent situation as described is 'no response'. How beautifully explained in the Quran and how well explained by brother Nouman! Jzk
"... If you can not cut it off, that you make it halal ... " at 9:05. Amen, for all my brothers and sisters. May Allah guide us.
I was in a long distance relationship..we were so much close and was best friend before... Then suddenly we broke up and it was from her side bcz of a family issue.. I am born muslim but didn't have much knowledge about islam.. And i used to think it's not that much haram or something to be in a relationship.. Actually i didn't even prayed except jum'aa... But when she left me i started praying and supplicating to Allah that to give her back to me(ASAP as a gf)...bcz i missed her a lot and truly loved... Than i suddenly found some videos on islam.. I started learning a lot than before.. And understood Rltnship is haram.. But i was still praying to Allah to give her back if as a friend..but i decided if she come back want relationship i will try to make it halal through marriage and if she want friendship(as she asked at the time of brkup to be a frnd) i'll give it bcz i thought it's may be not that much sin to be friend.. after 2 month suddenly she came back and wanted friendship so i give it her as decided.. But by the time passed i get to knw that even talking to girl without reason is also prohibited.. So i decided to leave her.. And i did few days back...and i stopped talking to other girls... But some days after i again started to miss her and i'm feeling like i still love her.. I knw it sounds dumb...like I want her in halal way by marriage but it's not possible... I'm so much broken now...can't even concentrate in my prayers. So will someone suggest me what to do in that situation.. I don't want to continue any kind of haram things...I just want to be a religious person... Pray for me that Allah may give me proper hidayah.. Keep me in the right path... And plz suggest me how can i overcome that broken situation and can stick to my deen
@@Sayaam7121 jazakallah brother❤
Ameen!
How are u doing now
What happened then?
Pray❤ fast❤ repent❤ move on❤
May Allah grant us all the highest ranks of jannah Amen 🤲🏽
I used to be a stud but I'm trying to be a good Muslim and the hilarious thing about it is that I just have turned 18 today and I know Allah will help me in this journey. you guys pray for me that may Allah grant me courage. why courage because I'm an orphan and I was trying to find out love in the wrong place but I ended up terribly.
May Allah grant you what you need.
I m 18 year old too , I m attractive and and have a unique personality , bcuz of this i can attract girl's easily ; but i never had a girlfriend , never be in a relationship just stay away from them bcuz of fear of Allah . But now days its tough for me to stay on the right path , need help ....🖤
I really love him he is fab.And he changed my way of thinking about the Quran .May Allah guide us all lots of love from kashmir brother Noman
I really like Nouman Ali Khan ...the way he speaks and the way he tells us all this ...love it! May Allah give him a HIGHHH place in JANNAH!
i just got dumped by someone who i thought Allah sent to me for a life to be spent together. i thought the mutual pure intentions to marry each other were the signs of a relationship bonded by Allah. but i was proven wrong. as soon as i got dumped i started questioning why my relationship didn't work out and all that. in the end i just accepted that i was chasing the person more than i pursued Allah the longer i stayed in the relationship. people would be sad and yes i was sad only for a short period of time then i started to pursue the love of Allah and Alhamdulillah the "pain and sadness" slowly faded away and the key is always acceptance. by being sad and not moving on, you're not accepting the reality bc of the one you made in your head, where you stay w the person forever. throw that mindset away, Allah has saved you from the wrong one. the love of Allah is greater than any form of love you can ever have in this world
May Allah bless You and Keep you safe. How are you now?
How long you were in relationship? Who initiated the break-up and why?
Thanks for highlighting these verses of Quran. I didn't paid attention upon the essence of these verses before. Just pass by it.
Brother Nouman is Blessed with knowledge we require today.
I am a sophomore and sometimes I feel a bit lonely because nowadays people look at relationships and having a girlfriend as a success or happiness. May Allah guide me to a good relationship one day and get me to be a better place in life.
Ameen
Brother your profile pic shows a man wearing a cross necklace. It would be best if you change it. Salam 🙏🏼
ameen
brother Noman Ali khan: Allah swt guided me through your youtube video! Thank you so much, May Allah swt grant you and your family Jannatul Ferdous.
