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Anna looking cute and beautiful as always. Love the vlog 😀😀❤❤. Its great that you are recovering well from covid. Take good care of yourself for speedy recovery. Forget to tell, on 15th, it was also India's independence day 😀😀.
Anna spilling the tea, and I’m here for it! I am all for spitting the check etc., though I agree, it’s in extreme bad taste to invite someone out, brag about the money you are making and then insist on splitting the bill. Love the long form videos Anna 💙 always fun to watch! Cheers
He was as u say, just plain cheap & stingy. Can u imagine wot it'd be like having him as spouse. Prob make sure grocery bills split all the way & everything else, tooth paste, tooth brushes! aahahaha 🤣
@@lotusfloat20201) cheap and stingy shows financial aptitude. Warren Buffet didn’t become a billionaire by wasting a bunch of money on useless junk, 2) if you women want equality, you need to have equality all the time, not just when it is convenient for you. Put your money where your mouth is.
i am a guy and i can say, that if i were to brag about how much money i made last year and then suggest to pay the bill for the first date i initiated i would be so ashamed of myself lol. what is that even.
Thought exactly about that… if a guy bragged about making load of money to me and then asked to split the bill I would doubt the veracity of his claims 😂 Maybe that’s his way to identify gold digger girls to not get into relationships with people only interested about his money but he could have checked in an other way
I agree with Anna, I 100% agree that man should pay on the first date, or if it's a woman who asked out the guy first, then samething goes. I believe who ever sets up the date should be the one to pay. The dates after the first one tho can be 50/50 since you have had the time to get to know the person a little.
I think it's important to date with intent: quality versus quantity . If someone dates quantity, I think that person doesn't know what he or she looks for in a partner
like 50cent says “whoever idea was it to go on a date is the one that pays”….. if that were me and he says split the dinner bill and drinks on him next venue! im ordering the whole bar 🤣🤣🤣🤣
As a guy, when it comes to dating for me personally, whether I pay or not depends on how the date is going. If I was interested in a second date and the date is going well, I'll pay for the date, but if the girl I was with acts entitled or has an attitude problem, I would just pay for myself because at that point I wouldn't want a second date anyway. However, though a guy flexing his money and all of sudden decides not to pay is weird behavior.
It was very odd for him to bring up separate checks at the end for the date, not the beginning. Also, agree that generally the ‘asker’ pays for the first date (male or female). Sounds like this celeb hasn’t had a lot of dates before you. Or had been completely skint.
The asker pays? You mean the man pays. When do women ever ask a man out on a date ? Either we have 1950s gender roles or we don't. Its 2024 and women are nothing like they were in 1950 so why expect chivalry from men? Can't have it both ways.
7:35 Women have been making men's lives very easy and this is a big problem. This guys sends a message to Anna, invites her for dinner, brags about how much money he makes, he knows that being successful makes him more attractive (and there's absolutely nothing wrong with money making men more attractive. Women should only be attract to broke men? Why?? ) but then he wants to split the bill???? It's unbelievable to me that a man brags about how much money he makes and then right after he says we are splitting the bill??? Like, what is this? 😂😂😂 Ridiculous.
I once actually had a woman come up to me and ask if she could buy me a drink, to say I was shocked is an understatement even more so when she suggested we got something to eat, apparently I made her laugh so much she really wanted to continue but was hungry however I insisted on paying even though she offered to share the cost so it’s probably not that unusual. She made a profit on the drink because her friend challenged her to ask any man on their own if she could buy them a drink and the wager far exceeded the cost of the drink. No complaints
Not us, checking your Instagram to match the storyline 😂 You look fabulous, btw. I hope you are feeling better, there was a sad note in one of your previous videos. Love the green lenses💚
8:20 Always done this. I paid for dinner and the girl always volunteered to pay for whatever we did next. Then the girl would pay for dinner on the next date. It feels good to be treated to dinner haha
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Hi Anna i love that you have lived in the UK! I am from there myself. If your ever come back here don't stay in London and go to the countryside or traditional towns of the UK. It is so much more beautiful and peaceful compared to London. You will find people living outside of London are different. There is lots of history out there to see and experience.
