for the first story, absolutely not! It’s your BROTHERS wedding, and your husband won’t stay home, even tho it’s his best friends wedding, he should either stay home, or deal with a baby sitter for a couple days? Plus it’s a friend that is going to watch the kids, not a stranger..
This is exactly what I was going to put down. Like bro, it's her brother's wedding not his, so she should have the right to go and he should stay home.
that first one has me triggered. bonus: the toxic masculinity in the second story. DOUBLE BONUS: (the third story) his step mom can see the baby but HER MOM can't???
1st story: That is her brothers wedding you're asking her to skip, both of you are equally wanted by the brother at the wedding, also it sounds like she is always the one to stay home with the kids, if you are so against baby sitters then you should at least let your wife go out sometimes and you can take care of the kids since you are the reason she can't go out.
The first story: I get the fact that some babysitters aren't great, and you can be afraid to leave your kids with one but seriously, you're asking her to skip her own brother's wedding and using the 'He's my BEST FRIEND' excuse. The wife is normally always left to stay with the kids so you can skip out on one thing to let your wife see her brother get married. Both should go and just get a trusted friend to watch your kids for a few days. Suck it up husband.
Am I the a hole for letting someone else see my baby:No you are definitely not!All the step-mom was drop her home and that was it and on top of that the mom had 2 year old son!She obviously needed help and he didn't push out an entire baby.
For the 1st story- *The Husband:* That's my best friend's wedding you're asking me to skip for christ sake! Are you kidding me? *Me:* That's her brother's wedding you're asking her to skip for christ sake! Are you kidding her?!
Like seriously that’s her brother He’s is best friend but that doesn’t matter the fact that she said it’s been so long since she’s gone to a wedding is weird and the fact that it’s normal for him for her to stay home while he goes out and has fun is weird
Last his friend obv only got into it so she can tell other people about HER love language which was her way of saying get me a good gift that's expensive which makes her greedy and her way of gold-digging her friends.
Gift receiving isn’t even a love language, it’s gift giving. Love languages is about how you express love, not how you want love expressed. So yeah she’s a gold digger
Fr. If her love language was actually gifts she would be grateful he got her that and put thought into it instead of saying she was expecting smtg more expensive
Ya i think kinda think she lied a bit saying that she's into the whole love language thing to so that she could be entitled to get expensive free things and then get upset when she don't like it, even though that's not what love language is love language is how YOU show affection so saying that "my love language is gifts" then that means that you like giving gifts to show affection
I love these stories so much! I have watched tons of your vids and they are so interesting to see the food and listen to the stories. Tysm for making them!
For the letting someone else see your baby, no you’re not the a-whole. First of all that’s YOUR MOM and you were alone after giving birth so obviously you’re not about to wait a few more days for your husband to get home. He wasn’t there for you and you shouldn’t have waited for a little promise. You needed the help with a newborn baby and he should have understood that. Also you’re the one who pushed the child out and had him inside of you, so you should get to decide who can see the baby.
and what type of medical conditon is that he can't be away from family, but he can go on an out-of-town business trip for two weeks. Giving me manipulator vibes
okay but the last one had me so confused... Isnt someones love language the way they show their love to others? How can ur love language be receiving gifts?
For the first story, it was you’re bros wedding you’re NTA you should have been able to go! For the last story you friend seems like beep saying she wanted a present that was 200 bucks like you seem like you got her a pretty good gift she’s.NTA
1st you are not he's asking you to skip your brother's wedding and that's his best friend he should be the one skipping bc its not like they're related by blood and I get his paranoia but like you said a trusted friend not just a friend a trusted friend plus he's a parent too he should be the one staying home or a trusted friend should babysitter one time won't make anything bad happen.
Oh my god the first one it’s her brother’s wedding and your best friend of course you should let her go because it is her family that actually blood related you’re not so like maybe you shouldn’t for one sacrifice for your kids and be the equal parent do your wife as well so you definitely weren’t there he definitely was
For the first one u don’t need a sitter just a friend that’s free and if it matters so much to the husband he should stay cuz he doesn’t want a sitter so if he uses the bestie excuse for christ sake it’s her brothers marriage which probably won’t happen again
For the first story its like if your ingered you should not go to the hospital you should stay with your kids but if he gets sick he going to the hospital
nah, its just that sometimes the volume is different in each clip. The audio is from tiktok, so she could have just lowered her original audio or recorded the voiceover quietly.
for the first story, absolutely not! It’s your BROTHERS wedding, and your husband won’t stay home, even tho it’s his best friends wedding, he should either stay home, or deal with a baby sitter for a couple days? Plus it’s a friend that is going to watch the kids, not a stranger..