Ameen
He's absolutely right- the problem is that Muslims make it so excruciatingly difficult to get married.
Alex Hill you are absolutely right
Because people give more priority to culture and tradition than religion. That's the main reason, specially in the Indian subcontinent
100%
@@MrSaifkamal you are right. I am 18. But my parents wont let me get marry because of a stupid reason😔
@@MrSaifkamal true! My mother is concerned about my marriage expenses. I'm like get me married in a masjid! That's the best
thank you brother Nouman, i really needed this. May Allah SWT grant you and the people in Quran Weekly a special place in jannah.
and may Allah SWT keep us away from doing this sin
ameen
I can't believe that there's brothers and sisters out there that don't trust this guy or rate him. Like.. why? What valid reason do you have to not like this guy and believe in his knowledge. Allah subhanahu wa ta ala has blessed this brother with piety, respect and digestible knowledge. May he be rewarded greatly! Ameen.
May the blessing, peace and mercy of Allah subhanahu wa ta ala be upon our beloved Prophet Muhammad. Ameen.
"Muslim preacher Nouman Ali Khan first wanted to divorce his wife and mother of 7 children in 2015. Before the divorce was final, he had at least one secret wife, propositioning several other women. After the scandal broke, he claimed to have been divorced, which was only one untruth among many."
ameen. I have met him in person when he's come to our masjid. May allah bless and reward him
Because the sin of having a girlfriend or boyfriend is too strong, I live in a town where you are considered weird if you dont have a partner, plus Im 18 and Im the only one who doesnt have a gf. It makes me crazy because there are some girls i could go out with(even tho Im not that interested in them). It makes me furious to think about not having a gf honestly. I dont drink i dont sin in any major way but Im afraid I have to sin in this situation.
But there is no valid reason
@@Spirifiume Read the Quran dude. May the one and only God guides you 😊
im scared after hearing this. i hope i dont do it again, thank you brother, definitely something i need to hear.
@Desi Free Thinker Yo wtf are you replying to everyone's comments in a bad way. Get out kid. No one cares about you. Your probably a hindu.
@Desi Free Thinker why do you care if he did bad or not? That's between him and god. Mind your own business punk.
@Desi Free Thinker Actually according to your name, it seems that your an atheist. Admit kid.
@Desi Free Thinker Oh. Okay. Then think about bad stuff okay. 👍
U alive??
I was in a relationship( never did anything physical) and both sides wanted to make it halal but it broke off and now I'm here regretting giving a namehram my heart and trying to get over the feelings...
YUP! HE'S THE MAN! LOVE THE WAY NOUMAN IS DIRECT AND TELLS HIS AUDIENCE HOW IT IS AND HOW IT SHOULD BE! ...man there's way too many Muslims youths thinking it's totally okay to have bf & gfs ...may Allah guide us all!
What a priceless finishing. The last few minutes could be no better. 💓 Thank you Nouman Ali Khan for everything you are doing.
7:42 - 8:47
8:49 - 9:14
Nouman Ali Khan, please suggest me a dua to recite for someone who in a haram relationship. May Allah shower you His mercy and keep you healthy and wise to keep leading us toward becoming practicing Muslims. Jazak'Allah Khayr.
Patience is truly the key word here, I live in Australia and I can say that temptation is everywhere, I’m 24 years old now and I mean everyone is doing it. Nowadays, if you tell people that you’ve never had a Gf/Bf they think somethings wrong with you and that kinda made me depressed, but I’m adamant that I’ll only get married.
Amazing advice!! Brother Nouman Ali Khan is a great help for the youth! May Allah grant you the highest spot in Jannat al firdus! JazakAllah!
I just want to thank you, not just for this video but for all the ones like it that you have made. Each was great and reminded/taught us about things we should be/not be doing. May Allah swt bless you
Alhumdullilla i m 22 nd never had any haram relationship i just believe that pairs are made by allah long time ago so when right time comes will find it automatically
Alhamdulillah.