I think one of the reasons why he split the bill is that he can weed out gold diggers. That's just what I think. I would do that too if I had lots of money.
IMO, whoever does the inviting/plans the date should pay. But I'm tripping 'cause how can the celeb flex about his money, tell you how much he made and then ASK YOU TO SPLIT THE CHECK?! 😂 Bro, WTH. And we're all gonna guess, so here are my guesses: Tom Hiddleston, John Boyega, Tom Holland...Richard Madden? 🤷♀
Hi Anna, when getting the DM how did you know it was the real celebrity? I've gotten DM from Lee Min-ho and 2 other "celebs" of course all fake. So, I'm just curious how you confirmed he was real? Thanks for the tea 🍵 story time.
I think most guys would agree that unless sharing the bill is discussed before the date, then the person asking should at least pay for the meal. It's simple courtesy.
Anna! You looks so beautiful! I missed you during the last kpc live. I realized how you and David really have a great rapport in videos 😊 Anyways, loved the lenses on you! I just might go grab myself a box!
Not gonna lie, I wouldn’t brag about my finances on the date. after asking her out on the first day date, man should definitely pay whole bills since he was first asked. Split the bills on the second date would be understandable. If I was him, I would never fumble chance to date someone like Anna for the second second date hehe lol
You look different in the best way. Can’t pin point it but you looking refreshed …. Younger? I donno. Whatever you doing. Keep doing it. Snatched queen 😂yaaaaas
I liked the colour ones - blue and green ones - the colour hair helps! But the first ones were surprised me - you look like you will be crying, big puppy eyes:-) you are beautiful anyway! ❤
On the differences in dating ... it has also transformed over time. I am sixty years old, I reside in the UK, and I have three daughters in their twenties. From what I hear from them, there is now a stage called "talking" ... which as far as I can work out, is the pre-first-date phase when you are using messaging to get to know the potential date. (I am a little unclear whether this is something that only teenagers do, or whether it carries on into adult life.) Is there anything equivalent in Korean dating?
There's also the stage of living together have children. And their are Just bf/gf. In the Dominican Republic, when I was a kid, if a men and women lived together, they were consider a merried couple even though there wasn't no wedding. But now is so easy to just say " my bf, my Gf," no string attached even if they have children. I think this became popular because of USA dating culture.
@@raquelfigueroa5539 I was going to reply saying that I thought most couples in the UK opt for marriage before children ... but I realised I have no idea if that is still true. I am not at the right age to have friends in that situation, so my ideas are nothing more than "what things used to be like" and my own prejudices. I haven't read any recent studies.
So the echo chamber seems to be pretty strong in the comments about whoever asks the person out should pay for the date, but i'll play the devils advocate. How many times have any of you (females) actually asked someone out, set the date, planned the date, carry the date (leading the conversation, leading the date such as "lets order this here then lets get drinks there etc"), AND then pay for the whole date. I'll bet not many if any of you, so really it's a cop out to say "whoever asks should pay" when we can all agree men are the ones who mostly asks the women out and even in the unlikely scenario that the women asks the man out it still generally falls on the man to foot the bill or split it 50/50. Also just a bit of advice, any women that offers to pay 50/50 on the first date will automatically win brownie points with most guys so why not offer 50/50 if you like the guy? The most you'll lose is 50% (which is what $50? for a simple first date) for a potential long term and fulfilling relationship. So instead of wasting your night, win some brownie points by offering 50/50 and I'll bet you by the second date the guys going to be offering to pay 100%. Now in this case the guy was just setting himself up for failure by bragging so much (which probably indicated he'd be ok to foot the bill which he obviously didnt which threw Anna off) but in any case the comment section is off the rails cuz everyone seems to think it's so outrageous that a guy asks to split it on the first date despite most guys doing everything to the make the date happen and the girl really only just has to show up.
