THE OTHER SIDE OF SINGLE MOTHERHOOD : EXTREMELY uncomfortable CONVERSATION

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  • @griffmac01
    @griffmac01 3 года назад +33

    This discussion hits real! A family member of mine has 3 children already, now pregnant again by another dude out of prison! 4 babies daddy's! The shame is real you can see it in her face! Its so sad to see first hand!

    • @kevinclark9809
      @kevinclark9809 3 года назад +4

      Not real enough apparently! Lol 😂. Ohh boy . It’s funny but it’s not. Poor kids . Never had a chance with such a 304 as a mom. Pathetic . 4 kids 4 dads ? Sad .

  • @kennetheugene6402
    @kennetheugene6402 3 года назад +21

    If y’all really support her and this movement thumbs up the video

  • @rheabheathealbinobeauty1741
    @rheabheathealbinobeauty1741 3 года назад +23

    Yesssssss THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS MESSAGE. At 26 with NO kids. I never understood WHY so many mother's whom, ( when the story is told they did it by scheme or choice of their own) want a super extra applause for doing what the heck they're supposed to as a parent. Girl, stop crying and hush! You made a choice so deal with it, cause as a woman with no kids.
    I have nobody to save me, my tax dollars are being used to fund these benefits they get and they STILL have the audacity to utter complaints/ want trophies for every little thing they do. It's very annoying and makes us look bad. I've been saying for years... Cant be all on the men side.

    • @AriLoves723
      @AriLoves723 3 года назад +2

      You’re not paying that much in taxes honey humble yourself . Respectfully . A lot of women would have a few kids if their womb could carry a child . We need to stop this .

  • @primetimebkny
    @primetimebkny 3 года назад +18

    You are on 🔥. Keep spittin' truth. Just put the homies on to you.

  • @duparcg
    @duparcg 3 года назад +39

    Our women just pick the worst guys to procreate with smh . Liking someone or someone being cute is not enough to give him a baby lol

    • @logicalcritik2144
      @logicalcritik2144 3 года назад +3

      Some guys pick the wrong woman...women are not saints!

    • @michaele5588
      @michaele5588 3 года назад +1

      @@logicalcritik2144 you do know women allow who to court them? lol

    • @logicalcritik2144
      @logicalcritik2144 3 года назад +3

      @@michaele5588 absolutely; but my point is...its not just women who pick the worst man; its just as bad if a man picks the worst woman...which is most of the time

    • @hebrewdefenseunit6902
      @hebrewdefenseunit6902 3 года назад +1

      @@logicalcritik2144 Men are not really choosing women, we gain value and get chose. Yall are the choosers, as most females in most species.

    • @walk4348
      @walk4348 3 года назад

      @@logicalcritik2144 women choose who gets to have sex with them. Men decide if they're worthy of a wedding ring afterwards.

  • @whatyousaywhatihear9858
    @whatyousaywhatihear9858 3 года назад +29

    No child is born without the mother's permission.
    Forced fatherhood- when the women has a child without the fathers consent.
    Men are waking up to the nonsense.
    Women are giving sympathy with that man was garbage, men are saying "You picked him".

    • @purplelove3666
      @purplelove3666 3 года назад +6

      Did anyone force the man to release himself into the woman?. Men have not waken up then

    • @Scorpio-bj8ck
      @Scorpio-bj8ck 3 года назад +5

      @@purplelove3666 Isn't it something she is Responsible for doing HERSELF when that happens? Also doesn't she make the DECISION to carry the baby 9 months?
      Accountabilty Ladies, Accountability.

    • @reknowvator11
      @reknowvator11 3 года назад +1

      @@purplelove3666 did anyone force her to carry to term, or not spend $54 on a plan b? Just because he inseminated her doesn't mean she had to have the baby. She chose to

    • @harrylionelharrisiii2135
      @harrylionelharrisiii2135 3 года назад +2

      Still, us men can't be despite and thirsty sticking our thing into anything. Knowing better and not showing better.

    • @logicalcritik2144
      @logicalcritik2144 3 года назад +3

      Facts, Timothy; waking our men up is key; those choosing to be single moms will die alone.

  • @MrJayDee4
    @MrJayDee4 3 года назад +5

    He TRICKED me! LMAO! God level FACTS!