Subhan Allah❤
I thought it only me avoid from haram relationship..Actually many people know the reality and fear of Allah swt.. Alhamdulillah,i hope everyone sabr for so long because of Allah..I pray all of u get great reward in shaa Allah..
جزاك الله خيرا .. و رزقنا الله جميعا العفاف و التقى .. و أغنانا بحلاله عن حرامه 🌸
alhamdulillah.. I have been tru a really tough situation which has left d biggest scar of my life so far.. due to d insult from d dearest one whom u nurtured and fostered for 3 years like ur own kid.. but ultimate result was very terrific which has shattered me completely.. However, I became close to Allah bcoz of that dearest person for which I would always b thankful to her. and indeed grateful to Allah for making me withstand and move on in my life..Nouman videos r like d healing antidote for such circumstances..May Allah bless us all. ..Alhamfulillah
when you r being seduced,run like Yusuf!
Hehe
Beautiful
'Alaihis Saalam 🤣😅
Hhhhhhh true
Hz. Yusuf 'Aleyhissalaam
This vedio really helped to overcome my attraction with opposite gender , as being a teenager trying my best to ignore boys I till felt attracted to one and when I realised I was fully messed up. And began thinking about him , wanting his attention etc , but I prayed and cried bcz I was not what I was becoming so I asked Allah to guide me and he indeed did my puting a thought in my mind about this vedio
I really needed to hear this, thanks
alhamdullilah i never talked close to strange girls but allah gave me one more extra ability to run away from girls haha but i am upset in my class there r so many boyz who have gf may allah open thier mind to wright path ameen i m in 10 th std allah pls keep the whole world away from sins ameen and inshallah we will score good marks in 10 th pray for everyone
I had a crush on someone but remembered Allah and have stopped and moved forward with life
Me too.😁
I was finding this 😭😭😭😭😢😢😢 thnkzz to Allah ..has all answers in the Qur'an ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Mashallah In my although life I was fetching for a perfect method for cut off my those sins, ultimately ustad you show me a perfect practical task to stand away from these harams, may allah bless you, jazakallah khair
May Allah bless you. I'm a Moroccan Muslim and I really like the way you explain things. keep going :)
Eyes and shirt...same colour
interesting
A male must be gay to notice things like that.
+Hendrik Daendels lol
Sohail : I shall have to live with that. I think I shall survive.
Abdul Moiz Bwahahahaha
Shukran for sharing this much needed reminder for the youth!May Allah Protect us all Ameen..
I never had a boyfriend but felt bad because all my friends had but not anymore 😊😊thanks alot
Timeless advice, I seem to keep needing to remind myself of. May Allah grant us all ease in this life and in the hereafter and strength to overcome our temptations. Also if any of you have this problem calling them cute or going up to them or looking at them it is the first step I tell you, don’t do it....Ameen❤️
May Allah save us...
I'm so upset with my self. I'm in haram relationship and yesterday I leave her for the shake of Allah . But still her memories are hurting me😓 .
I just need allah's guidance and I hope I'll be a better muslim .
@gorkha Li what's the most things that u hate about Allah and Muhammad?
Brother is everything okay now?. I would have gone for the second choice if she was that close to you.
@gorkha Li if there is no allah then then might be no jesus , no adam no ews ,no ram , right ??
You did the right thing May Allah give us hidayah
May Allah help you❤
I am listening to your speech with tears in my eyes. I try to pray five times and keep my utmost faith towards Allah SWT but the problem is I have a girlfriend. I am having this immense problem to leave her. I just can't leave her. I love her and I have given promises to her. I want to make the relationship halal right now right this moment but our parents won't accept it because I'm still doing my graduate and I don't have a job.