When you agree to go on a date you usually pick the place together, set the date together, decide together where to go. So planing goes on both sides. Asking out is a grey zone, since it always happened naturally to me - during a conversation, both decide to go together some place. Leading the conversation was 99% my job, since the guys were just shy. When you split 50-50 on first date, it sets the tone and the men expect to continue. No one has offered to pay 100% on the second date - why should they, when they know, you were willing to split on first date. I prefer to pay my bill and not 50% of the check, since I can't know what the man will order. It is not fair to split, when he orders whiskey or expensive wine and I don't drink for example. But of course, it is always appreciated when they pay and to me it sets the tone better in a relationship.
@@proletinchen It's good to hear that that's how you do things because that seems like a fair way to go about dates but I don't think it's a stretch to say that your experience is in the minority. The scenario I've provided is sadly what most men experience and it's quite evident based on the upvotes and comments in this comment section.
@@bluedsuit6140 Maybe also depends on the country. I live in country with equality in payment in workforce. Meaning women get paid equally to men and there are also a lot of women in high positions. But we take equality really on all fronts. Meaning women and men are considered partners and both equally contribute with money and effort. So it is the norm to pay for yourself and contribute equally on dates. Also I have never experienced, that women would go on a date with somebody, just to get free meal (like I read people do in USA sometimes). You only go on dates if you are interested in someone and want to get to know them. Nevertheless, in Ana's case I think the guy set himself up and really embarrassed himself. It was just disrespectful, the way he acted. It is not about the dinner or money, but much more about attitude, I don't know if you understand what I mean.
I had suchhhh a specific name in my mind when she said 2020 and London, who i think is a guy who is from a Russian speaking place and he is now a multi millionaire, does boxing, lived in south africa etc omg HAHA IMAGINE IF ITS HIM
"The one who asks for the date should pay". You might just say men should pay, since women barely ask out men. Men starting to push back on paying for the first date, since there is a growing trend of women abusing it for a free meal with no intentions of being interested in the man. I heard is roughly 25% of women doing this in the USA according to a survery.
Anna being pretty and ravishing as always 😀😀❤❤. As a guy, i can say it is wrong to ask a women to pay on the first date if I'm the one asking her out. Bragging about the money & all and doing all this. Its so wrong, what is happening in the society. Is this guy and the guy you referred in one of the KPC POD season 1 the same (David muted the name). Anyway have a speedy recovery from covid and take good care. Lots of love 😊😊❤❤.
😚 I think 🤔 it's funny how he thought you would like him so much , he warned you about seeing others. I guess, he never thought you might not be interested. For fun 😜 if you could have 5 celebrities DM who would you want?
Hi Anna. Hello from Singapore and a new sub to your channel! ♥Can't wait for the next post. Btw, loved your lip tint/colour in this video. Pls share the brand and lip colour? Tks!
It's definitely odd behaviour from someone rich and famous. However I'll disagree in the general sense. For us regular folks these days in the dating scene, dinner is EXPENSIVE, a lot of women use a roster of men for free meals. So the guy can afford 1 or 2 dates a month while she's dating 5 guys a week. Men are waking up to this scam and going 50/50 or opting out of the dating scene.
Too bad they have no toric lenses. If I correct the myopia but not the astigmatism it results in a sharp double picture for me. Zero correction is more comfortable for me, as everything blends into a blur, but a sharp double picture is really annoying.
That was fun! Agree on the date thingy and the green. Your looking beautiful these days. Not saying you’d didn’t before just more beautiful! So do you still play this violin? Should play it for us! Thank you for sharing!
Be careful with these so-called celebrities, money shouldn’t be a problem for dating, if he wants to brag about his finances. Until he puts a ring on it then he pays, know your value ladies. I’m old school, sorry youngsters
Maybe he was testing you to see if you were the "gold digger" type of girl, who would only date him for his fame and money, and that's why he wanted you to split hahaha, and then when you did agree to pay half half, then he was willing to date you more times
Yuck. Definitely gives me the ick when they don’t offer to pay for the first date. Saying this…I think I liked my husband so much I paid for our first date dinner 😂
My guess is John Boyega but who ever it was definitely not a good impression to split the check especially since he asked you out. Kinda weird honestly.