  • @ringram305
    @ringram305 3 года назад +16

    Exactly. Own my company in Miami, making 6 figures consistently, and women here still won't give me the time of day because I'm not filled with drama and there's nothing to fix. 🤷. Love your content Sis, stay in flow.

  • @starzzzz527
    @starzzzz527 3 года назад +7

    Man she talked that SHYT!!!!!! 💯 Good Shyt Dnieka!!!!

  • @magicrealms2824
    @magicrealms2824 3 года назад +36

    This was a great and important discussion. Its a damn shame how much dysfunction that is out there and how they normalizing being a baby momma.
    Its gonna take a large amount of healing and work to fix and set everything straight

  • @BillionaireMusk
    @BillionaireMusk 3 года назад +14

    Having a baby is marriage in the black community. They get access to you and your money for 18 years and they don’t have to listen or be submissive to keep you stuck with her. It’s like being married without her having to do anything at all but make the baby. That’s her ticket to a man for 18 years just have his baby and he can’t leave without you sicking the government on him.

    • @LoveAffairsTube
      @LoveAffairsTube 3 года назад +2

      Wow!

    • @jeffhotfudgeshow4691
      @jeffhotfudgeshow4691 3 года назад +2

      YOU LAY??? YOU PAY!!!! ONE WAY OR ANOTHER….. GOTTA LISTEN TO SOME OF THESE WOMEN…. WUSSY NOT FREE!!!!! And THEY MEAN THAT!!!!!

    • @shanaleasha6550
      @shanaleasha6550 3 года назад +4

      And the baby shower is the wedding smh

    • @JohnThorpe-gr5ur
      @JohnThorpe-gr5ur 8 месяцев назад +1

      Fuck that

    • @100nation8
      @100nation8 4 месяца назад

      " You let him hit it raw...now you're a single mom" 🎶 Shout out to Brandon Jamal for trying to stop broken homes.

  • @malcolmwhite6637
    @malcolmwhite6637 2 года назад +1

    THIS IS REAL TALK....and it's not new I've had these same disscussions 20 years ago and very few people cared back then!!

  • @dc2563
    @dc2563 3 года назад +10

    Women's calling family out RESPECT!!!

  • @orlandoclark9530
    @orlandoclark9530 2 года назад +1

    D'Nieka keep preaching sis. Speaking facts. I like your delivery.

  • @charles3213
    @charles3213 3 года назад +4

    Dope discussion kitchen edition!! Nah what’s up much luv!

  • @fbarod3909
    @fbarod3909 3 года назад +5

    Dropping gems like tears..... straight 🔥🔥🔥🔥 I couldn't be with a woman who has a man permanently in her life with a baby!!!!!! Periodt

    • @odestryjam2231
      @odestryjam2231 3 года назад +2

      It feels like you're in a triangular relationship.

    • @TheBerkeleyBeauty
      @TheBerkeleyBeauty 2 года назад +2

      @@odestryjam2231 - Because you are. 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @mcarthurspark8636
    @mcarthurspark8636 3 года назад +2

    When the scheme is not working, some of these females opt to kill their baby. Sadly, we are seeing more of these cases in the news. My step niece just put her baby up for adoption rather than let her baby daddy have him, when her scheme failed. She didn't even want the family to have access to the child. It's sickening seeing the steps these millennial girls take to get their way. I am a divorcee who had joint custody with my ex. He even had him 60% to my 40% because my son was in sports and this arrangement was more beneficial to him. We need to put the kids first.

  • @mastag5717
    @mastag5717 3 года назад +2

    Another good discussion. Keep it up sis. You knocked it the park tonight

  • @SuccessfulM.D.
    @SuccessfulM.D. 3 года назад +1

    We need more people speaking about this. Lack of accountability definitely hurts our culture. Family and friends upholding one another when they are wrong.

  • @johnduren6476
    @johnduren6476 3 года назад +5

    Great video sister thank you for calling out speaking 🔊on what it really is

  • @melvinsimmons9442
    @melvinsimmons9442 3 года назад +10

    This is the same shit that enables the Future's of the world.