Salam 3aleykom brother
Hope all is well with u and ur family during ramadan n all is going well, don't forget specially that we are in the month of ramadan and its a very special time! Seek guidance from allah in ur salats n do alot of du3a that he will help u and surely make the right path more clear for u. My muslim adivce to u is to get married to that girlfriend of urs if u both will it and she is mulsim! your parents are not greater than allah even if they might be thinkin of u in a good way, U getting married dont mean u need to buy a house buy a nice car get a pool n all that. Just get married so the relationship is ''HALAL'' and u will find peace in ur heart n just carry on with ur studies normaly and look for a job. That's how simple it is, no need to stress it out or just say oh no icant marry cuz this or that, Marriage means u create an environment of halal instead of living in haram n guilt. Hopefully this helps u think around it abit n I hope u find peace n chooses the right path. Remember if u put ur faith in Allah he will never abandon u or make u walk a blind path. May Allah guide u n help u thru this bro! Amiin
Every human must listen and understand this is of great piece ,., subhanaAllah
This is why ollamas are essential for our LIVES
May Allah bless u and all of us with emaan and FILLUP our hearts with noor-e-emaan
Ameeen ya Rabbi
Youssef had encountered a serious set of temptations !! Beauty of the Queen , wealth , position !! Yet refused !! someone of us will run to , not from such ** treasure ** :( , except those who are being preserved by Allah the Almighty ,
May Allah keep us clean until we find the Halal , ameen
MashAllah. after watching this video, I'm seeing this story differently. May Allah reward you for beautifully explaining this story to all of us!
I once had a girlfriend but she isnt muslim. If I followed everything she wanted, Id probably be a fornicator already. recently she left me because she doesnt like the fact that im a muslim and I am very sad because I really love her very much. And this, here is a good reminder to stay away from such things. Anyway, I do hope she finds the right path and not have to endure hell. Anyone wants free good deeds, please pray for my well being and hers too. Thanks
Brother , you have done the right thing!
If you are meant to be together, then be sure Allah swt will open doors you never expected, & if the opposite then Allah knows best.
I think the clue in this life is to have complete trust in Allah, may He grant us all this trust.
May Allah give you sabr (patience) through this difficult time. When we love someone or something greater than Allah swt not is it a really huge sin but it also hurts us very deeply. Many of us have gone through something similar so please do not feel alone. You have 2 billion + people in this world who love you without even knowing you and consider you their brother. This is worth more than one person's love. Also remember that Allah loves you too. May Allah always protect you and may He guide her and you to the right path.
I know how you feel brother. Alhamdulillah, and all of what you people are saying is so very true. May Allah give you baraka and peace at heart.
If you lost something in the name of Islam you lost nothing. You gained the pleasure of Allah and you will be rewarded in shaa Allah :)
brother i m proude of you and i pray for you and i ask you all to pray for me to have sabr
Thank you for you great teachings!!
I'm speechless, Baraka allahou fikoum :)
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Liked the Video just because of how he used "awesome" to describe his character. In todays world where awesome people have one (if not more) "Girls" {and the other way round as wello} its nice to here awesome ness in the sense of his character being "awe-able"
I really like in his videos that he speaks in the way that I feel he's just talking right to me. جزاهُ الله خيرًا وأجرًا.
Sara Alkufahy Same here ; he speaks as if he is responding to me
SubhanAllah! you explained it so well ustadh and the seriousness of the tone really makes us ponder that how can we disobey Allah for such silly things!
May Allah grant u the highest level of Jannah
Thanks Alot I needed that advice I'm lucky I watched this video
So did it say if you can or can't have a boyfriend cause i don't have time to watch the hole video
@@leilaamaya6944 what do you think
I need to watch this from time to time. Thank you.
I once had a Girlfriend, i prayed to allah to make us break up without both of us not hurting up , i prayed soo hard , next day we broke up , may allah always grant our wishes
Can I ask what made you pray for that? Just curious. I used to like a Muslim girl back in secondary school and college. We weren't open about liking each other but since we went to different unis and not seeing each other it has made me depressed. That was 4 years ago. I've noticed the decent Muslim girls don't be open about liking someone and having boyfriends.
A cousin of mine was messing around with a girl, heard she was going to his house with his parents not there. Funnily heard he's getting married to her soon. As a Muslim that don't sound good especially the way they were meeting up
@@zaink7037 hello , i was dating her for a long time and i felt like i was doing an haram things , something that my creator doesnt like , i then thought that what is she going to do to me and help me in my life , of course the person that sent me here , allah , i will always obey his rules over hers and i knew that breaking up with her for the sake of my god , the one that created me would be better , of course to me she would be no one after i die , and allah will , so i chose allah over her . And luckily, allah answered my prayers the NEXT DAY , i did not know how but she broke up with me , it hurt to get dumped but it also made me feel better that i chose allah over her . Reply to this if you want to know anything else .