Hi Anna, You are better off without him. After bragging about how much money he made, he wants to split the bill. Shameless. I’m surprised you went out with him again. ( I think I know who you are talking about. You might have mentioned his name on your vlog while you were talking about something else.)
Thats funny. He was probably business expensing dinner and didnt want to explain a dinner for 2 to his management. Suspect he was just testing you. I would have felt like you did Anna. Makeup looking nice and natural. Hope u get a lasik eye surgery paid promo. U have spoken so positively about yr eye surgery
I'd be fine with splitting dinner bills but omg the guy lacked imagination. Money brag and food every single time while there's so much more to do in London. P.S. the green lens are FIRE :)
woooooooooorrrrrrrrrrrrddddddddddddddd swear i am old fashioned too,,,,, half for dinner on the first date that you asked me out to, bruhhhh oohh hell noo
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Anna looking cute and beautiful as always. Love the vlog 😀😀❤❤. Its great that you are recovering well from covid. Take good care of yourself for speedy recovery. Forget to tell, on 15th, it was also India's independence day 😀😀.
Anna spilling the tea, and I’m here for it! I am all for spitting the check etc., though I agree, it’s in extreme bad taste to invite someone out, brag about the money you are making and then insist on splitting the bill. Love the long form videos Anna 💙 always fun to watch! Cheers
He literally was FLEXING his money, He was the FIRST ONE to ask you out and still could not pay the bill??
RED FLAG.
Yeah, but red flag to who? He made it very clear that there wasn't going to be a relationship from the start.
Drop the loser, he’s only looking for self gratification
If he was making Anna pay, then that's him telling her I'm not interested in dating, this is my way of telling you.
He was as u say, just plain cheap & stingy. Can u imagine wot it'd be like having him as spouse. Prob make sure grocery bills split all the way & everything else, tooth paste, tooth brushes! aahahaha 🤣
@@lotusfloat20201) cheap and stingy shows financial aptitude. Warren Buffet didn’t become a billionaire by wasting a bunch of money on useless junk, 2) if you women want equality, you need to have equality all the time, not just when it is convenient for you. Put your money where your mouth is.
I would have paid the whole thing and sent him home. It's called charity work 😂
This cracked me up 😂
Best comment.
😂😂
i am a guy and i can say, that if i were to brag about how much money i made last year and then suggest to pay the bill for the first date i initiated i would be so ashamed of myself lol. what is that even.
Right??!
Love the green and blue lenses on you. Honestly, they all look great. Hope you’re feeling better today 💖🍌💖
Yes For real
Thought exactly about that… if a guy bragged about making load of money to me and then asked to split the bill I would doubt the veracity of his claims 😂
Maybe that’s his way to identify gold digger girls to not get into relationships with people only interested about his money but he could have checked in an other way
I'm sure it was a test.
I agree with Anna, I 100% agree that man should pay on the first date, or if it's a woman who asked out the guy first, then samething goes. I believe who ever sets up the date should be the one to pay. The dates after the first one tho can be 50/50 since you have had the time to get to know the person a little.
Good to see you again. Hope you're doing good now after recovering from the Covid. Love your videos.
I think it's important to date with intent: quality versus quantity . If someone dates quantity, I think that person doesn't know what he or she looks for in a partner
100%
like 50cent says “whoever idea was it to go on a date is the one that pays”….. if that were me and he says split the dinner bill and drinks on him next venue! im ordering the whole bar 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I feel you Anna, A celebrity asking to split checks on a first date 🤦😅😅
Looking so gorgeous Anna, Your skin is 🌟 glowing!
Thank u but covid has broken me out like crazy rn so it doesn't look like that currently :(
Anna, one day ,maybe u can write your Memoirs of dating 📚?!. Always pleasantly excited when you post new video !!