  • @averagemanunplugged
    @averagemanunplugged 3 года назад +6

    This topic makes me think about the brittany Renner situation 😂ish sad y'all

  • @veganmunsterweare138
    @veganmunsterweare138 Год назад +1

    Mad Facts 💯

  • @IamtheArcher777
    @IamtheArcher777 3 года назад +1

    13 "People" upset right now.. Thank U for another dope discussion.

  • @samsonlawrence9657
    @samsonlawrence9657 3 года назад +1

    Love your show Baby girl keep
    passing out that life WISDOM &
    KNOWLEDGE!!!!

  • @jeffhotfudgeshow4691
    @jeffhotfudgeshow4691 3 года назад +2

    What Ive seen is WOMEN REFUSE TO TELL ANOTHER WOMAN TO KEEP THEIR LEGS CLOSED!!!! THEY CONSIDER IT HATIN VERSUS TAKING ACCOUNTABILITY AND RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR ACTIONS…. THE USE WHAT YOU GOT IS UNREAL…. MANY WOMEN ACTUALLY THINK ( THATS ALL THE LEVERAGE THAT THEY HAVE)…. SMH

  • @meanmike9238
    @meanmike9238 3 года назад +2

    Damn woman you are on point with this entire conversation 👏!!

  • @tarrerdome
    @tarrerdome 3 года назад +1

    50:00 @TheCrimsoncure Wow, incredible impactful and impregnable!!!!

  • @danteholley9129
    @danteholley9129 2 года назад

    Skip to 7:35
    Dnieka Marie said, LONDON On The TRACK....... Wow.......LMAO

  • @tarrerdome
    @tarrerdome 3 года назад +3

    D’Nieka Marie is real as rain!!! This young lady ain’t nothing but the truth!!!!

  • @robinsonnunez2576
    @robinsonnunez2576 3 года назад +4

    A lot of respect to you queen for real queen you very educated God bless you and your husband shalom 💪🏼

  • @albertwimberly1860
    @albertwimberly1860 3 года назад +6

    It's all about the checks.

    • @purplelove3666
      @purplelove3666 3 года назад

      Then Dont sleep with someone until you are married.duh?

  • @krishall4586
    @krishall4586 3 года назад +2

    When she said that @ 10:08 I was like "me!🙋🏾‍♂️ Oh shit she talking about me" 😂😂😂🙍🏾‍♂️SMH

  • @lewiswilliams2737
    @lewiswilliams2737 3 года назад +3

    THATS REAL TALK D,NIEKA I KNOW FROM EXPERIENCE BEEN DOWN THAT ROAD WITH MY BABY MOTHER

  • @brianbaker9307
    @brianbaker9307 2 года назад +1

    She is a true blessing and Advocate for Men period !!! She married and don't have to put out this content but she is the true definition of a for 1 submissive black Queen...and she is proud. In this podcast she is hitting all around the baseball field inner and outer...I just can't believe it cause I've said in order for things to change in America with female privileges that it would take a woman...even if a new law passes to prosecute women who report false rape accusation and the man spends years behind bars until found innocent...accountability to the fullest she should be in prison...this women is wonderful unique and a straight blessing..

  • @derryhooks6271
    @derryhooks6271 2 года назад

    And these worst guys are created from some fucked up situations. The same kids in the hood, broken homes... Are us grown in age but still not fully mentally healed. And who cares about a so called grown man that is lost,broke, or just broken, yeah blame us

  • @fradellsmirh7869
    @fradellsmirh7869 2 года назад +1

    Now I understand

  • @Biggheavy214
    @Biggheavy214 3 года назад +1

    🤣😂🤣😂you better go get something! REAL TALK🏃‍♂️😂🤣😂

  • @cj2k779
    @cj2k779 3 года назад +3

    She the truth!!!

  • @StevenEskridge6003
    @StevenEskridge6003 3 года назад +7

    Talk about it queen I'm glad you a woman calling out the shit..I'm definitely not settling now cuz I've definitely tried to give single moms a chance and it's not worth it overall, yes its exceptions but majority of the time I wouldn't ever advise anyone to do it, if i had kids I'm going to get a woman who got kids too, I'm staying in my lane🤷🏽‍♂️

    • @karl28560
      @karl28560 3 года назад +5

      Her kids would still come first over your kids. I've been down that road. The Brady Bunch was for tv!