YES!
This is exactly what I was going to put down. Like bro, it's her brother's wedding not his, so she should have the right to go and he should stay home.
I agree
yes and ITS HER BROTHER HER HUSBAND IS JUST HER BROTHERS BROTHER IN LAW SHE SHOULD GO AS ITS HER BROTHER WEDDINGAND NOT HIS BROTHER WEDDING
EXACTLY
that first one has me triggered. bonus: the toxic masculinity in the second story. DOUBLE BONUS: (the third story) his step mom can see the baby but HER MOM can't???
1st story:
That is her brothers wedding you're asking her to skip, both of you are equally wanted by the brother at the wedding, also it sounds like she is always the one to stay home with the kids, if you are so against baby sitters then you should at least let your wife go out sometimes and you can take care of the kids since you are the reason she can't go out.
The first story:
I get the fact that some babysitters aren't great, and you can be afraid to leave your kids with one but seriously, you're asking her to skip her own brother's wedding and using the 'He's my BEST FRIEND' excuse. The wife is normally always left to stay with the kids so you can skip out on one thing to let your wife see her brother get married. Both should go and just get a trusted friend to watch your kids for a few days. Suck it up husband.
Am I the a hole for letting someone else see my baby:No you are definitely not!All the step-mom was drop her home and that was it and on top of that the mom had 2 year old son!She obviously needed help and he didn't push out an entire baby.
Yeah and the fact it can take 12+ hours to deliver a baby
For the 1st story- *The Husband:* That's my best friend's wedding you're asking me to skip for christ sake! Are you kidding me? *Me:* That's her brother's wedding you're asking her to skip for christ sake! Are you kidding her?!
I gotta go Kawaii ko
Does he not get it is his WIFES brother and it don't matter that his best friend because they have been siblings there intire lives
@@zakierapayne8536 What?
Does he not get that it the groom was his wife's brother before the groom was his best friend
Like seriously that’s her brother He’s is best friend but that doesn’t matter the fact that she said it’s been so long since she’s gone to a wedding is weird and the fact that it’s normal for him for her to stay home while he goes out and has fun is weird
in the first one, isn’t the husband doing the same thing? like shouldn’t he be asking himself the questions he was asking his wife?
EXACTLY
The first one: “I cAnT mIsS mY bEst FriEndS wEddInG”
Me: BRUH ITS HER BROS WEDDING! U SHOULD STAY HOME
FRRRR also the fact that the wife is always the one to stay home, the husband should let her go and he takes care of the kids for once
Last his friend obv only got into it so she can tell other people about HER love language which was her way of saying get me a good gift that's expensive which makes her greedy and her way of gold-digging her friends.
Gift receiving isn’t even a love language, it’s gift giving. Love languages is about how you express love, not how you want love expressed. So yeah she’s a gold digger
@@OpossumOnTheMoon p
For the first story, not the AH, the husband is the one insisting on not hiring a babysitter, he's the one who should stay home.
8:30 this lady is my favorite storytime teller, she's so expressive!
Oh my gosh sameeee
Same I thought I was the only one
@@swaggytt2476 i like her to but what is her name ?
What’s her name?
shes kinda annoying imo
Oh oooo so for the first story I've been to a wedding and there was 10 kids I was holding 1 and my cousin slapped one lo!
Last story: its just a gift some ppl dont even get gifts like even if its not $200 u should still be greatfull
Fr. If her love language was actually gifts she would be grateful he got her that and put thought into it instead of saying she was expecting smtg more expensive
Ya i think kinda think she lied a bit saying that she's into the whole love language thing to so that she could be entitled to get expensive free things and then get upset when she don't like it, even though that's not what love language is love language is how YOU show affection so saying that "my love language is gifts" then that means that you like giving gifts to show affection
fr like stfu abt ur love language and actually like the gift
The second to last one was the best
I love these stories so much! I have watched tons of your vids and they are so interesting to see the food and listen to the stories. Tysm for making them!