One day haha
As a guy, when it comes to dating for me personally, whether I pay or not depends on how the date is going. If I was interested in a second date and the date is going well, I'll pay for the date, but if the girl I was with acts entitled or has an attitude problem, I would just pay for myself because at that point I wouldn't want a second date anyway.
However, though a guy flexing his money and all of sudden decides not to pay is weird behavior.
sounds more like meeting up to 'hang out' instead of going on a 'date'. going out with friends vibes if nothing 'datey' happened
Love this kind of chit chat video and I am trying so hard to guess who it is 😆Also you look stunning in this vid, the hair colour really suits you!
13:16
Whoaa!! The lens looks soooo pretty!!!
It's Uncle Roger isn't it?! 😂😂😂
Thought the same thing lol.
Oli London ? 😂😂😂😂
I feel it was uncle roger😂😂😂😂
Me too I always thought it was Nigel Ng. Anna if we’re right please dm. I promise I won’t tell anyone 😁
@@michelleprestegard7284 😂😂🙌🙌
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omg noooo 😂
@@anna.lee_jy I'm so disappointed . I was so sure. Everything fit so perfectly in my mind. I still think he was the perfect option 🤪.♥️ your posts
It was very odd for him to bring up separate checks at the end for the date, not the beginning. Also, agree that generally the ‘asker’ pays for the first date (male or female). Sounds like this celeb hasn’t had a lot of dates before you. Or had been completely skint.
The asker pays? You mean the man pays. When do women ever ask a man out on a date ?
Either we have 1950s gender roles or we don't. Its 2024 and women are nothing like they were in 1950 so why expect chivalry from men? Can't have it both ways.
@@scanspeak00 Women _do_ ask men on dates these days. And not every date is between people of opposite genders. Get with the times.
7:35 Women have been making men's lives very easy and this is a big problem. This guys sends a message to Anna, invites her for dinner, brags about how much money he makes, he knows that being successful makes him more attractive (and there's absolutely nothing wrong with money making men more attractive. Women should only be attract to broke men? Why?? ) but then he wants to split the bill???? It's unbelievable to me that a man brags about how much money he makes and then right after he says we are splitting the bill??? Like, what is this? 😂😂😂
Ridiculous.
Honestly, I was floored lol
Early!! Yay!!
I always wait for your videos, anna!!! ♡
Great storytime Anna!!!! Really fascinating details and great memories for you. 😍🤩👍
I once actually had a woman come up to me and ask if she could buy me a drink, to say I was shocked is an understatement even more so when she suggested we got something to eat, apparently I made her laugh so much she really wanted to continue but was hungry however I insisted on paying even though she offered to share the cost so it’s probably not that unusual.
She made a profit on the drink because her friend challenged her to ask any man on their own if she could buy them a drink and the wager far exceeded the cost of the drink. No complaints
Not us, checking your Instagram to match the storyline 😂
You look fabulous, btw. I hope you are feeling better, there was a sad note in
one of your previous videos.
Love the green lenses💚
8:20 Always done this. I paid for dinner and the girl always volunteered to pay for whatever we did next. Then the girl would pay for dinner on the next date. It feels good to be treated to dinner haha
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Hi Anna i love that you have lived in the UK! I am from there myself. If your ever come back here don't stay in London and go to the countryside or traditional towns of the UK. It is so much more beautiful and peaceful compared to London. You will find people living outside of London are different. There is lots of history out there to see and experience.
Great video as usual by Anna. I think the blue contacts looked best on you. Perfect story for the video.
DON'T WORRY ANNA I'M ALSO OLD FASHION.
I think one of the reasons why he split the bill is that he can weed out gold diggers. That's just what I think. I would do that too if I had lots of money.
Definitely was Uncle Roger. Sounds exactly like his MO. He exploded in popularity during 2020 and was based in London. Also very narcissistic. IYKYK.
I don't know about his narcissism
Hi from Poland! Keep it up, because Your YT channel is so fun :)
The 2nd pair of lenses - icy blue or something - look really good and natural.