    • @StevenEskridge6003
      @StevenEskridge6003 3 года назад +3

      @@karl28560 facts I can see that for sure

    • @logicalcritik2144
      @logicalcritik2144 3 года назад +2

      Steve, stay away from single moms; they are single moms for a reason...especially if multiple kids by multiple dads. You have options; there are females out here who are not choosing to be single moms.

    • @logicalcritik2144
      @logicalcritik2144 3 года назад +2

      @@karl28560 😂😂😂 that's so funny!

    • @StevenEskridge6003
      @StevenEskridge6003 3 года назад +1

      🤣🤦🏽‍♂️I hear you loud and clear sweetheart, I'm on my last leg basically back to my standards of single women without kids and willing to have kids as well since I still don't have any

  • @keithdixon5859
    @keithdixon5859 3 года назад +4

    You grow in your teaching too

  • @mrgqsmooth73
    @mrgqsmooth73 3 года назад

    Yup They are acting as slave owners!!! S/O The Crimson Cure I be saying that too and feel the same way.

  • @keithdixon5859
    @keithdixon5859 3 года назад +3

    Never lose TRAIN of thought

  • @chitownstorminnormin4154
    @chitownstorminnormin4154 2 года назад +1

    They luv Pookie and ray ray!!! 😂

  • @kwamemireku6138
    @kwamemireku6138 3 года назад +2

    Yes thank you that’s what happened to me

  • @yp8053
    @yp8053 3 года назад +1

    Love you D’Neika!!!!!💙💙💙💙

  • @jonpace8486
    @jonpace8486 3 года назад +2

    You are the Truth and Lovely

  • @purplelove3666
    @purplelove3666 3 года назад +3

    Marriage first and then a baby.vent your partner before marriage.no wedding ,no womb,women make better decisions please!!!.

  • @mariodeliz5297
    @mariodeliz5297 3 года назад +2

    Your on fire

  • @newin10
    @newin10 3 года назад +4

    There's no consequences for women having a baby my multiple dudes. It's a win-win for them, either they get the dude or they get their money by having their child. Little do they know it sets them up for failure later in life because they become dependent on the bag which is only temporary after the child turns 18 and support runs out then they end up being in the poor house.

  • @meanmike9238
    @meanmike9238 3 года назад +2

    A lot of them have kids to get the money off of it

  • @bro.leonardgoggins888
    @bro.leonardgoggins888 3 года назад +3

    You are the bomb Marie⭐,,,,,, a fact checker!! peace n love LenyG nyc.🏦,

  • @akiracorn
    @akiracorn 3 года назад +2

    Narsisstict tendencies,play victim in a situation you created

  • @meanmike9238
    @meanmike9238 3 года назад +1

    Thank you for making this known

  • @ShadowbannedbyYoutube
    @ShadowbannedbyYoutube 3 года назад +2

    They had the baby for money. Low standards.

  • @daronjones5925
    @daronjones5925 3 года назад +2

    you preaching

  • @mrgqsmooth73
    @mrgqsmooth73 3 года назад +1

    Thank You Queen!!!!!!!!!! Preeeeeeeeech!!!!!

  • @stephanoewilks1908
    @stephanoewilks1908 3 года назад +2

    🗣🎯💯🎯💯🎯💯🎯💯🎯

  • @travisworldwide9197
    @travisworldwide9197 3 года назад +4

    Can you do a highlights video with clips from your streams? This jawn is 2 hours long and I just don't have enough time to sit and watch the whole thing. Keep striving. Love the dialog and discussions on your platform.

  • @CookWithStephh
    @CookWithStephh 3 года назад +4

    Loving these convos and hair on fleek like always !

  • @Thechamp731
    @Thechamp731 3 года назад +1

    🗣speak the truth⚡💪🏾

  • @kirkhugginsjr9317
    @kirkhugginsjr9317 3 года назад +2

    Get em

  • @travinoallen1541
    @travinoallen1541 3 года назад +1

    Don't sell your soul to get it

  • @keithdixon5859
    @keithdixon5859 3 года назад +1

    Great job

  • @keithdixon5859
    @keithdixon5859 3 года назад +1

    Good job again

  • @tarrerdome
    @tarrerdome 3 года назад

    This lady had a good dad!

