The New Normal: Brené Brown
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- Опубликовано: 29 июн 2020
- I know I don't have to say it, but watch this!
It’s not every day that you get to pick the brain of one of your heroes. Brené Brown is a hero to me and to so many Airmen. Her books and talks on shame and vulnerability give light to some of our toughest issues.
She is as advertised - one of my favorite discussions to date!
I always like Brene Brown. This took my respect for her to a whole new level.
We are blessed to have open minded people like u on our planet ☘️💛☘️🙏Beene brown ur beautiful in both mind body and soul 🌟
I try and remember, these discussions do not have to be perfect. They just need to start .
I am not here to be right; I am here to get it right. Adopted a new mantra
I’m loving this...and am going to steal it for my officer students to watch and discuss...! Thank you both...Chief Master Sergeant...from me in the Royal Air Force!
Brene is the whole package, and I believe we’ll continue seeing more of her. She’s just getting started.
This needs more views! :) Even as a longtime Brene fan, there are so many fresh ideas in this conversation, and the interview was so well done. Thank you, and thank you for your service.
"the bravest leaders are never quiet about hard things" (10:26). . . "shame kills empathy" (32:04)
This kind of conversation is what we need! Thanks to both.
Such a great interview. With two people I greatly admire.
Refreshing analysis
This was super informative! Who is better than Brene' Brown when it comes to looking at yourself introspectively? I wish this conversation was available when I was an active Airman! Thank you Chief!
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YEAH! Glad I found you and this interview!!
So good. Thank you, both.
Wonderful interview!
This is so good! Thank you
Great interview!
Such a relevant, impactful interview. So helpful during this historical time. Thank you both!
I always like Brene Brown. This took my respect for her to a whole new level.
This was excellent!!
Thank you amazing
I have nothing against Brene'Brown but she's a star, not a hero. Hero's don't get to schedule when they sacrifice themselves for the good of many, heroes don't consider their loss on their way to your GAIN, heroes don't reap financial rewards they reap perseverance, discomfort, inner-strength, character, and integrity in the face of great turmoil! She is NOT a hero. What she is, is a great researcher that connects to the heart of many people in plain language useful and relevant.
So good!!
Phenomenal!
Somebody needs to send the part 12:30 to Sharon Osborne. This is exactly what played out on the Talk!
The first question ..which is worse racism or COVID-19?..there is something not so productive about that comparison. It is almost forced to say racism. I am not sure if it is an illuminating question... at first. But the answer that the pandemic highlights the stark disparities that racism (and economic inequality) creates is illuminating.
My lucky day,-I’ve found you!
"Privilege doesn't mean that you didn't work your ass off"--5:50-55. Spot on----I run into this all the time; my neighborhood and my church are 99% white---good people, most have worked very hard to get there and their stuff. But, the blind spot is that they had the opportunity, the education, the good job, and the network that provided the opportunity to work their ass off for a good wage. It's not on anybody's radar that not everybody gets those opportunities, and so that's a big part of the push-back regarding systemic racism. One of the big walls that supports this structure is the suburban culture that exists in America.
@Tango Bear thank-you for sharing, I think there's a blind spot about opportunity. Most people don't get it because this thinking divides us. Be blessed 💚
I have loved all your talks, but I am not hearing anything about self-responsibility. We are taking responsibility for our feelings, but what about the actions that are leading to some of these situations?
You can't race hustle and promote any meaningful self responsibility at the same time. It's like oil and water.
I know this is incredibly naive as an old person but after watching this again when asked "do black lives matter"? Why wouldn't they matter?? Everyone's life should matter. I can't believe that in probably 15 or 20 years, if I'm lucky, I'll still be around and we still haven't figured it out yet?. What is wrong with us as a human race that we can't be kind and helpful and compassionate to each other. Everyone is and looks different. There are no human beings better than others. That's what makes this world turn - the variety is contagious and fun and diverse and I can't believe we are messing it up in so many ways!
That we have to say our lives (Black lives matter) is the issue, and to met with all lives matter is tone deaf. How we are treated in this world has led us to having to say our life matter, the world does not treat us in such way that it is true. Saying all lives matter in response to a Black person saying Black lives matter, is adds to our pain. Generally it comes from a white person.
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love rules God is good
I made one racist remark that destroyed my life.Thirty two years of good wiped out with one misunderstood remark....when that happens to you.Your dead man walking,a outcast from society....The final no discussion,no talk ,no way back.Then you want to tell me about Vulnerability...
Consider the impact your "one" racist remark had on those around you. While it may have been nothing to you and you feel your comment was misinterpreted, imagine being on the receiving end as a person who cannot change their skin colour. Imagine that these are the very statements you have faced your entire life, having lost job opportunities when you show up for an interview and the interviewer pretends the job has already been filled when they look you up and down and see that you are a black or brown person. Now imagine that wherever you go, you are instantly viewed as a drug addict, a criminal, angry and playing the victim...simply because of the colour of your skin, not by any knowledge of who you are a person. Now imagine that no matter how hard you work (twice the amount as your Caucasian counterparts just to be "seen" by your employer), you are passed over for promotions, condescended to, automatically viewed as being less intelligent in spite of having more degrees and years' more experience than your Caucasian counterparts, and then mocked and bullied if you show the least amount of emotion. Then imagine that even though you grew up in North America, that you are constantly told by strangers and acquaintances alike to "go home to your own country" simply for being and existing in your community, and called racist names since the time you were a small child. That is just a tiny little view of what it is like to live daily in my body with my Asian skin, let alone the depth of genocide, slavery and systemic racism that Black people have had to deal with for centuries. So yeah, let's talk about vulnerability...and EMPATHY. Empathy is all about learning to put yourself in other people's shoes, whether or not you have lived experience with discrimination.
My lucky day,-I’ve found you!