I need to know who that celebrity is. 😫
IMO, whoever does the inviting/plans the date should pay. But I'm tripping 'cause how can the celeb flex about his money, tell you how much he made and then ASK YOU TO SPLIT THE CHECK?! 😂 Bro, WTH.
And we're all gonna guess, so here are my guesses: Tom Hiddleston, John Boyega, Tom Holland...Richard Madden? 🤷♀
Omg I wish at this list 😂
@@anna.lee_jymy guess is it’s an Asian guy who blew up on you tube?
Loved the green lenses. And the blue. When I get money, if you are still promoting them I'm definitely buying.
Can you give us any hints as to who the celebrity was? I’m so curious now. 😊
I want to know to; at least a clue😶
Thanks for sharing Anna,have a great weekend..👍🏾♥️🙏🏾
Hi Anna, when getting the DM how did you know it was the real celebrity? I've gotten DM from Lee Min-ho and 2 other "celebs" of course all fake. So, I'm just curious how you confirmed he was real? Thanks for the tea 🍵 story time.
I agree. If a guy asks you out for dinner, he should pay. I would have done the same and offered to pay for drinks.
I think most guys would agree that unless sharing the bill is discussed before the date, then the person asking should at least pay for the meal. It's simple courtesy.
See guys, money and fame, despite not being hot, works. Don't let people make you believe otherwise
Anna, you look so beautiful. Love your hair colour
Anna, you look really pretty in this video. The hair is 👌🏽.
Love it, Anna!! Was it Harry Styles? 😂
Omg 😂 IMAGINE
It was Oli London 😂
It was a test
pretty dumb test if that's true lol
Anna! You looks so beautiful! I missed you during the last kpc live. I realized how you and David really have a great rapport in videos 😊
Anyways, loved the lenses on you! I just might go grab myself a box!
Thank you and we'll be back together next week!!
Not gonna lie, I wouldn’t brag about my finances on the date. after asking her out on the first day date, man should definitely pay whole bills since he was first asked. Split the bills on the second date would be understandable. If I was him, I would never fumble chance to date someone like Anna for the second second date hehe lol
Koreans love to brag about anything...Is part of their culture.
This is a great video, it’s amazing 👍🏻❤️
You look different in the best way. Can’t pin point it but you looking refreshed …. Younger? I donno. Whatever you doing. Keep doing it. Snatched queen 😂yaaaaas
I liked the colour ones - blue and green ones - the colour hair helps!
But the first ones were surprised me - you look like you will be crying, big puppy eyes:-) you are beautiful anyway! ❤
On the differences in dating ... it has also transformed over time. I am sixty years old, I reside in the UK, and I have three daughters in their twenties. From what I hear from them, there is now a stage called "talking" ... which as far as I can work out, is the pre-first-date phase when you are using messaging to get to know the potential date. (I am a little unclear whether this is something that only teenagers do, or whether it carries on into adult life.) Is there anything equivalent in Korean dating?
There's also the stage of living together have children. And their are Just bf/gf. In the Dominican Republic, when I was a kid, if a men and women lived together, they were consider a merried couple even though there wasn't no wedding. But now is so easy to just say " my bf, my Gf," no string attached even if they have children. I think this became popular because of USA dating culture.
@@raquelfigueroa5539 I was going to reply saying that I thought most couples in the UK opt for marriage before children ... but I realised I have no idea if that is still true. I am not at the right age to have friends in that situation, so my ideas are nothing more than "what things used to be like" and my own prejudices. I haven't read any recent studies.
So pretty Anna 🦋
There's a youtube video that uses your pic as a thumbnail for "the fake influencer problem in North Korea". It is by Joe Bartolozzi.