  • @shooz4unme
    @shooz4unme 3 года назад

    PREEEEEEEEAAAAACH!! SIS , EXPOSING THESE WOMAN WHO ARE NOT REAL RIGHT!!! MEN, TAKE HEED TO THE WORDS COMING OUT FROM HER MOUTH!! ALL FACTS!! ALSO THESE WOMEN USE THE CHILD AGAINST MEN!!

  • @anthonywatson943
    @anthonywatson943 3 года назад +1

    I am back getting ready for work

  • @jahking9361
    @jahking9361 3 года назад +1

    🔥🔥🔥 Excellent

  • @Yeekyz-Makaveli
    @Yeekyz-Makaveli 3 года назад +1

    thats my x… tried everything.. but her mother ruined our relationship by being in her head now shes back with her mom helping her take care of her siblings like shes the mother mother got 6 kids 5 baby daddys

    • @justmek1923
      @justmek1923 3 года назад

      Damn

    • @1453ld
      @1453ld 27 дней назад

      What a loser. I avoid women and men like that, at ALL coats! Nothing but constant drama and headaches.

  • @ronniemackie4741
    @ronniemackie4741 3 года назад

    Everybody jumping on the bandwagon ain't mad at you go for it

  • @marlonogburn4371
    @marlonogburn4371 3 года назад

    You are so right these women run up behind these bad boys what part of bad they don't get

    • @JohnThorpe-gr5ur
      @JohnThorpe-gr5ur 8 месяцев назад

      Good let them have it all the bad boys

  • @EARART
    @EARART 3 года назад +1

    This is a godess

  • @anthonywatson943
    @anthonywatson943 3 года назад +1

    So true get to know her

  • @mrgqsmooth73
    @mrgqsmooth73 3 года назад

    The Common Denominators 💯🔥💯🔥💯🔥💯🔥💯🔥💯🔥💯🔥💯🔥💯🔥

  • @anthonywatson943
    @anthonywatson943 3 года назад +1

    I am glad I don't wear flip flops holding my hand on my hip like a woman ( I you understand what I am saying queen )

  • @shiningonesskillsontheplat8461
    @shiningonesskillsontheplat8461 3 года назад

    Facts, I told the baby mother to give me the children, she would never answer the question, and change the subject, that's how I know she is scandalous shit her Mom did and taught her to do.

    • @purplelove3666
      @purplelove3666 3 года назад +1

      You should have chose better sir.men need to vent the women too and then marry them and then have kids with them.dont be a statistic

  • @na-vischmidt3922
    @na-vischmidt3922 3 года назад

    Wooooooooow....the kids part. Having a baby hoping he will choose you.

  • @shooz4unme
    @shooz4unme 3 года назад +1

    If you’re going to say negative things about no good, black men…Here’s a thought.. Could it be bc he comes from a single mom home where she treats him like he’s no good?

  • @Demsruinamerica
    @Demsruinamerica 2 года назад

    I've been separated for 5 years divorced for almost three years. I want to do a live stream with you. Too much to email. It includes bias from the CMPD and all.

  • @articulatemonster9529
    @articulatemonster9529 3 года назад +3

    You're too grow to engage in the blame game under the privacy of your own roof. Why are women on social media engaging in the blame game? For many years by themselves. The men were not responding. Until some got tired of the public "L" they took.

    • @duke45jp
      @duke45jp 3 года назад +1

      Social media allows them this BS. I was just thinking this before i clicked on the video again. They can delete,hide,lie and the simps will eat it up because they want pussy.

    • @logicalcritik2144
      @logicalcritik2144 3 года назад

      @@duke45jp absolutely

  • @joniahbrown4297
    @joniahbrown4297 3 года назад +2

    I didn’t have children because I wanted permanent access to this man. I wanted to create a family and I was young and didn’t have guidance. And I’ve already forgiven myself for my poor choices in men. I’m disgusted at how the the media portrays single mothers… other ppl get to hide their mistakes but because We brought children in the world we get shamed for wanting to create a family while the man walks away and leaves the family. Smh. Seem like all of these content creators just a looking for something very much something to throw rocks at. What about teaching young lady’s to be wives?? As a matter of fact let me type that into my RUclips search isn’t of being worried about men all the time.