These storytimes are something else
For the letting someone else see your baby, no you’re not the a-whole. First of all that’s YOUR MOM and you were alone after giving birth so obviously you’re not about to wait a few more days for your husband to get home. He wasn’t there for you and you shouldn’t have waited for a little promise. You needed the help with a newborn baby and he should have understood that. Also you’re the one who pushed the child out and had him inside of you, so you should get to decide who can see the baby.
The last one. Um- Chile anyway soooo
First story: GET RID OF THAT MAN!!
“You won’t let me go to my best friends wedding”.
HES HER BORTHER
That her brother she wins
3rd story: AAAAAAAAAAAAA NO ITS HER MOM I THREW SOCKS AT MY WALL BECAUSE I WAS SO MAD
and what type of medical conditon is that he can't be away from family, but he can go on an out-of-town business trip for two weeks. Giving me manipulator vibes
okay but the last one had me so confused... Isnt someones love language the way they show their love to others? How can ur love language be receiving gifts?
The first one no it’s your BROTHERS weddding and his BESTFRIEND he should stay home
Her:uhh what red flag
Me:hmmm let me count,oh ah yes,yes I believe it is number…567
Story 1: WTF?! You want ur wife to miss her BROTHERS wedding bc it’s his best friend?!?! What the actual f-?!?!
For the first story, it was you’re bros wedding you’re NTA you should have been able to go! For the last story you friend seems like beep saying she wanted a present that was 200 bucks like you seem like you got her a pretty good gift she’s.NTA
For the first story why can’t they stay with the husbands sister or moms house
I cant be the only one who saw them small bugs in the ice cream at 8:27
“Its my best friends wedding”
“ITS MY BROTHERS WEDDING!”
story 1 his bestfriend vs her BROTHER🤔🙄🤨
For the first one you are not it is your BROTHERSwedding and if he is so scared about babysitters he should be watching the child
For the first story what is wrong with her husband asking her to miss her brothers wedding when he is just the best friend
We not going to talk about how the family made fun of her for a traumatic event?
1st you are not he's asking you to skip your brother's wedding and that's his best friend he should be the one skipping bc its not like they're related by blood and I get his paranoia but like you said a trusted friend not just a friend a trusted friend plus he's a parent too he should be the one staying home or a trusted friend should babysitter one time won't make anything bad happen.
Oh my god the first one it’s her brother’s wedding and your best friend of course you should let her go because it is her family that actually blood related you’re not so like maybe you shouldn’t for one sacrifice for your kids and be the equal parent do your wife as well so you definitely weren’t there he definitely was
The first one is messed up it’s her brother she should get To go instead of him
Story number: ????
" *Receiving* gifts is my love language"
Wait what? How is receiving something YOUR love language
The first story:
Him: that's my best friend!
Me: that's her *brother*
For the first one u don’t need a sitter just a friend that’s free and if it matters so much to the husband he should stay cuz he doesn’t want a sitter so if he uses the bestie excuse for christ sake it’s her brothers marriage which probably won’t happen again
I DON'T WANNA DIE
5 red flages
*flags xx
For the first story its like if your ingered you should not go to the hospital you should stay with your kids but if he gets sick he going to the hospital
4:51 - wait, him having a chronic condition is a red flag??? 😭😭😭
Last story
Bro thought is what counts not a 200:dollar gift she is materialistic and she shouldn’t want such a pricey gift
My thoughts
Which country are you from
Sindecirte :0
U.S.
does anyone have the links to the ogs
What the heck is a love language
How you show your affection to someone
@@rachelle_243 oh ok thanks
So the step mom can see the baby but her mom can’t like what
Why is the lady in story one talking so low im not trying to be rude but it sounds like shes whispering in my ears maybe its a problem with my airpods
nah, its just that sometimes the volume is different in each clip. The audio is from tiktok, so she could have just lowered her original audio or recorded the voiceover quietly.
@@will0ww._. okay
Second story.Divorce him
It is her brother and not his he wants her to stay home and him to go to the wedding, wtf
how is that because he need stay next to his family
That is roning
5 red flag
material girl