Sounds like Uncle Roger
That's why he is rich, splitting the bills 😂
So the echo chamber seems to be pretty strong in the comments about whoever asks the person out should pay for the date, but i'll play the devils advocate. How many times have any of you (females) actually asked someone out, set the date, planned the date, carry the date (leading the conversation, leading the date such as "lets order this here then lets get drinks there etc"), AND then pay for the whole date. I'll bet not many if any of you, so really it's a cop out to say "whoever asks should pay" when we can all agree men are the ones who mostly asks the women out and even in the unlikely scenario that the women asks the man out it still generally falls on the man to foot the bill or split it 50/50.
Also just a bit of advice, any women that offers to pay 50/50 on the first date will automatically win brownie points with most guys so why not offer 50/50 if you like the guy? The most you'll lose is 50% (which is what $50? for a simple first date) for a potential long term and fulfilling relationship. So instead of wasting your night, win some brownie points by offering 50/50 and I'll bet you by the second date the guys going to be offering to pay 100%.
Now in this case the guy was just setting himself up for failure by bragging so much (which probably indicated he'd be ok to foot the bill which he obviously didnt which threw Anna off) but in any case the comment section is off the rails cuz everyone seems to think it's so outrageous that a guy asks to split it on the first date despite most guys doing everything to the make the date happen and the girl really only just has to show up.
When you agree to go on a date you usually pick the place together, set the date together, decide together where to go. So planing goes on both sides. Asking out is a grey zone, since it always happened naturally to me - during a conversation, both decide to go together some place. Leading the conversation was 99% my job, since the guys were just shy. When you split 50-50 on first date, it sets the tone and the men expect to continue. No one has offered to pay 100% on the second date - why should they, when they know, you were willing to split on first date. I prefer to pay my bill and not 50% of the check, since I can't know what the man will order. It is not fair to split, when he orders whiskey or expensive wine and I don't drink for example. But of course, it is always appreciated when they pay and to me it sets the tone better in a relationship.
@@proletinchen It's good to hear that that's how you do things because that seems like a fair way to go about dates but I don't think it's a stretch to say that your experience is in the minority. The scenario I've provided is sadly what most men experience and it's quite evident based on the upvotes and comments in this comment section.
@@bluedsuit6140 Maybe also depends on the country. I live in country with equality in payment in workforce. Meaning women get paid equally to men and there are also a lot of women in high positions. But we take equality really on all fronts. Meaning women and men are considered partners and both equally contribute with money and effort. So it is the norm to pay for yourself and contribute equally on dates. Also I have never experienced, that women would go on a date with somebody, just to get free meal (like I read people do in USA sometimes). You only go on dates if you are interested in someone and want to get to know them.
Nevertheless, in Ana's case I think the guy set himself up and really embarrassed himself. It was just disrespectful, the way he acted. It is not about the dinner or money, but much more about attitude, I don't know if you understand what I mean.
I had suchhhh a specific name in my mind when she said 2020 and London, who i think is a guy who is from a Russian speaking place and he is now a multi millionaire, does boxing, lived in south africa etc omg HAHA IMAGINE IF ITS HIM
Who do you think it is?😶Did she said he is asian? I didn t catch that.
@@and123_ she didnt specify anything I just had a hunge and checked it 😂🥲
"The one who asks for the date should pay". You might just say men should pay, since women barely ask out men. Men starting to push back on paying for the first date, since there is a growing trend of women abusing it for a free meal with no intentions of being interested in the man. I heard is roughly 25% of women doing this in the USA according to a survery.
Anna being pretty and ravishing as always 😀😀❤❤.
As a guy, i can say it is wrong to ask a women to pay on the first date if I'm the one asking her out. Bragging about the money & all and doing all this. Its so wrong, what is happening in the society.
Is this guy and the guy you referred in one of the KPC POD season 1 the same (David muted the name). Anyway have a speedy recovery from covid and take good care. Lots of love 😊😊❤❤.
Uncle Rodger? aka Nigel Ng
😚 I think 🤔 it's funny how he thought you would like him so much , he warned you about seeing others. I guess, he never thought you might not be interested. For fun 😜 if you could have 5 celebrities DM who would you want?
Was this meeting a date or I'm a new to London, I'd like to make new friends type of thing?