@@daecotyt9846 Brother i just want to know that what kind of relationship you were having with her? like you guys just used to talk or meet nothing else? and why you guys didn't got engaged or had your nikkah done when you used to like her?
@@zuhairzafar1649 i couldn't not even marry her either way and i knew i wasnt going to because i am 14 and she was not even a muslim , even if she was a muslim i didnt want to marry her anyways , we only used to meet and talk , we had never kissed or commited zina . I did not want to break her heart so i asked allah to break me up with her and allah granted my wish . Hope this comment helps you
Allah knows best
@@daecotyt9846 how are you doing brother?
I just broke up weeks ago and it's really affecting me and thinking too much but it Worth it
This video is giving more strength Alhamdulilah
May Allah Make it Easy for You.
How long you were in relationship?
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Turn to Allah, Only He can mend your Heart.
What happened now ? Did you marry ?
Subhannallah it is very scary. I dated Once and only Once and it was I who initiated the seperation because I was beginning to loose sight of myself and I was thinking more and more like her. I knew what I was doing was wrong and I knew Allah was watching me and I didn't care anyway... it's very scary. And each time my mind was cleared of lust, all the guilt and shame and my senses everything came back all at once. But Alhamdulillah we did not spend much time together because of distance and things didn't get far, with support from my friends Alhamdulillah I was able to overcome the test and end the relationship. Especially in this day and age, it's a constant struggle for young muslims especially with so much temptation.
What happened now ? Did you marry ?
Jazaak Allah khair, very good advice to young people by Ustad Numan Ali khan, he explains the Quran in different way.
The feeling of ignorance keeps us constantly learning and trying to know. 🌍⏰👍👌
Reading these stories and hearing people proudly declare the fact that they are single is extremely empowering. I wish the rest of the world thought as we do, I wish our culture didn't make us face this war with ourselves in the first place. Inshallah Allah makes it easy for all of us. I have recently been admitted to a college where I have to dorm, please make dua that I do not fall into sin. Ameen.
You saved yourself from this sin right?
I always make dua so that Allah can help me overcome temptations, but its very hard.
5 years later and I am at this video again. May Allah swt help us.
By the grace of Allah I managed to call off the communication with a person whom I actually liked, no more fear of being single, I strongly belive in Allah, n will always try to please him.
ALLAH se rishta toot jaye toh kissey rishta ban jaata hai? , Dua ki qubuliyat ke waqiyat aur deegar islamic videos ke liye aap channel visit kar sakte hain.. jazakALLAH khayr... ❤
"Astagfirullah, that's haram sister, you really should think about what you're saying..." XD That made me laugh, wonderful analysis of this juz, a prevalent reminder for us all indeed
I really appreciate your videos they are so refreshing and hold much guidance. Jazak Allah
I wish there was a resit button in life, I feel like drowning , alone and feel distant from the most high. Can you guys pray for me as a brother in Islam? Or is it too much to ask?
Dear ... Assalamu alaiykum.... U just need to be patient ... May Allah give u the strength to thrive all these difficulties.... Whatever happens, keep ur faith ON... Insha Allah.. u will be okay. .. just relax... I too had such situations... So i can understnd ur feelings... Insha Allah... Evrythng gonna be okay # Stay safe # stay home # include me in ur prayers
Seek forgiveness sincerely, do not lose hope in the mercy of Allah.
Salaam in life there isnt a reset button, but in Islam there is Alhamdulillah! It's called Taubah. Repentance for your sin and a sincere yearning to not do the sin again, then follow up with good deeds!
Yes its true ..if u do conversations about ..they make it longer so this is the best advice to cut ..and shut this off.may allah bless u...
I just wanted to thank you, thank you thank you
MasyaAllah a very beneficial content especially for young people