    • @duke45jp
      @duke45jp 3 года назад +2

      You sound like a punk 🤣🤣🤣

    • @purplelove3666
      @purplelove3666 3 года назад +1

      Why dont they teach men how to be husbands?. No woman wants to have an oops baby realistically,unless if she is dumb as heck.why dont you get married and then have kids?. You want a family with a man that doesnt?. Did you read what you wrote?.

    • @thespiritualartofwar
      @thespiritualartofwar 3 года назад +1

      Hey sis, men are comparing notes and we have evidence that women are leaving men in 90%+ of relationships. Kevin Samuels has interviewed over 100 single mothers and they admit that they ended the relationships with their child's father. Are they lying?

    • @kevinclark9809
      @kevinclark9809 3 года назад +1

      Go head and forgive yourself girl . We men won’t . Enjoy being a single mom . If you got a son he’s got like a 70% chance of going to prison . May the odds be ever in your favor .

    • @stormship1647
      @stormship1647 3 года назад +1

      Stop making excuses …

  • @EARART
    @EARART 3 года назад +1

    Facebook father 😅

  • @francoisbienhereux9624
    @francoisbienhereux9624 3 года назад +3

    Do you know these epidemic is in the carabeen also?

    • @crissymiller4951
      @crissymiller4951 3 года назад

      True

    • @keanuboyd7493
      @keanuboyd7493 3 года назад +1

      Can’t remember the last time I heard about somebody getting married. But I hear somebody pregnant and having a baby every week. Not one woman I know in my age range is married but all of them got kids and some are still single.

  • @deeangelogreen8624
    @deeangelogreen8624 3 года назад

    Great video but tbh you should do a video on woman that don't that accountability for their actions and the other side of the door of a woman that be know what they be doing other video like this one but talk about all of them the single mother, single women, and women in relationships

  • @anthonywatson943
    @anthonywatson943 3 года назад

    I am here to here you

  • @yahosephbenyisrael917
    @yahosephbenyisrael917 3 года назад

    Hey Queen D'Nieka

  • @redandgreenflags9506
    @redandgreenflags9506 3 года назад

    10:44 she sound crazy why is you fuking raw if you got so much goin on wtf he think would happen

  • @LoneLeagle
    @LoneLeagle 3 года назад +30

    I wanna see you colab with Kevin Samuels

    • @820e4cf7jh
      @820e4cf7jh 3 года назад +2

      I was thinking the same thing. 👍🏾

    • @LoneLeagle
      @LoneLeagle 3 года назад +6

      @@820e4cf7jh It will happen as long as we keep asking for it.

    • @ttamcc.4674
      @ttamcc.4674 3 года назад +1

      Same

    • @CookWithStephh
      @CookWithStephh 3 года назад +1

      That would be dope !

    • @CookWithStephh
      @CookWithStephh 3 года назад

      @@LoneLeagle yea u right

  • @kwamemireku6138
    @kwamemireku6138 3 года назад

    Even if you were in a long term

  • @ronniemackie4741
    @ronniemackie4741 3 года назад +1

    If the man aint s what thats saying about the women

  • @NetWorkProduction2600
    @NetWorkProduction2600 3 года назад

    All I want to know is how long it took you to learn these things and what you went through to make you open your eyes. Be real about that part because maybe some these females hiding in these comments reading will try it out.

  • @p.o.p55
    @p.o.p55 2 года назад

    👍🏽

  • @abdousowe6426
    @abdousowe6426 3 года назад

    You are a real black girl .love you anyway

  • @emenanjonwadiei
    @emenanjonwadiei 3 года назад

    👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

  • @daronjones5925
    @daronjones5925 3 года назад +1

    my story😪

  • @reginaldstephens923
    @reginaldstephens923 3 года назад

    🔥

  • @duparcg
    @duparcg 3 года назад +5

    Shorter videos will help

  • @B.Piercesports
    @B.Piercesports 3 года назад

    Those lips are serious

  • @anthonywatson943
    @anthonywatson943 3 года назад

    I am glad that I don't go through all that I was slow to every women and I am still slow as of today I am not a perfect man to pick up on these women so I be a solo to my self (you talk real stuff queen) I have to watch all your shows on my day off so I can pick up what female say and do I have to ready for work( you are the truth queen speak the truth queen)