To me it sounds more like what you said, and she misunderstood.
And now I am intrigued by who that guy was! Haha!
Love the sex and the city vibe of this vlog, Anna Bradshaw!
Anna I didn't watch the video but it looks like you're in this guys thumbnail 😭 It's the North Korea video and the channel is Joe Bartolozzi
Bruhh i think it was Uncle Rodger 😮
Hi Anna. Hello from Singapore and a new sub to your channel! ♥Can't wait for the next post. Btw, loved your lip tint/colour in this video. Pls share the brand and lip colour? Tks!
hi sis, very very Happy Independence day to u
It's definitely odd behaviour from someone rich and famous.
However I'll disagree in the general sense. For us regular folks these days in the dating scene, dinner is EXPENSIVE, a lot of women use a roster of men for free meals. So the guy can afford 1 or 2 dates a month while she's dating 5 guys a week. Men are waking up to this scam and going 50/50 or opting out of the dating scene.
Anna is so beautiful, love her
I really like you Anna
That man should have paid the bill in full cz he was the one who asked you out 😂
😂 Just pay for the lady on the first date, be a nice gentlemen.
I can't remember but I think you told this story before.
Hey Anna! ☕❤
Too bad they have no toric lenses. If I correct the myopia but not the astigmatism it results in a sharp double picture for me. Zero correction is more comfortable for me, as everything blends into a blur, but a sharp double picture is really annoying.
Because the guy initiated with you first, he should have paid for the full date in its entirety. That's just me.
you look lovely Anna 😍
It was Fabien Frankel, wasn't it? Don't worry, I won't tell anyone. 😅
That was fun! Agree on the date thingy and the green. Your looking beautiful these days. Not saying you’d didn’t before just more beautiful! So do you still play this violin? Should play it for us! Thank you for sharing!
I am desperate to know who the celebrity was; I probably have never heard of him
Any hints, Anna? 😅
It was Tom Hardy...(I wish)
Call me old fashioned, guys should always pay.
Be careful with these so-called celebrities, money shouldn’t be a problem for dating, if he wants to brag about his finances. Until he puts a ring on it then he pays, know your value ladies. I’m old school, sorry youngsters
Maybe he was testing you to see if you were the "gold digger" type of girl, who would only date him for his fame and money, and that's why he wanted you to split hahaha, and then when you did agree to pay half half, then he was willing to date you more times
Yuck. Definitely gives me the ick when they don’t offer to pay for the first date. Saying this…I think I liked my husband so much I paid for our first date dinner 😂
Come on Anna just say Nigel Ng😛
I'm taking a guess the guy was John Boyega? 😅
My guess is John Boyega but who ever it was definitely not a good impression to split the check especially since he asked you out. Kinda weird honestly.
I can relate
Hi Anna,
You are better off without him. After bragging about how much money he made, he wants to split the bill. Shameless.
I’m surprised you went out with him again.
( I think I know who you are talking about. You might have mentioned his name on your vlog while you were talking about something else.)
Who she mentioned?
Thats funny. He was probably business expensing dinner and didnt want to explain a dinner for 2 to his management. Suspect he was just testing you. I would have felt like you did Anna. Makeup looking nice and natural. Hope u get a lasik eye surgery paid promo. U have spoken so positively about yr eye surgery
I'd be fine with splitting dinner bills but omg the guy lacked imagination. Money brag and food every single time while there's so much more to do in London. P.S. the green lens are FIRE :)
You're a musician??
You said you went to a Korean BBQ, I was wondering was he Asian as well or another race?
My guess is uncle Roger
Why is every body assuming uncle roger, i can t 😂😂like why? Is there a reason?
Sounds like the guy wanted to just go out with someone, not so much dating.... because he was lonely. Or unless he was an impersonator
woooooooooorrrrrrrrrrrrddddddddddddddd swear i am old fashioned too,,,,, half for dinner on the first date that you asked me out to, bruhhhh oohh hell noo
Hellooo... another happy vlog here ~! must watch
Tom Holland? 🤣